Jay & His Wife Radhi OPEN UP About Their SECRET To Real Love That LASTS!

Do you want to get over your biggest fear of 2023?
Do you want to set purposeful intentions for next year?
This episode is brought to you by @BMWUSA and the most On Purpose most asked for guest is back again, Jay's wife Radhi! Jay and Radhi take a ride around LA together and reflect on the past year in their personal life, relationship as well as career. They reflect on goals, fears, and looking ahead at how they want to change for 2024.
Jay and Radhi dive deep into their thoughts on facing their fears and doing things they fear doing the most, the biggest lessons and learning this year, and the personal choices that significantly impacted their lives in the last 12 months.
In this episode Jay's wife Radhi joins him for a road trip around LA in the all electric BMW iX. The iX is the embodiment of the ideal blend of luxury, technology, and power that delivers a thrilling, yet sustainable comfortable ride.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to overcome your fears & unlock the core of your fears
How to set better intentions for next year
How to give value to your partner's opinions
How to see past the lessons you’ve learned
As always with Jay and Radhi, their conversations are filled with laughter as well as deep reflections. This episode is filled with incredible nuggets of tips on how to implement strategies on shifting your mindset on fear and goal setting.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:34 What’s Something You Would Ask Your Partner’s Opinion Of?
03:24 What Do You Avoid Asking Opinion For?
06:56 What Need Have You Not Found a Friend to Spend With?
08:25 If We Switch Roles Today, What’s the First Thing You Will Do As Me?
14:08 Any Fun Memories While Driving?
16:57 Where Do You Drive To When You Miss Home?
18:43 Place You Are Most Scared of Going That You Ended Up Going
23:49 What’s the Root Cause of Our Fears?
26:41 What Is the Biggest Lesson You’ve Learned this Year
29:59 What Is Something You Want to Work on Next Year?
34:04 What Is Something You Valued in Your Relationship Now that You Didn’t Value Before?
37:58 What Did You Change This Year that Impacted Your Life?
To learn more about the all electric BMW iX head here bit.ly/jayshettyxbmwix

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Keeping an open line of communication with your partner is the surest way to a healthy relationship. What are some nontraditional ways you "check in" with your loved ones? I’d like to invite you to join this community and subscribe to the channel. By hitting the 'Subscribe' button, you're not just becoming a subscriber - you're choosing to make a positive difference in your life.

[@kaurjassu843]

❤❤❤

[@SushilaNishad-nf9hk]

So good and thanks 😊😊😊

[@ZarifaMEl-lf3zr]

A free BMW!

[@ElohiSilverEarthVentures]

Over food...always over food is my go to place way to check in with anyone..but definitely my partner. I just know that if I'm having a bad day or upset or wtv about something..if I've not aten..no no no don't dare try asking me what's up, I'll collapse or break down...food made with love is always the best place time to check in with one another I feel.

[@ElohiSilverEarthVentures]

And like after we've aten a bit first, lol...let the food digest a litl.

[@deysig26]

She should have her own channel with healthy food ideas and skincare she is glowing 😍😍

[@ShrimpNation1]

She does lol

[@-chantelle-]

This was so healing to listen to. By healing I mean the open communication and the honesty that you two have with each other ❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

its so inspirational ❤

[@zhyldyzk2450]

Omg 🎉❤my favorite couple. Deeply grateful to Jay Shetty and his Coaching school team

[@shelbyspellman3046]

Did you become a coach ? Or were coached? I read his book Think Like a Monk a second time and saw he has coaching certifications . How was your experience?

[@zhyldyzk2450]

⁠@@shelbyspellman3046hi Shelby. Yes I graduated from his school Jay Shetty Certification school. Experience is amazing. School modules are great While learning to help others first I learned to help myself, the awareness and understanding and the knowledge I got is priceless. I would recommend it to anyone. I found people that I can resonate on so many levels and areas of my life and grow together. It’s a unique school with 1 Billion Life changing Purpose!

[@melanieboykin9455]

I love this pure, honest conversation!

[@rosietaylor7287]

Thanks for another fantastic listen. Love you guys!! I value your conversations together so so much❤❤

[@angelab4759]

I love you guys! Jay saying its never a waste to ask for his time! So sweet! Rhadi is amazing and so adventurous and sweet. She show vulnerability which i love. The reassurance of each other is so healthy and you can see the love

[@LoveDandD]

Thank you for this candid and inspiring chat! I recognize those canyons very well, hiking them or driving around is a great time to think and appreciate life's blessings :) I like you, aim to create unique memories in a new home or city while cultivating nostalgia through lovely traditions from your homeland. I also moved from another country so I understand the adventure of it all and the periods of reassessment every year that are necessary for growth individually and together. ☺🌳

[@_jamiesa]

i feel like every time i watch/hear Radhi, i feel more connected to her in a way. I wish i had a friend such as her. we like a lot of the same things. she’s so sweet & theres such a pure essence to her. i’d love to hang out with her for a day !

[@nievesgarcia6299]

I really enjoy this deep, open and sincere conversation. It was both inspiring and insightful. You two have an amazing dynamic and connection. A gem of an episode. I appreciate you Jay and Radhi. Thanks for your honesty!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

agreed! love their connection ❤

[@hitishasharma6014]

they also work all the time to build it, it’s evident from the stories they shared that it didn’t start out this way, far from it.

[@meghapatil4377]

Thankyou guys for sharing such nice and genuine conversations....there's so much to learn from this to evolve - personally, in relationships and professionally. You both really reflect on what you do....and your perspectives are so different and pure. Thankyou so much....no wonder you both are enjoying such big success in all areas of life. ❤

[@mupetabobo9906]

Always refreshing listening to two loveable people, God bless you two!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

it is so refreshing! ❤

[@HeenaS1ngh]

Reading Jay’s book think like a monk! Bought it last year but finishing it up now. Will be done by end of week and I will say Jay got me to quit an addiction through his teachings and his conversations around addictions. Love you both!! Blessings to for this support.❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

I hope you enjoyed the rest of the book!

[@J_Vuthy]

I love these types of videos with your wife cause it helps me in my relationship with communicating and knowing the right words to express to my partner. Thank you guys for this!!!!! I love you guys tooooo much! 🙏🏽💙💜

[@nathanleung5592]

Another podcast episode with Mr & Mrs Shetty! Thank you for making a difference in so many lives together. Hope to see you two making more positivity & a difference in 2024! ❤😊

[@edytaalexandra1814]

24:09 I melted when you touched Radhi shoulder, it meant so much empathy and understanding for what she was saying

[@vickid3081]

Authentic connection, love's enduring journey explored in a scenic conversation. Beautiful!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤

[@carmenreynolds5442]

What a great idea with your partner to do during a road trip, love the honesty and conversation you guys have with each other ❤ loved the feel compassion part/conversation for others of the drive.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

yes! I want to do this! ❤

[@lydsa9662]

Radhi, you have such a big heart and you are beautiful from the inside out. With time your passions will be revealed to you as you work through your roots of your self doubt and make choices that you want to make for yourself. Considering your needs. Jay, it’s neat to see you are being sensitive to this stage of life as you are taking more time to reflect. Radhi and Jay, you make such a beautiful couple and I believe dreams can be birthed as you have the space and time to spend with each other in this new season of life.

[@SATTIE59]

Love this. Great to hear the answers you both gave to the questions. My favorite couple ❤️❤️

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

they are great! ❤

[@santoshik.c.9943]

I love both of you. Always stay blessed and happy and spread your happiness and wisdom to people. Thank you so much for sharing Loads of love

[@KyshiaMarie]

Radhi and I have so many things in common as far as like needs from her friendships that makes me feel more hopeful to find it ❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

You will!! ❤ good luck

[@impactwisdom1878]

Wow that's means you have an amazing personality..I love the fact that she's a happy soul ❤❤

[@tinahurley743]

Thank you!!!! You must be awarded once for being such an amazing team, the devine couple of the century in the entire Universe!!!! Thanks for inviting us see your unity from within. Praying for your lives longevity and prosperity and many many things you need.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤

[@dazzlinggene]

This is an amazing conversation between you guys and I’m just grateful to be able to watch it. Adore you both 🥹🫂🥂🩷

[@morettiigormuheto4570]

Such a great authentic convo. Much appreciated 🙌🏽

[@latoyaw2120]

Thanks for fantastic meaningful conversation. These question really put a spark back into my fire to really evaluate my life again as this year has been a struggle even though I have been accomplishing things. So thank you .

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

wishing you the best of luck in 2024 ❤❤

[@Cassandra777]

Such a gorgeous couple in every manner. 🥰 God bless your union ❤🙏

[@jravikanth_]

I lived😍 it as usual Jay Shetty Sir. Your Podcast on Purpose is a priceless gift.❤

[@noortasneem8129]

my favourite couple FINALLY ! LOVE YOU GUYSSSSS THANK YOU BOTH OF YOU !!

[@559569]

You two have such positive energy, just looking at you makes me smile.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

they are infectious to watch! Can't help but smile

[@vanessagabu1455]

Dont judge other people’s emotions. I like that.

[@LisaLisaD1]

This was so special, thank you!! 😊Lisa

[@honestcomments8053]

Loving couple...nice to see young couple who are positive, intelligent and family oriented.

[@danielagriselbeizagalaura1680]

Guys, just pop in to say thanks because every time that I hear you guys talking about this topics I just have personal brainstormings with myself and it’s just clarity for my life. Thanks thanks

[@anykaivey4958]

Radhi ❤ your honesty is why I admire you. I also have looked at my partner and friends and wanted to join in on their purpose but kept finding myself Quitting at the first hurdle to find I actually wasn’t passionate like they are. I’ve finally found my thing which is art and pet portraits and I finally feel like I’m worth something. You guys are amazing ❤

[@melanie9333]

Such beautiful 2 souls ! Couple goals..... ❤

[@rossmorgan1760]

What an amazing couple you guys are. God bless & much love from Australia 🇦🇺 P.s Rami you are amazing as an individual too.God loves you & has great plans for your life.Keep smashing those goals. I look forward to many more years listening intently 🙏🏼💖

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Happy new year down under! ❤

[@Hari_Raval]

Love this conversation!

[@Marcus-ux3cm]

So inspiring. Thanks ❤

[@mabelbeltre53]

You guys should open a podcast honestly both of you are always my favourite episodes

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

yes! great idea ❤

[@luizowo]

It’s so nice to listen both of you together ❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

agreed! ❤

[@Seraphim7]

Gorgeously Sweet people …. Listening to your guy’s First Interview. It’s SO Sweet. 💞

[@JaystarC]

Amazing .. Deep thoughts, relationship advice... None materialistic content ... And all thanks to BMW sponsorship.. A true spiritual collaboration..

[@darlenepadilla6186]

love this, enjoy every moment together, time flies bye ✌️

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

so true! ❤

[@dalilaramos3851]

You know what’s so beautiful both of your eyes change the same color in different spaces. It’s feels like you both travel lifetimes together 💚💙

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤

[@transcripttranscript3039]

Safe and blessed festive season to the Mashile family❤

[@44colors]

This was very special! I love you guys❤️❤️❤️

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Thank you!

[@user-xl9gd3lv3b]

Gosh!! I enjoyed this drive short and interesting coz not only listened but had a good look in and out of the MBW car ❤💜💙

[@lightoflife6673]

He's so deep in love with her. You really can tell

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

definitely, there is no faking that! ❤

[@halsey6541]

i loved itt, Thankyou Jay and Radhii❤

[@carolvivas450]

I adore videos with Jay and Radhi!! thank you guysss

[@irenes.8731]

Love the energy between you two ❤

[@kcopara1]

Serious question: Why do some couples look like siblings (brothers and sisters)? Is it an unconscious drive to be with someone that looks similar to them? His wife could easily be mistaken to be his sister.

[@carolinejoy00]

I would say because they are the other part of their soul... Some people call them soulmate/twin flame... If you desire to meet the other part of your soul you will attract it.... And attract more information about it.... The day you meet them it will blow you away.... Its not an easy journey... Watch the notebook, and Serendipity movie and see if it touches your soul... I found out about them with a talk from Divine Truth... Secrets of the universe... Years ago and my desire lead me to my soulmate a day you will never forget...its magic... Keep desiring true love good luck 👍

[@marials9245]

I think they may look similar because of their beautiful light blue eyes and brown skin, but I don’t thinks that the rest of their features look too similar (although they are both extremely pretty!!)

[@beanburrito8903]

Literally just a coincidence. But most people are attracted to familiarity.

[@JP-vu6mz]

All couples take on each others habits and mannerisms which make them appear to be similair elated after a few years. You are a mirror of your partner whether you know it or not, they hold the qualities you desire and vice versa, the physical resemblance is argueable. Become what you seek to desire and you will meet it.

[@ivaslife]

My first thought when i was watching Lmao😂

[@jbhalodia]

Love you both so much. So much love, so much wisdom, amazing❤

[@luciepaimblanc]

Thank you, I love listening to you guys!

[@natalymaslova8772]

It's such a good idea to learn each other more !!! ❤❤❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

yes! should never stop ❤

[@user-mc2vh5ph3i]

To be honest I've been curious about what kind of relationship you have with your partner Jay how you guys get along with each other. The way I see it has a lot in common with what you walk us through what is definitely worth it to take on. You guys are awesome. I love the way you speak with each other. ☺️

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

it's a wonderful communication ❤

[@vanessas2363]

COUPLE GOALS FOR ME I hope I meet someone that could treat me this way. I've been so abused in relationships. Pray for me guys for 2024. Thank you 🙏 Love you both ❤🇬🇧

[@rosiemetha1413]

I'm So sorry for the past But God's going to do a new thing in your Life this Year I'm praying 🙏🙏 for You to b aware an totally Wise state of mind to Not settle for the okie dok Your Special an you deserve the Best Your best Life is ahead of you 🎉 Timing is everything Not age❤

[@vanessas2363]

@@rosiemetha1413 that's so very kind. Thank you. That means a lot. I do realise that the reason the relationships failed was God was protecting me. They were parasites and wicked men. So I have to give thanks for that 🙏 it's an awful world full of greed and deceit so if I have to stay alone (20 years now) then so be it 👍 better than being exploited. Some people get lucky, some don't. Take care and God bless your heart ❤ all the best for 2024 😊

[@Justaddwineandlove]

Just said a prayer for you that 2024 will be your most loved❤

[@vanessas2363]

@@Justaddwineandlove thank you. That's so very kind ❤💕🤗

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

I pray you get this! You deserve healthy love ❤

[@dorthy739]

Awww...so sweet. Communication is priceless. Aside from that, you both are also funny 🥰💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

They are funny for sure! ❤

[@gayleblake4482]

As someone who is currently trying to remaster how to create their universe,this lost soul finds these so great.

[@miss2slick]

These are great questions!

[@DominionAnako-bb7ry]

Love your video and keep it up

[@shelbyspellman3046]

The “tone it down” at 6:15 was so cute 🤣

[@Cinnamon111]

I absolutely love u guys and love this video❤🙂

[@mikishajones7435]

I think that's so cute how he's a perfectionist and she worry's a lot about doing things right they balance each other out that's adorable ❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

super cute ❤

[@lindsaymoratz9025]

Loved this!

[@travis3094]

Communication is definitely key to long term relationships but it's true it's not about being exactly the same though it's undeniable that a certain level of compatibility is needed but no matter effort has to be equal also.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

vulnerability and communication!! ❤❤

[@samantarizzi248]

I enjoyed this very much! Honestly it felt like driving around with you guys just listening to you talk about life. I like how you two always make me think and although I resonate more with Radhi, I definitely think Jay’s way to expressing what’s inside his mind helps people put things into perspective. But yeah anyways, you two are cute 😊 Wish you a lifetime of happiness!

[@bgirl1220]

Both eyes are mesmerizing!!

[@Sillyg8se]

You both as an individual have a lot to achieve. All the best when you both accept it

[@judybrown2959]

Love this

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

Always my favourite speaker l always admire and appreciate Jay genius best professor. ❤.

[@nathanleung5592]

Jay always reminds me to keep up as much positivity l need in life! 😊

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

@@nathanleung5592 Jay genius l always love to admire and appreciate him for his awesome service to all the people. I love all his topics in his programs which makes me enthusiastic in any situations of my life.

[@A.Malik8]

This is so beautiful..so great love you both..

[@HeroinMistress422]

lovely all around. Inspirational for good people who want to make good money while maintaining their spiritual health.

[@5995Jiol]

Dear God whatever Jay and Rhadhi said in their prayers to get here, I ask for myself as well Amen.

[@amiemartinez7800]

Car trips are so awesome! The most poignant moments in my life have come about during moments in the car!

[@rcz2023]

Thank you !

[@bhavishabalgobin977]

What should someone do if they have no one to share their things with? Just a random question... Thank you.😇

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

share with friends and family? a pet? ❤

[@yorti006]

Join crossfit or a book club, something. Its probably you who needs to open up and push yourself push your comfort zone

[@priyankachowdary3395]

Well, I know that experience as I am in that phase. What I can say for myself is that I am more connected to God. God is like my father, my friend, my girlfriend, my mom and also like my boyfriend. I hope you get the idea. I’m not trying to offend God but I just made God as all relationships and I share a lot with God and I’m more full person than ever before❤❤❤

[@rosiemetha1413]

I love This so much An b4 I started writing a comet I really wanted to reflect on what stood out the most because the whole thing was so awesome Just listening to each others comets a response and really reciprocating to one another I say All this because when I'm on social media or even out in public or friends and shoot even family 😂 that couple tend to tlk over each other an no ones really listening because each one wants their say so or opinion matter More than the other Or Also I don't like when they throw each other under the bus a disrespect One another so belittling I think in everything I said is that You guys are a perfect roll model for this generation an up an coming generations. You should both speak at Marriage conferenceso or b4 Marriage conferences😅😂. Just sayn because u both hold so Much Value an Morales 🎉🎉🎉 🥂🥳 Much love to you both

[@thilagavathyrengasamy541]

Beautiful couple's god blessed

[@GSecret07]

Loveee both of youu ! And Radhiii i would love to be the friend you binge watch reality show with hahaha 🫶🏼

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

haha, me too please! ❤

[@goldengateway9652]

Couple goals 🥹🤍✨🌷

[@hamzabenali8062]

Amazing

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

❤ awesome colour my favourite blue.

[@YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he]

❤you fit well together😊🎉.

[@skyshorts-1103]

That's good Jay!❤

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Thank you ❤

[@joanhardy1787]

I've heard of Jay Shetty here and there but had no experience of him until tonight. Jada Pinkett Smith. That he could sit there without chuckling, without calling her out for her 'trifflin'' but rather seemingly engaging in a deep conversation with her,. I couldn't watch the whole thing and now I couldn't take him too seriously from here on. Also, is this a car advertisement?

[@raquellennan1760]

I love this couple

[@paulatofful532]

Love it 🫶❤️‍🔥

[@keitumetsemagano9961]

Beautiful couple ❤ 👌

[@user-bx4ec1rb8f]

I am obsessed with you two, totes hilar 😂❤

[@user-yx2zu6tf9i]

Stability allows a person the freedom of choice, my friend. People can pursue their dreams only when they are living in a society where survival is not a daily threat. In a society without security and stability, there are no intellectuals or businessmen or artists or geniuses. Man is constantly in fight or flight mode. nothing better than an animal. Where is the chance then to allow ideas to be nurtured or dreams to be pursued? That is the way all humans were before we formed societies. Civilisation is very fragile. All it takes is a few decades of chaos for us to forget humanity and turn into animals. Our base natures can take over very fast. We can forget that we are sentient beings, with laws and codes and ethics.. Amish Tripathi

[@larisashiganyan5720]

They look alike, that unique eyes color, how did they find each other?!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤

[@deysig26]

I love this you should make daily vlogs together hehehe

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

yesssss please

[@BrendanWoolwine]

This video makes me so grateful for my wife. Radhi reminded me of her when she was being goofy when she "yelled" at you. It Made me laugh! Thanks

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

awwww, your wife is so lucky! ❤

[@beathard69]

That was Great. 😀👍👍Thanks.

[@nathanleung5592]

Worth rewatch podcast episode 😊🎉

[@user-yx2zu6tf9i]

Freedom is never the ally of law. You can have freedom to choose whether you want to join or leave a society based on the rule of law. But as long as you live in such a society you must obey the law.. -amish tripathi

[@thesoundofaccrapodcast]

Awesome jay!

[@nathanleung5592]

Worth rewatching episode on the podcast Jay! ❤

[@brendamccaleb726]

He said definitely not singing or dancing 😂 they are too cute

[@beanburrito8903]

Bmw sponor wow. Doing big things. Is it all electric 💡 & vegan leather ?