It’s normal to want space from your partner

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@timtim9o5 2 жыл бұрын

I think this is a good example of boundary setting, especially for those of us who grew up without any, it can be difficult to even know what that looks like, so thank you.

@sweetmarmaladera1573 Жыл бұрын

same I grew up without any boundaries, and now I'm finally learning

@DeliaHerz 5 ай бұрын

This is so true, I grew up with no boundaries, and am anxious attached, my first relationship we spend every Single minute together even tho it was to much for either him and me and we didn't respected or really set a boundary about that in particular.

@EssenceofPolish Жыл бұрын

Woow, I honestly was expecting her to get mad! I really love the understanding and the great example this is!!

@serenaroseauthentics1391 Жыл бұрын

It’s good she didn’t take it personally or get offended or defensive. It would have been very easy to see that as a rejection. She’s secure in herself. So is he to be able to set a boundary like that.

@Amir210188 Жыл бұрын

Protect that woman at all costs

@TownTalk206 Жыл бұрын

Yeah no conversation goes like that haha but I’m glad they can show us how to do it!

@asmrsleep3079 10 ай бұрын

Ik. If only it was this easy

@MsOrganic1 Ай бұрын

Exactly. Lol.

@lekshmananV Жыл бұрын

Excellent example of boundary setting. I know its importance

@opossumsauce4472 Жыл бұрын

YES YES YES, and also if she's anxious please tell her the hours you'll be busy. If she's codependent I just know she'll be counting the minutes

@camillecooper1964 7 ай бұрын

Most people get offended when someone tells them this smh. I love my space...alot of people dont understand the need for this 😢

@aldrinsaclolo Жыл бұрын

Understanding women don't exi-

@Reesemuffin 3 ай бұрын

Great convo and wonderful way of communicating

@elijahatyuhm777 10 ай бұрын

That was a beautiful example. I hope it was real.

@kelgoneimy Жыл бұрын

She is a replica of Kim Kardashian

@HerLegacyVisionary 11 ай бұрын

But the better version

@TheFluidShapeShifter Жыл бұрын

My boundary is all the time everyday except nighttime and a few midday breaks xD

@MorgueInTheVoid Жыл бұрын

Can you make a video similar to this but show what to do if the other person gets mad or offended?

@Andalaeknir86 Жыл бұрын

If the other person gets mad, you should stand firm. Don't falter just to please them or feel guilty. Boundaries are vital sometimes the need of solitude abd self time is important. If it's constantly together it can be a lot too

@DonDiariesNYC 9 ай бұрын

Yes the skirt over the leggings Omgggg 😂😂😂

@jayjay501st 2 жыл бұрын

Skin care routine 🤣🤣🤣

@moviefragments2005 6 ай бұрын

No matter how perfectly you explain she's still gonna get mad😂

@babygalstar1992 8 ай бұрын

Thank u my bf and i were at a party and he stepped into my pace and we were face to face

@derya94b Жыл бұрын

If I said this to my partner, he would instantly think I don't want to spend time with him... I really miss doing my own thing.. How do you make a man see the importance of personal space?

@Andalaeknir86 Жыл бұрын

Yeah, recently I had been in an online relationship. Apparently i needed to completely focus ly time on so many other things in between which means i had to talk less and less by a lot with the person involved. It's harder for them that we're not talking as often or as much. But their anxiety and such energies has really been affecting le in ways i never realized. And i keed time to focus on my foundation and the whole thing. And recently i have been focusing on supporting those close to me in my community helping out and all of that. So it's been a lot of investment and energy where i need to put it. But all in all i feel i can breathe. Doing our own thing is important. Some periods we are also required to spend in our own solitude to look at our relations with a different pair of eyes, different perspective and such. Reflecting about the relation of circumstances of things is vital so we know if it's good for all or not or for ourselves

@mikewilkins2030 Жыл бұрын

If he can’t give you a half a day, or a few hrs to yourself, your man isn’t healthy emotionally! I mean, 3 hrs to play a game isn’t bad! Go do something else lol now if you ask for a week alone.. nah!

@michelecurtis887 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂yeah, that’s not how that conversation goes in real life…. That is the beginning of a 3 day argument in the real world🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😔😔😔😔

@mrenae6798 Ай бұрын

But he said as soon as I get off we can get up right? (Hang out) A lot of times men expect us to be available and waiting for when they're in the mood for us.

@asimadash6694 6 ай бұрын

I hv seen women give the same response and she later reveals the sarcastic intent behind those words. It's disgustingly immature.

@Privatenospying 4 ай бұрын

4 hours later…why’d he miss that ball!! Oh honey I can’t talk now too tired 😢

@crackerjacks6789 10 ай бұрын

I Think this is an excellent example ..Now let’s reverse the roles.. 😅

@shondaking-redfalcon1172 Жыл бұрын

She should already know that😂.. We need our own space everybody does

@MikeThaPhilosopher 11 ай бұрын

An immature woman will see this as rejection and will try to debate you

@zack1610 Ай бұрын

That’s my gf to a T

@Tonyconstanza Жыл бұрын

This is not how they react they then see an opportunity to cause an argument about it so now your giving attention to her while your friends are waiting

@ElanaVital83 7 ай бұрын

But how do you not feel guilty after?

@Fat_Vegan 11 ай бұрын

Then she’ll go text her side dudes lol

@mezzuna Жыл бұрын

Her reaction is very unrealistic

@chads7391 Жыл бұрын

Lol. Fairy tale land.

@LifeWithAdunni 8 ай бұрын

Script but real life she'll be mad

@K8_4life 9 ай бұрын

Okay, no. Mabey if he didn't sound like he was so damn annoyed at just her existance and shit and she didn't actualy move his head to shove his face in a picture then this video wouldn't have pissed me off so much. Honestly relationships shouldn't need these boundaries, your partner should know that people sometimes need time for themselves. It just sounds really pathetic to say to someone you love: "stay away from me from specificaly 2:30 to 4:00" as an example. Its just kinda weird and robotic, it sounds like they're just tolerating each other instead of being in love.

@lukehamilton6889 2 жыл бұрын

This is the fakest shit I’ve ever seen. In reality she gets all mad, has zero understanding and then goes in the other room and starts flirting with guys on Snapchat.

@angstyintellectual4960 2 жыл бұрын

right but that just means she isnt ready for a healthy relationship. gotta find a healthy one! also gotta make sure you yourself are healthy because it's totally possible to relay a healthy boundary poorly/rudely.

@rodgerz8577 Жыл бұрын

@@angstyintellectual4960 🎯

@aurora_boketto7746 Жыл бұрын

it's normal to feel sad and defensive still, doing this to yes understanding that's important

@frankv7068 Жыл бұрын

It’s a longer perspective of things, you should already have your girl trained to not disrespect you, no snapping and follow instructions when I speak. It’s a masculine process that starts with yourself, zero tolerance for toxicity, I’m the male rock figure, that provides your income, what I say goes or I have options.

@missmaverick3477 Жыл бұрын

@@frankv7068 :/ trained???? Like a dog. This is why most men are single n can’t get a date. Why can’t you just express how you feel and what u need and allow the person to understand u. A simple “ babe this is my time for me n the bro the play video games, when I’m done we can do something you like.” Simple compromise. Dating is a process if she’s not understanding then drop her. But this business with “ training” ppl … that’s gross. U can’t control anyone but ur self.

@larhencecyriaque404 10 ай бұрын

thats not gon work fam

@Jason-hk6fx Жыл бұрын

so scripted and unrealistic

@souldiving4197 Жыл бұрын

It’s a skit

@chrislindsay396 Жыл бұрын

Only if women could actually respond like this lol. It’s usually “oh. So you like don’t want to be around me? So you like don’t miss me? So like do you even love me?”

@getitdone0010 Жыл бұрын

why would he never asked for space in 5 years and all of sudden its like he needs space, we don't live together. It is solely long distance, he drives truck and we meet in a month..he said he loves me but need time...even in long distance huuh??