Is it Haram to trim the beard, there’s a saying that goes, if your wife says to trim it, you trim it

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@mahrufurrahman9759 3 ай бұрын

If Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala orders you to keep it, you keep it. End of.

@rtrtt7478 3 ай бұрын

Poor guy got violated at last part of question 😂

@LoveDoveDarling 3 ай бұрын

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever is a slave to his wife (obeys her desires) is ruined.” Women’s trickery is powerful, and their evil is widespread. (fa-ʾinna kaydihinna ʿaẓīm wa sharrihinna fāshi) [“kaydihinna ʿaẓīm” is an allusion to Qur’an 12:28] -Abū Ḥāmid al-Ghazālī Al-Hasan said: “Surely any man who begins to follow his wife’s desires will be thrown into the Fire by God.” (wa-llāhi mā ʾaṣbaḥa rajul yuṭīʿ imraʾatihi fīmā tahwā ʾillā kabbahu allāh fī al-nār) The Prophet ﷺ said: “No people controlled by a woman will succeed.” (lā yufliḥ qawm tamlikahum imraʾah)

@Cricketlover32841 2 ай бұрын

I cannot find this Hadith: "Whoever is a slave to his wife (obeys her desires) is ruined". Can you please provide reference or the source? Please?

@Skull_verse Ай бұрын

@@LoveDoveDarling wth is thats ,its fake💀

@redhouanebelaissaoui1209 Ай бұрын

@@LoveDoveDarlingSalam alikoum, I think that the hadith you said are false. Please don't misguide Muslim.

@LoveDoveDarling Ай бұрын

@@Skull_verse ihya ulum al-din. Highly recommended literature, if you’re interested. You’ll find your answers there. Also, just because you can’t find something on the internet, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Internet is a great tool, but our knowledge should be acquired from the Quran, Sunnah, life of the companions, and our ulamah.

@Quantum-1157 3 ай бұрын

‘Wife’? ‘Wife’? Have you seen how many women today are even aware of the rights of the husbands? 😂 the women are all scholars when it comes to the obligations the husband but when you tell them the obligations of the wife, they will faint and say ‘oh I never heard of that, let me research and circle back’ (if that even).

@LoveDoveDarling 3 ай бұрын

Women will behave within the boundaries that are set. Clearly in those situations, the boundaries weren't set by the men in their lives. If boundaries are not working, those brothers need to move on and find someone else. The Prophet ﷺ said: “No people controlled by a woman will succeed.” (lā yufliḥ qawm tamlikahum imraʾah) The husband must teach her the proper beliefs of the followers of the sunnah and remove every innovation from her heart that she might have listened to. And he must make her fear God if she is being lax in matters of religion. -Abū Ḥāmid al-Ghazālī Al-Hasan said: “Surely any man who begins to follow his wife’s desires will be thrown into the Fire by God.” (wa-llāhi mā ʾaṣbaḥa rajul yuṭīʿ imraʾatihi fīmā tahwā ʾillā kabbahu allāh fī al-nār) The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever is a slave to his wife (obeys her desires) is ruined.” Women’s trickery is powerful, and their evil is widespread. (fa-ʾinna kaydihinna ʿaẓīm wa sharrihinna fāshi) [“kaydihinna ʿaẓīm” is an allusion to Qur’an 12:28] -Abū Ḥāmid al-Ghazālī

@LoveDoveDarling 3 ай бұрын

@melkorstormcrown6939 3 ай бұрын

@@LoveDoveDarlingvery well articulated. Its very sad that men these days act like women in a relationship when he is supposed to be the dominant one. May Allah give proper understanding to our brothers

@arefinachowdhury2484 3 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉very true

@AymenRabeh-vo4uy 3 ай бұрын

@@LoveDoveDarling for sure, you take a hadith to show that you dont Need to listen your woman, Do you know that also there are others that tell the opposite?

@SophiaHaygiallah 3 ай бұрын

It has to do with the health from the men. Men builded on connecting and body soul. The soul can also get ill think or heart broke our and wound that s also to do with the health. But sooo long as this men can be an design but not neccercy. Hairs has an function also under the skinny skin. Buttt womens can say something about it 😅

@NoName-xp6dc 2 ай бұрын

Is in it sunnah have a bread , then cutting would not a problem right

@aadilchohan877 2 ай бұрын

its wajib

@ahmadfared1204 3 ай бұрын

There is a dispute among the scholars about the length of the beard and about trimming it as it mentioned in sharh sahih muslim of imam nawawi. The companions and the 4 imams agreed that shaving the beard is haram, but they disagree about the length . Some say less of a fist , some about a fist , some it depends on the attention of the person which it could be haram etc.... But to trim the beard because of a wife asked is definitely haram because of wrong attention .

@taimurahmad 3 ай бұрын

Wrong... Al 4 say it must be a fist length

@ahmadfared1204 3 ай бұрын

@taimurahmad that is not true , they never said that it must be a fist length.

@thaknobodi 3 ай бұрын

@@taimurahmadtainurahmad is right. I would even say its mubah to do fist length, but its mustahab to let it grow.

@messiah4951 3 ай бұрын

Please give us evidences of "Some say less of a fist".

@thedawntime 3 ай бұрын

You wrong don't say without knowledge @@taimurahmad

@Trickshotsaint7 3 ай бұрын

Wife?? This is a simple rule in fiqh Sayyiduna ‘Ali (radiyallahu ‘anhu) reports that Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: There is no obedience to the creation (if it entails) the disobedience of the Creator. (Sahih ibn Hibban; Al Ihsan, Hadith: 4568 and Musnad Ahmad, vol. 1 pg. 131) Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim (rahimahumallah) have also recorded the Hadith in question with slightly different words: Sayyiduna ‘Ali (radiyallahu ‘anhu) reports that Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: “…There is no obedience to anyone in sinful acts, obedience is only in meritorious acts” (Sahih Bukhari, Hadith: 7257, Sahih Muslim, Hadith: 1840)

@viktoraxa8963 3 ай бұрын

Im supposed to dress and make myself pleasing for my wife's eyes, if she prefers my beard shorter shouldn't I make it shorter?

@mehmetsahin7318 3 ай бұрын

@@viktoraxa8963 You should not do Things which are Haram even if Family wants you to

@YourLordIsOne 3 ай бұрын

You should beautify yourself for your wife but in a halal manner, just as she beautifies herself for you. If you ask your wife to shape her eyebrows, this is not permissible even if beautification is. There are rules, and then there are exceptions to the rules.

@MarwanHadidi 3 ай бұрын

Shaving your beard isn't haram, being like the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم is sunnah not a rule

@YourLordIsOne 3 ай бұрын

@@MarwanHadidiMy dear honourable brother. May Allah bless you and raise your ranks, and enter you into the highest level of paradise. While following some of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ may be sunnah/recommended, other actions may be obligatory if he specifically commanded it. Below are multiple narrations of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ commanding the growing of the beard: Abd Allah ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Trim (your) moustaches and lengthen/grow (your) beards.” (Sahih al-Bukhari & Sahih Muslim) Abu Hurayra (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Cut off moustaches, leave beards and do otherwise than the fire worshippers.” (Sahih Muslim, no. 260) Anas ibn Malik (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Trim moustaches, lengthen/leave beards and do not imitate the Jews.” (Tahawi, Sharh Ma’ani al-Athar, 4/230) Abd Allah ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) ordered the trimming/clipping of moustaches and the leaving of the beards.” (Sahih Muslim, no. 1/222) Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Ten practices are part of the Fitrah: Trimming the mustache, *letting the beard grow,* using the toothstick (tooth-stick), rinsing the nose, trimming the nails, washing the finger joints, plucking the armpit hairs, shaving the pubic hair, and washing the private parts with water (after answering the call of nature)." One of the narrators said: "I have forgotten the tenth; except if it was rinsing the mouth." Sahih/Authentic. - [Muslim]

@YourLordIsOne 3 ай бұрын

@@MarwanHadidi ⁠(part 1/2) My dear honourable brother. May Allah bless you and raise your ranks, and enter you into the highest level of paradise. While following some of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ may be sunnah/recommended, other actions may be obligatory if he specifically commanded it.

@SophiaHaygiallah 3 ай бұрын

It s take care doesnt mean it haram

@LoveDoveDarling 3 ай бұрын

Have you devoted your life to Islamic scholarship? If the answer is no, then your comments and opinions on these matters are irrelevant.

@SophiaHaygiallah 3 ай бұрын

@@LoveDoveDarling to stimulate tthe economic soooo much murders soo much poison have they used sooo much wrong couple sooo wrong children and theb you talk about knowledge if its manners islam is not more than love and manners dont steal

@Skull_verse Ай бұрын

Slaves@@LoveDoveDarling

@waleedjamal34 3 ай бұрын

Ouch , 🤕

@madinasanjarimedical 3 ай бұрын

ما شاء الله

@user-k229 3 ай бұрын

Al Quran: Do not make a thing haraam when Allah has not made it Haraam. There is no verse in the Quran that says that we are to keep a beard or not! It is a cultural thing and in fact makes sense in a hot, desert climate to keep a beard! Firstly it protects your face from the harsh Sun and sandstorms. Secondly, it saves on water, a precious resource!! Even the enemies of Rasool kept a beard!! Pagans, Jews and Christians too.

@GTari-ob6bj 3 ай бұрын

i take it that u don't pray like muslims then? how do u fast ramadan and when?what's ramadan and how exactly do u even fast it? and what's your proof from the Quran?how do u do hajj and give zakat with details? what's your proof from the Quran? there is no details in the Quran it's all in the sunna. are u one of those who make does ta'wil of everything as it suits his desires (which for whatever reason happen to always go with liberal views lol)? if i ask 10 'Quranists' about those things i asked u'll get 10 different answers. also who said the enemies of our prophet pbuh kept a beard? can u prove it from the Quran? no u can't..and even if they did (which i believe many did but i know it through the sunnah) then it could be from the shared origin of all religions which is the prophets of God. after all the first human was a prophet in islam..and we believe most "religions" had true and prophetic sources before their corruption. also how did did u know the early muslims kept beards? and how did u know it's a cultural thing and all the nonsense u said? care to prove it from the Quran? we can play this game too

@user-k229 3 ай бұрын

@@GTari-ob6bj What has growing a beard got to do with praying? Is the beard that long that you use it as a prayer mat? You should check what is Deen and what is Culture or man-made! If Allah wanted us all to keep a beard, He would have told us in Quran. Thank God women are not asked by Imams to grow beard, can you imagine!!

@heatwaverbs5423 3 ай бұрын

@@user-k229 Brother this argument, "If Allah wanted us all to keep a beard, He would have told us in Quran." is completely foolish. There is so much that is not mentioned in the quran specifically which is is why we follow the sunnat

@user-k229 3 ай бұрын

@@heatwaverbs5423 Sorry, but your argument is flawed! Allah Sent the Quran, FULLY DETAILED. it also states in the Quran " NOTHING HAVE WE OMITTED FROM THE BOOK." All that we need for our Deen as given by Allah azzawajjal is found in the Quran. Even, how to pray, is found in the Quran.

@heatwaverbs5423 3 ай бұрын

@@user-k229 Brother, the "nothing we have omitted from the book" refers to the fact of the preservation of the quran and the difference between the quran and other holy books. Since the bible has things are omitted from it. Since you believe that everything is mentioned in the quran, do you think it is acceptable for men to wear gold. this isnt mentioned in the quran but is consensus haram upon men.