Natal Venus Square Neptune-Belief in the Fairytale

How the square between Venus and Neptune in the birth chart manifests. Being in love with possibility. (and try not to hate me?)
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[@RippleDrop.]

I know someone with this and he says he will never get into a relationship that isn't exactly like a Hollywood movie, and start like one. He gets *furious* when confronted it's utterly unrealistic. He himself is abusive in relationships and simply pretty insane with emotional regulation of a baby, not even a toddler who can hold back a little bit. He also gossips like a B and thrives on ruining people's reputations behind their back. But he's a phenomenal actor and extremely charismatic and talented performer. This description was spot on. This guy has had like 80 or perhaps more dating relationships and always becomes and abusive and leaves them because he's handsome, intelligent and charismatic and he always thinks he can do better. He just wants love to be the way he wants it to be, not realizing there are two real life humans in a relationship.

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

i love how people believe in astrology is real, that's not unrealistic but wanting a fairytale relationship is too out there. give me a break.

[@borishudej691]

Are you talking about MeghanMarkles? She has that aspect. I have experienced a dangerous female with neptune sun sqare. I think astrologers could stop sugar coating those aspects. Sun/venus square neptune is a crazy aspect. And a dangerous one.

[@Queen-of-Swords]

As the child of someone with this placement let me just emphasise that it isn't just romantic relationships. The person has an entire dream life they have constructed, so children, uncles, friends.... nobody can ever live up to it.

[@clarissecatelynn946]

I agree

[@borishudej691]

Yes! Thank you for speaking the truth! I like it. We need the truth and nothing but truth. I met a female with neptune square sun. What she did to my life is hard to describe.. I will try to make a video about it. In short, she is nuts. Meghan M. has venus square neptune. She is also dangerous!

[@4jimmycurtis]

I have this placement and I've never been in a relationship (I'm 22) because this is my biggest fear. I want that perfect lovey dovey relationship but I'm scared that it won't be that way so I avoid possibly relationships. It sucks

[@silas9076]

I feel the same too

[@borishudej691]

There are also people with that aspect that would rather kill then admit they were unfaithful bc of that fear. But love is beyond fear. We all have to fight for it. Love=truth=light=God But there is no love without truth!

[@ari_akav]

“Happiness is not a situation” wow that hit different smh

[@addisonrae6696]

This square affects me so much. Its hard to know that my idea of love is distructive but... its such a beautiful idea of love for me that its hard to not accept it. :( You're right. I don't want to accept the truth.

[@self-love2355]

My mom has this aspect. I always felt that her judgement was a little off. She is trying to date a guy that I don't think is even ready for a relationship yet because he lost his wife not even a year ago yet, and she keeps acting like he's the one. And I can tell she's being so unrealistic and delusional.

[@OnyxxRose]

I have this aspect. It’s such a dreamy idealistic aspect. I’ve recently learned this about myself and have become more realistic about what actually is. Ideas will be the death of me lol I have so much air in my chart. And pluto/mars in the 7th house to top it off🤦🏽‍♀️ it becomes an obsession. But thankfully I am open and embracing growth through Pluto’s transformation

[@JewelMayberry]

+MoxieRose keep up the good work!!

[@PeachyKins]

the book, "A Course In Miracles" keeps screaming at me. this comment grabbed my eye.

[@AkuZeku]

I have this aspect and I have never heard anything more true than this... I can't believe this is actually a thing in my horoscope and not just me being deluded. I always need to FEEL, I need to have that "magic", something bigger, special that feels like the magic from childhood when we were playing out stories... and it's not a thing that seems to exist in reality. I don't really know how to be happy with "less". It just feels dull and uninteresting.

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

I'm in the same boat as you. my solution is to just not date. because to me there's nothing to accept : i see how most romantic relationships go and i don't like it. simple.

[@minuit6305]

​@@sainttheresetaylor2054 what type of love do you aspire for? How has reality ruined it?

[@aliceg1030]

I have this aspect and your words truly describe my attitude in love. All my relationships ended after only a few months because I felt disappointed by the other person. "love is not infatuation" this is truly something I have to learn. For the first weeks I'm overly excited, I feel like I've finally found "The one" and then I start seeing their flaws and I don't accept them bc they do not match the high standards I have in my head. Looking back now, it truly is sad because I met some amazing guys that I pushed away for stupid reasons. Even if I felt good when I was with them I just wanted more, more, and more. And then I end up with nothing. So many regrets... But grateful I've figured it out now that I'm still young (I'm 21). Now I can start growing and learning from this awareness 🌷🌷 p.s I also have sun square neptune.. Can it get any harder than this? 😩😩

[@carolinevydak6376]

Alice G damn u a bitch lol

[@pk-uo9tp]

Hey Alice! I totally relate. Dating people is very hard for me too. I attract amazing guys that are very smart , sweet and usually very handsome. But I'm never satisfied. I also have trust issues so I'm not into relationships at all.

[@lwazimpulu4383]

I'm 21 and can totally relate. Some of these nice guys who I've rejected are still in my life and i literally see nothing wrong with them but can't help but just feel like they're not enough? It's like "yes he loves me and is willing to do everything right and treat me well etc" but like nah i'm good thanks you're not good enough

[@lwazimpulu4383]

@@pk-uo9tp and it's so tough bc how can you expect yourself to stay in a relationship knowing full well that it doesn't fill your cup? even though at this rate - no relationship will ever fill my cup. then it's like do i stay single for life instead or keep searching for The One? Either way I'm not yet at a place where i can reconcile with "settling".

[@audreybaxter1192]

I have both of these placements and I feel like I’m doomed.

[@watermoonbb]

I was chuckling throughout the whole video because this is so incredibly me. And then you hit us with the wake-up call and I was like "damn too true" HAHA. Please don't feel bad about giving advice on this or any hard aspect because it's something that people need to hear. This is something that I'm trying to work on myself! I appreciate the fact that you not only describe the aspect but provide input on how to overcome its difficulties. Thank you for going above and beyond a typical textbook definition. I look forward to your videos every time you upload! Would love to see Venus square Uranus next. xoxo

[@JewelMayberry]

+thebluesheep2 I appreciate that. I will get to Venus/Uranus aspects soon. I was going to do the conjunction yesterday but ran out of day.

[@nesrinebacha8109]

Jewel Mayberry Can you do venus saturn opposition i have that as Well

[@GowriahMAnish]

Hi jewel. can you please do the venus square uranus aspect whenever you can please. i have been very tolerant towards a venus square neptune, venus square uranus, venus square mars person, he hurt me a lot. A LOT. but i chose to love him because i know he must have so much going on inside of him, eventhough seeming selfish sometimes and he even admitted he was a narcissist 2 days ago. and although he is very passive and mostly gave me some suffering periods i believe we all grow through suffering,because healing can only happen through suffering. i know he must have so much inner turmoil inside of him so i dont want to give up on him and im also growing a lot from our connection. i believe we dont fall in love, we grow in love!. what would you recommend though? I dont think he will ever commit but i dont need him to, i will always care and love him like family. but i dont know how to live my life with the idea that he never chose me or would never express his love for me for fear of losing power.

[@lucreziani]

That's so true. I have Neptune conjunct AC and square moon and Venus. It's good to be aware of it so you can work on changing patterns

[@lwazimpulu4383]

i hate this because it's so true. Still clinging on to my dream. But I'll definitely try to focus more on my reality and taking love as it is I guess

[@everod6699]

My son has Venus square Neptune and it's hard to convince him of when he is getting abused and is strongly into art. He wants to be of service and only sometimes listens to me. The hurt is something we individually need to acknowledge and repair!! Love your video

[@jennad4093]

Never has an aspect been more true about myself...seriously, never! Great video!

[@juulblood]

I have venus & mars squaring Neptune... a part of me felt triggered while watching this but in a good way. I needed to hear these things. I think every love interest i have is a “soul mate” I stayed in a relationship with someone for 4 years while I fantasized about my “one & only” thinking of the day when he finally realizes we are “soul mates” - all of this is embarrassing to admit but it’s true. I don’t like this placement lol

[@girlsaturn8621]

Omg hit the nail on the head.... guy I was seeing was dreamy and seemingly perfect (my moon is conjunct neptune so I try to see the best in everyone. who knows what was really happening) then he initiates our first disagreement. instead of going along with his accusations i stood my ground then he blocked me.... haven't heard from him since... so i look up his chart and he has venus square neptune. The not wanting to relationship build because thinking love should be easy and running away the second love doesn't go exactly how you want.... yep all him. I have friends with venus conjunct neptune and they're actually okay with red flags and ignore too many in order to achieve their fairytale. Venus square neptune sees every single little thing as a red flag and will never get their fairytale. They want unconditional love without loving unconditionally back. Venus conjunct neptune will actually love unconditionally even if it hurts them in the long run.

[@HeyHeartBreaker]

I got this aspect and I am terrified of disappointment in love. Other things I think are due to my venus-neptune square: My love for Disney, Music, and the fear of abandonment in relationships. When I'm infatuated with someone I automatically see them through the lens of nostalgia, as if I've already lost them. But as a Plutonian I'm constantly doing shadow work and I'm hopefull that I will heal this aspect of me, I already feel like I've come a long way. :)

[@pk-uo9tp]

I have trust issues , I'm afraid of abandonment in relationships and that's why I'm single. I have Venus square Neptune too.

[@pk-uo9tp]

I have Sun in Scorpio , Moon in Aquarius , Cap rising , Venus in Scorpio.

[@poemsbycharleslawson2585]

Your absolutely right I struggled with this in my younger years and now come to terms with it. It was very heartbreaking, but I understand this square in my life now and learned to deal with it in a more practical manner and better off doing that. Thank you.

[@luthienanarion6581]

I don't see how anybody who sees the real point of astrology would find this information hurtful instead of helpful.. Jewel, not only are you a greatly talented teacher, but you also have such a real and compassionate way of delivering the truth! thank you for that... (I don't have anything in Pisces in my chart, but lately, I've been realizing the HUGE Neptunian influence on my personality just because my Sun and Mercury are in the 12th house.. and watching your videos on different Neptune aspects I also happen to have has only confirmed this verdict :D wow. these hard contacts are truly bigger than us in the essence of their energy, but NOW knowing what's actually going on, I feel kind of liberated. thank you!!)

[@Apples.and.Avalon]

Well. Here is one for ya. Venus in Pisces squaring Neptune in Sag. With Venus in the 7th house. Epic Faerie tale. Still single in my late 40's. Have been alone all of my life. I live in a castle in my head. True Love is an epic fantasy in my mind. But I tell you what...the art and music I create...epic..deep..otherworldly. It has it's gifts. I'll take it. 🦄💖🦄 The truth..? Creation is a mystical event. I would not trade my illusions for doldrums for all the gold in the world. Oh...and faeries. They hear this music from afar. The good stuff ? Music. I'll take it.

[@arkieologist]

This comment.

[@sheenalynne]

Same but Venus in 5th

[@lauremarechallelequeux]

« They just want love to be what they want love to be » PERIOD Ahah So well figured out and analyzed. A huge thank you !

[@iridescentillumination]

I have Venus square neptune and square uranus, and moon square neptune and moon opposition uranus.... wish me luck :)

[@mlj1309]

Same! Except I have a sesquiquadrate moon neptune. How do you manage it all out? I don't know how to interpret this altogether.

[@jeremiahparrott9293]

Ha ha ha this is great cause those of us that have this my wife and I both have this and this is the illusionary twin flames that ppl are seeking for if u give in and settle for some random person u will never find what ur looking for in reality cause ur busy being tripped up w the wrong thing my wife and I have been married 7 years we’ve had all of 3 fights in those 7 years nothing even serious we are seamless in our marriage our biggest fight we have is what to have for dinner so if u have this in your sign never give up never settle they are out there seeking us as well good luck

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

so should we keep chasing the dream or no?

[@shai1771]

I have this placement and the veil is lifting and I'm just trying to understand why I am the way I am and looked into my chart. It's true, when it comes to love, I am really self-delusional. It's true I just hear what I want to hear. . . It's honestly like escaping from reality to this idealized person in my mind. It's really hard having this aspect... Truly.

[@makaylarumble5940]

I have this in my natal chart along with sun square neptune I also have sun and venus in 12th house, pluto in 1st house. I just want to cry. This is so accurate. Always dreaming and waiting for "the one" i become obsessed when i am attracted to someome and thats rare when i am. I need to find a way to come back down ti reality, this is too much

[@statickevin]

Haha shit. I have this as my most exact aspect, with a sun and ascendant ruled by Venus. So I assume then that this situation applies not only to love, but also to the self-concept. This makes sense in my life. I've had a lot of harsh realizations when it comes to "wherever you go, there you are." I repeatedly convince myself that as soon as I have the perfect job, city, degree, car, whatever, then everything else will be fixed. Meditation has taught me that truly all that matters is personal perception of the moment and doing as best as possible in each moment.

[@Mandy3141]

This also reminds me of Moon opposite Neptune :)

[@earthgoddessforever8731]

I've done the work and I still continue to check and make sure I'm not clouding my own perception. I had to take responsibility for not loving myself enough to leave bad treatment... I was well aware that theres no perfect love...but loving myself wasnt there at all.....

[@Ravinna972]

This was helpful and not necessarily hurtful. But I'm doubtful of my ability to overcome this aspect. 😐 I do appreciate the analysis.

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

you're not supposed to overcome but balance and integrate it.

[@greymunchkin]

This makes me so sad to watch because I know it's true but at the same time don't want it to be true.

[@ironylulz]

This is amazing. I haven't considered this aspect in my birth chart because I thought the square is out of orb (Venus 11Lib / Neptune 1Cap). So the aspect managed to keep itself elusive lol. I have written in lengths about my own self delusion in love, basically everything you're describing here. Very powerful, thank you.

[@sweetestsin7333]

This is the placement that caused my breakup, I was unwilling to let go of the fantasy I held onto, I watched the Disney movies and fairytales growing up so it's no wonder I held on extra tightly, & now I'm willing to let that go and get more in tune with my human-ness & the realistic side of relationships. Looking back it's probably the hardest lesson I've gone through, the one that's made the deepest impact on me. So glad I've taken off the rose colored glasses

[@maanusinghh02]

....in my case my behaviour becomes obsessive in romantic relationships and I don't want to show myself vulnerable and clingy ... obsession overthinking possessiveness past traumatic experiences and fear of rejection self doubts everything comes up when Im in relationships basically anxiety panic attacks also .....so I really wanted to be feel loved but I don't want to stay in relationships because in this generation of hookups culture no one is loyal and it's just hurts a lot 1 want just normal basic relationship with loyalty...is it too much too ask? I don't think so my expectations are really that much high or I'm in any kind of illusions ....... | just want loyalty emotional intimacy ...emotionally availability that's it .. .. I don't know but my love life is just so bad ...... 1 mean heartbreaks so mani karmic lessons and panic attacks .... May be it depends on my natal chart or maybe my bad past life karmas But overall this HURTS a lot badly

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

how has it affected your life positively?

[@azur-faery5931]

Actually astrology is of great help to us. Studying a chart, it helps with seeing the "real" person, and their flaws, not our fantasized idealized version of themselves. (This square also applies to our friendship, families, etc... in my experience..) I also think the square can be good sometimes, as it allows us to unconditionaly love, and to learn what that means to truly love, when we finally see the flaws of others. It is a spiritual lesson.

[@spiraldaddy]

transiting Neptune square natal Venus right now. I am completely aware of my romantic fantasy to a dead end non-existent relationship. I just have to wait it out. I feel that I am Ulysseus strapped to the bow listening to the sirens. I am going mad but I know I am out of the situation - I left the house and live in my own apt now. I still feel this pull.

[@coralantler]

Omg, this is spot on.

[@maanusinghh02]

....in my case my behaviour becomes obsessive in romantic relationships and I don't want to show myself vulnerable and clingy ... obsession overthinking possessiveness past traumatic experiences and fear of rejection self doubts everything comes up when Im in relationships basically anxiety panic attacks also .....so I really wanted to be feel loved but I don't want to stay in relationships because in this generation of hookups culture no one is loyal and it's just hurts a lot 1 want just normal basic relationship with loyalty...is it too much too ask? I don't think so my expectations are really that much high or I'm in any kind of illusions ....... | just want loyalty emotional intimacy ...emotionally availability that's it .. .. I don't know but my love life is just so bad ...... 1 mean heartbreaks so mani karmic lessons and panic attacks .... May be it depends on my natal chart or maybe my bad past life karmas But overall this HURTS a lot badly

[@liciaalien1262]

Me and my boyfriend both have this placement so we both have conflicting views of how love should be and our expectations and we both always feel we fall short of each other’s expectations. We both feel the need to stand firm to what we believe it is to. It’s actually quite conflicting we both kinda have this fantasy that we both saw crumble in front of us I’m starting to greatly understand and see this and the faults within me and I think he is starting to too. We have both a lot of the same moon opposition placements as well... and we both have our moon in cancer. We bump heads I think a lot because of this 🙄 but it also makes us feel super close. Interesting enough our mothers are quite similar in having mental issues, alcohol problems and were abused. Moon aspects have a lot to do with family influences. It’s quite interesting how this all works.

[@catladycb814]

I'm learning astrology. I am a Leo born in the 8th house with Venus in the 8th house. This is the only square I have the Venus Neptune square. This is so me. I think love should be like a Hallmark movie lol.

[@makaylarumble5940]

Can you do a video sometime on what true love is or give me any advice so I can start thinking realisticly and not let this aspect keep me from ever finding a healthy relationship someday

[@KibbitUpIt]

Thank you so much Jewel! I'm sorry to hear that so many people with this aspect sent you so much negativity. I have this aspect, but thank God I also have my Venus sextile Saturn and trine Jupiter, which both give me a more balanced viewpoint on love and relationships. I do like the trappings of infatuation and romance, but I also know that there's really work that needs to be done for a relationship to thrive. Unfortunately, I feel that this aspect makes me more forgiving than I should be and more prone to idealizing. I do hope that Saturn can help me with a more grounded and mature approach to relationship building.

[@Msasha2727]

This is me! Last summer I was insisting I had found my twin flame soul mate! I was chuckling as well! I think I learned early that love was when you work really hard and someone sees how hard your working and they reciprocate with unconditional affection! That just came to me recently. I'm trying to end a relationship now because literally I was just like a baby sitter to her. But I just can't let go of the something in order to leave it! Good video not hurtful, it might have hurt me before I was right in the middle of my Saturn return lol but I deff know I need to change because I cannot handle one more damn " soul mate" !

[@lessandra602]

It’s horrible isn’t it 😭

[@ryansandberg362]

Yoga/meditation brings it to reality

[@JewelMayberry]

+ryan sandberg that's the truth.

[@ryansandberg362]

Thank you for your videos. You bring alot of happiness to many people.

[@iodhewawhe3100]

stars impel not comple. shakespheare : defy ur stars, rule them.. and yoga/meditation/attunement to God liberate/deviate us from our predestined life/our natal placements.

[@yeyi569]

Thank you. This makes so much sense. I have a semi-square, and what you describe as an infatuation with the other is accurate. I often have to keep myself away from the urge to sacrifice for love when I see the relationship falling apart. Is the fear of losing the perfect connection I thoght I had.

[@kimberlyd7848]

Helpful. I'm aware of this aspect in my chart & I consciously have to keep checking myself. lol

[@roxannacarnes8378]

Good Lord, I've been with this for the last 2 years and he has natal lillith in the 8th. Stalking, stealing everything that isn't bolted down, revenge porn, phone hacking, its the most insane experience and I'm a Scorpio Ascendant who thought I'd seen it all. This feels like a bad dream that I can't wake up from. They could be standing over you with a bloody murder weapon and they will still deny they stabbed you and then get mad at you for bleeding.

[@custommade4463]

I know someone similar. Pluto square mars ( Pluto) on his ascendant and conjunct my descendent. He lives in a fantasy but I began reading about Narcissistic personality disorder. Hate labels but maybe your person has this too? Personally never met anyone so cruel.

[@33tarot]

You are one of the best. 23 out of 23 placements in Yin. Venus and my (traditional) chart ruler mars both in 5th house pisces. This aspect would be the cherry on top. Thank god I dont have any squares. Anyway..I'm going to go back to doing absolutely nothing 😂

[@HealthyLiv1ng]

This placement along w/ others that make it better/worse require so much inner work and self clarity to work through bc it also creates distortion w/ how we view and love ourselves! I have this placement and it took me a VERY long time to work through it (Venus in Pisces 29 degrees to add more idealism and lesson to the mix! plus Mercury in Pisces) and ultimately resolving my own issues was what has allowed me see things for what they actually are vs want them to be. Meditation and mindfulness practices have been key!! "The Presence Process" 2nd edition by Michael Brown has a tremendous help and has a breathing mediation in it too!

[@william6084]

The conjunction is like a $1000 bottle of wine - the reality never lives up to expectation.... should've just bought a couple of 6paks and watched the sunset behind Walmart with Billy Bob

[@starrycrown]

Thanks, Jewel. I'm ready to get out of MakeBelieve and hop on the fast train to Reality. Like the last commenter, I'm glad you provided the price of the ticket: to get real and be okay with it.

[@tm0330_]

Now I know why I will block guys I talk to online, if I see one thing that irritates me. 29 and never been in a relationship- by choice! 😂😂

[@alebalessa77]

lol why?

[@azur-faery5931]

This square is literaly the story of my life. Since childhood I have an imaginary friend that fits perfectly the ideal of someone for me. Actually he is not ideal at all, but i dont know, its "him" and no one else... I am extremely defensive about him. It feels like someone stuck in the astral realm, that I cant reach out. Like a curse. An impossible love. The worst thing you can tell me is that he doesnt exist, because my entire personality and sense of security is based on him. So I'd rather think that he is indeed real and that he guides me. But his absence is really hard.

[@Jolenetonkin888]

I have never had a boyfriend because of my ridiculously high standards

[@imnotirish3221]

I hope you don't mind a reply to this old video. I have Venus square Neptune and I tend to idealize other people. I am blind to their faults because I want to believe that people are good. I have Algol conjunct my descendant, which implies I "lose my head" when it comes to others...and this could be the death of me.

[@janineroux2398]

I have loved someone with this square and I have the opposition...just about to watch....love your work!

[@stormandflames3847]

I have an Aquarius Neptune squaring my Scorpio Venus, Scorpio Mars and Scorpio Midhevaen, and I relate so much to this. It also doesn't help when my Leo Jupiter Retrograde 7th house also opposes my Aquarius Neptune and Uranus...

[@daches3594]

So much true in your words. I have this aspect too. Addeed that Neptune squares Saturn too, and Venus at the first degree of aries opposing that Saturn. Hard work, I swear. Thanks for your videos a lot

[@infiniteabundancedeserve7337]

This video was both helpful and hurtful. Both my Venus and Mars are in conjunction in Aries in the 7th house and both square Neptune. I don’t relate to Aries I feel more Piscean and I believe it’s because of this aspect. I guess I need to accept the love I need is not on this earthly realm but I might as well play and enjoy the moments I have with others, nothing more nothing less

[@theterra-path7798]

What is dillusionary for one may be a real possibility for others. This is the issue I have when hearing about square Neptune aspects

[@lessandra602]

I agree with you to an extent. But I think it’s about the possibility of going off into your own world and getting hurt that this version doesn’t match the facts of the situation.

[@barbariancauldron3284]

I feel like I became a man after watching and understanding your message. Thank you.

[@maanusinghh02]

....in my case my behaviour becomes obsessive in romantic relationships and I don't want to show myself vulnerable and clingy ... obsession overthinking possessiveness past traumatic experiences and fear of rejection self doubts everything comes up when Im in relationships basically anxiety panic attacks also .....so I really wanted to be feel loved but I don't want to stay in relationships because in this generation of hookups culture no one is loyal and it's just hurts a lot 1 want just normal basic relationship with loyalty...is it too much too ask? I don't think so my expectations are really that much high or I'm in any kind of illusions ....... | just want loyalty emotional intimacy ...emotionally availability that's it .. .. I don't know but my love life is just so bad ...... 1 mean heartbreaks so mani karmic lessons and panic attacks .... May be it depends on my natal chart or maybe my bad past life karmas But overall this HURTS a lot badly

[@TheWeird27]

Been thinking about suggesting this aspect and here it s...It's like you read my thoughts, thanks

[@zenmodeplease]

What if two such people connect - absolute disaster or absolute bliss I wonder …Two of my friends have it and they seem to be just so perfect with each other in their little la la land … maybe a disaster in dealing with the real world.

[@brookebenton8192]

This one always gets me in trouble...

[@silas9076]

This is by far the most relatable astrology video for me. I have this aspect. Yes, i have an imaginery lover that i am very loyal to. Since i was a little girl i've always dreamed about love and it became such an untouchable thing for me. It became almost like air. I felt like i could find it but i was so lost. I had so many dissapointments about love. For example there was a boy in my class, i don't know why but i felt like he could be the one even though i had never even had a proper conversetion with him. I started to dream about him just because i felt like it! It is insane and so dangerous. I know i am hurting myself by doing this but it is so hard to let go. I am not sure if i want to let it go.

[@JynCamille]

The truth hurts but I do certainly need it. Thank you.

[@JewelMayberry]

I appreciate your appreciation.

[@azur-faery5931]

I am sorry about the angry emails you receive, I understand that when you have this aspect you are defensive, but thats not a reason to be mean and aggressive to others... You really speak the truth, for me it is an incompatibility between an idealized astral unconditionnal love, and the necessities of the material realm. We can't be bathing all the time in unconditional love in this realm. There are stuff to do, nobody is perfect and we each must work on ourselves, and to accept someone else as he is, with his human flaws. One thing that helps me soothe this square, is meditation. Feeling the non duality nature of the universe. Bathing in the unconditionnal love of God : a love that has no face, no identity, no self. It is challenging because I am tempted to put a face, a name, an identity on this feeling. But I am learning that this is not the truth. I am also learning that this love is inside me, I can give it to myself, and I dont need to depend on someone else to get it.

[@MimiChristopher]

wow. read me to filth

[@kimaya4503]

I hope u do Venus square Jupiter🙏🏽 this was great

[@goddessjreed9763]

I believe we where chastised and even neglected for our own human natures with this placement

[@willemhendrikvangreunen5276]

Dammmm this is where my new rewired psyche is battleing with and hence me searching... Is it due to my previous narcissism ego not want to acknowledge truth .... Or I know the truth of why she is confused in her perception of materialistic love due to conditioning and pressure from parents... So in my delusion all state I want to say that I had to work true my betrayal ...abandonment issues now after the separation. And I found that I love her for who she is in side... Her self.. In the mornings. With out makeup... Or with.. If she does or don't do chores I found that I need her to stay in her hart and soul who she is and not hide it or feel assumed... Self doubt and low esteem from parents side made her pull up a mask tohide herself as it is shameful to be who u are when u are at your house with ure loved ones as society does not approve.... So I will wait for communication one day and if she did move on and is happy... I VAN BE HAPPY. as her happiness is my happiness.... That's all that matters in the end...

[@bathbombthief]

Venus square Neptune: Jeff bezos, Amancio Ortega (Zara founder),Sam Walton (Walmart creator), Elon musk, Kim K, bill gates, warren buffet, Rihanna, Steve Ballmer, Elizabeth warren

[@bathbombthief]

It's the people who can't distinguish dreams from reality who figure out that reality is a dream

[@anonikys]

This hit me like a brick. This is my natal Venus (which is also in Aries and I’m a double Taurus...good goddess!) and I recently fell in love (but did I? Who knows? Not me!) with another Venus square Neptune who shares the same rising sign as me as well (Gemini) and our Sun and Venus are opposition Neptune. Within a few dates we were so similar I was asking myself if she was my twin flame LOL We both know we’ve suffered through illusions and are trying to heal the lovesick factor so that’s a start but I’ve also been calling this my “last hurrah” attempt at this thing called love 😔 I really am trying to work on self love as a potential fix but it feels almost impossible as being loved by someone else feels like more than a desire. I’ve developed a fear of never experiencing REAL love and it sometimes feels like without it I’ll go mad. It’s killing me...drowning in feels that I know are mostly projections all day every day. Praying that meditation helps but does anyone have any other suggestions? ps I’ve also heard this described as the astrology of unrequited love and that’s also true for me. Always want what I can’t have and if I finally get “it” suddenly I don’t want it anymore. The worst aspect ever! Btw thank you so much for affirming what I’ve known but never wanted to admit about my perception of love.

[@user-eo9to7wd2t]

How are you doing now?

[@anonikys]

@@user-eo9to7wd2t I've gained a more realistic lens on my romantic relationships & attractions finally but that only came after some extremely painful and frankly traumatizing lessons taught to me by a trio of narcissists 🙃 I am thankful to have gained my peace and sanity back and have better appreciation for self love but I haven't connected with anyone since. Love life feels dry [and frankly non-existent] without that "sparkle" but that sparkle was a product of my being drawn to emotionally unavailable partners and creating an idealistic love story from my imagination. So after writing all this I guess I am still coming to terms with this placement 😅

[@keshevdev4273]

I have Venus in 7th house with Pisces ascendant and my Venus is in the sign of Scorpio which makes love all the more difficult for me! I have Scorpio moon which makes it quite difficult for me to trust anyone.. My Venus trines ascendant and my Venus also squares jupiter (in the sign of Leo), and I also have this venus-neptune placement which makes me think that I am never ever going to have love because of such high standards, which btw I also apply to my friendships and make it all difficult! I am in depression as well which means that my life is a MESS!! ( I am a female, this is my dad's account)

[@user-eo9to7wd2t]

How are you doing now? We share a lot of placements

[@bruhhh5415]

Venus 11th Conjunct Mars 12th House both in Scorpio and both square neprune 3rd house aquarius😭. I really need to stop dreaming of a dream I might never have.

[@meowmeow-u4x]

I have this and exact double whammy in synastry 😢

[@kimberlywillowsagetree6321]

you're the best! thanks for all your wonderful videos

[@dominique4432]

I needed to hear this. Pisces Moon and Venus trine Neptune 🙃🙄🙄🙄🙏🏾Thanks!

[@lessandra602]

I dislike the twin flame concept. Sorry, people.

[@goddessjreed9763]

I have this placement and I urge ppl to not box this placement because trust they’ll get the fucking clue well I did after so much heartbreak and self sabotage baby I had to grow up! I don’t think anyone should be pigeon held into a placement Granted it’s a crazy placement but me myself after being so damn delusional and breaking my own heart 1 million times I stopped this behavior

[@madisonrousseau4363]

just imagine, i’m a scorpio venus in the 4th house with square neptune/uranus/jupiter.. i’m a mess

[@dystopia-incognito]

I had found The One, but then he died.

[@kaylnnnn7155]

Same.

[@RippleDrop.]

There are more than one. Not to demean your loss but The One only reflects our attachment to the one mother. The world is full of compatible people.

[@azur-faery5931]

I think this is a possibility of what this aspect can represent. A love that is gone, someone who passed and we cant move on. There is also this trap that we can project whatever we want on dead people.

[@TrueBrilliance]

Goodness...glad I don't have this placement lol

[@erickaL4]

lol I know right! I have the conjunction...thank goodness I was not born with this square!

[@jellner7618]

Be very grateful. If there's any good to this, I haven't seen it. They keep saying that there's some good in every aspect, even hard ones. Will someone please explain what it might be and where it's hidden?

[@kimberlywillowsagetree6321]

J Ellner ....all about one's path :)

[@bendu1ba6]

I have this with Venus square Uranus🙄🙄dating and relationships especially the dating part is so hard for me. I’m on the verge of giving up!

[@korybarron32]

True Brilliance its actually quite beautiful once you get past it

[@mariaa.somarriba1000]

My daughter has mars/Venus conjunct in Scorpio squaring Neptune 😫

[@existentiallyemmanuela]

Same 😐

[@anthonycastel7223]

Clever, so true, i ve this aspect ;-) Regards from France.

[@Drell90]

I have this aspect but I'm the exact opposite. I stay in reality when it comes to relationships as I am grounded (Virgo Sun and Saturn in the 5th) but trine Venus. Do I attract people who see me as a fairytale or prince charming since I do have Libra (Asc)??

[@glitterworx19]

This aspect beats my ass along with Venus being in the sixth

[@silas9076]

Oh god mine too, it almost feels like i could never sort this out because i am not sure if i want to sort this out. It is such a diffucult aspect. I think one of the hardest ones about love and relationships.

[@pinku4419]

Me too guys 😶‍🌫️

[@pedrofelipepamplona1944]

I have the inconjunction between Venus (in the 12th House) and Neptune (in the 5th House). How does the inconjunct aspect differs from the square and the opposition ?

[@AkuZeku]

now it all makes so much more sense...

[@mlj1309]

Does having Venus trine Saturn help to smoothe this aspect and makes you more down to earth in love matters?

[@kgwilliams7684]

I have this but I also have Uranus square Venus and Saturn trine it does that modify it(the square to Venus from Neptune) a bit?

[@kgwilliams7684]

I have Neptune square Venus and Venus square Uranus,(Uranus- Neptune conjunction ) Saturn trine Venus, Venus square ascendant, Venus(18 degrees ) and Mars(2 degrees ) are in square signs but not aspecting

[@alebalessa77]

These people, like all very Neptunian people, hate Saturn, hate anyone with his Saturn, and hate anyone who contacts them with reality.

[@azur-faery5931]

I am very neptunian and i dont agree, I love saturnian. They bring me down to earth and soothe me. 🥰 But I think I can be irritating to them.

[@alebalessa77]

@@azur-faery5931 I mean when someone makes a conjunction to your Neptune or Venus, you will hate them, and they will often criticize you (and with good reason), that was my experience.

[@olagrabus5941]

Is this valid for Natal Venus in conjunct Neptune IF not could you do a video on this aspect please

[@katherinereyes8707]

I have this aspect (venus in libra in the 9th house square neptune in capricorn in the 12th) and it is difficult. But, if you have a strong saturn in your chart it can help you minimize its effects

[@user-eo9to7wd2t]

What would be considered a strong Saturn? My Saturn is in cancer in the 5th house. I’m new to astrology so I don’t know if this is good or bad.

[@lisagreen6982]

Appreciate your viewpoint as I've watched many of your videos? I do not have this aspect but will recommend this video to others that do. I have two good friends that have Venus in Opposition to Neptune. Will you also cover this aspect? Also what about Venus square Saturn?

[@JewelMayberry]

+Lisa Green I will get to both of those. Thanks for watching!

[@lisagreen6982]

+Jewel Mayberry Wonderful. Look forward to that. Both of my friends are repeating the same patterns of disillusionment with lots of projection about their partners, and both find "love exhausting". I have been turning them on to your videos in the hopes of awakening a new perspective since they both frequently confide their relationship issues with me. We all share wisdom we discover with each other to me learning about our own capacity for relationship is critical. On a separate note I wondered do you have Mercury in Virgo? Your communication style felt that way to me. Thanks again.

[@JewelMayberry]

+Lisa Green I certainly do. Virgo Mercury conjunct a Virgo ascendant and a Leo Sun that sits 4 points behind the ascendant in the twelfth house.

[@Msasha2727]

+Jewel Mayberry haha I've been trying to guess your signs for a while now! Great video! I have this! Would Venus section saturn in the 12th mean that a hard lesson in this is likely part of my saturn return? I met a person and we swore we where souls mates and looking back it was smack dab in 2014 turns out we are having this long awful breakup. Saturn literally aspects everything in my chart and... Everything is changing! Anyway good video, pre Saturn return I would have turned it off within a minute though!

[@Msasha2727]

+whatthebleep I meant sextile Saturn

[@Quaerens11]

Neptune conj Venus in 12H and it seems that the stereotype is that I would be into fairytales and I'm the opposite... I even think Disney movies are annoying... the music is to me. Maybe... my saturn in 5th?

[@erickaL4]

I know...I have Venus conjunct Neptune and fairy tales, happily ever afters do nothing for my heart and soul. I'm realistic, I have moon trine Saturn maybe that's why. But I'm intense and very much a selfless lover, always giving...

[@Elwen-xs7gr]

The orb between each planet must be close enough to feel the effect. Just because they are in same sign, if the degree are too low at one then the other are too high, the effect would not be the same with veru close degree to each other.

[@Stormlaughter]

I have this aspect, Aquarius Venus in 10th square Scorpio Neptune in 6th conj Desc. Classic leading man syndrome. :)

[@Ohkeh640]

Neptune Saturn Uranus square my Venus lol Ugh But I’m far too picky and stay home anyways Yet I’m open minded Taurus sun Scorpio moon Aquarius rising Mars pisces Venus Aries Ughhhh

[@self-love2355]

Can you do a Saturn opposite moon natal video?

[@jazzycakeup5725]

Moon, Venus, Mars, Uranus, and Neptune all square my Ascendant *deep sigh*

[@bombdottcom111]

Great video, very in depth =)

[@kingdev2]

I have this aspect with moon square mercury but to balance it out my mercury is sextile Saturn

[@trinaloren]

this and my venus is in leo, i’m a virgo sun, taurus rising, 5h leo, 7h scorpio, 8h sag, 12h pisces 😭😭😭 nothing dreamy enough or perfect and exciting enough to tie me down