Jordan Peterson: How to attract beautiful women

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[@nickr4837]

'first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women' -scarface

[@yonJM]

Nick R *then you get the powa

[@SoldierPrince]

Really no need to put Scarface at the end of that.

[@wowza935]

SoldierPrince saved me 2-3 hrs so i didn't have to sit through that asstastic film.

[@richirdfitzwell]

And then you get disappointed

[@blue2335]

girls like iced cream

[@SttudDioPierrot]

0. Develop your Social Skills enough to realize Women Aren't Above you. 1. Have a Job 2. Have your own place 3. Wear decent clothes 4. Be in slightly above average shape.

[@freeri87]

Fully achievable, in other words?

[@awayofzen]

have all that, and more, yet not having success

[@revendell7270]

@@awayofzen same feelsbadman

[@Ot-ej5gi]

@@awayofzen see a therapist (or a life coach)

[@alexandreparent5754]

5. Good mental health

[@sterlingravy349]

This is super simple: 1. (most important) Learn why women are attracted to YOU. Every man has something that women find attractive: could be money, looks, physique, you can make women laugh, you are brooding/mysterious, your anecdotal, you carry yourself well, etc. Point is, find out what mix of these attributes women find attractive about you. Once you're armed with this knowledge, you can identify which women are attracted to these attributes, and which are not - focus on the latter. 2. (very important) Surround yourself with women. You have to be around women more often than not. Surround yourself with the type of women you want to attract. You're not going to attract women if you spend most of your time at home or alone. 3. (kind of important) Do not be afraid to approach women: You cannot always wait for women to make the first move; you'll miss out on too many opportunities if you do. You have to be willing to make the first move.

[@jbach7274]

You nailed this man. 1: Finding out what works for you, playing that hand it to its fullest extent and beyond. 2: Ill just give this as an opinion, one that’s proven true to me countless times throughout the years - Women are naturally more attracted to what other women have. One of the best quotes I ever heard was from a totally ugly dude (that still held himself together in terms of appearance tho).. “Go in that place guns blazin.. find the least attractive one of the group/The one you’re confident to pull. Buy her drinks and treat her like a queen. By the end of the night, the best looking ones of the bunch are gonna be interested by default”. And given what I said prior, since y’all aren’t even dating.. the other girls will feel even more appeal due to the fact that you’re literally operating on terms of “fairground.” 3: To be able to approach anybody. You have to build your self-esteem.. that time when you’re alone, *DO NOT* spend that time sending yourself negative, toxic remarks a majority of the time (balance is key, there is such thing as good, proper negativity.. if you’re already beat down. *THEN* is not the time for that. Hype yourself up when you lose/bring yourself down a notch and see what you could’ve done better when you win. And prepare for your next battle) That time you spend alone, is absolutely catamite to your self-esteem. You’re spending time with yourself, and therefore you must treat yourself in proper accordance. Also, simply *just* going to the gym, eating healthy, etc… isn’t always going to cut it. If you have anxiety or w/e.. you should find great interest in digging yourself out of that hole. Because the rest of the pieces usually all fall right into place once you start working on the big pictures.. and leaving the small, petty things aside. *Lastly,* (and maybe most importantly of ALL) - you need.. *NEED.* To cut out *ALL* of the toxic people in your life that are literally just dead weight. Because the prevalence of great minds being dragged down (FOR A LIFETIME) by weak minds, is far too great of a % chance in our reality. These people will continually drag you down, leave you hung out to dry, and constantly coming back to do it again, again, and again. You are literally who you surround yourself with. Even if it means family, you should find immense interest and in dissociation with this bunch. I’ll leave with a quote that I made myself after a lifetime of being overweight, underconfident, self hating, depressed etc… and I finally got out of that rut 4 years ago.. and never looked back: You can spend all day, all week, years. Cutting down a tree branch by branch, leaf by leaf. One branch a day, one leaf a day. But it’s just going to keep growing back in other areas, and pretty soon. A year has gone by, and the tree is still bigger then it ever was. Until you take out the axe, and start relentlessly chopping that base. Again, and again, and again. Until you dig every last ROOT out of that ground.. you’re never going to get rid of that tree - The ground is you. The tree is core of your problem. And the leaves/branches are ALL the other stuff that you feel uselessly negative about. Solve the core issue, come to understand it and know it through and through. From a wide array of spectrums.. you’ll know when you *TRULY DO TOO* - because suddenly, a great deal of things and ideas you’de always wanted to manifest within your lifetime. Will either come true, or seem but a stones throw away - even on the other side of the planet. And that my friends, is what they truly mean when they say, “do you, before trying to fix yourself up with somebody else”. You got this.

[@karatearmchairhistorian9825]

But I don't want to surround myself with women. They make lousy companions.

[@slagathor54]

@bella He probably wants to find one special one, instead of being surrounded by them.

[@st0a]

"You're not going to attract women if you spend most of your time at home or alone." How do you even attempt to not even spend all of your time at home during this dumb pandemic? I did manage to avoid staying constantly at home, but even that wasn't enough.

[@thenot-so-smartfox4145]

@@st0a I feel you man... I haven't really gone out for two years. Two fucking years. But, when I did went out on my own and had interactions with other women, they were fairly positive, which is one of the few things that makes me keep hope that I didn't go crazy and that I actually am attractive to some level. Still, the fact that I have no common ground to interact with other people - specially girls - just ruins every chance I have. My only hope really is getting a job that might have a nice girl I could meet, and that's low odds. I guess we just have to be strong until something happens, man.

[@iamnobody6626]

Title of the Video - How to attract beautiful women Jordan Peterson - So the tyranny manifests as the crocodile with the clock in its stomach which faces down your personal hell that exists in the belly of the whale... Me - I finally understand women

[@perturbedxtirade7428]

Underrated af

[@laylowbNetherlands]

Get this man his own channel, best comment in years frfr

[@Kerpeles]

fuck these titles

[@user-rf5en2cz4l]

Seriously fuck these titles and whoever makes them. I hope they get fucked by a chimpanzee

[@jeffg9499]

😂😂

[@two-moonz2953]

Wear a T shirt that says 'I am a billionaire with a heart condition.'

[@ronaldreagan9416]

Now no one can like your comment, it’s got the golden number

[@rebelraccoon9018]

Nothing like sexist stereotypes hunting for likes.

[@rerrer3346]

Rebel Raccoon the truth isn’t sexist grow up

[@rebelraccoon9018]

@@rerrer3346 It isn't the truth. Most of all it's an obvious exaggeration. There are not that many billionaires in the world. The vast majority of women are married to men who aren't obscenely wealthy.

[@rerrer3346]

Rebel Raccoon does money and status attract women or not ? Go ahead and lie I’ll wait.

[@thelastmanonearth2631]

The goal should not be to attract beautiful women. The goal should be to attract GOOD women. There is a huge, huge difference and it means absolutely everything.

[@harrynking777]

There is no point in having a 'good' if you don't fancy her.

[@thelastmanonearth2631]

@@harrynking777 - I don't disagree with you, but people's standards have become ridiculous these days. You're all going to be single and bitter in your 40's and you're going to wonder why. And I just told you why.

[@Americanhorizon]

Good women are fewer

[@CR3ATIVEx]

@@Americanhorizon Exactly, but finding _and_ catching the big fish in the pond is never easy

[@Take_it_E-z]

Precisely- the only confounding variable to your assessment is that looks are in a small part determined by how well someone cleans themselves, or is responsible for themselves. Just look up videos of how women(and men too) have radically changed their appearance by being responsible in taking showers every day, applying acne medication, and getting plenty of exercise. In a sense, you want to try and appear as attractive as possible if you are searching for a mate. For Women and Men alike, I reccomend something black if it's on a date. You are right that attracting GOOD women is a huge, huge difference with 'beautiful' women. Take it from Creed: She wears a coat of color Loved by some, feared by others She's immortalized in young men's eyes In your mind she's your companion Vile instincts often candid Your regret is all that's left But beautiful is empty Beautiful is free Beautiful loves no one Beautiful Stripped me Anyways, Studies have shown that naturally attractive/beautiful people are at a higher risk for mental health disorders. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a common one.

[@souldimitriou9480]

Back in the old days... Before going out ,we would go past an ATM bank and find receipts with the biggest bank balances , then when talking to a girl at a pub/club ,write our telephone numbers on the back of the bank balance receipt! Worked every time .

[@ramiabdalla2661]

haha lol i love that

[@souldimitriou9480]

None of Your Business Batteries died on you ? No good men left for you ? Don’t worry your cats will love you ,all 13 of them!

[@jeffreykalb9752]

@None of Your Business It wouldn't work if women were not gold-diggers, would it? Do you wear makeup? Then you're no different, are you?

[@jaadtoly23]

@Jay J YES! That's all they deserve.

[@jaadtoly23]

Great! I never heard of that one. But it attracts bitches only. Good for a good fuck but nothing else.

[@michaelvanliempt8779]

Why are all Jordan Peterson videos inapprortiately named after the stuff that pick-up artists try to sell? Is that a cheap marketing strategy to elicit more clicks from insecure young men who wouldn't watch this material otherwise, or is it an attempt to frame Peterson and his material in a way that it can be disregarded out of fear for its power?

[@helcurt2509]

Go to prof's KZbin channel and watch them.

[@amdg01007]

lol 😆

[@vinyvinycocopuffpassittomenow]

To help misguided people.

[@corduroykumquat]

@@vinyvinycocopuffpassittomenow this

[@kevinmcjames4626]

YUP! This essential truth channel fucking sucks! I cant stand his editing of these lectures, go watch the original unabridged versions, so much better!

[@andrewthomas695]

The secret to finding the right partner is to first know your self as best you can (takes a fair bit of honesty), take care of yourself and do what you love. Then you'll be generally be happy and the right women will find you.

[@controlshift975]

wow I found a mature, secure male answering. Thank you.

[@crazingtonvalley9426]

Jordan Peterson is surely very competent. But he argues a lot out of the matrix-model, including male dominance and competition, which humanity will eventually overcome. So I wonder for myself how much I should consider his theories.

[@continuouswave34]

Here’s the problem in a nut shell. For a woman to be a woman all she has to do is menstruated. But when does a man become a man? What makes up a “real man” and how do women know when you are one? In traditional cultures there was always a right of passage. A real test of bravery, courage, strength and fortitude. Something all young men suffered through to prove their worth. Not just their worth to the tribe, but their worth and value to women. We have only a few examples of these things in modern western cultures, and almost all of them are in the military. (Think you are strong? Put more than your body weight on your back, pick up a 24lb m60, walk for 25 miles nonstop, then climb a mountain, we do it all the dam time). Because of this lack of right of passage, women can’t always tell who is “worthy.” They have an internal “demand” to know and have made up their own. Remember they are constantly being pulled between millions of years of evolution, feminist indoctrination, and a desire to have a good life for themselves and their offspring. Their current concept of an alpha is about as opposite an alpha as you can get, but they have no real way to pick. Here’s some examples or real alphas that wouldn’t even come close to a modern alpha definition: Crazy Horse (was 5’8”), Audie Murphy and Bruce Lee (AM was 5’5”, both were 130lbs soaking wet), Chesty Puller was 5’8”. None of them were “rich shopping carts” for women. They were the alpha of alphas. As men, we don’t get to choose what they find attractive. However, as men we are the only ones that get to choose how we are. Be as physically fit as you can. Lift heavy, cut the fat, be as strong as you can be. Learn every skill you can think of. Learn leadership skills. Challenge yourself to do things you are uncomfortable with. Never let fear dictate your life. If you work on those aspects, all others will fall into place. Those old standards are hardwired into women. And remember this: never do it for “women” do it for “you.” They can come and go, but you get to wake up to you every day.

[@climbtheladder333]

Suck Less this is a great comment. I would add that a woman's driving force naturally leads to money because, at least in current society, that is how we ALL measure success. Or maybe the FIRST, quickest way we measure success. Man or woman, if you see someone running the material side of their life with reasonable efficiency you figure/hope that other aspects of their being work well in the world. Those that abuse this system for their own gains? Well, that's a whole different story and they are (or should be) in their own personal battle to combat such a life-outlook.

[@arete7884]

No matter how strong you are how much lift and train ,mental strength and confidence cant be easily achieved and taught , its unlocking the core of masculine energy, i clowned many military guys who thought they could get a girl just on social conditioning

[@xDemonTech]

Thanks man, great advice

[@Holden_Stuff]

This is extremely spot on. But I've never understood how choosing to launch yourself into a situation where killing people makes you a man. Military now is nothing. When you compare the absolutely over the top gut wrenching terror of the great wars like the World Wars and Vietnam, it makes modern warfare look like airsoft. War making a man only happens if you where drafted and had no choice, because that is scary, or you lived through these horrors and remained yourself without breaking character. That is a man. Nowadays to me choosing to go somewhere with a gun is psycho. There are no threats of invasion so if you want to fight do mma. It's also funny how humans need to mate and keep the species alive but being a man means to do something that might kill you. It kind of nullifies the point right?

[@voidanova]

.."For a woman to be a woman all she has to do is menstruated." yeah... this is why people who listen to Peterson and just roughly summing it up gets a bit misleading /annoying to listen to at times .:P truth that women have a responsibility to take seriously on a psychological level of not getting pregnant, but that doesnt make a woman, as a kind of bravery would make a man. getting a period is not brave. and both sexes needs the "hero" story of trancendence into a higher self. how are these "old standards" hardwired into women?, living as a woman, is, somehow brave in itself? is it because of a higher degree of conscientiousness? and what does that mean? just asking. Its not that men doesnt have a passage to become men to women, society is not to blame, neither are women. what you write in the end there, to do what is good and difficult, is what makes grown ups and gets respect from other people, is the only truth. then you are a grown up "man" or "woman". . and maybe that includes some outlet of what your bodymind and hormones tells you to, if you want to feel "manly", do activities you think are manly and exceeds in your potential. whatever heals your spirit and makes you better. ..but dont you say women need to look at bravery tests to know how to pick a good man! XD thats a trap. what makes men especially,feel good, women doesnt necessarily care about, and what makes women in particular,feel good, men doesnt care about, "roughly speaking:P" as reflected in gendered interest in jobs, etc.. so in the end we mainly care about what the person feels about themselves, and if they are doing good, whatever that means. that is about the hiarchy that is very complex.. but all so simple. that is why it can be faked. if the person seems spritually healthy, or have something special about them, that they believe in something, it could be enough to attract a woman. the lobster hiarchy could be "faked" , or just made to a laugh. because its not what really matters. so men get annoyed when they se someone less physchally fit male get away with a pretty girl. this has happened at all times, because you can target the mind of a woman to a greater degree to have sex with you, than a man, because men are more physically rooted in attraction.:P that is why you think there are "fake" alphamales, while in fact, those men has just mastered to capture the passion of women. not all woman. not all men. but this is just trying to make a statement. i think even in those early times there was a guy writing poetry that tried to get the girl from the appropriate "hero" XD but that is just the treat that it looks like. if he is not real alpha, you can become better. so yeah. forget about being a better man first, because that is just sad, you should become a better person. working out is always good though.

[@owenshen6805]

Jordan Peterson is the best thing happened to me in these 3 years of my life.

[@karryworkman556]

Your only three years old?

[@robertsmith8535]

@@karryworkman556 🤣 I thought the same!!

[@BlakeC341]

Be genuine Be interesting Exude confidence Be positive Be mature Show that you take care of yourself And I 100% guarantee you will attract women.

[@paulnoecker1202]

Blake C excessive confidence is a reason women will turn away.... -Kama sutra

[@gingerbellz359]

as a woman this is true

[@johnd3124]

no, you just have to know how to talk to women. I got the most women when I was at my wildest and most irresponsible.. this rings true for many guys out there. women like jerks.

[@barbarabagatin8962]

Tons of phonies are genuine. Psychopats are. Period.

[@sw.7519]

A guy how is aware and acting like a mature man. No shouting. No brutality. Firm and clear of his role. Irresistible.

[@danjones6702]

that doesnt work. women are only attracted to 2 things looks and money

[@sw.7519]

@@danjones6702 you are projecting. 90 percent of married guys are not the most attractives ones nor rich. For sure good looks and money helps to attract the most attractive women (attractive to you). Superficial ones as well. Decent goals as holding a job, beimg groomed , having some talent ( being able to bei helpful in the household )is attractives to most of the women. I am one and most of my female friends hold the same opinion. Women look out for traits they hold themselves. It ist called partnership. A loose woman might bei okay with a loose guy too. If you are a teenager it might be different. Teenagers tend to be superficial. The difference between Girl and Woman.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Attracting beautiful women starts with confidence, but it’s also about being comfortable in your own skin.*

[@sriparno1146]

This explanation by Jordan Peterson is the exact reason why there are so many problems in our society regarding dating and relationships, and so many divorces and breakups happen.

[@emelyarye2641]

as in, he did a bad thing? or he described what exists.

[@barbarabagatin8962]

Lol!

[@karlroth7082]

A leader Understands these things: respect. Caring. Kindness. Trust. Appreciation. Gratitude. A sense of humor. Any woman who also understands gets him and a relationship.

[@eupiaeupia2647]

True! Very important things!

[@kenmason6100]

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[@elmateo77]

Yeah but women who understand gratitude and appreciation are about as common as a $3 bill...

[@jcdenton6577]

Best friends forever xD

[@ilikepancakes2368]

Expect you’re greatly underestimating how physical attraction can play a role especially for long term relationships. You can be the kindest soul out there but if women don’t find you physically attractive then that kindness amounts to nothing.

[@benluu8323]

I think to be truly attractive, a man needs to have a sense of purpose in the world. To be kind to others and compassionate. To have a goal in life that contributes to society and to work towards that goal without hesitation. To not place women on a pedestal and to not see them a central purpose to life. As soon as you develop this mindset of not needing a woman, you can be truly happy and pleased with yourself, that you are a man of character, integrity and genuine sense of mission in life. I think this is what makes a man universally attractive.

[@JohnSmith-el9qn]

LOL!!!...MONEY IS THE MOST ATTRACTIVE THING TO A WOMAN...YOU CHOOSE TO BE BLIND OR TO SEEM CONSIDERATE OF LESSER THINGS BUT YOUR PREMISE IS ONLY POSSIBLE IF YOU PURSUE & OBTAIN.................MONEY...GOT IT?

[@toddh7058]

Well said Ben!

[@Jonathan-ek7ky]

To be truly attractive a man just has to be attractive

[@ascendrealize5194]

I just like hearing him talk this man has a plethora of useful information can’t help but admire him

[@hisaddle]

Motivator Jim Rohn talks about working on yourself to attract success to you. Work on yourself, make yourself attractive to attact people to you. Working out, eating right, etc. makes you look better. decent clothes, good hygiene, nice haircut, etc.

[@bobdownes162]

"Beauty is only skin deep, but on a girl, it looks real good" (Song, sung by Robert Mitchum)

[@missionpupa]

and why wouldnt that apply to men? theres different ways to see beauty. You would think that athletic built men or Olympians are also beautiful men.

[@piccoloatburgerking]

@@missionpupa _What are you, gay or something?_

[@missionpupa]

@@piccoloatburgerking im just not homophobic and insecure of my own sexuality like you?

[@piccoloatburgerking]

@@missionpupa Lol had a feeling you wouldn't get the reference.

[@missionpupa]

@@piccoloatburgerking Oh yeah, I remember now, I remember saying that to your Dad.

[@clmclachlan]

Nothing more attractive IMO than a kind heart in a fit body ruled by a mind full of common sense and decency.

[@gtrrohit5078]

Lol not what women go for tho is it.

[@clmclachlan]

@@gtrrohit5078 I did.

[@gtrrohit5078]

@@clmclachlan congrats you're a minority then

[@clmclachlan]

@@gtrrohit5078 I could say the same for him but that would hardly be fair would it?

[@nameless.greyceo]

I dare you to be the first to go get a homeless guy that is like this a prove yourself not a weak liar like every female.

[@BasementBerean]

I gained an understanding of this back in the late 1980's by reading "Men and Marriage" by George Gilder. He said the same thing using different words. It's true. And, I got the beautiful wife while I was near the top of a dominance hierarchy. A small one, but one she respected. Seventeen years later she divorced me during a long term illness that prevented me from working and making money. So, it's really true.

[@roblancs]

Sorry, man.

[@vlogcity1111]

Wtf that’s horseshit she’s not even close to your value

[@Baz_09]

That's because she was with you for your money and your status, you should have been more observant and decerning when vetting her.

[@JustSayRance]

Have as many positive features that a parasite can leech from. That's all folks.

[@Slimecrazy234]

Truth

[@madmanzila]

Daaaa that's a short-sighted half truth my man, obviously turning to poison for you, positive features are not something you simply desire just for the woman's sake, you want them for your own selfish reasons also.. (including being wanted by women), a lack of positive features is detrimental either way... you want success woman or no woman...the leaching part you can choose not to be with an individual woman that leaches and has no job or dreams of her own.

[@RohitKumar-gd8vu]

You are right

[@JLili12]

Rance kzbin.info/www/bejne/b4iniYaqltKeb6M watch this from minute 5 onwards, Peterson essentially calls you a loser!

[@averagejoe5904]

love yourself first before looking for a companion -idiot in the internet 2018

[@julianfischer2341]

"First you get the suga, then you get the powa, then you get the woma" Homer Simpson

[@eupiaeupia2647]

🤣

[@davidgggggggg]

Women want someone who has VALUE according to their personal morals. expectations etc. If you have a certain career or mindset they approve of etc, you're good.

[@JohnSmith-el9qn]

VALUE = MONEY...MONEY IS THEIR PRIMARY MOTIVATION...THE RESULT OF THE "CAREER" YOU SUGGEST A MAN AIMS FOR, RIGHT?

[@Ben-ju1gh]

Step 1: Hold your self to a high standard a walk with a purpose, people sense confidence, walk slowly with your shoulders back and chin up. Step 2: speak slowly and maintain eye contact. Women are much better then men at sensing confidence if you cant hold eye contact with the girl she’ll sense that your weak. Speak clearly and slowly shows that your not nervous. It also helps a great deal if your articulate and have some substance to you women are attracted to intelligence. Step 3: Don’t be weird, don’t come off to strong don’t be physical unless she initiates it. Women are attracted to men who make them feel safe so don’t make her feel threatened. Step 4: understand your the most permanent person in your life and never chase women, it’s okay to talk to girls and try and get girls but don’t make yourself constantly available and in the beggining stages never ever validate the girl because all other men do. Step 5: take care of yourself, dress nicely clean your self practice proper hygiene and smell good physical attraction is the first thing women notice and if you stink you instantly blow it.

[@seeda5545]

“The effect they have on you is one you wanting to imitate”. Are you talking about yourself in this sentence prof? Cuz you are my legend 😂

[@jkd82]

The most attractive virtue of a man is a lack of fear, or, his obvious courage. You never see a boxer without a beautiful girlfriend. It takes courage to be a leader, to run a business, to win a championship.. courage brings success which brings status, power, resources.

[@ThomasFoolery8]

No it isn’t. The most attractive virtue is raw talent. Courage is useless to women if it doesn’t convert to success in some way. A courageous person takes risks, and there’s a survivorship bias in that people who get the furthest in life were willing to take big risks to get there. What you’re missing is that the other half of courageous people failed tremendously and live in their mom’s basement now defeated with their ego crushed and realizing their courage was their downfall. Raw talent correlates to success way more than courage. Courage is a coin flip. Raw talent is a guaranteed grind to the top if you simply apply yourself and show up every day. People like to attribute things to skills that can be controlled because it’s a better message, but unfortunately life simply doesn’t work that way. Most things that lead to success are out of our hands. Looks, raw talent, and family wealth are the biggest contributors. After that, it’s grit. Grit is the only variable of the four that is within your control, and it does weigh heavily, but it’s definitely less important than raw talent which is by far the most heavily weighted variable.

[@amalksuresh286]

@@ThomasFoolery8 In real world though,it's courage.We can see plenty of very talented people who are terrible with women.

[@ThomasFoolery8]

@@amalksuresh286 there are far more courageous homeless people who are terrible with women. He had the courage to cliff dive into rocky waters to get likes on social media and got brain damage and couldn’t hold a job and is homeless now.

[@tot.taxi.]

I have no idea what my boyfriend did but when I first met him he made me fall for him within a week. I'm someone who always has guys after them but is rarely ever attracted to someone enough to consider dating them but wow was he something else. It felt like it was in his nature to be confident, open minded, and a natural leader without abusing his power. He doesn't even have money or looks that are out of this world. We've been together for three years now and I still look back questioning how he did it.. I'm still infatuated with him

[@controlshift975]

@NobleGuy She is not lonely now and still loves him and wants him. I guess not being a total asswipe and a jerk made him win the lady and it seems she appreciates him.

[@justaname405]

@NobleGuy holy shit you killed her dude

[@matiassella4935]

Good. Keep it up and enjoy your life together

[@GiantsWS]

You realized you're hitting the wall and settled. You'll leave him soon enough.

[@hardcoreeconomist1089]

Be confident, act confident, look confidence.

[@ashleyk9328]

Intelligence makes a man have content, healthy self esteem and healthy confidence. Takes care of himself and knows when and how to use his danger skills.

[@mlembrant]

I like those candid camera shots.. it adds to the atmosphere like you are sneaking in to hear the lecture but are not member of the society :D

[@johnvallsater4499]

I guess we are talking about beautiful on the inside not outside because outside is just an shallow illusion. Beautiful girls are easy to get if you really show them you care and have a deep sense of empathy.

[@vintagemidcentury2693]

I think Jordan is right what he says, however, if you don't have money and success and top dominance. Another way is to truly know yourself and be the authentic YOU. Be genuinely interested in beautiful women and ask the questions that nobody else has asked them before then become a great listener. Lastly, develop a great sense of humor, and you will attract all types of beautiful women. Let me know how you get on.

[@q7wasp7]

2-29-2020 - - - "She's so fine, there's no tellin' where the money went." Robert Palmer - Simply Irresistible.

[@MrBeachMadness]

Sometimes it’s just about being able to tell the difference between genuine attraction and manipulative charm...for both men and women.

[@theevolutionofdatingwomen8414]

Attracting women is more about avoiding unattractive behavior, than doing attractive things. Men must understand that if you want to attract beautiful women, you must truly be DIFFERENT than most guys that she meets. The way you talk, what you say, how you dress, what you believe, how you earn your money, everything must be different. The problem for most guys is that most guys are just like every other guy. It's hard to be different because most guys will try to influence you to be just like them, boring.

[@jeffreykalb9752]

Something tells me that Peterson is not really interested in helping you all pick up hot chicks. I think he has some higher notions in his mind.

[@petrogcracker6718]

that s funny it is more of explaining a colour to blind man.

[@vlogcity1111]

He wants more plumbers to fix his mansions not men who can think for themselves

[@jromeo6748]

It’s easy. Be tall, smart, fit , handsome funny, charming and rich.

[@r.b.2958]

Maybe if you want any woman you choose but any two out of those and you'll do fine. Unless you are ubsurdley bad with women. Then one more of those qualities and you'll be ok. So if youre tall, funny and smart youll be fine even if you have zero game.

[@jromeo6748]

@@r.b.2958 you must be tall

[@draggsy2]

@@jromeo6748 based

[@koenb7829]

@@r.b.2958 funny is part of having game

[@Chrissala]

It is not that easy bro

[@maxout5452]

This guy is the king of inception. He talks about alot of things, has a title "how to attract beutiful women" and then never gives the answer directly. He makes us come up with an idea of how to attract women, with the information we got from the video.

[@eleven9286]

He didn't clip this and write the title. Some dumbass did.

[@edenbreckhouse]

Problem is that a woman who's a 5 thinks she's an 8 that deserves a 12. Online dating has skewed things so much that a decent man won't get the time of day from a woman.

[@FoodFreedomUSA]

Please, tell me where these “decent” men can be found? All I see is clowns and monkeys on all the dating apps… No one can dress, hardly anyone can type a full sentence, and worst of all shirtless pics galore or worse still, men pose with dead animals/fish. Show me a decent man who takes care of himself, isn’t arrogant, is educated, ambitious but also loyal and modest? Please, where are these men? 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@edenbreckhouse]

@@FoodFreedomUSA they're staying well away from you.

[@justinsugay1149]

There's a difference between being more attractive to women in general vs a specific woman for you. This social dynamic may affect her longevity in her overall relative attraction to you vs any possible competing males but one can only focus on what they can control. Good to be aware of these influences but not necessarily healthy to obsess over. Just focus on being the best you while functioning with some decent awareness of such things.

[@pab1972]

There is a huge difference between being attracted to someone and maintaining that attraction in the long term. Some guys seem attractive and they get lots of attention from women but it doesn't last because, in reality, those individuals are very flawed - they just know how to cover it up for a month or two. I'm one of them.

[@pab1972]

and I dont fucking like it anymore

[@justinsugay1149]

@@pab1972 We are all flawed and it only has to really work out well once right? Nonetheless, that must still be very frustrating and I feel you man. Things will get better... you just have to keep pushing forward to find the right one for you. That all said, having the awareness of how things may influence outcomes is a good starting point and an advantage that you can capitalize on if you keep working on the right stuff. Best

[@genericguy4315]

Just be yourself and talk to women. Not every woman will be interested but that's just life. NEVER HAVE EXPECTATIONS. Expectations are the blue prints of disappointment. Just proceed naturally and genuinely, whatever happens happens and the more legitimately you proceed the easier it will be to determine whether she's interested or not. Never force it, if this happens do not pursue otherwise its an oncoming disaster. Stay friends even if it feels like its going south, having a friend is better than losing one.

[@rebeccahicks4949]

Better advice in this comment than in the video.

[@milleziano]

I've been doing this all my life and it's worked for me.

[@UrbanKizBeast]

Good until you dropped the F word - friends. You can't stay around with her if you find her sexually attractive. Too much tension.

[@conankudo9957]

Wow, sooo many bitter comments from guys who pitty themselfes, or try show off with bullshit, instead of exchanging real and true Ideas, that would actually help us understanding this matter better.

[@reade_gauvin]

YES, thank you! Too many guys on here are totally missing the point, and are throwing online pity parties for themselves. It’s sad.

[@rs5570]

@TheFallenOne 31 We rest our case. Lol.

[@rs5570]

That’s right. Guess it’ll take another 15 or 20 years before a lot of these guys will get past their ignorance. A shame when this valuable info is right here. Too bad more fathers aren’t modeling this to their sons.

[@sanikfast4639]

I'm so pissed off I clicked on that click-baity thumbnail

[@SP-lw7mr]

Attracting any woman is one thing. Keeping them is quite another. Especially seriously attractive ones.

[@SP-lw7mr]

@lanier williams nothing that good is meant to last forever.

[@johnthiessen4749]

Mankind will quote this man for decades or centuries from now. Like Socrates and Plato.

[@MomoPetrov]

Nobody: JBP: dominance hierarchy 😀 Love those videos!

[@WhatTimeIsIt369]

Money and power is all women care about. It serves their need to be viewed as successful and the need to feel secure. That's pretty much it. Nothing else really matters.

[@BusinessWolf1]

If you don't understand how this gets you attractive women, simply listen to it more. There is a jp video on carl jung and it took me listening to it paying attention 5 times to understand that I barely understand the basic terminology he uses. Before that I thought I understood it.

[@shfd3832]

Could u tell me short version of it? Please.

[@BusinessWolf1]

@@shfd3832 I wrote that comment 7 months ago. The information is already internalized. If I had to guess I'd say being masculine.

[@shfd3832]

@@BusinessWolf1 being with many casual sexual partners is right or wrong?.Thank you very much.

[@BusinessWolf1]

@@shfd3832 That depends on each person. But being attractive doesn't only have to do with dating lots of people. You want to be attractive for your partner. Also I don't see where you asked about casual sex

[@shfd3832]

Ok sorry.Wrong reply.I asked that to someone else in this video.Ok .now ,what do you think about casual multiple sex? and what jp tells about that?

[@IanPryor]

So what I'm hearing from this is That there are two ways to be attractive to women. First is to have a job which is a pretty broad objective. The second is to be good at climbing dominance hierarchies. It's pretty safe to say that all men on this planet are good at climbing dominant hierarchies because women have sexually selected for it as a trait. Statistically speaking women don't want men who are unemployed and aren't climbing any dominant hierarchies. So basically do the opposite of that.

[@colinoscopy4750]

Men-1.wealth 2.social status 3. attractiveness Women- 1. Attractiveness

[@erikfriesen1098]

Guys, let's be honest about 1 thing. The really bright, hard-working and balanced male white Anglo-Saxon Protestants with advanced professional degrees and good work experience have never had any problem with any "affirmative action" programs. Those problems lie almost entirely with the guys who are close to the margins or cut-off points.

[@andrew75056]

1, Be honest 2. Be open 3. be strong

[@notyourdad361]

You cant be honest with a woman. Think again.

[@andrew75056]

@@notyourdad361 Depends how strong you are.

[@theresag1969]

A lesson for men: How to deal with a beautiful woman. Ignore their beautiful, compliment everything else but the physical. Never talk about sex, listen, ask questions about her, show her that you are interested in her presence, do not be overbearing, be a gentleman even if she is not a lady. Do these things, she will view you as different and come after you.

[@gezzapk]

A lesson for men: never take dating advice from a woman

[@asparrow9876]

Sit down Vanessa. You're stupid. Be quiet.

[@asparrow9876]

@bigpippie littlepippiesmomma Uhhhh you must be new here. Because we know all the ways that work and NONE OF THEM include being a beta male as described by Vanessa or demonstrated by you....

[@RKalos]

DONT ASK THE FISH HOW TO FISH ... ASK THE FISHERMAN..

[@RKalos]

@bigpippie littlepippiesmomma That is not the case... A man who loves to fish...likes everything about fishing ,his mind constantly thinks about it..so he stralls around everything about it... Dont ever listen what women say they want... EVER... Do what ever you have to do to attract them and pay no attention what they say that they want....watch what they do in response.

[@K0ntakt5]

"i'm alpha bruh!" --- this is what all guys think; it's the same way everyone tends to rate themselves above average, which is a statistical contradiction

[@K0ntakt5]

keep believing the lies you've been told- statistical norms are not bullshit, people who are saying it's bullshit are the same types of people telling you that there is no differences between the sexes, when they are not. it's a lie

[@charlesbatkin9783]

I think the dunning Kruger effect is a bit more nuanced than that

[@YomaanMand]

it's quite the opposite for most people and the ones that actually do overestimate themselves obviously lack awareness. why would you think "this is what all guys think"? this isn't anywhere near reality

[@YomaanMand]

@@K0ntakt5 "people who are saying it's bullshit are the same types of people telling you that there is no differences between the sexes" - please show me one example of such a specific claim. it is literally true what he said that women will choose a mate that's higher in status as themself, which exactly contradicts the agenda behind saying "no difference between sexes". peterson says the same about women picking a higher status mate, but obviously wouldn't say the second thing, so that's an example of how somebody knowledgeable claims the first, but refutes the second thing opposed to what you said. gosh your claim is dumb, people that say sexes have no difference WOULDN'T EVER say that women will choose their partner differently than a man does, bc that seems like a difference to (not that they make sense anyways).

[@K0ntakt5]

@@YomaanMand you are exactly the type of person who will say something like: not all women have ovaries, i met a woman the other day who had hers removed, so that completely undermines your statement. you take what is generally true and then as if you had asperger's or some autistic condition you think you find some outlier which demolishes the general behavior or the population

[@TrentGustus]

Problem is, women learn from movies and fairy-tales about relationships. Good stories like fairy-tales always have drama to keep the reader interested. However drama isn't something you want in real life to be happy. High expectations, create high dissatisfaction in relationships, which make women unhappy

[@crinawma314]

"If you are not the embodiment of a spirit that will go into the unknown and face the Leviathan, why should I have anything to do with you? " This is how they will reject you if you are not a Man

[@rs5570]

You understand zero of this video if that’s what you took from it. You heard what you wanted to hear.

[@crinawma314]

"Anything is possible" - Teddy Roosevelt

[@elmateo77]

Hmm that's what she said when I asked if she wanted to come eat my monster of chaos...

[@env0x]

Basically just be high in the social dominance hierarchy. Lotsa money, high status career position, high social status and leadership mentality . All the cliche stuff

[@rs5570]

There was a lot more to this video than “cliche stuff.”

[@spineangle9611]

This is the one I was waiting for

[@RandomGrandom]

Jordan creates a pathway that logically holds up. However, if you analyze each step of this constructed logic, there is always room for disagreement or other possibilities which might alter the chain of logic.

[@bipedalbob]

Of course, he's just a man, not the mesiah

[@ericlucido4581]

That's what makes him great!

[@alexrosch3465]

I have the feeling that most of Mr. Peterson's video clips don't have appropriate title.Somehow they have populist title, which don't necessarily correspond with the content of the talk.

[@markgossett3709]

I was once in a church group of roughly 200 singles. I was curious, so I took an informal survey of about 20 men. I asked them each within earshot of the other men: Who do you think is the most attractive, beautiful woman who goes to church with us? The answers were very pleasing to everyone. Each man chose a different woman. After we all realized that no one was in competition for the same female, we all got along famously. As an aside, I was amazed at who some guys picked, because those women sure didn't seem attractive to me. I was also a bit dumbfounded that the one I thought most attrative others did not. I thought: What's wrong with these guys that they don't see what I see? I suppose every one of them had similar thoughts. What I'm saying is quite simple: Men are different from one another and so are women.

[@Mint-kj9kw]

Yep....beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[@garethmorgan3665]

Totally agree but if men knew this then a lot of bullshit merchants online who claim they know ' what woman want' would loose business!

[@bigrlp111]

But the women would only choose 15 out of that group of 200 men.

[@vlogcity1111]

@@bigrlp111 I was going to say the same. Give the women the surgery and maybe 5 or 10 of them are picked 100 times or more.... 50% of women going for the top 5% of men

[@mdayne2156]

Success, personality, appearance in that order.

[@leonardgibney2997]

A British politician summed it up years ago. He said, " women go for powerful wealthy men. It's like an aphrodisiac to them." That's why homeless tramps are always alone. Said in thirty words, no long video needed. It's not complicated.

[@aarondavid5866]

ex girlfriends keep coming back to me over so many years cos i never got serious with them. They are still waiting for me to so they can become disinterested. I wont let them. Seems the formula is working

[@jeffbotelho5035]

Humm intersting comments. Some women who are beautiful are looking for "Real Men" period. With principles.. Love their life work and a sense of humor. Not a spoiled mommas boy, one from a balanced perspective with all kinds of people. Sympathetic and stable accountable with friends and family to validate who they are.

[@pamwren6866]

In a nutshell! You made it very clear.

[@jimkeller3868]

I have attracted beautiful women. Attracting confident, powerful, intelligent, imaginative women is so much better. After having been with many women, beauty is further down on my list. Also, there is usually an inverse relationship between beauty and the level to which a woman is stable..

[@GiantsWS]

No such thing as a "confident, powerful, intelligent, imaginative" woman. Don't lie just because you're on youtube.

[@codyflint2955]

1. Have money 2. Have a fat gut (most women need to be the more attractive one in the relationship) 3. Be in a relationship

[@lecomtedeneuch9994]

Patience is a virtue. Impatience shows neediness and desperation. Give a I don't care attitude about how others perceive you. Don't try to fit in. Don't be a people pleaser and most of all don't be a clown. People always wonder about the quiet ones (if you do act quiet, dont look sus, act like you really don't give a shit) Don't be nice, be kind (huge difference) Call people on their bullshit (especially hot girls) try to be playfull while doing it or go lay havoc !

[@1979RayDay]

There is one subject in school that they don’t teach in school that they should, and that’s psychology.

[@SuperJimJam]

Umm I took psychology in high school?

[@andrijadrobnjakovic9920]

@@SuperJimJam Same lol, they just dont teach it this good!

[@chadchad6531]

I think less than 5% are mature enough for it - I'm a high school student too so I know my peers well

[@JoeMaranophotography]

It's easy getting women. You just make them realise they aren't all that special and they would be lucky to have you because they aren't all that special. There's literally millions of attractive women out there and that in itself isn't a rare or particularly great trait. If you can make them realise they aren't that great a person and you can help them become better then that's perfection 😂

[@continuouswave34]

If I dress in blue jeans and a T-shirt (and they fit well) I occasionally get approached, even with a wedding ring on. Usually by 20 something’s that didn’t do a walk around first and notice that I’m 50. You should see the expression of confusion on their faces when I turn around and they see wrinkles... When I dress appropriately for my income and job (on my way home from he office) 30/40/50 year olds bug the crap out of me. This happens even if I flash my wedding ring in their face. In the end it’s money that attracts them: money = power = dominance. So 90% of the time I dress in baggy jeans and baggy T-shirts, usually with gun logos on them. Been married 20 years, not interested in being tempted by some woman that doesn’t even care that I’m married. Besides that’s exactly the kind of character I would never be with, hot or not.

[@notaras1985]

so they approached when you wore expensive suits if i understood correctly? yeah money attracts gold diggers and sugar daughters.

[@continuouswave34]

notaras1985 , that about sums it up. Of course there are exceptions but who wants to go through 1,000 to find 1. That’s why I have an issue with the concept of “alpha male” real alphas are the Audie Murphy’s, today’s alphas are just “highly efficient shopping carts” for women. If you notice courage, bravery, focuses and fortitude are never part of the modern Alpha definition.

[@notaras1985]

yeah its all about the $$$. and status. and fearlessness, but not in the traditional heroic sense.

[@lur3950]

Suck Less Awesome!! I like your words

[@continuouswave34]

Travis Nunley, P90x man, that stuff works... kicks my arse but works. At 50 I’m doing sets of dragon flags. If there’s one word of advice I can give with life and women, it’s be in the best physical shape you can - be Rocky not Honey Boo Boo.

[@GeneralG1810]

It's simple if a woman says looks and money don't really matter....They're lying! There are traits women find attractive and if you've got them you're in luck, however you'd be amazed how much a woman will lower her standards when money comes into the picture!

[@EvolveSomePie]

Just stay in with cat and play computer games. Easy life :)

[@lionsskyblue442]

Power: Money Attractiveness: Money Simples

[@AyoubPeter]

well thats a lie you believed your entire life ...Attractiveness = face Attractiveness

[@bjornviitala2435]

People that truly love don't expect each other to be financially successful. If your primary focus is nothing but money you're going to attract a lot of narcissists and gold diggers in your life. All the wrong people that don't love you as a person but for what you bring to the table.

[@povilasl5383]

Lionssky Blue attractives is not all money you could get strog by yourself and buy stylish and cheap clothes on sales or on a thrift shop

[@farber2]

First, be tall, then, be confident.

[@Mint-kj9kw]

And humble and funny...

[@mattmenshevik]

Trust me, you still need some charm. I'm 6'3" and it takes a lot of outward friendliness to make women not fear you at first sight.

[@Dave-qj1vx]

Beauty is not just on the outside but inside too.

[@YuyiLeal]

Great comment!

[@KungKras]

Sounds like excuses for a badly performing love life.

[@wololo696969]

If you think of love in terms of perfomance, you haven't understood to begin with.

[@KungKras]

There's nothing to understand. Humans are animals and strive for certain goals. Some are better at it and some are worse at it. If you're dating hot and interesting people then you are winning, otherwise you are losing.

[@redjupiter2236]

It feels good on the inside too 😌

[@glennmorris25]

Confidence is the strongest pheromone. If you dont have it, you can fake it, and it will still work. You dont need to be competent or high on the dominance hierarchy. It works.

[@naumanafzal8354]

There is no scientific and complicated explanation required for the question "How to attract beautiful women". The answer is simple, "You should be handsome" that's all.

[@willshad]

I am handsome and in great shape. I would give it away in a second to be 8 inches taller.

[@OrunitaVivi]

Where was the first half of this video from, it cut off while it was being AMAZING!!!

[@richardsrensen4219]

the true will set you free

[@chrislopez6832]

I'd love for someone to point out Patrice O'Neal to Jordan Peterson.... they are similar in many ways, all positive.

[@Steveross2851]

Normally I enjoy Jordan Peterson's videos a lot but this time it was the comments posted by the viewers that I found most interesting, even when the commenters argued with each other.

[@kellywhite9132]

I was in this same situation when I find someone powerful that help me out he can also help you

[@kellywhite9132]

[phone]

[@kellywhite9132]

Whstapp him

[@tubenachos]

Never clicked so fast jeezus man

[@alejandrodelabarra2838]

I would say it is exactly the opposite: The pressure to be in the top of the Dominance Hierarchie, is what sends them to the grave...

[@lukeappleberry827]

Good thought man. I'll think on it some.

[@actionjackson2721]

The admiration part was really interesting. You admire someone because they have gone through experiences and to admire is an attempt to emulate. If you can emulate their behavior thru what they’ve learned, u can learn without having gone thru the same tribulations

[@jakeelsner2963]

my dad has taught me so much and the knowledge was so easily attained by me. it took him decades to learn those lessons; it took me 3 minutes

[@julianmilnes9594]

"Jordan Peterson explains the benefits of dry wall cladding..."

[@kubes8388]

I find beautiful ppl causes our dopamine to change, First time seeing a more beautiful woman is always a shocker, then eventually looks becomes just easy on the eye, it's not normal if you crave such a thing in a woman beyond just inspiration, and yes not all things we own like beauty inspire each person the same, but it's ultimately not a need to say she's mine, for sure

[@leaveitorsinkit242]

I wonder how many people dismissed Jordan Peterson as a "crazy" person.

[@booneguy]

As common sense hits, this video might as well called “How to be a decent human being.”

[@tubularbill]

Let’s see...being over 6ft tall, full head of hair, a lot of money, washboard abs, connections...that’s pretty much it

[@Crymble]

You've got it wrong. Don't look for excuses. It's working hard and nurturing relationships. Working hard is working out, being in shape. Everybody can do that. Don't start with genetics and how you can't build muscle or lose fat. It doesn't matter just do it. Working hard is also acquiring wisdom. Learn skills, stop wasting time on meaningless things like we are doing right now on KZbin. Build a career you enjoy! Have a passion for something. Put time and effort into hobbies that don't earn you money aswell as your career. And build relationships. Plan things to do with your friends and crushes. Don't wait until someone does it for you. Experience things and lead your friends on a journey of adventure and memories that last forever. If you do these things, oh boy, the ladies will start being annoying to you. You'll be the one able to pick. But don't get arrogant or neither of this will work, be humble but know your strengths.

[@chaseman12]

wrong. Be a good man. Treat her well. Be the best person you can be. Don't be a wimp. Be confident.

[@Wealthy_Mystic]

You forgot the most important part, pretty face

[@rapsheets4993]

Or just lots of money

[@thomasliangus]

6:03 You are welcome.

[@DR-nh6oo]

Easy, just be beautiful, and I mean truly so, more than skin deep.

[@abarnayzar7670]

Dr. Peterson, man of truth

[@ΜιχΛαζ]

Respect to mr Peterson hope he is ok with his health!!

[@aldoard]

Im here for the comments.

[@jaymagen]

I ‘m an artist, I hate 9-5 life, I live by the day, no kids and I only have experienced women that loved me from what I am and the ones that expected me to work hard and have kids ran away. I have the life I want instead of doing what other wants me to do in society as man.

[@realistic.optimist]

Here is says being at the top is less stressful and in another video he states how stressful it is being at the top. PICK ONE! It is NOT less stressful at the top, you have better resources to deal with the stresses and they are different but it certainly is not less stressful.

[@BrandonAEnglish]

I don't personally know anyone I want to imitate. That sucks because I want to know someone who can impress me.

[@schahid8461]

Jordan Peterson