Men Who Experience THIS Can Affect Their Capacity To Love

[@mla7179]

He’s not got for you darling. You deserve better, no man should ever speak to you that way. Dont settle.

[@ginam.4990]

Sooo many red flags with this guy! The more she says about him the more I cringe. No job, little to no effort put in, cheap, controlling, name calling, living at home, smoker and asks you to pick up that crap for him and not pay you back. Rachel, send him a goodbye text, Keep him blocked and work on you.

[@JRLM-e8m]

Sounds like her boyfriend hasn’t healed from his past relationships and is clearly not ready to be dating again. He needs counseling to work on his victim mentality and anger management issues. Rachel also needs to go to counseling to work on her codependency issues. It’s so important to not engage in any sexual activity too soon until both partners have developed a solid friendship Every relationship offers an opportunity to learn lessons for our personal and spiritual growth. Best wishes to Rachel and hope she heals and makes better choices of men in her future. Interesting video and kudos to Rachel for her bravery and transparency to be in the hot seat. Best wishes for her healing and discovery of self-love. HUGS

[@mariad1151]

Ok but regarding the money, the guy was probably feeling like he was made a fool bc as soon as he gave it to her, she told him she needed a break or whatever...now that you repaid the loan, you can have a clear conscience about ditching him. Best luck.

[@ainoviere]

I just want to reach over to Rachel and give her a big hug. I know where she is because I've been there. She doesn't really want to break up with him. She's still attached to him and hoping he will change and beg for her back (but this is a fantasy - he is who he is). It will take time for her to detach, and one day she will see that the break up was for the best. But she doesn't see it now. She just needs time.

[@terrishimmel9258]

The power of WE. Very well stated and I think the key we should all be looking for in a relationship. Having been in a few relationships I figured out there was never a WE. There was a HE or a SHE looking to fill certain needs without an ultimate desire for a true relationship will never be a WE. Ladies and gentlemen hold out for the WE. WE can go the distance, HE or SHE relationships have an expiration date.

[@marilynlarson9781]

She will attract what she is putting out in the universe. He will be back and sniff around to do a temp check.

[@tinafricker1122]

Rachel may just need a little more time to realize what's what with the situation. When she comes back and listens to this video enough, realization will hopefully set in. Been there, done that.🎯

[@angelamartin1147]

Really excellent video. Thank you.

[@patriciasmiderle9181]

You did a great job for Rachel...you're so helpful to so many.❤

[@julial1450]

Let him go learn to love yourself

[@arleenanderson2372]

Rachel he is a score keeper.. I agree. I never had a man expect payback. If he was helping.. he is a user

[@lauraswanson6161]

Forget that disrespectful fool! You and your sons deserve so much better. You are a beautiful soul ❤️ work on you so you can see it!

[@julialednicky7542]

Very helpful hot seat session. Good learning tool for the audience.

[@o2phone737]

Your Comments are BEAUTIFUL JONATHON ❤😊

[@tinafricker1122]

FANTASTIC ADVICE & APPROACH JONATHAN 👍👍💜

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you think so! 😊

[@YvonneGomez-m5i]

Thank you Jonathan, you are Amazing!! I appreciate you being straightforward to all of us, that is why I'm a vivid listener of your channel 😊. Happy New Year everyone!! 🙏 ❤

[@valb9963]

What about generational trauma too?

[@noreenespinoza824]

Geeze…I can relate. Sounds like me ! I’m in a LDR..I’m trying to detach myself from him, but I’m having a hard time…help !

[@shirleykilbride4555]

She just does not get it at the moment she looking outward re him instead of looking inwards towards herself what it is about her that attracts these guys not capable of relationships..I hope she's tarts her quest to her inner healing soon she should buy your book what the heck is self love ❤❤

[@christinemurolo5285]

Hi JA, great info.. Sadly people show you the best in the beginning.. then you develope feelings then find out the real deal... if you drop someone its sad, creates more issues insecurities and devistation. At what point do you detach..my friend when she met her now husband whipped out a list with 40 questions.. everyone has had trama. Best question is can each person deal with each others worst/difficult challenges.. ❤ Happy New Year wishes to you

[@o2phone737]

Rachel don't waste you precious time MOVE ON

[@JoySpirit888]

Rachel i send you God's blessings and healing 🙏😇😇🙏😇😇🙏

[@MsRandieK]

$400 ? I would never ask someone I’ve only dated for 5 months for money . Trash & garbage …. I’m OUT! Take a break from dating.

[@susanharrie3326]

❤

[@karenschell9822]

He moved in with his mother?? 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚨🚨🚨🚨

[@ginam.4990]

Totally!!!!!

[@alexdeyong2890]

Maybe he has financial troubles.

[@alexdeyong2890]

I am sorry, Jonathon, that some comments from wounded souls made you tiptoe around us, for the lack of a better word. I like Rachel. I have seen her on the hot / love seat several times, and I like her energy. However, she is clearly a very wounded person who needs a lot of work on herself. I understand how she feels and can I see clearly why (been there, done that), but I literally cringed many times during her talking. I won't go too deep but I would just say that I think she needs to work a lot on herself and shift the focus on her completely. I do not see her taking responsibility for her actions regarding this man whatsoever, and I think that is wrong. I can see you were holding back Jonathon, and I am sorry it is so. Even though I know why you do this.

[@valb9963]

Good advice

[@joanmu1053]

100 %

[@Sherryyahoo]

Jonathan, not the cheese heads

[@arleenanderson2372]

Why are getting on her case