Get Him Off Your Mind: How to Bring Your Energy Back to Yourself

This week I'm continuing the thread I've been talking about lately, which is when you're obsessing about someone and you can't get them off your mind. This issue is so prevalent among women in particular in modern-day society that I created a solution called #GetHim OffYourMind to help. It includes powerful, life-affirming energy healing techniques as well as practical everyday assistance to help you recover and get your energy and power back.
Don't Give Your Power Away!
Today's chat and video is all about your personal power. To be blunt, you lose that power when you are investing in someone who is not giving you what you're looking for or what you need.
When you are really wrapped up with someone to the point where you're thinking about them all through the day and night, a part of your life force energy actually leaves you. It drains out of your biofield/body/aura and goes out and sits with that other person. What that does to YOU is that it robs you of your power because you are not fully grounded, centered, in your body, and engaged in your own life.
I know that's a sobering thought! Another thing that this does to you is it makes it hard for you to manifest and create good things for yourself (like the type of relationship you really desire) because you are not present.
The Lights are on but Nobody's Home
I can't stress it enough: when you are thinking about someone constantly, your energy is literally with that person. That's how strong energy is! You are also feeding a negative pattern of your energy being out there hitting a wall, as the other person is not reciprocating with love. This ends up harming your self-esteem. Your energy is basically going nowhere.
When you sit back and realize how detrimental this is to you, whether or not you take the Get Him Off Your Mind program, you can start to bring your energy back. You will remember who you are and what you're here in this life to focus on.
3 Easy Tips to Call Your Energy Back
Your energy belongs with you, in your body and your own energy field - not with anyone else. Once you know how to call it back to you, things will get much easier. To that end, here are 3 basic ways to get started doing just that:
1. Meditate!
Put your attention and focus on your heart space and center yourself there. Imagine there is a magnet in your heart, and that magnet is pulling your energy back from the other person. Just keep calling it back and calling it back, letting that powerful magnet pull your energy into you, and watch as the light of your heart chakra gets brighter and brighter. Affirm how much you love yourself and your life and let your beautiful spirit and heart radiate love to your body and your mind.
2. Stop yourself.
The minute you start to think about him, crush that thought immediately. With repeated effort, this will reprogram both your conscious and subconscious minds. Just look at your hands or feet, look around the room, focus on your work, get into something that is good for you. Start a project that's creative. Talk to other people - that will take a lot of your energy, because you need to be present with them. As much as you can, focus on other projects and activities. Eventually, what you focus on will be where your energy goes, and you will re-direct it from that other person and into something much more productive.
3. Use a Talisman.
This is sort of piggybacking on the other 2 tips, but wear something like a bracelet, ring, mala beads, or magical talisman. Every time you think of that person, tap the object and ground yourself by holding onto it and thinking thoughts that remind you of why the person isn't good for you. You can also think of a negative trait that the other person has. If you don't want to think negative things, just think about how good it is for you to focus on yourself and your life instead. With practice, this, too, will reprogram your mind.
You do Have the Power to Stop!
Remember: no matter how powerful the connection is with this other person, you do have the power to stop. Sometimes you might let yourself slip into thoughts about them because it's fun or it helps you to focus on that person vs. other painful issues in your life. But when all of this stops being fun, simply call your power back. Get centered and grounded so that you can manifest and ultimately, when you are ready, bring in someone who is good for you.
If you are grappling with this, know you're not alone. It's very prevalent and that's why I created this program - so people would have a solution! For more info: www.gethimoffyo....
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[@brandonyafanaro9710]

Stop bowing down for men who don’t have crowns

[@natashialee6632]

You said it 👏🙌👌💯

[@Sammy-kf2lg]

Yes!

[@tania0070]

Amen!!

[@libralove3075]

🗣️💯🗣️💯🗣️💯

[@SarthakBiswal]

Why bow even if they have crown...

[@grimmseti]

I'm a man, but I watched this anyway so I can keep from giving an ex any further psychic energy by not thinking about her anymore. These seem like good tips for men too.

[@yousfiabdelali]

Yeah.

[@yourradiantsoul3825]

Watching this in tears because I’m tired

[@hotties3v3n]

Me too. Are you ok now?

[@manifestoraclease9446]

Definitely gonna try this it’s stopping me from manifested goals and abundance

[@hotties3v3n]

Me too. Are you ok now?

[@lovewins3321]

​@@hotties3v3n same here

[@glisciousful]

I started obsessing about a co worker , and would think about them all the time , although I knew deep deep down there would be no way anything would happen between us it was difficult to let them go since I see them everyday at work . I kinda had to re focus myself and focus on my work and my goals to keep focused . Update- I actually decided to leave then job , I knew it was not going to be good for my mental health to be obsessing over a coworker , luckily I am now at a place where I can be happy again . GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE !

[@janeway73]

You're so brave for making this step. I'm in the same shoes but until recently I wouldn"t have even considered moving away from their presence. Now I'm thinking about changing the job. Might be the only way, this thing can go on for years.

[@taniathomas7353]

I almost did the same thing but I decided not to let this guy mess up my livelihood and cause me to move. I love the job. I’ve just started focusing on me and my duties.

[@sonyalewis8015]

Similar situation im in love with my co worker , the workers been trying to hook us up for months , he started doing nice things for me an everything, offered to help me with a situation , I messed it up when I seen him an a female in my dream an 2 weeks prior I never go on his fb page but I seen him an the girl on his page , I confronted him about it,it’s like he was leading me on things haven’t been the same since he work different days that I work i usually go on the days he work, now it’s hard for me to work , I find my self having an attitude, to be honest I think he kills my energy, I can’t work the shift he on so I decided to just stay away, work my own days an other days that he not working on

[@simonegrant417]

Wow, thank you. I thought I was going crazy. I think this guy was doing spells or something. He even came in my dream, but I am a God- fearing woman so I prayed and read the scriptures and it helped me alot

[@stephaniestanley8041]

It is an out of body and mind experience. You are adrift. Thank you for validating these feelings.

[@Golfer411]

I never had this issue until I met my twin flame, the energetic cord is so intense it feels impossible to shield it. I don’t consciously try to think of him, it’s just his energy inside me is so strong. I’ll try these tips because it’s taking my energy

[@hotties3v3n]

Are you ok? I'm feeling like this now.

[@mariatsimpridou201]

I have the same issue

[@lovewins3321]

​@@mariatsimpridou201same with me

[@southwestshinellc9325]

I have the same issue with my other half. I’m pretty good at stoping the mind (ego) thoughts when they start up about her but it is just overwhelming at times and really trying to use my soul to guide my life more. Video was helpful. Thank you ❤ 🙏🏼

[@madeleinepenalba]

This made me cry. I feel so understood by her.

[@ani-sv5fh]

The most effective way is turning to GOD, MOST MERCIFUL

[@lolareign5252]

Amen!

[@orangentage]

lol

[@Shanaevaz]

This true I realized that I felt drain an tired... I pull away an let time deal with people an focus on other things.

[@JasonHyde32]

I like your content. You are a real, grounded person. I think it's helpful to remind yourself that someone isn't good for you, but if you do that too much you are giving that person your energy as well. So, you have to be careful not to do that too much as well.

[@Krishanti]

Well said!

[@Adelina24244]

This is very insightful because I would repetitively remind myself how terrible he is to help me move on only for him to constantly be on my mind their is also stalking involve which destroyed my mental health as well. Time for a change 😊

[@Hindsight360]

I’m so grateful that I’ve found you! Thank you so very much. You’ve confirmed everything.💖

[@AniAnindita-6]

I needed this badly as I sobbed. Thank you

[@theresawilson3484]

Wow 😢 finally someone who understands. Thankyou so much, i cannot stop crying 😢😢😢. Love and Light ❤

[@Krishanti]

♥️💫🙏🏼

[@-Sun1111-]

Just went through a break up cuz i wasnt healthy myself and now i always worry whether she'll come back as it hasnt been long. I pray a lot she does but im making myself sick worrying and living in the delusion that she hasnt moved on

[@sadie6141]

Thank you I needed this today .. definitely a gift from the universe🎉

[@Krishanti]

♥️🙏🏼

[@heathergartman5119]

I was looking for this not for a romantic partner issues ..but for friends getting under my skin or coworkers comments.. when others expectations of us are different than our own no matter what the caliber of relationship it can cause the same problem.

[@Lisa-th9dg]

Just found you today, and I love this video. Thank you for helping and I will def be looking more into your program. Subscribed!!

[@Krishanti]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@lovegodmyself]

You're so right! It really helps!

[@sonyalewis8015]

Wow didn’t know my energy effect the other person, yes that’s terrible I think about him all day everyday 😢 but when I work on the shift with him , it kills my energy to the point I can’t work sn I’m not myself

[@karlasnyder645]

Jesus Christ thank you for this video!!!

[@Dimensimistis]

Love your content..! Im manifesting meeting you in person😀. Greetings from Bali

[@MS-lk1cn]

Such a good explanation. Thanks so much 🙏

[@jeevz3892]

❤️ From India thank you soo much, 🙏🏻❤️

[@Krishanti]

Thank you too!

[@topcat2033]

It's been 2 years, still think about him everyday 😭💔

[@simonasimona8626]

Awww

[@orangentage]

i hope you're in a better place now!

[@topcat2033]

@@orangentage Yes! Thank you. Never dated again though 😂

[@veselka.koleva]

@@topcat2033 you need love to heal ❤

[@hotties3v3n]

From God not a person.

[@libralove3075]

Thank you for sharing this information beautiful Queen

[@Krishanti]

You are so welcome 😊

[@divinefeminineiamastrongwo4377]

Thanks for the video

[@maria_lara111]

Ah! Found it.

[@Krishanti]

I am so glad you found it! I saw your message today and found the video and replied, but the reply isn't here - second time that happened, my apologies!

[@joyceprater4647]

Thank you 💖

[@Krishanti]

You are so welcome!

[@mathewstovell5167]

What about men? There are plenty of men going through the same thing as you women. I'm trying to get her of my mind, and all I ever hear in these talks and spells is "him, him, him". I even have to change rhymes and mantras mid-sentence that have been designed for women.

[@Krishanti]

I think the issue for me is I've been doing sessions for about 15 years now and have only had a couple of men come for help with this issue...they've all been women, so I only learned how to help women heal from this. I don't have the specific knowledge base yet to help men though I would LOVE to. There are some core concepts that relate to both men and women, but to effectively help men I need to know what they are specifically dealing with energetically. I so appreciate your feedback and will see if I can get more in insight into what will help guys in this area. I will make a video just for guys with some of the core principals that can apply to anyone regardless of gender. 🙏🏼

[@lizpedano1542]

It’s the same exact thing ... it’s spiritual and it’s the person’s soul... it has no gender

[@childofsheba3244]

Do you recommend anything when someone will is very strong and they constantly pulling energy out of your left eye??

[@Krishanti]

I would work hard on creating a shield to repel them from your field!

[@carolinekido6125]

This helped me thanx

[@innerworkpodcast9929]

Helpful

[@garrys152]

Hie.....new subscriber...Great video..... Just a question.... When the energy goes to the other person.... How that person feels...... Do they feel we are chasing them???? Thank you

[@Krishanti]

Hi! That's a good question...the other person may feel a heaviness or a sense of restriction that might make them back away or not want to engage. It's likely they won't know on a physical level, but they can certainly feel it on an energetic level and it might make them feel uncomfortable because they can't quite put their finger on what it is. I hope that makes sense!

[@sharibennett2071]

Meditate on what?

[@Krishanti]

Anything as long as it's not him!

[@hotties3v3n]

Please help me, I feel like I'm talking to my ex in MY body when I'm having internal dialog. He ends up knowing what I'm saying or thinking about when this happens. Please help, because I feel like he's still using/abusing me and I feel powerless.

[@uniqueone9970]

Can men apply this same concept?

[@Krishanti]

Yes!

[@marialord685]

Ty for this

[@sarahmay1402]

What happens when they only hold onto you energetically . Xx I’m really interested

[@Krishanti]

If you are able to do some cord cutting and then create a psychic shield (I made a video on that recently) it will create space and they will detach.

[@yousfiabdelali]

None of it works 😂 Hey maybe she is my soulmate 🤷🏻‍♂️