The Accidental Trans Allies

[@mabelblue706]

The other day my dad said “I don’t say I’m a cis man, I’m just a man. I don’t use these new words that they’re insisting on these days” and I’m still very proud of my comeback: “well, it’s Latin so it’s not really ‘new’….it’s like, extremely old”

[@Leofwine]

Ammo for your arguments: The first written records of Latin are from the 600s BC (the Praeneste fibula, the Duenos inscription), the first written records of English are from 700 AD (Cædmon's hymn, the Franks casket), so Latin is about 1000 years older. Also, Julius Caesar and others literally talked about cis-Alpine and trans-Alpine Celtic languages/people.

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit]

@@Leofwine the romans even had a province called "Cisalpine Gaul".

[@majesticeagle5461]

@@KateSW1997still mad af

[@paulhammond6978]

It's also an argument that you don't need to specify, except in situations when it's important. Trans men are "just men" too, most of the time and for most situations. But when it's necessary to make a distinction between cis and trans people, those words are available to give any explanations that may be required.

[@JonahIronstone]

The lions aren't a trans family-- they're a gay pride.

[@chaotikkitten4978]

Brilliant!

[@ScarletTiger109]

Fun fact! Lionesses will occasionally grow manes during their later years and take on the role of the male within the pride.

[@sirensong237]

@@ScarletTiger109trans male lions. Trans Pride?

[@jooleebilly]

You got an actual, literal LOL from me for that comment. Genius!

[@ScarletTiger109]

@@Matty-man there are more humans than there are lions. Lions don’t live as long as humans. Lions do not have the same mental capacity as humans. What I was pointing out was that being trans is completely natural and can be found in a number of species. The transitioned lions *do* take on a male role within the pride of there are no males to speak of.

[@jerrimenard3092]

I was at a coffee shop the other day and the barista was not sure of my gender. I am non-binary and I look very fluid. She said " What will you have friend?" I was very impressed! Way better then "mame , sir I mean mame" Even though she was visually uncomfortable at first, ahe was professional. I will be going back to that shop. My pronouns are any, as long as you are being polite to me.

[@katyamcadams]

​@Villealtbro, you literally hate humans stfu

[@bookgirlny8511]

🥰

[@tinawitte420]

@@stopallsinIs there a way we can donate money to you so you can afford effective heating? It's not like that produces a lot of heat, you must be freezing! Poor chap!

[@Valdagast]

​@@stopallsinWhile that is your right under freedom of speech, this may not be the right place to do so.

[@katyamcadams]

​@@Valdagastactually, it counts as hate speech (technically illegal) and is very much against KZbin's ToS.

[@brittanyblue4495]

Im nonbinary and once had a Booomer get mad and stalk my profile and proceed to tell me "I can't even tell if you're a man or a woman!" and I was just like "OMG thank you! Thats literally what Im going for." and he stopped replying. I know that was an insult when he was young, but it gave me gender euphoria and he can't take that back. 😂

[@sexysoup631]

that's literally on my bucket list lmao

[@thatonebab7351]

goals

[@floreya67]

Oh that always feels so good, the utter confusion and frustration when they don't know how to gender/offens you.

[@TheEventide]

Too bad Better Help was caught selling patient information. Therapy is Important, and if you can trust them by all means use the service. But taking advantage of people in vulnerable positions, hearing their problems and just selling that information. Its disgusting. And I will never trust them.

[@derpz_]

Yeah I was weirded out with him promoting BH although it is a totally scummy company

[@susannairisastarte5192]

Wow I didn't know they sold patient information 😮

[@sicksickBacon]

"if you trust them you should totally use the service even though they might sell your info!!" you want people info to be sold?

[@sicksickBacon]

@@derpz_i dont think he knows

[@Dragons_of_ara]

The trans fish reminded me of a wholesome interaction I had at work. A young girl was checking out LBGT+ children's books and I told her about how we were hosting a pride art event at the library. We were also giving out paper fish for kids to color. She proceeded to show me her lesbian flag fish and said "You guys won't throw it away?" I told her absolutely not and that all the fish can get along even though their all different. It was such a heartwarming moment to see how happy being accepted made her

[@ScooterBug96]

That's sooo hecking cute

[@starscreamthecruel8026]

Were there any ace or aro fish?

[@velvetbutterfly]

The fact that she had to ask that breaks my heart. She probably has to deal with someone that does throw away or destroy things

[@starscreamthecruel8026]

@@velvetbutterfly yeah vivid memories of my Dad. If he found anything in my room that wasnt *ladylike* it disappeared and was never seen again. His fault for raising me as a tomboy to replace the boy that was stillborn(my older brother).

[@sphis1327]

thats so cute!!

[@dietotaku]

the very fact that we can CHOOSE our clothing kinda suggests it's NOT tied to our gender/sex yeah?

[@neon17.08]

Transphobes be acting like if they wear clothing that is traditionally worn by the opposite gender that their skin will fall off.

[@whyhellotherefellotravelor]

@Villealtyea that’s why you don’t post anything but you have a channel💀

[@patrickcharpentier7842]

Is it a troll or an exageration for comedic purposes ?

[@LemonAid82]

​@VillealtI feel disgusted that you made your alt on my bday.

[@queersoapybar]

@@LemonAid82 oh happy birthday!

[@hawkeyescoffee6399]

Jamie, I love you, but please look into how bad Better Help are. While some people do get help, for the most part they are not good, I've seen all kinds of horror stories ahout them. They have some very shady practices too.

[@darkshadowrule2952]

Yeah, I don't get why everyone's back to advertising for them now, weren't they literally charged by the FTC for selling user data or something? Sus

[@ConstantChaos1]

It's terrible since the idea is actually great and if government and corperations were to try to serve the public even 10% of the time instead of themselves it would easily be implementable. It could cure us of provider scarcity and give avenue to both providers and patients to gain access... unfortunately we live under unbridled capitalism and near endless corruption.

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@rebeccasatterley1542]

They also won't take insurance at all, so they're not affordable for a lot of people.

[@neff6185]

replying to boost this! they are a terrible predatory company

[@HumbleWooper]

Slight side note, it bugs me when transphobes say men and women are born as men and women. They start as *babies*. Small wrinkled flesh things with no desires or opinions except that they want physical comfort, food, and a familiar big person to be there for them. Every other care comes later. Self-image? Caring what anyone thinks of them? Nah, every single person here regardless of gender started as a little blob alternating between needy, happy, and asleep.

[@missnaomi613]

Underrated comment!

[@Anushka-h9p]

Aww

[@elaineb7065]

Exactly this!!!

[@kwowka]

@@josephinecronin1195but remember! No matter what, you can have breast cancer, and because glands in breasts produce before babies are split, anyone can breast feed with the right hormones. Also 3% of people aren’t male or female. And my friend Julius has 47 chromosomes. And - basically welcome to advance biology buddy

[@starscreamthecruel8026]

confuse them even more. Every fetus starts female, then hormones are added at a later stage to turn them into males :) Also the first part of the fetus that grows first is your butt hole, some people never grow past this stage :D

[@Simon_Q]

Please don't choose better help as a sponsor as others people had said a lot of people doesn't get help they don't assist to meeting or they are toxic!

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@rebeccasatterley1542]

And expensive, and won't take insurance, and harass you.

[@natisdreamland]

And sell your information, for the cherry on top

[@commandercorl1544]

They can also be super queerphobic since they don't verify their therapists. Hope Jamie can see these comments.

[@annikan42]

I wonder if he's just finishing out a sponsor contract or if he renewed it. That's a big difference

[@JustACitrus]

Super disappointed to see you with a better help sponsorship. ☹ There's lots of info out there on the messed up stuff they've been doing, including having trans people assigned to transphobic counselors. I recommend Mickey Atkins as a good place to start for more info.

[@river_riv._]

yeah,there's such an issue with it

[@hawkeyescoffee6399]

Love Mickey. She has been trying to get the word out for a couple years now. They hit her with cease & desists to get her to take her original vids down, just shows that she struck a nerve. Somehe comments on her vids and some others talking about them have been truly awful. I'm so glad people are talking about it more lately.

[@kitkatmewers]

Yeah

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle

[@thisisfickingwaynesworldba719]

Agreed friendo, i only vaguely remember their past controversies and seeing jamie sponsor them sucks

[@thelittlestpika]

I love when people say that they/them isn't singular then proceed to use it in the singular context. Good job, babe. You're proving something we've known since the 13th century.

[@robo1513]

doesn't singular 'they' predate singular 'you' as well?

[@kwowka]

@@robo1513yeah Shakespeare used singular they, but he would never use singular you. That’s just terrible grammar. How dare thee suggest such an aberration to the English language? Thou soul is cursed from this terrible grammar /j /j

[@thelittlestpika]

@@robo1513 I believe so, yeah.

[@starscreamthecruel8026]

To be fair I got really confused when all this came out? English class for me was a LONG time ago and it wasnt til a friend who is autistic reminded me about Gender NEUTRAL pronouns, that it was like all the puzzle pieces finally fit. You want a gender neutral pronoun perhaps because you are not comfortable giving them more information yet or you just don't want to describe yourself any other way. I kept thinking, if someone had told me that from the beginning, I wouldn't have been so confused. Some Gen Xers cant remember their English Grammar Classes, we aren't being assholes on purpose, be patient, we get there in the end ;)

[@Soul_Watcher]

@@robo1513yea it does. 👍👍👍 that’s what so many ppl choose to ignore. They don’t spout anything about “what was the original definition and how was this word used originally,” with this word you notice. But when it comes to cis, trans, etc., they want the paperwork and ancient scrolls to be pulled out to prove our point. 😆

[@connergoessupersonic]

I’d like to say as a cis straight person that you are all valid, no matter who you like or what you identify as - boy, girl, neither, I don’t care. You are a human being who deserves rights, love and kindness. Hope you all have a nice day

[@artistic_lj]

@StopLGBT-ss7rwcool. Thanks for buying the flag and supporting our cause by doing so!

[@rebeccasatterley1542]

Reporting that bot

[@connergoessupersonic]

@StopLGBT-ss7rw Yeah, I’m not gonna give you the satisfaction of reacting to this. Instead I will just report it

[@PainInABottle713]

​@@connergoessupersonicSame, I've seen this dude on other queer channels as well

[@h0t_pock3t]

​@@PainInABottle713They're such a loser lmao

[@shinkoryu14]

Ha ha ha, these remind me of an exchange I actually had with a kid at my library job a while ago. I'm AFAB nonbinary, present very masculine but I'm not on HRT so my voice is still feminine. The kiddo was asking me to help her find a book and initially "sir'd" me until I started talking, where she swapped to "miss." After we got the book she wanted, she very frankly told me "You know when you look like that people won't be able to tell if you're a boy or a girl" and I replied with equal frankness, "Yes, I do that on purpose."

[@honeyshuckle9742]

"What other fish can be trans?" Clownfish can also transition!

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

[@thisisfickingwaynesworldba719]

YES!!! That was what i thinking as well

[@PainInABottle713]

​@@stopallsin😂 Bro can't even spell and you expect us to take you seriously

[@elaineb7065]

Third part of Finding Nemo, biologically, would be Finding Marlene, as Marlin transitions to female. Clownfish were my first thought too!!!

[@durabelle]

@@elaineb7065 Marlin is already a bit of a confusing character, since marlins are not even close to the clown fish. Why is he asking to be called a marlin? 😁

[@harukiaomori9264]

Reminds me of how my mom called me a boy accidentally a few times, before I even fully came out ( I'm transmasc and always felt uncomfortable being called a girl ). The fun part is that both my parents are quite transphobic

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle

[@thisisfickingwaynesworldba719]

LOL you always love to see that, you go my dude

[@jacobc9221]

Would you look at that, even *more* proof that trans men are men!

[@xyzzyx4839]

lmao same as my extremely transphobic grandmother accidentally calling me by my chosen middle name on accident (a family name, so that's at least partly a reason why it popped into her head...... but all the same: really......)

[@aford328]

Yeah, the same thing happened to me! My parents are very transphobic and my mom has still slipped up and affirmed my gender a few times.

[@AmazingAutist]

5:27 going to always say this to the day I freaking- genderreveals were started by a woman who was celebrating finally getting pregnant after several unfortunate miscarriages. It wasn't supposed to be this Forest destroying life-ending thing, and she is horrified about what it has become. The gender reveal was a simple cake. On top of that, it was later revealed that her child was actually non-binary. So you know what she did? She threw a *_second_* gender reveal party for her non-binary child. To say that gender reveals are pointless is to say that birthdays are pointless. They don't necessarily have to have an intrinsic meeting or a point in order to be something that is supposed to be a happy occasion.

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

[@majesticeagle5461]

They are pointless lmao, they’re not on the same level as birthday, shite comparison, birthdays have a point, to celebrate the day you were born, because that matters, your gender fucking doesn’t💀 Also how was it revealed her child was non-binary?

[@MrDoggoCraft]

​@@stopallsinget your bot to spell correctly first And congratulations on buying an lgbtq+ flag to support the community

[@paulhammond6978]

Having a party to celebrate your pregnancy is fine. I mean, that used to happen anyway didn't it? With baby showers, that aren't necessarily about revealing the sex of your baby? But anything that becomes a fad that people spend too much money on, or compete with other people over, or which can get out of hand can become a problem.

[@AltAccount-cb7sh]

@@paulhammond6978I would say that’s on the people who decided to compete about it senselessly. The woman who invented them meant no harm with it and caused no harm with hers so not her fault really. People just need to stop recking crap

[@luzxii_]

Hey Jamie! I love your videos. But i'm sure your unaware but please do not continue to sponser better help, many people have come out about their horrible experiences with the resource recently and it is not a safe place for those who need help. Stay safe Jamie, I hope you understand.

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@IbishuCovet]

you have 0 videos...@Villealt

[@somerandomcube]

mari pfp i think

[@commandercorl1544]

Boosting this so Jamie can hear.

[@ShinyTillDawn]

I don't think Jamie cares: he probably gets dickwads of money from sponsoring them/

[@RB-vo4gi]

The “alien abduction” scenario reminds me of the “gay island vs straight island” thing. Stupid, pointless, hypothetical situation that is never going to matter.

[@starscreamthecruel8026]

I always wanted to ask, what was the point of an island like that anyway? Are they claiming that the ONLY purpose in life is to breed? What a dull, boring existence they must have.

[@commscan314]

@@starscreamthecruel8026 Also, if gay trans men and women are on the "gay island", then while yes, the "gay island" would have to take quite extraordinary and downright authoritarian measures (such as basically forcing fertile cis-trans couplings, encouraging pregnancy as often as possible, and prohibiting SRS unless the individual in question was infertile to begin with), it would be possible for it to sustain its population.

[@IRLENAA]

They hurt themselves in their own confusion j like pokemon LMFAO💀

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@Robin_hood.100]

@@stopallsin​​⁠dude… literally nobody gives a shit about u burning a lgbt flag. In fact, I’m pretty sure most ppl want you to hurt yourself while doing so

[@augustisasillygoose]

​@stopallsin how are you going to expect people to respect you when you've copied and pasted the same comment with the same spelling errors multiple times just on this video 💀💀

[@rebeccasatterley1542]

Guys, it's gotta be another bot. Just report it.

[@yshktdhnkppfffryu69]

​@@rebeccasatterley1542yep

[@holycheeseburger2981]

Hey, you're still a man, and you'll always be a man! So proud of you that you stopped pretending to be a girl over a decade ago! You've come a long way. Sincerely, a fellow trans person.

[@LaineTheLark]

Kids stare at me when I’m on my mobility scooter, that’s ok, it makes me laugh. One staring kiddo was so entranced by me, that they were immovable! The parent said to their kid “move for the……person” and that pause gave my nonbinary heart so much joy.

[@ju_aych39]

" 'I'm not cis I'm normal.'If you're not cis you're trans." - sounds like the TRANsitive property to me

[@charlieleseman7847]

@StopLGBT-ss7rwno man, your profile pic is just some weird looking bald guy.

[@Hunter_VanderMatthews]

​@@charlieleseman7847 It's a bot, report for spam.

[@charlieleseman7847]

@@Hunter_VanderMatthews i did lol

[@Hunter_VanderMatthews]

@@charlieleseman7847 Why respond to it then? 💀

[@sleepingroses761]

Love that linguistic pun! 😊

[@TheMonarchofMonarchs933]

Thanks for uploading. I was told I didn't exist (AFAB Nonbinary). Your video made me feel a little better.

[@juno.moth17]

If you didn’t exist, how could you be leaving a comment?

[@art_nich]

@@juno.moth17transphobia defeated

[@jessefriendsgaming155]

I feel u bro

[@timothyisstupid]

Hold on. If you were told you didn't exist, how were you told you didn't exist?

[@jessefriendsgaming155]

@@timothyisstupid what were u trying to say here XD

[@Smona]

I have a hoodie with "I'm not cis I'm normal" on it and "normal" is in trans colors

[@SharewareWizard]

"My daughter thinks rich people are evil! I must show her the error of this!" *drops enough money to solve poverty, also many more times than the actual website's worth, on purchasing a website so he can control what people say if it goes against what he likes*

[@ConstantChaos1]

I mean even outside of gender issues i identify as a goth, i like goth music, literature, film, and even the cringier parts like how we dance, do i dress "like a goth" 24/7 and sleep in a coffin? Absolutely not it takes hours to do my makeup, put in my contacts, and choose an outfit. Today, it is grey sweats, a maroon deadpool long-sleeve t-shirt, and rainbow beanie, im still a goth even if i dont look like a goth today (also have you priced a coffin in America recently? Im made of chaos, darkness, and dumbassery, not money)

[@neon17.08]

I guess if you're Agender the goth would be the closest thing you have to a gender. Without it being a gender.

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

[@ConstantChaos1]

@@stopallsin ok? Thanks for supporting queer causes by getting a flag, what you do with it afterwards is your prerogative so long as it doesn't verge into the criminal.

[@ConstantChaos1]

@@stopallsin also this is about my being a goth I could be cis-het for all you know, rainbows aren't exclusively a queer thing. I mean I happen to be exactly as the gods created me but that's not relevant here

[@rebeccasatterley1542]

​@@ConstantChaos1don't interact with the bot, just report it

[@hexacomb4946]

It’s awful how someone like Elon can be transphobic when his own daughter is trans i honestly can’t imagine how bad that must be. And for all of you out there going through this much love and i hope things get better soon❤❤❤.

[@gwit4051]

as if having elon musk for a dad wouldn't be bad enough

[@hexacomb4946]

@@gwit4051 true at least she escaped without her name being some sort of equation

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@hexacomb4946]

@@stopallsin wow a troll bot how inovative

[@BLZ231]

If I heard correctly I think Elon has 11 kids? Which seems a bit much if you ask me.

[@Snow_Skitter]

Posted this on another accidental allies video but I'll share my story here too. So I'm nonbinary, and this is back when I was still going by my deadname. My search engine is connected to a news site, and at the time I didn't know how to disable it. Looking back the news site was very far right in terms of beliefs, and a lot of stuff about trans people was very negative. So one day there was this article about one (can't remember what it was about unfortunately) and I decided to go into the article's comments and defend the person since a lot of people were being hateful. This one person must've thought I was transfem (I'm AFAB) and replied to my comment, calling me Kenny instead of my now deadname. So anyways I now go by the name Ken out of spite. Thanks for the new name, asswipe.

[@crypticlol]

Ken is a cool name ngl But why did she called you Kenny tho?

[@RaspberetJam]

I’m out as non binary now, and my chosen name is Jamie (partially because of you, but also I just find the nickname Jam hilarious) Thank you for posting these they’re really amazing for the LGBT+ community ❤

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@thisisfickingwaynesworldba719]

Hell yeah stranger jam does sound like a great nickname

[@RaspberetJam]

@@thisisfickingwaynesworldba719 :D my friends sometimes call me traffic jam lol

[@me_n_the_boys_lookin_for_beans]

jam is the best nickname! you just need a peanut butter friend now haha

[@robo1513]

@Villealt who???

[@tinker651]

Quick story of my own past ignorance. Before I took an active role in learning about transitioning I was SO confused if "trans man/woman" was for pre or post transition. I was so nervous of getting it wrong I basically avoided it all together. Then someone I know came out and I dove deep to learn all the right things. AGAIN, your channel has been a godsend for learning and understanding. Thank you!!!

[@twinning1944]

I too was confused before I found some good learning resources. Jamie’s channel has been incredible for helping me get a few things straightened out in terms of language

[@DasypeltisKing]

I’ve watched your videos for three years and you helped me through my homophobic parents! Thank you so much for your help even if you didn’t mean to :) Love you, Jamie! Have a good day!

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle

[@Robin_hood.100]

Sorry you have homophobia in your household, stay strong queer frien 🤍🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

[@Milo-hp9fw]

@stopallsin you've been burning it for a while. How big is your pride flag? Also, to the original commenter, hello! Sorry that a troll found you. Jamie has helped me a lot too :)

[@DasypeltisKing]

@@Milo-hp9fw It’s okay! Im glad that he’s helped you a lot too! Have a nice day!

[@flashthemonkey6032]

Jamie has said he sought out to help other trans people in the way other KZbin creators helped him… but we’re all in similar boats, whether trans, cis, or neither.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Self-owns are a beautiful thing to witness, especially when they lead to accidental allyship.

[@Panguinolucy]

@StopLGBT-ss7rwhiiiii hope you’re doing alright

[@berrysnowyboy5251]

Yeah, especially before transphobes realise that they end up supporting others (because transphobes are confused and they end up causing harm to others around them while they're miserable with their own lives)

[@momamiandkiddokelsi9027]

❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈 Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are! 🏳️‍🌈❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@timothyisstupid]

Thanks

[@PizzaMargherita.]

Thank you!

[@alicebthegachaweirdo8378]

Thanks!

[@CrowExistinggggg]

I see your comments loads, thank you for brightening my day ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

[@emdale9269]

“Fish can trans, lots of animals can” 😂 Love you Jamie

[@Laura-gb1jv]

I mean, wasn't that a major plot point in Jurassic Park???

[@wayfaring_stranger_]

That gender not tied to your clothing comment is gold. They really are confused!

[@Panguinolucy]

@StopLGBT-ss7rwjust reporting you now mr bot…

[@hiddensoundtest1444]

Jamie please research your sponsors. Better help has a very shakey history and not something you should promote to people who need real, professional therapy

[@commandercorl1544]

Boosting this so he can hopefully see. Thankfully a lot of people are pointing this out to him.

[@ShinyTillDawn]

The sponsors probably give Jamie the most money. As we all know, the most important thing in life is getting as much money as possible.

[@Liggliluff]

But the sponsor said they were good, therefore they must be good. I don't know what Jamie is doing.

[@noimportance1261]

@StopLGBT-ss7rw Good for you.

[@neff6185]

@ShinyTillDawn actually a few smaller creators have opened up and said that better help locks you into a set amount of promotions and if you don’t meet your end of the deal they can fine you. Some people have learnt about better help and their scummy behaviour but have been unable to pull out of their contract from threat of legal retaliation :( better help and their practices are predatory with their sponsorships just as much as their “therapy” unfortunately.

[@cantthinkofabettername6758]

I also used to struggle with differentiating the terms "trans man" and "trans woman" and believed there was only one way to be trans when I was 10

[@EvonneSol]

I know this isn't accidental allyship, per say, but when I was in my tech training program we had a self-defense class we could optionally sign up for, and, on a whim, I signed up for the men's self-defense class. It was a bit awkward, because I'm not far into transitioning, but when the big dude in the class came over to practice with me we went through the drills without a word spoken or a singular moment of hesitation. I had that guy in a headlock until the instructor told us to swap to another exorcise, and that moment's always stuck with me because in the face of a group of awkward young adult men he accepted me right into the group and put me through the paces with no awkwardness at all. Probably one of the first moments where I felt like I really fit in and found my people.

[@aria_aria_aria1234]

That’s actually so wholesome

[@limitless_valley]

not betterhelp.. cmon jamie

[@Maud_mg]

why? did they do something wrong? sorry for ignorance

[@queersoapybar]

What did better help do?

[@WillowStarshower]

I am also quite curious of what better help has done.

[@hawkeyescoffee6399]

They are awful. It seems like they are in damage control now, maybe. I ignored it when it was Pride Counselling (a subsidiary/sister of BH) because maybe they have something different going on. But I have seen some awful stories when it comes to BH, including people who asked for an LGBTQ+ friendly counsellors and then ended up with a raging homophobe/transphobe.

[@queersoapybar]

​@@hawkeyescoffee6399ohhh I see That's absolutely terrible

[@Emileave]

I went to the panel at Attenborough in Brighton and you slayed man. It was so cool to see you, Rebecca and Vinnie all chat (asexual rep was sick to see) :)

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle

[@rebeccasatterley1542]

​@@redRuxxbots are notoriously bad spellers

[@bapho-p]

As a trans person, "imagine if aliens abducted a cis dude and a trans woman" or "imagine if aliens abducted a cis chick and a trans dude" sounds like the kind of joke I'd make to my partner at 3 A.M. about aliens who did all their research through conservatives being poorly led to a wrong conclusion. If I didn't know it was meant to make fun of trans people as not what they identified as, I'd have assumed it was a queer shitpost.

[@christinakyleloves]

Love you Jamie!!💛💛🥔🥔

[@karlozfox]

clownfish can transition ;) In biology we call these organisms "Sequential hermaphrodites", because they dont produce male or female gametes at the same time but at different stages of life. Simultaneous hermaphrodites would be translated into culture as the intersex experience i suppose. Although we're talking about functional possible autofecuntation very fertile organisms. A lot of animals can transition as sequential hermaphrodites... some fishes, some frogs, some jellyfishes, flatworms, earth worms, sponges, some water arthropods, there could be more, who knows!? But the parrot fish is knews to me! just learned about it today.

[@alexgrunde6682]

Love the idea that aliens from another world developed advanced interstellar faster than light travel but had no way of monitoring our telecom networks to like, access the Wikipedia article so instead they abduct two random people and are all “okay now make baby for us.”

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@Panguinolucy]

@@stopallsinpyromaniac aliens!

[@ninjoshday]

Don't the aliens in these situations usually clone people or genetically modify them in some way or whatever?

[@ninjoshday]

​@@stopallsinThanks for buying the flag, now some lgbtq person can afford to buy groceries or something!

[@BubbAA903]

A common theme I'm seeing with accidental allies is refusing to refer to a single person as they/them and then refer to a group of people as they/them

[@LadySnowfaerie]

The piece of art in those frames is a picture of an angel shielding two children as they're crossing a dangerous bridge over a river. If you want, you can interpret the combination of that with the colours as a desire to protect our trans friends in the dangerous world out there. :) I hope you're all staying safe and happy!

[@IKnowEverythingButMyIdentity]

My favourite accidents ally moment was in the comment section of an enby person who uses all pronouns. There was a transphobe in the comments who kept trying to misgender them by using She/Her pronouns for him. They were trying to use the wrong pronouns. For someone who uses all pronouns. Including she/her.

[@calebw.pomeroy6743]

I'm a painter, and recently I was painting a trans kid room. It was wall paper on half the I removed and pink on the bottom half. Under the wall paper was white. The walls were going blue, so when I was cutting in the walls, it looked like the trans flag. Their mom took a picture to send to the kid lol

[@imzesok]

fun-fact, under certain circumstances lionesses can indeed also grow a mane. It's semi-rare, but it does happen.

[@nathryl03]

Whenever somebody somebody says that they/them is plural I go "Somebody lost THEIR car keys. THEY'LL probably be back soon. It shouldn't take too long, THEY can't get very far without THEIR car keys. Hopefully THEY didn't have a lot more shopping to do, otherwise it might take THEM longer to realise", and I'll keep going as long as I feel like it, emphasizing every they/them/their. Is it immature? Yes. Does it annoy the person? Hell Yes. Does it make a difference? Sometimes, and that's good enough for me.

[@Invalidcas]

"you" used to be plural in all cases except to refer to someone very important, anyone else was "Thou" but eventually people started to use "You" to refer to singular people to be polite- and then "Thou" became rude- and then faded out completely- Language evolves. things change. ❤

[@Toni-lo9ms]

4:50 I'd say there's an accidental ally angle the moment they say aliens who are advanced enough to travel between stars see a trans woman as a woman. They can't possibly be so scientifically backwards they can't detect the variation from cis women so they obviously just went (in their language) "that one's a woman, that one's a man. Grab them." In my head they'll just finish her transition to make up for what our tech lacks once she's on board.

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

[@MrDoggoCraft]

​@@stopallsinget your bot to spell correctly first And congratulations on buying an lgbtq+ flag to support the community

[@rebeccasatterley1542]

​@@MrDoggoCraftinteracting with the bot is less constructive than just reporting it

[@paulhammond6978]

I was already thinking along these lines when I saw your comment. Surely, it's not beyond the wit of these advanced beings to make the right kind of germ cells from whatever humans they have if making new humans out of the ones they abducted is really that important to them. And if no-one has a functioning womb maybe they can grow babies in jars like in "Brave New World".

[@MrDoggoCraft]

@@rebeccasatterley1542 I do both I find it weirdly entertaining as it sometimes draws other transphobes and homophobes in so I can spam them with sources

[@stephk6577]

I just discovered you and your wife, and I absolutely love these videos. Happy to find.

[@Vembie]

Jamie is one of the best KZbinrs I know he actually knows what he is talking about when it comes to trans people and helps me feel more like a person rather than a weirdo who wants to be a man. Thank you. 🏳🌈

[@mjtruth1039]

@Villealt What exactly makes you better?

[@Vembie]

@StopLGBT-ss7rwAww how cute you really don't have a life do you? Maybe someday you'll realize that being a dumbass isn't funny 🤭🤭✨✨✨

[@rebeccasatterley1542]

​@@VembieAs if bots can realize anything.

[@Vembie]

@@rebeccasatterley1542Aww I know

[@Panguinolucy]

@StopLGBT-ss7rwhiiii you seem to be a bot

[@AwesomeCameo]

the long hair one reminded me a lot of my family, I always wanted to grow my hair out but I was never allowed to, my mom would make me sit in chair and use buzzer to buzz it off. But every time she was trying to get me to just sit down and cooperate one of her go to statements would be you don't want to look like a girl do you. It was so hard sometimes not to slip up and say yes that's the point mom, to my deeply religious mom. Like I knew it wouldn't go well, and I was very likely right since I found out after leaving for university of someone from my same church who was guided into conversion therapy by our pastor and I am sure my parents would choose to follow pastors guidance also. So I avoided that but staying closeted and hidden while hearing the anti-lgbt (or basically anti- me) stuff a lot still did a number on my mental health.

[@claramarie7923]

I like how they think that these technologically advanced aliens wouldn’t be able to tell if people are trans, thus proving that trans people are the gender they say they are.

[@chakatfirepaw]

Some bad news for the haters of singular they: My sister is a high school teacher and according to her the teens have been switching to just using they/them for everyone.

[@cinnamonsugarcourtney6073]

Ok! The whole alien abduction thing reminded me of an episode of an anime I watched YEARS ago. It had an alien princess of an all female species going to earth to find her perfect match and she does with a Trans Man... which her species helped him transition with gene therapy. Took me forever to go down the rabbit hole to find what the hell the anime was called, it was "Level E" and it was basically a bunch of short stories about aliens living on earth and what they do when they're there, kinda like MiB. Thanks for reminding me of it~ It originally came out in 2011, same year as Stein's Gate and Madoka Magica.

[@adonouwataam3616]

im not trans nor lgbtq but seeing that the lgbtq community went from being hated to being just a part of society makes me happy. i don't care about your gender, sexuality, if you're trans or not, etc. the only thing i care about is that you want to videoplay videogames with me like buddies

[@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie]

Preach!

[@adonouwataam3616]

@@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie why

[@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie]

@@adonouwataam3616 I mean it also makes ME happy when people treat LGBTQ+ people as a normal part of society

[@adonouwataam3616]

@@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie oh ok

[@comic_12]

We watched your transition video in class (we were doing about transphobia and stuff) the other day and i think you genuinely taught my class and teacher things so thanks for that :]]]

[@LanTenko]

I like when people quote genetics trying to be tansphobic and don't understand how genetics works

[@goodpeople25]

@@trevorchester4439You refusing to understand what other people say isn't the same as them being wrong.

[@katyamcadams]

​@@trevorchester4439hello again science ignoring, abuse, murder, and pedophilia supporting nazi.

[@ScarletTiger109]

@@trevorchester4439example of what OP was talking about

[@commscan314]

Like, you can have a lot of janky shit happen with genetics. Autism can be caused by any of various mutated traits. Non-deleterious (high-functioning) cases of autism were passed down by both carriers and those who expressed the trait outright over the course of millennia, so now it's distributed across the human population. There are some people with XX chromosomes with testes. The SRY gene is literally the one thing on the Y chromosome that's necessary for testicular development, and it essentially activates several autosomal genes so that certain proteins that regulate fetal development are produced sufficiently to promote solely testicular development. The SRY gene is occasionally translocated onto an X chromosome, and when meiosis happens, now you have a sperm cell whose embryo will produce testes with an X chromosome instead of a Y chromosome.

[@LanTenko]

@@commscan314Exactly that I was thinking when I wrote the comment. Transphobic people that use genetics as an argument think of Mendelian genetics whose are obsolete.

[@boxdynomite3]

I feel like the world would be different if we called gender reveal parties "sex reveal parties".

[@babs_babs]

that sounds so creepy

[@Chaos-._]

@@babs_babs If you think about it "gender reveal parties" in general are creepy since you're announcing to the world what genitals your child has.

[@IKnowEverythingButMyIdentity]

Could be used to describe the pregnancy announcement too...😅

[@pathevermore3683]

@@IKnowEverythingButMyIdentity we FA, come FO!!

[@chromedruidess2546]

Lol or a genital reveal party

[@GabrielTheInsomniacVideos]

Gotta Love an accidental ally

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@Panguinolucy]

@@stopallsinmust be a bot or something. Stop arson

[@constructionbird]

As a cis male person human who has long hair i take great pleasure in confusing strangers in public.

[@jon2922]

Man, I used to be able to do that when I was younger, then I got to my mid twenties and my body decided I was part sasquatch...

[@constructionbird]

@@jon2922 i usualy wear sleeves so you can't see my hairy arms. and the fact im blonde is also probably a contributing factor.

[@jon2922]

@@constructionbird ah, a fellow blondie, sadly I look far too good with a big beard to ever get away with it anymore.

[@commscan314]

@@constructionbird Blond with long hair? "LIQUIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIID!!!!!!"

[@constructionbird]

@@commscan314 liquid aint got shit on the length of my hair

[@reynastrange2828]

Re validation from bullies: I (a transwoman) don’t know how to process getting catcalled. Because obviously it’s threatening and sexist, but it also means that I look feminine enough for someone to assume I’m a woman. It’s gender affirming in the worst possible way, and I don’t know what to think about it

[@jamesphillips2285]

I think it is OK to have mixed feelings about it.

[@FWtheArtist]

Some how as a girl I was never cat called but I’ma guy now :b

[@VexRavenhardt]

I love this series! Sometimes, I see similar behaviors from strangers in my own life and it's not only funny but also validating in a way 😂❤

[@LemonAid82]

​​@Villealtseriously??? You again????? With an alt????????

[@VexRavenhardt]

@@LemonAid82 Ville is like Herpes 🙄

[@LemonAid82]

@@VexRavenhardt ikr

[@VexRavenhardt]

@@LemonAid82 yeah, mildly irritating and never really goes away 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@LemonAid82]

@@VexRavenhardt but he doesn't prevent me from having sex sooo

[@LuciferBug1421]

Theres a new game on steam (only the demo itll be released soon) its called fish game and in the game so far there is only male fish but some of them naturally spawn named "smol gurl" or "smol enbee" and i thought you guys would appreciate the trans fish in the game

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

[@MrDoggoCraft]

​@@stopallsinget your bot to spell correctly first And congratulations on buying an lgbtq+ flag to support the community

[@royalokii17]

Wohoo a new video :) I´m having a hard time right now and you and your content is really helping me through all of it! Thank you so much, Jame

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle.

[@sarahwithstars]

I loved the one about not believing we landed on the moon. It's like the first half of the statement sssscreamed "don't believe anything I ever say" and it was followed by ignorable transphobia. Chefs kiss.

[@RnbwQtz]

My family would call me Jerry as a joke, then I started to try out the name as a joke, the jokes stopped after that.

[@thedragonssparkvideos]

I had my first accidental ally! (FTM -- non-binary) (Haven't started hormones yet but hopefully soon!) I'm careful when I'm at my doctor appointments at the VA Medical Hospitals cause of all the variety of Veterans there (There are a lot of hateful ones unfortunately...Trump cultists and the like). Anyways, I was waiting for the doctor that wanted to double check a procedure I just got done. So I was in the waiting room with my husband and this guy that just got done explaining to a nurse why he didn't want to get a flu-shot (yup, anti-vaxer as well) then he sits down and turns to us. "You two look the same! Are you brothers? I bet you get that a lot." Firstly and most importantly, we look nothing a like. Secondly I've always fallen under the 'well no idea what gender you are so....' (fricken thankfully) but I can pass a bit more male leaning -- like I prefer -- with voice training and people not using my old first name. Knowing they are *that* type of person we just politely say no, not related but don't elaborate since we'd feel unsafe and don't like conflict. He chitters on -- thankfully just about traffic -- and we just nod politely until they busy themselves with something else. But WOO!! I PASSED!! Bahahaha

[@opheliesabine9716]

I'm AFAB and genderfluid, and speek with anti-trans is always funny. I have PCOS so i have beard. When they tall me "god don't make mistake" I replie " yes nature don't make mistake, it's why I have periods and beard. I'm a men AND a Women."

[@RestlessDarling]

A new video from you always puts me in a good mood :D

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

[@Panguinolucy]

@@stopallsinyes yes very cute

[@pomarutku]

Better help is a scam, pls read more about it before doing an ad ;-;

[@ChawiiChawi]

i was once walking down a road while trick or treating last halloween and i saw someone had a trans lighthouse metal pole decor on their lawn,i actually took a photo of it and t made my day it was my favourite halloween ever :)

[@ShinTriAce]

Some people just make me tired, and doesn't hating on people all the time make the phobes tired?

[@sandrols7]

I love the comment about having to walk on eggshells... because that is exactly what it feels like when dealing with transphobes! A transphobic colleague at my office would go on enormous transphobic tirades, triggered by the smallest of things, and it's so uncomfortable, having to deal with someone so easily put off who goes to shout at the friggin' office, where we have to pick up calls to help customers!

[@phoenixthings]

I literally got a transphobic ad right before the video you have got to be kidding me- 💀💀💀

[@ScarletTiger109]

I’m glad they waste money on an audience they have no power over

[@phoenixthings]

@@ScarletTiger109 hehe wasting transphobes money lets gooo :D

[@pfefferfilm]

There are loads of trans fish! Of course there is the Clownfish, but also the Okinawa Goby, that goes both ways, Plainfin Midshipman who will turn to a male if there are too many females in his school, and so many more

[@Sam_on_YouTube]

I'm a cis man. I can't reproduce. We used a donor and my kids are great. I love them very much.

[@ScarletTiger109]

This is a primary reason why transphobes can’t properly argue their points. Everything that can be said about a trans person can also be said about a percentage of the cis population

[@SevCaswell]

They/Them referring to a singular person in the English language is OLDER than the singular use of You. Singular 'you' used to be thee/thy, so if someone uses singular you then they are using a newer grammatical innovation than using they/them to refer to a single person.

[@dndnoob]

First 3 minutes of Jamie posting an awesome video? LET'S GOOOOO!!!

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle..

[@arayategan9218]

Had a baby on the 4th and all the baby hats were trans flag colors, so cute!

[@Panguinolucy]

@StopLGBT-ss7rwwhat a cute attempt hope your account doesn’t get banned

[@pencilpauli9442]

I'm at a loss as to why people get hysterical by less that 1% of the population

[@ShinyTillDawn]

They think that they are radically changing how society works.

[@carenmontgomery2384]

"Why fit in when you were born to stand out" dr.seuss

[@imarrywhales]

I'm so sorry Carlos Santana said that. He's a great musician and it would be nice if he was nice too. Back in the nineties he was epic. We all loved his music! It's sad that bigotry is prevalent in social media. I'm sorry.

[@SarastistheSerpent]

It is definitely upsetting, but to give him a shred of credit, he did apologize for his statement and said that he didn’t mean it. Unlike Neyo who doubled down on his transphobia

[@imarrywhales]

@StopLGBT-ss7rw I'm not watching your channel.

[@imarrywhales]

@@SarastistheSerpent what? Where's the link? I'll watch it.

[@lastscorpion3107]

damn men your voice is real deep in these clips you put in crazy my headphones were vibrating ^^

[@theophilusomhurchu4438]

WAIT OH MY GOD, the he/they/it person that person replied to was me OH MY GOD.

[@howlsaur]

yooo

[@tzman215]

That whole alien abduction scenario is so ridiculous. Like even if you picked up two people capable of procreating together they won't have enough genetics diversity to continue the species anyway

[@reganstormtail3614]

Clown fish transition. Lots of fish, really. Interestingly and sort of relatedly ,we've had many homosexual fish in our aquarium too. Mollies and anableps are live-bearers, so the anal fin of the male is a sex- organ. I've seen several members of both species who have had preffered same-sex partners.

[@instaperil]

Beep beep Richie was AMAZING on so many levels.

[@dark7859]

"why does everyone in first world countried need to be so quirky and different?" My NB brasilian ass: lmao allow me to introduce myself

[@boiled.toaster.waffles.]

hey did any of you also get a tuttle twins bootcamp ad before this video?? EDIT: YALL IM NOT EVEN KIDDING I JUST GOT A "GENDER TRANSFORMATION- THE UNTOLD REALITIES" AD TOO IM SOBBING

[@ScarletTiger109]

I am just glad they are wasting money on advertising to an audience they can’t influence.

[@jamesphillips2285]

@@ScarletTiger109 it is still harassment and intimidation.

[@ScarletTiger109]

@@jamesphillips2285 this is true :(

[@albin2232]

I am neither a friend nor an enemy. Trans people are just people. I do not care about anyone's gender or sexuality at all.

[@babs_babs]

yeah that’s cool too. what brought you to the trans side of youtube?

[@albin2232]

@@babs_babs Just so many interesting stories and nice people.

[@artikulv731]

Valid

[@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie]

👌🏻

[@ophiliavermeersch864]

The bully story made me remember that some bullies I had to deal with in my teens liked to call me a girl and french slur for lesbian because it rhymes with my deadname and I guess because I already had long hair and never liked the typically "that's what boys liked" of that time like football and COD... bruh I don't even know, I'll never understand what goes on their heads (not that I'm trying anyway)

[@kinglylyimp]

I’ve never pressed on a notification so fast

[@Nox.caffine]

Same 😂

[@stopallsin]

I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle...

[@wilhelmschmidt7240]

When ignorance is your main source of ideals, mistakes like these are inevitable and hilarious.

[@ShinyTillDawn]

that's elevated when you talk about Trump supporters

[@leanderdato4764]

I feel like being agender is the easiest way around transphobes. "you're not a girl" true "I mean, you're not a guy!" also true "I won't use any pronouns on you!" oh sweet, that's what I prefer anyway

[@ouch03]

@user-dz9eg4bx8qEver heard of researching a topic before going on a rant about it on the KZbin comment section?

[@NotPeacemaker]

10:49 that is true. Us furries are just cosplayers.