The reason you’re so socially awkward (and how to fix it)

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[@JOe-ft7tj]

You absolutely nailed it with this topic. when I was in high school, I cared so much about what others thought of me, and once I graduated, I realized that it was a complete waste of energy. I didn't see about 99% of those people ever again but I wasted so much energy worrying what they thought. Keep up the good work brother, a lot of young men and teens need your advice.

[@JakPiggott]

Thank you for your words bro, I’m still in high school and I’m not going to lie I tend to care about what people think of me more than I should. And I know that, but I know it’s not going to be that deep when it’s all done and dusted ❤️

[@thr3e0709]

God Bless.

[@syncopl]

I have extreme social anxiety, this was from right up to when i was 6-7. It gets so bad sometimes i cry in anxiety emotion. When people look at me they think i am the extrovert the big mouth the good looking. But really thats no the case at all @@JakPiggott

[@NATHE0]

I’m in fifth grade currently(year 6 if converted to UK levels) and I’m happy I’m able to hear this video way earlier before I’m in high school 😊

[@JesseMate]

Im in high school currently and dude, I know i shouldnt care. but i do

[@acqua3869]

Really needed to hear this man I suffer from social anxiety and fear of rejection so much that it has impacted me so much

[@JakPiggott]

Much love brother, I wish you the best on your journey ❤️

[@mt5276]

yea brother just be as you are dont change yourself to fit in a gruop be who r u are and let others like/reject you whatever they do just dont care ngl

[@RyanG2004]

You’re all good man you have people that love you and those are the people you should stick around. If someone doesn’t like you then dont be around them. Keep in mind that some people are gonna hate you no matter what and there’s absolutely nothing you can do to change that so be 100% yourself and you will attract the people that love you and care for you.

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

Same :)

[@Minikong4960]

Damn, "be the person you want your best friend to be" I think thats awesome advice. I've been struggling with this alot lately, it's my graduation year and I still don't feel like I have any footing socially

[@northenlightsss]

Dude!!! That's literally me rn 😭

[@saiwashere9719]

What's really crazy is that I'm actually struggling to vibe in with my friends and I found this video randomly! Such a coincidence, and it helps out a lot!

[@ConorSmith15]

Being a self improvement KZbinr myself I relate to this a lot. When I first started I was so anxious and didn't want anyone to know. Overcoming that fear has helped me so much. Keep up the good videos bro

[@JakPiggott]

Much respect my brother, you’re 100% right. Best of luck on your KZbin journey ❤️

[@ConorSmith15]

@@JakPiggott Means a lot bro. Keep killing it too. Your growth the past year has been fucking crazy

[@Grif_17]

@@ConorSmith15dawg i know someone who’s name is Connor Smith lmao btw keep the good shit up

[@laserbeam444maddness7]

Keep going man. I’m going to start a new channel myself very soon. Perhaps we can learn something from each other

[@ConorSmith15]

@@laserbeam444maddness7 Get that channel started bro. Believe me you won't regret it

[@mrslime4804]

I've been so nervous in school I was autistic, I thought that because I never spoke to anyone, and my face going red was a shitty thing. Anytime I get called on in class or speak up I turn into a nervous wreck. To see this video makes me so glad. I was ignored and told to shut up whenever I spoke to anyone by two bullies, and gave up making conversation. I would stay awake till 3 in the morning watching shorts, knowing that there was something better but never doing it. Everything about like just sucked. I'm doing only slightly better now, I still go red speaking to people most times. But glad it isn't at all what I thought it was. Thank you.

[@yawrrrrrr]

Just remember , everyone got their own worries, they dont got time to think about others. Even if you do something embaressing trust me they wont remember the next second, telling from experience cus thats what happens to me when someone does smth weird infront of me. Keep getting better bro im proud of ur progress

[@mrxn07]

“You Attracted who you are” this was Amazing, Thank You!

[@JakPiggott]

100% bro, much love ❤️❤️

[@ryanmoore3542]

Thanks jak. With your help and gods I have defeated my hub addiction and I am losing weight and building muscle by the way I lost 20 kg in 4 months. I don't know how but I did but I did all this so I can go on a date with a girl from my church. Thanks man

[@somerandomguy4943]

Nice, and God is with a capital btw👍

[@LeviStettler53]

W improvement! Workin on it myself :)

[@ryanmoore3542]

@@somerandomguy4943 I know sorry

[@tm_yt496]

W

[@JakPiggott]

You should be immensely proud of yourself bro, don’t give me all the credit though, give yourself the most, you’re the one who took the action ❤️

[@AlbaCerva]

I weirdly stopped caring about what other people might think about me.

[@JakPiggott]

That’s good bro, it feels like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders ❤

[@spoon115_]

So relatable man. All that isolation during the lockdown made my brain go doomsday mode throughout high school. Been slowly regaining my identity since graduating though and your vids definitely speed up the process. Keep being awesome bro💪

[@JakPiggott]

Much love brother, 1% better everyday, keep it up 👊❤️

[@churps2498]

Just returned back to school and now i am just a follower or if i try to lead i just get under looked or turned down. But that kinda helps me actually focusing on school. Thanks Jak ❤

[@JakPiggott]

Yeah bro don’t stress to much over it. As long as you follow the steps in this video I’m sure you’ll be fine ❤️

[@watchout2OP4you]

Really needed this man, went to a new school in a new city and have been there for 6 months now and still haven't made any friends. Feels good to knos you're not alone in this

[@nivedithmanoj8186]

Same bro i miss my friends so much 😭

[@lucas_w8121]

Needed this. Going through a dark time where i feel im not good enough for the people around me and sometimes i wish I could just start over. I have social anxiety and i feel i have no true friends and the only person i trust is my loving gf. Thanks for helping me through these teenage years (im 14 btw)❤

[@nvtqse]

i may not be your targeted audience because im woman but you have still helped me and thats all that matters. i feel like i dont fit in at school and im on journey to find myself so then i can be the bestfriend that i want. i see my friends starting to drift away and i question myself "who do i call my friends?". anyways im trying to not chase after others and i did end up making a friend this year because of classes and that just feels much better after "losing" these other friends that i didnt even really have a connection to.

[@JakPiggott]

It makes me so happy to hear that, my videos are intended for young men but anyone can take the lessons from my videos and I’m so glad you have. You should be proud of yourself for being on this path, it’s one of a kind ❤️

[@EmilioMetralleta]

I am 25 and I spent most of my elementary and middle school time hiding my real self and trying to be someone else to fit in, I can assure you guys it ain't worth it. All those people don't care and they will forget you even exist at the end of the day, nowadays I am filled with regret and lost myself in the way, I forgot who I really was and it drains my soul to this day, I spent years just wandering around like a droid in autopilot mode because I was so lost and that lead to even more bad decision making that ruined my life and made me feel even more regret in the end. PLEASE BE YOURSELVES, you are better off alone than being surrounded by fake or temporary friends. Don't make the same mistake I did.

[@KnowNoName3]

Nice comment man

[@KnowNoName3]

Nice comment man

[@cameronj6161]

“The universe rewards you with what you are and what you want.” That one cut deep. You’re awesome Jak! Keep doing what you’re doing bro! Much love from Canada! 🤘🇨🇦

[@ethxcli112]

Jak thank you for this video, I’m in year 8 and I have the exact same problem. I try to fit in so hard and everyone thinks I’m annoying, and I worry so much about what people think. Keep up these videos because this is exactly what I need.

[@JakPiggott]

I hope this video can help bro, much love ❤️

[@_sukurima_]

When you learn how to make friends it comes the time to understand who are the true ones..

[@JakPiggott]

100% bro, couldn’t have said it any better 🤝

[@andrewpet44]

This is probably the most helpful video I've ever watched on KZbin. I'm in Grade 9 and barely have any friends to talk to, but this video told me to just be myself and I will. And I hope to get more friends in the future Thanks brother ❤️

[@JakPiggott]

You don’t know how happy it makes me to hear that bro, I wish you the best on your journey ❤️

[@Googleguy863]

I know one thing for certain, out of the seventy people in your year, you are the wisest and most amazing person.

[@NxtChrXs727]

Thank you so much Jak... I am touched. Whenever I tried to fit in with my friends like saying dirty jokes I didn't even understand, or share some sort of anecdote with them, it feels weird and I end up embarrassing myself all the time. I've always been worried about what every one thinks of me - the way I look, the way I converse, and the things I'm interested in like boxing or physics or jazz for example. I feel so scared to talk to people because I fear rejection, and because of that, school sucks even more than it used to and that irrational feeling doesn't enable me to engage with new people. I've always had social anxiety, and I'm also socially awkward too, and I don't like it. But this video revealed something to me. I've always wanted friends, in fact, I wanted millions of friends. But I realise, some people just aren't for me, and I'm not really for them either. This video has motivated me to explore within myself to find out who I am and feel good about myself, and I will find that person just like me! Thanks again, Jak. I've also been dealing with family problems, and school too. It's so much harder to achieve higher grades now in year 11. Please keep doing what you're doing, because whenever someone as caring as you reaches out to people like me, they'll feel like they'll have someone to go to when they're in need for a lesson in life and how they can manage themselves. If anything, someone as kind as you deserves the best friends who will benefit and guide you to the very end.

[@mr.regular589]

Awww 🥹

[@aaronmathis5016]

jak, i just wanna say you have changed my life so much. ive grown closer to god, and you have helped so amny people with there addictions its unbelievable. you need to keep doing what you doing man. you are one of the few people that wants to make change in what you see wrong with the world. and you earn a massive respect for it.

[@CarEnthusiastGermany]

hey Jak, you really saved my life, i was really on the ground, and then i saw you and now i am training, learning and a lot of other good stuff, Thanks! greetings from Switzerland Demian

[@Dutchie1899]

Thank you Jak. I'm on year 9 and struggling with fitting in at school. I hope I do have a brother in the future and I will put in the effort.

[@jetthesweat3863]

I don't know how Jak can make videos that we all can perfectly relate to. This is what i need because the exact same thing is happening to me, i'm becoming the quiet one. I Think a bunch of other people will also appreciate this video man, thank you for making it. Much love keep helping others ❤❤❤

[@JakPiggott]

Glad you found value brother, much love ❤️

[@bnwgaming5076]

Ty for this topic, I relate to your mindset so much. We as a generation rly need to support each other no matter what follow your passions and your dreams ❤🔥🫡 you don’t need to fit in it’s going to be ok

[@Pixel_LM99]

I almost cried from this video. Jak, you are the reason why I keep going through those tough times, and yes, I have a porn addiction. I want to live a normal life, and that's when I found you. Same thing as you, I had one of those moments in school (1:35). I was so fucking embarrassed. I became instantly socially awkward after my moment, and this video is the reason why my social anxiety is gone now. Thank you, Jak. Here's to more supporting stories like this one. ❤

[@remozian2673]

I'm literally in this exact situation right now... especially the turning red part lol. I've never really heard someone talk about worrying about worrying, this helps a lot💪 I really appreciate the video, thankyou

[@AaronDao]

Wow…this is it…finally someone’s story that I can relate to,and it’s no one unfamiliar but the chad himself whom I watch almost every time he uploads and has saved others’ and my life.

[@crichtonsaurus.]

Thank you so much man. I'm glad I can relate. I suffer from social anxiety, overthinking, low-self esteem. We need more videos man I love the content. You're an inspiration. Can you answer a question for me? I don't know what to do and need advice. My parents consistently belittle me and I have a low-self esteem because of it. What should I do? They force me to do things that I don't want to do.

[@maxfb09]

i needed to hear this. I’m going through the exact same thing, and you have really changed my perspective. thanks bro ❤

[@JakPiggott]

Glad you found value in the video bro 🫶

[@wakancarmc-studysmart4887]

Bro im going through the same just following the 'cool kids' and trying to be one myself. But they just ignore me and talk about stuff that i have no knowledge about, and often im left alone. Thank you so much for this vid, ill be my best self and i hope ill have the friend who can 'take a bullet for me' in my last few years of high school 🙂

[@ewqwewwqqew9175]

Same brother gl! We got this

[@Apricity__Here]

Jak, tbh I needed this video, I could never socialize and I was always awkward and could never communicate to the older seniors and juniors, I thank you so much for this vid brother.

[@NeelPrakash2008]

This literally applies to me so much! Thanks so much Jak! U really are improving people’s lives!

[@chucknorris459]

Extremely relatable, i'm on break right now and this has gotten my hopes up high, Thanks Jak

[@JakPiggott]

Glad you found value Mr Norris ❤️

[@Frfr680]

I've never raised my hand in this school year excluding when my teachers picked on me, but this video helped me do it for the first time this year.

[@Frfr680]

@Jakpiggott91 im sorry man im still 13 and my parents have this restriction on my phone so I can't download telegram is gmail ok?

[@timspiano5054]

I know I am late but thanks so much for this video. I can definitely relate and I know what I must do now. Thank you 😊

[@Spyral53478]

How the hell could you explain my life right now in the first minute

[@RyanG2004]

Because its a lot of peoples lives and he’s so relatable. Everybody that watched through this video had or has the same problem that he had and wants to fix it.

[@bobermoment]

It’s wild to me how deeply advice that we’ve already heard before can hit so much harder when there’s the right person telling it to you

[@JakPiggott]

You’re right bro, most of my videos are common sense, but it’s common sense that’s overlooked, but it’s exactly what this world needs, much love ❤️❤️

[@nandhini1912]

You are actually an amazing human! It feels so good to listen to someone of nearly the same age. I completed high school a month ago and the last two years have been so hard. I had a new set of students in my class and it was really hard to bond. I couldn't make friends until the last few months of school. Ironically, it wasn't that bad. I could have had more happy memories and better mental health if I went out and talked to my classmates. They on the other hand assumed I was a weird nerd coz I did hang out a lot with a toxic classmate, lol. It's just a small talk, a few minutes, to feel like you're not alone. Trust me one guy said on the graduation day, that he didn't know I was so sweet and fun, else he would have definitely talked to me. He did invite me for a parting get together which was so much fun... I was jealous, angry, anxious and ruined thinking about how others had super good times with people, and I just thought about people judging me and lived a fake life, which hurts so bad cuz I have this thought stuck in my mind: I didn't spend my childhood well. Thinking back, people did try including me in everything, but I didn't open my damn mouth and stayed invisible most of the time. I wasn't socially awkward before, but the COVID, introspection, loneliness completely ruined me. On the other hand I found out I had both types of ADHD. I was hard on myself and though I introspected, it never really helped me. But now fortunately I'm clear and people like you just guide me to the right path when I'm confused. I feel I'm still finding what my real identity is. Keep learning and smiling and helping others out in their lives! Thank you dude!

[@CookieDerKek]

I swear to god, you're saving my mental health since I found you... 🙏

[@diptanudebnath8555]

Not going to lie brother. Your channel came as a blessing in my life the way you portray your thoughts and the way you explain - I can relate to it , every single one of it .. Thank you and love u 🔝🛐💜💯

[@JakPiggott]

You just put a big smile on my face with your words bro, I’m so glad that my videos effect you this way, much love 🫶

[@diptanudebnath8555]

🫶🏻💯

[@hank780]

I am so glad I found your channel today. Never stop, man. Cheers from Hungary

[@chrispbacon7091]

How? I joined a new school, and this is the exact thought that came in my mind, the exact topic of this video. Brother you are super relatable, and when I get any of these negative thoughts, one of your vids pop up covering the exact same issue. It feels as if I have an older brother guiding me, and it feels nice. Keep up the good work bro

[@PeytonCorn]

Thank you for this video, it really helped. I used to be just a little shy around people but then it turned into social anxiety. I started overthinking and caring so much about what other people thought of me so bad that my mind would just go blank when the attention was on me. I think this started happening early middle school whenever I’d say something awkward or inappropriate in a conversation and people would make fun of me. It got worse and worse until high school where I can’t even think half the time throughout the day, affecting how productive I am giving me more homework. I think the reason our mind goes blank is because that’s our brain trying to “protect” us from doing something stupid. We over stress those situations so much that our brain develops a defensive response to just tense up and lose your ability to think until you feel somewhat comfortable with your surroundings.

[@extrrda]

ever since ive taken cold showers i never social anxiety no more

[@legendaryiguess]

Jak, you have easily one of the best KZbin channels I’ve ever come across. Trust me bro you’re gonna go far ❤

[@JakPiggott]

I do not take that for granted bro, thank you ❤

[@athuldibu9044]

Jak is the most positive person I've seen on social media

[@stefaniegoerlach]

"worrying about worrying does not matter" maybe the best quote you made👍🏻❤

[@scoutgaming1822]

I’ve always been a very two-faced person, right? Don’t really know when it started, but I just adapted a mindset that I could maybe just be hated by no one, if I become a different personality each time, meaning that no one would bully me, so I could just feel better about myself. To be honest with you, that was a huge mistake, and I’m so used to doing that, that now I barely even know who I am as a person. I’ve slowly gotten better at trying to be what I think “myself” is.

[@ImZhald]

im literally in this position right now. I really needed to hear this

[@JakPiggott]

Hope this video helps bro 🤝❤️

[@Blade_Editz929]

Same bro

[@White_winter3]

I'm 15 my friends started to fade away to be with the cool guys, the one hanging out with the baddies type of thing. But the way they act now is different and I look at it disgusted every time they just don't have respect for people anymore and don't share my values all they think about is themselves and if they look cool in front of others. Luckily i have good affinities outside of school, people I respect and people that respects me, and for now i'm trying to be the best version of myself and listen to myself, I'm still friend with people in school you know but like you said they aren't my true brothers, those one are outside school, my true friends. Thanks for the video, I'm happy to see I'm not alone for this.

[@soulblade3774]

This is honestly so relatable i keep telling myself that i have an idgaf attitude and im confident but in reality im really insecure thank you.

[@JakPiggott]

It’ll slowly fade bro, I felt in my life the more progress I made the less i cared about what others thought 👊❤️

[@jbj_play6643]

I'm currently 15, and ive recently started watching your videos. I'm not joking, but you've changed how i've viewed the world. From p*** adiction to life lessons, it's changed the gears in my head its insane (In a good way). Truly thank you Jak, for guiding me on a better path of life.

[@iamthenight2024]

I also recommend you Hamza Ahmed

[@jbj_play6643]

i used to watch him abt 2 yrs ago@@iamthenight2024

[@Ka3hh]

Please keep making videos bro , they are very inspiring and helpful ❤️❤️🙏🏽 appreciate you brother

[@NorthSideCrape420]

You should make a video about things you can do instead of just sitting around. Keep the great work up!

[@WafflesAreBetterThanPancakes73]

I realised near the start of this year I had the same problem last year. I kept trying to fit in tooo hard it got really bad. Some kid called me a d rider and after that, I knew I had to do something abt this. So, this year, I decided to do my own thing and just be me . I’m glad that you and everyone else in these comments can relate to me. Tysm from the bottom of my heart dude

[@JakPiggott]

I’m sure you made the right decision bro, and I’m sure you’ve grown so much because of that decision. If you haven’t found that one person you can relate to yet, they’ll come, just gotta stay patient and keep putting in the work ❤️

[@SirTerenceTheThird]

You're a real one for that 🗣💯

[@PARTHO20-199]

This was so helpful. You don't know how many lives you are changing!

[@Donut-sw3zd]

love your content man. keep changing young people's lives 🫡

[@SomeDudeWithACamera123]

a best friend is a brother from different mother🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥

[@ItsEkap]

Awesome video, so true ❤ Jak your the best man

[@work8078]

0:31 especially when i know that people are staring at me but they just won't stop. been like that since i've been bullied in school (3-4 grade) 3:54 that's the struggle.. i am being myself but i'm also not.. i don't know if i am myself or not.. i always stutter when people talk to me and forget everything in my mind, always overthink, and that all started at 4-5th grade where my head hurt every single freaking day i couldn't take it anymore. i have diarrhea almost every day at school because of the stress of just not knowing where to go, not having anyone to talk to, being scared to ask for something and everyone calls me weird infront of everyone and when i'm sitting somewhere in the corner everyone's like "yo guys theres this weird quiet guy in that corner over there" like can't they just leave me the fuck alone and work on their shit they gotta do? work isn't just gonna do itself. i've been diagnosed with autism and possibly ADHD and anxiety too but that's not clear so i don't think there's another "me".. it's just who i am can anyone help somehow? i think about every single point in this video, i know he's right but i knew what he's gonna say before watching the video already so nothing helps. what do i do? since i moved out and changed schools where i was going to for 2 years everything was just fucked. i had many friends, was a nice and really smart, creative, funny, open, interested/interesting and unjudgeful person was the most popular kid in my entire school and everybody liked me. in kindergarten we we're seperated, 1 group upstairs 1 downstairs. we always argued for no reason between each other because they got treated better than us (which is pretty funny to me now) but when we actually got to know each other we we're really chill with each other and had many things the same so we became friends very quickly.. and my sister was the most popular girl in school so that's pretty funny altough she says she was kind of an "asshole" back then to people but they didn't know any better which i can understand but i was nice and i know that. at times abused my power but not really in a mean way, i was just the center of attention and could decide what we do (my class) in creative ways, not just "we're gonna play this and if you don't want to, cry about it" never did that luckily. now, 4 years later we and some of the other kids in my first school (1-2 grade) met again and i realised just how different i am and how badly they treated me.. no greeting or suprise of seeing each other again after so long and they instantly thought i'm weird and made fun of me constantly for who i am, what i do and what interests me. "you shouldn't care what they think" i'm very sensitive so i can't just ignore someone and pretend they don't exist. if something sad, meaningful or embarassing happens i'm gonna think about it for a while. from best friends to completly different people acting like we've never met. introverted introvert who seems emotionless to others sitting in a weird way and a extroverted, open minded, judgeful and emotionally immature person who doesn't think about what others think or feel. basically going around empty minded. man just how can something change so much, so many memories even more from 1-2 grade than 3-7. i'm always like "don't worry about it just we're a happy and good person that's all that matters".. if i just wouldn't have moved out i just wouldn't be like this, everything'd be okay i would be happy and positive, open minded , wouldn't have constant depressive mood swings and smart, now i look like a fucking jerk. i've met my very best friend/s a while back and i could get along with them, they were a little different but they accepted me for it and didn't have a problem with me about it at all.. they always told me how one of my friends really misses me but we haven't had any way to contact each other which really makes me sad to hear man. wanna meet with them again but i'm extremely nervous and i don't really know what to expect.. what if i just run out of anything to say and it's gonna be awkward for hours? i remember at my old house we lived near the city in a circle of houses with 1 garage and another big one underground where we had SO much space to play anything from tag to hide and seek.. man it was so fun i loved being outside and spending time with my friends.. now i realise how much such a feeling is worth and feel bad for not really knowing that, but i was just 4-6 years old so what would i know? still that thought just chases after me for my entire life. many memories i'd be excited to tell people but i feel like no one values it as much or doesn't even care about it unlike me who's very emotional and likes thinking about old memories.. but i also don't as it kind of makes me depressed, more and more overtime. not sure how i'm gonna make anything as an adult i didn't write any of this sentimentally or to develop empathy from other people because of "acting" depressed, just my way of expressing myself and i like writing about my views of life and experiences especially thinking about all the memories in my head while writing even though no one's gonna see this anyway.

[@RudeX_07]

Wow I have thought about this all day long, feeling like I don’t fit in. Such great timing you posted this😂 Jokes aside, this video gave me a lot to think about. Thank you 🙏

[@Nathanie175]

Thank you G, finally found a bother/content creator who I can relate to thank you so much G, you really have been helping me out a lot, thank you again!!!!!!!

[@TypeShiChris]

Ngl I was shocked when I saw this video since it’s exactly what Im currently going through and This helped alot

[@LathanFitzpatrick]

Dude holy crap you have no idea how much I needed this thank you so much!

[@AdamFtScps]

Doing 10 squats every like

[@alfredberggren5985]

Are u sure bro? 😅 I did 500 squats yesterday in 21 min and 34 sec. I couldn’t walk so well for the whole night. But today it was alot better. But u gotta realise that this is good pain. So I wish u luck on those squats 👍🤝

[@AdamFtScps]

@@alfredberggren5985 thank you 😅 yeah, I can do these.

[@RyanG2004]

Ill do 10 likes for every squat

[@saifjassim6067]

@@AdamFtScps350 more

[@HuntsmanArt]

the beginning of this video really resonates with me. i've got 'friends' but only two or three actually real mates. I mean it's easy to be in a group, but its hard to actually be accepted or an actual part of the group. I've got a fresh start when i join the ADF next year, and i'm not going to put myself into that same situation again.

[@brnvfavgbvs]

Main point: stop ruining urself by trying to be someone ur not and tyring to fit in with ppl who dgaf abt you, and be urself

[@bil4630]

Holy shit i feel this way almost exactly im 16 a junior and i do this shit dude wtf you are unironically describing my life i cannot stress how accurate this is its scary

[@Cumshot-millionare]

Yo this was my exact same experience I am the same age as you 17 turning 18 in 2 months but yo I was a very social kid before lockdown and then lockdown ended and I was suddenly terrible in social situations you absolutely just explained everything perfectly 💯

[@Sevacia]

so real bro 😭😭 i always imagine what i’d be like if quarantine never happened

[@joonatanhoyhtya2214]

Thank you mister Jak for being here!🔥 This video just changed my life✅

[@user-br1df4qp8s]

Jak, i have been watching a few videos ( maybe 3 or more ) but i can relate to your videos too man. I wish i could meet you bro, keep up the great work brother.

[@Danzakaria.]

I rly wanna challenge myself so I’ll do a pushup every like this comment gets

[@rohanvinod2671]

this video truly inspired me..... thanks bro .

[@estoniaepicgamer]

Hey man! Thanks for making those videos! They truly help me to think and concentrate of things what rly matter! Thanks!

[@estoniaepicgamer]

@Jakpiggott91 I do not wanna talk with scammers

[@habibiBoi292]

thx bro. I needed this video.

[@petiszabo5844]

Thank you for making this video Jak! ❤️💖❤️‍🔥 It really made me think and I completely believe the same, that this way you can attract your best friends and also your partner into your life. Thank you for lighen this to me!🥰😍

[@no__offence]

Tyank you so much. I have been feeling like this for the past year.

[@Justboyz]

I needed most..I feel lonely even when my friends around me. thank you brother

[@arrooox314]

thanks man,i started studying from home in the beginning of November because i want to pass my exams,but some friends fell off,and i go to the city centre only 1 time a week to meet up with them,but i don’t seem to find my true best friend ,and it really hurts that theres no one to truly rely on.i guees i should start focusing more on myself and yeah,social anxiety increased a lot since i stopped going to school every day.everyone who read that,have a good day!

[@maxjacobs7768]

I have completely lost myself. If have no real friends, obviously there’s people I talk to, but outside of school I pretty much do nothing. I am so lost and don’t know what to do. This video has helped with my perspective on social anxiety but I still have no idea what to do about my crippling loneliness. I rarely comment on videos and rarely open up, but this channel just seems so uplifting. I have been going to the gym consistently for a couple months now, but I still can’t deal with the feeling of loneliness and that I’m just going to wither away. I have lost my hobby of playing music and now I want to quit baseball too. I don’t even know what to do anymore to make me happy.

[@Spartanburgarmy]

Jack, you remind me of my own life, mate. I used to be quiet with my friends too, I didn't feel confident infront of my classsmates. I'm pretty uncomfortable, whenever girls sit beside me, but slowly I'm trying to fix the issues.

[@SavesomeBtchs]

You and hamza helped me change my life, it’s been 2 months and 4-5 months since I wanted and motivated to start, Thank You both and Godbless you.

[@borq_345]

Usually these types of videos don’t hit me but this did

[@Fancy3YT]

Thank you Jak. I hate school but I think the reason I hate it so much is because I think people judge me a lot so it gives me anxiety. This video is gunna help me so much. Thanks bro ❤️

[@lollo2489]

Absolutely mind blowing. Keep It up Brother♥️⛩️

[@suisus3780]

I'm 19 in college, third semester. Been having this feeling being left out since the 1st semester, i have come to realize that maybe we're just different and that's okay.

[@suisus3780]

Classmates makes me felt left out, but there are few friends i can relate a lot outside and feel better around them. To be honest, i do feel bad that I'm still sad being left out by classmates, so this video is a nice reminder for me that having different values is okay. Thanks

[@CJ-qu4xs]

Hey Jak, I've been watching your videos for a while now, I've always been into fitness, sports, running, things like that. But you are the main one who got me into working out myself. I used to be quite skinny I'm not gonna lie to you and I always did sports and had a really fast metabolism, so I always said to myself well I'm not going to put on weight so I may as well not try. But you came along and you changed me. I've been working out for a few months now at home with dumbbells, and it's changed my life. I actually enjoy working out, it isn't just a chore for me like many other people say it will become. I have become a lot bigger (well probably average size for my age, I am 15, 16 in June), more muscle, I have become a lot more confident as well, speaking to more people, especially girls, although I am not doing anything about that until I fully sort myself out, and become a good version of myself that I enjoy seeing. There is this one girl at the moment, but I have only a few months until I go to college and I don't think she is going to my college so that would be a waste of time. But enough of the rambling, I just wanted to thank you so much, you have changed my life so much and I'm really grateful, I would love to maybe chat with you one day about this, things like this and just life in general, but I'm not sure how that would happen, but if you want to give it a go, I would love it Again, thank you so much, you have really changed my life for the better. I know you may not see my comment, but I just wanted to show my love and appreciation.

[@BrightStar-bz5oj]

Brother Jake, I've only one thing to say. Thanks. I really needed this type of advice. Was extremely confused what to do. Although I already knew some parts of this video. This really gave me so much hope and more clarity. thank you so much brother.

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

Wow I can soooo relate to this. Thank you for this video

[@sophsoph6047]

Same thing happenned to me. Was super friends with my group of friends back in middle school and then boom, i get in highschool, first day, i see my friends waiting at the entrance and i keep asking myself "do they really want to see me ?" Turns out i was developing really bad social anxiety that became worse as i had almost no friend in highschool Hung onto an online friend, luckily he's very kind but it took me a while before making new friends and finally not obssessing over him and worrying all the time anymore Now i'm studying and i'm learning to cope with social anxiety in work situation, as my past internships went really anxiety-inducing and therefore i've never even tried getting a job

[@AaronDao]

Thanks Jak,I really appreciate your advice as your feelings and story is really relatable to me and I’ll hopefully enjoy my life with your advice

[@Omar8253]

this guy is soo relatable, thank you for this.

[@MisterPillay117]

I used to fell like this last year, but this year when school started I found and made some great friends, really happy about it

[@Bradley_Brodin]

Yeah I struggle really bad with social anxiety. My problem is I expect so much out of my life for no reason. I wish I could just be me without letting the fact that im not "cool" bother me so much. We all day dream time to time about being that person who everyone likes and looks up to. But think of those type of people. They usually are narcissistic and don't really care about anyone but themselves. It is always most important to be humble and genuine than to be that "cool" guy. Thank you this was the best video I've seen on this topic so far :)

[@Thomas_1111]

Thanks I really needed this video ❤

[@Mrdno2007]

Bro i probably don’t have any social anxiety nor any trouble making friends but DAMN i love your vids and just like to watch so i won’t skip this one either bro!!!

[@TrueSaul]

I always try to be myself but in school i get so anxious, like im not worrying about anything but my face gets red and i dont feel good. Maybe its because my character doesnt like socializing

[@JACKOCRICKET]

This is so relatable . I’m the shy , introverted and the one that everyone would beat up kid in our group . I’m in year 8 and this is probs the worst year I have had for a long time

[@EsiSpy]

Man im tellin ya. I was the most successful kid in terms of being quiet and having bad grades tho im smart. In year seven which i consider "the worst year of my life" i was being beaten up for being too quiet Like man they would say all shit abt me and i wouldn't say a word Because i was going through a lot and was too tired to argue. So dont be hopeless or disappointed FIND OUT why your shy and quiet What do you find bad or worse than other people. You should know that your just as good as them and probably better! So find the problem Try to fix it! Basically find ANY WAY that can higher your Confidence and i think the least you can do for it is going to the gym! It will affect you a lot and this is something that you must do. In my experience when i did actually go to gym, every night i could put my head on the pillow by having the idea that i am one step better than all of them. Because i am doing the thing that i find hard, so i mean when i have authority over myself, what else can possibly stop me.