Jubilee Reaction: Male Feminists DEBATE Anti-Feminists - Unapologetic LIVE

[@morganr4426]

I am a woman and a Southern gal, and my daddy always told me "Don't hit someone if you aren't prepared for them to hit you back. Because they have a right to defend themselves and respond in kind". And he meant that in terms of men and other women. Now, if I man laid hands on me unprovoked, he would be six feet under and my dad would happily be sitting in a jail cell 😂 BUT- he taught me from a very young age that just because I am a woman does NOT mean that I should get a pass for getting physical with someone for any reason other than self defense. Being female does not absolve me of responsibility for assaulting a man. These chicks who slap and hit their men, verbally berate them, treat them like total shit, and then lose their damn minds when the man so much as shoves them to get her off of him so he can leave and diffuse the situation are WILD to me. You are using your gender as an excuse to physically attack and abuse your male partner. Period. They beat up their dude and then the moment he stands up for himself to get out of the altercation, these girls call the cops crying woman beater. They play the woman card when it's convenient for them by using it as a manipulation tactic. It's frankly egregious and disgusting.

[@zarrahprodan2180]

I agree and I taught my children the same. I have two boys (one young man of 20 and one teenager of 14) and I have always taught them to defend themselved no matter who is attacking them. Males have every right to defend themselves as much as women. Of course we need to teach our boys to be protective of women & children but that does not mean that they should be punching bags.

[@Crissy529]

Same! I grew up with a bunch of male cousins and my mom told me the same thing. Do hit unless you can take getting hit back!

[@xiabluecheng]

Totally agree, my mother taught me the same thing. Don't hit and not expect to get hit back. That's why I never engaged in fights, even if I was being provoked.

[@Bennahr_Fett]

I think if you're formally trained, eat well, and have an acumen for grappling and hand to hand combat that you should be able to subdue anybody. Alot of fighting is circumstantial, there really is no such thing as "fair". Alot of the time you need to make your own luck.

[@morganr4426]

@@Bennahr_Fett you totally missed the point of my statement. Obviously being well versed in hand to hand combat is extremely helpful when you're in a situation where you have no other choice but to fight back in self defense. My point was, you don't hit someone first/unprovoked and never expect to get hit back. Whether you're a man or a woman. You don't get to assault someone and think they don't have a right to defend themselves. As a woman, I was saying I'm fed up with women who think it's okay to put hands on a man repeatedly and think they should get away with it simply because of their gender. Then turn around and call the cops if the man so much as shoves them to try to get away. They play the "I'm a delicate flower because I'm a woman" card when it benefits them. I grew up being taught you never start a fight if you aren't completely prepared to accept any and all risks or consequences. Physical or legal. Not to mention it's just a dick move, in addition to a criminal offense, to hit someone for no reason.

[@Rhianauniversity]

I’m not sure if anyone noticed, but peep how the conversations surrounding female issues always involve transwomen and some form of queer male when it’s “women” in a group setting…but whenever guys debate and discuss issues, you hardly/never see any butch lesbians or transmen. 🤔🤔 At least…that’s what’ve I’ve noticed from the few videos I’ve seen on these “middle ground” style pages. (If there were any in this video please correct me if I’m wrong.)

[@thepsychomagus]

Transmen will destroy conversations about trans athletes that is one reason you wont hear them mentioned or shown.

[@cynthiaschmidt2726]

I noticed the same thing.

[@destinyn63]

THIS!

[@beanybabyrabie]

Because women are considerate enough to not completely try to invade male spaces, cause discomfort or take opportunities not meant for us.

[@miriamlana833]

Trans men are not challenged permanently for their sheer existance and dragged out of spaces, probably that's the reason, it's simply not necessary.

[@jessicaeng9158]

I'm a anti-feminist woman and I've gotten into discussion with feminist men. Some of them have told I was brainwashed with internalized misogyny. One of my daughters friends has hinted at it in some of the discussions we've had, but he hasnt fully gone there. I'm normally a quiet person, but if I want to say something- I say it. Sometimes, I've had to pull other women into conversations. I tend to be a bit of it a know-it-all and I have expressed my opinions in a way where I should've been accused of womansplaining

[@JohnGramer06]

Anyone who accuses ppl they don't agree w/ as "anti-(person's own identity" like a white person accusing a black person (like candace owens or brandon tatum) of internalized antiblackness, is seriously troubled in the brain. The only ppl who are internally anti-their own identity, as I've heard from John Doyle, are liberals, especially modern liberals who are anti-white even tho they are white and anti-american even tho that's the country they've built theirselves in. Bc modern liberalism is built on self-hate which leads to self-racism&sexism, being against ur own race or sex

[@Durzo1259]

I'd point out that they're using an Ad-Hominem fallacy: attacking ones character or motivations rather than address the content of their argument.

[@amsx1902]

Same! I have made it known in my community that I am anti-feminist and I’ve also gotten a lot of push back because of that. Also the standard “internalized misogyny”, “unacknowledged”, “hate yourself”, the whole world XD. Plus, my mother is a huge feminist and has on multiple occasions thrown “women oppression” into topics completely unrelated to that. Once when I was talking about heart failure, once when we were looking up sport bras, and once when we were looking for a car. It can get a bit annoying sometimes.

[@aglusci]

The fem men are like 4 puppies

[@Ars_RmCf]

Current state of feminism is not about women it’s about a viewpoint

[@Gilgamesh-Fate-assassin]

Men are on average physical much stronger than women but handguns don't care about that difference.

[@jackhhun2698]

women still don't do very well with handguns. If they were the real great equalizer then women would have been free with the damn cross bow

[@xaxscratchxax926]

You're not wrong. Guns, the great equalizer.

[@Gilgamesh-Fate-assassin]

@@xaxscratchxax926 definitely when it comes to damage.

[@voidsage9359]

Yes, which makes it really fucking strange that feminists are largely - against- letting people have guns. For feminism, guns are the best invention ever, next to tampons and indoor plumbing.

[@reyrodriguez1005]

Indeed, Captain Obvious 🫡

[@amsx1902]

I would love to see “Male Feminists debate Female Anti-Feminists.” I would happily volunteer to be on the female anti-feminist panel.

[@stevenmcauley9849]

They would mans plain feminism to you, tell you you're internally Mysoginistic and that you've been oppressed by patriarchy 🤣

[@thebigw3651]

@@stevenmcauley9849 and that you need to be in therapy to be “reprogrammed” to be a feminist.

[@bethanyfrisbey5607]

I agree I would love to be on that panel too it would be amazing, anti-fembot right here! pick me for this I would make it absolutely worth it

[@amsx1902]

@@bethanyfrisbey5607 Us two gals would be the leading charge 🤺🤺🤺 XD

[@Dopaminefeen]

You can sign up for their casting calls I did and I’m just waiting till I see one id actually want to be on - they are usually a n LA

[@thombat999]

The word you're looking for in "mansplaining" is condescension, which is crappy no matter who you are. Women are perfectly capable of that, too.

[@crissyc9831]

Exactly

[@treybrannon4964]

As a married man, can confirm.

[@SeventhClover]

As a woman, some of the most condescending people I've met have been other women.

[@LudmilaT.]

There are different ways people use the word, but i think it generally leans a bit more towards explaining stuff to someone more qualified than you rather than simply being condescending (which you can be - and traditionay that's how you would use that word - while being more qualified rather than less). I like the idea for the word, it's a shame it got stuck in gender politics instead of being a normal word that could be used for anyone towards anyone.

[@mysta4478]

@@SeventhClover especially when you become a new mother. All these woman acting like they know my child more than me, is irritating as heck.

[@FirStub]

These male feminists sure have a hard time waiting their turn to speak, lots of emotion. glad your back Amala.

[@JohnGramer06]

As they hear an anti-feminist say something they disagree w/ they're all like: "Y WON'T U LET ME HAIT MYSELF!" (exaggerated for comedic effect)

[@VSPtx]

you're* - get owned

[@kris4299]

@@VSPtx that’s your definition of getting owned?

[@VSPtx]

@@kris4299 It is clearly sarcasm. Go back to sizzlin snowflakes lol. Can't even catch a joke

[@kris4299]

@@VSPtx I’m sure it was a joke… grammar nazis don’t know humour.

[@davidwinokur2131]

How do people who can't tell me what a woman is support 'feminism'?

[@zarrahprodan2180]

Good point🤔

[@the2ndcoming135]

What’s the point of even voting in favor of abortion as a man if the argument is it’s outta my hands anyway? That means the vote should be only for women to begin with. Not to mention the doctors who perform the actual procedures😂

[@davidwinokur2131]

@@the2ndcoming135 But the abortion supporters also scream that men pay child support if they have the baby! So it's only men's responsibility when the women want money? Does that value or de-value the child? In what way? Women complain about being objectified, but isn't that exactly what they are doing here?

[@perfect12386]

As a Christian we use the bible as our moral compass, but to use it as a stick to wack people with is the wrong approach. The bible says that a husband and wife should be equally yoked. So instead of quoting scriptures, we need to find a way to communicate that effectively. For example, it is better to raise children in the security of marriage and to agree on the correct way to raise them.

[@Rose-xm4og]

💯!

[@Kingofthenet2]

I agree

[@AFringedGentian]

Amala, I’m so happy you’re back. I didn’t realize how much I cherish your thoughts on stuff until I had to miss them over the Christmas break.

[@floridamanmlb9299]

Same i was scrolling thru the shorts like 😑

[@amele.s4119]

same guys same 😭😭

[@johnwallace627]

Same with me

[@fahadmalik8862]

@@TheAmalaEkpunobi You are a hypocrite you break your own definitions of conservatism. You said in "no gay" video that hetro sx teaching also should not be allowed at all. Well look at what you are doing male feminist - excuse for a joke. Related to trying to get "laid". Feminism is about rights for women you do not have to be a woman. Says women. Masculine is for everybody says women. You cannot say feminist without invoking women. But you allow the opposite. I came here after refuting an infid al Muslim.

[@fahadmalik8862]

@@TheAmalaEkpunobi Hello "" *("Hello", I apologise in I have no other word in relation towards English. Me (a man) saying hello towards a sister/woman is a big unkind).I write as a Man (Born); The first Man (Aadam; Adam) was commanded to enter his body by Allah. Aadam (Adam) refused to enter his body despite being comanded by Allah. Aadam did not approach the first Woman (Havwa; Eve). Havwa (Eve) approached Aadam (Adam) and asked permission. Havwa afterwords cursed Aadam. Having a child was never real. The first Man does not "love" the first Woman. Love is not real. It is chemical reactions. Men posses not "love". Life hence why the first Woman approached the First Man. Since she cursed the first Man she is now incapable of changing. Women never possesed "love". The Life I mentioned. Only men posses this. Now look... The only people that exist are the first woman and the first Man. She cursed the first Man. Where does she go? She cannot be with herself. She ends in a loop. She imiates the first man. Every single science fiction story shows stuff that had never exited or could never exist. Even with dreams. None has originality. Every sciecne fiction story and book imiates our world. So she can spend eternity and have everything. Women are the strongest beings and are unique. Men are WEAK. But even with all the time, power etc. Imiation of men is all there is. Women are inheriently EVIL. Men are born to die. Why? The child making was not real as I said. Also another reason for why she approached him. Men do not f women. Women f Men. Women make children not men. " A needle has liquid in it but who does the action? The liquid or the needle? The needle as that contains both." Woman is the needle and Liquid. Kind Regards Fahad Malik Date:10/01/2023

[@TrekieGal]

There is such a stigma against giving up your career to raise children especially from younger people. I had a successful career in the Army (more decorated and with better reviews than my husband even with 2 children and maternity leaves). I've been home with my kids for nearly 4 years now and homeschool them. I see the looks from them when I'm out in the grocery store with my 4 kids and just let it go. It always boosts my spirits when someone tells me I'm doing the work of the future or how important what I'm doing is. And it is almost always an older grandparent telling me such.

[@KatieLHall-fy1hw]

There is, and I’m sure it is hard. But I think that is what true feminism has always been: the ability to choose for yourself! Good for you for making a choice that works so well for you!

[@PricelessBinkey1337]

I might be understanding this incorrectly but it sounds like with two maternity leaves (time away), including homeschooling them, you somehow became more decorated than your husband's who are also in the military? Am I misunderstanding this?

[@TrekieGal]

@@PricelessBinkey1337 nope. You are reading correctly. But neither of us is serving anymore.

[@the2ndcoming135]

Bro said if he hears one more religious reason tho🤣

[@TrekieGal]

@@the2ndcoming135 not sure what you are talking about? I didn't say anything about my religion or lack thereof.

[@andythompson2009]

Boys are told to be better... Girls are told they deserve better.

[@synaesthesia4183]

That's so true. It's not right.

[@awsambdaman]

Exactly and this is such an awful thing to inflict on young boys and men. Growing up alongside your female peers, you teach the girls that they’re enough as it is and you teach the boys they always need to improve. It’s implicitly telling boys that girls are inherently better. It also places all blame of boys not doing well on their shoulders. If the boy is failing it’s his fault, if the girl is failing, it’s society’s fault. We really are cruel to young boys and men.

[@opps8511]

@@awsambdamanAs a girl I would say being told I deserve better is depressing. Because I’m not interested in anything enjoyable. I just want to be build my own stuff and advance.

[@FromTrash2Treasure]

I tried watching this and I really couldn’t. It’s so much better listening to it with you and your team’s perspective. You help keep me sane. Keep up the good work Amala!

[@gestaltramen]

Same, saaaame 😅😅😅

[@pierh7685]

Me tooooooo !!! I lasted 10min and was so frustrated by their lack of ability to listen and constantly speak over one another.

[@anonspectre1796]

@@pierh7685 maybe I'm in the minority but to me it was very evident that there was an agenda. They kept cutting the anti-feminists off, or stopping the conversation to talk about something else

[@frankibrix9112]

As a woman who was viewed as, as "pretty", I can say that pretty privilege is definitely a thing, but it also means that I'm not permitted to be intelligent. It means moments like the man who dotes on you (and you think it's' because he cares for you) saying things like, "She can't be a doctor, she's too pretty." And then it hits you like a freight train that that person has no idea who you are. They never valued your intelligence, creativity, work ethic (any traits that you have that should be apparent to anyone that cares) or they never saw your worth. For me, that led to years of finding ways to "ugly" myself so people would take me seriously. Or as a teen, dumbing myself down so that people wouldn't hate on me. Being "pretty" never made life easier for me. It also made me a frequent target. Now as a grown woman I am fighting very hard to find a way to feel beautiful and intelligent simultaneously. Edit: As a woman who wanted to raise my babies, I was treated like I was lazy because I didn't have a "real job" by the baby's father. In my experience there are way too many men unwilling to fulfill the roll of provider and they also aren't willing to trade roles (and do it right). Which leads to broken or fighting families. Because now women who want to raise babies at home are considered ignorant, stupid, lazy, sheep... so on. Even as a single mom now, I suffer in poverty to be here for my children (living off of a small amount of child support). My mother chose the feminist route. All she had was men take advantage of her money, she was never there for us. Out of 4 children I'm the only one that was never arrested and only 3 of us are still alive. She is still proud of her decisions and doesn't see the flaw. I never jump straight to judging her. I love my mother and I know she was doing what she thought was right, but it was wrong, and it led to a lot of suffering I won't get into here. Oh, and only I still talk to her, she is all alone because she pushed away any strong man that came into her life and let leeches take advantage of her. Back for more Edits: First, I don't think you should have skipped the segment on consent. I watched the full Jubilee before coming to your channel to see your reaction and when these men are talking about consent that is a lot of confusion as to what the prompt even meant. Which I think is a part of the problem with society. I've been assaulted by 2 men who still to this day don't think they assaulted me. One of them being my son's father, a "male feminist" that I've known since high school (going on 20+ years knowing this man). In all actuality every person that has sexually assaulted me was of the feminist or LQBTQ+ community camp. Second, I lost my brother about 6 years ago and the college I was enrolled in dropped me immediately for missing one email in relation to me taking time off. There was no repeal process available. I was just labeled a "drop-out". I had to go through feeling the loss of my brother who was 1 year apart from me, so we were very close, being dependent on other people financially and I felt the same tug of shame he did. That is not indicative of a patriarchal society. In my opinion, it's indicative of a society that no longer views individuals as assets to care for and nurture.

[@ryanphillips5591]

Did you really hear the comment, "She can't be a doctor, she's too pretty?" Never heard a guy say anything like that. I've heard feminists say it alot though

[@Jianju69]

Feminist men have literally warned me, "Nobody will sleep with you," in response to me stating I'm no longer a feminist.

[@thorinhannahs4614]

Just tell them "I feel a lot better about that having heard it come from you"

[@magmarmtn]

Quite the opposite. They don't realize they're friendzoned, while the girls look for guys who aren't pussies. lol

[@yassinehannachi6871]

The irony is thick in this one

[@patrickburden8257]

I feel like you had a LOT of fun with this one. Lol

[@JohnnyCage333]

@Amala Ekpunobi: Unapologetic Welcome back Amala! Finally a live stream again. Lol. Good to see you and glad you're feeling better. Happy New Year '23!👍🏻🤙🏼😘

[@graveyj2000]

lol. Actually, most of the time when I see mansplaining, it is because a man is talking to a woman just like they would talk to another man, and the ladies don't like it. :)

[@abbylheureux1317]

I’m the analytical women that “mansplains” to my husband 😂

[@Black_Patriot-Veteran-1970]

That's beautiful, sweetie.

[@LarissaDawn]

If a fetus isnt a human, what is it? A hippo ???

[@edwinamendelssohn5129]

I know their arguments are so stupid

[@briankenome]

It's like saying a child is not a human cos it's not an adult

[@itznoah-live6881]

Lol yeah. Humans are humans no matter the form we take, because being human is literally in our DNA. Just cause someone doesn't look "Human" doesn't make them any less Human

[@the2ndcoming135]

1. Dylan 2.Dylan 3. Dylan 4. Dylan 5. And, Dylan🍔

[@traditionalsoldier3639]

Well, many a time the mother looks like one

[@AF-tc9gr]

"Women are more emotional beings." after watching a bunch of guys arguing and yelling at each other for an hour, i simply cannot agree

[@mmgs1148]

yup

[@somerandommenace]

Go watch women do it your mind will change

[@AF-tc9gr]

@@somerandommenace oh ive seen them. They are not better, not worse. Anyone who argues with emotions and not facts is a waste of time

[@Kingofthenet2]

Facts

[@kacygilbert9434]

They’re in a setting in which they were supposed to though.

[@craftcrazy67]

I'm a 34 yr old woman and I believe that abortions should be legal within reason/with restrictions. Like a reasonable cut off time, rape and/or incest. Also medical reasons like the mothers life is in danger she should be able to make the choice of her life or the pregnancy, or the fetus is severely deformed an would not have a good quality of life. I think more goes into this than a woman having a 1night stand

[@Jianju69]

Very sensible. I've known women who literally use abortion as birth control. Three abortions under her belt, and she sleeps with random men, unprotected, and just shrugs her shoulders, saying, "Well, if I get pregnant, I'll just get an abortion." Yeah, she's talking about number four.

[@BusinessSkrub]

@@Jianju69 those people don't deserve an abortion. If you aren't going out of your way to at least use birth control to try and prevent the pregnancy, then you shouldn't be allowed to take medical services from people who might need them because you like to make poor decisions.

[@bunnybunch5782]

Why not kill the rapist? Why not kill the incest engager? Women have never had to loose their life for their pregnancy, that situation has always had that choice. Abortion IS homicide Homicide IS illegal As for malformations or no thrive life, these kinds situations are so grey that again the mothers choice can not be the gate keeper. I personally know many lives that would have been aborted for malformation, one is a doctor and also a attorney with partial arms and legs. In early 2000's their was a birth defect happening only in a specific city where the brain was not encased within the skull, the survivability rate is zero. Those deaths are automatic, not viable, easily detectable and never forced gestation or birth. Our modern society uses homicide abortion like another form of birth control. The woman's choice is before she becomes pregnant not after, the new life separate and individual from the mother has rights as a human being.

[@AlainBoudard]

Totally agree, and as far as I know for France, that was the spirit of the original law that we had at first. But then it went quite off. Also, I don't like the very concept of abortion and I think it's not a good thing, but that's merely an opinion of mine, and leftists in general don't accept my point of view. For them, you either embrace the whole deal or you're a danger to all women...

[@elizabethsmith8176]

What would be a "reasonable" cut off time? It's a human life from conception, so I don't really think there is such a thing as "a reasonable" cut off time. I don't know of any pro-life people who would have an issue with abortion if the mothers' life is at risk. At that point its either you lose both mother and baby or just baby. I don't think it's very ethical to have an abortion because your baby is deformed. That means many children with down syndrome or other disorders would be aborted. Why don't they deserve life?

[@CANADIANBELLS]

Whenever a woman says someone is mansplaining, I just say they're womanwhining. They don't like that very much. Ladies, check yourselves. Don't be disrespectful.

[@treybrannon4964]

Amen!

[@KatieLHall-fy1hw]

We ALL need to be respectful! Sometimes it can be hard but if we work at it we can do it!

[@PricelessBinkey1337]

Ladies have gotten too comfortable being disrespectful, especially since we got a "equality steeped" gen z that might not be so quick to hold their temper in the face of a girl they believe isnt any different from them.

[@the2ndcoming135]

So where does this leave Muslimsplaining and the likes?💀

[@CANADIANBELLS]

@The 2nd Coming In the rasicm dumpster that it belongs in

[@zeeyore2102]

My boy won the argument when he said not to have sex. Discussion over. Period point blank. Love it!

[@the2ndcoming135]

Nobody: Jubilee: Quick let’s call out men for not calling out men over a women issue🏃🏽‍♂️🏃‍♀️

[@Lucy-ny4gs]

Men have sex every day who don't want kids and won't take responsibility if it happens. Imagine what would happen if all women who currently don't want kids went on some sex strike. they would get raped. simply saying 'don't have sex' doesn't solve that issue at all.

[@davidjones1341]

Facts like other than the r@pe cases,The final decision to have se* lies with the women and if you get pregnant then that's your fault just as much as your partner's. Sorry skill issue cry bout it.

[@anonspectre1796]

@@Lucy-ny4gs It takes women to lay down with those men first of all, both parties would rather bring a child into a broken home before getting to know each other and potentially starting a life. Also men are not these primal demented overly sexual animalistic beings. If women went on a sex strike they would regret it because not all women can't go even minutes without sex. Also don't have sex is pretty much all that should be said, cuz if you're not having sex you don't run the risk of having a baby.

[@timeyre2740]

@@Lucy-ny4gs End of the day its a free market ecomony and girls control the stock prices. Are you blue chip? what's your dividends? Are you a long term investment or am I gonna option it? Are you a DRP or am I gonna have to scrub this off somehow as a tax loss/charity? What are the odds I'm gonna get stung for capital gains tax?

[@corgimom5626]

I hate this stupid notion that all men get upset if the woman makes more money. My husband and I have been together for over 10 years. I have way more education and work in stem. I make double what my husband does. My family lives close, I did not need to leave my job when we had a child. My husband has never felt off about making less money. We always knew it would be this way because I was going to school for something much more difficult. I am not a single care. I know many people in this situation.

[@FromTrash2Treasure]

I think you are an exception to the rule but it’s definitely not a bad thing. Glad to hear it worked for you. 😊

[@corgimom5626]

@@FromTrash2Treasure right but that’s what I am saying, atleast in my personal life I am not the exception I know several couples, including my parents that the woman makes significantly more than the man.

[@FromTrash2Treasure]

@@corgimom5626 I get it but that’s still an exception to the rule. I quickly looked up a study done in 2020 by TD ameritrade and it found that about 21% of women earn more than their spouses. Yeah I suppose it’s more common now, way more than in the 1960s for example.

[@the2ndcoming135]

What if transgender whites start making more money? Then what?😂

[@oddfielder]

Here is the middle ground: all people should be capable of being financially independent. It doesn’t take away from the role of the father, as it takes both parents to raise a child. Having the ability to leave in the unfortunate case of divorce doesn’t take away anything. It means you’re in the relationship because you CHOOSE to be and not because you have to be.

[@timeyre2740]

So in that scenario would you support an outcome of financial inequality to balance the traditional "provider" and "courting" roles (and display of status) of men? Or should men be judged not just within your local sociosphere, but also against every man in the world and the hollywood faux reality and every woman also in assessing what financially constitutes a high value man? Or, should men therefore on the basis of equality, renig on chivalry, not drop 3 months wage on a chunk of ice, renig on financial provision and provide their role merely as a financially independent coinhabitor, with benefits? How about divorce security? if you're financially independent then he doesn't owe you anything if you leave. Not a damn cent.

[@HintofPink]

I would love to see Amala moderate one of the Jubilee debates.

[@jacksyoutubechannel4045]

Ugh. I know it's the meme, but women aren't just running around stealing custody from fit fathers. James Younger is an _extreme_ outlier. In approximately 90% of cases, the father never even requests custodial time. In contested custody cases, the father prevails 60% of the time.

[@mmgs1148]

Exactly, they want to live easy childless life with being a "weekend-father", they also have it easier when it comes to finding another partner

[@Will-tn8kq]

I think you inde-estimate the effect of FEAR. Men live in fear knowing their wives could take their children. I struggled with that just when I was trying to have children. Every guy knows some man who got screwed over in their kids custody in the divorce. For me it was my cousin. I think your statistics hide what a big effect that is.

[@mtz123ish]

Amala! Welcome back! Missed you. Glad you’re feeling better Was afraid the evil analytics moved you. ❤

[@puffnplay8350]

I'm so tired of hearing "patriarchy patriarchal" that all people use to rebuttal against things they don't like or disagree with

[@shaundevoy9307]

reference: I would rather a million false accusations, to get one right. - That is evil, that is wrong.

[@corgimom5626]

Right!? Isn’t the saying rather one guilty man go free than one innocent be persecuted..

[@shaundevoy9307]

@@corgimom5626 No kidding!! Yeah, in one breath they say men and women interpret things differently, for starters that is as an assumption. Now based upon that if it is true, he says this in the next breath. My question is "how is there any objective morality?"

[@yassinehannachi6871]

I mean like does he think that prison is like a kindergarden time-out "you go there for 20 years and you there life with no parole"? prison rape is one of the things people gloat about and guess who to it happens? Rapists and another guess what? inmates don't care if you actually guilty or not, so he basically saying "i rather a million innocent people getting tormented for a decade", and i really don't want to sound like an asshole but is he implying that its ok for a man to get SAed than a woman ?? aren't WE suppose to help victims no matter what? also is implying that female rapists don't exist? what about them or they are not dangerous like male ones? his take is,from my perspective, is shallow and even selfish.

[@bumblebee7384]

I am a masters graduate and I had a guy who told me to “tone it down” for him. My dad knew about it, and basically told the guy off. So yeah, such misogyny does happen to some women but that doesn’t mean ALL men are the worst. I mean my dad fought for me because he respects women. My dad is a man. So really, the “hate men” thing is really something I disagree with.

[@Cynnas]

For her to so easily dismiss men's suicide rates is disgusting and so wrong. What it shows is the stigma around men getting help for their mental health.

[@cba_13]

Amala I missed your videos sooo much! Glad you’re back. ❤ greetings from Mexico!

[@mewtwomonster]

Imagine a man telling a woman she’s “womansplaining” about the topic of abortion. 😂😂😂 that would go over well.

[@Michael.Gr3y]

Last time I checked if a man gets a woman pregnant and she decides to carry the pregnancy, that man has no choice on either to provide for the child or not. So if the final choice is all up to the women then men should be allowed to decide to provide or not for that child. The only way that man can escape is by just having no means at all to provide for that child, or he has to move to another country. So feminism is nice in theory but when it comes to the actual reality of life, a man is basically told to shut up and accept whatever the woman decides. And if that's feminism then to Hell with it, seeing it's about everything except equality.

[@opps8511]

How about not getting someone pregnant?

[@Michael.Gr3y]

@@opps8511 You talk as if it's a decision of one when it's a decision of two. How about all the women that lie about being on birth control just to get pregnant, and then the man can't do sh*t about it? Women even have means of cancelling the risk of having gotten pregnant with a single pill, but when it suits them to be pregnant then the man can't say anything about it.

[@hellgast0]

the video would've have been so much more interesting if it was male feminists and female anti-feminists

[@wendylipuma1273]

I wish we could have a few older people on any of these panels. It is as if a person’s opinion expires in midlife from relevance and certainly from later life.

[@PricelessBinkey1337]

Good observation. It's because we as a society essentially erase people from existence once I hit the age of 55. This is why the fetishization of children exists in our society. Why left-leaning politics are targeting children. It also might have something to do with the fact that many people, boomers included, buy into the s*** because they are just as ignorant if not more so than most of these people who are brainwashed by The matrix. But plain and simple people just don't respect their elders anymore..I totally agree

[@rachelhoward1970]

Seeing you debate yourself in each role (dressed incognito à la Eddie Murphy, of course) would be so entertaining to watch.

[@d4652]

If we lived in a patriarchy we wouldn't be having these conversations.

[@torisefaamaligi3315]

Amala, she's definitely as smart as they come... Every point she makes is spot on... Great job

[@alexrosario423]

Honestly, women are born with value that men aren't. People are naturally inclined to want to help women. They are valued by both men and other women in respect to their looks. It's stuff like this why you don't see many homeless women. A woman doesn't have to struggle to find help, or a partner. Not only are the institutions heavily in theor favor, but people in general will go out of their way to help women, whereas they're much less likely to help men. A woman can literally strive to do nothing in her life and 100% of the time find someone who is willing to take care of them. The most effort they'd have to put in is maybe maintaining their looks. I understand why Amala sees it the way she does: she is a driven and conscientious person who cares about making the most of her life. However, it's difficult to see privilege from a place of privilege- she has options that are exclusive to her because of her sex that she doesn't realize she has. I'm not hating either, I think it's a consequence of our evolutionary roles. In most animal species, the males are expendable and are only as valuable as the value they themseleves create. Females are inherently valuable because they create life.

[@Will-tn8kq]

Agreed. Women are treated as if they have more value than men. Men just don't have that value born into them.

[@simeondobrev5835]

On the anti-feminist side, Donovan and Cloverse definitely have watched a bit too much Andrew Tate and haven't seen enough perspectives in life; their immaturity is showing. Clarkson and CJ on the other hand were awesome in the debate and articulated themselves clearly.

[@devotheambivert9875]

I believe you will hit the million sub count milestone before the winter ends. You will hit it before this month ends. Keep doing your thing. Keep speaking the real. Keep standing for true uprightness.

[@crystalclearmelody]

amalaaa i'm so glad you're back!

[@THERAPEUTICJUNKIE]

Feminism is well and truly broken, but I'm one of the feminists that centres females and has been speaking out on the trans ideology since 2015. I do find it odd that people want bodily autonomy, but women can't have it when it comes to risking their own lives having babies. I've been in the situation where a pregnancy would've been a total disaster for me and I'm glad I'm in the UK where I could have an abortion. You only have to watch almost any Netflix show and see women being trafficked, abused, sold like cattle across all classes in all cultures. We can't say everything is fixed and equal until people acknowledge that the female half of the population is still being routinely abused, even in the West. Instead, we're pissing about trying to stop male sex offenders abusing women in prisons, children flying prey to gender ideology, pronouns, getting sexually explicit books out of schools, etc. When you really look into these things, you see that on the road we're on, things for women are much worse than most people think. Maybe not for individual women in the West, but we never hear from the women who are paying the price.

[@DanielleNicoleMakeup]

I agree. What, 1 in 6 women/girls have been sexually assulted? And I've known several people that would have died if they didn't get an abortion (which would in turn cause more deaths). And guess what, they were married and had planned pregnancies that went wrong. To act like abortion only effects promiscuous women is ridiculous and not true, as well as assuming all full term pregnancies will result in both being healthy. Forcing women to give birth for any reason, even in the case of health reasons and r*pe, is disgusting. That is the definition of not having bodily autonomy which is already a horrific experience without pregnancy. I have more traditional views and side more with the right usually, but forcing women AND GIRLS to give birth is wrong. I'm so sick of this conversation. OBGYNs have data that shows how many women died before abortion was available for a variety of reasons. No it shouldn't be used as reliable birth control but I am not taking bodily autonomy from anyone, and these politicians who are not OBGYNS should not be making these decisions for girls and women either

[@DanielleNicoleMakeup]

Also, we should be taking steps to 1) have more harsh punishment for r*pists, instead of acting like r*pe is just a regular occurance women and girls have to look out for and 2) we need better sex ed and resources to support pregnancy and births. We should be looking at these solutions of prevention (when possible) instead of trying to work from the top down

[@THERAPEUTICJUNKIE]

"The complication ridden multistage tube pedicles popularized by Gillis were, with the advent of microsurgery, replaced by radial forearm flaps. The composite osteo-cutaneous version of this flap promised ‘All for one and one for all’ assuring both a reliable urinary conduit and a phallus stiffener. Prelamination and prefabrication to make the neo-urethra came with the promise of reducing both fistula and strictures but that did not happen and flap failure rates increased. Penile stiffeners of various types have been introduced; the artificial ones were associated with high infection and failure rates" A total of 32 patients were identified: 22 underwent free radial forearm flap, 5 anterolateral thigh, 4 anterolateral thigh/free radial forearm flap, and 1 fibular flap phalloplasty. The median age at prosthesis implantation was 36 (range 21-59) years, the mean BMI 25.9 ± 4.0 kg/m2. At first implantation, 16 inflatable (AMS Dynaflex (n = 13), AMS Ambicor (n = 3)) and 16 malleable (Coloplast genesis (n = 14), AMS Spectra (n = 2)) prostheses were placed. Of these, 5 (16%) were removed/replaced because of infection, 2 (6%) because of leakage, 2 because of extrusion, 2 because of dislocation, 2 because of dysfunction, and 1 (3%) because of pain. The postoperative course was completely uneventful in 10 (31.3%) patients. Of all implanted prostheses, including revision procedures (n = 45), 21 (44%) were surgically replaced or removed. @DanielleNicoleMakeup 👏👏👏 yes! I've been r worded more than once, sexually assaulted by a man in a bathroom who only stopped because another woman came in, and he knew that she knew he wasn't meant to be there. I also had an abortion - I was told I was infertile, I saw my dead ovaries myself, no eggs even with hormones. A decade later, at 40, I got pregnant. The father told me he'd support me and then changed his mind. I'm bipolar and autistic/adhd (diagnosed by medical professionals), and I struggle with basic self care; no family around, no support network, and the medication I take for bipolar is damaging in pregnancy. I don't know if women who haven't been in those kind of situations understand how it feels to abort a baby (especially one that was some kind of miracle) and then hear pro lifers saying I'm just choosing it as birth control. That child would've been removed from me, and our child protection services in the UK are in dire straits so they would go into a system rife with abuse. I would've ended up back in hospital. I don't see a good outcome here. I've also been with men who poke holes in condoms, but it's women who should be punished by forcing them to risk their own lives giving birth and then living with the torture of having your child removed? Crazy. I also know people who were made pregnant through incestuous r word. They have to live with not only their own trauma, but the trauma of the child knowing where they came from, judgement from society, health problems etc. I don't believe most pro lifers actually care about 'life', because they don't care about the health of women whatsoever.

[@Will-tn8kq]

Your Netflix shows give you an unrealistic view of reality. Murder, assault, maiming, those happen to far more men than women. In the real world the victims of violent crimes are almost entirely men. Even victims of domestic assault are 40% men and victims of rape are 50% men. The idea that there is a large wave of violence targeted at women is not true, violence against women is a small percentage of total violence in America.

[@TheMoviesWithMike]

I was arguing with a few people about abortion at the bar the other day, a girl in the group told me I can’t have an opinion due to being a guy, I told her I identify as a woman for the duration of the conversation, does that make my opinion valid? She said, you are a white male, I said , you bigot, I shall not explain my gender fluidity to you, She said, okay, you can have an opinion, Can’t believe the crazy, she didn’t realize I just say things to win arguments , and that somehow this identity made me allowed to have an opinion

[@ivanpadilla4479]

I wanna point out something that I noticed and bothers me. People have moved on from saying tyrannical patriarchy to directly patriarchy and it’s interpreted as a negative right on it’s face. Wild

[@BusinessSkrub]

It's almost like they use words without actually knowing what the word means. Absolute shocker

[@terryroster]

Amala, I would encourage you to watch the gender pay gap conversation, because they respond to all of the arguments you made. But here's another point they don't mention that I think is worth noting: Women are less likely than men to be chosen/promoted for higher positions at work for the same reason that women are more likely to get custody of their kids: Both judges and employers have the same assumption about women, that they are more likely to stay at home with their children than a man would be, and thus are more likely to develop closer relationships with their kids. Assuming a man and a women are equally qualified for a position, an employer may not want to hire the person who is statistically more likely to leave or temporarily put their career on hold to be with their children. (The woman.) As long as statistical differences between the number of stay at home men and women exist (and they probably always will, though there are ways we can reduce them such as offering paternity leave), so too will biases of employers favor men. In order to convince me that the gender pay gap isn't real, you would need to convince me that people don't make decisions based on probability.

[@keredeht]

Most women can find a man who will take care of them, provide for them and only expect physical affection in return. The opposite is rarely true...

[@johnwallace627]

Damn I don't know where to start with this but I like amala 's reaction to this glad she's back I have missed her so much for the last 10 days it's been forever since I heard from her Glad she's keeping well god bless you Amala.

[@discofoot6443]

Back in the day, the right to vote also included registering to be drafted into the military. When women got the right to vote, they were able to do so without needing to register to the draft.

[@nebnik2015]

so are you saying women should be drafted or take their right to vote away?

[@dionthomas5418]

Happy New Year, Amala, Great debate on Jubilee between two groups of Men, male feminist vs male anti feminist telling their own views on the issue, how it affects the rest of America in 2023

[@stevenmcauley9849]

The female leader debate was hilarious. We in the UK have had 3 elected female prime ministers. Lizz Truss didn't get a chance to govern due to "political pressures" as the elites wanted someone else in charge.

[@annapuppy899]

I would say that from the “feminist side” woman are taught to fear men - they are here to get go physically mentally and emotionally. From the anti side - woman are often taught that they “need” a man for child baring/raising, defense or financial. I’m not sure either route is empowering and though it looks different for each side they are one in the same, fear.

[@timeyre2740]

It does stain the emotional reasons when you paint it through objective attributes. Perhaps the alternate question is why does a man actually want a woman besides sex and why does a woman want a man? Split the bills? share the living expenses? share life experiences? what about just primal natures like nurturing, protecting, intimacy? I hate the word "codependency" so I tend toward symbiotic or perhaps altruistic to an extent. That 2 together even in a civilised society would have a strategic advantage over any/either one by themselves. I mean you say men are all violence and death, Queen Elizabeth ordered plenty of heads dropped. Even her own cousin. In terms of building a world we could've done better, but we ain't done too bad. I'll apologise for my sex and say it is the first world we've built.

[@grantlangkamp1909]

"It is a life,it isn't a human". Please never talk or debate about abortion ever. I hope you see this and act on it.

[@yarakhama7264]

First time this vid was released I thought to myself "Would love to see Amala react to this" and you have 👏👏👏🥰

[@jen0718]

I miss Taylor being in the studio! Glad he can still be on the show despite the distance!

[@ClarksonLawson]

Thank you for the shoutout Amala! Always appreciate hearing your commentary ❤

[@chynnareyes]

Literally, the feminists argument for everything is patriarchy 🤣

[@dannydiamonds8682]

Women are born with inherent value she just didn’t understand what he meant. He meant like how women at 18 will be on a yacht just for existing whereas an 18 year old guy will probably have to be workin on the yacht crew to get on it

[@nicholasdaley7041]

" Innocent men suffer because of feminism "..........checks public school curriculum......yup

[@the2ndcoming135]

Ikr? Like, why not abort yourself when your mom tells you to if it’s her body her choice then?🤔

[@323azteca]

1:26:20 what he doesn't realized is that by "defending his daughters, his wife, his MIL, etc" from the world what he calls oppression, he is assuming he is a superior being that needs to defend women, he is assuming the traditional male role. He is saying they cannot do it without him. I'll be offended.

[@TS-ym3bo]

Please bring CJ on!

[@tigerl21]

I was just happy to see Clarkson in this conversation. Love him. You were completely on-point with your observation being this conversation started sounding just about the same as it would with a room full of women...

[@Mx-rr3qm]

When people give the example that "pretty women can get into yatch or clubs easily" ... I just ask who let them in... Men... Men create the value in beauty for women. Like women created the value of wealth and power for men.

[@Will-tn8kq]

That is not something done at the individual level. An ordinary average man does not have access to the value of wealth and power that some otheran has.

[@TheSarahJane33]

Women did not create the value of wealth and power for men. Men forced and enforced women to go along with their power and wealth. Women were not seen as human beings in most of the world in times that power structures were being created. We were forced to go along with whatever men wanted and in that, conditioned that these structures were beneficial to us in every way because it’s all women knew. Look to the FLDS church in modern times and many continual tribal groups still in existence. Women weren’t allowed to push back or question things, or even allowed to have an education like men were. Men have created the value in whatever appeals to them and their goals.

[@manfromuranus]

Oddly enough when I stood up for myself and left a situation where modern feminist ideals became oppresive and controlling of my identity as a male, so many other women emerged with newfound respect and attraction toward me. that was a pleasant and life affirming surprise.

[@karmatseringlhamoanutsang2055]

I really find amala‘s claims and strong advocacy for there‘s no need for people to be feminist disrespectful and invalidating. Me personally and millions of girls like me who came from where I am from need feminism. Just because you as a woman in USA got the opportunities and equal rights doesn’t mean that’s the same case for every women throughout the world. Personally what I went through and what I am still going through, I constantly needed feminism. After watching your video today it really discouraged me and I felt like for me and girls who are like me who are not from a very modern part of the world are alone in this movement. It really felt like our experiences are really not in your perspective. I really felt alone after watching this.

[@davidbkg6155]

I feel like this is an American culture focused video. I don't think she meant any disrespect or to hurt the feelings of women who aren't American

[@TheSarahJane33]

You’re not alone! I’m a conservative AND a feminist. Their boxes don’t hold everyone and I will continually fight for women and against the things we continually face. We may have equal rights in the US under the law, but outside of politics and legality, men still attempt to control, dominate and assert their will over women daily. It’s why women and children are still the highest victims of domestic violence. People who have the privilege of not experiencing these types of hardship will never understand and try to brush them off because it doesn’t effect them and isn’t in their preview. These facts are anomalous to them, so they don’t matter in their “big picture.” I’m with you, sis. You’re not alone 🫂

[@Dcol96]

Amala run for president when you turn 30 pleaseeeeee. And until then keep bringing allllll the reality, facts, and truth about every topic that becomes up for debate solely around feelings & opinion rather than FACT and SCIENCE. Freaking absolutely love you and all that you are

[@crissyc9831]

I vehemently disagree with Amala on stay at home dad's. I would have an extremely difficult time finding a husband who makes more than me without him having to put in 12 hour days. Men should in no way feel emasculated if their woman makes more... I hate that men are treated and made to feel that they HAVE to make more even if they have to work more than they get to REST. I worked my a** off (60 hour work weeks while going to school full-time too) so I could contribute financially so my husband wouldn't have to work insane hours to provide for our family. I barely saw my own dad because he had to work 12-14 hour days and I never had much of a relationship with him because of that and I didn't/don't want that for my husband. I wanted my children to actually have a relationship with their dad.

[@edwinamendelssohn5129]

Women should be home if they have small children.

[@crissyc9831]

@@edwinamendelssohn5129 whoever makes less money should be home while they have small children... Let's be financially smart here why take a $100,000 income over $200,000? The decision should be based on what benefits the family financially, and not solely based on gender alone .

[@edwinamendelssohn5129]

@@crissyc9831 Women bear and feed babies from their bodies. Money isn't the end all. Lets return to logic and reason.

[@crissyc9831]

@@edwinamendelssohn5129 I can have a baby then return to work (recovery takes about a week). I can breastfeed my child until they're 18 months (and did) by pumping during work and having my childcare provider bottle feed them my pumped milk and breastfeed outside of work hours. You've brought zero logic as to why I cannot do these things and continue to work after I recover. Children are very expensive, and challenging so the person who can make more money while working less hours and will make more money over their entire life should be considered when deciding who will keep their job. As I said, gender alone should never be the sole deciding factor in who stays home while the children are young. You have to be smart about the decision and take a variety of factors into consideration, but money will and should be the biggest factor without a doubt. I believe we owe it to our children to have one parent be at home with the children while they're young.

[@corgimom5626]

Completely agree with you here. I married my husband because I love him as a person and he is my protector. He is not my provider, he went to school from criminal justice, I went to school for math and finance. I make double what he does. He has never felt emasculated that I make more than him. From the moment we met we knew that I would have a bigger job that him. Women do not need to stay home with their children and a lot of women don’t want to. Exactly what you said in another comment about modern technology, we have pumps, formula, and plenty of other options to ensure our babies are happy and healthy. Whether it is men staying home to watch children or family members, not all children with working mothers go to daycare 5 days a week to be raised by a stranger.

[@SquirtlePower809]

Thank you for the amazing content! As a professor in a super liberal atmosphere, I often feel so isolated and even crazy at times lol! So good to hear that other free thinking people exist and are actively putting content out!

[@ShepardRahl]

Amala made a good point. This debate was carefully crafted by Jubilee. Four male feminists debating four FEMALE anti-feminists would have been the logical choice, but like Amala said if the anti-feminists were all female the male feminists would have held their tongues on a lot of their whining so as not to be seen "attacking wahmen". Also, every time I hear a supposed man whine about "patriarchy" I cringe so hard I break my back.

[@the2ndcoming135]

Simps vs Ray Rays Round 1 FIGHT😂

[@vincenzobonadonna4556]

People and their mental gymnastics to say that life isn't life.

[@gusmannion7962]

Women in general have it a lot easier than men we get downgraded by men and women we get told we don't have an opinion because we're White males and straight this so many things on so many levels so true

[@superrbx]

bro thinks white males and straight have it hard

[@mysta4478]

Attractive woman have is easier. Ugly woman do not get special treatment and I've witnessed that many times.

[@shasha_stars]

Great to have you back Amala, love your content! How do you think that we can have relationships where men and women have traditional roles and then women also have financial independence?

[@flashstar1234]

Imagine if Jubilee invited Amala Ekpunobi, Brett Cooper and Candace Owens to a Male Feminists vs Female Anti-Feminists episode.

[@emmajohnson7216]

With Gothix too they would destroy them

[@kikibyde]

Those men won't be feminist again 😂😂😂

[@Aikidjam]

I think the most reason to be against abortion (keeping apart the pro-life argument, as it is a moral debate), the reason is if the father don't want the abortion, and wants to keep the child. Then it's a choice, and a negotiation, that have to be made between both parents

[@stevenholliday608]

To us men we believe you women are born with value because you are able to give life create life and men are naturally wanting to spread their seed. Second women can sleep with who they want men sleep with who they can.

[@kholemcrae1100]

I disagree on the abortion labeling, not giving the child any status in peoples minds makes it easier for them to kill the child, it dehumanizing

[@juliangodsend9418]

ABORTION IS SELFISH,LOVE IS SELFLESS!

[@SlabbyPatty]

See it has always been expressed to me that “mansplaining” has been when a man explains something very basic to a woman that is very obvious. Like example: I was at the post office writing in an address on a piece of mail and this older gentleman, I assume, thought it was taking too long with the pen and so he came to me and was pointing on the letter where I was suppose to put the return address and where I was suppose to put the mailing address. I just stared at him dumbfounded. I was like “yes sir..I know. I’m looking for the message with the mailing address…” and he walked away. To me that was mansplaining. Maybe he was trying to be helpful but the letter already had the lines and where the addresses go and everything so it just felt condescending and to me that was what was explained to be “mansplaining”.

[@SeventhClover]

You said it, that's called being condescending and women can act that way too. Women have treated me (a woman) like that many times before, especially when I was younger and I don't call it "womansplaining". Where do these people live that only men do that? Am I the only one that has met condescending women?

[@kathleenpent1168]

I’ve been married 23 years, my husband still opens doors for Moro. He has been teaching our boys to do that. It’s a small gesture but it speaks volumes.

[@Katy63100]

I honestly think all this feminism has messed up women at this point… the level of expectations on woman now is unreal.. no saying man have it easier but seriously… have the career, be a girl boss, look amazing all he time but also be a mom cause hell “we can do it all”.. newsflash we cannot..at least not at the detriment of something.. which is usually ourselves… I am sitting here with 2 kids under 6 (one with heavy disability) trying to justify TO MYSELF why I can only work part time for now… he guilt is unreal.. I should be able to .. bla bla bla… thank god for my husband who tells me it’s ok to be a mostly a mum for now and get back to a full time job when he kids are more independent… true but hard to accept since my own mum sold me the feminism bullshit my whole childhood… anyway good luck to us all!

[@Aaarandom]

Being a mom is more important than missing work. I’m a mom too and I think of all the ways my mom wasn’t there for me when I needed her and it makes me determined to be better for my child. A job doesn’t need you the way your babies do and only you know them well enough to be their perfect caregiver. You are absolutely doing the right thing by making your children your main priority right now. There are so many broken people in the world right now and I firmly believe a big reason is from not having loving, supportive, attentive parents that will guid and teach their children how to be good people. You are doing the best work possible by being a momma ❤

[@Katy63100]

@@Aaarandom I 100% agree with you! ❤️

[@themythicmom]

Imagine how impowered we would be if we came together? If men and women worked together? I think people fail to realize that with the scociety that’s been created by “men” most of those men were married and had women by their side the entire way.

[@leah6997]

i agree with amala in that dont think that women should be told to be financially independant from men specifically. i think that men and women alike should be taught to be financially literate and independant simply as a means of survival.

[@cynthiaschmidt2726]

I agree with the guy that said it seems like men who are feminists are just trying to get laid. They are most of the time (at least in my experience!) unattractive or extremely frail, overweight, or beta male. That’s been my opinion since I was a teenager, I realize it’s just an opinion from what I have seen in my life from feminists men I have met or seen online.

[@thepsychomagus]

i do agree with you on that. however to an even worse place with some of these male feminists seem to be sexual abusers and they see an easy place for victims. I know a few years ago a guy that was modding Twitch streams for Anita Sarkeesian was found out to be a child molester.

[@regulahdegulah1369]

Yes your observation is right on the money 💰 male feminists are everything you mentioned

[@ni5094]

The antidepressants argument isn't really valid, I know equally women who are in their 40s with children on antidepressants. Also I don't think anyone is demonizing women staying at home raising kids. Alot of families just can't afford to have one income these days.

[@Shdowstorm]

I have used the word womansplaining to a boss during work, we both laughed about the whole situation and had a good time, maybe it could be a age situation. the boss and I are gen Y.

[@Weekenday]

You can't have this conversation without making some generalizations. Women are born with value. Men have to create their value.

[@dinduslayer]

I could never be a male feminist. First of all, I'm way too informed. Second, being called a male feminist sounds cringe.

[@justinwebber9968]

When I was younger older men and women used to speak over me in a professional setting. As I've gotten older, I learned that if someone tries to talk over you, you carry on going, and they usually stop. Everyone is trying to be heard, if you want to be heard make your voice the loudest, but don't be a d**k about it.

[@user_angelmum]

I was wondering if there are any trans people on the panel? Almost all the women's panels have two or more Trans people

[@skully0078]

So much to unpack! I think the core of feminisms has been lost and it has been twisted into excuses as well as thrown out to gaslight.

[@mooma10]

You three did great on this, agreed with you guys every time! ☺️

[@patcarod]

I do think in the beginning of the video you were talking a lot about how the prompts were generalizing all women and all men and at the end of the video when you guys discuss what men and women strength's are biologically, it does feel like it is a big generalization, since it doesn't encompass the whole nurture part of personality shaping, which seems to be connected to a lot of the strength's described, especially for women. We can of course look into anatomical differences that will predispose men or women to be better at certain things but as far as to say that ALL of each side are better analytical thinkers or better care takers by birth, it's a big generalization and I'm not sure if there's no nuance in the studies conducted - especially because you can't measure it at birth.

[@OpiateTaylor78]

@23:04 "but if you took that clump of cells out would it survive".........NO, But neither would a 9 month old infant if you just "took it out" and left it on it's own.

[@theowl1735]

I think it does actually matter whether you consider a fetus a life, not because it would change someone’s stance on abortion, but because it would force people to face and consider an evil or otherwise unsavory aspect of abortion. It’s a matter of not diminishing or allowing anyone else to diminish what abortion actually is, in practice.

[@barbaralamort2553]

On the abortion issue-as it’s largely used today, as a form of birth control-abortion is a permanent solution (the death of a human being) to a temporary (9 months) problem (inconvenience, etc,). Adoption, hardly ever even considered in these types of discussions, is a better solution.

[@Spart1269]

I’d bring in the Tate bros on this issue

[@OlivePittsOnDesk]

In 1971 was actually told I couldn't have a job: BECAUSE I WAS WHITE and the company had a BLACK quota.

[@SkippiSkip]

"Its a life, but it's not a human!" Are you telling me that we are giving birth to aliens!?

[@Insanio]

*alternative food source