Trans Men at 5 Different Stages of Transitioning | Time Capsule

[@malonee]

I'm not saying that how you look after transitioning makes you more or less valid, but to misgender Marcus blows my mind

[@ryanland979]

@ me if you're racist

[@monicaliz.]

@@ryanland979 you do ryan

[@hongjoong_lover]

@@ryanland979 you obviously do if you commented 💀

[@teratoma.]

yeah i cant even imagine that scene happening irl 😂

[@wwxx23]

I thought the same thing 😂 he has a great beard and all

[@lynxlynx3054]

“It was hard to be in that body, it was hard to know I was in there but no-one could see me” brooo that is IT! That was exactly the state of pre-T existence

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Makes no sense 💀

[@dapo3538]

They took drugs so people could see them?

[@andiewfs_XIII]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 you’re lucky that how you look in your brain is the same way you look on the outside. Other people aren’t so lucky.

[@dylana2776]

it's interesting how they fear death now, whereas before they were constantly suicidal, just shows how transitioning and hormones save lives and mean a lot to these people wow

[@surrealmadrid7971]

Also very sad.....that you go through all the hell of wanting to die and being desperately unhappy....and then finally feel happy as yourself after going through all that pain and medical intervention just to still have the danger of death in your life .....going from being hidden to having to hide ..... Humans are cruel

[@strapdemon]

as someone who is suicidal i still don't want to be hatecrimed. being hatecrimed is my biggest fear despite how i feel about myself

[@gypsy-nr9zd]

No disrespect but I understand why they fear death *now* (after having transitioned)

[@smokesparkles777]

theyre fearing discrimation

[@slayerc3355]

@@strapdemon ...the media really got you controlled...

[@AuroraaZaph]

Luckie is a GRANDPA?! how?! he's only 41 and looks even younger

[@sjondon5218]

easy, 2 teen pregnancies

[@AIArtlabAI]

Grandma

[@tay2944]

Yikes a grandpa at 41. I knew someone who was a grandma at 33.

[@TATYANAHEARTSHISWAG]

@@AIArtlabAI grandpa

[@stepbro4028]

@@AIArtlabAI grandpa

[@misatosbeercans]

When he said that he felt “stagnant” is exactly how I feel pre everything

[@InterstellarNoa]

Okay. My name is Noa, and although I am not yet in T the moment Noah said "I'm so proud of you for staying alive" I broke down crying. I hope to some day get to the same point these men are at.

[@wwxx23]

It’s a sign!! Hahahaha it’s all gonna be okay you’ll see♥️

[@noah-cp7sm]

you will, i believe in you :)

[@InterstellarNoa]

@@issac9642 So you'd allow all of them to get into the girls' bathroom?

[@MrsRen]

Noa is a traditional Jewish girl's name.

[@mac9733]

@@issac9642 And if some of them have reconstructive surgery?

[@stefaniamarchese4177]

"My masculinity is eating gummy bears in the middle of the living room, while coloring in a coloring book". I loved it!

[@FerretCuddles]

How is six year old behavior considered masculine?

[@wooyoungisbaby]

@@FerretCuddles because he's a guy doing it. hope this helps

[@FerretCuddles]

@@wooyoungisbaby Your lack of understanding masculinity is understandable, thing with pink hair.

[@TheFifthBanana01]

@@FerretCuddles Masculinity is subjective. And as long as someone is happy living their life without hurting anyone, it’s just fine.

[@xXjoelXx]

@@wooyoungisbaby thats a woman taking T nothing more

[@daisyinthelife]

I love when jubilee makes videos like this. This is such a humanising way to learn about trans men from trans men. Ig was a very emotional watch

[@TedIsHere2]

Yes more videos like this and less middle ground/ spectrum videos that try to make bigots seems reasonable!

[@Meccarox]

@@TedIsHere2 Yeah exactly, I'm tired of that.

[@King-Nova]

@@TedIsHere2 no thanks

[@starobviously4956]

@@TedIsHere2 no, bothhh

[@bones1026]

@@TedIsHere2 EXACTLY

[@rayikes6231]

how can anyone dislike this- these guys were literally talking about how they felt suicidal before transitioning. im so happy for them

[@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb]

Most of them still feel suicidal and just end up killing themselves

[@Face1essAsh]

@@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb Did the guys in the video say they were still suicidal?

[@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb]

@@Face1essAsh talking about transgenders in general. Wasn’t talking about these guys. I meant statistically speaking

[@Face1essAsh]

@@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb Hmm, so why do you think the suicide rate is so high?

[@rayikes6231]

@@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb thats even more reason to support people through their transition, it could save lives

[@Acid0Dreamz]

I appreciate hearing from older trans guys, Luckie especially. I'm maybe 9 years on T. I was told daily that I would regret it. The only thing I regret is not being able to do it sooner. I didn't think I would make it to 21, it's amazing that I did frankly. If I hadn't transitioned I'd be dead. It's really that simple.

[@lilttiger]

I'm so proud of you and happy for you that you transioned, and that you're still here :)

[@bustedbud6673]

How long until you had an adequate beard growing in? And did your voice ever deepen past the 5 year mark? Thanks!

[@Acid0Dreamz]

@@bustedbud6673 I mean my voice is still deepening and my beard is still growing in. That profile picture is a couple years old. It's probably 2x that length now and much fuller. Like I can braid it easily if I wanted.

[@bustedbud6673]

@@Acid0Dreamz that’s awesome, thanks! And definitely ignore the ignorant. Glad you’re powering on 👍🏻👍🏻

[@acousthicc5198]

I strive to be as awesome as you, I'm so happy to hear you're doing this well. I'm so proud of what you've achieved.

[@Noritheballoonhuman]

I used to think I was trans but later realized that I was not. I was on T a month. If someone uses me as a reason why these guys shouldn't transition SHAME ON THEM THEY DON'T KNOW ME. Everyone's experience is very different.

[@x-x2060]

True, hope you got yourself figured out thank you for not blaming the trans community ❤

[@Baalur]

Dodged a bullet there... Instead of attacking those that look at cases like yours and warn others maybe think for a second. What happens to the young girls that keep getting influenced into the path you wisely did not take? Considering the enormous increase in people with trans gender identity noone can believe that transitioning is the best for all these people whereas before it was very rare. Medical transitioning means a lot of irreversible and damaging changes. What if you had taken T for longer? What if you now had to deal with bottom growth and a changed voice? There are many girls that make big mistakes right now. The total affirmation of everything that is going on at the moment will damage a lot of people. Trans and cis people will be harmed if noone speaks up against certain trends.

[@sponetot]

@@Baalur what??

[@Baalur]

@@sponetot You know very well what I was saying with that conment.

[@noahfletcher3019]

You're literally a perfect example for why you shouldn't transition dude. You can't tell people how to feel about your case.

[@Flwerchild.]

Very inspiring, also very telling that everyone’s biggest fear was related to be discriminated against or killed. That should put so much into perspective for people who don’t live in marginalized communities.

[@VixxiRaven]

And people don't seem to get that it's because of this fear of discrimination that suicide is still rampant after HRT.

[@megsley]

I guarantee nothing will happen to any of these transmen. yall love to pretend like you're soooo oppressed in Western countries 😂😂😂😂😂

[@SwarmofBees-inatrenchcoat]

I'm 6 weeks on T, and even though there's not much physical changes yet, I already feel more secure. I've been getting acne and voice cracks, and they just remind me that I'm finally here, that my body is going to change in ways that I like after years of changes that were out of my control and made me hate myself. It's going to take a while, but eventually the outside of me will match the inside

[@jelleybeen]

im so happy for you dude :((!! you got this

[@hotdawgsgood]

I didn’t know gender was this impactful in someone’s life, cool vid

[@eyeballjellyforbreakfast]

It's not

[@abiann2058]

@@eyeballjellyforbreakfast it is, especially for those who struggle with gender dysphoria.

[@willarroz6703]

@@eyeballjellyforbreakfast excuse me ma’am as a young woman you shouldn’t be so cruel and ignorant

[@ScreamYoko]

@@eyeballjellyforbreakfast ma’am, imma need you to raise your hand before you speak.

[@needleinthehayy]

@@eyeballjellyforbreakfast girl did you watch the video? like, ma’am, what do you not understand?

[@NOAHFINNCE]

cool idea omg

[@HaHeiX]

Horrible idea*

[@hogsanmele2617]

Hii noah

[@Eriii693]

@@HaHeiX stop just leave pls we don’t need hate

[@in_a_frenzy]

NOAHHHHHH

[@booklover-hu9tw]

NOAH OMG HI I LOVE YOU

[@needleinthehayy]

as a trans guy, this means so much and really gives me hope. it’s so inspiring to hear all of their different input and stories

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Nahhhhhhh

[@needleinthehayy]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 yeahhhhhhh

[@ANamaky-o6s]

The trolls in the comment section is odd. Happy for you!!!

[@needleinthehayy]

@@ANamaky-o6s i know right? and thank you! :)

[@sp3ctralbrid384]

@@needleinthehayy YEAHHHHHHH

[@kristinekim9275]

No one should have to fear for their lives, PERIOD. It makes me sad that these men didn't feel like they belonged anywhere, and even today they still feel like that. I hope people can be more loving and inclusive of everyone, regardless of if they're trans or not. Everyone needs to watch this video so they can understand at least a little bit of what trans people have to go through every day

[@SaeSaeyoungyoung]

Ruby, you should really investigate more about trans people.

[@kristinekim9275]

@Ruby You should try looking at things not just from your schema or viewpoint. The fact is regardless of even if you believe they're male or not, they are suffering from other people's judgement and lack of understanding, and they are in danger every single day. Imagine living a life like that and people hating on you just because you want to express how you feel and how you view yourself. It's horrible and I really hope people will become more accepting to trans people out there who are getting attacked every day.

[@kristinekim9275]

@@SaeSaeyoungyoung Amen.

[@tuff8582]

Confused individuals

[@SaeSaeyoungyoung]

@@tuff8582 i am very confused about how many people can be so ignorant and not investigate about this subject :/

[@YaaCaaa]

It broke my heart when they all said they feared death/getting killed just for bein trans men. Transphobia is real and these men are so brave for going through this process and living their truth, I am so happy for them and hope they are always safe

[@hex_xx_vex__3337]

This was really inspiring to see as a trans guy who can’t afford to transition yet. It gives me hope that I’ll be able to transition this much in the future Edit: thank you for the kind messages it means more than you know

[@cleigh3796]

How can you transition to something you already are?

[@maya-qe8vc]

goodluck!!💗

[@hex_xx_vex__3337]

@@cleigh3796 as in physically transitioning through hormones and surgery

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Your born one way, what happened to people saying embrace what you got and stuff. Now your trying to change SMH 🤦‍♂️

[@jean_etcetera]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 You cannot embrace dysphoria... that is literally the etymology of the word, "unbearable, hard to carry" xd

[@Peatingtune]

As a 37-year-old father I am disappointed by parents who can't love their children for who they really are. I get that society isn't quite ready for transpeople, but still - show some support for your kids.

[@bishopharris1265]

Couldnt have said this better myself. Exactly. If you can't love your child because of who they are, you are a failure of a parent.

[@almostTOTALLYvix]

THANK U

[@theblackhand1]

but they aren’t who they are and I really hope you dont sign your kids to get their body parts cut off because of a social contagion

[@Peatingtune]

@@theblackhand1 Read a book.

[@Lulu-xl5cm]

A parent should also SHIELD their child from harm! You wouldn't support your child if they wanted to pet a lion. Let kids be kids and let them worry about gender stuff when they reach adulthood!

[@Bebe-rn2fh]

it's sad that so many parents don't accept their children for who they are. families should not be an obstacle for people who are coming out. if you want to get a child and expect them to be "straight" or "normal" or whatever, don't even get a child.

[@iamjoy888]

Gosh, I agree. It's so obvious, yet some cannot get it and give birth to please themselves, in their frame of programing. And as soon as something goes out of that frame, they reject it immediately.

[@MasterOfInfinity]

The people who are the least tolerant often have the most offsprings, unfortunately

[@jocabdh1986]

Or just raise your kid normal

[@acousthicc5198]

@Ruby By transitioning they are accepting themselves. If they didn't accept themselves they would keep pretending to be the gender they were imposed.

[@JamesThePokemonHunter]

@@jocabdh1986 wdym raise your kid normal?

[@TheInspirationalMind]

We are all trying to find our way in this world that's why it is important to never judge anyone because we never know what they have been through. Even if we disagree with someone's religion, gender, or race we should love them unconditionally because at the end of the day all we have is each other. Great content as always Jubilee.

[@ДеннисЧернышевский]

of course, we should treat women with respect, these women are no exception.

[@froggobonano]

@@ДеннисЧернышевский these are men but okay

[@dracarysgirl2048]

I think you should use "gender" instead of sex.

[@sackeshi]

@nuitNo.6 Unconditional love exists between parents and children, there is nothing a child should be able to do to make the parent stop loving them. Love with conditions isn't love.

[@ДеннисЧернышевский]

@@froggobonano women

[@DiaryOfaCell]

I’m glad to see them happy and thriving.

[@emeraldflower3058]

@@ДеннисЧернышевский 😐

[@ДеннисЧернышевский]

@@emeraldflower3058 Привет 👋

[@emeraldflower3058]

@@ДеннисЧернышевский hello 👋

[@datekaname2246]

@@ДеннисЧернышевский *men

[@ДеннисЧернышевский]

@@datekaname2246 No

[@hevalemin6520]

As a gay trans guy sometimes I feel like I don't belong anywhere but I always feel better when I remember moments I got to spend with other trans people especially other trans men. When it's hard for me to love myself I look at the trans guys who have been there for me and the community. I relate to the kid who said he felt stuck and stagnant prior to transition. For most of my life I simply wasn't able to picture a future for myself because I didn't relate to my own body and existence enough to imagine a future version of me. Then I started transition and I met trans guys I could look up to and now I feel connected to the future.

[@liminaljay3311]

I’m a gay trans guy and wanna say I feel like that sometimes too. I still struggle a bit as a lot of the trans men and trans masc people I’m connected to are more masc and often partner with women. I also dated another trans guy early on and he would question or criticize me a lot for doing things like painting my nails or even owning a pink pen 🙄🙄 That messed me up for sure. However I’ve been trying to more intentionally connect with other gay trans guys. Even just reading your comment here was nourishing for me. Thank you for that, and sending lots of love your way ♥️💖💖♥️💖♥️💖♥️♥️♥️✨

[@NKanchevful]

were you always gay or only after transition?

[@ian-online]

you're definitely not alone, i hope you're doing better today ❤ we'll get through this!

[@C.V.Q]

Loving that these are trans men of colour as well. Thanks for this video. I'm trans masc myself, 2 years on T. Besides my mom, everyone in my life is accepting luckily. Anyway, I enjoy educating people on trans things so feel free to ask questions if you're curious/wish to learn 👍

[@Viviele1290]

Hey, can I ask a personal question?? (the question is mostly for me really, and I know you said feel free to ask but I just want to make sure again)

[@C.V.Q]

@@Viviele1290 Yep, ask away

[@milk4625]

@@Viviele1290 he said yeah

[@polarblaze9188]

@@C.V.Q Ayo question did you feel rage when you got the T or angry because as a male ive never noticed or been angry really from it just wondering if it made you somewhat angrier in the beginning.

[@C.V.Q]

@@polarblaze9188 I wouldn't say I'm angrier per se but it's more like anger is my go-to emotion now when something is upsetting. Before when I'd get upset, I might have cried and it would have ruined my day. But now I just feel frustration/anger but it's short lived so it doesn't ruin my day. On the outside, I'm sure it looks like I'm angrier though lol

[@convival]

I love how informative jubilee is getting with these topics. It's important to engage and inform the society to things that are outside of the conservative box.

[@FerretCuddles]

Participation Trophy Syndrome. Many such cases.

[@LatajaceStadoKotow]

Define diverse

[@pinatacolada4876]

Virtue Signalling.

[@lolmmmol]

diverse? This channel is 100% liberal as it gets

[@jemwithouttheholograms8806]

The people under this comment are just throwing around buzz words to try to seem smart but they clearly don't know what they mean lmao

[@mishitathapar9111]

I just can't. These people have suffered so much and they've persisted through feelings I cannot even imagine. I mean, I struggle with mental health too, but dysphoria is something else. It just feels different when people talk about it and how they've persevered through the lowest of lows. I cried a little bit, and I know that I am not the person who has been impacted most by these stories. I wish them the best of luck and I hope that they keep going and keep living because they are what makes this world as unique as it is. We are a collective community and we all matter. I wish that they will always remember that.

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Bruh what did I just read

[@sweetvanillagf]

Dysphoria hurts so much everyday :((

[@megsley]

poor people in Bangladesh suffer more 😂

[@abbababba8186]

It’s tragic that every one of them have struggled with mental health and receiving that support they deserve, as so many trans people do. Proud of all of them for making it this far ❤️

[@samthedamnlamb]

Definitely felt it when he said he disliked the stereotypical femme compliments people give such as beautiful or pretty to him. I've found the best way to compliment someone is to mirror the language they refer to themselves with back to them!

[@FerretCuddles]

Found the ledditor. Sip some more soylent, drone.

[@Meccarox]

@@FerretCuddles lmao please get a grip

[@FerretCuddles]

@@Meccarox Sounds like I hit too close to home. Cry some more, dependent.

[@Meccarox]

@@FerretCuddles You need help.

[@FerretCuddles]

@@Meccarox Just out of curiosity, what was it that hit too close to home? The dig at ledditors being low tes memes? The dig at you being a zoomer? What was it?

[@karlaximenatorresnava]

When they said they fear death I broke down in tears. This got me so emotional, it's amazing to see people living their truths and being proud of who they are.

[@prayforcere]

Soft

[@LordOfElysium]

Yea, I’m suicidal and all but I’m also really scared of death. Even I don’t quite understand it-

[@hydraxon6940]

You only have to fear death if you have no legacy to leave behind. If you have kids that have kids who have kids, then your name is carried on and you're immortal after death. Fearing death is natural but it makes no sense. Without death there would be no room for new life. Life and death have been dancing with eachother since forever. The dance is your lifetime, and every dance comes to an end sometime.

[@LordOfElysium]

@@hydraxon6940 dance myself to death lmao, sounds pretty accurate. But it feels like everyone is just stepping on my feet and tripping me.

[@hydraxon6940]

@@LordOfElysium I don't know your situation, but if that happens we have either the choice to stay down or to get up again. Try to dance away from the people that trip you. There's always someone who wants to see you fall, in my case it was all the people my age. So I simply stopped hanging out with them, and befriended adults- they always thought I am weird for not liking people my age, but I got my reasons.

[@tonya5899]

As a trans women I was very happy for them but mostly very happy to read some of the comments that was very supportive with no hate my hope is that people can be this supportive with trans women that go through so much the same

[@nufailanoon]

Don't worry girl I support you as a somali girl ❤

[@senekiss]

I loved this, thanks Jubilee. I started T two weeks ago and I relate a lot to them. We trans men are also very invisible, so I also appreciate this video a lot.

[@jeremysmith9694]

You went on testosterone? A male hormone?

[@JT_From_Outer_Space]

@@jeremysmith9694 yes Jeremy that's what the video was about

[@probably_noah9417]

Congrats on starting T!!! 🎉💖🏳️‍⚧️

[@hahayes1220]

Congrats mate!

[@pinatacolada4876]

Another female! Hi!

[@oswaldtheluckywolf]

I thought the cover was of the same person throughout different stages of T and was like "damn, T hit em hard"

[@selenehernandez8279]

I almost cried at this video, I'm happy for you guys

[@ooga_booga399]

Girls*

[@ilsanking4334]

@@ooga_booga399 men if you like it or not

[@ecxstasy347]

@@ooga_booga399 😂

[@slimetotingz3172]

@@ilsanking4334 girls*

[@compa6251]

@@ooga_booga399 you saying that those guys are girls makes me think you have never seen a woman before

[@julianm4176]

It's interesting that some of them said they got more irritable on T, because that's like the opposite of what happened to me. I was a lot angrier pre T and got calmer once I started. Everyone's experience is different though

[@lynxlynx3054]

Likewise

[@soulgazer11]

I'll be 1 year on T on November 4th. I've lost 2 different jobs because I'm trans. October 12th 2020, I almost kms. I've had bosses dox my deadname to coworkers, and one of them shame me in front of customers until I cried in front of everyone. I'm so glad I didn't end my life last year because I finally found out what happiness feels like. I had never been happy before this year. I have friends, a great job and I'm in a healthy mental space. Thank you to the ones who paved the path before me. Thank you to these men who use their voice to spread awareness. You mean everything, you mean *life* 💙

[@fuwu9904]

❤️

[@holvh4389]

you are loved and valid xxx

[@FerretCuddles]

😂

[@noone4302]

as someone who started T a little over a month ago, watching this genuinely gave me a sense of hope for my future. Although since starting I've definitely felt better about myself, but to hear about other trans men's experiences (some similar to my own) is just awesome and really motivating

[@JL-is9rg]

To all potential parents, if you don't think or you know that you could only love a child that conforms to your concept of gender and sexuality, if you are not capable of unconditional love and accepting, do not have children.

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Bro that’s crazy imagine wanting to be a grandparent to find out that your son just wants Vienna sausages slobbering in his face like 🤦‍♂️

[@FinarfinNoldorin]

Haters have NO idea of the struggles Trans men go through.

[@mph2336]

The struggle they create for themselves.

[@eyeballscratch]

​@@mph2336 the struggle of being oppressed in society and in many situations being in danger is not made up by themselves

[@dumbcat.6668]

@@mph2336you mean genocide against them

[@thegreatergood8081]

​@@dumbcat.6668there is no "genocide" against trans people. The wider public is just tired of their annoying activism and demand for validation.

[@ImpeccableLiving]

@@thegreatergood8081 Why do you bigots refuse to evolve with the rest of society? You bigots are a minority in this country, you need to change your minds and open your hearts.

[@jxwlxnx]

I love this, because everyone is gonna have different experiences & it is a great way to be educated as well.

[@HaHeiX]

Since when is immorality considered education?

[@Marilynnx]

@@HaHeiX if u don’t like wats being said why click on the vid

[@dracarysgirl2048]

Can I ask something? Are all of them used to be women who are now looking like this??????

[@loremipsum2237]

@@dracarysgirl2048 they have actually always been men. They were born with female bodies, but modern medicine allows for that to be corrected. Think of it like having your mind swapped with someone from the other sex. You'd still be your current gender, just with a different body. (If you think the body swap would make you the other gender, you may be trans or nonbinary)

[@alam5055]

​@@HaHeiX since when are you the one to dictate what's moral and immoral? If you paid attention, you'd notice that before transition they all were suicidal. Transitioning literally saves lives. I don't think there's any ethical system that would consider something that saves a life without bringing any harm to anyone else - immoral.

[@zekethegeek97]

This was the WRONG VIDEO TO WATCH ON THE BUS NOW IM CRYING IN PUBLIC

[@saathvikparupudi321]

Please do a trans female version too

[@daryeusford9696]

They definitely should

[@ДеннисЧернышевский]

And also a video on Non-Binary Pansexual Dragonkins

[@pinatacolada4876]

@@ДеннисЧернышевский And don’t forget the agendered apachi helicopters!

[@SillyNep]

@@ДеннисЧернышевский Incredible, you guys really do have only 1 joke, lmao

[@beastcarleeto707]

@@SillyNep it's been years and they havent come up with anything creative, just the same helicopter joke its getting boring

[@BasilAlvaret]

I cried through the whole video. Sometimes I wonder if anyone who knows me would ever even take the time to warch a single video to try to understand. Things like this are so important. It's incredibly lonely when you can't find people who understand, or that you can relate to. It suffocates you.

[@Felix-qt2ql]

Im now 5 years on T and couldnt be happier with the way my body grew. Im a child of divorce, and i stayed with my mom full time from the age of 11. I owe everything to my mother for opening her heart and her arms no matter who i told her i was. If it was up to my father, I wouldnt be here today to comment. Please, support your children. ❤

[@eliduran902]

Thank you for making these videos. I’m struggling so bad and there’s almost no where I can go to listen to, to really hear and see other trans men and I didn’t realize how much I was needing it or craving it but I’m just watching this and crying.

[@fruityhouaylorstan9685]

it’s been a few months since you commented this, i hope you’re well❤️

[@exist444u]

i’m glad that as trans men, we are learning to love our feminine parts too❤️ masculinity can be beautiful & soft too.

[@420blazinOG]

I really love this spot light on these men. They have a lot of grit to be able to go out in the world and be just themselves. Most people cannot do that. Congratulations on all your successes and future successes!

[@Marilynnx]

@@lesterchestersylvestermolester no men, u clicked on this vid for wat reason lol

[@Yhhhhhhh]

@@lesterchestersylvestermolester nobody who is being questioned in that video is a woman, get ur brain and ur eyes checked^^

[@ClownScript]

They have xx* chromosomes though that'll never change

[@hahayes1220]

@@ClownScript yeah, men have xy chromosomes, so you’re right

[@pinatacolada4876]

I didn’t see any men in the video… did you watch the wrong video?

[@Fvtyhybkiftrffrfrfyyyh]

just a little story about my journey- i was 11, i came out to one of my friends, and she said to me (and i can still remember it word for word) "deadname, you arent trans, idk.. you just arent." and then i wasnt. it took me a year and three quarters of pretending for me to realise that she was wrong and that i was really trans!

[@nickclarkuk]

I have a trans son who’s 15. This helped a lot . Thank you

[@veggiechip]

happy new year to you and your son!

[@nickclarkuk]

@@veggiechip thank you , happy new year to you too ! :)

[@mochadrella457]

Bad parent

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

15??

[@nickclarkuk]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 16 now. Still very much suffering with gender dysphoria and having psychological support for that .

[@ian-online]

It's nice being to see myself on other trans men I just wanna say, I love being seen. It makes me feel safe and welcome,, even if it's just strangers out there. But seeing moslty older brown/black men gives me hope and strength to keep pushing I cried watching this

[@Lulu-xl5cm]

May I ask what makes you different from a tomboy?

[@aftonstan5494]

@@Lulu-xl5cm No you may not. Please go on the wikipedia page for transgender men, and you will learn the difference.

[@ruhrohraggy3543]

i NEVER would have guessed these guys were trans. incredible transition

[@nickydinino5651]

grandpa at 41? who cares about his coming out story, I want to hear THAT story.

[@ANamaky-o6s]

Huh? He may have a 20 year old who just had a kid..that isn’t hard to believe lol do some simple math. Sorry not trying to be mean but I know people that became a grandparent at 38 because they had a kid pretty young

[@gaminglegend]

His mom's probably 60 and already a great-grandma

[@Nobody-rf3bm]

It might not even be that much of a story. My parents became grandparents at 38 because my mom got pregnant at 18, and her oldest daughter also got pregnant at 18.

[@minim6981]

Mexicans be grandparents at 28. Nbd

[@JamesThePokemonHunter]

@@ANamaky-o6s I think he ment about the story of him becoming a grandpa. Think about it, he would of had a kid before transitioning. So it would be an interesting story for a kid to have their parent change genders and so on. Idk if they talk about that I haven't watched the video yet but thats my guess

[@blackrose2625]

I wish I could know people like them irl to give them a hug. I always hear stories like theirs and wish they could have a support system and not feel alone or left out while undergoing such and important process. I'm not personally in the community, but when it comes to hearing their stories and getting to see how happy they are when they are able to be their real self, brings me so much joy

[@marcellusleon2240]

Aww thank you! I would very much love a hug! My friends whom I consider family are supportive.

[@JF-me4vi]

I love that they are all trans men of color. So important, and a detail we shouldn’t skim pass.

[@RextheRebel]

It is a detail you should skim past because it should not fking matter.

[@Hilfiata]

@@RextheRebel Representation matters. The reality is that most visible trans rep is white, it's ignorant to ignore that. Voicing appreciation and encouragement at poc trans rep isn't bad.

[@rianogrady1763]

@@RextheRebel It matters because most trans masc representation in media is skinny white boys, and it leaves a lot of people and their experiences out. Being a transmasc person of colour is different to being transmasc and white, so yes while it would be nice if it weren't relevant it is and therefore can't be skimmed over.

[@NorthStarCinema]

@@RextheRebel Boo hoo.

[@brightoff]

Just to let y’all at Jubilee know, in the description and the chapters section of this video the time stamp for 2:10 uses the word “dysmorphia” instead of “dysphoria”. I’m assuming it’s just a typo because in the video you used “dysphoria”. Just thought I’d bring it to your attention cause it’s important to use the right one.

[@elenacodanunziante7375]

It actually says dysphoria, i don't know if they changed it maybe

[@aprilderbbs42]

Im trans female, and this literally made my cry. Being trans male female or just different in general is such a powerful thing and life just hurts so much. Please if you don’t feel loved remember to love yourself. Then others will follow

[@richie9878]

Love yourself by being obsessed with changing every aspect of yourself. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@PolarNights123]

No such thing as "trans female". Only women and girls are female, its a sex term, not gendered. Stop commodifying and trivializing our realities.

[@Ivy-dd8bf]

@@richie9878 Loving yourself is more complicated then accepting everything about yourself, even when you’re unhappy with where you are or how you feel in your own skin. You don’t love yourself by ignoring dysphoria.

[@richie9878]

@@Ivy-dd8bf and the approach should be to take time as to what trama caused the dysphoria what is triggering it and how to take steps to accept yout body similar to how we treat anorexia especially in teens. We have been pushed by activism to quickly conclude without question if a teen thinks they have any level of dysphoria they should quickly be encouraged to take hormones and start transitioning and not to view it as a mental illness. This approach has lead to a dramatic increase in self harm in the last 15 years especially among teen girls that believe they are trans. Many of which showed no signs in childhood.

[@kskskwkwdjjaksowwowowooego6450]

@@PolarNights123 lmao religious people act like we live in a fantasy movie but I never see anyone talk about that. Why is that fine but this isn't?

[@marie-lynnissa656]

i love listening to luckie, he's so wise and mature

[@willthewiise]

7:05 that genuinely was so affirming for me

[@Elisseable]

Made my heart smile to hear him say that 👍

[@bugforest2636]

me too

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Yea no

[@ian-online]

for me it's more cute anime stuff 😭

[@CardboardTriangle2]

Just remember: testosterone/estrogen/hrt/surgeries are not the goal for every trans person

[@CardboardTriangle2]

@@unwashedtowel its different for everyone, no one is the same. Usually the goal is to love yourself

[@EC-jd9ej]

@@unwashedtowel I have a naturally flat chest so I don't need top surgery I mean, I could get it but it would be $10,000 I don't have, for example

[@basketman2517]

Can’t you live yourself without being transgender? Why are you transgender if you don’t even want to transition? (Genuine question not trying to attack)

[@CardboardTriangle2]

@@basketman2517 transgender people are transgender regardless of whether or not the medically transition. Some people can't, or choose not to for many different reasons. All trans people have different levels of dysphoria and require different treatments.

[@ba-wn1xi]

@@basketman2517 hormones and surgery are a HUGE decision that have long lasting (and sometimes permanent) effects, some that are very unwanted. changing the hormones in your body can completely wreck your mental health and surgery can have many complications as well as a long healing time and a LOT of money is needed for it. so for some, finding peace inside their mind is a priority over physically changing themselves.

[@maxwellisntokay]

I'd really love a transfem one of these :) This was so interesting!

[@aidanknight]

To the transphobic commenters on here: We get it, you don't want to accept trans people. Move on. They exist and we love them. Stop wasting your one life on being negative and cruel, your comments are hurting people who haven't done anything to hurt you.

[@micahroberts8383]

You defined "body dysmorphia," but labeled it "body dysphoria." These are two very different things. Also, this video is wonderful! Thank you for making it.

[@GlitchyOnAChair]

i think it was a typo

[@ithinkitsjames619]

I realised I was trans about 3 years ago, a teacher in school called me a boy by accident and it felt euphoric. from that point forward I was considering my identity I came out about a year and a half ago to my therapist then about 5 months later I told my mum.she was accepting which was surprising because about a month prior I attempted su*cide and she was angry about that.

[@Z3r0_St0rm]

I love how the thumbnail at a glance looks like testosterone makes your skin darker.

[@LW13r]

There is so much hate and controversy around trans women but trans men are barely even discussed. Anyone know why that is?

[@d3lu3_urvon44]

Trans women are ridiculous

[@mirmir0003]

@Ed Routley imo misogyny. people always find ways to criticize women and discredit their womanhood, and that includes trans women

[@taurushere6380]

Misogyny

[@alexdalton1634]

because people still dont realize trans men actually exist

[@Lulu-xl5cm]

@@mirmir0003 Its more the women themselves I think. Me, as a woman am terrified to meet a transwoman in a women space. I'm sorry, I just am, can't help it, it scares me and many other women too. Women are upset when transwomen dominate their sport and take their miss crown. (miss holland is a transwoman)

[@PunchCutMedia]

Bro I swear to got you can’t tell me thinking the thumbnail was the white dude turning into a mega black dude after 11 years

[@TheMusicPinkLover91]

Today Noah started T. I wish him all the best

[@noah-cp7sm]

i’m now 2 months on T & the journey has been amazing so far :,) thank u so much

[@user-sk4wz]

She*

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Still a girl jeez so I think you meant her*

[@okaymaniac]

@@noah-cp7sm noah what's ur ig ive been wanting tofollow u

[@wwxx23]

I really hope in the near future these questions have more happy and natural answers like “yea i told my parents i wanted to get on T and so i did and i got all the surgeries and um yea it’s all going well idk”

[@justahugenerd1278]

that's more or less my story!

[@wwxx23]

@@justahugenerd1278 I’m happy to hear that !!

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

I heard the cure is almost done do we can live normally again ayyyyyy

[@megsley]

...just yikes. everything about this comment is yikes.

[@pengin402]

THEY SHOULD DO 6 TEACHERS VS 1 SECRET (insert name, they can do whatever they want)

[@chrismm6886]

cool

[@theotherleonaygirl]

Agreed!

[@__s0el]

I'm a trans guy too. 2 years on T. This made me cry

[@yxungm0e514]

Wish you well on your journey

[@NatureLover-pj2qe]

I’m a trans guy who is one month on T and I enjoyed watching this.

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Women*

[@lyndonleedalee1738]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 they're AFAB. trans women are AMAB. Therefore, Sumu is a trans guy.

[@__s0el]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 Say something more original so it might actually hurt.

[@englishlady8863]

So disrespectful that his family still call him by his dead name.

[@rat1723]

This is such an interesting topic of video! Jubilee never dissapoints :)

[@Graphic_Toad]

can i just say, your pfp is iconic

[@ofimportance5458]

They always do

[@rat1723]

@@Graphic_Toad omg tysm

[@SamuelSamuelSamuel1]

What a bunch of kind dudes. ❤️

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Wow typos really do suck, I hate it when that happens. Women*

[@loudpengu8991]

@@cool_pumpkin8659you look at luckie and tell me that's a woman?

[@areomorales6511]

I’m about a month on testosterone and to see older transmen still kicking and living makes me so emotional. a lot of us don’t make it, but to see older gentlemen talking about their transition proves I can be like them one day :)

[@dayrayy]

it’s really interesting how much easier trans males have transitioning. in regards to voice, facial hair, etc.

[@wwxx23]

Also the younger they start the more impressive the results are

[@Ceerads]

They’re also moving up in status. Unfortunately, that’s how it is still.

[@justahugenerd1278]

Testosterone has more permanent effects on the body than estrogen. This is why trans men on T pass better and why trans women have such a harder time passing after the effects of puberty

[@euphedine3140]

Masculine secondary sex characteristics are harder to reverse than feminine. That and there are less procedres to look masculine. Outside of bottom surgery FTM transition is way simpler

[@charlie2.048]

I think the biggest difference in terms of ease into passing is that testosterone changes the vocal chords while trans women have to train their voices to sound the way they want to.

[@agayman9880]

As a trans person still figuring out their gender it really sucks for me right now. I don’t know if I want to go by they/them or they/him but I’m not sure if I’m just saying that to maybe get misgendered less or at least get misgendered the opposite way. But idk cause when someone accidentally thinks I’m a guy or calls me sir it makes me so happy. Like the other week my waiter called me sir and I literally cried. But idk what my parents would say if I tried to medically transition. They say they try to use the right pronouns but if they were I would’ve heard them say they or them at least once.

[@PokemonDude880]

You cried because the waiter said sir?🤣🤣

[@mollymolly2667]

@@PokemonDude880 Yeah, they did. It might not be much of a big deal to you, but it was for them.

[@agayman9880]

@@mollymolly2667 thanks mate

[@taliatzlrv]

TW// self harm i kinda relate to noah when i first told my parents that i’m trans they didn’t accept me at all and told me a lot of horrible things and that made me fall into depression again and made me start self harming, again. when they found out that i started cutting they immediately like accepted me and started using the pronouns he/him for me which is sad because if you think about it noah’s parents wouldn’t accept him and stuff if he didn’t go to psych ward and my parents would also not accept me if i didn’t start cutting.

[@noah-cp7sm]

hi this is noah from the video ^^ it really does suck & im so sorry you were also put in this situation, but i’m glad they’re supporting you now. it sucks that it took that much for them to truly understand, but now you can be yourself. i wish nothing but the best for you & thank you for being vulnerable :)! i’m glad i’m not alone hehe

[@taliatzlrv]

@@noah-cp7sm yea :( and thank you! also how are you feeling after being two months on T now ^^

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

It is sad but also sad for the parents. Gotta stop thinking onesided and think from their perspective

[@megsley]

you'll grow out of it. 98% of gender nonconforming kids grow up to be normal adults who aren't trans.

[@Pvf-OG]

i completely support trans people, but i couldn't help but laugh at the name gibby, because icarly has ruined that for me XD

[@sophiaarmijo935]

haha thats my brother i laugh too at the name😭

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Bruh veterans get one day and lgblosers get 1 month Jesus what’s up with the world these days

[@nickmiller4890]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 “May, marked officially as Military Appreciation Month, is a special month for both those in and out of the military. ... Congress designated May as National Military Appreciation Month in 1999 to ensure the nation was given the chance to publicly show their appreciation for troops past and present.” Nice try 😂😂 if you’re gonna complain at least be correct, ok?

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

@@nickmiller4890 bruh you had to search that up meaning you didn’t know as well. But still who in the right mind would support lgbt. This is exactly what the women did in the video, they took one L and added gbtq

[@spider_wlt]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 if you are so against LGBTQ+ people, why even click. You knew it would offend you. This should be a safe space for all people, especially since it covers such a sensitive topic that so many people go through. It is okay to nit agree with certain things, but do not go around degrading and making fun of others.

[@andie3448]

I don't understand how people could sit here and put their own opinion on someones life thinking what they say is valid... As humans we are here to do our own thing. If you cant get with that then humanity isnt for you. What i do with my body is my choice. Regardless of the situation. As long as nobody is hurt... Do what you want???

[@evelyng360]

This is so beautiful please do one for trans women too!

[@ExoticalT369]

I’m a trans-girl and I just want to say that trans-dudes are hott. …And in many cases, sexier and more empathetic than straight, cis-men are. ♥️🏳️‍⚧️♥️

[@LeapingLeveret]

That made me smile, lol

[@pugster3913]

Absolutely ‼️

[@Princess_Casey_]

I love this cause the media or society mostly talks about transgender women. I’m not saying it’s bad but I sometimes wonder how it’s like for transgender men as well , that’s why I love this concept.

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

Yea strange huh

[@TheKewlPerson]

The thumbnail makes it look like they changed race lmao

[@alecgurney9305]

LOL

[@alimohammad1934]

the 2.5 to 11 years i will never in a million years think they were born a girl

[@samroa]

Marcel!!!! I’m so happy for you! I’m so glad I was able to see you grow!

[@Maddie-rv6sp]

sooo creative and shines a light on a underrepresented and often misunderstood population!

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

You sure about that 🤦‍♂️

[@Maddie-rv6sp]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 why wouldn't i be

[@Captain_Bottles]

Most comments: Let’s be supportive and show how much we care about these trans men just wanting to live their lives and be happy. Random transphobes in the replies: UHm AcTuALLy It’S WrOnG AnD YoU’Re WroNg Like - some of y’all are just out of pocket. Leave these people alone! And leave us supporters alone too while you’re at it! These folks are just living their lives! Trans folk in the comments? Y’all are valid, keep on living your best lives.

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

I’m not out of pocket though, poor women

[@Captain_Bottles]

@@cool_pumpkin8659 But they aren’t women though.

[@raymax_1071]

These comments are going to be full of transphobia so I highly recommend anyone reading this to avoid reading them if you are sensitive about these topics. Be safe. ❤

[@El_Pimpin_Shizz]

thesearestillwomen! Boo! mwuahahahah

[@jemwithouttheholograms8806]

@@El_Pimpin_Shizz You're cringy lmao

[@ofimportance5458]

@@El_Pimpin_Shizz So you'd have sex with them over a transwoman. FTM?

[@wwxx23]

YES I’ll be arguing with them for you 😂♥️

[@cool_pumpkin8659]

I’m not safe knowing these women got schlongs

[@aidenmoro7583]

I have my first appointment to start T tomorrow. I’m equally excited and terrified. my family is completely against my transition, so I feel really lost. I’ve been out for more than 2 years and I have the ability to start it so I’m doing it, I think about who I am and who I want to be all the time. And I really resonate with them, ive had sooo many attempts and hospitalizations.

[@av-ic3ts]

this > jubilee's dating games

[@denimili7659]

I swear Luckie can't convince me he was once a woman lol

[@chihuahuasarecool7880]

Same, how he do that 👀

[@Hellokitty_391]

Lol same

[@bluishblow]

i love that the respective time on t showed up everytime they speak

[@moonflowers333]

This was absolutely beautiful. One of my favorite episodes of 2021

[@lovelee4696]

I am a transgender trip hop artist, thanks for making this video. Luckie is our movements leader

[@Geck_Gxng]

U trollin

[@lovelee4696]

@@Geck_Gxng nah

[@LuckieTransGuy]

HEY there!!!

[@rulasmania]

This was the most informative video about trans people I’ve ever watched it’s really touching

[@merlumili]

This was a really cool video!! Wishing all of them the absolute best in life.

[@treckieeee5707]

I'm 22, and I'm still on confused stage.

[@ZoeyAlexandria]

Awesome. Now do one with transwomen! I’d sign up to be in that video in a heartbeat. Been on E for 5 years.

[@Sviani8]

@Jubilee I love your videos! I just discovered y’all. I love how inclusive you are. I wish you could do an episode with people who are Deaf & Hard of Hearing. I am a deaf individual who is severely hard of hearing with hearing aids. The episode interviewing people who are blind with the question topics y’all prompted hit me so hard especially when I asked myself in terms of my deafness. I am also physically disabled so a lot of the discussions had hit me so hard on a physical level. I would love to participate if you ever chose to interview Deaf and Hard of Hearing. I am an advocate for people with disabilities and my favorite part about it is participating in any form of community education and the networking.

[@lucygg4040]

we need a video with trans women and non-binary folk