Is This Guy RIGHT ?! - Michael Knowles REACTION

Is This Guy RIGHT ?! - Michael Knowles REACTION #shorts #viral #michaelknowles

[@josephkindred7429]

I'll admit, I didn't expect his take here, but I'm thrilled that he has common sense on this issue. He's 💯 %

[@mattyy101]

I don't know, all she brings is herself? Also is king just being successful enough to pay for the whole rest of the family solo? You can get a woman who works too and helps out lol

[@johnsonbrotherssports1067]

@@mattyy101the time she spends working for someone else takes away from the valuable work she can provide for her family. Priorities.

[@mattyy101]

@@johnsonbrotherssports1067 id rather the extra income unless I was getting paid alot

[@won-he8297]

@@mattyy101in the past, yes… a king was able to support his entire castle off one income. But society has taught you that the answer is to force women to work AND still remain traditional home keepers - instead of looking at the politicians you voted into office that are making it harder to survive off one income. But sure, the answer is to force your wife - who birthed your children, cleans your house, does your laundry, cooks your food, watches over the babies, and makes your body feel good - SHE should have to work too… because it’s not fair!! Wahhhhh

[@sburker32]

​@@mattyy101some think being there and raising the children is the most important job. Too bad many don't think that way. Maybe if they did, the younger generations would have more sense. Sucks though because for the average family both need to work.

[@joebridson1408]

She makes a structure into a home and he provides the means to do so. Nobody does it alone and both are comfortable in their roles. That’s a happy partnership.

[@user-ko1ii9kg4u]

wtf did we watch the same thing ! To we did you just made me thin I was on glue

[@thief2801]

It sounds like me and my wife, but I take care of the kids, and she goes to work.

[@freedomcat]

@@thief2801 Teach them self defense, they will need it.

[@andreaknisley154]

EXACTLY!!!! 👏👏👏

[@cindywingetbooks]

Exactly!

[@user-pl8wx1dk5e]

I was stayed home mom and raised four children. 25 years later, we’re still together raised our children and I am still staying at home. Lord is definitely blessed us.

[@sherryhaeger7049]

100% Correct - good job guy! When I was married the first time, I was led to believe that I was going to get to be a stay-at-home mom and have children and keep the home well (cooking, cleaning, nurturing, etc.). Instead, in the 2nd month of marriage I was told by my husband I had to go to work because we were in debt and couldn't pay the bills. All of which he lied to me about prior to our wedding. At the end of our marriage, 30 years later, I was an executive at Google and he was not working for 10 years because he said "You make enough money for me." It was hurtful and sad. I think a man who supports his family (financially, physically, emotionally, spiritually) is the type of man God intended for the success of family. This is one of the many things that are what is causing the breakdown of our society.

[@NG-fb1ul]

TRUTH

[@kimieann1975]

I just find societies idea's on this weird. So if you stayed home the whole time and he made enough money for both of you it's okay, but when it's reversed it's hurtful & sad? Y'all both should be doing what you can to help eachother.

[@rubyoro0]

@@kimieann1975. If he’s doing all the home chores, cooking, and raising kids..it’s all good. But after 30 years are kids still being raised?

[@kimieann1975]

@rubyoro0 I agree. But there's plenty of women who spend their whole lives at home even though the kids have been gone for awhile.

[@frontdeskstaff9359]

He's not 100% at all. He's taking the stance that it's all on the man and the woman only has to just show up and earn nothing.

[@rebeccafahey2517]

I was that wife, I had that life! My husband and I were so happy and grateful for each other for 23 years. Then he died young… and I was left to take care of all he did and all I did on my own. It’s been a very difficult road to travel that I never saw coming, having a career would have made things easier for me. 😢

[@ghoo283]

Thanks for saying this. What happens when your partner passes away? I was lucky that I had about 3 years at home when my son was small. Financially we were better off when I went back to work. He died 2 years ago, cancer. I miss him every day. We had 30 years together. I don't want to be a widow, in fact I hate it. I feel lost, the only thing keeping me going is that I am retiring soon, but at the same time I'm dreading it.

[@jordannemaxwell3172]

This is what scares me about being a stay at home mom. I used to work in the medical field and quit my job to stay home with our 3 babies after the last was born needing multiple surgeries and has Beckwith wiedemann syndrome. Now that our youngest is in preschool, I've gone back to school to get another degree that will pay better. My brother died at 36 two years ago and I saw how hard it was for his wife to take care of the kids and house after he passed. I do not want to be in that position.

[@JanineEstrada-uf5om]

Yup My fear everytime I’ don’t have career this life doesn’t make it that way anymore everyone thing is expensive You must try n make some money n not have more than 2 kids at that World doesn’t fit w that lifestyle of home feeling 😢sad reality

[@DaRozeman]

Valid statement, but was it your husband's fault that he died young? Does that happen in every marriage? I think you're missing the point of what this guy is talking about.

[@dariyag5287]

Thank you for saying that. My father is alive and well but after 25 years of marriage he got up and left the family for a younger woman. I was 18 at the time an adult and I stayed with my mom. I was so lucky that my mom had a profession and she helped me get a degree though I myself worked two jobs to pay for some of it and still couldn't afford it. My mother tought me to count first of all on myself to hold a family together. I have an amazing partner who would give anything to me. But he is struggling to find a job. And I am proud of myself, and my queen of a mother that helped me become the women I am and to be in a possition where my life will not shatter if I am alone. I also know that when my partner makes it I will be able to take a step back and focus on our children for several years. I love working and I love my career.

[@MrLaddy101]

He's right respect to bro for keeping it real and spitting FACTS

[@eternalrage6548]

Not quite. He lost me on the "what does she bring to the table" bit. It's not about money. It's about who she is. Is she loyal, nurturing, caring, and supportive? When his back hurts, will she massage it? I get that it needs to be reciprocal, but men are already expected to do a ton of stuff in a relationship. Knowing what he'll get in return is the point of that question. If someone is triggered by the question, then it's already a red flag.

[@MrLaddy101]

@@eternalrage6548 bro ain't no body reading all that! learn to summarize and simplify 🫡🫡

[@Igbobabexoxo]

You need to choose your partner wisely. If you’re a true man and you’re worried about if your woman will rub your back then you haven’t truly been THAT man or chosen THAT women!! We are nurtured and lovers. It’s our nature.

[@marymastein3599]

This is exactly what he means, he critizises the people who ask the question what does she bring ho the table ​@@eternalrage6548he said this man is n o t asking this question and is happy about this

[@melissahanna2815]

I agree with this, a man who absolutely adores his wife for being herself

[@zoelenss9182]

When I got pregnant with my first kid, my husband and I were both in the Army. I told him I wanted to be a stay at home mom because it was important to me to raise our kids. He told me he would rather me be at home for that reason also. I’ve been a stay at home mom for 5 years now and have two little boys. They’re my life and I pride myself in being the best I can be for them! I appreciate and love my husband for supporting this decision and all that he does for us!! ❤

[@mothergoose9383]

WHY did you get pregnant while you were in the military? That's completely irresponsible. Poor kid.

[@jadetaylor2843]

@mothergoose what's irresponsible is showing hate to a complete stranger and the decisions they've made without background information or knowledge of them. Social media hate trolls are more damaging.

[@gregantoine1162]

​@@jadetaylor2843what more does one need to know? They mated. They made that Choice.

[@Bekkmyster]

@@mothergoose9383why not? It isn’t irresponsible. What are the people who fighting for your rights not allowed use those same rights? The audacity some idiots on the internet have.

[@PodcastDEBUNKED]

I think it’s a personal preference, there’s no right or wrong when it comes to what a person wants. If they’re happy with what they got, then it’s a right choice for them.

[@SayMyNameAgain]

He's absolutely 💯 correct. I married an amazing man, 18 yrs strong & happy. ❤ He tells me daily how thankful he is for me & I feel the same about him.

[@mzsjonzz2029]

Me too! It just feels so right!❤

[@candiceburke7148]

You are blessed believe me don’t ever take that for granted

[@joshanonline]

meanwhile statistics show ever-increasing problems with relationships to the point where it will collapse society yet you guys say there is nothing wrong, basically. OMG!

[@coolcatcourt]

Me too! Been together 15 years. I've been a stay at home mom for 10. My man treats me like a queen, and he is my king. Our love and family structure is so amazingly strong. I'm so thankful for him ❤

[@shazz3404]

You are no Queen when you stay home taking care of shit. Nobody takes you serious, they just let you think that. Someone's gotta do the shitty work! Sure he is thankfull! Dont be naiev.

[@ic7804]

I was bringing up two toddlers and my 'trash' then, said "you should stop being lazy and get some job to contribute to the table" Mind you, I was doing all jobs including taking care of the house, garden and our cars. I asked when would I go to work, when I am busy with the children. He said "you can take night shifts!" We are no longer together as you can imagine.

[@SamSamLe0]

I worked night shift (& do again) when my son was 2-4. I loved that I only missed putting him to bed & got the entire day WITH him. I was/am a single Mom& therefore I WILL provide for my child. But AGREED, If i had a "partner" not even doing 20% of the work involved with raising kids/maintaining a home, who then said I wasnt doing enough..Id have chosen the same🤷‍♀️ Some really don't comprehend that when they reach for a diaper, wipe, something from the fridge, an outfit, ALL OF THOSE THINGS weren't put there by a fairy!

[@APickleForAPea]

​​@@mamabear5478Do you realize what you said? "It's best to be single and then afterward raise an adult male." Then does not have the same meaning as than. ✌️🫂

[@Jlb1948]

After I gave birth to my first child and came home from the hospital, my daughters father called off work for 3 days in a row and slept the whole 3 days. Apparantly giving birth was quite exhausting for him. I didn't have to break up with him. He left when she was 3 weeks old. She has one bad night literally in her whole baby life had one night that she cried all night. This was a starter pack baby. A baby for beginners. I could not have asked for a more chill baby than the one I gave birth too. But when she was 3weeks she must have had a growth spurt and she cried all night. He left that evening. It was too much. I even said "dude this is not going to last. She will not cry like this all the time." Apparantly he didn't believe me. I'm glad though because if he could get that angry over a crying baby he didn't need to be around her.

[@macky181]

​​@@mamabear5478In this situation it's hardly looking after an adult male if he's paying for everything in life 😂

[@macky181]

Probably two sides to this story, plenty of mothers do night shifts, I remember when me and my two sisters were young our mother would look after us all day and then pull a night shift from 5-10. Our father would work from 8-5. So, you left this man while you had no job to support your kids? How'd that work out?

[@PaladinPierce]

The men you see today asking what "do you bring to the table?" are the weaponized version and reaction to modern, toxic feminism. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

[@sonofhibbs4425]

✈️🗣️

[@cynwashere6940]

This one here is a rare bird, a much needed one for younger people to understand the dynamics in a relationship. I really like and appreciate his old knowledgeable soul.

[@frontdeskstaff9359]

He's a clown. He's taking the stance that it's all on the man and the woman only has to just show up and earn nothing.

[@worldonfire6648]

No that's the same guy. What she brings to the table is a good home, love and raising their kids so when he gets home he knows he can relax and enjoy his family.

[@michelcoil1882]

I couldn't have said it any better

[@danielschegh9695]

You've said better than what I was going to write.

[@RichieRich102769]

@worldonfire6648 I was thinking the same thing.

[@renato3678]

exactly this

[@eddierodriguez4800]

I think that people are forgetting that there is a very small percentage of women that are like that so yes! It's a valid question for those that don't bring anything to the table.

[@emergency3848]

That's because they got together when the world made sense.

[@owens481]

Wrong that world has never made sense

[@chrismaple779]

That’s such a weak response. You probably cry a lot.

[@user-fi7db8ig8t]

It can still be that way ,just raise ur family and ignore the world

[@ThomasMgtow-jq4fb]

Every marriage starts out that way. She is cheating on him and he doesnt know. A 30 second video doesnt show the entire relationship. This is stipid.

[@amandaventresca488]

@@owens481are you kidding me? That is the best world. Kids thrive in those situations better than

[@jklmnoqr]

He is ABSOLUTELY 💯 % correct. I would never choose a man who wants me to go halves on the bills and be like a 'mini-man' who also provides!!!! That is the man's job. My job would be to love and support him emotionally and spiritually. I would have no problem making a fine home-- cooking and showing hospitality.🌺

[@cherilynkirschbaum2044]

I'm doing a standing ovation at almost 1am on my bed. Bravo young man!

[@trentrockwell6598]

Because woman like you really think you are a prize for simply just showing up yet want a man to do everything else including not voice his opinion while you don’t let him lead…men are done with that and woman are going to find out what hard work is really like over the next ten years when men stop supporting the closeted feminists to

[@rayostrom6417]

No, she brings peace and serenity to a household, not nagging and bitching

[@queenZuri-su5sv]

I mean, if a man is taking care of her home and as a good leader, what does she have to complain about? I never understood the whole woman.Complaining of a man is doing.What he's supposed to do

[@TeraMcGee]

No need to nag and bitch at a provider and protector. Usually women nag at couch potatoes

[@Tyndalic]

Women “nag & B,” because men don’t do what they say they’ll do, start treating the woman with less attentiveness and respect.

[@rattgod]

Awh you’re too simple minded to understand basic human relationships/dynamics, it’s ok not all of us are wise enough to know!!! Men who understand their duties and responsibilities don’t have to be nagged at, but I bet a lot of money you’re the type to have to be given in depth details how to uphold your responsibilities

[@Lilo.C]

Then stop being the reason for that side of her to come out.

[@TH-pf7xe]

In Japan, we have a word called “ikizama,” which is commonly used here and means “way of life.” The two types of men being described here simply represent a difference in “ikizama,” or the way of life they have consciously or unconsciously chosen. At the end of the day, if a couple can support each other's 'Ikizama' and respect it, then there won't be any problems, but rather mutual respect for each other.

[@heikevau9238]

Most sensible comment here!

[@julisign]

I absolutely agree! I have a wonderful husband of 37 years. Once our kids were born, I started my at home 'career'. Even though I have my Master's as an SLP, I never wanted to be anything but a stay at home mom and wife. My hero, at times, had to work up to 3 jobs to provide for us while I homeschooled our kids. He is my rock and my protector. I'm so very thankful for him and for my life.

[@scnelson86]

That's true. I was a housewife 5 years.Then I stay at home mom. My husband told me if I worked that money would be my money to play with. As soon as I started working he got mad that I never offered to pay a bill or anything. I use the money to furnish the house and get decorations when we basically lived in at empty home. I used it to furnish my nursery room for my first. And 1 day the argument got so bad.I just gave him my last paycheck.And he was surprised when I worked Four hours and the paycheck was twenty five dollars. He stared at it For about two minutes and then threw what I me. Matthew is not a bad Guy but he's not a good husband. I have dealt with verbal mental emotional and financial abuse. I have dealt with depression to the point where when he left in the morning.I sat on the sofa and didn't move until twelve hours later when he was getting ready to come back home. I have dealt with isolation and him trying to keep me from my family. I have dealt with so much from this min.The worst ways. He has done everything but it mean. We are still married but we don't live together.

[@johnstephens8640]

I can tell you this man doesn't know what he's talking about. He's dealing in stereotypes. As a man, who been married for over 30 years, I tell you it's neither one. You need someone who real, mature, and willing to cooperate on common goals. A hot wife, queen or being a king is nonsense.

[@toddjohnson2280]

What if you don't know what you're talking about? You say this guy is wrong, then you say it "needs" to be your way. Just pointing out the hypocrisy.

[@saintgermain6031]

Thank you...

[@alansabin7487]

@@toddjohnson2280 that's the problem with things today, truth is not even a fact anymore. you just proved it

[@mickeyableman2306]

You don't get it at all.

[@lancetoston3941]

@@toddjohnson2280people today just looking for a reason to argue.

[@vance3950]

He doesn’t want a queen. He has a wholesome loving wife, who takes care of their children and himself, and intern he would do anything for her

[@coffee-and-finance]

I cant tell if your choice of words was just a bad play or your being funny by saying the "intern he would do anything for"... Billy Clinton didn't do shit for the intern

[@ritaparker478]

There is no 'bring something to the table', it is about each person freely and lovingly putting energy into the relationship. This benefits both of them, their children and then will spill over into the world.

[@vance3950]

@@coffee-and-finance ha speech texting good catch

[@vance3950]

@@ritaparker478 exactly. When you love somebody, you care more about them than yourself a great love is when you find somebody who loves you how you love them

[@robertsaienni22]

Dont be a dick.....kid is being realistic and thoughtful

[@dreamcatcher8695]

I'm a traditional wife. I love taking care of my husband and children. Even now my kids are in school full time I still do all the errands, laundry, housework, and cooking, mainly from scratch and I even garden and run a small business to bring some extra money in for fun. My family and duties always come first, and I'm always there to get my kids from school and go to all their events. I love my husband, and he loves that I love staying home. He loves us so much, he would rather get a 2nd job than have me go back to work if it came down to it.

[@dennisarch1980]

I agree 100%. But also lift up all our brothers. Don’t shame men who don’t have the means to provide for his family by himself and asks for help from his wife. Not all guys make six figures but still show up for his family.

[@shelightsup3338]

Nothing better than waking up making them coffee, breakfast , lunch for their day and kissing them goodbye while I wake up our toddler and care for him and our home. ❤ I am blessed. I worked 13 years and then we decided to start a family. I had baby boy 2021. I haven’t worked since Covid restrictions and I never went back and they prefer me at home. I’m grateful and thankful I get to do this. We are a team. ❤

[@mjr2355]

Agreed

[@corinabeale5962]

We were both working. I have college degrees and was a director in my field. He is a maintenance manager for food production. I'm now a SAHM. From 8 to 5 I handle all child and house related items. He comes home and he is an amazing father and partner. He now makes triple what I would have made. We are all happy and I'm so blessed we had the ability to do this

[@user-ko1ii9kg4u]

Good for you 👍

[@kimieann1975]

I think everyone should just do what they decide is right for them. I've done both. I was a sahm for 13 yrs. Had my own career before our child and went back to work once he was 13. I LOVE working and being able to help support us.

[@ladinagonzalez]

I found this deep. To be honest, I don’t see either one being wrong. We are all brought up with different values and expectations. Who are we to judge someone’s complacency or happiness? It’s their choice! If they don’t like it either they change or deal with it.

[@millermanhal]

As men we don't care what you bring financially. Just want to be respected, loved and we will do anything...anything to keep her happy and taken care of. That's love

[@katbeeh3529]

You can't possibly speak for all men. Let me tell you something, there are plenty of men that do care, have unrealistic expectations, and as a matter of fact, are gold- diggers. I'm a therapist, I know 😉 Just when you think you've heard it and seen it all, you meet a woman who shares her story and leaves you flabbergasted 🤷

[@ThermicLight]

Would you be saying the same thing if it came with a bucket load of debt? Money is important. Both need to be financially competent. Often times either spouse will earn more or less than the other throughout their marriage. The EFFORT however is what matters.

[@SageDivinity]

​@ThermicLight Women are the primary holders of debt. So that's something alot of men do have to deal whey with.

[@ChongoShabingus-oc7nr]

Careful...it's not our job to ensure her happiness, only her protection...

[@mikinuganakalayauk9377]

Nope..all my exes wanted was money.... Its who their god was and still is

[@deathbyathousandcats]

Relationships, whether romantic or not, shouldn't be so complicated, we are all different and have different things to contribute. We should simply strengthen and protect each other.

[@xavimontero2615]

Very true. Both the man and the woman in that relationship knew themselves and their roles. That is how it should be.

[@ivanbutcharsky4790]

What she brings to table ? Diciplined childrens , clean house a meal for her husband a smile after a hard work day and a loving hug . Been a house women is also a job . And i respect that .

[@ParkedIdeas]

What about if you meet her at 22 and don't have kids untill 30? What did she bring to the table in these 8 years. You will be a house wife when we have kids , you ain't staying home for 8 years doing nothing, fk your queen standard...

[@ivanbutcharsky4790]

@@ParkedIdeas house wife is a wife that takes care of the house husband and children if the women doesnt have children she has no reason to stay at home and she should definitly go to work . in our world its way to expensive to effort kindergarden and such stuff for more then 1 child its way to expensive . a House wife is a wife that takes care of all stated above .

[@ParkedIdeas]

@@ivanbutcharsky4790 , that's why I said you need to bring something to the table as a women before you marry and have kids. Males are right to think about what she brings to the table.... You don't know from the first months if she's gonns be a good mother or wife ....

[@user-hb7xw8ql1l]

​@@ParkedIdeas Yeah definitely you want a women not a 22 year old brat that still lives at gone with her parents an doesn't work and gets everything handed to her. Yeah I Agree with you she better be working lol

[@andrewwebb6908]

As long as she understands the choice she made and accepts her role

[@zoeyjackson5974]

My boyfriend just told me couple of weeks back that he doesn’t want me to work full time, he would prefer to have me at home where I can look after our future children, as we are trying. I absolutely loved this and knew he was the right one for me. ❤

[@susanvanriper9605]

How about making you his wife yo start

[@allie4388]

Get married first!! Kids need the stability. :) you'll be glad to have the security after you have a baby.

[@nitab8838]

🤵🏻+👰.........👶🏻👶🏻

[@MH-hy9su]

The trouble with this scenario is if he gets fed up with you you’ve nothing to fall back on.

[@anlejo5416]

Do not under any circumstances sign up for this without a fire and water proof contract that states that you will get every penny if he leaves you after you spent your precious time raising his children while he could further his career.

[@ilovesweett]

I completely agree! He said everything that needed to be said. Keep in mind, however, situations change..spouses pass or they become disabled and not the primary breadwinner, etc. Bills don’t decrease so women still need to stay educated and current in their field so that if god forbid something should happen, they’re able to step in and adjust. I, myself, have been through this. My husband retired at 45 but because I was a SAHM/owned and operated my own business for the 3 years prior, we’ve been able to transition without a hiccup and I’m able to continue my business, he still has income and I’m able to go to school to even further my career. You can absolutely have it all, ladies. Just maybe not all at once.

[@Brian-bc8ds]

Masculinity is both embraced and developed. Society is working so hard to get men to reject masculinity and to teach men to be feminine. This story is of a man who rejected society's ideals. KZbin will probably call this "hate speech", but good on him for standing on his masculinity and for her embracing it.

[@jameservin1333]

He doesn't want a woman 😂😂😂😂

[@carls1959]

I was going to say I agree with the message, but was surprised this was the messenger.

[@queenZuri-su5sv]

What does that have to do with him being right? A goat can give a message and so can a burning tree. Even a broken clock is right Twice a day everything you said makes sense

[@HighPriestessJustice]

Idk about this guys gender preference. But I know many MASCULINES who’ve never looked at another man who all are married but speak like this, wear pink, one even gets manicures with his wife and daughter and anyone who sees them would swear they’re gay.

[@jameservin1333]

He doesn't know what a straight man wants, why do women listen to other women and gay men about men? Just ask your boyfriend or husband about what he wants

[@sarahrodriguez7101]

@@jameservin1333this messenger is rare, I’ve heard this same message from many many other straight men. Don’t blame the messenger for calling out truth.

[@russs7574]

What does she bring to the table. Stability, respect, peace, appreciation for the sacrifices he husband makes, and lack of drama.

[@emilycurrent7489]

Nah, what she brings to the table isn't just "herself." It's the ability to maintain a household, put her children above herself and her own greed, put her husband above herself (thus letting him do the same by putting her above himself), and working lots of hours where she won't be appreciated for at least 20 years. That's labor, and meaningful labor. That's what men want to hear when they ask "what do you bring to the table?"

[@roxannduran1561]

I’m so thankful for my husband, he provided the means that allowed me to be a SAHM, it was the best time of my life!

[@DavidBrannon-rp2nq]

I bet he is jealous he can’t get a husband like that

[@SP-qu1lv]

😂

[@enzos6743]

😂😂

[@chiranjib108]

😂😂😂

[@LCARSDATANODE]

come on man....... having said that, BWHAHAHAHAHA!

[@rattgod]

I bet you envy the fact that you wouldn’t ever have a wife like that woman, you’re not deserving of it and most men aren’t cause yall nothing to offer but a measly paycheck and doing the bare minimum

[@rayonramadhin1555]

When guys like you dont understand the question. What do you bring to the table means what do you have to offer that is valuable for a successful marriage.

[@kermitdafrog8]

Modern women bring drama and high body count among other things.

[@rattgod]

@@kermitdafrog8the average man brings nothing but the bare minimum and a lousy paycheck. Y’all want a trad wife but also a wife to work full time and raise the kids primarily while doing all the housework. Most men today are soft and lazy and don’t wanna do their part in marriage, but hey that’s y’all’s choice!! There’s a reason most of yall can’t even date or even entertain the idea of marriage, yall think a paycheck is all that’s required to get married lmao

[@Goblin_Hands]

Most lack one thing: mutual respect

[@won-he8297]

The literal portal to our world/reality is located between our legs… that’s just base level of what we bring to the table. You go in & a copy of you comes out. You guys could literally have a human copy machine at your house that wants to cook you dinner and do your laundry & make your body feel good… but you guys are too busy standing there with your thumbs up your @ss asking “wEll wHaT dOeS iT bRiNg To tHe TaBlE?”

[@bamabby010]

I don’t have any kids but my husband is definitely the protector of me. In so many aspects, and I love him more and more every day for it.

[@janetstruckman8718]

All masculine men want a queen who stays at home, raises the kids, takes care of him, the house, the kids, treats him with respect and shows him all kinds of gratitude for his hard work in willingly taking on the responsibility of a wife and a family.

[@theflyy68]

I can't figure out how, but this dude is right on point and completely clueless at the same time.

[@festersmith8352]

Best way to put it!

[@grischad20]

because he doesn't realize that not many women have protected their femininity before that hypothetical man comes around. men asking "what do you bring to the table" (although i don't think i'd ever ask that question) are basically asking what level of feminity they can expect. that dude probably thinks that feminity is something he could do. like doing his nails and putting on make up.

[@dolceitalia.]

He is absolutely right. He is a wonderful person inside and out. ❤

[@jessicasmith6873]

As a queen to my king and our 7 babies, I don't want you to think it is an easy job to take care of everything and everyone, but it's worth it. I generally get more satisfaction from making others happy than fulfilling my own desires. It's what makes me happy.

[@tinachristine7966]

So many men now days are not going to take care of anything ,but themselves .They dont know how to give and take .😢

[@frontdeskstaff9359]

Like most women today who only think about themselves

[@ElliotHribar]

Stop providing that Starbucks ....someone needs to detox! 😂😂😂😂

[@bene1143]

He is probably not the right one to talk to this but has valid points always more to it.

[@alishaferri3866]

Is there really a right or wrong person talking on this, when they are 100% right?

[@bene1143]

@@alishaferri3866 there is always people that add their 2 cents without walking a mile.

[@agreen31]

My woman is a stay-at-home mother. She doesn't cook (i cook my own meals), she cleans about 50-60% of the time (sometimes messes will sit for days until i clean them), and the sex is lacking (going on a few weeks now and before that it was bout a month). I still get my ass up and work 24 hour shifts between 72-90 hours a week an hour away from where we live so she and my children will have everything they need. And I'm marrying her. Because i made a commitment to do so. Its a man's duty to take care of his family, not "earn" his woman. With that argument she damn sure isn't "earning" me. But she takes care of my kids, she makes daily sacrifices for them, and she respects my peace. So i sacrifice my time, i give her my effort and my resources, and i keep my word. Circumstances change. We learn, we grow. So while i understand this message, hell i even agree with it for the most part, this more-or-less sounds like a incredibly fortunate dynamic. Or a made up story for likes on the video. Iono 🤷🏽‍♂️💯😂

[@bdizzle5359]

Spot on. I work, I take care of our house, it's basically all on me. Yet, I don't feel appreciated. He doesn't tell me that he's glad he doesn't have to work more after working all day. We both work full time. Actually, I work more than he does. Yet, it's never enough. We've been together for 11 years, and I have been thinking about just leaving him. I'm basically doing it on my own. Why have an extra mouth to feed?

[@jdubstep95]

But if a man isn’t bringing nothing to the table women don’t even look in his direction but nobody wants to talk about that 😂😂

[@gabriellediann]

Why should they then?

[@cassie1264]

In the example, he says "she brings herself," and you interpret that as "nothing." Saying she brings herself is misleading, I'll give you that. It sounds like she's taking care of her family and their home, which is more than "her," or, in your words, "nothing."

[@SamSamLe0]

That part ☝️ Soo, I'd ask, is the man raising the children?? Maintaining the home? I've been in a relationship where the roles would switch..When it was *his* time to take care of the home& those who lived in it, it wasn't the same but it worked. Unfortunately, Most of us NEED an at home parent when it comes to kids, sporting events, etc, Single parents are struggling out here. I do believe the roles can switch..as long as the home is clean, errands are getting done, everyone's getting fed, wearing clean clothes..the 'nothing' here is equivalent to Everything Else in life beyond a job outside of the home.

[@ciellan6615]

Men want a hot SAH wife but don't want to work nor take care of the house and finances, either both work and take care of the kids, house and finances or one stays at home and takes care of everything and the other provides. But noone is going to have a family with a lazy good for nothing, or would you?

[@justineczarnobyl9987]

And they are 100% right to not spare a single glance to useless men.

[@Barnsey87]

Spoken by someone which has zero clue what a heterosexual relationship is like.

[@brybnxtc]

it's their m.o., never had a lasting relatioinship, but telling others how to? these people are confused.

[@alicesiecker9546]

You shouldn't admit to those things....

[@d3mized]

he knows more than u do

[@sandieshaw6231]

I imagine it's not much different. Love is love.

[@BravoUnique]

❤thank you 😊 🙏 he doesn't want a real relationship, plus he's into men so how do he know what a woman really wants

[@marikamoreau8828]

Just one more reminder that I'm apparently worthless because I'm not having children. I have to tell you how heart warming it is that the only thing I need to do to be loved by a man, is to be someone else. 💔

[@zninz5368]

If a woman is keeping the home in check and he’s doing his best. Then that is the best environment for kids, all the best

[@sedhendo4177]

Why would any man listen to this guy?

[@jimkoenig5026]

He's very funny we do it for humor

[@tonyanderson-ln9gl]

Because he's making sense? I know. Surprised me too.

[@billybobleeswagger4466]

This dude has it down. I've been surprised more than a couple of times

[@brybnxtc]

@@tonyanderson-ln9gl omg, you're into the cool-aid too, it's just sad.. you're simpin'

[@omnione12]

@@brybnxtc LOL

[@tlcforeveryoung3821]

Living the way God planned families😊

[@mnicrashSoren]

Absolutely true I cherish my wife I am lucky to have her and I respect her more than anyone else on this planet

[@mrsqueakthecat.8061]

My wife was amazing and wonderful until feminism set in. Now shes my ex.

[@Jose-om5kq]

Damn 😮​@@mrsqueakthecat.8061

[@steviebexoticreptile7720]

​@mrsqueakthecat.8061 I'm about on the verge of makin my wife an ex so I think I feel you on your decision

[@mrsqueakthecat.8061]

@@steviebexoticreptile7720 The divorce was her decision and she actually lost in court because it was so stupid the judge even called her out on it. Basically, she just kept threatening me with divorce unless I did what she wanted and gave her what I wanted (She wanted me to become the type of person I absolutely despise) so I called her bluff and held my ground to the end.

[@HatOnAHat]

Men asking what a woman brings to the table are asking because she openly says she doesn't cook, clean, make a home, want to raise kids, or share the income she earns while wanting him to provide for her. The guy he's describing has a woman who brings being a mother, being a home-maker, and being a life-partner to the table. That's the difference.

[@Popcornnomnom]

It would be so nice to allow our masculine men to do things like that if they got paid enough. As a woman I would freaking love to stay home and take care of my children instead of getting a measly 16 weeks after birth to take care of my kid. I would love to be able to take care of my own children instead of handing them off to someone else who doesn't change their diapers properly. I'd love to have breakfast with my husband and my children instead of having to rush off to go to work. However the economy doesn't pay people the way that it used to so unfortunately some of us have to be stay at home moms and make the freaking bread

[@fuzzyj6142]

this guy is 100% correct. doesn't matter who he dates or who he is, he knows what he's talking about, and we men know this, or at least we all should. to this young man, well said.

[@pmritzen2597]

He may be gay, but he’s right. Can’t argue with common sense.

[@kirstenmarkham2746]

I understand that there’s some families who financially can’t live on one sole income… there’s families out there who have no kids (whether by choice or they haven’t been lucky in the pregnancy lottery)… but there are single household income families with a stay at home mom… what I love about this video is that this gives those SAHM’s the credit they deserve… whether the mom stays home or the dad stays home… if a family can make that happen? That’s amazing and that doesn’t mean that the stay at home parent is “lazy”…. I feel that 1 household income with 1 parent that stays at home has a bad “stigma” now a days… that lifestyle shouldn’t be frowned upon… mad props to all stay at home moms and stay at home dads ❤️❤️

[@celestejavier6464]

When I got married 14 years ago, we agreed that if it was necessary for the family that I would work. However, my husband has worked his A$$ off making sure I didn't need to because our #1 priority was to raise healthy, well-rounded children that would later become well functioning adults. Having kids is extremely demanding and there needs to be someone on call 24/7!

[@mynextmoveisgonnabemybestm2902]

He's the wrong person for this conversation.

[@Peachypie-xq4bo]

😭😂😂

[@kristingallo2158]

Why ? He wants to be a trad wife.

[@justineczarnobyl9987]

Why? You don't have to be a cop to know that murder is a crime and you don't have to be straight to know what makes a good man.

[@mynextmoveisgonnabemybestm2902]

@justineczarnobyl9987 yeah you want a cop to investigate if you had to kill someone to protect yourself versus someone who's not a cop pursuing you're guilty without looking into anything. Something that makes sense for straight Relationships would not make sense in gay relationships and vice versa. So a gay person can possibly.Hear something that they couldn't relate to.But since they have a personal bias they will agree to it instead of understanding that is not fitting for a straight relationship.

[@mikes3025]

I think I wasn't expecting him to say that. But he's 100% correct

[@sannalo11]

SAHMs work 24/7. Treating that woman like a queen is acknowledging her life, and being grateful, not the act of allowing it.

[@afiblacksails23]

When he said it was a hot man as well I couldn’t help but giggle but he’s 100% right

[@dalehammers4425]

He's missing the point that she shows up front what she brings to the table, she is a traditional woman, not a modern woman.

[@katherinejordan8018]

Every woman is a modern woman genius. We all live in the modern age. 😂😂😂😂

[@memoment431]

Just like all the modern men.😂😂

[@dalehammers4425]

@@katherinejordan8018 Leave it to a modern woman to not remotely get it.

[@won-he8297]

@@dalehammers4425modern men want traditional women… but don’t want to be a traditional husband who bears the financial burden. Make it make sense. You can blame modern women all you want, but it’s a society issue. We need to get back to a place where an entire family can be supported by one income, and then we would see people returning back to traditional roles.

[@dalehammers4425]

@@won-he8297 Modern men dont deserve traditional women any more than modern women deserve traditional men.

[@Hammerslapper83]

Nope... you put those emotional creatures on a pedestal and they will wreck your life

[@jess13133]

nothing worse than entitled arrogant ticks.

[@Vaga-Bard]

EVERY . SINGLE . TIME .

[@Hammerslapper83]

@@Dreaahh if it wasn't nasty and an abomination to God, I might lol

[@desilanni8144]

He's right! Being a wife and/mother is a hard job. When I was young, my mother was at home. She was always busy but we knew we were loved. It also enabled her to run for local office (she was a representative of her political district and a fund raiser) She often came home, all dressed up in neat clothes she made herself, with a bag of take-out Chinese. She never bragged about her accomplishments. We didn't know where she went and what she did, even though she brought home buttons for us to wear, saying NIXON on them. Then my father came home with NIX on NIXON buttons. She a!so worked the polls on every election. But here is why it's so important; She only was able to go to school until she was twelve because she had Rheumatic Fever, yet she taught herself how to give speeches, which she practiced in the bathroom after she got us five kids into bed. My Mom was special.

[@catherineferreira2892]

Wow! Such wisdom from a young man! Very impressive! Well said!Who are his parents?Solid moral core values!❤

[@williamsupstatefarming7339]

A gay guy saying what a REAL MAN WANTS is crazy. SMH THIS HAS TO STOP.

[@rattgod]

Straight men don’t even know wtf they want lmao

[@Nick-zt6sk]

he's right tho? this is what real men want. a feminine girl, not a masculine girl. if you want a manly girl then just go date a dude lol

[@grischad20]

it's always the alphabet soup that come and tell us how we're supposed to be men

[@stevepest4143]

​@grischad20 why is he wrong in this case? This post has shades of the can't say anything about abortion if you aren't a woman argument.

[@grischad20]

@@stevepest4143 they're free to say whatever the fuck they want, and i'm also free to say that it's hilarious how feminine men who decided to not deal with women in any romantic manner somehow think they know how to be masculine and deal with women in a romantic manner.

[@moneygrip4464]

I hope it works put for him Check in on him in 10 years.

[@jimhouse9961]

they've been married for 15 years soooo, I'd say it is working out OK...

[@kermitdafrog8]

​@@jimhouse9961that still means nothing.

[@eiforget]

If they’re both happy, they’ve found the perfect formula for them. To each his own. BTW, I like their way. ❤️

[@winstonsmith11]

I mean... He absolutely nailed it. I'll admit, I was guilty of judging this book by its cover.

[@priestof1s]

A woman brings womanhood being all things nurturing and motherly. A man brings all things masculine being food, protection, shelter, comfort. Together they have a kid and click motherly instincts kick in fatherly instincts kick in amd it is as nature intended.

[@rattgod]

Providing food isn’t masculine lmao it’s part of living and surviving lmaoo, so by that logic most working moms are masculine

[@garymacmillan]

Wrong guy to be talking masculinity.

[@TJohn56]

Why, he was raised by a masculine man…

[@won-he8297]

Seems like he understands masculinity more then most men. A lot of so-called masculine men just want someone who acts like their mommy… that they can take to the bedroom 🤢 thanks but no thanks

[@rulesforthee7215]

Yes, he is right. Well said too❤

[@dansetteameliawilson3227]

It takes a village....everyone can't be everything to everybody. If people play their parts and come together then a full picture can be painted. I dig what he's saying 😂

[@HarryBalzak]

If I made $200,000+ per year I would be fine with my wife being a stay-at-home-mom, but since you need ~$175,000 per year just to buy a house these days, it really isn't feasible for most men and women. Not in America, at least.

[@davidhull579]

Literally sitting in my homestead with my stay at home wife and our three kids and no mortgage in the Appalachian rustbelt on less than $40k. Next step is to add acreage. Find what's important, learn to do as much as you can. Pick your fights well. Love hard through the struggles. Live a full life as your ancestors did.

[@angelkissesfromheaven7988]

100%!!!!!!!! As a woman, when we’re treated with love and feel cherished and protected, we’ll do just about anything for our men. We weren’t made to be provider assistants. We were made to be nurturing caregivers.

[@mothergoose9383]

Maybe you were, but most of us are exponentially more than that. Shameful to limit yourself. You could be a provider if you took your blinders off.

[@sonofhibbs4425]

@@mothergoose9383 shameful? No. I think you’re right in saying we women are exponentially more than that, but to call her ‘shameful’..hell no. It’s more shameful I feel to diss what she said.

[@ElvinaLSmith]

I just told my daughter, 22, that being able to be a stay at home is far too underrated.

[@jerrydoes7793]

Yesssss!!!! Who TF said girls are smarter than guys? This guy is still a kid and already gets it. Congrats to this boys parents, I wish they would adopt and teach most boys how to be smart

[@brianmerkel704]

Masculinity does not need to be earned! It is what men are and all men possess. Just tired of this bull Michael you can and should do better!

[@LovesGaming37]

Then femininity does not need to be given without earning it

[@A1Authority]

IS THERE A PARTICULAR REASON one would care what this person's assessment or evaluation of a what a real woman is?

[@mrwiggiewoo]

I know, right? Why is Knowles doing these cringy videos?

[@sean7923]

Credit where credit is due … do you have an actual rebuttal to the point being made. Y’know something of substance ?

[@A1Authority]

@@sean7923 Seems to me that masculinity is not his forte, let alone domestic issues within a heterosexual relationship. Anything else I can help you with? EDIT: That, and it seems that one's goal of finding what they are personally happy with is over-the-moon obvious.

[@sean7923]

@@A1Authority what’s the issue…. You are assuming an awful lot about his motives. Is it an issue what his PERSONAL forte is ? As long as he’s not shoving it down our throats . Even if it was an issue , even a broken clock is right twice a day .

[@sean7923]

@@A1Authority nobody cares the guy is gay . Nothin wrong with it . Our problem is when they use it as an ideology to shove it down the rest of our throats . That’s it that’s all .

[@kristianevans7184]

He’s so on point here - you cannot disagree.

[@TallVikingGirl]

100 per cent. I bought into the feminist movement. I'm now 56 and have no kids been thru 2 divorces with beta males. I now have a dog and take care of my 91 year old mother.

[@howardgibbins]

That's a queen looking for a king

[@RoccoLennox]

Idc what a homosexual thinks about heterosexual dynamics.

[@ElliKeen]

Yeah, I am a little confused by his messaging and his obvious non-conformity. Is he gay or just feminine guy and likes makeup? I've met both. He's all about masculine men, but not being one himself.

[@PurrthaKit]

Yeah , the message is not does not suit your narrative so you focus on the messenger. How convenient .

[@VintagepaperdollcuttingC-wq5ql]

What does she bring to the table? Breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Same here! We love it!

[@hectelionstormrage6098]

100% of men already know it She is NOT bringing nothing to the table! She brings unity, peace, respect, etc. He might have bought the house but she made it a home ! 🎉 Good for them.

[@JoseNunez-pu1mh]

This gay guy speaks the truth. Hes see the way life is and well spoken.

[@isobelparsonage5564]

I saw that video, it was delightful to see and you could tell that the couple genuinely love and respect each other. ❤

[@Islandgirl241]

One lucky man who that’s for sure. Nothing like having a family . I grew up so unstable abused at home & abused by babysitters !

[@wickedbasket8858]

He's right and wrong. She doesn't just bring herself. Like many women who say "my presence should be enough" no that wife brought being a care taker, being there for him emotionally, helping him financially by helping budget, being the person who keeps the place clean so all he has to do after a long day of working is relax and enjoy his time with the kids. She brings so much more than herself.

[@jayallen4785]

Shocked me as well.

[@ralfjansen9118]

Sche bring a lut to the table, and he appreciates it. That's why he calls her his queen, rightfully so

[@JustTanya.]

There's nothing wrong about a woman wanting to be a stay at home mom/wife. There's nothing wrong about a woman wanting to work. Some women do a little of both. If there is love, respect and communication between each other, they'll figure that out. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@user-st3qb4kw4f]

I don’t think this fella should be visiting the subject of house wives just saying lol 😂😂😂😂😂