It's Finally Here... My 'All Too Well' Short Film Reaction

[@treearoha]

That fight scene was so realistic for toxic relationships. And the way they apologise like "I'm sorry you feel that way" but you don't know any better so you stay. This short film hit me in all the feels. Such a masterpiece. And Sadie and Dylan were absolutely incredible in this. I'm so glad she chose to do this.

[@bkirstie]

my toxic mom say i’m sorry you feel that way

[@JeanNascimentoJNX]

Taylor said on Fallon that the kitchen fight scene was improvised and that they couldn't stop rolling so they just shot the whole thing!

[@mokshgauri9099]

I have watched this masterpiece a million times now, but one thing I am ALWAYS shocked by is the colour theme In every single frame, the blue/red/yellow lighting representing the entire mood of the conversation is so genius of blondie

[@brucebrown3837]

What you missed was... 'Him, later on' was identified as Jake Lyon... who was also credited as a 'gaffer'... she credited a "Jake" as Jake!

[@WandyPaolaGalvezSolares]

Gaffer is the one who pues together all the equipment, cables, lights and such in the set. Probably because of Covid she avoided adding an extra person and pick him from the people in the set because of his similar hair

[@hallie1989]

Omg you realizing it’s Taylor at the end has me dying😂😂 your reaction is perfect!! And YES! She’s quoting all too well when she’s reading from the book!! She thinks of everything.

[@katelynm.9510]

HOW did you go this long without needing to see it?! I would’ve died!!!! Lol. I absolutely loved the short film. I cry every single time.

[@GilanaHealer]

I commented on another post about her saying "That's it!?" when you were trying to read her lips. One other person mentioned that, too. Another easter egg that I remember Taylor had mentioned was during the fight scene. She showed it by her placement of the main light in the shot being that light above the gas stove. It was just a subtle clue and hint about his "gaslighting" behavior going on. And to respond to some other comments here, it was NOT jut a regular disagreement- He was gaslighting her, which is when the perpetrator denies that their bad behavior ever even happened and gets defensive and actually begins accusing the other person as if they are in the wrong for no good reason and makes them feel as if they are going crazy, being too sensitive or even that they imagined it and it never actually happened and that they are making a big deal out of nothing, which is exactly what he did. This is a tactic used to undermine the very experience and memory and the validity of the feelings of the other person. It's heinous and a very subtle and calculated psychological manipulation. If someone is insecure or vulnerable, or too trusting and not aware that people do this, then they can be taken advantage of and emotionally and mentally abused. She was not completely without participation in this dynamic- her communication was not good either, as Lauren said, and not everyone is vulnerable to this type of abuse if they have good self-esteem and boundaries. Someone else might have spotted it a mile away what an ass he was and not let it continue for as long as it did, even though he was completely disrespectful and dismissive of her in several ways repeatedly. She seemed to be starting to catch on to his strategy and tried holding him accountable. So then he used another tactic that a lot of abusers do when the think they are caught or called out and can't deny it anymore, they'll start apologizing profusely (and not mean it) and "love bomb" the person with gifts or lot of affection and distract them with good sex. It's an other manipulation to get away with bad behavior and keep the person under their emotional control to get what they need, not actually considering the other person's needs at all.

[@jackson857]

Deserves an Oscar nom for best Short Film.

[@ElizabethNicoleSchwartz]

Yay KZbin finally cooperated 👏

[@AHufflepuffAndASwiftie]

I think she should do one for #DearJohn when she comes out with #SpeakNowTaylorsVersion; think about it, that song is also like 5 minutes long. I would watch even a 10 minute short film of that song! Heck, who am I kidding?! I would watch 60 minute MV by her! 😅

[@gaykenfutch628]

The tree on the cover of the book looks like the tree she had on stage during the Speak Now World Tour

[@aaliyahfoster2705]

Yaaay, it's finally here! 😃 Also, I just noticed the newspaper/crosswords scene is an easter egg for the lyrics in Red the song: "Fighting with him was like trying to solve a crossword and realizing there's no right answer."

[@euphoriapotion2075]

the reaction was here!!! so now we know why taylor sings she remmebers it all too well - because he insisted she imagined things but she knew

[@Eric_The_Eccentric]

I gotta make a confession. I have watched this short film only 3 times by myself. Because it felt like being in an awkward situation, witnessing a couple's fight. And you can't leave or intervene because they are your friend's parents. I was like sinking, drowning and dying in my private "misery loves company" solo party each time. So, I watch reaction videos instead bc I get to focus more on other people's reaction for a change. Aside from that, i like watching the grown up Taylor in the lyric video as well. She's just reminiscing, breaking into a smile every now and then because the pain is long gone. And the only thing she remembers all too well is how we made this song into one of the swiftie anthems. That's why I love my fellow swifties as much as I love her. And here's a toast to the real fans who don't care about the "he said, she said!" 🥂🍻

[@loganrayfield855]

AHHH ITS HERE!

[@westonding8953]

Yay! It’s here! Don’t worry. We understand you are very busy!

[@wizardannie6453]

Yes in the bookstore she starts reading the lyrics “I walked through the door with you, the air was cold…”

[@alisonsmith6748]

Love this short film so much! Glad you finally had the chance to film this reaction!

[@JacobsGurl1000]

Ahhh!!! Finally!! 💕💜 you’re the best Lauren love you!! Never been this early oof hahah

[@francisjigssygalua]

Lauren, imagine if that was the real conversation between the two of them? 🥺

[@bkirstie]

maybe it was 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@jericorivera4766]

Then when I watched Ash's reaction of this, she was able to point out Sadie and Dylan's kissing scene reference to Spider-man which... I think you know that Jake has played Mysterio on that movie lol.

[@mellowsan4218]

Not only he was Mysterio but also, supposedly he never told her he loved her because he was still fixated with Kirsten Dunst, who he dated from 2002 to 2004 and the person he compared his girlfriends, including Taylor, with. And Kirsten WAS the girl in the first Spiderman movie AND a redhead in that movie, but blonde in real life.

[@jericorivera4766]

@@mellowsan4218 woah! Shit! 😧🤯

[@mellowsan4218]

@@jericorivera4766 I know right? The most interesting thing is that I think she ruined him for all other girls, because they broke up because he was too committed and calm, a stay at home boy and she wanted to party and have fun. So after she broke his heart he became the party boy and heartbreaker. Too bad Taylor was the one affected, but I can’t dislike Kirsten either, she is so sweet and I love her movies, specially Bring it On.

[@marciellaguatlo10]

Finally, I've been waiting forever. Tbh literally, I wasn't really ready when I clicked Taylor's upload. My heart was a mess even if I am in a happy relationship. I too did a review on the short film too.

[@hallie1989]

I think when they’re breaking up - in the non-audio part- the first thing Sadie says is “just say it.” I couldn’t figure it out after that haha.

[@GilanaHealer]

I took me a bit but I was able to read her lips and she says, "That's it!?" like, "We're over just because you say so? You're just ending things with me that easily, just because of my age (supposedly)!?" He seemed to lord all the control in the relationship and not take her feelings into account at all, just cutting her off without discussion, like he'd already decided it and had basically gotten what he wanted from her and he was done. Makes you wonder did he even really care at all or was he jut telling her what she wanted to hear all along to string her along and to get what he wanted? That's the tactic of a lot of narcissists who only really care about what's in it for them and what makes them look good or boost their ego, and when you actually have needs and expect things from them, all of a sudden you are too much work or too needy. He just wanted to keep things casual, light, and without responsibilities. It fits his pattern of constantly choosing young and impressionable women who are awed by him that he can use and discard as he chooses. Very toxic and dysfunctional behavior.

[@tylersaejow4127]

I love this song ❤️

[@gablandicho]

FINALLLYYY ANW NEVER BEEN SO EARLY LIKE THISSS

[@missmaggicasares6538]

at 7:27 what she says "so that's it?", someone commented on how he has his hand covering his mouth and not even being able to say it out loud and directly, he seems to be hiding and at another point of the "breaking point", she "yells" "Look at me" (I think when she is standing and sort of bending to be at his eye level)

[@vanessa1052]

I lived to see this day!!

[@um7239]

Funny story when I first watched the short film I didn’t notice it was Taylor was playing the older Sadie until the credits lol

[@niccojohnroma4024]

Yeees!! i've been waiting for this!!💓💓💓

[@jericorivera4766]

I didn't know if you already noticed, though but Him, later on is JAKE LYONS. 😆

[@AMoniqueOcampo]

I am gonna consider this my early birthday present! What a great way to start off the year! 🥰🤩❤

[@treearoha]

Happy Early Birthday!! 💜

[@nickc6090]

Happy birthday

[@treearoha]

Yayyyy I've been waiting for this 🙌❤

[@Vincent-ey6yj]

Not all disagreements are toxic. Maybe a misunderstanding? This is why I believe effective communication between couples are important. One person’s interpretation of toxic may be how they communicate their problems with each other. I believe Taylor Swift did an amazing job in capturing their relationship’s evolution.

[@LaurenLipman]

Yes I totally agree!!

[@Vincent-ey6yj]

@@LaurenLipman I really like your commentary! I thinks it’s a great spin on everyone’s interpretation of Taylor and her work! I was looking for the glass of wine in this vid. Lol! Looking forward to the next vid you post. Rest well.

[@edensylvester13]

Definitely not all disagreements, but the argument in the film was toxic

[@MarkMcNeel13]

@@LaurenLipman do u have Taylor shirts lol

[@bredmonds]

“It’s us! We’re in it!”

[@nicholasgrimmy]

Yes!!! Been waiting for this 😌👏🏼 Happy New Year Lauren!

[@angelmarieguieb1964]

OMG I WAS WAITING FOR THIS!!! 🤩

[@angelfacetlc77]

Her writing a book is my dream.

[@nickc6090]

Already watched on Patreon!! Love you!!

[@msturi2002]

the 'newspaper' was a crossword puzzle. ie: Red..

[@longlivelinzi]

No way you're only just watching the short film. You're a massive TS fan. You're bound to have found 15mins somewhere to watch it. I don't believe you went months without seeing it 😕 💕

[@LaurenLipman]

Hahaha I really didn’t watch it!! I knew I wanted to react to it for my channel so I avoided it until I had the time to react

[@longlivelinzi]

@@LaurenLipman wow! As soon as it was uploaded I watched it. I can't believe you went months without seeing it 💕

[@TheFacelessTravelChannel]

You deserve more views.. good luck Lauren! 💕

[@snoopi65]

The moment Lauren realized that the adult character was Taylor - Epic!

[@gaykenfutch628]

I fucking love Lauren Lipman 💗💜

[@missylynn9180]

Yay!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@snoopi65]

Lauren - Did you notice that adult him was played by Jake Lyon?? I think I heard somewhere that Jake Lyon is a real person, but I couldn't help but think it was a reference to Jake Gyllenhaal - "Jake Lying"

[@doomwolf7963]

Gotta say , u are very funny , subbed

[@LaurenLipman]

Well hey hi thanks!! Glad you’re here :) currently editing a new video right now hehehehe

[@BigD151065]

The car is a Mercedes 1989 model. Also there are 4 candles on the birthday cake. Same scene note the red gift box behind her, also used in I Bet You Think About Me (containing the red scarf). Furthermore the Spider-Man kiss referring to Kirsten Dunst and JG.

[@sherwinobispo1050]

Dylan looks familiar because maybe you watched MAZE RUNNER? 🤔

[@JessicaNicoleFaust]

What was life before All Too Well the 10 min Version?!😱😭🥰

[@danielandhisswiftiebuddyev1073]

Evan and I both love you.

[@snoopi65]

I would LOVE a book by Taylor!

[@johnmarkclar5433]

Yas! Finally! Been waiting for this!

[@Songwritersbehindthecurtain]

Already watched it and it was awesome 😎.

[@angy950211]

Finally

[@thingsthatshine-sam1826]

I wonder if Taylor has or will write a book under a fake name? It would be sooooo good

[@barrystewart5946]

I cracked the iPad at the way him was talking to her. Jake Gyllenhaal should have mistreated Carole Baskin.🐯

[@LaurenLipman]

Haaaa!!😂

[@0verjoyed_ac]

Girl, I did the same thing! Didn't realize it was Taylor at first lmao

[@Songwritersbehindthecurtain]

Happy new year 🎈🎆🎊 🥳 lauren.

[@aaliyahfoster2705]

10:15 Lauren on Clowneria Street (10 seconds version)

[@sandorkocso1798]

what sweater, Lauren? :))))

[@simplymatt13]

OMG

[@mikasa5048]

Your outfit was perfect 😂

[@flordeespinart]

I am still waiting for my "all too well" journal to arrive

[@menaoliver13]

loved this but u kept saying sweater instead of scarf i was so confused 🤣🤣

[@LaurenLipman]

Hahaha I know when I was editing this I was so mad at myself🤦🏻‍♀️😂

[@Lulu-ep3mv]

When i saw that the girl was Taylor, i had the exact same reaction as Lauren! I was wondering where Taylor was and then that scene came. Lol

[@malinhessedahl]

Congratulations 50600 followers here on KZbin ♥️💖💗🎊🎉🌸💥👑

[@armando.336]

Love you!!!!!

[@Songwritersbehindthecurtain]

Who’s the new editor is is it Kate’s adventures?

[@kristinalenkowsky]

I adored this and you!!

[@taammmaaraa_13]

Hi Lauren, did you see the name who portrayed “Him, later on” at the production crew? You should check it out 😌

[@claudiaa753]

You look beautiful 😻, I really like your hair like that

[@mariacervera6737]

Shawn Levy is the producer of Stranger Things

[@franciskev4161]

❤️🔥

[@amyfalls]

me when lauren didnt recognize taylor: ABSJDKBASJDBJSABJDSA

[@pamrogers5979]

I'd love to see a Taylor, Blake Ryan collab - any film

[@loud_hailer6240]

Hey! You would be the perfect person to react to: Matt Cooper - Taylor Swift (Official Music Video) All the references must be appreciated lol its a super sweet video

[@amandahelminski737]

Really surprised when you said you loved them together at the beginning. Sadie Sink is 19. Dylan O’Brien is almost 30. That casting was purposeful and she looks like a child next to him. Made it hard for me to watch ☹️

[@bookieworm17]

The only thing I really didn't understand was "You're Brooklyn broke my skin and bones". Someone said it's about his Brooklyn mentality but I'm not completely sure. I love this short film, I just feel like I don't understand some of the references. Please help me out

[@gabbydavis6349]

Lauren did you not see that his name was Jake Lyon or something??? I was waiting for your reaction to it bc his last name is literally Lyon and the fact that she literally found a guy with that last name for this.

[@Lemon-xn5dj]

I clicked so fast

[@clynnegeorge9471]

See the credits for the guy later

[@crampledpaper]

WHEN YOU WISH TO SEE TAYLOR THEN SHE DID. WHAT A GOOD MOMMA SPOILING US SWIFTIES LMAO

[@razrhiannaspiers8506]

If you would like to react to a recommended song, I would say the artist Aesthetic Perfection with the song Ebb & Flow

[@gabbys2468]

I don’t mean this to be negative but you can’t convince me that you haven’t watched this video since it came out in November hahah

[@LaurenLipman]

Idk what to tell you but it’s true 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@randomfornow]

@@LaurenLipman lol, I believe you if that helps

[@clynnegeorge9471]

The car model was a 1989

[@saratemp790]

Hmmm. I don't think you like Taylor anymore if you waited this long to see it.

[@alisonsmith6748]

🤣

[@edensylvester13]

just because someone's life doesn't revolve around Taylor doesn't mean they don't like her anymore 🙄

[@VioletEmerald]

That's ridiculous

[@bkirstie]

?

[@saratemp790]

@@bkirstie your question is? If you mean comment above, she had just replied to a comment of mine, on a completely different video. I'm not sure how that is done.

[@midnightsbabe]

Better late than never 😅Glad you shared your reaction with us!

[@annemiekedebloois7404]

Queen Taylor Awaits WITH Midnights ERA... @LaurenLipman please Reply BACK 🙏