Is Being Gay Actually Awesome? Celebrating the Joys of LGBTQ+ Experiences 🌈 | S4 E6

[@SashaRicky]

I like that being gay, in a straight dominant world, has very likely helped me be more of a compassionate and understanding person to other groups of people, help the outsider, be passionate against injustice and want to be a kinder person.

[@dubon9999]

@@SashaRicky Good and nice person. But do not forget always put your Gay men first 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🧿🧿🧿✝️✝️✝️🌠🌠🌠

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Absolutely! So true!

[@cindyharris0531]

I just love you two. I am an ally, and am so grateful for you two. I grew up prior to the AIDS epidemic, but lost several of my friends after we graduated high school in 1980. I am rooting for you guys and your awesome content. Keep passing on the Happy Healthy Homo vibe! Sending lots and lots of love. P.S. I proudly use my HHH mug every morning and am excitedly waiting for my socks! 😊

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Yay! Cindy you're a superstar ally!! ❤️ We posted your socks last week so they should arrive super soon! Thank you for being here and supporting us, it really means a lot!

[@richarddoran3031]

I so enjoy Keegan & Joel and their exchanges. Happy Birthday, Joel! You really are role models as wonderful human beings.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

That's really so so sweet and kind of you, thank you so much!!! ❤️

[@jasthe3rd]

You guys are too funny. "No Joel, not sockies!", lmao. And I literally was thinking "tell us what you really think" when Keegan was going on about sauces, and then Joel said it out loud, lol. Love the show guys, keep it up.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Awww thank you! So glad you enjoyed our waffling and nonsense, it means a lot!

[@richardbuckwalter8571]

This was a great discussion guys, enjoyed it!! Happy Birthday, Joel!! 🎂🎈🥳🎈❤️

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you so much!! So glad you enjoyed the ep!

[@markc65]

Have done the mug and cup combo. The mug arrived here in Australia and socks arrive soon. Thanks. Will add to my (it appears) new hobby, collecting mugs with a cloth based object.

[@trevisyoung802]

Hello Joel and Keggan. I have to say my exp. growing up with family was an awesome time, as well as church life. 🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈

[@happyhealthyhomo]

That's amazing! We love hearing positive stories about growing up gay, especially within a religious environment!

[@gs-nr4om]

Quoting Sally Field: “I love you I love you I love you! You guys are the best, truly. Greg from Tallahassee

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you Greg, too kind!!! ❤️

[@Judycoleman930]

I’m not gay but I love your podcasts. Some are thought provoking, some hilarious

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you for being a good ally!

[@jasonhull9154]

Hell yes! Being gay IS awesome! Given the number of artists, filmmakers, composers, architects, choreographers, dancers, and singers there have been throughout the centuries, can you imagine how bleak and dismal this world would be without their influence? Being gay allows us to see the world through a different and (I believe) far more creative lens. It gives us more of an appreciation for beauty in all its forms and allows us to express our creativity and our own beauty (both inner and outer) in a way that heterosexuals often cannot. Furthermore, for those of us who are out and proud, have been for more than half of our lives, and came out at a time when even showing a gay character on television or in a movie was still largely considered taboo and unacceptable (except for the occasional incidence when said character was presented as a stereotype used only for comic relief), I believe we also have developed a greater sense of personal courage than those whose sexuality was always seen by society as being "normal" and/or "legitimate" from birth.

[@stewartmac2950]

Happy Birthday Joel. Always look forward to your podcast boys. Stewart Oh yes , the positives of being gay. I think we are dont have the societal pressure to get married or to have children if you dont want to. You can have an open relationship if that's what you want. You can be freer to express your feminine if you want. How's that for a start? ❤

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Whatever floats your boat hey! People deserve to be happy!

[@SashaRicky]

You can tell Keegan is Northern when he's talking about gravy. 😂😂

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Right?! 😂

[@zesky6654]

I'm afraid I have to disagree with Keegan on the sauce thing but I greatly admire his conviction.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

A great amount of conviction too!

[@chrisk5651]

Some Italian Americans will call Spaghetti sauce - gravy and I found that strange but I later found out that it means (at least to some of them at least) Tomato Sauce that has meat in it as opposed to sauce with out meat in it - which they don’t refer to it as gravy.

[@OuranMom101]

I love Keegan"s thoughts on sauce!!! Me too!! My little sister is the sauce queen and it drives me crazy!!! ☺

[@kuransays]

Happy birthday Joel!! Love you guys 😊🎂 🎉🥳❤

[@barbarasherwood-rt9ty]

According to Urban Dictionary Sigma is....A popular, successful, but highly independent and self-reliant person. Typically a male. One step above an alpha male. What a compliment from Fletcher. I watched your video of the lodge yesterday. It was fantastic, what a thoughtful & loving gift from your thoughtful & loving man. My wish for you is any more happy birthdays.❤

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you so much, now I know what a sigma is and it is quite a compliment!

[@lilbitibyker]

...I've wound him up and let him go...😂 (you guys crack me up!)

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Well, he does like to go on! 😂 Glad you enjoy the show!

[@dubon9999]

We Gay men, united are stronger 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🧿🧿🧿✝️✝️✝️🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Absolutely!

[@dawnevans157]

As an ally I agree with this totally and wish everyone in the LGBTQ plus community could be supportive of each other.

[@robertrawley1115]

There are lots of ketchups and catsup in America. Del Monte, Hunts, Whole Foods, on and on. There is only one worth using, Heinz Tomato Ketchup! It has the perfect balance of flavors...

[@happyhealthyhomo]

What is catsup? 😱

[@robertrawley1115]

@@happyhealthyhomo Ketchup and catsup are simply two different spellings for the same thing, a modern, Westernized version of a condiment that European traders were introduced to while visiting the Far East in the late 17th century. Both are used in the US. Maybe why we never call it red sauce...

[@adriancole745]

About the call out for this episode, I think it would be really convenient if you guys also asked the same question on the youtube community page. Some, like me, don't really use instagram.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

That's a great idea! We will definitely do that for our callouts, thank you!

[@Thorn99855]

Keegan. Your sauce take is crazy. Love you but sauce is wonderful. Some of us are sauce-a-holics though. I adore sauce. The more sauce the better. 😝 😄

[@SashaRicky]

I get on with my parents but my best friend is definitely my chosen family and so are her kids etc. I would say that about a lot of my close friends except I've left a lot of them behind because our lives grew us apart, but I considered them family... And some still do.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you for sharing with us!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Both of you are joyful ❤

[@2009grifin1]

Born and raised Yank here.... I must disagree about ketchup. You can't have French Fries without it. We also put it on meatloaf and hot dogs.

[@arthurbridges3959]

No ketchup on hot dogs, better to use mustard and relish with some sauerkraut...Just saying

[@AdnilTitus]

Happy birthday, Joel...🎉

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you!!!

[@rileyreed2230]

I didn’t see you guys asking for voice notes on this topic because I’m usually mostly on KZbin and sometimes Twitter just to keep up with a few of my favorite music artists. But I think my favorite part about being queer is hanging out with all my other friends and being able to be completely myself When I’m just hanging out with them. It’s not that my family doesn’t except me, but I think they just don’t understand my orientation being asexual and pan romantic. Both of those orientations are such small minorities and comprise a smaller percentage of the LGBTQ community as a whole. I just feel like when I’m just with my queer friends, I can say certain things like using certain phrases or words that me and my friends use all the time, but that we might have to explain to other people who wouldn’t understand it because they’re not in the community. My brother understands and it’s not really like I’m hiding it from anybody, but I just don’t really talk about it because I don’t really have a need to I guess And also sometimes I don’t even understand it myself. I can tell that I feel more able to do and say certain things when I’m hanging out with them then maybe I would when I’m with my family. But this podcast has also been one of my favorite things about being queer. I feel like there’s such a good community here and It’s nice to be able to have a place where I feel like I can relate to people about similar things that I’ve gone through having to do with being queer and share my experiences here. Thank you guys for being such great role models to so many people and for being so relatable too. ❤🏳️‍🌈❇️💜💓🌈❤

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you for sharing this with us! We totally get what you're saying and couldn't agree more, it's so nice to hang around with other queer people and being able to just be yourself. Thank you for sharing again, we will try and get the video callouts also posted here on KZbin! So you should see them in the future!

[@chrisk5651]

I’m mostly anti-condiments. I don’t like Mayonnaise and anything that has it in it. I also don’t like vinegar except for Balsamic (which I didn’t know about till I was an adult).

[@dubon9999]

We Gay men are always allies and friends, never competition or enemies 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🧿🧿🧿✝️✝️✝️🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠

[@BillCameronWC]

I think this is probably the first time I have ever commented on any of your videos, I usually enjoy them, but do sometimes take personal issue with some of what you come out with 😉 - but that’s normal as it would be a boring old world if we (gay/lesbian or otherwise) always agreed with each other. Your (specially Keegan’s , but sometimes Joel’s) snide pro-Labour/anti-Conservative jibes just float over me, as I have grown used for 30/40 years to hearing similar prejudice/bigotry from mostly left of centre gay/lesbian people. For the record I’m right of centre, always have been since my early adulthood - anyway, the political pendulum has now swung left for a few years, I’ll just have to try my best to insulate myself from the missteps Labour always make 😉. Also, I spent my career as a banker (commercial and private), and the organisation I worked for (I’m now retired) had/has a pretty evenhanded attitude towards gay/lesbian people, certainly during my career from the 70s to the 90s, what mattered/matters was being competent professionally. I’ve now been married to my husband for more than 8 years, since pretty soon after same-sex marriage was legalised in the UK (& specifically in Scotland where we are), he happens to be mainland Chinese. I try not to make glib assumptions about anything or anybody (probably because my family bought me up to be open-minded & that I had a gay uncle who lived with his partner from the mid-50s to early-80s, when the first of the two died) in London, both with successful careers, and my own parents, including my father, liked them both, and they stayed at our home annually for brief vacations, and shared a bed in one of our bedrooms, growing up this was always perfectly normal for me, although it was just not talked about much, but not regarded in our family as a particular secret. Maybe I have just led a relatively charmed life. Anyway, good luck with your interesting takes on issues relating to the LGBT communities - they’re certainly not boring.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

We love this comment thank you Bill! We never want to create an environment where everyone just agrees with one another, we want our HHH corner to be a place where people can have debates and respectful differences of opinion. So thank you for this comment, we loved reading more about your life and seeing your side of things. We hope it isn't your last comment!

[@paulhilder1309]

Love being Gay, agree coming out was freeing and not half as bad as I thought it would be. I have never been so happy content and successful n work life and love life.

[@dennis-qu7bs]

Sport the rainbow 🌈. We need to be visible to each other, and to the straights - to keep us present.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Very true!

[@annmcintyre2193]

No criticism here. You both are accomplished both personally and professionally. You dont have to explain .

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Very kind of you to say, thank you!

[@annmcintyre2193]

@@happyhealthyhomo Laughing!!! Should we all be like you combined all would be well. I guess your gayness is an afterthought to us straight people. You are both kind.

[@phillipholtzman3888]

Have you read the book "Gay is a Gift"? It's a little repetitive but it gets the point across.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

We haven't no but we will add it to our reading list! Thank you for the recommendation!

[@chrisk5651]

To me when I think of Diva as a female singer (not just Opera).

[@A-Adahmi]

Hi fam, my favourit thing about being gay is the community.

[@donaldskinner-reid8998]

I want to see Keegan perform Mien Herr!!

[@barbarasherwood-rt9ty]

Just in case there was any doubt, my typo was supposed to say..My wish for you is MANY more happy birthdays.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Aww thank you! That's so kind of you! ❤️

[@andrew.maycock1981]

Gravy is a sauce - just a meat one! I don't eat anything traditionally British - no roasts, no Sunday dinners, no Xmas lunches, deffo no beans, no beef, no lamb no nada! x

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Nooooooo you're missing out! What are things that you eat that we maybe don't?

[@andrew.maycock1981]

@@happyhealthyhomo Soups, Salads, Sushi, Noodles, Curries, Pasta, Rice Dishes. I make a mean blue cheese and broccoli soup, Kimchi Pork Rice is amazing and Xmas Lunch is usually a Curry! And most definitely nothing in Bean Juice!!! Hahaha 🤣 x

[@joannunemaker6332]

Happy Birthday Joel!😊❤

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you so much!!

[@daniellerichard1385]

Joel - you are out of focus just like the last vlog - makes my eyes go funny!!😁

[@happyhealthyhomo]

I know! I can't figure it out, I thought it was a fingerprint smudge on the lens - will try and have it fixed for future episodes!

[@daniellerichard1385]

@@happyhealthyhomo thank you! I can't not watch another episode!!

[@chrisk5651]

Tomato Sauce and Red Sauce are what is used for spaghetti - it is NOT the same as Ketchup.

[@reggie90009]

Wait!!! Keegan does Mein Herr?????!!! OMG. Please, Please, LInk.... if there's a video.

[@cbfranke66]

I agree with Keegan. I do not like a bunch of sauce on my food.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

The anti-sauce squad!

[@robertrawley1115]

Judy Garland died from an accidental barbiturate overdose at 4 Cadogan Lane in London SW1 on June 22, 1969, less than two weeks after her 47th birthday. Five days after her death, June 28 1969, 22,000 grieving fans, a great many of them gay, filed past her glass-topped casket inside Manhattan’s Campbell Funeral Chapel to pay their respects. Hours later, four miles south at a bar in Greenwich Village, a spontaneous uprising broke out as a motley mix of street kids, drag queens, trans people and gay businessmen in ties chose to trade in their customary reticence in the face of police abuse and fight back against a raid of the Mafia-owned watering hole, the Stonewall Inn. (6-28 to 7-3, 1969) (It is a myth that Judy's death 'caused' the Stonewall Riots, one that has persisted for 50+ years.) Sorry about sad facts on a Pod about Celebrations of Being Gay, but it's our history.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you for sharing this with us, I never realised she passed away so young!

[@robertrawley1115]

@@happyhealthyhomo MGM did a number on her as a child star, feeding her uppers and downers throughout her teenage years and beyond. Life did a number on her aging, but fortunately never on her voice.

[@paulwarner5674]

Totally agree .Won't have tomato sauce in the house..

[@happyhealthyhomo]

That makes two of us!

[@jako6214]

Oak tree with brown sauce!

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Oh imagine that!!!

[@dennis-qu7bs]

I loves me a Barbra Ganoosh dip!

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Barbra Ganoosh 😂😂😂

[@rasferrastfarian739]

So I agree with Keegan - NO sauce! oh and here in Australia we have both Tomato sauce (shiver) and Ketchup (the American nonsense). On the subject of gay TV shows - have you watched the excellent Netflix "Heartstopper"? A love positive, inclusive well acted and scripted show. I Thoroughly recommend a view! Oh and I love the chaos! Lol!

[@mmich558]

Joel can we see last year's birthday date at the ceramic shop. Your vase. And water pitcher you guys painted . And Happy Birthday. Love yall

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you!!! ❤️

[@Peterc-sk6xm]

Keegan, track down some proper fresh paprika-the supermarket paprika is tasteless

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Good shout! We must get some!

[@lorettacrooms4398]

Joel, I have redefined family. I have my family of origin, the family I grew up in. But I have found or chosen family also. I get support in these communities that I don't get from my blood family. I get stuff from my blood family that I don't get from my chosen communities. It's not either/or for me, it's both/and. Just my opinion.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you for sharing that with us, we don't claim to know everything and your perspective shows that - thank you for sharing with us!

[@michelechapman9974]

Happy birthday Joel

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you!!!

[@bikerpaul68]

You don't drink wine?! Clearly you haven't been to France often enough.

[@happyhealthyhomo]

No we definitely haven't!!!

[@techinrem86]

NOPE, IT’S SOCKIES!!!

[@nancybyrnes3957]

I can understand not using ketchup etc....but what do you call the sauce that’s red and made of tomato 🍅 and is put on pasta because it’s common in the states to call that tomato sauce? Also, I thought brown sauce was different than ketchup which has a lot of vinegar and spices and sugar as well as tomato 🍅 happy birthday 🎊🎉🎂🎈 Joel!! An old ally who loves to watch you both!

[@happyhealthyhomo]

Thank you for watching and supporting our videos, it means the world to us! Hmm your questions on sauces are good ones, I think ketchup is the right word for the red sauce (just don't tell Keegan!) 😂

[@nancybyrnes3957]

@@happyhealthyhomo thanks for entertaining all of us! Hope your parents don’t have issues with their Florida home, the footage here is scary. I would never even assume I could win an argument with Keegan over sauces, I’m the person who puts ketchup on a good steak 😆!

[@BasilEfdimis]

This is useless conversation how does thishelp gays?