The Justice Court EP 96 || HE PLANS TO LEAVE ME FOR ANOTHER LADY AFTER COHABITING FOR 13 YEARS

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[@kemigold1860]

Nobody is bewitching the man, he should check himself very well. How can you impregnated a lady three times and you did not pay her bride price, and conduct a proper marriage with her and you want your life going smooth. If he refuse to do the needful and he choose to send the lady away. I pray you will not regret in your life when it is too late to make amendments.

[@maryolie9585]

This man is wicked...mean spirited. He does not even love his children because all he wants to do is make life uncomfortable for the lady, without thinking about how it'd affect the children they both brought into the world. He's not really listening to the judge because he's made up his mind and is bent on the path he has chosen. He'll end up taking the 3rd child from her as well, once the child is old enough! A great lesson for women... don't be carried away with romantic 'love.' Ensure a man marries you properly before settling down to making babies together. Humans by nature respect and value what they 'struggle' for, not what they get easy, especially in the area of marriage.

[@ogochukwunwakaire5868]

On which condition will he take the kids from.her...see he is shooting himself.on d leg by emphasising they were not married COS THE Ldy cN get a good job, and become full custodian of the kids and the kids will ot bear the .and name.cosmit was out of wedlock...be real and remove culture bias...the only challenge I see here is the financial status of this calm lady

[@kikianddammy846]

Hello, can justice court attend to case of someone not living in Nigeria?

[@adeolaadenuga7819]

Please Famz how can one get Report a Case to this Court🙏

[@ihemehelen1454]

Some men still think they can talk to any woman the way they talk to their wives at home...

[@yetundeoshin6222]

This is a big lesson to all women living with men without marriage 😢 This guy is mean and wicked , my mind tells me he wants to send the lady away and remarry in same apartment. God bless this judge.

[@Trinijojo]

This guy is seeing another woman. Women please stay in school, have your own career, job, your own money, your own car. Can't trust anyone, people change. This is so sad

[@Innocentshekinah]

That I'm very sure of us... Probably a sugar mummy that's or desperate mama taking care of him... God have mercy!!

[@nnaasolomon6202]

Very on call for.

[@hoseabarnabas4795]

Yes, the lady is enticing him with money which he is desperately in need of to care for the children. So he feels he doesn't need his wife who does not have a job or money of her own. Great mistake from him.

[@victorianacastro7757]

💯

[@jamalj8660]

The lady went to school (which he paid for). The guy also gave her money to start a business. She didn't do nothing with it. She is lazy and thats probably why he left

[@nitah9649]

This guy came to court and showed his true color, he couldn't even control himself, talking to the judge like that😱🤡

[@zeeyassin7313]

So you can imagine how he talks to the mother of his children

[@Isaakiway]

He may call you his wife, but without being married to him he knows in his heart that you're just a pleasure server. Be warned ladies.

[@charlesagho891]

This guy has never been committed,and if he is prepared to take even his furniture to the village so this woman cannot use them,it shows he is also very mean.This lady should go get something doing and move on with her life. If a man does not love you enough to pay your bride price....it is a RED flag.

[@winifredokonkwo2329]

Exactly..this serves as a lesson for many ladies living with a man who has not paid their bride price

[@getenlightened5871]

He’s frustrated and tired of that liability

[@Franklin8701]

@@getenlightened5871 You're on point

[@florencewhits7251]

He said it plainly... that even if she forced him...he wouldnt hv married her...fear catch me

[@getenlightened5871]

@@florencewhits7251 only an unreasonable person will tell a man to marry this kind of woman. He won’t marry her and she’s the cause. 13 years! No work! He sent you to school, gave you money for business yet you refuse to work. What she added to him is another burden. For 13 years he buys everything, pays for every bill including salt! Salt! For 13 years? If he were to be your son, will you advise him to marry her? She’s a liability and a burden. She deserves no husband.

[@dr.theophilusfaruna2687]

Friday is a disappointment to manhood with the statement about his intention for marriage. What was he thinking when he was sleeping freely with the lady and had three children? Your honor Ma, you were too lenient on Friday. Thank you Ma 😊

[@chiamakachukwuemeka3770]

You’re a man indeed. I’ve been reading other comments and It’s sad the way people think.

[@cynthiaosuji1190]

Exactly

[@zeeyassin7313]

When an educated and exposed man speaks even a f00l gets one or 2 words from it …. Thank you for this comment

[@rahabfumcysakks623]

😢😢 Friday is a very wicked man 😢😢

[@seyio4011]

If Nigeria has common law marriage status, living together for that long and having 3 children means they are married, whether formalized or not.

[@talktolenin]

No law forces you to stay with anybody, even legally married couples get divorced, he can only be compelled to take care of the welfare of the children

[@godwinejiofor8064]

Leaving together for long time doesnt mean they are married women should borrow themselves brain by not selling themselves cheap to men

[@arthurviktory3499]

@@godwinejiofor8064 Some sense in what you said but 13years, abeg ooh! Please, we don't need paper work for somethings in this life!

[@jennkitchen4559]

@@godwinejiofor8064 But in western world they are legal living together sign in court just like marriage. If you both want to separate it's same like divorce. They do living together here and settlement involves when one party doesn't want anymore just like settlement after marriage divorce wether kids or no kids.

[@nonyeike2626]

Truth AF

[@inhisimage0457]

1He wants to take two children away from the lady and give them to his uncle 2 Move one child and the lady into one room apartment. 3. Leave them without furniture. 4. Made it clear that he NEVER intended to marry her. . Yet he mentions God. Sad case. This guy! Smh. ….and the lady is not guiltless for allowing someone to think that she was not worth being a wife.

[@annmwariri8119]

So sad indeed

[@arthurviktory3499]

No 1 exactly! That why I'm saying he is a big womanizer!

[@dicefrost3606]

It's funny how everyone sees the man as the devil while almost absolving the woman of responsibility. He sent her to school, he gave her an education. Last week he mentioned giving her 250k to start a business which she never did. He took care of her and the children single handedly. Clearly, this man invested a lot in this woman. She refused to develop herself. If she were gainfully employed, at least she would have picked up some slack right now, the man won't be under this kind of pressure.

[@maryolie9585]

You've said it all! The guy is mean, forget paying school fees and all that.

[@inhisimage0457]

@@dicefrost3606 I said the woman is NOT guiltless.

[@glad0011]

This case is the toughest ever since i have been watching the justice court, hmmm, one can see the hate and anger in the man's eyes. I hope this ends well.

[@samuelbolanle1994]

I quite agreed with you, judge Funmi had never been this disturbed deciding any case. She couldn't even consider reconciling them because it's glaring this man has bolted already, he's just trying to minimize collateral damages, in the onslaught. The lady too, was too laid-back, from all indications, this man was stretched beyond limit and he's ready for the worst. Big lesson for so many ladies out there. Things have changed, no man wants to die while the woman in the house is supportive or just keep giving birth. She's a graduate, her ex had tried o, let her move on, ofcourse, the only option as it were.

[@adesegunsamson8325]

Same thing with me

[@taofikabass93]

His approach should have been that the woman should also support.

[@samuelbolanle1994]

@@taofikabass93 you see; after beating a child, he's left to cry the way he chooses. So having gone through so much, this man has right to cry(react) whichever way he likes, including whether he wants to leave her or not.

[@kayvee5670]

It is crazy the length people will go to just to severe ties in a relationship...

[@debbiebalogun8803]

This senseless competition of putting your children in schools that you can't afford needs to stop. Live within your means. Who are you trying to impress? Paying almost four hundred thousand naira in tuition when you're jobless??? That's unnecessary stress/pressure 🤷

[@SkidCudi]

Can you see why the man is resentful.

[@lydiapaddie7763]

Are there free public schools in Nigeria?

[@valerieoffiong2520]

@@lydiapaddie7763 yes

[@samuelbolanle1994]

When I heard that their children school fees are that high, I screamed. First a jobless man? That's too much and one expect the man not to flee? not possible.

[@chukzysnatureventures]

Na mumu dey worry dem na

[@ImWorthy4Real]

I love this Judge!!! I’m not Nigerian!! she is smooth, smart and beautiful!!! She told him he better watch who he talking to before he end up in trouble!!!

[@roselineometereupahi9884]

How can you live with a man 13yrs and he didn't marry you.lesson

[@jackman9234]

It's so disappointing dat, A man could be living wit a Lady 4 13yrs,wit 3 kids n still didn't pay a dime, as Dowry,n still wanted 2 opt out wit Furniture, The Lady sold herself out cheaply, I don't blame him

[@cliffteev4214]

You are right but did you considered the finance her education she should have gotten from her parents, gave her to do business and nothing is working so the man wanted to leave her because she is unproductive. The lady was enjoying before things turned around and a lazy kind of person, this will teach full house wife lessons that is the way I saw it.

[@benelelyonimmapnimel7100]

Some ladies are their dowry with their mouth.

[@shola04]

​@@cliffteev4214no mind the guy 😅

[@rasakifatainesta2434]

The brilliancy and transparency of the judge is top notch

[@gerihembafancharity64]

Pls were can I locate this court?

[@elfreidanekpenenoghabun5403]

This woman you cohabited with a mad man 🤣🤣🤣

[@elladre328]

After wasting 13 years of her life you want to abandon her and go for another woman😒 I feel for the kids🥲 karma will still hit him no doubt, evil man🙄

[@heavensperspective8977]

How about her for not choosing wisely? And doing right by her kids and ultimately her own peace and security in life. It takes two to tango. She's as culpable as him. If women will ensure this is firmly embedded in their psyche, they will do everything in their power to ensure they only give a worthy man their womb- the highest privilege any woman can bestow on a man. We need to teach our daughters to value themselves better. The current hook-up and no-accountability culture is failing them mostly and society suffers badly in the end. I won't be surprised if her own parents also modelled the same example.

[@obiageliazuka7096]

This woman cohabited with this type of man n never planned her own life? Women Abeg let’s have sense in this new year and stop stressing Jude Fumi n d Justice court.

[@solomonobihan9465]

Yes, blame a fed up man.

[@ogaf3578]

The woman no just try at all sef.... the man no good oo. But the woman no try at all

[@po1689]

Ladies out there , never depend on a man to make living!!

[@primeroseessentials3623]

May God grant this woman a good job so she will be able to take care of herself and her children...what kind of man would want to move out with his furnitures even when his children are still living in the house...so he wants his children to sleep on the floor or what? My fellow women,please have your own money before deciding to bring a life to this world..cos this men can walk out of your life at any given time..gone are the days when the title "full time house wife" is a thing of Pride, cos sadly Men this days also needs help.. I wonder how she's gonna cope with 3 children, no job...its so sad..

[@paulidi3313]

I think the man is actually frustrated

[@nnadoo]

Their* children..You all should stop claiming children that were brought into the world by two.

[@primeroseessentials3623]

@@nnadoo its clear you did not completely read my writeup..cos I also stated "his children" ...

[@paulidi3313]

Pray for both party

[@deborahawoyemi435]

This guy is so wicked. Thank you ma

[@ndiawoidemilidinotuclan7918]

The main issue is that, both the man and woman have refused to give what belongs to their families. What do I mean? The man has refused to pay the bride's price of the woman thereby denying traditions their rites, the lady also has refused to do the needful. Believe me, both of them are successful people, if they do their traditional rites and settle families.... You shall see massive change in less than 3months. You can not take someone's daughter for free.... Taboo Thanks

[@abak7412]

The woman could have left after the first child. She was okay with the arrangements because she was enjoying. Who stays with a man for 15 years without commitment? She’s at fault for that. As they say, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.

[@pammy22]

You are very right!

[@kay3262]

Come on now, society looks down on women leaving when they have small children. Secondly we know you can't make a man marry you so leaving will do what? If you try and force a man to marry you, you'll suffer.

[@abak7412]

@@kay3262 Society also looks down on women who live with men out of wedlock. That did not stop her. The man is angry because he had tried to empower her because of this kind of eventuality. If she had been able to help out when the man lost his job things might have been different. A good woman pulls her weight.

[@prettsmedia]

@@abak7412 And she's still not ready to pull her weight... That's the reason behind the man's anger..

[@sonibelkc5885]

See what a man that kept someone's daughter for many years is saying.... well women learn if you want

[@ogochukwunwakaire5868]

Assuming the woman is working now...SHE WILL JUST TAKE HER KIDS AND BE HAPPY, THEN KARMA WILL DEAL WITH THIS IRRESPONSIBLE LIAR

[@getenlightened5871]

Irresponsible after sending her to school and giving her 250k which she squandered

[@udala1]

@@getenlightened5871 I wonder how some people use to think, just because he stop providing and he turns out to be irresponsible, what kind of entitlement is that

[@westafromusikreview7491]

I feel like crying for this man.

[@ijjns66]

Taking care of 4 children is a job. The only difference is the facts is that she’s not receiving money. Look @ it this way, if she has to work and pay someone to take care of her children why is the person getting paid to watch her children is considered ok but when the woman does it she’s considered lazy???

[@oviepeter7338]

Honestly this case is taking another dimension. I salute judge funmi for the effort made so far. I pray for more wisdom for judge funmi to handle this case successfully....

[@NeenaOfficial]

First to be here .the judge is a wise woman ✌🏽

[@adeoluadebayo7206]

How is nobody seeing that this woman is lazy. The man feels trapped and want’s out. In the short time he moved out the woman has sold two generators. Even the furnitures we are talking about will all be sold. This man is obviously a hustler. The woman didn’t deny that he gave her money to start a business and she made nothing of it. The man said he pays 400k for school fee and she is quick to say is 380 not 400 abeg what’s the difference.?Someone who doesn’t make money can’t know the value of money . Forget the fact that the man doesn’t know how to express himself but the woman is a bad woman. The type that only brings retrogression.

[@100Percent.]

Correct

[@samuelbolanle1994]

The man is not a smooth talker hence does not know how to air his anger. This woman does not worth the man at all. How many men out there, are willing to school their children let alone wife who was not trained from home? He had tried and he's gone already as it's were, all that's left is for lazy woman to buckle up and work to train her children because I can see this man letting go everything, including the children, out of frustration. When frustration is aggravated it can lead to resentment and if nothing is done fast can even lead to murder, thank God this man chose fleeing option unlike some men, who would descend on her type. The judge had her hands full with this case she's really being careful not to make the case end worst. This is the toughest of all the cases decided on justice court thus far. Kudos to judge Funmi.

[@olakunleoluyemi8534]

Well said.

[@abak7412]

My sentiments exactly. She’s lazy, feels entitled, and ready to live off the man for life. The man has tried to empower her so many times, sending her to school, giving her money to start a business, etc. I’m a woman and I would never allow my son to be with someone like her.

[@samuelbolanle1994]

If this man had been a smooth talker, this woman that has turned herself to pest in the life of this struggling man, wouldn't get any attention let alone anything to go with. She's simply a devourer in the life of that man.

[@janetjones6658]

This case is tough. Justice funmi is doing a great job. This is a great lesson to all women out there living out of marriage. Please know your value. And let both partner help one another.

[@chukzysnatureventures]

A woman with value or has something to offer will never mess her self up that way. It's obvious this lady has been the mans downfall. For not being able to support the family!!!

[@janetjones6658]

@@chukzysnatureventures all women should be prayerful that God will not allow us to fell into shortcomings in Jesus Name Amen

[@ereworipre4187]

@@chukzysnatureventures Exactly

[@therealone8628]

Even in marriages. You don't know hmmm

[@christianchukwu9613]

This man is so aggressive. I can imagine what that woman has pass through in his hands

[@OkezieMorah]

Don't judge him that way the woman has her own problems

[@samuelolasupo3972]

A great lesson indeed if the ladies will listen. This is tough even for the judge! This is unfortunate for the two parties considering the children involved.

[@EnubeeStyle]

This is a sad situation and yes women pay attention and make demands before playing house. I wish her well and hope he comes to his senses before it's too late.

[@semiutunde8372]

@@EnubeeStyle don't judge he only knows what he was going through

[@yusufolawale9919]

"We are not married," said the man! The man is definitely driven by emotions. He lost his job as a trying man, but he could have been much more mature with his process. He is trying as much as being dubious with this woman. He tried but he could have been better. Sorry woman! Your husband is a flying man. Get yourself together and make a better life for yourself.

[@stellalove6896]

Are you looking for commite or what

[@jillcabler2186]

Love this court show Happy New Year to ALL who are watching Watching From Danville Virginia,US Peace Love and Enlightenment Plus Many Blessings to You ALL

[@DjSmithBeatz]

This man has a good job he is doing. He is just using the job he lost to take excuse. He even has a better job now. 🤣🤣🤣

[@senibohenry8148]

🤣

[@shola04]

Go and force the money out na. Sent you to school, set you up for business, you squanderd money. What sense do you see in that. Not like I am a fan of the guy but the woman could have done better

[@annmwariri8119]

Happy new year everyone 🎇🎆 i pray that may God help all jobless women's this year, so that they can raise their own kids without begging anyone for help. Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪!

[@angulaaagula5926]

The man s furniture cannot be taken away anymore from the Lady she knows...if takes furniture back he will surely arrested for emotional distress for the kids and illegal wife

[@thatwakandaboy]

Happy new year, Ann.

[@emmaculatejohn1214]

This man and excuses even if you don't want her because women are complicating take care of the kids

[@Nikkygirlification1980]

Wow. He is a very mean man, doesn't have any sense of responsibility. A man doesn't talk about marriage yet you have 3 kids. In the western world 🌎 things don't play like this o. You are the father of the kids, You pay even before your paycheck get to you. Radarada

[@herstory1012]

Which western world? In UK many men don't do anything for their children. The taxpayers support single mums with housing and benefits. He has tried....she's not helping. Why did she allow him to impregnate her without marriage. She ignored red flags

[@EMILY-yw1qy]

First time stumbling on this channel and I'm loving every bit of it. Reminds me of Paternity court in the US.

[@pearlwilliams7817]

Same here!

[@ogochukwunwakaire5868]

Very irresponsible man Whenever they start seeing another woman , they behave so abnormally..How can you take kids to a relative when their mother is alive... With all his lies and blabbing; He thinks judge Funmi is a fool...Mtceeewwww

[@felixesene7595]

In the first episode I thought this man was responsible now I come to realise that his wicked,looking at the way things is going this case is beyond losing a job there are more to it

[@deolaade]

Yeah

[@mirabelehiBiz]

Same here

[@eyoanwaneffiom3063]

Maybe has made think the last child is not his

[@felixesene7595]

@@eyoanwaneffiom3063 😱😱😱😱 he might be thinking that way because he don't want to take the last child he should go for DNA test

[@felixesene7595]

@Enoch Olamide nobody is saying he has not tried bro I don't think is because of his job or he doesn't have money that is why he don't want to take responsibility for the family all I see is that he doesn't want the marriage again not that he can't take care of his family

[@segunshona6823]

You can bash this man all you want but the wife is a full grown adult that is supposed to assist him financially. She cannot be absolved of this responsibility (too laid-back for my liking). If the man dies tomorrow, I wonder what she will do. If she was more productive, all these shenanigans would not have happened. The issues I have with him are that, one, he is claiming he never had the intention of marrying her and two, does not want to leave his furniture for his family.

[@arthurviktory3499]

Oga you met her and you f**ked her to give birth to not one, three children and you say the woman to provide. Oga stop talking like this. You better stay as man. Stop f**king other women. How can you say you want to leave your kids with your brother? Go and check, he is a womaniser and he should stayed single but you want children and now you don't want to face the responsibility!

[@dicefrost3606]

Nobody is saying the woman should provide, but she should not be idle, especially when the man has invested so much in her. He sent her to school, he gave her funds to start a business. The woman herself is more irresponsible

[@Zim349]

He sent her to school give her funds to start business 250k at that....biko the woman is worst than the man...the man is tired already I really feel for him

[@Zim349]

@@arthurviktory3499 uncle is the woman not an adult? Na she choose to open her legs. He sent her to school, gave her funds for business yet nothing to show for it. The man has been taking care of his family even after he lost his job.... The woman is not productive, abi if the man is not alive she no go hustle

[@arthurviktory3499]

@@dicefrost3606 I know she is irresponsible but they saw and loved themselves making 3 children; which I just annoyed about. A man is to put structure in a home. He(men) was to start something in his name and allow the woman to manage it. If she cries and throw a tantrum, leave her she will align. If she mismanage it, you kick her out and put someone there that want to flourish then she would understand. But he didnt, now he want to send his "kids", my God, to his uncle to take care of them. I won't compare families, tempting as it, but you see this rubbish happening In our Nigerian society- yahoo and armed robbery, stemmed from this kind of wrong upbringing.

[@preciousackon2187]

This case is so heartbreaking and I've learned a lots from it. Love ones should be with this woman cos this really hurt even for me gosh

[@samuelajayi4684]

This is a great lesson to all our Ladies over there who are cohabiting. Let them do or enter proper relationship or marriage legally .

[@victorezeagu1893]

Proper still divorce, Please get sense

[@gracelove7009]

This case is tough, God bless you judge Funmi for all you do.. This man is unreasonable.

[@heyy5079]

I beg to disagree that this man is unreasonable. it is quite unfortunate that the situation is more than what we see and hear about these two. The accumulated anger and frustration is getting the best of him in the court. he needs to calm down so he wont get himself into trouble. He Obviously cared and loved this woman well enough to cohabitate and have 3 kids with her. He has obviously been solely responsible for the affairs of the home (yes that is his responsibility, I agree), but with the situation of the country, every home needs streams of multiple income just so when one fails the other can support the family in the interim which was why he sent the woman to school believing she would finish and get a job to assist with the bills, but his expectations was cut short and he still went ahead to give her 250,000 for business (which she did not disagree with) yet she could not even account for the fund. Every normal human being as this man will feel angry and frustrated. Now he no longer has a job and that got to him as this was what he was avoiding by educating this woman and attempting to make her start a business in the first place. As for the woman, she is not married to him hence probably sees this as a business venture. She bears the children he want and he caters for her and the children's affair (this is an assumption). She probably does not feel the need to assist him financial since he has not legalized their union.(still an assumption) So this is a tough one to point accusing finger. I will suggest that they both move on separately and maturely for the sake of the 3 kids. The woman should get a job and assist with the children upbringing while the man should move on without the furniture, other items and cater for the children. he who can gather the household will gather better ones. he should also look for a good and affordable school for the kids to ease his financial pressure till he recoup .

[@wilsonemmanuel1352]

@@heyy5079 what women don’t understand is that there’s no man who is ever happy taking too many responsibilities. And it’s worse when there’s no job. Also no woman will ever be happy to say with a man and be submissive and respectful with a man who cannot provide.

[@phillipacollie3988]

Yes lady, get yourself a job. Save your money and advance your life. Raise your children and don't look back.

[@TonyaEL]

Wow! I can't believe he actually wanted to take the furniture out of the home and leave his children with no furniture.

[@stellaobi-ngene2246]

Thank you Judge. You always deliver.

[@serwangerstark8406]

Mr. Friday started well but he's messing himself up. Obviously, he's not feeling her vibe which it's all her fault for lossing guard. Like Judge Funmi said this should be a big lesson to all young ladies and young men. Giving birth to children changes everything....for a man the law will never be on your side except you can prove that the lady is irresponsible. As for ladies, please by all means necessary make yourself productive in a home. Men are getting tired of shouldering everything in a world where *gender equality* is applied to almost everything except the family setup

[@omonike2601]

Let me tell you, I know this is your opinion, but remember, this lady have always been saddled with the kids, this man moved out of the house when their baby was 3months, so should she abandon her kids? It is not easy for a lady with responsibility of children to look for job, so am not blaming the lady, this man is just not interested in the relationship anymore, even if a lady has a full time job, if a man wants to leave, he can’t be stopped. Thanks

[@getenlightened5871]

@@omonike2601 she was given 250thousand naira! And squandered it.

[@priscaooko4626]

The man should have condomize..stop blaming the women ..he just has seen a new ass..he is very responsible.. men want to Lead please workhard and take care of your family...if you want to be helper as a man be ready with helping household too..this man is lazy and a cheat.mperiod!!

[@oliverwalters8367]

@@priscaooko4626 mugu open your leg like mumu, make you say stop blaming the woman 👩

[@getenlightened5871]

@@priscaooko4626 really? Married to an idiot that wants to do nothing? A liability a burden and all she does is sit at home? This man sent her to school and gave her money for business and she accounted for nothing!!! Shame on anyone that says no blame for her. She’s a liability to any man! I pray none of my relations find such a liability

[@usmannancy11]

God bless your Mama.... You're a very good judge

[@destinyschild.9103]

I hope alot of young ladies out there will learn alot of lesson. From your utterance, disposition and circumstances surrounding this case is a big lesson.

[@destinyschild.9103]

The man is a useless man...

[@standupbcounted2420]

Yes, many women in the USA do the same thing and when the man leaves or passes away they are left without anything unless they set it up before the man leaves or passes away. Many unmarried women lose out because of this arrangement.

[@destinyschild.9103]

@@standupbcounted2420 ; That's serious...

[@rhimah1759]

I really learnt a big lesson from this irresponsible man. Wicked man. Can ladies be reasonable enough and don't stay with a man you aren't married to.

[@mrnastv3430]

There is one thing the judge is not noticing from this case, the man in question have move on with another woman and is that woman who is behind all this drama

[@Trendinggist247]

Well the judge won't make judgement based on assumptions. The Court System don't work that way. Even if she asked if he's got another woman, and he says yes, it's his cross to provide for the 1st family he's created with this woman. Marriage or no marriage, when kids are involved, the man must provide for them. The woman needs to get a job, keep busy and add value to herself and family.

[@me2umayeyiri221]

Father in heaven, may this kind of man not happen to any.. Son of Belial

[@thatwakandaboy]

This man almost had a case from the beginning. He had a good start in last episode, but in this episode, he becomes annoying, mean, and comes out as someone who is angry.

[@RealityStand]

Bad economy causing it. He is a good man but facing tougher time now. It is not easy when you don't have money but has many problems facing you.

[@diamondpearlify]

That is who he is, he was pretending in the first episode. Someone that can say he was not planning to marry a lady for 13yrs .

[@deolaade]

I tell you sir ,,,the man dey vex self

[@maryolie9585]

I have a feeling that he's lying about squatting all over the place...he has planned everything out to a T...he just wants to take the children from her and leave her high and dry! He and his people/friends are in it together, and there's probably another woman in place already.

[@memilolorun]

This is what happens when woman with a degree and complete body decided to be sex object and babies machine only. They soon lost value like dying flowers.

[@mahaliadick1282]

What! So glad I found this. I like how the judge handles her cases.

[@patiencebello5552]

This court is very educative, thanks to the honorable judge.

[@sundaynwumas1324]

This is an intelligent Judge, she settles, advices and makes provisions for reconciliations.

[@ebukaisrael5358]

This man is toxic and if he should argue with the judge in the court room in this manner, who knows if this is his life style or because of hardship.. Hope ladies are learning from mistake of this woman here who offered herself as a living sacrifice for the man for good numbers of years with three children.... today the man is mocking her in court room and not minding the good old days between two of them... this is the first reason all ladies should try as much as possible to find something doing to avoid this type of embarrassment...

[@Mummya2021]

Nice one 👍 👌 👏 😘😘💯

[@mulengachomba]

I completely agree this man is wicked and very selfish, he's obviously found someone else and is just leave the poor woman on her own and take two children away from her. What kind of father does that, this is what happens when women rely 100% on a man, have your own money and value your worth or else you will end up being mistreated and publicly embarrassed like this.

[@folakeomowumi7164]

I agreed with you mag God continue to enlighten woman.

[@oliverwalters8367]

Abeg rest Nigerians with yeye mentality, the judge is also rude. It’s not by force to stay with someone, the only business they have in common is the children. He was trying to explain what he plans to do but the judge didn’t even listen first, the paternity court way una Dey copy, the judge nor Dey talk to people anyhow.

[@oliverwalters8367]

A man that sent a woman to school is wicked and toxic, una too mumu sha. Someone who have being paying the school fees of the children and is now complaining is now bad Abi, una just too talk.. woman go just useless 5 naira she nor go bring. Smh 🤦‍♂️

[@ChiomasCut]

I hope a lot of young ladies out there will learn a lot of lesson from your utterance as surrounding this case ……it’s a very big lesson

[@usmannancy11]

I am married, but this case is a big lesson for ladies

[@msama3123]

What a wicked man! I hope the women of Nigeria are seeing this

[@mercyhassan3115]

God bless Judge Funnmi, for all she’s doing.

[@unrulysuspect]

it's always good not to judge at first, always make sure you hear from both side till the end of the story. This episode is all about life lesson for both young men and women! I'm just for the next one

[@abak7412]

The woman has issues. Pls judge Funmi, have pity on this man. He is stretched to the limit. This woman needs to Gt something doing for herself and her children.

[@Zim349]

Even her body language says it all.... the man is tired

[@Trendinggist247]

He's stretched but he can go make a new family elsewhere, he's just shot himself in the foot, he'll now be spending on 2 families. He made a mistake by saying he wants to take 2 kids to his uncle. Infact he should have been the one to charge the woman to court for separation/being lazy and refusing to work. The judge would have been able to either ensure the woman has a job or separate them (then the woman will have no choice but to get something doing so she doesn't loose out and be separated from the man). Even at that, the man will still have to provide.

[@atiwatkabirubinladen1081]

The woman just sit there contributing nothing to the family expenses, all she bring to the table is just virgina😀😀

[@abak7412]

@@atiwatkabirubinladen1081 🤣🤣👍🏾

[@estherogbonnikan8756]

It is the responsibility of both parents to look after the kids.The man is jobless, so both parents should come together and look for ways to care for the children.

[@okoronkwochibuzor28]

The best judge. Happy New Year

[@mariumkaduna4161]

This is a big lesson to all lady outside there. Let shine our eyes

[@emmysteve4phil]

Indeed the toughest case since the inception of this program. One thing I observed is that there is a woman behind this man's adamant to quit the so called relationship. He wasn't even giving it a second thought. I just feel for the lady. Where and how would she start again.

[@kolawoleayanfe5136]

You nailed it

[@kemigold1860]

There is nothing, hidden here. He should paid the lady bride price and see his life changing.

[@kingsleyafangide9044]

This man is crazy. You took someone daughter and started breeding with no intention of marriage? Who does that?😔 If I were that woman's family, Mr Friday would not see those children again

[@DrEzinneErhirhie]

The woman is an adult. She chose to stay. Both of them are at fault

[@adaazubike6117]

Why blame the man,was the woman forced to stay with him. Just like the defendant said,she should have questioned why he didn't go see her family. I blame the woman here....

[@wilsonemmanuel1352]

The woman felt comfortable because there was money. Now the man has no job

[@osasonastephen5618]

This guy is seriously wicked ooo

[@blessedfavoured5132]

I swear .he will never set his eyes on those kids again .

[@eminentandmodest]

This case us a tough one. The unspoken words are more than the spoken. The woman, just like the man is not guiltless. God help humankind.

[@dorisduruchukwu146]

I learnt a lot of lessons from this case. The man is deceitful. Smh.

[@ibrahimyusuf4085]

She has even sold their two generators ! Ah. God forbid this type of woman !

[@realitytimewithadeola4853]

Can you imagine . Omg . No wonder he said he wants to pack his things away . She will end up selling all his properties left… the man has his own fault but the woman has bigger fault. Last thing I will ever do as a woman is to marry Nd not to have a job or a business even if am not lucky to have a job . Marriage is beyond sex and love . This man love started decreasing wen he sees the woman is just like a statue . And not cracking her brain either to look for one thing or the other to do … pls o wat if the Man dies ? Wat wld happen , wld she be talking to the corpse for money … Wat is annoying me rite now is even if the man is dumb a sex freak , are you the woman dumb ? U can’t get family planning and just stick wit two children alone . In her mouth she said she does not want her children to suffer , I wanted slapping her from here cos u are the root of the sufferness. We have lots of irresponsible man who wld not even want to struggle to do anything and court can’t hold dem wen dey don’t have money , wld dey go and steal or put them in prison knowing fully well dey hav no job … Me as a woman , I have no job I searched Nd cld not fine and I ventured into business . Some pple are saying taking care of 3 children is enough to be finding job around. Omg . In this era , that is why u see foreign woman outgrowing us…. . . Women o , how many times did I call u . Try Nd get something doing . I think dis man lost interest cos this woman is just daft and not bringin anything to the table and he sees other hardworking women outside even aupporting family . Is not only by sleeping , having sex is wat marriage is al bout . Get that right . I am a woman , and come after me let me bounce on u … If they can settle fine , but if the man say he is not doin again . Madam pls get a job for urslf o wit immediate effect. The last woman I remembered doin dat . Same situation like dis , the man has sent her packing she shld leave the house ; nothing in the brain only to sleep wake up have sex and take care of the kids … lol that is not enough … . . No he only you born o. Other hardworking women are out ther wit 4 children and are working big time to get it out there. Just like women don’t want liability , rich men sef do not want liability from any woman. . . Be wise in this 2022 … If na one u fit born close ur yansh sharp . Do wat u can afford atm . If this man coms to this woman again they wld born 5 or 7 children wit the way am seeing things . May God help both of them . I pray they come bak as couples again . I rest my case 👍

[@teresaajayi9876]

How does she take care of 3 children? Perish the generators!

[@Gigizlife]

I feel like there’s something that this man is not saying, he might have a woman somewhere. He is mean too for wanting to take furniture away from the house without thinking about the kids welfare. I know he is stressed but his stress is about to triple. I wonder how he will be able to support the kids and the new woman. He has a temper too. As for the lady she needs to get a job and support those kids without depending on that man to do it for her.

[@Trinijojo]

Its definitely another woman, and i am sure she has kids. Men are something else

[@serwangerstark8406]

There's another woman in the picture.

[@praiseohunenigbin6639]

Watch episode 1. The man has a lady friend in ABJ. though he didn't admit but his wife knows

[@wandaemmanuel9437]

She can also teach the children and home schooachooling is even better with some parents. He should not put her in a room with 3 children, but she also said she can pay. That means she can hustle.

[@angulaaagula5926]

My uncle my mom and dad will take care of their grandchildren Best answer to the Lawyer...

[@canaryaustria6273]

Happy new year to the people who are watching this

[@engr.h.o.tijani6620]

Judge Funmi, God bless you for the patience. The husband is a mad man while the wife is indeed, extremely stupid for co-habiting this long. Mr. Friday is financially stable, just that he is no longer interested in his cohabitation with the wife.

[@ogochukwunwakaire5868]

Very mad man , needs psychology attention...his mentality and blabbing is too absurd..it irritates to the ear...kai JUDGE FUNMI IS SO PATIENCE...

[@tinajoy8707]

Even a madman is better than him

[@reynabrown7219]

😂😂😂

[@sammysammy7754]

Honestly this man really have anger issue, even though i know that some woman are complicated. In the first place paying 380k for tuition fee is pretty on a high side for their financial status now the woman too should wake up to be a helper to the man please the burden is too much on his shoulders.

[@christianbonaventure8011]

A very big thanks to you, God bless you sir.

[@gennieisaac3875]

And she just mentioned she sold the generator haàa the man is stressed..that is why is good for a woman to do what God sent us for (helpmate) haba no financial responsibility from her end so far other than kids

[@deriv_synthetic]

Thank you for saying this. The man may not be perfect but he is not a bad person. The woman in question is capitalizing on his weakness to make him look bad in court. She should also contribute to the children's wellbeing because they are her children as well. In my opinion, the woman looks problematic.

[@youthcity4580]

Honourable Judge funmi is full of wisdom, picks her words very carefully and wisely.

[@inspiredhomesconsult987]

For me, I noticed that they had agreement in the relationship. For the man to say if the woman demands for marriage he will back of. They both know exactly what they agreed and it's binding them.

[@mamasouljah]

Selfish wicked man. Go away leave children with their loving mother. You don't separate siblings because of your selfish needs unkind father. Live by your means and provide for your family. Even if you start new relationship it won't work as you are too selfish and wicked. Get castrated and have no more children at all. You unking father don't know love at all about give children to Uncle and other people who could put children in danger. Father you are full of tricks and you stayed to get convenience of children Mum's kindness. You must grow up and face your responsibility as a father full time.🙏🌹

[@toniafunmilayo5200]

God bless this judge.....may God continue to grant her wisdom and long life

[@joyabu5881]

In Igbo land, those children belongs to the family of the wife and if the man and the woman did not reconcile, and the woman gets married to another man that will perform all the marital rites, then the children will belong to the woman's new husband

[@SteveRHODES-e9p]

She should follow the the new husband and take the children then.

[@amicablebeautyspa1427]

Story

[@blessingorji-f4h]

A big lesson indeed , to all ladies out there, God bless you my honour

[@maumau6129]

He never wanted to marry her, he just needed children. He purchased her with the school fees he paid for her so she could have children for him. The children are never the issue so he is responsible that side in paying for their scool fees. He knew what he was doing right from the start.

[@SupeTv997]

Not true....... I think the woman is lazy

[@faithdanielokwy6769]

@@SupeTv997 taking care of childrens is much more than office work .so don't say she is lazy except she is not taking care of the children

[@SupeTv997]

@@faithdanielokwy6769 the man is trying too ......( She doesn't have a job )

[@bryanokojie4738]

This is so sad... This is an eye opener.... Women should work... Love fades with Time...oga is fed up with her...

[@sariat2307]

Nope, this man's reasoning and actions in court say a lot about this situation. He want to take the children way from the woman to punish her.

[@PEACIYTALKS]

I was totally blown away when he said she has given birth to 3 kids and she didn’t think he’s not marrying her Omo it is well

[@azeezatabass1304]

He’s actually a responsible father all he’s trying to prove is he’s no longer interested in the marriage

[@arthurviktory3499]

Shit... No longer interested in a 13year relationship. Relationship don become food! Chai this generation.

[@sherrydamng]

Abandoning his family makes him irresponsible. I don’t know your definition of a good man

[@diamondpearlify]

For your mind, responsible father that can not leave a set of chair for his family but rather take it to the village. I am suspecting you are related to him or the new lady in his life

[@deolaade]

Na mad man now ,,even the man dey vex

[@inhisimage0457]

There was no marriage.

[@comfortmarthaoginuche806]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thank God for justice court,this is life for you after so many years he is telling her to accept any man that comes her way, women pls build up yourselfs first we no longer in 50s ,

[@igbinx]

Pray for the man as he doesn't know what is happening write now.

[@sunnykennedy9640]

Is like this man has already another woman somewhere, is like he fade up of this woman coz she not doing reasonable work to provide or help at home ,

[@yinksx6084]

What’s most interesting here is how many people believe a woman raising 3 children including a 1yr old is idle?! Honestly, let’s think about it. How do you people raise kids self? We want her to find job that the single ppl are still struggling to find. Then we’ll say none of the house duties must slack oh! He should find her a job as he’s searching. Then they’ll use the money for the nanny that will look after the kids .

[@Toddler_mum_fittness]

Thank you…..here full time mum is a work government is paying for

[@egikesamuel6868]

This man u are a wicked man, I have been listening to here a tangible reason, for ur action all in no avail.

[@babatopejegede2060]

If I am the lady cohabiting with this man currently I will discard him straight away. If he can do this to a woman who bore him 3 kids what is special about the new lady.... he will do worse.... yoruba adage says the cane used to flog the first wife is ontop of the roof for the second wife.

[@obinnaGladysuche]

Your honour thank God for the wisdom he gave you to deal with all the cases that comes to your table 🙏

[@issajimoh2701]

This is very interesting and educative, in fact, I learnt a lot from this and I want to appreciate the judge for her wisdom and patience. May Almighty Allah blessed you more and rewards you abundantly ma But their is one thing I thought mummy (the judge) forgot to address, is the issue of the children school fees, with the situation on ground, I don't think any of the party is riched enough to continue the payment. So, why not change the children school to any good and affordable school. Thanks

[@JB-uy9ts]

First time watching Nigerian court but the Judge is so relax and she listen to every word

[@maureenukrakpo8798]

I almost fall off my bed when he asked madam how many generator do I have? Her response I sold it 🤣🤣🤣 ahh you sold my generator🤣🤣🤣

[@saab75]

That was the icing😁

[@maryolie9585]

There's a lot of my this, my that, my the other in this matter... it's all about him and his things... he's a cold, mean hearted fish!

[@mariabonaparte1574]

This is a very dirty man the other woman will give it to him wasted her life as he said he didn't offer her marriage from the first child she made 3 women take heed . It will be difficult for a man to marry her now she has a heavy responsibility. I would have put all his belongings in the car and not allowed him to come in my house so my children wouldn't see his face to brake their hearts

[@thinkinbox2541]

Well done Justice court - as you can see from the amount of engagement on this case this should be your niche - relationship and paternity cases - subscribers want to be armchair judges 😌

[@chinazablessing4820]

This man doesn’t have conscience. After wasting 13 good years of her life u want to do away with her. Wicked man. Nature will always work against you