Is it Ok to be Jealous of a Friend’s Success? - Sadhguru

Ever been sad when a friend fails and sadder when he tops? Is it ok to be jealous of a friend’s success? Sadhguru answers
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[@balbirkaur10]

jealousy happen mainly if you don't got anything from your hard work but others got everything..

[@ramesh-dz7kj]

Yes it happen with me😞😞😞😞😞

[@harshchaudhary1374]

Faced yesterday i do hard work in my exam but my exam not went well But my all friends done cheating and they are all happy after exam making me 😢

[@anusharanjana]

Yes if u dont get what u want becoz if we both r acheieving what we want then there will not be any jealously

[@isaacnotnewton3600]

With me too😣😣😭😭😭

[@sapnabinu9024]

Bro very true

[@jessepera2457]

if i ever met sadhguru in person i would hug him and never let go

[@priyankachauhan2520]

You wanna eat him or what

[@raymondtendau2749]

Not allowed, corona is here. 😁

[@mmasteak]

that's kinda creepy

[@koteswarris8949]

@@mmasteak 😂😂😂

[@anilkumarca6823]

Please maintain Social Distance

[@FlexNFly]

"Seeing you succeed reminds me of my failures." That's really why it's so hard for many people that have to deal with being jealous of their friend's success. It's a character issue that can be corrected. I created a video on this because of the vulnerability that it takes to have such a conversation. Loved everything that Sadhguru said.

[@ibrahimoziti9920]

Name of the video please, so i can watch

[@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness]

So true, when our happiness is determined by outside variables it will always go up and down 💕

[@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness]

I love how Sadhguru sits, he makes himself a home wherever he goes 🙂

[@mr.c2485]

Janey Imaani - Emotional Awareness Happiness is just an emotion. Soundness of mind is a state of being achieved only through the awareness of weakness. The two aren’t even remotely related.

[@rrsk88_farming]

Sadhguru's sense of humor is amazing 🧡🙏😂 the coolest enlightened friend which today's youngster can ever have. We're such a fortunate generation

[@ananyamohanty8689]

Anonymous Namaskaram! Really true! We are so lucky 😍❤

[@rrsk88_farming]

@@ananyamohanty8689 🙏🙏🙏

[@Pferdecoach]

Anonymos....yes, not only for "today`s youngsters".....smile

[@rrsk88_farming]

@@Pferdecoach 😂👍

[@raymondtendau2749]

Compare yourself with who you were yesteryears.Not who someone is today.

[@ksingh5283]

This has change a lot in me. I can finally understand what I have to do in my life. I was feeling jealous of my classmates but that is because of there photo where they show there success. I have to live my life on my terms and condition. I have to let my heart chose what way should I go

[@chesstime_0720]

yes, this video has the potential to change lives. I too is overcoming my jealousy towards my college mates

[@Kavyasingh018]

Same feeling frnd.... that's why I'm here to just remove all that insecurities

[@sukanyachatterjee1632]

@@Kavyasingh018 same feelings here.

[@youranime3283]

Currently I'm feeling the same.....please guide me to overcome it.I don't want to envy my friends because they are my friends.

[@josephalexanderovidi]

We need to be independant of others opinions. This is true power.

[@saranya.r6389]

Fact

[@karthickgandhi3345]

Every time I see sadhguru ji I feel happy.... Every time I hear his thoughts I feel energetic....

[@susantarakshit7061]

Same to you. You spoke absolutely correct.

[@saamykrishvj5168]

Though I have blessed with good life..lot of time I felt jealous about others..I don't know this is creating unwanted pressure..in me..I ashamed of myself...this is indication that you are psychologically weak

[@keerthukumar2107]

Same prblm.. Dnt knw y

[@stardust628]

I guess it's the way that our society is structured. Starting from school days we are thought to compare our grades. Our minds got entangled in this.

[@wolfcola6329]

You can recognize this in you and can speak it freely. Even if you are WEAK it's only for until you strengthen your love for yourself.

[@KailashSGubbi]

Jealousy is that feeling which can only lead to a degradation of a human feeling.

[@leggyReid4c]

Never thought of my peace of mind as a company i needed to manage. Very well put Mr. Sadguru, thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@srikanthuppiretla407]

sadhguru is a precious gift to this generation. isn't it so ? iam asking you,hallo? :)

[@chesstime_0720]

hahah

[@soniaash2019]

❤️😂

[@bhavyamakhija8140]

He indeed is ....

[@TruthTriumphs786]

True...When you manage your own thoughts and emotions you become a great CEO of your own body. You do things that you love and are happy for others success. Most of the people in the crowd haven't understood this. They just sit and nod their heads and go out and are miserable again.

[@awarenessandjoy3993]

Pranam sadguru... Your way of explaining things is superb.. It goes straight into the heart... I bow down at your feet..

[@maliksy7127]

Absolutely we should not use the word friend in this context, well said

[@signaturespecialist]

Happiness is a choice - Sadhguru

[@celebratingilluzion4926]

Saw Sadhguru in person for the first time today... In Bangluru

[@SoleCardona]

Thank you! Greetings from Canada 👏

[@anoopg5024]

When he speaks about a complex subject it becomes very clear & easily understandable. Thank you!!!!

[@kumarr9267]

I love Sadhguru's teaching ❤

[@dlgm161]

Very healing. Thank-you!

[@bru1015]

Typically Financial success brings a certain amount of security. 👩‍🌾

[@shatabdichanda636]

*Your body is the most complex chemical factory in the universe, if you are a great CEO you'll generate chemicals of bliss.*

[@harsha2874]

Learn and train yourself in such a manner, that you will always perform at your best in all conditions at any given point of time.

[@katerinafatsea3609]

Thank you Sadhguru, all your wisdom is a blessing for this planet ! Υou bring light into our lives!

[@artfun5975]

If your. Happiness is decided by others then you have to be independent & not rely on others for your happiness

[@bharathgk5884]

Touching ur feet sadguru

[@mr.c2485]

Soundness of mind is the only thing worthy of our envy.

[@mohitpandey3616]

i will control my own industry right now its start bcz of you sadhguru sir

[@Thenarayanaclips]

Gurudev aapke charno mein pranaam.

[@devprakash5320]

Thanks a lot for what you said

[@gunjantiwari1227]

Thankew for making me realise something which was so important to hear out 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

[@pranjalchoudhury477]

His words are really deep and true. One minute silence for his Haters.

[@DanteHellDrive]

I needed this.

[@juli6108]

Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷.. God bless you for your wisdom.. ✌

[@goodguyyt]

Love from india Jai hind jai bharat 🇮🇳

[@beasweirdaspossible]

When your own life’s a mess, it’s not that easy to put on a happy face for your friends success and i know you feel terrible for having such feelings for your loved one’s but know that it’s okay! Its natural. You’re just a human.

[@mannyortizchicago]

Thank you sir!

[@dr.shoaibparvez3788]

Well said sadhguru ji may it be easy for someone to follow.

[@nayanjyotidas6988]

Great inspirations start from you my Lord.

[@shatabdichanda636]

Your life shouldn't controlled by others.but by yourself

[@himantasaikia8724]

Stolen car can be joy! Amazing humour...

[@priyankachauhan2520]

Harry Potter??

[@HealingNatureMeditation]

I love listening his talks!💙 Thank you so much💜🙏💜🕉

[@realshubham1998]

Thank you Sadguru.

[@janvi3722]

Thank you sadguru 🙏😊

[@prajaktss1229]

Jealousy comes from situation where one isn’t in position to achieve things what he once desired for .

[@shivangisingh6785]

After a long time , a sadhguru video !!! :)) Thank you so much for uploading.

[@ddkivines1088]

Yee

[@murthyv.s4548]

thanks for helping me out in life....:-)

[@servusmovies]

Eagerly waiting with rgv and sadguru

[@rohitlalwani1983]

Thanks

[@prabhakarj1]

Beautiful sadguru, really feeling blissful by your talk. Namaskaram.

[@aryawarty3643]

I'm in love with this man

[@user-xc2gd2if1z]

much needed rn.thanku

[@Sara-cy4su]

Sadhguru have solution to all problems!!

[@codewizard5327]

really needed to hear this!

[@ministerofjoy]

Thank you Sadhguru

[@haizzzz7486]

I'm a manager and see exactly what he is saying everyday. Even me probably 6 months ago. I let go of the "things should be this way" and "people shouldn't be like that". People are as they are, they just are who they are in that moment of time. Hes right, one day one of the other managers could be outright spiteful and angry but if you allow them to be that and not take them personal, the next day they are totally different, some even apologise. We all have our moments, where we don't think and just react to the situations that play out in our lives. We project our fears onto people and in the end will see it in our own time and take the time to make changes within ourselfs. So who are we to judge on how people should be when we ourselfs can be cruel.

[@akshadasalkar5464]

Idk why , but every question i have sadhguru had an answer

[@musicplayer3541]

Loved New introduction of video.

[@priyankachauhan2520]

I like you sense of humour

[@CyberStoriesbyPrasidh]

thank you Sadguru ❤️

[@nikhilratnalikar6068]

Great ❤️

[@pratisaad]

Envy happen when we compare with others and social media big reason which i feel , this always create self doubt within us..😔

[@snehalnanda2k]

So much difference in students of IIM and nalsar

[@shefalijain2629]

Too good

[@ShoonyaShivaTribe]

Love u Guruji... Although you don't need my love 😍😇😁🙏

[@bhavyanayak4342]

Thank you 😊

[@shatabdichanda636]

Sadhguru ji...😶I love you..namaskaram.🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

[@pranjalpagar6972]

Yes true. I hope I don't feel sad after this

[@Anandpatel-wg8xs]

Namaskaram Sadhguru

[@proudindian7037]

Through doing heart out hard work.. i hardly get any success.. and some people just get so easily.. that is where mind gets triggered ....

[@dannysze8183]

very true

[@karifishc3376]

Chemistry of bliss!

[@sexymary]

I love their outfits 😍

[@Seeker.6]

🙏🙏🙏 Namaskaram Sadhguru

[@YiDaXaRiAs007]

Awesome

[@MUNCHINGSTARGAMINGyt]

Deserve 100 crore

[@melc8388]

Jealous of a friend? You mean admire. Jealousy N friendship doesnt go together.

[@jayantj9837]

I am still unable to understand how to deal with it! even after understanding the cause

[@AkshayKumar-jj1qv]

Thanks sadhguru

[@mdsartazalam5323]

Keep continue

[@lucassabath3304]

This cat is deep man

[@Lr8_youtube]

Take control your emotions + thoughts Internally: you control your thoughts and feelings.

[@livewithmynk9689]

Plz add hindi caption plz sir plz

[@armsf4297]

Be master of your life

[@allnone4277]

🙏🙏🙏

[@smssms7167]

Jealousy never got u good, but its mainly something u also want to make it for yourself. I think its better to fix your own garden. U will watch less other people. Your moment is coming. I always remind myself everytime I feel jealousy comes up do I really want to be like this or do I want rather to enrich my life. And I always choose number 2

[@abcdefghijkl9234]

The girl who asked the question had voice same as deepika padukone!!

[@snap-touch-me-not652]

"If you have a choice"... does one really have a choice what to feel? Envy is an instinct, a feeling. How much can an instinct be controlled? Can you really not react to how people feel about you? The answer is - yes, but only if your combination of genetic background and parenting gave you this quality.

[@aditidwivedi6719]

I know right! I don't know how can people even say that controlling our emotions is a choice. Jealousy is bad no doubt but it's human nature, we will obviously feel bad for our lives when everyone else is getting succeeded and everything good is happening in their lives, this will only remind us of how nothing good is happening with us. Only therapy can improve this feeling

[@SatishKumarNathanMusic]

From personal experience am telling this.. Try this out consistently on a daily basis. This is the Single Secret of all Meditation techniques. Close your eyes and focus on your Breathing process. Observe your thoughts, if they go astray, again try to focus on your breathing. If you find it difficult, chant OM with focus on urself. Whenever u get any Negative thoughts like Jealousy, Anger, Hate etc, try this continuously for few minutes. Do this daily, diligently. Over a period in life, the longevity of such thoughts will reduce. It will take time for completely overcoming this, but trust me, this really helps if you do diligently. And u can also keep saying to yourself (I love myself without comparing with others. I am happy always)

[@whateverbabe]

Honestly, I was in very bad circumstances for years while my friends were having normal lives, they continued their studies and started working while I'm still stuck in this miserable country even though I was the one who had more chances to succeed before them all cause I had advantages but life has its ways!

[@gaurangrai6772]

Don't worry Bhagwaan ke yahan der he andher nhi

[@bhupendrasonawane8514]

Seme 😕here

[@beast-yw6he]

Happy Diwali

[@fredrikbeckker125]

Evolution is still going in, omg I think I just learned something very important now

[@pritamdudhare7684]

Sadhguru 😍

[@roumikroy9914]

What is the name of track which is playing in the first 40 seconds ?

[@rudrakshsingh1717]

Sadguru ❤️

[@jaspreet_6298]

Her voice is similar to Deepika Padukone!!

[@ryderr7935]

Omg I just realised that too

[@foziakhan3316]

You're right

[@sanketsanket9793]

Yes it sounds like her a bit

[@rustamhussain7896]

Yup.u got it right ...

[@SAILESHBABUYADAV]

Wanted 30 sec videos

[@Bhruguraj]

At 3:01 , when sadhguru does moves 😎😎

[@karanpatel297]

🙏

[@viciousraccoon7094]

The answer is simple, if your friend fails or tops when he deserve it you should'nt be sad.Question is what do you think and does it matches to the reality!

[@Randomly.assembled.molecules]

I don't know why i feel unwanted jealous not in friends success but in when my friends stop sharing what they think and i feel like they all are ignoring me