How to *ACTUALLY* make high value female friends as an adult | tips // advice + more

This is what it REALLY means to cultivate high value femeale friendships in your life. Apply some of the tips I talk about in the video to not only BE a high value woman yourself, know what TO and NOT TO look out for in making friends, and how to ACTUALLY make a high value female friend! Hope you enjoy xx.
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[@SandraVWithTheKey]

I had a friend that would constantly trauma dump on me. So much so that I would avoid her phone calls. When I finally decided to communicate to her what the problem was, she didn’t receive it well.

[@jazturner16]

Sister i have gone through this EXACT situation!!!! It’s sad and heartbreaking but I guess we weren’t meant to have them in our life rn ❤️

[@myspontaneouslife297]

I started asking my girls what are we about to talk about, and is it something I can help you with. I have started suggesting therapist and prayer. It does way you down, but at the same token, I love helping people figure out the solution to the issue and how everything doesn't need to be shared

[@beingcalandra]

It’s crazy because when this situation came up in my life I felt Terrible about letting the friend go but my mental well-being NEEDED IT ❤

[@leeannalundy3260]

I’m at this space right now and I go back n forth. N we had this conversation but she definitely not receptive but me avoiding is no better.

[@w3n33dam1racl3]

​@@leeannalundy3260Why do you think she's not receptive to what you are saying?

[@AyishaAni23]

I feel so isolated at times. I never had a solid girl group. I keep to myself because I see people’s true colors now. I’m definitely going to start implementing your tips! Thank you for sharing!

[@CCC9437]

I’ve been in a girl group twice and everytime there were side friends and it turned into an us vs them. Hella drama … Smdh I hate it

[@enjolique367]

I am actually suspicious of large girl groups. I'm not 100% sure that is a real thing ever

[@rowena6249]

Agree with you wholeheartedly. But, these days, it's mostly freeing not to have just anyone in my space. It's said often that you are lucky if you have that one solid friendship. That's what I am intentionally aiming for moving forward. All the best to you.

[@katarzynakrol-dusza5875]

Girl I’ll be your friend! 🎀

[@LinusLarrabee]

This is 100% your look. It’s giving Elite Barbie😎

[@jazturner16]

Omg this is the best compliment ever!! Thank you so much!💗

[@toriwayne7983]

Correct! It’s ok to not make a bestie every time and I’m learning this!

[@jazturner16]

Yesss sis took me a long time to learn that but it’s so important !!!

[@thejenniferfanning]

I have a so-called “best friend” who only remembers I exist when she has news for me. She rarely reaches out to check-in. When I check-in with her, it takes her weeks to reply. Also, when she meets new people, it’s as if I don’t exist. I won’t hear from her for months, and then I’ll receive a message starting with “OH MY GOD JENN…” Girl, I have a toddler now, I’m too exhausted chasing him around, I ain’t got time for this! 😂 She has definitely been demoted from best friend, she doesn’t know how to be one.

[@jazturner16]

Yes sis I completely understand! Completely okay to demote people instead of cutting them off!!

[@Therealwithrahwa]

Cutting some friends off and creating room for new ones has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

[@lovelyricos]

I find it very hard to make female friends, easier with men. For me to be friends with a woman, we really have to have a lot in common and think alike. I find many women not liking me, I think I intimidate them, I have this boss chic aura and then the jealousy and competition enters (something I don’t need). Once I notice that it’s deuces !

[@jazturner16]

Thank you for sharing sister, I COMPLETELY understand!!!!

[@kinkin6143]

Same I totally agree

[@Maremare680]

Same here!

[@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439]

Just curious, do you naturally gravitate to women you are better than? Women are also 'boss chics indeed' not just in optics may not be intimidated because they too are trying to find like minded people.

[@Peace-pn1yp]

Intimidate?? I understand that jealous women exist, but to say many women don't like you to the point its easier to be friends with men is a bit intense. Have you ever stopped to examine yourself before pointing fingers at other women?? Also, do you gravitate more towards women you may deem "lesser" than you or "not on your level"?? I don't mean this in a harsh way, I'm just curious since many women are "boss chic" and many aren't trying to intimidate or be intimidated as they are also trying to find like-minded women.

[@flawlesshoney]

True! My friend of 25 years started acting funny and stopped talking to me after I got married last year. I still cry and she’s right - it IS devastating

[@lilyo.9802]

Mine stopped talking to me after I had a baby. It hurt me for a long time, literally broke my heart, but I have made better friends now, & I’m happy God brought them into my life! It does get better! & seriously, if you can’t be happy for me, you’re not really my friend. I might have thought you were, but you really weren’t.

[@lenoreoak3541]

Yes - I have experienced this also, it is hard.

[@peacefaith560]

same here....we went to HS together, known of each other for 27 yrs, she even lied about the reason she couldnt be my maid of honor...years later she married a ex con crack head ...

[@itsYourChance]

Aw ❤️ i understand that too. I met the person I've been waiting for my whole life, and the person that was supposed to be my best friend suddenly turn jealous too. I thought they didn't have a jealous bone in their body. It is the strangest and most hurtful thing.. The season changed and sometimes it happens like that

[@magdalenelawson]

I know it hurts but trust me you are so better off, you don't need that energy as a Married woman

[@tanasiawilliams6072]

Life has definitely been different for me after having a kid but I’m more focused on self development and self care so this video came at the perfect time

[@jazturner16]

That's okay sister!! Entering a new era of YOU!!! I'm so glad I could be apart of that journey💗

[@Cookiedesigns254]

Thank you for this video. Insecure women don’t make good friends! I can’t wait to make friends with women who love themselves and KNOW they’re all that like me!

[@nothankyou2850]

My closest friends were great until I started becoming more successful. Taught me I do not want anyone in my life that is in an unhealthy competition with me. Being inspired is way different from being envious and fake. And I’ve learned that mental health is important for everyone. So important things I put on my list is are TRUST, an equally yoked friendship. Someone who will show up for me genuinely not just to be in my business , have leverage over me or have the satisfaction of seeing me down. I also want people who will make an effort to have healthy communication and loyalty. I don’t want to be the therapist friend who is the only one trying to solve issues in the group unless the group is going to do the same in return. I don’t do anything to receive anything in return. However it’s truly exhausting being the one doing all the pouring into others and no one is pouring into you.

[@Zara_Luna]

Nothankyou2850 Beautifully said ❤ equally yoked friendship

[@bmotlow]

I really needed this. I have a friend who is so unhappy with her life that every conversation is her angry and complaining. I don’t mind listen but it’s constant venting with no efforts to find a solution. It’s so draining.

[@kindredkey]

detach girl! sounds one-sided

[@mariagarza1269]

Hi Valie does not mean expensive. It does not mean wearing expensive clothing or accessories. It means having self respect, being loyal to those close to you, and those commited to improving themselves as human beings, not just materially.

[@micheleriley8985]

Sis you are speaking my language, so many friends I let go of because of it being a one sided relationship, which became Uber draining. I now have a friend who I met online via me doing business and we have become such great friends although we live in different states. We are ambitious women and we support each other via encouraging words when we are dealing with romantic relationships, family members or our business ventures. I made it a point to become the person I want to attract, I don't wait for someone to speak positive affirmations to me I speak them over myself each morning after I thank God for waking me up. Loving this video❤ 🔥🔥🔥Subscribed!

[@Jaylove777]

This is great stuff. It’s how my bff and I met. She didn’t just exchange numbers, but sent a message at the end of the day, saying it was good meeting. Next day, she was already asking to meet the following weekend at a specific time. After that, she asked to meet again, basically she meant business 😂 I got the point, and also put in the work after, but if she hadn’t followed up initially, I don’t think we would be where we are now a few years later. I think for many, the problem isn’t meeting ppl, it’s cultivating it, and building intimacy. They meet ppl, but maybe both aren’t ready for a close friendship, or they aren’t sure how to be vulnerable and put in the work needed. Honestly, it’s best to do it with someone like you, similar interests, similar lifestyle, even income. I say the latter because if one person wants to go out to a steakhouse, and your budget is McD, it can cause issues. One person may want to travel, but if you don’t have travel budget, can affect it all. Even similar music interests, will allow you guys go to same concerts.

[@Lmk790]

Very heavy on the similar income. I learnt the hard way.

[@maryburton9308]

So true. You are who you hang around.

[@jazturner16]

EXACTLY!!

[@MindofRena]

I love the energy that is radiating through my screen right now. It's hard to find Women who are truly honest with themselves about their own faults and where they fall short in their relationships. I have been doing a lot of self reflection and reflecting on the relationships I have and I came to the conclusion that neither aspect is exuding the energy that I desire. I'm so happy this video popped up on my feed because I truly needed to see it. Also I'm literally a therapist so I'm the default therapist friend and it can be so draining but I'm setting my boundaries day by day.

[@jackienicole2041]

I’m definitely working on not making the conversation about me . I’m aware of it. I realized i didn’t want the person to feel alone & i too have been through that before . definitely something i am actively working on

[@Krystalonthemove]

Jasmine, I’m old enough to be your Mother but i follow you for inspiration b/c I’ve considered starting a similar channel for women over 40. I also love caring for my skin but not so much as an influencer but more on a health side. You are so different from other beauty influencers AND other members of your sorority. You are transparent and there is something so genuine about you that I just don’t see in some of the others. You spoil yourself but you’re not bragging, if that makes sense. You actually encourage others in a way that’s just not fake and I love it. I really do. You inspire this ole Mama. I follow you on TT as well. Keep up the good work!

[@jazzminevans6551]

Love this Jaz💗. Something I definitely had to learn was to be unapologetic about showing up as my best self and knowing my worth. I’ve had a lot of experiences where I’d find someone I thought is my friend is lowkey constantly comparing themselves to me…and in an effort to make them feel more comfortable I made myself smaller and brushed off shady comments. The more I really learned my self worth the less I could even tolerate being handled a certain way in both romantic relationships & friendships.

[@jazturner16]

THANK YOU JAZZ!!💗💗 People are so weird nowadays when its never that deep, unfortunately we need to lose friends and get back to ourselves to start brining in GOOD friendships into our life. Its a process/journey but it'll be better in the long run for you!💗

[@alexismays6013]

I’ve been working on myself and thinking a lot about attracting a new circle of good, high quality friends! I’ve lost some pretty close relationships but they were not all good, which is why I don’t have them anymore but seeing this video is confirmation that I’m on the right track!

[@findingher]

I love how beautifully you explained this! I'm definitely the low maintenance friend, and I cannot wrap my entire life around someone 24/7. I'm here whenever they need, and I will also be there to listen and check in, visit, etc. I think I used to feel bad for 1. not understanding that this was just the kind of friend I am and that it's OK 2. giving my all to a higher maintenance friend because of the shame/guilt put onto me. In return it really drained me of my energy and I had to find a way to create boundaries for those kinds of friends.

[@blisslove3758]

Woow how were you able to create boundaries? I’m definitely the low maintenance friend and unable to be in contact 24/7 as welll.

[@theresabennett915]

As an older woman my true friends are the ones I grew up with. New people that come in to my life are just associates. True loyalty is my friend's that been in my life from elementary school. I do not trust easily. I appreciate your tips. Blessings!🙏

[@bsjackson06]

Mine as well. However I think that’s why I’m finding it hard to admit that my longest friends are the most low vibrational. They are loyal and we’ve been friends since kids, but that’s why I’m finding it hard to demote them because I’m also loyal. Longevity is not always the best thing.

[@ttmoore8750]

I'm doing all of these things, I just need to do a list of qualities I want in my friends and start planning activities to do with others. Thanks for the wholesome discussion, no stone was left unturned.

[@jazturner16]

Yesss sis!! All in good time, im glad I could help💗

[@jasmineberei]

Love this video! I used to be the therapist friend & now I’ve learned to set boundaries. I especially agree with getting around people who hold the same values and standards!

[@NaijaDelta_]

Im alone now but Im not lonely. Loved the video. 💕💕 Cant wait to meet my tribe. 😊

[@jazturner16]

Yes, sister!! You have a great perspective! Alone, but not lonely! That’s from the biggest transformation happens for us!💗

[@kaykay834]

Thanks, good content! I recently ended two (20 year friendships) with two different people because of what you mentioned in this video. And yes, it has been lonely at times. However, what's important is that everyone is NOT meant to go on every journey with you, so know when to let them off the ride.

[@jasmynelliott]

Brilliantly done. I’m currently undergoing the pruning process with my friend group and it has been surprisingly simple to the point that I’m barely emotionally affected by their departure. Now comes the time to refill those empty slots with like-minded women looking to elevate.

[@kamrynamon]

Hi Jaz! Again you hit the nail on the head, losing a friend is such a traumatic experience. Everybody can not come with you in certain periods in your life and that is totally okay! Keep going, loving this content!

[@Itsbellelove]

Girl you are so me! The amount of times I screamed EXACTLYYY is ridiculous lol . Thank you for this 💕

[@jazturner16]

yessss sis!!! I got you!

[@carmellabrown7204]

I love that she started with the idea of working on YOU!! Knowing yourself and showing up as a good version of you. Manifesting is such a positive great tool!

[@mpauli12]

Just went through a friendship breakup. I got tired of the disrespect and the constant need to diminish myself and my day to day accomplishments to appease her. I wish her well but I feel way more at peace and just free to accomplish my goals more than ever now. A bestie that I do still have is so beautiful and badass. We’re actually working on a business together. We’re both in the medical field and have worked our butts off to get where we are now. We motivate each other to want more and want better for ourselves.

[@mpauli12]

@@1bluegreen2 I have a healthy support system and God for that so I’m good.

[@CrystalSoto1998]

I found you recently , I’ve been in Atlanta for 6 years, and had the worse experience with friends. I’ve spent months working in myself because all this time I thought I was the problem. Thanks to your videos and other woman that inspire me , I realized I am NOT the problem. Thank you for this , you’re amazing 💓

[@yoleneouayoro5510]

We are so similar lol I feel you on being a low maintenance friend I can’t talk everyday and also I hate a “friend” who only talks about themselves ! This was a really good video I will be manifesting better friends!

[@kia8371]

Hope one day I can have women like you in my circle.

[@HotGACPA]

Great tips. As an accomplishment woman with a full life I really didn’t think of making new friends for years. Now in my 40s I value and work on maintaining friendships more.

[@tmc1373]

You're the mentor I've needed for so long. You absolutely have no idea how grateful I am to have stumbled across your channel. THIS WAS EXCELLENT ADIVCE AND EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR!! THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!

[@preshthegem]

I had a friend who I did so much for. Like I went above and beyond yet when I went thru the darkest period in my life she was nonexistent. Barely checked in. Then tried to one up and say she was going thru her own shit to notice mine rather than take accountability for her actions. I had to cut ties because not only did she ghost, she didn’t even try to actively make amends after I told her how I felt and and I realised I was the one keeping the relationship alive lol

[@PreethiShakti]

Wow this whole video is gold! The way you articulated your points deeply resonated & put into words what I’ve been trying to process about my friendships for a long time. Thanks for sharing your insights ✨

[@thename6236]

You look absolutely stunning!! Very classy

[@jazturner16]

Thank you so much!!!💗

[@inyenyenzi]

You need to be two things for your friends, that they need to be for you - kindness and an abundance mindset. When life gets tough, you'll be grateful for having unfailingly kind and encouraging people. Ask anyone that's hit rock bottom.

[@theshaesthetic]

We would definitely get along lol because I’m definitely a low maintenance friend but also valuable and caring.

[@jazturner16]

Yesssss someone gets it!!!

[@lurearomatic]

Hey JAZ! Ive been watching your videos since last week and you have truly become a virtual mentor to me. I remember a time when I was the friend who realized that I was trauma dumping on all of my friends in the past. And when I would realize, I would go incognito because I would feel bad that I had told them so much pain instead of considering how they truly felt. I am in a period in my life that I am healing daily and I am beginning to isolate to truly glow back up from everything I went through from friendships, past relationships, etc. I eventually want to put myself back out there when I want to make friends again. I am going to be 29 in 2 weeks and I really have reignited myself on my healing journey. You ever feel like you hit a hurdle or a bump in the road to then actually stop and have time to reflect on how you've REALLY been towards others? This is currently me rn :) Thank you so much and I LOVE your videos. Please continue to spread your likemindness and informing. It's really helping us! ♥️

[@LoquaciousPint]

I have tried so many times to get my friend to minimize the gossip because I am witnessing it ruin her life but she just will not end it

[@Closingswithchan]

I’m so ecstatic that you did this video, I’ve been thinking about this topic so much and his was so helpful ! Thank Jaz ❤

[@jazturner16]

THANK YOU!! I'm so glad you found it helpful!!💗💗

[@user-vn8id4bk8h]

12:48pm I know this video was made 6 months ago but I feel it’s very necessary for me to comment… I commend you Jaz! You are a very positive, motivational and inspiring woman! I thank God for coming in contact with your channel. I have learned so much from watching your videos and I appreciate the time and energy you pour into your videos. I thank you for your transparency and your honesty! There have been many things I have already known about myself; however I just needed to hear it aloud to admit it to myself. And I also love the fact that you have reminded me of who I once was and where I went wrong in my life that has caused me to become who I don’t want to be. Thanks to you I have really noticed sooooo much about myself and people that I have been around- just by listening to you. Sometimes we as females need to hear certain things from another perspective to pinpoint hidden issues and decipher how to handle situations. Thank you so much!!! Thank God for you! I appreciate you and I pray your channel continues to grow and expand gracefully!!! God bless you hun!!!!

[@TheYummymummy888]

Thank you darling. Words of wisdom were given here and I have most certainly noted them down. Time to make healthier relationship choices in general. ❤

[@jazturner16]

Thank YOU for watching sister!!!!💗💗

[@VONALEXANDRIA]

This was so very very helpful. I have wanted to find new high-value female friends in my life. This has provided me a good running start. As a fashion designer and female who has accomplished much in my life it sometimes is difficult to find friends. This is good.

[@taylorhenry6313]

I love your content Jaz! Please continue creating inspiring content like this.

[@jazturner16]

This means the world sis, thank you so much!! I love it here, I'm going to keep going 💗

[@anekadiamond]

chileeeeee i had to cut off a few friend that used me like a free therapist but never invited me out fror anything like girl no talk to your friends that you go out with and if you knew how many friends only spoke to me to. gossip and trauma dum i had to cut off it was so annoying. mad that a goal that i wouldnt gossip or be a counsulor for them and they just faded away and im fine with it.

[@jazturner16]

Thank you for sharing sister!!! I went through something similar! Its frustrating, but you're not alone!!

[@styledbychristine8946]

Jaz you look gorgeous gal, Thank you 🙏🏾 i believe when you work on yourself first you attract high value friends.

[@jazturner16]

So true! And thank you so much sister!💗

[@AnnaJPosh]

This is so me, perfectly explained dear! Great advice all throughout this video! I agree 💯 want friends on your level, self assured but humbled at the same time and in alignment with your morals and values. Keep in mind associates and friends are different. I seek friends want those with a high and positive vibration with a beautiful energy and when were not we give ourselves grace and encourage each other.

[@kindredkey]

This has me looking at my friendships and it's interesting how some things pan out. I especially like the advice on having different friends for different things. We're diverse and unique and therefore it makes sense that we will have many types of friends. I also like the idea of "dating" your friends. I actually do this with one of the friends we call our outings dates! Also good to note that every person you initially connect with might not pan out and that's okay too. Also to note that "high-value" is what we interpret as high value NOT what someone on social media says is high-value. I think high-value are people you vibe with.

[@noiretalk]

Excellent video! I took notes to keep me on track when it comes to manifesting my own tribe and the type of people I'm trying to attract. I've been doing a lot of self-development and self-awareness work.

[@LiliaBlack]

So so helpful! Thank you for making this video I have been struggling to make friends as an adult ( I literally have two and one of them is my sister lol) so I will use all these tips to put myself out there.

[@ColorMeNette]

Friends that know when to go home…yyeeessss 😂🎉. i felt that. Omg im always sending my friend’s positive things

[@jazturner16]

likeeeeeeee its time to GO!!!😂

[@JenniferKristin888]

It's crazy to me how much so many of us want meaningful freiendships, yet we remain without them for so long. Here's to never giving up on finding our girlfriend tribe! ❤

[@user-wn2es2ie8g]

This video came into my feed at the perfect time. I really needed this confirmation. You have a new subscriber and Im happy to be apart of this community as it grows. 🌸 Thank you.

[@marshacreary2442]

You bring up pertinent information regarding friend groups. Regarding the trauma dumping, you might want to inquire about the relationship dynamics that incite that response as well as having that person research attachment styles. Is that person experiencing a healthy friendship dynamic? Is that person able to discuss that dynamic freely and make adjustments? How is conflict handled in that friendship? Has there been room for resolution and necessary adjustments? If not, why?

[@charminking2777]

I attract toxic and unstable “friends” I’m friendless now because it’s so draining being the counselor and bestfriend to all these people that have no mental stability. I had to pray and cut these people off. And I’m happy I did. I had to self talk myself and told myself I am a high value friend and that’s all I want to attract. This is something I’ve been working on and so far so good. I love me and I need people on that same level.

[@coachsandra0002]

I love how you break it down to its simplest form… Their descriptions are right on.❤

[@therights6794]

I like this video. Not to brag but I’m usually the friend that every girlfriend I’ve had is clingy towards…If I had to guess it’s because I’m very self reliant and confident, a jokester, I don’t take myself too seriously . (At least most of the time) I guess I’m also somewhat of a therapist friend and love going out of my way for friends, and when I truly love a friend, I become motherly..I want them to win in every way and I’m fiercely protective. I’m also not afraid to end a friendship (I’ve ended friendships multiple times bc of jealousy, envy, and I had a friendship with a particular friend for 16 years but ended it because she was a narcissist..I’ve ended seven friendships throughout my life and no I’m not ashamed and no the decision wasn’t mutual.. I ended it.) Mainly because I despise drama with a passion and I can’t stand a hater am I perfect? Hell no... I can be distant at times but I show up when it’s important. My longest friendship is 20 years, second to longest is 15 years(we talk every day) and I also have a couple of new girlfriends 5 years and three years. And neither of these 4 friends have ever met lol The truth of the matter is I can’t stand girl groups! Too much drama for me. I’m very much so a high value woman. I don’t depend on my friends, I appreciate whatever they can give (whether that’s laughs, support, opinions) and that’s that. Another thing is I 100% never disrespect them, people but especially women are very sensitive, so there’s a certain way we have to be approached so to prevent catty egos in friendships. Also, friendships are supposed to be vulnerable and fun. If you can’t cry or share bad parts of your life with a person then they’re not your friend. I think the same applies to romantic relationships. Me and my husband have been together 8 years and vulnerability combined with compatibility, communication, and respect is key.

[@theanticeo]

Would you ever host a networking event or a girly mixer? I feel like i cant find high value women friends in Atlanta because everyone already has established friend groups.

[@jazturner16]

ooooo this would be an interesting idea!! I would just be nervous no one would come 🥹😂

[@theanticeo]

Lol I think it would be a success for sure!! :) @@jazturner16

[@debbitydeb4184]

Gotta’ start somewhere. Go for it

[@elizabethhannah9956]

I’d come 🙋🏾‍♀️. I’m in Atl too and very interested! 💖

[@chelseakline9622]

Oh please please please! ❤

[@Kash_Budgetz]

Yesssssssss Jaz I am a High Valued Women friendships PERIOD

[@majaduhovic3880]

What I NEEDED today🙌🏽Thank you, I am in love with your videos and your energy! You go girl❤️‍🔥

[@BABYXJAY]

Thank you for this video! I’ve been struggling to make friends as an adult because I feel like most interactions are awkward for me but this video honestly helped me a lot. New subbie 🎉☺️

[@lucky3s850]

This video is so A1 especially for times we are in now. I’m definitely using every said in this video as affirmations because this is what I want to see in my reality. Thank you so much Goddess for shedding light on this. So many want everything you said in this video but don’t know the words and every word you dropped speaks volumes. Once again Thank you Goddess ❤😊

[@Turnermedia222]

This was wonderful enjoyed your perspective ❤

[@jazturner16]

Glad you enjoyed it!💗💗💗💗

[@femininewaters444]

Its even harder when its family gossiping jealous trauma dumping and more so i cut some off and will love some from a distance friends were a bit easier but still feel bad and miss them

[@courtneysimon154]

Yes girl you hit this right on!

[@jazturner16]

Thank you friend!!!💗

[@shaysamovementsub6706]

❤ love love love when she talked about having defensive women friends and most of the time they are the ones that make everything about them and their issues.

[@UserKayAa]

The best I’ve seen on this topic

[@WacoBeautyQueen]

I currently have a low-vibrational friend and honestly I am split between messaging/FaceTiming her less and trying to help her in any way I can (because sis has been through a lot since the beginning of 2023, death in the family and such). I feel like I can be there for her with the difficult times in her life. However as far as her insecurities about dating and men finding her attractive, and job searching/figuring out her career…I’m separating myself and allowing her to find the solution for herself as I have and am continuously doing day by day. Edit: for some clarification I definitely have given her some advice in the past with dating and networking/resume building/and job searching but she wasn’t receptive and was just sitting in negativity and victimhood even though she has the tools. Had to step back.

[@jazturner16]

I completely understand!! Thank you for sharing sister💗

[@laclairelcyy007]

Omg this sounds like a recent friendship I was in that ended. Was definitely giving low-vibrational. Choose you 1st sis. It’s all love at the end of the day.

[@WacoBeautyQueen]

@@laclairelcyy007 thank you! I’m praying she gets better as well, I feel like a lot of my friends have gotten depressed and changed somewhat after graduating during the height of the pandemic. Want them to be strong and fight these obstacles.

[@hananelbendary4465]

Such a great video, I would love to have a friend as perky and positive like you. I only have about 4 longtime friends and we only get together now when something goes wrong. But it’s your best friends who. You meet in the mosque 🎉❤

[@enjolique367]

The therapist friend! Yaaaaaaaas! People (especially selfish people) will try to hold your ears hostage and suck up all your energy. On a spiritual level these people are literally energy vampires!! 😡

[@kimberlyjackson8343]

If we do choose to have some friends it's very important that we choose our friends wisely and be careful who we trust and tell our problems to because everyone who smiles at us is not our friend

[@roxyannwalters5324]

I truly love this. I was talking to myself about needing to find new friends of value. I’ve let so many people go. Because of a lot of situations you talked about. Love the energy and for the advice. Definitely would be using.

[@teiganmichelle9983]

I am going to implement everything with your advice. I need my Sister Circle. I am a new subscriber. Thank You!

[@brunageorgiagaspardelima7941]

Loved this, you have such a way with words, it really motivated me

[@ashlynxmas]

Was running out of ppl to watch for motivation purposes and this grabbed my attention. New subscriber!

[@createdcreated1977]

No. You don't need high value friends. You need friends with character. People who are loyal and trustworthy. Integrity.

[@naditati]

Would these qualities not fall into to high value 🤨

[@createdcreated1977]

@@naditati Of course it does; however, her outline definition does not appear to support this.

[@dianasohn2515]

I think that’s what high value is. High value is not about money. U can have money n be full of drama that’s not high value just like a high value man has to actually have good qualities not just money

[@jesslivin_xo]

Sooo you didn’t watch the video..

[@christineboutin4971]

Thank you. This is solid advice. I am low-maintenance and prefer to have friends that are the same way. I am shy and trying to slowly come out of that. I am in my 30s and realizing that making friends is difficult. I find it helpful taking the lead and being more direct with people for them to follow-up as well.

[@mmabathomakhura2381]

You're right, i lost my best friend 8 years ago and I am still talking about it to this day. I still find myself being sad whenever I meet her. It's really unlike anything, especially if you saw the person as more of a sister than a friend.

[@kiaj.d.5855]

I lost my friend a few years ago. It was totally my fault. I’ve learned a lesson and won’t make the same mistakes again.

[@kindredkey]

Yep, I lost a good friend 3 years ago and I'm still sad about it too.

[@therealfeminine3219]

Period! I love this girl new sub such queen energy ❤

[@jazturner16]

OMG hi!! Thank you so much sis! Welcome 💗

[@ridingthewavesz]

Your channel is everything I’ve been looking for. Thank you for your content ❤

[@princessbc9791]

I love this content. Also, I don't know anyone who is not defensive when someone tells them about themselves regardless of the information being correct. I think it's also the audacity of someone telling someone about themselves as if there is not a list of things they should be working on as well...and that's usually where the defensiveness comes from. Also to note: If you open a can of worms to "tell" a friend "about themselves" be ready for them to say something about you. I had a friend ask me about herself, and after I told the truth, she told me something about me. So, the next time she started with a question about herself I simply asked, "Now, do you really want the answer, or do you really have something to say about me and this is the set up for you to give me this information? When she looked perplexed, I explained how I derived to that conclusion. I don't have time to play games in any relationship. Needless to say, she was too much and we are no longer close.

[@Petitemuslimah215]

Hi I’m new to your channel. I must say that enjoyed it, so much positive vibes, elegance and truth❤❤❤

[@thirdeyeopen2606]

This is good commentary. Knowing how to pick your friends. Particularly high value women friends.

[@justme50644]

I Love Love Love this! And I loved the step-by-step tips on how to meet & start high-value friendships! 👏🏽🔥❤️

[@kerriannanderson962]

I have a hard time with the phase "high value." I think that it discounts too many people in this world. I also implies to other's that somehow they are not worthy, because they have not achieved the same level of success or achievement as you have. It's borderline narcissistic.

[@TheOneCurly]

the calendar invite is a new one for friends! I have to try🤣

[@shenimills9242]

This is SO good! Thank you for sharing 💕

[@shenimills9242]

“You have to be picky with who is in your life, because you deserve the absolute best” 🫶🏾

[@jazturner16]

Yay!!!! I’m so glad you liked it sis 💗

[@adebeautybox]

This was a great video and topic. Just subscribed 😊

[@jazturner16]

Yay! Thank you for subscribing sister!!!❤

[@AmaraAnigbo]

You look amazing and this video quality out of this world! Love this Jaz

[@jazturner16]

Omg thank you so so much sister!!💗💗

[@sharonkgomo4009]

This video just helped me soo much. This has been on my mind for sometime so the qualities you have mentioned really give me an amazing go-ahead on my journaling prompt regarding this issue.❤ Thank you for this

[@natashamason-walker2913]

💜 Love everything about this! It’s exactly what I needed at this time of my life! New subscriber!

[@alexismays6013]

It’s hard sometimes admitting when people are not good for you in this current season or next season, especially if they have been in your life for years and years and you guys used to be close once upon a time.

[@itsYourChance]

This literally showed up in my news feed as a suggestion when I've come to a time where I just raised all my children, so definitely huge season change and I did not really make a lot of friends but I had different connections that always look to me for support. I feel I have served my time of giving to those connections that I felt led to support emotionally. It also helped me to use my gifts which are kind of like counseling then also intuitive gifts which prepared me for the field that I work in now weren't I'm now a top ranking advisor. Now I just want to get paid to help people lol And I can be paid to be an ear because I did it for free for decades but now it's time for fun because my children are gone and all I have is time for myself. It's funny cuz I'm advising people all day and helping people all day and I even tell women how some men that they're trying to go after are not the ones for them because they are low value men or men that won't even value them right. So I just love your video and most definitely on time in my life right now. This title literally hits the nail on the head for where I'm at and what I need now.. there is no better prayer that is so specific than to say I need high value friends😂❤🙏. Sorry so long, I use my microphone lol This is truly what time it is in my life

[@ayab0607]

Felt like this was a podcast, love the content thank you ❤

[@zephomalunga5251]

I love love the look.... That makeup is insanely beautiful..

[@junesimba]

You would think it’s so simple and basic trust, respect, mutual values, and things in common. A basic support system, but we have to have videos breaking it down like it’s a science project