Living with a time bomb [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.02.19]

[@blablablasvn]

7 years with him.. Time is important girl dont waste for him.

[@SonjaLoper]

What Seokcheon said is right. He was so mad that he broke the television, but in reality, he wanted to beat his wife. Domestic violence is not just physical abuse. It can be verbal abuse, manipulation, and many other things. I hope this man got some counseling or that the wife was able to separate from him because she and her kids do not deserve this type of life.

[@pandamalone9069]

Counselling doesn't work with abusers and often makes it worse I hope she leaves/left

[@lue-rjeatumpalan1363]

When he said that his wife is a fish in his fish tank clearly say that his wife is his possession. If he can't control his anger lo and behold it may evolve into a more violent behavior. So glad that the wife went to hello counselor. If I am the wife I will try to seek help/ intervention with proper authorities before its too late.

[@yoonmikim5663]

He also talked about his children like they are possessions too... "upgrade" his kids... there are clear issues when someone thinks they "own" another human being because of the relationship they have to them.

[@yeeroy]

The only solution for this marriage is divorce. It's clear he doesn't even see women as equal to men. Fragile masculinity in action.

[@alyaadibah9695]

hes narcissistic

[@senrik579]

God fckin Dammit, this show needs a good lawyer and a psychologist ready on the panel!!!! This is emotional abuse already, (and maybe even worse than that possibly) fuck's sake!!

[@___pphh8554]

She doesn’t want to divorce him bc of kids and he’s taking advantage of that. A psychologist would be good but it doesn’t cure assholes

[@yeeroy]

Unfortunately, Korea is still a predominantly patriarchal society, and many women choose not to divorce due to societal pressures and court decisions that would disfavor them. The concept of child support is shoddily enforced and most women wouldn't see a dime from their husbands, all the while finding it difficult to procure a job after being out of the workforce for so long. Not to mention having one of the highest gender income disparities compared to other first world countries.

[@jul2447]

Ikr how Dare he say that is not violence, he even broke the tv

[@haileelee8918]

i feel like this guys going to beat her when they get home. i really hope she's going to be okay

[@polovt9511]

Hailee Lee i know thats what i felt

[@jamaicaaguilar6609]

Hailee Lee THAT EXACTLY WHAT I'M THINKING

[@suheylaqalib6193]

Ik right i hope she divorces him soon

[@seonghwasbae2771]

DUDE I WAS THINKING THAT TOO

[@박형주-h6j]

그건 니 생각 이고! 식빵놈아!

[@chickennuggets594]

I love how seokcheon got mad and wanted to beat the shit out of him

[@VampireArisa]

Exactly. I watch this show often and I don't think I've ever seen someone so upfront and honest about an issue.

[@azarazat]

Throughout watching this I got more and more scared that soon he'll start physically abusing her...this just isn't right, this mental abuse is just disgusting

[@alyaadibah9695]

he didn't even show any sign of trying to change

[@mariafernandafuentes9428]

Honestly, just watching this video I got really scared of the husband, I can't even imagine how it must be living with him, I feel sorry for the wife and kids.

[@raisachoudhury4071]

I can't agree more! Honestly, men like that disgust me. Plus, he even said that he suppressed his true personality while courting her because he wanted a "Busan woman," if that doesn't say anything about his personality I don't know what does. The lady definitely didn't sign up for that kind of life when she agreed to marry him. It really makes me worried about marriage on a personal note.

[@ariskaraihan3965]

"why are you like that?" "i think that's just my personality" "when two people living together they need to compromise with each other, i've compromised hard enough" "she's a fish caught in my tank. when you have caught the fish you don't need to feed it anymore" KJHDSJKDHSJHDSD ISN'T HE ABUSING HER??? WHAT THE FLIPPIN HELL! DO YOU THINK YOUR WIFE IS JUST A PROPERTY THAT YOU CAN LITERALLY """OWN"""???? WHAT DO YOUR CHILDREN MEAN TO YOU?? FOR HECK'S SAKE!!!! This is straight up abuse and i completely hope for the wife and children to break free from him and settle just right

[@jul2447]

Ariska Raihan ikr how Dare he say that this isn't violence

[@phoebesookim]

This hit me so, so deep. I grew up with a dad exactly like him, and a mom just like her, who wanted nothing but to protect my brother and I. This is a serious kind of abuse, yet it's so deeply ingrained in Korean society, and the moms are never given a voice. I pray they find help, and especially for those beautiful sons--those scars stick with you forever.

[@ereniacastellan4587]

Sometimes the concern on this show aren't public consumption for reality show, it needs to be solved very seriously by authorities, i see a lot of mental abusive, severe obsession, and weirdly behavior that could damage other people mental state or even physically, and people who did that doesn't even aware of their behavior and felt nothing wrong about it.

[@joeleanesollano4428]

Annabeth CSTLN agree. I think they’re only up to the prize and the laughter.

[@Beandal]

I agree. This show jokes about abuse and other serious things. They should bring some professionals out there.

[@mal9080]

it's kind of good in a revenge way though, this man is publicly humiliated. people in his area, his job, his family will watch this and know the type he is. he won't be able to live his life without changing himself

[@stutisinha6311]

professional help is offered to those who need it after the show

[@mirani2571]

@@stutisinha6311 by "need" it's as in who gets the most votes if they think it's a concern, which is just completes bs. in my opinion, there so many times where they just neglected the cause and brushed it off as not a concern and on top of that the stupid voting system which will "tell them if it's a concern or not" i mean like wtfff 🤦‍♀️🙄they're not in their sane mind to judge things like these as they please. who the hell are they to judge someon'es mental&physical health and come to a conclusion whether it's right or wrong when they're not even qualified to to do that in the first place .no one in the panel of judges are professionals in psychology or psychiatry department . it's just sickening to watch them disregard issues which are potential problems in the future.

[@shin18chan]

"People around me cuss all the time, even in front of their children. But those kids don't mimic their parents. I think it's just my kids." I can't help but to think like he's putting the blame on his children. Just because other people are doing it, and just because their kids didn't mimic them, it doesn't mean that it's the right thing to do.

[@rhistine.3092]

The thing that I worry about is when they went home 😰 I’m scared that the guy will do something to the girl 😓

[@mahrukhkhan8392]

Even in the end . He DOESN'T sound sincere attt allll

[@Pearlflower1]

something feel very wrong about him

[@hiiragy]

everything is wrong with him

[@AyAReI00]

Kim Kim maybe all the red flags ?

[@7cupoftea]

he's definitely a pyscho.

[@jul2447]

True

[@exopizzas]

I can’t be the only one who feels like the people in this episode aren’t taking this situation completely serious. She is being abused, the children are being abused. He will never be in the right, and honest to god if this continues she will be beaten.

[@aM-vf5mz]

These type of men are disgusting! I would divorce him immediately, but i know how being divorced does not have a good reputation in korea and the women would struggle being alone. But I absolutely hate it if a man has bad temper or is short or hot tempered, and you take it out on ur wife or smth...

[@yoonmikim5663]

The problem is that in Korean society, as long as he doesn't hit her, she can't file for divorce AND get her children. She can divorce him, but Emotional abuse isn't enough for her to get her children too. Which is sad. So even if she leaves, he could sue for custody, probably win and then the children would be stuck with a father like that.

[@jul2447]

Ikr he wouldn't be a good father, she will do well as a single mother

[@mrgoldenhd6544]

Just divorce..this kind of men is useless...

[@moistsquish]

Mr Golden easier SAOD then done,she has kids, it’s hard to support two kids alone

[@shoobnoobcoob]

TheCrippledNinja But he barely takes care of this kids himself, she's literally taking care of them herself. Besides child support exists soooo

[@moistsquish]

Lovely Fancy World still u can deny it, it’s not easy emotionally

[@seonghwasbae2771]

@@moistsquish yeah thats true but many women and men took care of 2 or more kids by themselves its not easy emotionally but they still did it and majority of those kids are repaying them

[@moistsquish]

it's amar's life its not impossible just not ideal y’a know? It rarely ever goes swimmingly

[@lilycha9398]

The fact that he hid his true self when he was wooing her is enough of a red flag. He himself knows there are unlikeable parts in him. He deceived the poor woman.

[@kittywatchesyoutube]

Reminds me so much of my dad when I was younger. Just because you’re better than your parents were to you doesn’t mean you’re doing a good job

[@armyharteuu8491]

kitkat4274 reminds me of my dad and my family too😪😪

[@jorezzaantonio5765]

"That'a your fate" I hope that the lady will realized that that is not her fate. She is beautiful and she doesnt deserve to be treated like that

[@AyAReI00]

OMG !!!! SHE WORK!!! I thought that she didnt even had a freaking income that she desperate need TO STAND THAT MONSTER... why girl??? You are súper beautiful, why such a los self steem? Dumb him right away HE EVEN ADMIT ON PUBLIC TV that he pretend to be nice just to catch you... that you are his fish !!! Run before he kill you, he even mention THAT YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY that he havent punch you (yet) ... run!

[@shin18chan]

This is more than just having a job and pretty face. I read a comment in South Korea, as long as he didn't hit her, she can't file a divorce and she may not be able to get her kids. If this is true, then this might be the reason why. If she leaves just like that with her kids, the husband can file a report and her kids may be taken away from her. Plus, she might think that the effect of divorce might be worse for the kids rather then living with abusive father. Sure she has a job, but will it be enough for her alone to take care of her kids? Not to mention for them, women carries the burden of bad marriages. The 132 votes already say a lot. But if thing stays the same or get worse, I do hope she find the courage to leave him.

[@nc3397]

The husband also said he has a large sum of debt to pay :(

[@jessicahernandez3090]

@@shin18chan I think she can actually divorce tbh, laws are getting better in there for women. And she can still moveout meanwhike.

[@sunjuimct]

애들 생각해서라도 제발 이혼하세요, 남편분 성격 안 바뀌실 분입니다. 직장까지 있으신데 같이 사실 이유도 없고 이런 폭력 받으면서 힘들게 사실 이유 없습니다.

[@nc3397]

This show has taught me so many red flags in a relationship. Dating should always be longer. And face to face. Not over a screen.

[@jessicahernandez3090]

This is true!! And you need to know how the person is arounf his/her family

[@desmeisme]

I love seeing seokcheon appear on shows. I love hearing his input on things🙏🏻

[@nabilahnovel7753]

All the things that he said were plain horrible. Idk how the wife put up with it for 7 years. That's simply abuse. Gosh, I would better live single forever compared to married to this kind of guys. Disgusting!

[@neisanland2503]

7 years is a lot sure, but my mom has it and still has it for over 30 years

[@nabilahnovel7753]

Neisan Land I read your replies on other comments also. I'm sorry that it might be offensive to you and please be strong for your mom. If possible please be brave to take other paths that could make your mom and you happier. Stay strong 😢😭

[@neisanland2503]

she's brainwashed. I'm unable to fix her.

[@nabilahnovel7753]

Neisan Land I really wish for the best for your family. Hope you can keep being healthy mentally and physically. Do not hesitate to get help if necessary. I don't know how deep is your worry and concern or even sadness. But please know there are others who can make you happier. Good luck 😃

[@neisanland2503]

I'm alright, I'm leaving soon. so then I don't have to put up with BS. I hate myself if I ever do anything the same as my father did to my mother. id be single for life if I see that I cannot change myself.

[@ZombehPanda]

What disturbs me the most is that he broke the TV. It shows that he doesn't have enough control of his anger and felt the desire to break something. To me that sounds like a clear red flag for abuse. Even if he never touches her, breaking things like that in itself is abuse. It's like a threat or scare tactic to force her into submission. This guy is really scary to me. I'm worried what will happen to her after this show. :(

[@oh_adhi]

She got swindled

[@Circee11]

Adhi O. Agreed, she should leave him if possible.

[@yune2563]

Idk why i find it funny when he glares at the audience 😂😂 like biiittttchhh just accept you're a bad person

[@kyurem224]

Men like him are best forgotten so we will not have to live with such darkness in us.

[@hfcnib2024]

여자가 떠난뒤에 후해하지 마시고 있을때 잘하세요 여자는 지금 SOS를 보내는 겁니다 성격탓만 하지말고 성격을 죽이세요 안그럼 후회할일들이 일어납니다. 언어 폭력도 폭력이에요!!!! 남자는 지금 자기가 문제가 있다는걸 모르는게 문제인듯 하다,,,,, 같은 남자지만 이해가 않되네

[@이상연-z7f]

아들이 닮을까봐 무섭다 보통 아버지가 폭력적이면 자식도 닮는다 은연중에 나같으면 이혼한다

[@Alys0sa]

Seokcheon is speaking nothing but facts I love it!

[@김현아-s1c]

평생같이해야할 사람을 경계하고 무서워하고 어떻게삽니까.. 늦엇다생각지 마시고 다시 시작하면 새출발이 됩니다 현명한선택 바래요

[@yy-ou4cj]

괴물은 자기가 괴물인지 모른다~

[@soknamaddison258]

더 늦기전에 이혼이 최선.

[@Zyrooj]

The guy is nothing but a hypocrite

[@lillieswhite7037]

Nope. That's not all to him. He's bloody psychopath

[@7cupoftea]

exactly! he have all the characteristics of a psychopath. Im praying for the girl

[@lillieswhite7037]

ah ah imagine I know right

[@고마리꽃]

아내는 왜시댁일을 말하면 안되나요? 그럼 아내는 자기가족이 아닌거네요 시집와서 애낳아주고 살림해주는 사람이라는거네요 정말이해안되는 시댁사고팡식 이런집이 정말많더라구요

[@eunyoungchung590]

나도 저런 남편을 30년이나 참고 살았는데 결국 큰딸이 자살했어요! 빨리 이혼하세요 엄마가 죽기전에 자식이 먼저 죽게 됩니다 명심하세요 사람은 쉽게 안 바뀝니다

[@아아아아아아아아-u8t]

헐..심각하네요

[@blitzkronis2734]

...? 어느 엄마가 자기가 낳은 딸이 자살한 것이 자랑이라고 떠들고 다닙니까? 예전엔 부부갈등을 많이들 참고 살았다지만 딸이 자살할 정도로 남편이 개차반이라면 이미 갈라서고도 남았을 텐데요. 분란 조장을 목적으로 일부러 헛소리 하시는 거 아닙니까? 혹자는 딸이 죽었다는데 뭐가 거짓말이냐고, 거짓일 수가 있냐고 발광하시지 않을까 생각됩니다. 그런데 이상합니다... 제가 살면서 자식이 자살했다고 '먼저' 떠드는 부모는 본 적이 없습니다. 하물며 어디 방송에 나와서 인터뷰를 하더라도 굉장히 슬퍼하십니다. 하지만 이 댓글에는 슬픔이 느껴지지 않습니다. '자살'이라는 단어를 쓰지도 않습니다. 표현 자체를 뭉뚱그려 나타내시지 절대 직접적인 표현을 쓰지 않으십니다.

[@rainoftranquility7735]

I think the show purposefully gave them a much smaller number than they actually received. I find it hard to believe they didn't get all 200 votes

[@ricegr4in535]

she should divorce him already. im afraid the kids will also become as problematic as him. he's so disgusting and he talked like that in front of his wife and beside his kids??? he clearly stated that he only acted nice just to get her. he wasn't nice at all. you can never get your old loving man back. leave him already.

[@sssamyang]

sayheyfaith there was no loving man to begin with. 😐 tsk tsk

[@elledumble]

I agree with Seokcheon about Chanwoo's acting! It was on point!

[@nilelight6867]

is it bad that im thinking if she cannot escape this legally, maybe she could just poison his food little by little. or just got him really drunk and dump him somewhere

[@carmander9116]

Nile Light little by little will cause resistance...we want it work

[@roses6821]

Carmander nop. She could put a lot of salt in his food, every day more and he will die without leaving a trace.

[@88ひびき]

+Rosbelkys Santana a very... innocent plan of murder i see lol

[@flotaires5287]

this is textbook abusive behavior, everything he says from how he speaks to her to his reasons for being violent and abusive are excuses. people with abusive parents aren’t always abusive, people go through financial hardships all the time and they don’t treat their spouses that way either. he’s isolating her too, they live in HIS hometown and she doesn’t have work friends or know anyone bc of the situations he’s put her in, he’s literally making himself the only person she can rely bc that’ll make it harder for her to leave him, especially with the kids. he also tells her to shut up and shuts her down when she wants to talk, and then places the blame on her for being too busy to talk when she’s literally doing everything at home AND also has a job. he’s a performer too, the wife said so herself “everyone else likes him” and it’s bc he’s only like that w her, bc it cuts her down and helps him maintain power over, he likes feeling superior. Also it was super fucked up that he lied to her from the beginning?? that’s just straight up psychological abuse lying about his personality only to immediately change after the wedding, he didn’t even hesitate, just bc she’s from a city doesn’t give him the right to act like that. honestly, what a fool and i hope he eventually sees a psychologist, for her sake.

[@lamiah.2938]

23:15 Bruh look at this boy trying to keep his tears in so hard. I hope he's a nice boy in the future.

[@blinddatereject]

oh god. Men like him are the reason I aint tryna get married.

[@rainbowrain2719]

Is he joking?! How can he said that to his wife? Like the other, I'm more concerns about their children. That man is abuser. Sorry, I want she divorce him and take her children with her.

[@박민지-q1y]

아내를 안때렸다고 했지만, tv을 부신건 아내를 때리고 싶다는 표현이에요

[@gl7881]

The sad thing is there are a lot of men and women from all over the world who are like this. They act completely different from their true selves when dating so they can get the guy or girl. Once they've married (essentially gotten the person), they show their true colours and the poor person is stuck with someone they know nothing about and someone who is not a nice person.

[@Jj-ku9rt]

its really frustrating to see the husband doesn't even appreciate the wife...

[@김스말맨]

헤어지는게 나중을위해서 나을것같다 본인보다 강한사람앞에서는 쭈그리가되는 전형적인 사람이네

[@jwl4836]

쭈구리되는 전형적인 사람이 아니라 그냥 경상도 남자 필수조건 다 갖췄네. 가부장 마인드. 분노조절 장애. 남자는 부엌에 안들어간다는 마인드. 크 대단하다 대단해

[@cherahsBroll]

"She's a fish in my fish-tank" 🤮 Btw, the wife is really beautiful. I'm glad she has her own career. She's a pediatric nurse. I hear the benefits are great for nurses in SK.

[@yaraeg2000]

*THIS is why emotional and verbal abuse are so dangerous*. It can be completely hidden then when found out. It won't be taken seriously. I balled my eyes out watching this. *Every.Single.Thing.They.said.was.accurate..Even his relationship ship with his father and the reasons behind their fights* He's probably never going to change and his kids might end up hating him or worse. *I hope she never has to endure this even if it's for her kids and this is coming from a person whose mother is STILL enduring this for her children even after 20 years. The pain and guilt is suffocating.*

[@falsegirl5404]

At the end he is gonna beat her. Leave girl, run away from him as fast as you can.

[@Gaius__]

I have the same feeling. She should leave him, before he puts her or one of the kids in hospital. And what he said about the fish tank ... ugh.

[@anna-fh1sr]

이혼하세요....저런 인간은 교육을 잘못바닸어요 그래서 못 바꿔요

[@botfe1560]

I prefer when you guys post all the cases in one go. like a 1 hour video.

[@foreignspirits6347]

Anyone who passes off being angry and violent as a part of their personality is just a walking red flag... And credits them self for not hitting her, wow. I hope she left him and took the kids with her. I heard in Korea that men get custody of the children, which I hope isn't true.

[@nishforsure]

Hats off to the people talking with him with such patience if I was there I would have got up and yelled at him so bad

[@중국박멸e답e다]

할 말이 없다 생긴걸로 사람을 판단하면 안되지만 약한자에게 강한 비열한 인성 쓰레기 들 보면 얼굴이 인성인 경우가 많았다 평생 혼자 살아야 할 사람이다

[@송지v]

쓰레기……. 저 남자가 다시 이 영상을 보고 댓글을 좀 봤으면 몇년이 지난지금 둘이 이혼한 상황이었음 좋겠네…..

[@BlackMamba-wx3hq]

A simple advice for the lady:Run

[@minormajormajorminor8238]

With respect to the husband, It is not good to being strict to your kids, nagging to your kids many times, in unnecessary moments. It makes us lose our love towards you. It hurts your kids' pride. It decreases your kids' confidence. Nobody want to hear a high-tone voice or gibberish sentence, not-so-motivating words in our 'sacred team'. Just act like a gentle person, teach us how to respectable person, evaluate us without nagging tone, respect your kids as live matter. We need a home, a family, a manner, a knowledges. Not only a house, food, beverages, drink, money, everything.

[@cozyreader]

This guy is horrible. She is fish in his tank? This is her fate? You are joking or what?! I am afraid that their sons will be the same. He just do not respect woman. This can't be fixed easly. If he will not change she definitly should leave him, because it can change in beating soon 🙅!

[@jo-seon9462]

A weak man humiliate his wife, but a strong man nurture and cherish her

[@Gaius__]

👍

[@sowoojoo]

she is going to be a great actress.. maybe because she experience herself

[@채식하는금붕어]

중간쯤 보ㄹ고있는데 진심 홍석천이 구원이다 저렇게 말 해줘야돼 진짜 안녕하세요 정주행하고 있는데 미쳐버리겠네 저거 조치를 취해야 하는거 아님?? 완전 심각한데;; ㅎ홍석천 고정패널 됐으면 좋겠다 집착이나 분조장같은 것들 보고 폭력이고 당장 조치를 취해야 하며 범죄라는 거 누구라도 확실히 말해줬으면 좋겠어...... 이 쇼는 은근히 위험한 사연이나 이런거 많이 나오는데 너무 안일하게 예능으로만 소비하는건 아닌지...... 심각한 내용이 나오면 좀 심각해져서 확실하고 현실적인 보호를 지원해줬으면......

[@채식하는금붕어]

시댕 진짜 본 걸 후회한다.................내가 이걸 왜봤지.......진짜 존나 화난다 진짜로.............저 남편새기 진짜 한대 존나 세게 치고 싶다......... 진짜 한번 똑같이 친정에서 장인어른 장모님이랑 남편이 얘기할때 주제넘게 나서지 말라고 하고 소리지르고 집 와서 테레비 부시고 안 쳐맞은거 다행으로 알으라고 하고싶다(물론 아이가 없다는 가정 하에)..... 그리고 바로 집 뛰쳐나와서 변호사 선임해야됨 저거는 진짜...... 존나 말이 되냐고 저건 가정폭력이고 범죄인데 저 아내분 눈 떨리는거봐.....시발 나는 그냥 유튜브로 잠깐 보는데도 무섭다 게다가 존나 똑같이 맞벌이 쳐 하면서 집안일도 안하는 주제에 아내 집안일 하는 것까지 불만인건 뭐하는 새끼인지 모르겠다 진짜 병신인가? 뭐 물고기가 안에 들어왔으니 이제 밥을 안준다고? 그딴 소리를 지금 말이라고 지껄이는 건지 그와중에 지 분조장인거랑 존나 미개한 성차별주의잔거 존나 당당하네 성별가지고 유세떨고 등치가지고 유세떨고 잘한다 존나 덩치는 남들 2밴데 뇌는 반밖에 안되네 제발!!!!! 제발 답답해 죽겠으니까 누구 한명이라도 저새끼 귀 옆에서 소리질러줘!!!!! 넌 가정폭력범에 성차별주의자고 냄새난다고!!!!!! 아내분 제발 떠나세요 제발!!!!!!! 7년동안 불행하셨잖아요!!!!!! 7년이면 이제 충분히 아시잖아요 이혼해요ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ

[@gloria84073]

he looks like kim gura.

[@_xrockstrx_9787]

i don't think he'll change.. kids are smarter these days, i have high hopes that they'll be better than this bully

[@Pama013]

I always say, people can pretend being someone else for average of 2 years, then their true self will start to show up. So never hurry a relationship into marriage. Be careful and love yourself.

[@lisaa4876]

Just leave him already. He should go to anger management class

[@charlizekk9264]

it makes me wonder in episodes like these......what were the other people from the 132 that voted this as a concern thinking???! this concern should have gotten 200 votes

[@monsteryour8482]

결혼은 사람이랑 하는거지...이거 뭐....

[@RogueCassette]

It's so sickening that my first thought was that the day she decides to leave him is also the day she will be beaten up so bad she might end up in the ICU.

[@69raisinswhy]

I just wanted to say she’s pretty, I love her eyes

[@joelinepretty79]

O.OX I don't like how does her husband act that ways to his wife and son. One thing is, when they were in long distance relationship...it wasn't good idea because they were video chat everyday and as couple for a year before they get marry. I would rather divorce him right away...

[@tentenchibichan]

The wife is so strong, I even can't be in the same room with him I'd got once a friend, a work friend, who is really verbally abusive to me and my younger female friend,he always screamed and insulted us everyday and said that we are rubbish,useless,idiot,slow,b*tch..he never helped us when it comes to a heavywork such as lifting and moving big boxes full of documents,and you know what he said to the superiors when they warned him?he said,"they are weak women and have the same position and salary,even one of them has lower than mine,there is no use to help them." Imagine how we felt at that time,i mean,he is the only man in my department and he thought that we were his slave..he always said that women should under men's feet and why women blame men for that, he mocked us to other department people,he insulted us in front of the superiors,and he even blame us for his own mistakes and even for other department mistakes..and we got that for a whole year... Luckyly he is not in my office anymore and I'm moving now to the central office, but it's really hurt and I have to go to psychologist to heal my trauma and to get my self-esteem that had been crushed, I even take a distance to men in my new office and afraid of men now.. Also, I can't imagine how if my friend,his soon-to-be-wife, will react once she knows his bad habit after they married,me and my female friend can't say anything to her because she and her gang will think that we try to badmouth him,so we just stay silent about it..

[@gloriaorillosa2916]

I'm not being judgmental but his face shows he is really a mad, crazy proud person!

[@dannabellis9405]

pause at 6:41 and see the reaction of the audience after him says she is the fish in his fish tank xD

[@nadingovand7005]

K. K. Their faces said “this bish about to die”

[@Gaius__]

Yeah, that was a disgusting thing to say.

[@2Solecito]

여기 김동현같은 사람 게스트로 앉혀서 저남자한테 소리질렀으면 찍소리도 못했을듯 전형적인 약자한테나 큰소리치는 사람....어휴 아내분 도망치세요

[@야미-s3l]

쓰래기는 쓰래기봉투에 버리세요.재활용해서 고쳐써보려해도 어처피 쓰래기인건 변하지 않아요.쓰래기 옆에 살다가 오물 묻을까 걱정됩니다

[@xTenshiAi]

From what I've heard so far, it sounds like he'll start to get physically abusive sooner or later. The kid is so adorable. I hope he doesnt become like his dad.

[@erikad0511]

Girl needs to RUN

[@mallang11.11]

내 언니였으면 무조건 이혼시킨다 와 저딴... 와...

[@김은영-w4k]

답이없는 남자네 ㅡㅡ소름끼친다

[@멘탈바사삭-g8u]

경상도라고 다 욱하진않습니다. 잘못된거에요

[@heo7343]

물건에 하는 그 폭력이 결국 자신이나 자식에게 가게 될꺼에요. 빨리 도망치시길

[@cheesato9355]

i can’t even imagine how hard is this for their kids

[@jkuyfkil]

울아빠도 정신병있는거 숨기고 울엄마랑 결혼함 신혼여행때도 싸웠고 그때 바로 이혼했어야하는데 결국 저희들땜에 버티다가 겨우 이혼함

[@jkuyfkil]

몇번이고 엄마한테 폭언 폭력하고 이혼하자하면 무릎꿇고 개과천선한다고 빌다가 몇주만에 다시 성격 돌아오고 무한루틴.사람 안변함 난 애비때문에 사람 안믿게됨

[@장미화-y8y]

아들도 던지는거 보고배웠네

[@88ひびき]

i can't believe he revealed that his dad treated his mother the same way that he treats his wife now. that is the most unforgivable thing of it all... he saw his dad abuse his mother and yet he became just like him when he grew up. this cycle must be broken... and it will not end with this man, obviously. he thinks he is better than his father and that his children will be "upgraded", BITCH i'll tell you who the fuck needs an upgrade! his kids are still young now, they haven't suffered tremendously yet as this treatment is all they've really known as of this point but watch them get older and see just how different their family dynamics are compared to other families. because that was the case with me, i have a dad with an explosive temper like him who my mom stayed with for many years only for the reason that i was born. conscious women are often held down by their children in situations like these where divorce is prime, and in korea, divorce isn't exactly easy.

[@donnarodney8770]

I would take the kids and leave if I were her

[@trianatan1120]

"She's the fish in my fish tank" is the most absurd thing 😨

[@Gaius__]

Yeah, that was disgusting.

[@JickGK]

저기 격투기 선수가 하나 앉아있었어야하는데

[@Lily.0623]

I have a dad like him and asking a person like that to change is impossible, it not please change, it should be please divorce, these kinds of men are control freaks and narcissists, he says they fight a lot, I think the husband is the one that starts the fight because he gets angry at everything she says or does and belittles her, so she gets upset.

[@ettash9184]

11:11 the poor boy is cryingggg :(((((

[@l.g9266]

What did he mean "the fish inside my fish tank"?

[@eunicevandenberg8865]

Holly Grey he means he caught the fish(her). And you dont feed or care for the fish you caught. So he thinks, since they are married, she is like a fish trapped in a fishtank (their marriage), and he doesnt need to care for her anymore.

[@emhage]

To me it sounds like he treats her as a belonging/ possession with no will; something that should sit still and look pretty. And definitely not someone who opposes to his desires :/ A piece of crap person.

[@lavinder11]

Which doesn't make sense because you have to feed your fish if you don't want them to die.

[@MorriganSlayde]

I had a chilling thought. You don't feed fish if they have smaller fish to eat in the tank. I wonder since he assumes he's normal, if he assumes she "consumes" other fish the way he does her. As in, she would feed herself because she would consume smaller fish he caught aka the children...? Maybe I'm reading too far into it....

[@eunaaaaaaaaaa]

왜 참고 사는지 이해가.... ㅠㅠ

[@박형주-h6j]

석천, 아저씨 최고예요.

[@shootingstars357]

this is really scary because it honestly is the first signs of domestic violence... He is the type of man that would never let her leave him and sees her as his property, and it'll only take one wrong move to begin to physically abuse her.

[@홍루키-w4q]

아들어쩜저래귀엽노 ㅎㅎ ㅎ