Is your partner ruining your social life?

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[@saumya4152]

Friends are very important and they should be part of our life. The problem arises when a partner values more than their partner. Like making out time for them but not your partner. Doing all the fun activities with friends and dont care to go with your partner making them feel ignored and worthless. Going out alone is the solution but it is not always possible.

[@user-fk7zf6qt9z]

My wife is little smart, she will just stay calm if i have to go somewhere and give me all the hints that she doesn’t like me going there and of course i won’t go. Later when the topic comes, she denies, she never said no. So, you are spot on, we need to make our own decisions sometimes. But, sometimes i get confused on then why did i even marry ??

[@user-yc6ku3iu1k]

I can feel you my husband do the exact same thing whenever I go out with friends he starts texting me and I don’t answer because it's so rude to pull off a phone in front of friends facses especially if they are talking directly to me “although I answer him after sweet 10 mins or so” and when I am back he tells me you don’t answer my texts you don't care about me I am always there for you and when I told him I am starting feeling that I should not have the right to live he tells me I have never said no,. Eventually I told him about all the things he did like that and I he’s really crossing lines and I am miserable with him and if this continues happening I will leave “ I wasn't threatining at all I was really going to” he started to really change and work on himself because he truly loved me and I do too and now I understand such controlling behaviors come from huge love w just need to have boundaries and they will change because they love us and we do too

[@bhartihazare6478]

very well said just as you your individual hobbies you can have your exclusive friends and some common friends It's like no one size fits all

[@arbind_288]

I Happy with this vedio becuse it is in hindi which is more interesting to watch

[@richierich9723]

I started doing this recently based on same philosophy ......even for the things which we should do together like going for visits to doctor because he was not available mostly and i used to expect him to be with me but accepting the bitter truth and accompanying myself changed me from inside

[@AG-lb1up]

Its very very true.

[@raveenarr8724]

It’s important to have my friends, your friends and our friends policy. It’s high time to frankly say that your partner has her set of friends and I have mine. We also have our common friends. And divide socializing accordingly!!

[@theminimalist6875]

Always on spot ❤

[@hbestinternetwatch]

Sir, can you explain this in the perspective of a couple in a consanguineous relationship? Sapinda shaadi? Because all are close relatives and if not going together there will be scandalous rumours spread and if went alone then the relation was screen and scan us like as though we are watched in every movement we make just like a celebrity gets scanned. It's harmful especially for the woman difficult for home maker woman cause they will have to face criticism from the both side parents.

[@yashrathod3414]

Sir i can't attend parties or gatherings, because of my husband. Wherever we go he finds out one lady or girl to flirt with and i feel hurt, so i stop attending social functions. Initially we used to go despite having fights on this issue, because i thought if we keep attending such functions gradually he will start mending his ways but he didn't stop flirting with girls and i put a full stop to such social activities. Now i just stay home learn something new and do activities for my self growth.

[@Happysoul_3]

I can feel you what you are going through. Like he does this with unmarried or married women? Did you indirectly conveyed this to him about his behaviour?

[@Happysoul_3]

I pray your partner realise his boundaries and knows that he is doing wrong and becomes a decent man:)

[@yashrathod3414]

@@Happysoul_3 Yes many times and that to directly sometimes I gave proof of his doings but he always denies and and blames me that you doubt me. And let alone social gathering he starts flirting with salesgirl,receptionist at malls and some shops as well So before entering such places I have to remind him that don’t do anything wrong otherwise we will not come here again but still he does the same and I have to stop going there because the same staff will be there and he will pick the same lady again so better not to go there. my story is long and painful you might get bored.

[@koolfarzeen168]

I believe friends should have a separate place In each of the partners life ..Don't try to get for ur partner to accept or to be accepted by ur friends ...this way u give each other space & also respect each others individuality.

[@sandhyabisht8653]

Exactly on point!

[@falguniparmar6346]

Sir if you are a psychologist then post any essay study related video or disorder or disease, disability

[@meeraom2522]

Sridhar on the spot

[@meenakshishaanvi8947]

❤

[@VP-uj7id]

Mein aur meri wife dono ki apas me jyada banti nhi hai,however she doesn't stop me to go and make friends but wo khud koi dost nhi banana chahti. Relative ke yaha jana to dur hum dono parents ke alawa kisi aur se rarely baat karte hai kyuki relatives ko pta chal jaega ki usko kaisa bekar pati mil gaya aur mujhe kaisi bekar patni. Isliye 24 hrs hum dono sath rehete h bina kisi friend ya social life ke, now my wife is my bestfriend and I really don't want another friend really.