Baby Products I REGRET buying & what I'm getting instead (2nd baby!)

[@itsjessicabraun]

~ stuff I mentioned ~ (using these links means I may make a small commission) - Magnetic Me sleepers: shop-links.co/cgx2ivf8fDm - Cheapest Magnetic Sleepers: shop-links.co/cgx2hMEgNSw - My fave zipper sleepers with mitten sleeves: shop-links.co/cgx2jyD1ozS - Graco swing I recommend: shop-links.co/cgx2m8qvDfZ - Toy organizer (similar, they already don’t sell the one we have??): amzn.to/3gk06Ac - Glider we bought this time: www.potterybarnkids.com/produ... - Wipe warmer: shop-links.co/cgx4PoKp6g0 - bottle warmer: shop-links.co/cgx4PVAQoMb - Baby nail file (electric): amzn.to/3ugWM0Z - Uppababy Vista V2: shop-links.co/cgx2vp6JNw5 - The Mockingbird stroller is super similar and cheaper: shop-links.co/cgx2v3Uyr9c - Doona car seat: shop-links.co/cgx2uNJAhqp - Hatch Rest Plus Sound Machine: shop-links.co/cgx2xrUKuKZ - Snoo: www.happiestbaby.com/ - Double two-camera monitor: shop-links.co/cgx2zmgDSSL - Spectra pump (blue): shop-links.co/cgx4Qw9StwO - haakaa milk catcher: shop-links.co/cgAfDVKJHgB - Hatch changing pad scale: shop-links.co/cgx4Vhe8v7D - Boppy: shop-links.co/cgx4WjeP3yr - Boppy covers (amazon): amzn.to/3oiXlU9 - My Breast Friend: shop-links.co/cgx4XwZ2EvE - Cribsheet book: shop-links.co/cgx4YuSypod - Expecting better book: amzn.to/3FFx08u

[@j0yfulblessings]

Where is your bedspread from? I'm looking for one just like it!

[@apfarms8612]

First time grandma here. Where did u rent the SNOO? Would love to get it for my daughter but its to pricey for us. Loved this video. New subby here.

[@user-kg4dy8uz7x]

Hi Jessica! Congrats on the new baby. :) I’m trying to click on the link to the recliner/rocker you ordered. It’s not working though! Can you please post it again or recommend something different, but similar? Thanks! :)

[@staciesaurus5139]

Hi Jessica- thank you for this great information! What crib do y’all have?

[@remiolagoke7884]

what bassinet do you use instead of the halo?? I didn't see that in the video

[@karanicole2999]

Am I having a baby soon? No. Did I watch the entire video? Yes.

[@audreychigerwe]

Same WhatsApp group😅

[@caspearson1871]

I'm menopausal 😆 great video!

[@casiestaudt1858]

The best advice we were given is to use baby sleep gowns. No buttons or opening in the middle of the night. They were the BEST thing ever.

[@meaganmachado9878]

Jessica, I’m currently 6 weeks pregnant with my first child and I’m doing it all alone. I found your channel and it feels like I have a friend to guide me through this! I really appreciate you!

[@natalieg8450]

I just found out I'm pregnant with my first & I'm 6 weeks too! 🙂 sending you prayers & warm thoughts!

[@Amari37-x1o]

congrats momma have a healthy and easy pregnancy

[@HailL369]

I am 6 weeks too. Praying for you and your baby!

[@JazminePaden1012]

6 weeks asking I pray we all have health pregnancy and babies !!! I hope you find comfort somehow 😊

[@daniquethompson2853]

Congratulations everyone! Hope you all have a happy safe pregnancy journey.

[@breecheese313]

Former daycare worker here...we used a crock pot instead of a bottle warmer. And that's something you won't need to declutter later... just an idea!

[@jennyjohnson5428]

On the warm setting?

[@smokableflowers]

Yes you can prep several and just keep them warm till use.

[@kyleeanderson5920]

@@jennyjohnson5428the high setting!

[@lexieclayton4587]

That would be beneficial in only a daycare setting I would think when you need to prep more than one bottle otherwise it's just a big hassle to keep a large crock pot on your counter all the time. A bottle warmer is small and not that expensive anyways. Plus it will heat it to the exact temperature milk needs to be less guessing

[@caitlynparsell5137]

Pioneer Woman has mini crockpots you can keep water warm all day and just throw the bottle in there instead of using a microwave to warm water.

[@daniellemorgan-jackson4114]

Get 2 Haaka manual breats pumps and put one on each breast while showering. I would no joke almost fill them both up in 1 shower. The warm water stimulates let down. Genius hack I read on a baby board.

[@777giggle000]

Wow! I never thought of that!

[@allybabwa]

Thank you for this! Was going to get one, but now I'll get two!

[@sheenachante]

Probably stupid question but how do they not slip off.

[@KalliBean3]

@@sheenachante they are like suctioned on to your breast

[@maggie.williams]

@@sheenachante I had one (and loved it) & the suction is strong enough that I should hold for a decent amount of time if you learn how to put it on correctly.

[@keepingitrealkiki3380]

I am a new mom currently 26 weeks, and i loved this video. I was a nanny for many years and so many people don’t talk about how personal every baby item can be. No matter how cheap or expensive a product may be all babies are different and you can never call what will and won’t work. It’s a learning experience and so many moms stress about the perfect items.

[@catherinenaylor495]

Tip for the haaka from your friend who is pregnant with my 3rd. Have coffee mugs around whenever you are using the haaka. I know you don’t think that you’ll knock it over, but you will. I set mine in a coffee mug every time with my second. Saved a lot of spills

[@lhb92]

Genius!

[@HILLARYCANTRELL]

So smart! Literally would’ve saved me!

[@ashleysinniah6789]

Wonderful advice. That first spill of breastfeed is devastating.

[@RandySoWavvy]

The newer ones have the suction on the bottom and come with a cap to close it

[@catherinenaylor495]

@@RandySoWavvy I have those!! But rambunctious toddlers + surfaces that they don’t stick to well have still ruined my day 🤣

[@katelynnmiller6944]

Just remember- more expensive doesn’t necessarily mean better!

[@tay9087]

Right, I love this video but I feel like it's above my pay grade lol

[@andcohen12]

Yes, those Snoo bassinets seem like they would create new sleep crutches to wean them off of.

[@TranquilityWithinMe]

💯💯

[@TranquilityWithinMe]

She's promoting over priced unnecessary items. She keeps saying its an "investment"....😂

[@ntmn8444]

@@TranquilityWithinMe they’re the things she got for herself. You’re free to not do so. She’s just giving her thought process, but you have a choice in the market.

[@beavadakkoot]

I'm 19 weeks pregnant with our first and learning from all these videos is: 1. You need way less than you think 2. Buy 2nd hand 3. Buy after baby is born so you don't buy things you won't use

[@gabriellel4496]

That's OK for some things, but you Don't really want to be running to target/walmart with a 3-4 week old probably cluster feeding, gassy, and susceptible to germs, and you're still sore from birth with leaky boobs. It's much better just to have what you need already

[@beavadakkoot]

@@gabriellel4496 of course. I'm now 6 weeks PP and my husband went and bought things the first 2 weeks. Then I also slowly started going out

[@melaniefarrow7152]

Jessica I am a long time subscriber and about to be a Grammy in June. Thanks for so many great suggestions. Breast feeding is legitimately one of the hardest things. My first month was hell. I had mastitis, bleeding nipples, hell. But then it became easy and so rewarding. I hope you have a good support person. My husband ended up being my best support. As a dairy farmer he encouraged me to eat well and drink tons of water. Ive never eaten more than when I was breast feeding and lost every pound of baby weight within six months. He encouraged me to sleep and relax as much as possible. He was so chill it helped me stop worrying. Whatever you decide I hope it goes easier. Maybe meet with a lactation consultant. I'm so excited for you.

[@CareyXO]

My babies are young teens and pre-teens, but I still love watching the baby videos of the KZbinrs I care about. It makes me smile to see the happiness a new baby brings.

[@moriganna67ify]

I am going on 55 in March and lost 3 babies. I helped my sister with her 2 kids and I am watching because 1...this is Jessica. 2...this is fascinating. So happy for you guys. Genevieve (my Aunts name was the same) will be a loving big sister. ❤

[@twiztidsushi]

I am so sorry for your loss

[@DaegSteorra513]

I’m so sorry for you loss 😢

[@IvyroseGullwhacker]

Not even thinkin' about babies, but I always find it important to know what to get for the moms in my life! It seems so hard; I wanna make sure I'm getting gifts that will honestly help lol

[@elizabethgoltiao6507]

Same!!

[@jocbaker]

Same, no shade but I had nothing.

[@Chaotic_Pixie]

Every mom I've had the pleasure of gifting to has always loved a "nursing" basket. A lovely basket with a reusable, insulated water bottle, a good book to read, some puzzle books, their favorite granola bars, and usually an Audible subscription. I also like to include a charger for their phone so there's always one wherever they're nursing. If I know how many places the mom to be plans to have, I'll make a basket for each and then instruct their partner to make sure it always has water in the bottle and stocked with snacks. Even after breastfeeding is done, they've often been used when rocking a sick kiddo to sleep or when mom or partner are sick themselves. Everyone always thinks to get baby cute clothes and cute toys. Most people forget about momma. Another thing I like to do is get really nice body cream and a few pairs of comfy socks... PJs too if I know momma's size. IMHO momma should be changing from Pjs to PJs when she's given the opportunity to shower, at least for the first 6 weeks, minimum. It seems like once momma is wearing real clothes, everyone expects her to be back to her normal self... but the healing process both physically and mentally takes SO MUCH LONGER.

[@hannahkayee831]

@@Chaotic_Pixie best gift ever! Or even a spotify premium subscription! :) which is super cheap. I love mine! The water bottle idea is great for anyone, even after a surgery!

[@hayleebaird-lira5558]

You are a great friend!!!

[@NicoleHeadland-yr8dc]

Weirdest Hack that I’ve done as a mom of 3 soon to be 4- instead of getting a wipe warmer I would grab a few wipes before I grabbed the baby and stick them in my bra, then they’d warm up before I’d change the baby and I didn’t need another gadget! Our second child HATED diaper changes and that’s when I started doing this and worked for us like a charm!

[@porkchopy]

I'm definitely doing this 😅

[@ekosmios8786]

Mum of 4 soon to be 5, started doing this with my 2nd baby. Used my thigh or arm to warm them up, best hack ever! Lool

[@MadelynBendickson]

I keep my wipes in the oven with the light on 😂 nice and warm

[@tae9313]

thank you for this idea 😭

[@millie4801]

I wash my baby's legs before every new diaper change. It's a life saver.

[@thewadsquad]

Okay bottle warmer! - We don't even use bottles but listen to this postpartum mamas; put your peri bottle in there and boom you always have warm water to clean yo self! Very helpful for someone like me whos sink takes SO long to get warm water from!!

[@Sneadwoman]

so smart

[@tabithak5943]

Genius

[@NguyenTrang01]

I’ve never thought of that. Genius 👍

[@taylorgirard9337]

Genuis

[@DogandaTopHat]

Wow, I wish I new this tip a couple weeks ago!

[@jasminematilda]

One thing that makes baby number 2 interesting is when they don't like or respond to the same things baby number 1 did. So you buy/don't buy all this stuff based on the first experience thinking "yeah I'm totally gonna nail it this time!" And the new baby is like a whole new breed of human lol like I did NOT account for this 😫😂

[@susanbangura9188]

Thanks for this advice! I didn't even consider that 😅

[@amnaokayo5426]

😂

[@olay5757]

Lol exactly

[@erpadministrator]

I'm a mom of 3. Ive had almost all of the things listed here. I have used them all and made my mothering experience less stressful. Ive had all my babies on c section. After my last born. I couldn't get out of bed or carry the baby for a long time. I think baby things are essential. It depends on the preference of the mother and no one deserves to bash what works for the other mother. The first few weeks after birth are very stressful. Above all, a happy mom means a happy baby.

[@allisonracimo5477]

i'm due in July with my first and was so nervous to watch this video because I have most of the things here too. Reading your comment made me feel much better!

[@erpadministrator]

@@allisonracimo5477 wishing you a safe birth experience and a healthy baby. 😍

[@katiebugkm]

If you are annoyed by snaps at night you should just use gowns. We did for both kids and I always thought it was weird they don't get as much talk. You don't have to do anything, just pull it up and pull of down. So simple and cheap.

[@mirandapontarelli5485]

One thing to be aware of with the doona carseat is it has a poor crash test safety rating. My husband is a crash test safety engineer, and he said there's no way he'd put our baby in that. Something to consider

[@michelleennis8195]

Good to know. I really liked it considering that I am having my second baby 15 years later. The price kept me away knowing it wouldn’t be used for so long.

[@meriadocbrandybuck9833]

I have a Graco stroller that clips in the car seat. (Click & go?) I got that instead because it is a bit more effort but it’s got an excellent crash test rating.

[@marcelaavila9546]

Which car seats do you recommend? I’m having my second baby 14 years later and this is a whole new world for me again, I’ve been doing a lot of research and I like Britax travel systems or britax one for life.

[@allisongeary]

I loved wipe warmer but never used bottle warmer

[@PatrickandEasterDavisRealtors]

Which one does he recommend that has great crash test safety rating?🌻

[@rootedinalaska]

I would definitely recommend “the Montessori baby”, the Montessori toddler”, and “simplicity parenting” books. Even if you are not a Montessori/Waldorf/gentle parenting family there’s really great information about development and understanding babies/toddlers better that I think would be valuable to any parent or guardian.

[@Innessofficial]

Love these books you mentioned!

[@ThatOneLadyOverHere]

Even if you aren't gonna fully do the montessori method it is so great to research because the toy organization and rotation and stuff is a game changer for keeping children entertained on their own. I still get overwhelmed when my children decide to dump all the toys they have access to out and take forever to help them clean it up again. But there is a HUGE difference between their clean and messy room.

[@DogDocLou]

Not to mention reading the books really clues you in to how many ‘Montessori’ labeled things just aren’t! I saw a “Montessori busy board” that was over 2 feet by 2 feet with dozens of different zippers and buttons, etc. ….that’s not a Montessori concept…:

[@caroldelosangeles3621]

💗🤰🤗👏exactly. But the marketing for stupid ittems and generations separations between babies and skin to skin to mothers ( fular ..baby cangoo mom will always be the best for all the consecuences ) is insane.

[@lilianabenitezdeluna8990]

Number one regret was NOT looking into and deciding what formula I trusted/liked/wanted. I just assumed I was gonna be able to breastfeed. And when my baby didn’t latch I was left incredibly stressed sifting through the HUNDREDS of formula options while extremely exhausted/sleep deprived trying to make a decision. Not ideal and 100% contributed to my PPD.

[@MzEllaful]

Don't worry, the formula shortage took the stress out of choosing the perfect formula. Every week we tried a new formula, anything really. Eventually there was literally no formula and we had to move to goat$ milk.

[@PinkHerbo]

Similac sensitive is mostly used in my family.

[@caroldelosangeles3621]

A lot of good doulas help with this and it's just a matter of try Harder knowing the health and psicological consecuences in adulthood.. ..Im based on evidence.

[@gymnastwithatwist]

Kendamil (organic) . We did tons of research. This one isn’t filled with junk and also tastes good. We actually tasted them and the reg ones at the stores sold here in US taste and smell nasty.

[@kiltedluxury]

@@caroldelosangeles3621 Please don't do that, don't shove breastfeeding down anyone's throat or make them feel guilty for not doing it. Everyone has their own journey and they're not all the same, everyone is entitled to make their own decisions without other people judging. My mom didn't breastfeed any of her 3 children and we all turned out fine. Also - I will be having a baby via surrogacy so breastfeeding isn't even an option for me. And that's ok. ☺

[@katelynbendinsky5080]

I think the main thing I recommend is that every baby likes different things so always buy secondhand if you can. No use in paying full price. We had our uppababy cruz stroller new though, and I recommend that just because a stroller can take a beating through multiple kids.

[@NguyenTrang01]

I’m the type of mom that will dress up my baby every day in cute outfits. My baby was born in the middle of the pandemic so I couldn’t go anywhere. So dressing her up makes me happy, doesn’t matter if she will spit up or get dirty. It’s clothes, they can be washes, and they won’t be in there for long, why not have fun. ☺️

[@paintedstars2]

It is fun, but it was my opinion mostly just impractical after one of those spectacular "blow outs" and having to PEEL the layers of tights, ruffle bloomers, and dress off and the potential of that $35+ set is potentially stained for good. Versus unzipping a $12 sleeper from Target.

[@ashleyreed7272]

Same my baby was born in pandemic too and I’d dress him up just to take pictures

[@jennahaines4019]

If you want to buy a modular stroller - pro tip : buy the second seat right away when you buy the stroller. Yeah you might not use it but more annoyingly the brand often will change the style and it might be hard/impossible to get the second seat if the brand discontinues the line. This happened with the baby jogger city select 1 vs 2 so do yourself a favor and buy the second seat now! (this also applies to toddler bed conversion kits for cribs!!)

[@ceciliahammons2534]

Thei happened to me with the same stroller except it was the lux. I have seats that don't match but I'm pregnant with #3 so I'm upgrading to a 4 seater wagon.

[@thecommentmonster]

Wont it expire sooner though?

[@KaitlynReynolds76]

I am a new mom currently 26 weeks, and i loved this video. I was a nanny for many years and so many people don’t talk about how personal every baby item can be. No matter how cheap or expensive a product may be all babies are different and you can never call what will and won’t work. It’s a learning experience and so many moms stress about the perfect items.

[@mysistersaship]

Instead of a bottle warmer we got an electric kettle with a "keep warm" setting. It is always ready for us to mix with formula and we can also use it for tea and all that. We love it.

[@isisd.c.7227]

Oh this is so smart *adds to the list of ideas* thank you

[@paulinaj7208]

babies don’t have preference. you don’t need to heat up water for the formula at all. in France we use room temperature water instead. it’s good if you’re stuck somewhere with no access to warm water, your baby won’t object to colder milk

[@thelondonbeautystylist]

@@paulinaj7208 but the warm water sterilises the formula

[@theunahime7446]

@@thelondonbeautystylist only boiling water does the sterilization process

[@amandinepene]

Yes if anything warm but not boiling water has more risks of containing germs ! A warmer can be useful to warm breast milk that was in the fridge or freezer though cause babies usually dont like it cold 😂

[@christina212n7]

I have the doona and definitely regret buying that. The only perk is it’s a quick change from car seat to stroller but it’s HEAVY! Once the baby’s a bit bigger, it’s so hard to get them from the house to the car. Also, especially now in winter, the wheels get covered in snow, salt and mud and it then gets dragged onto your car seats and into the house. Now I’ll only really use it for a trip to the store when absolutely necessary. Also, the base broke within 6 months so beware!

[@daniboutain6966]

The safety reports on it are horrible too!!

[@Laure__Line]

I’m not a mother yet, so wondering : why don’t people carry their baby to the car in their arms, use a car seat in the car, then get a six-wheeled stroller from the trunk to move around with the baby ?

[@brandyknight8927]

We LOVE the baby brezza bottle warmer! It has multiple settings where you can use to warm bottles for formula or breastmilk. You shouldn’t use steam to warm breastmilk because it can kill good nutrients and bacteria in breastmilk so it has a setting that’s safe for that! You can also use it to warm baby food/pouches and even thaw frozen breastmilk! We have used and abused it for a year and it still works perfectly.

[@jacquelynstewart5329]

Pregnant with my first baby; thank you so much for creating this content, very helpful. And thanks to everyone in the comment community as well! I’m much more at ease and prepared to create my registry now 😊

[@victoriamacias7890]

I totally agree that no matter how many good reviews or how expensive an item can be, does absolutely not guarantee us that our baby will like it😭 I went all out buying the best quality and expensive items for my baby; I am so devastated to inform that she didn't like any of it. So some items totally have to wait to be purchased until our babies show us what they like♥️

[@coryharbour57]

I’m pregnant for the first time and 20 weeks now. I have HG so I’m still sick and I’m getting soooo overwhelmed with just everything to research and buy. This video was SOOOO helpful and you explained things well!!! Thank you so much.

[@kristinnolan2428]

I'm 36 weeks with my first. This has been very helpful to have someone talking about current products and what works and what doesn't. I have people giving me advice based off of products in the 80's lol (my baby's grandparents). Thank you for sharing!

[@jannalam6861]

I loved the Halo Bassinest. I swiveled it close to me many times. Made life just a bit easier at night. Used it for less than a year, but it had good resale value. Im currently pregnant again and definitely re-buying it for this baby.

[@adadominguez10]

I’ve never watched your videos before but I utterly enjoyed this one. Not only was your video very thorough and informative but you’re absolutely adorable and charismatic and it was a joy watching. I’m 27 weeks pregnant as of today and I’m going to be a first time mom so the whole process has been quite overwhelming to me. So many choices and things to do and so little time. Thankfully I’m able to find gems on KZbin like this video to assuage my baby prep anxiety. Thank you much!

[@sierra-raynewilson94]

For me the $20 wipe warmer was the best thing ever even though I only used it for a few months. I wish I would have bought it sooner. It made the night changes a lot easier. She definitely needed the wipes warmer for both of our sanity during bedtime.

[@dawndanelle3488]

Currently 19 weeks with baby #3! I have 2 boys, Logan just turned 3 and is autistic and Weston is 22 months so my mama heart is secretly hoping for a baby girl... Daddy is currently in rehab as he struggles with alcoholism etc... so its been quite hard feeling and living like a single mama... looking forward to his return and to find out baby #3's gender!!! Congratulations to all of you mamas out there expecting or who have recently had a baby! Motherhood is so magical and rewarding!!! Thank you for this wonderfully timed video Jess! Would watch regardless of if I was pregnant/ a mama or not!

[@SteppingStonevlogs]

Congrats on the newborn! They have a truly lovely mommy who cares for them, and I wish all the best for the dad who is working hard in his own way for his family and himself ❤ Yes, motherhood is a true gift and a complete challenge! All the best and a safe delivery of you and your husband's third (hopefully a 👧🏻!) child

[@dawndanelle3488]

@@SteppingStonevlogs Thank you soooo much for your beautiful reply Lauren!! If you happen to pray we could definitely use some prayers our way for daddy and strength in our relationship/family! Thank you again for recognizing strength... as mamas we need to hear that from time to time!!! Means more than you can ever imagine!

[@darby4828]

Praying for your family 🙏

[@ernicanoel]

I find your rambling quite comforting lol. Makes you easy to relate to. I'm just 2 months pregnant so I'm here for it all. Best to you, mama!

[@ashtensinclair9817]

I’m a Doona mom and I cannot recommend it enough!! It is AMAZING and a GAME CHANGER for multiple kids! You’re going to love it Jess!!! 👌🏻♥️👏🏻

[@TB-rx1ue]

Would it work with twins

[@JakCole]

Oh man , I wish we had Doona's in Canada. Sounds amazing!

[@yasminandmerika]

Me too. Love itt. Have to get s new buggy now cause I'm having another one. But i can still use it for the newborn so i only have to get a new carseat for the first one when she turns 1

[@rebeccamoseley629]

The swivel on the Halo Bassinest saved my butt as a triplet mama! Really helps with getting three in a small space.

[@jannalam6861]

I only had 1 baby and it made night feeds and diaper changes so much easier. Im getting it again for my new baby.

[@gretagunnar8723]

Please please please make an updated list now that Felicity is here! I swear by your recommendations and I'm dying to know the pros and cons of what some people consider "must have items" and whether you think that's an accurate label for things like the Snoo and the Doona and the mamaroo etc. Dying for the newborn and post-partum must have list!

[@cecilial.4359]

We use the Hatch for our daughter. The red light is amazing for night time feedings. I also have the blue Spectra breast pump. It is wonderful having the option to pump where you need to around the house, in the car, at work and not be tied to an outlet. I love it.

[@LorelleJustice]

So does your hand

[@brookep1043]

11 weeks 6 days pregnant over here!! Thank you for this content. ❤️💕

[@illailla5813]

The boppy is great for anyone holding the baby ! Even for a formula feeding mama I would get the boppy as a gift for anyone expecting

[@jessicaarredondo3911]

I had a bottle warmer with my first and it was a hard when we would be out. With my second I breastfed and bottlefed.I would just use room temp purified water with her formula because I didn't want her to get used to a warm bottle. Luckily it worked and it was never an issue. Worth a try. It's amazing how much us mamas learn the first time around.

[@jenniferferrara6315]

I bottle fed and so I never warmed bottles from the beginning. Even the ones they give u in the hospital weren’t warmed so never had an issue. I just kept water in counter or since I used powder formula, I would pre make bottles with just the water so they would be ready to go! Plus if u have water system in ur fridge, pre filling bottles makes it to where water isn’t cold!

[@ThatOneLadyOverHere]

I just used room temp water for formula as well, more out of speed because warming bottles is so tedious. This time I should be able to breastfeed fine and if I pump I'm going to need to heat it since it won't be room temp.

[@theawesomefossums]

I’m team Snoo for sure! It didn’t exist with baby #1 but we rented it for baby #2 and it was such a life-changer. He transitioned just fine out of it too. I’m currently a month or so behind you with baby #3 and we are going to rent it again for sure!

[@susangilchrist781]

Have you tried infant gowns for nighttime?? Game changers!!! Literally all you do is pull it up, change the diaper, and pull it down. And they have built in mittens for newborns. You MUST try one!!

[@kristinjohnston8376]

A video on the best books to read. From early on to new born, (getting pregnant, being pregnant, postpartum, new born, etc.). Really love all the book recommendations you and Tyler have.

[@amandarose603]

Red lights are used on ships and things because it doesn’t mess with your night vision. However it tells your brain to go to sleep so the navy etc, has been moving to green light. So red lights should be PERFECT for a nursery. Sleep little baby, sleep! ❤️❤️

[@charlottehjort3609]

I love how you are like “we will not be spending money on dividers!”, literally seconds after showing the changing pad that cost a fortune. 😂 For anyone who wants advice; You can use a towel! 😊 I also like changing in low places like the floor, cause I get scared they’ll fall. 😅

[@lilolmecj]

I had an old bassinet, the wicker type. I made a beautiful lace skirt for it and several replacement sheets. It was frivolous, but beautiful and I don’t regret it at all. There are very few things you “must have”, besides a baby, diapers, a way to feed the baby, and keep it warm. And a decent, safe car seat.

[@dilaral9788]

I just went through all this with my baby who is now 9w old. Couple comments in addition to what Jessica mentioned in case it helps any new moms. -Babylist sells a bottle and pacifier sample pack. I highly recommend getting those first before investing in any one brand. -Baby mittens and socks are so cute but useless. Ones she recommended are the way to go! -Depending on the season baby is born (mine is a winter one) too many onesies aren’t really a necessity. I only bought 3 and ended up receiving a ton of them as a gift. I barely use them in order to avoid overheating the baby. -Newborn and 0-3 outfits (not one piece footies) I really didn’t need more than one or two. I thought I would have the energy to play dress up every day or be able to change her in and out of them as she napped. It was a cute but naive thought as a first time mom 🥲 -Magnetic Me sleepers: My baby ends up naked under her swaddle every time I put one on. If you’re really wanting one, I would suggest maybe investing in only one to see how it works for your LO first (Nordstrom rack has them on sale often) -Mamaroo: if you’re hoping to get your baby to nap (supervised) in this, I would think twice and maybe look into other options. I bought it out of desperation because my baby does not nap - period - While it entertains her and she likes it, it didn’t work for us for that purpose. I know, I know every baby is different but I don’t think any one motion is soothing enough for them to doze off. -Don’t invest in one swaddle type. Get one of each to see what your baby responds to. We found out the hard way 🥲 Lastly and most importantly, enjoy your baby! While most of these are nice to have, they really truly don’t need much ❤️

[@Alissaxboyle]

I received the bottle sampler and pacifier sampler too! I didn’t want to buy multiples of one brand either

[@tpjyo]

Totally agree with getting different swaddles! My daughter didn't really like the velcro ones, so I ended up buying one of the swaddle up ones and she slept amazing in those!

[@dilaral9788]

@@tpjyo Same with us!

[@maxineirvin-guzman4143]

Thank you so much for recommending the multi pack. We’re gonna invest in that before anything else!!

[@animefreakkitty021]

For basically all the reasons you listed, I'm buying most of my stuff from consignment stores or just second hand in general. The only thing I know I'm buying new is the carseat. I know both my husband's family and my family are going to get all kinds of clothes and knick knacks, so I didn't put a lot of clothes or toys on my registry. It has been saving an insane amount of money. I figured even if I ended up not using an outfit or an item a lot, at least I got it for cheap and just give them away to a momma that needs it down the road.

[@JessicaAskey]

I’m 17w pregnant and just got my Mockingbird stroller because I know we want two babies. I highly recommend it so far, which basically just means that it folds really easily, rides super smoothly, and feels solid. I also love that I can use their bassinet with the stroller to reduce the risk of SIDS. I’m very excited.

[@rochelesajdak]

The uppababy will not disappoint! My son is almost 3.5 and our Cruz has never had a single problem, is super quick to fold down, and has been amazing. We still use it OFTEN-the $ is worth it in the end!

[@shelbyc725]

We have also loved our UPPAbaby so far!

[@JenniPowers]

I’m a senior in college and babies are definitely not on my mind, but you’re videos are so calming and chill that I couldn’t resist and I am now watching 🤣🤣

[@girliegirlbuffy6139]

I am a new mom. I have a 5 month baby girl and I said I wouldn’t buy “everything.” But looking back, I feel like I bought almost everything. 🤣 My baby loves the snoo. For us, it has been worth it.

[@sophiab.7375]

Just found out we're expecting our first after trying for 4 years, these videos help so much, thank you!

[@7gozman]

Jessica, please read this comment. The uppababy has something called vista with wheels that you attach to the stroller so that the bigger one can stay on the board while you push the stroller. This is what we used with our bigger one. She loves it!

[@kesamber]

I totally agree about wishing I had known more about the 4th trimester! That was honestly the hardest part of being a mom for me (especially the breastfeeding part). I am reading Cribsheet now because of your recommendation! Loving it.

[@robinnieto2703]

Not new, not pregnant, empty-nester, Nana o 5 boys and 1 girl…….just a subscriber since the very beginning of your channel and I watch everything you post. You look beautiful and definitely have the pregnancy glow.

[@brianahager2666]

OMG I need this in my life! Pregnant with my first baby so this will be REALLY helpful - thanks Jess! Hope you are feeling well!

[@dawndanelle3488]

Congratulations mama!!! 💗🤰🏼🎉 there's nothing like your very first pregnancy/baby.. the most special and memorable experience in your entire life!!! How far along are you/ when are you due??! I'm 19 weeks with baby#3!!

[@jackieinartime4598]

Me too! 18 weeks with my first! I clicked SO fast 😂

[@danidavis3716]

My baby’s 23 and I found the wipe warmer was the best!! I didn’t have one with my older two & really wasn’t sure if I’d benefit from it. It was a game changer for her little bottom. Obviously you’re not going to use it forever or take it when you’re away from home but the middle of the night changes in the first few months was wonderful. Less crying & tears, from the baby too. Another idea is to get one of the small beauty refrigerators. It may sound silly but sleep is a hot commodity when they’re young. Whatever you can do to shorten the time you’re awake, the best for the entire family. It never failed when you think you’re done, you put everything away in the kitchen, slide into bed as quietly as possible, something will happen. It’s also a place to keep prepared bottles with the bottle warmer. Always stick with whatever saves time & energy. I laughed about lugging the baby in when you take Genevieve into preschool. My older two are 11 1/2 months old. They were both in preschool, on opposite days, when I had my youngest. I had to drag all three in five times a week. One went four days & the other went two days. I can’t believe how much we do when our kids are young!! I get tired now just thinking about it!!

[@susanfrenette3400]

My daughter had a supply problem also. Here is the Lactation Cookie recipe she found that I made for her since it helped! Lactation Cookies Yield: 34 cookies 2 Tbsp Flaxseed meal 1/4 cup water 2 cups Whole Wheat Flour 1/4 cup Brewer’s Yeast ( for milk production) 1 tsp Salt 1 tsp Baking Soda 9 Fenugreek capsules (empty capsules & discard) 1/2 cup Butter, softened 1/2 cup Coconut oil, softened 3/4 cup Sugar 3/4 cup Brown sugar 2 Large Eggs 1 tsp Vanilla Extract 3 cups Large Oats 1 cup Semi-Sweet Chocolate Chips Preheat oven to 375 F Mix Flaxseed meal and water; set aside. Stir together the flour, brewers yeast, salt, baking soda and Fenugreek, set aside. Blend butter, coconut oil and both sugars well. Blend in eggs. Stir in flaxseed mixture and vanilla, mix well. Add dry mixture, mix until just combined. Stir in oats and chocolate chips. Scoop 2 Tbsp of dough, and place 1 to 2 inches apart on a silicone or parchment paper lined baking sheet. Bake for 9 to 10 minutes,until the dough is matte on top. Once cooled, individually wrap cookies in plastic wrap and place them in a container in the freezer. Eat two cookies the first day and one cookie each day afterwards. Just unwrap and nuke it in the microwave for 30 seconds, Enjoy! P.S. we did not use that last bit of the recipe, I just placed the cookies in a container that my daughter keep in the fridge. No waste of all that plastic wrap and no nuking. 😉

[@DianeJackson-k2p]

Pregnant with my first baby; thank you so much for creating this content, very helpful. And thanks to everyone in the comment community as well! I’m much more at ease and prepared to create my registry now

[@BabybelAndMummy]

Mine definitely only wore about 2 outfits in the first 3 months, she lived in sleepsuits! My theory is that when I’m just chilling at home, I want to be doing it in my onesie, not a fancy outfit 💖

[@katieg5865]

One of my best purchases for baby for formula feeding (if you end up going that route) is the baby breeza water warmer! Not the formula mixer, but just the $45 water warmer. Man it’s lovely. No heating bottles. Press a button, warm water, dump in formula and shake! So easy!

[@debbyd5729]

I’m 41, not a mom, never been pregnant but I love these kinds of videos for some reason! Also love supporting Jessica! 💛 I’m curious why a lot of these products are purchased prior to having the baby if they often depend on baby preference (types of bottles, enjoyment of swing, etc.). I legit feel like I should open a baby gear rental store so that new parents can rent these types of items to try them out and see what they need/like prior to purchasing them. I bet it would save new parents a ton of money!

[@em84c]

Same and don't know why I'm watching this video! I guess I just love videos about good and bad purchases even if they are products I would never need to buy.

[@cobblecattt]

Yes! It's insane the amount of consumerism in baby-rearing. So much of it either isn't needed or used and hardly used. Makes so much sense to have baby gear rental.

[@Mama_eats]

Building my registry now, I know for us a big part is having something on hand since we are first time parents. We have a bottle option, a pacifier option, etc. We have no idea if we will use them, how, or to what extent, and I expect baby to not accept everything we got, but if we are ready to introduce a pacifier I’ve got one I know is safe and a good starting point. I know I’ll be sleep deprived and exhausted and mind numb, I’m not going to research what kind of pacifier to try first then, I’m just going to buy 20 and shove them at baby at that point 😅

[@brittslater8110]

Honestly that’s such a great idea. I just had baby #2 (14 years apart) and there’s so many things that I wish I could try first. I found a diaper sample service but you can’t do a crib, pacifier etc sample service

[@shundiinsorensen7631]

My baby is about to be 5 months! I’m a first time mom and have learned a lot, so far I think simple is better. People wanted to get us a wipe warmer and bottle warmer but I didn’t want either and we’ve been just fine without it. Love zipper sleepers, hate buttons lol. And I’ve found out the same thing about cute outfits, now we mainly buy comfy onesies bc it’s more realistic. Also, I know everyone says it but ENJOY THE NEWBORN TIME!! THEY GROW SO FAST! 😭💕 I wish I could hold my tiny baby again but he’s a big boy and wears clothes 2x his age now

[@Na.itlitzabete]

The cloud island onesies are such good value - they fun true to size and have the fold over cuffs AND a two way zipper which is huge at the price point (3/$12)

[@megn.7964]

I love the cloud island onesies! We were gifted some and for next baby we are buying only those ones!!! They were the most convenient, softest, and in my opinion cutest ones.

[@sauerfamily]

Cloud Island is everything. I freaking love those 3 packs and baby Ozzy isn’t here yet!

[@natalieitliongfechter6073]

💯 agree. My go to brand and their bit stretchy which is nice longer lasting compared other brands.

[@audilia1]

Skip the wipe warmer, it dries the wipes out. Spring for the baby brew bottle warmer. It's rechargeable and fits perfectly in the diaper bag to warm bottles on the go.

[@jocobrat]

I'm an older mama, my one tip I'd love to share is don't get a stinking diaper genie, diaper trash thing unless you live somewhere plastic grocery store bags aren't available. I used grocery store bags for each diaper. They were free, we took trash out a lot & never had that stinky diaper smell hanging out in the nursery. Just a little tip. Also, my girls had to have the wipe warmer😊

[@annsmith7196]

I love the diaper genie! We have one for upstairs and downstairs. Highly recommend them.

[@sillygoose222]

I’m pregnant with my first child & watching this has brought me soo much comfort, thank you so much for this video !!! :)

[@twiztidsushi]

Congrats!! 🎉🎉🎉 I hope it all went well for you! ❤ I am just 8 weeks along right now and prepping! 🎉😊

[@kirs10cogan76]

Wayyyyy past having babies (mine are 11, 8.5, and 7) but I will always watch your videos start to finish! You are the light of my lonngggg day after teaching kindergartners!

[@elisaanderson1564]

One suggestion for you.. Bluesnail waterproof changing pad liners. Lay on top of the changing pad and change out when they are soiled. Used Munchkin with my first and these with my second. So much better. I also used for the mattress pad protector in the bassinet. Trust me, these are great!

[@ramonagarciabryant9051]

Or ur watching cuz ur gonna b a grandma and want to know what new moms want, so thank u for ur video and ur help

[@jenniferferrara6315]

I think you did a great job on this video and loved how honest you are about what did and didn’t work and how much money can be spent in first babies based on brand names and what everyone else says works! I have 3 children and my first and second are 7 years apart so I ended up buying brand new all over again, but was able to use almost everything over again for the second to third child due to only being 2 years apart! It is so hard to determine how much stuff when it’s ur first cuz of course y want to try everything as well…… another great thing is when u and ur siblings are having babies around same time within a few years you can swap out on the newborn things like swings, bassinets, etc….. my sister and I did this and we only bought 1 swing, 1 bassinet, etc.. between 4 children!!

[@kimberlywilles8343]

A double stroller is awesome my oldest sat in ours until she was 6. My two youngest still use it. We got the Evenflo Pivot Xplore, it’s a all terrain wagon stroller.

[@tabithak5943]

I commented on the vlog when you bought the plastic hamper but I have to say it again. I feel that strongly about this lol Get a smaller laundry basket. Use it as their hamper. When it’s full, use it to throw clothes into the wash, dryer, boom back into the basket. Fold put away and then basket goes back into the closet as the hamper. Best thing I ever did for our little Harper!

[@tabithak5943]

Ok not the best thing but you know what I mean 🤣🤣🤣

[@emilycolleluori1938]

It’s always interesting to see what moms think they need or the things they want. I was so minimalist with baby stuff that I never even heard of half this stuff !

[@analinarosie9293]

True so true

[@bibsbeezASMR]

Really? Must be nice😅I’m trying to get less stuff as much as possible fil how I’m doing. If you don’t mind can you tell me what kind of things were you originally planning to get with out all the excess things😆

[@emilycolleluori1938]

@@bibsbeezASMR I just got basic stuff. Basic swing, changing table , bassinet. If I needed something after the baby came I would get it then. I love second hand baby stuff so I would get a lot second hand.

[@bibsbeezASMR]

@@emilycolleluori1938 make sense, thank you😙

[@genevawhite6954]

I’m think they need or the things they want baby stuff for Nevi I’m need own stroller to keep for going it’s fine Nevi s other house I’m used toys for Ashley her or buying toys she likes and keep them other house

[@annecopps9505]

I don't have babies and it's too late now, but I'll watch anything you post. Your voice and personality calm me.

[@estercypriano7820]

I’m 12 weeks pregnant and every pregnancy/baby video you post, I feel like you’re my best friend telling me all the stuff I need to know! Im the first of my friends to be pregnant so im like “wth I need to do?” Ahahahha and you’ve been big help!

[@drx6139]

With my first pregnancy, I remember putting so much emphasis on my son’s closet and his enormous wardrobe. His closet was stocked up with so much clothes. Well, the only thing my son wore was onsies or sleepers, and I barely took him out enough to wear all the cutesy little stuff he had in that closet. So that was waste. I’m pregnant with my second and now I know better!

[@hillarygmclean]

I loved my Halo! Our bed is so high and the function to raise it was key for us. I tore pretty badly and I loved the swivel option and the side coming down. I didn’t want my baby to get used to a swinging/movement and having the wean them off of it. I will say my baby was only in it for 2 months, since she is so long haha.

[@AG-is8rk]

Yup I loved the halo and the momaroo

[@JakCole]

I had the Snoo because we were desperate and it didn't do wonders the way so many talk about but I did like that our colicky baby was totally safe when we needed to step out of the room to take a breather. Also I think starting them in it right off the bat is key. We didn't. Also the weening them off it is definitely a thing. I'm pregnant again and have been loaned a Halo. Really hope it's functional for us. Glad to see this review on it. Every baby is different so we'll see!

[@nakitacally4612]

You've got a new subscriber. Thank you for sharing in detail! I'm 24 weeks pregnant with my first.

[@peyton-]

I'm only 1 month into motherhood, but the zippered "Joey" gowns from MK&Co are an absolute game-changer for nighttime diaper changes. Not only do you have the ease of a zipper, but you don't have to fight to get squirmy baby legs into individual leg holes. And they're SO soft!

[@maki90]

The “squirmy baby legs” comment made me smile… Not sure why, but the wording just made my heart happy 😅

[@aliciah.7409]

31 weeks now with baby #3. We gave away all our stuff after baby #2 thinking we were done so I needed a refresher on what I really used/need. Thanks for the video!

[@michelledr111]

IDK why but when you said “drip drop” it reminded me of the Surface Tension lyrics: “It's pressure like a drip, drip, drip, that'll never stop, whoa!” 🤣 These are all such great product recommendations but I didn’t realize how $$$ everything is now! My kid is 19 & the most expensive thing he had was a stroller-car seat system that we barely used. I used my umbrella stroller with a neck pillow ALL THE TIME because it was so compact & light.

[@marting6015]

mamaroo was worth it for our baby. He at least spends an hour on it everyday and he is 6 months old. Consistency is the key. Also, the bassinet is very important because your child will let you know what he/she prefers. We also have the doona and I personally do not like it. It is too heavy and my wife would not be able to use it without me. We are about to get rid of it. For the white noise machine, we have a google nest and we just use that and it works wonders. No need to spend extra money. I would definitely look into swaddles without it, we would have gone crazy. regardless of what you purchase, it will still be tough. Stick to a schedule if you can, even when you feel it is not working. Trust me they will learn.

[@melissajackson8632]

I’m a mom of 5 and my daughter is 18 weeks pregnant (young, single mom) and I’m amazed at how expensive baby items are now! I’m still enjoying watching but would love recommendations from others for the “must haves” that aren’t too expensive. We will be buying used or borrow where we can!

[@christink.5264]

Once upon a child has an amazing selection of gently used items. You really just need clothes, diapers and a bassinet. I’m pregnant with my 4th and I’m a minimalist. I baby wear a lot more than I use a stroller so I didn’t spend much on a stroller. Babies don’t need much.

[@hannahkayee831]

@@christink.5264 completely agree. If I ever had a second child I wouldn't buy much lol

[@berkleycongdon5326]

It’s fun to watch these and all but I agree with buying used where you can - also all this stuff is cool but honestly a lot of it is so excessive. I mostly only remember using a crib, stroller, car seat and diapers! Insurance paid for my breast pump, that’s something to check as well!

[@rawsteph4114]

I have a 6-month old and the two best investments we made were renting the Snoo and buying the Doona. Almost every morning when I drop off baby at daycare I have another parent say they wish they got it. Our biggest mistake was buying numerous varieties of bottles and pacifiers and only ended up using one kind of each.

[@hollercrombie377]

The Halo bassinets was incredibly useful for me after a c section! It’s harder to get out of bed and also pick up the baby so the swivel on it was so convenient.

[@Abcdefghijajajaja]

I bet

[@ruthndenecho7828]

It’s the best, remember she didn’t use it not because it was not working or it was bad but because she didn’t need a lot of the features meaning it’s a great basinet. 100%

[@Codename_Dino]

I followed you initially because I was pregnant with my first (she’s now 3) and needed ideas of what to buy and pack in my hospital bag! And now I’m pregnant with my second one too!

[@abaker3721]

We literally put our wipes by the heat vent lol. We bought a really nice packnplay to use for the baby to sleep in our room. It works sooo well at night for changing too bc it has the little changing spot at the one side on top And a canopy that comes over half the top so if you want to keep the lights on before you go to bed it doesn’t bother the baby!!!! Then once baby moves into an actual bed you can still use it to travel with bc it packs up easily!!!!!

[@roz0971]

Which one did you go with? We are thinking of doing this!

[@kristensanchez5267]

I’m a little behind. I’m just now watching this video. When you were talking about being torn on getting a bottle warmer and a wipe warmer. I had a bottle warmer and never used it because we had the Baby’s Brew travel bottle warmer. It is AMAZING! You can use it for water for formula or breast milk! So no matter if you breastfeed or not you will be able to use it! You can travel with it and it keeps your milk or water at whatever temperature you choose until you use it. Seriously incredible!!

[@lisalilu5275]

Regarding the Duna and the option to attach car seats to your stroller frames-I think its important to remember the recommended time limits for babies under 5 month ( before they can hold their necks by themselves). The maximum is 2 hours a day and every 45mins-1hour to remove the baby from the seat to check they don't have any obstructions from throwing up. If the baby has been in a seat for lets say 2 hours its possible that all of that can be stuck in the airways blocking oxygen. Thats probably why babies sleep a lot in car seats- due to lack of oxygen! Also, See information on SIDS

[@jennifersanchez6166]

Thank you for all that info… didn’t quite understand and you explained it so well ❤

[@lisalilu5275]

@@jennifersanchez6166 you are very welcome dear 😘

[@snoopy_90s]

I have the doona and it has hands down been the best thing on the planet. We have taken it on planes, restaurants, the beach, and parks. I use it everyday all day. It is awesome. I am going to be so sad when she outgrows it. Also you really don't need 2 bases. The base is super easy to switch cars so we just move it when we need to. You can also use it with no base with the car seatbelt which was great when we were traveling ,we didnt need to bring the base. Some people complain it is heavy but youre not really carrying it around too long. usually a few seconds while you unload and load them into the car.

[@marcellamarie8400]

LOVE how honest and intentional you are!

[@SlashCurtsey]

I’m thankful we never used a bottle warmer. He takes any temp bottle and we don’t have to worry about heating anything when we’re out and about or travelling!

[@emily_smith888]

Definitely not thinking about babies anytime soon but Jessica you are just so entertaining and fun to watch! This videos feels like we are on FaceTime together I love it!

[@tanyagregorian1077]

For all three of my formula fed babies, I never used a bottle warmer. Just have a thermos of hot water available 24/7 and add an ounce of hot water to the regular temp water then mix in formula. Done. Less clutter, cheaper, eco friendly.