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JUST CHOOSE! One Year Since I Changed My Life

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Tar Mar

Tar Mar

Күн бұрын

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@isa-qz8fg
@isa-qz8fg 2 ай бұрын
I was depressed the majority of this past year. I got laid off from my job back in July. I haven’t had a romantic commendation in 4 years. I’m back living at my parents in my childhood home, struggling to get a job. I feel like the things happening in my life are just falling apart and not improving and my mental health has never been this bad. It’s even harder to see everyone else around you moving on to bigger and better things.
@OliviaWaite-w8k
@OliviaWaite-w8k 2 ай бұрын
Oh gosh, that’s tough. Hang in there. Slowly but surely it will start to shift in place. I promise not everyone is sorted - we only see a window.
@mollyhoyer3356
@mollyhoyer3356 2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry - that sounds like it's been a really difficult time. I am glad that your parents are able to help out and be some kind of support for you, and I hope that you're able to locate other supports as well, to help you with your mental health, your job search, etc. With time and good resources, maybe one day you'll even be able to look back on this time as a period of important growth and reckoning -- or maybe you'll just look and say, wow, that sucked! Either way, you'll be glad and proud that you got through it.
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
thinking of you and sending you strength! there is always light at the end of the tunnel - everything is cyclical so crappy times will always end just like good times will. your time will come ❤️
@TRedng1234
@TRedng1234 2 ай бұрын
View it differently!!! YOU ARE instead RE-CONVENING and allowing your inner you to prompt you gently and lovingly to what feels good to you!! INSTEAD of just going through life same old same old. Listen to your passions and darnit...STOP JUDGING YOURSELF and your JOURNEY!!! Decide that this is part of your path and will serve you hugely in a way ...that you yet do not understand!
@sylviajane6421
@sylviajane6421 2 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that. Some shifts in life can feel very uncomfortable and disheartening. But don't be too hard on yourself...this is when you gotta trust the process. See it like that: what if God was giving you grace, time and space for growth? For you to "do the work", to heal... Get your life in order, focus on yourself only and don't get distracted by others, cause what's coming for you is even better. Get on a routine, do some sport, therapy.. whatever work on your self-development that needs to be done. Get ready for what is yet to come. Cause it sure is coming, try to visualize the life that you desire I'm sure it's gonna be pretty amazing. Hang in there sis, focus and get ready 😊❤
@xsarahmichellex1
@xsarahmichellex1 8 күн бұрын
Tara, I love to belierve the same things. If it's easy, ti's meant to happen and at the same time, the challenge it feels like and the struggles bring about change and this is needed. I have been following this too. Keep it up, love from Meath!!
@Nicolelynnn
@Nicolelynnn 2 ай бұрын
you make 'change' look like a luxury and i love that so much. i've avoided change for years, actually despise it. i quit my job and plan on going to live with my bf in his country (canada) and finally start living MY life for ME.
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
this was such a beautiful was to put it! i'm a recovering change-o-phobe but that's where all the greatest leaps forward are!
@margueritecarter4773
@margueritecarter4773 Ай бұрын
I loved the meditation, you have a gift for this Tara, thanks for sharing x
@sophieb12325
@sophieb12325 2 ай бұрын
I needed this. I've been in such a rut for the longest time and was avoiding taking action because of the fear of the deep discomfort whilst also feeling deeply uncomfortable stuck where I was. I'm slowly but surely pushing myself to make what I hope will be small ripples that will open up possibilities for better things. I love and cherish and appreciate you and your energy more than a KZbin comment could ever communicate but I hope you feel the rush of the warmth and love I'm sending you. You're a treasure
@jaimischmid3130
@jaimischmid3130 2 ай бұрын
This conversation is everything. Having left amsterdam to move back home to melbourne a year ago i find myself longing for parts of my old life and questioning whether its the right decision. Things didn't necessarily fall into place back here, but its rarely perfect. I'll never truly know and perhaps there are multiple possible paths for us. Each with good and bad. We choose and we make it the right choice until its not for us anymore. Anyway, relate to this a lot x
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
you nailed it, nothing is permanent, enjoy things and when you start getting the signs it's not right for you anymore, and you've extracted what you needed from the experience you can move on to the next one ❤️ wishing you the best in your journey!
@mollyhoyer3356
@mollyhoyer3356 2 ай бұрын
I really appreciate your reflection on the breadcrumbs and trusting that even mistakes aren't truly mistakes when it comes to the direction our lives are headed -- I've actually just been talking today with friends about ways to move closer to home in a couple of years, after having just made a big move away from home. Your thoughts feel so aligned with what I'm feeling right now. Great video, as always!
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
you nailed it:) it's a constant mindful practice to bring ourselves back down to earth sometimes and we can lose sight of how fun it all is to change your experience even when it's a bit scary❤️
@el__mons
@el__mons 2 ай бұрын
This is divine timing. I am at a point where I feel like I want to make changes but there isn’t an actual decision to make. Doe this make sense? Maybe more of what I mean is: There is no natural breaking point where I get to decide between A and B. There is definitely stuff happening in my life like changes in the work place but it’s more like it’s happening to me and I have to adapt. I don’t know it’s weird. I want changes but at the same time I don’t have the vision and energy for it 🫠
@Lcmarie33
@Lcmarie33 2 ай бұрын
I completely resonate with this! I know change is needed within my life and within myself but I sometimes feel no real direction on how to get to get there. Definitely trying to trust that at this time maybe I am being gently guided down the right path rather than being at a fork in the road that requires bold and immediate action. No clue if that makes sense lol but I totally understand the feeling of possibly being the passenger of your own car and trying to figure out how to get in the driver’s seat.
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
that's ok, sometimes we must have a period of rest! I find to move you have to have some kind of goal or place that excites you, otherwise there is no motivation. I often find we avoid mindful practices because subconsciously we know we might discover something we won't be able to shake that will ultimately require us to apply ourselves. Even if the above doesn't apply - a 10 mins Guided meditation for clarity can be very insightful, even if it is just to discover why you feel the way you feel. Being curious about each state of being you find yourself in can be just the inspiration you may want to find :)
@McCutiePatootie
@McCutiePatootie 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved this vid, especially when you’re talking about decision making. We put such a heavy weight on these decisions, I have moved back to my home NZ after living in Australia and with all of the background noise from others telling me about what I should do, that inner voice cannot be silenced and you just have to listen to it. Love your videos girlie! Sending love from NZ 💛
@MDWJS
@MDWJS 2 ай бұрын
i miss my youth in England and Ireland. I have been in the states for 30+ years can't go back as everything is here. No place like home, home. this is my home and i'm happy for all whom i love are here. Nothing like Europe. xxx
@bambinakatarina
@bambinakatarina 2 ай бұрын
the perfect sunday morning energy ☕
@katharina.25
@katharina.25 2 ай бұрын
the things you said about change, making mistakes and changing your mind are so so true and it feels so good to hear it, because I feel like I know they're true but I keep forgetting and getting caught up in the fear of screwing up or choosing the "wrong" option - and therefore kind of stagnating. but there is no right and wrong, and if you don't like it, you can change it. idk, it just really calms me down. also the all black outfit is so gooddd
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
everything is as serious as you want to make it- don't be too hard on yourself though it's a constant mindful practice to just catch ourselves and laugh at how seriously we take what is a privilege to choose and over think it to death ❤️
@ZohraMaura
@ZohraMaura 2 ай бұрын
Hey Tara, thanks so much for sharing your journey on moving home - it's been really inspiring, and perfect timing for me. After living abroad for 13 years (Paris, LA, London and Edinburgh) I'll actually be making the big move home myself to start a new job in Dublin in January! I'm both nervous and excited - I feel like I was a big baby when I left, and have lived multiple lives since then. But Ireland truly is the best country in the world, and I can't wait to be on the same land mass as my family, especially as parents are getting older, babies are being born, and other big life events are passing by. I couldn't agree more with your reflection on "mistakes". I took a career break to return to university and try a new industry, and although I wouldn't change the experience for the world, I'll actually be returning to my old industry in the new year, and have a newfound appreciation for my place in it. Thank you again - I share your videos with my mum and friends and we all think you're just fabulous!
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
love this story! glad you tried something different - perhaps there was some experiences or people you needed to meet or help through going off and doing something different for a while! that is such a sweet message, hi to you and your family/friends too❤️
@SaraDikrallah
@SaraDikrallah 2 ай бұрын
I didn’t do the guided meditation just cause I am muslim and I feel like I own my own kind of meditation through my prayers, but I was so curious and so I stayed and listened. I feel like you have such an angelic energy… been following you for I don’t know how many years now… we both were two young lost girls, we probably still are a little bit, but we matured surely. I always felt a loving and calming energy trough your words and I’m so happy that years after I’m still here watching your videos and feeling that energy even more. All of this to say that I am loving your journey and I love the pure soul you have
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
i'm so glad you were able to adapt it, meditation is mostly deep relaxation and listening to what comes in from your heart mind body ❤️ thank you so much for such a beautiful comment, it floored me x
@officialnicholas1
@officialnicholas1 2 ай бұрын
this meditation really hit. another great video.
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@lyvelviste3490
@lyvelviste3490 2 ай бұрын
Loved the meditation in the end, thank you! I've always found your voice very calming and reassuring and find your vlogs comforting - so your gifts are well used in the meditation space :). Two specific things I loved: that the meditation focused more on a feeling rather than visualisation (I have aphantasia and can't see pictures in my mind's eye so i find a lot of guided meditations don't work for me if i have to 'picture myself on a beach' etc). And secondly, your pace was perfect - not rushed, even rhythm, felt easy and natural to follow. Perfect :)
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
yessss my friend has aphantasia too and she didn't think she would be able to do with hypnosis with me but because it was more about feelings than seeing images she had a super successful session❤️ i'm glad that you could have a successful go at this one ❤️
@CiaraDelaney
@CiaraDelaney 2 ай бұрын
I loved this meditation Tara :) My mornings can be stressful so I decided to take a few minutes this morning to center myself. I felt nicely rooted and grounded which brought back my sense of safety, freedom, and presence. Loved the music choice too.
@CiaraDelaney
@CiaraDelaney 2 ай бұрын
You'll laugh now because just after this meditation there was a big software outage at my job which meant we couldn't do any work in the morning! We got a more calm start
@maeve796xox
@maeve796xox 2 ай бұрын
thank you Tara, I don’t know if it’s helped by the parasocial connection created by your videos but your meditation felt very safe and like a friends guidance, thank you ♥️
@georginafox2263
@georginafox2263 2 ай бұрын
That meditation was great at the end!
@allisonolawsky
@allisonolawsky Ай бұрын
The meditation was wonderful, I wasn’t expecting to feel so deeply moved but I did (to tears actually). Thank you! 🫶🏼
@TarMarz
@TarMarz Ай бұрын
awh i'm so glad you got to try it!
@emmy.222
@emmy.222 2 ай бұрын
The meditation was beautiful🩵🪽 I felt connected to my future self who keeps reminding me … “there’s nothing to worry about”☺️ she feels so grounded with such a calm energy. There are goals that Im moving toward that are in new waters for me, and my higher Self is showing me that I can take those steps and that I can also be calm while doing it. I’ve also been reflecting a lot about last October, and wow everything has changed. I’m proud of us for moving forward, and having so much grace for ourselves during big life changes! 🌸🌸
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
this is such a beautiful comment, I can feel your lovely energy ❤️
@soulcircleie
@soulcircleie 2 ай бұрын
It's been so wholesome to follow your journey and see you grow and evolve as a person :) hosting spiritual events for women is such a beautiful healing thing to do and something that I've been doing for over two years in Dublin. If you ever do happen to come up this way I would love to help in any way I can! - Rachael :) xx
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
I hope that our paths cross in the future ❤️❤️❤️
@claired9437
@claired9437 2 ай бұрын
I loved this meditation, I didn’t think I was going to at first but the second half of it just blew me away. Going through a breakup I’m not really in a good place and this really helped infuse my day with more positivity and hope ❤ can we have more please 😅
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
more curated for you in the description box ❤️ sending you a big hug!🫂
@kaileemckenzie
@kaileemckenzie 2 ай бұрын
I needed this!
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
🥲🥲🥲glad you got something from it❤️❤️❤️
@Alibannany
@Alibannany 2 ай бұрын
your vlogs are so soothing, love having a sunday reset with them
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@IsaBella12519
@IsaBella12519 2 ай бұрын
I'm going through a transition time right now (moved to CA from Brooklyn and missing my nyc life a lot!) but appreciate this message about trusting the timing and knowing that nothing is permanent
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
you got this isabella 🫶🏻❤️
@nooneinparticular8383
@nooneinparticular8383 2 ай бұрын
Can we have an updated House tour?
@CiaraDelaney
@CiaraDelaney 2 ай бұрын
And please come to NYC with your events, I've just moved here, so I'd really love to have a similar experience in person and of course, get to know some fellow TarMar community members.
@tiffanydeg4262
@tiffanydeg4262 2 ай бұрын
Great meditation session 👏🏽 I felt my heart chakra twirling and saw a flash of a forest 🌳. I noticed some of my manifestations were created out of fear,I never thought of this before. Thank you 🙏🏽
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
woweeee that sounds blissful!!
@ReydellLinton
@ReydellLinton 2 ай бұрын
Appreciate the Meditation. It was a bit emotional for me, but I know I am Safe and on the Right Track. This journey was Very hard, but worth it ❤❤❤❤
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@tiffanydeg4262
@tiffanydeg4262 2 ай бұрын
I'm obsessed with the all black outfit 🖤🖤
@adelewalton2776
@adelewalton2776 2 ай бұрын
A modern mystic in London yes PLEASE ❤!!!
@sophiaywc
@sophiaywc 2 ай бұрын
Would LOVE it if you did the event in London too! ❤
@krisb07
@krisb07 2 ай бұрын
Bedroom is looking so cute!
@phoebe261
@phoebe261 2 ай бұрын
Please come to London to do an energetics talk!
@Mac2Spice
@Mac2Spice 2 ай бұрын
Rodate dress is beautiful, perfect for you xx
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
tysm!!! I do love it
@allesae
@allesae 2 ай бұрын
love your energy ❤❤❤❤
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
thankyou 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
@ShaliniDaisy
@ShaliniDaisy 2 ай бұрын
Thank u Tara. I needed this. My father just passed away.
@claired9437
@claired9437 2 ай бұрын
Be strong darling, sending you lots of love ❤
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
sending you so much love as you travel with that grief ♥️
@froufou100
@froufou100 2 ай бұрын
as a frenchie, I attest that there is NOTHING better than fresh bread and real butter 😍😘
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
truly!!
@schnaadri
@schnaadri 2 ай бұрын
Please leave the background music (it is quite hard to concentrate) - still loved this video x
@selinclayton
@selinclayton 2 ай бұрын
Wake up, it’s Sunday Tara day
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
hehe
@shayhall
@shayhall 2 ай бұрын
Did I miss a video where she mentions the striped bedding ….. because oh my god I NEED IT 😅
@zulemacadima1866
@zulemacadima1866 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤😊
@natpei7427
@natpei7427 2 ай бұрын
🩷
@patrisbeautyjournal
@patrisbeautyjournal 2 ай бұрын
this meditation reminded me so much of my EMDR sessions 🥲❤️ thank you dear!
@dalsiec
@dalsiec 2 ай бұрын
Tar you are the bigger sister i've always dreamed of ❤‍🩹
@TarMarz
@TarMarz 2 ай бұрын
🥹🥹🥹🥹 tysm
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