Kristin Cavallari Needs to STOP Giving Dating Advice

[@neverevenheardofit]

I'd guess at least 95% of people should not be giving dating advice

[@mtsEnrique]

That's not ridiculous to say when you consider divorce rates and illegitimate children.

[@louisbuzzi869]

Hi Brett.

[@louisbuzzi869]

I like the way Brett gives advice on things, she's a kid. Stop cursing Brett. It's masculine to swear, like spitting in public. Thumbs down.

[@madeinussr7551]

Nice one

[@edprado30305]

Nobody knows wtf they're doing. You have to figure things out on your own.

[@jeffreyjones1721]

This is her midlife crisis. She'll be through 4 marriages before she figures out, she's been the problem while changing her beliefs every other year

[@timeracer123]

I thought it was funny as she was trying to get him to comment on the podcast and then he says he wants kids (you're not the one). It was like oh you want to play this game? Are you sure?😂😂

[@562wiseguy]

She'll be crying a whole new tune when he dumps her in a few months.

[@kansashoneybadger7899]

Kristin could not survive the trauma of being the first wife of a successful NFL Quarterback: Jay Cutler. She and Jay even did some videos about their lives together and she seemed to be doing well. Apparently it actually was just "hell' inside that marriage. Slap forehead.

[@Cashhhhew]

@@kansashoneybadger7899I’m curious what you mean by this comment. Most NFL/professional athletes don’t hold down a single marriage because they have the highest rates of infidelity. It’s not all rainbows and butterflies to date/marry pretty much any celebrity it seems.

[@kansashoneybadger7899]

@@Cashhhhew Well, you could be right there, but Jay Cutler was hit with a very devastating health news (Type 1 diabetes). Don't know whether that happened before or after the break-up. They broadcast a reality show based on what they projected out to the audience was a happy marriage. Kristin had beautiful healthy kids, a husband who seemed kind and attentive, virtually all the money anyone could want. So we are talking of a situation without health or money stresses. The man is the father of her children, that warrants working very hard to keep the marriage together.

[@graftedworks]

Brett lowkey working “my husband” in as often as possible is legit adorable.

[@CarlosMartinez-du1cu]

I was going to to say exactly this

[@youareawesome5236]

Makes her even more smashable ay

[@tatianasouza2361]

I thought is was so wholesome. 💜

[@youareawesome5236]

Still worth a smash, despite her clinger mentality.

[@sujashapaul]

I was just about to comment something to this tune. It truly is so adorable ❤❤❤

[@LowkeyHundo]

I’ve had great chemistry with people whose values didn’t align with mine. Doesn’t matter how good the chemistry is, you’ve gotta have similar values.

[@haleytruslow7200]

Exactly.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

This is almost entirely why I am single right now, LOL!

[@newera478]

Over 70 % of men have conservative values and over 80 % of women have liberal values in western countries. Try getting them to pair up. 😅

[@LowkeyHundo]

@@newera478 which is exactly why I’m leaning towards becoming a passport bro😂

[@duncan8542]

Bros taking off their shirts just "vibing" together is called,,, gay.

[@tracy361361]

😂

[@bluephoenix53]

Gayest of the gay

[@mp5249]

💯 🎯

[@xploration1437]

Über gAy

[@BloodSweatandFears]

It’s at LEAST bi 😂

[@yukon065]

Those "Montana Bro" videos had Brokeback Mountain vibes.

[@rutabaga387]

My husband got married to me at 19 and now can focus more on his career because he doesn’t have to save energy at work to come home at do his own laundry and figure out what to eat for dinner. He has a stay at home wife who manages finances and makes sure he gets healthy meals everyday and keeps his home taken care of. So he can use all that energy on his goals at work. He also has a companion to bounce ideas off of and relationship security he doesn’t need to stress about finding or keeping a girlfriend. We aren’t “locked down” we are freed to grow and find ourselves with out all the extra stresses of single life. Some people think I’m crazy for getting married at 18 but now that I’m in my early twenties I feel like we caught the last chopper out of the nightmare dating scene.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Congrats. Whatever works for you.

[@PokrPro21]

Please remember to post here in 10 years when you're trying to juice him in divorce court 😊🥰

[@vaderkurt7848]

OK that's cool but that isn't everybody.

[@mickeypopa]

Well done, good for you!

[@zack6012]

When I was younger I thought I understood the mentality of not wanting to be "tied down" it made sense. Which I guess kind of does if you're in college want to move to a certain location afterward. After your college years that mentality doesn't make sense anymore. You should have marketability at that point and be able to go wherever you want for the most part. Being in a relationship shouldn't hinder anything. If you're in your mid 20s or older and someone says they don't want to be "tied down" that just means they either want to go sleep around or they don't see you as spouse material. Move on. This just another pro of having one person be the bread winner in the relationship. only 1 person has to worry about finding a job. Your careers won't cause your relationship to end

[@josintawaang8549]

I remembered having the conversation with my husband about how damaging the sleeping around & hook up culture for the soul. The brain would tell you to get the instant body pleasure, but in the long run it made you feel more miserable & lonely as a person.

[@PokrPro21]

I counter that by saying look at all of the miserable relationships and so-called marriages. Life is short, live it up. I have been sleeping around for 11 years. I've had countless women. It's quite hilarious hearing both men and women complain about the lack of sex in their relationships. I'll keep doing my thing. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[@hannahcampbell8196]

3:34 -- "Feelings and chemistry only gets you so far. Shared values and respect, that is how you build the long haul." That's the real truth!! Straight out of HS I started dating this boy who I had been OBSESSED with since MS. I had all the feelings for him and so desperately wanted it to work out. We did not have many shared values, especially where God was concerned. That hurt, but I'm so glad things worked out the way they did. Looking back it was only a 4 month relationship, but that's long time at 18 yrs old!! Anyway, I am now engaged to someone who is infinitely better for me in absolutely EVERY way! Someone who shares values with me, who I am incredibly attracted to, have chemistry with and feelings for, etc. I am beyond glad that I didn't do these serious things with that bf from 5 years ago. Don't fall for the lies of Kristin, she's going to wake up and feel so awful for the choices she is making and is so publicly supporting.

[@Blue-cq2hl]

All you have to do to know you shouldn't listen to her is watch her face and how exaggerated her face is when she says stuff. Lol Every time someone talks about sparks and chemistry and all is just someone I avoid. That is the type of person chasing dopamine highs or stuff like that.

[@jasono2139]

Lip syncing for TikTok videos is about as impressive as being the lead "air guitar player" in a band. This next generation is so talentless, it hurts.

[@EndertheWeek]

It's really getting topless for TikTok. The lip synching is just a lazy copy of the female TikTokkers, they literally could be doing anything . . . . as long as they are topless.

[@jasono2139]

@EndertheWeek it was moreso a general statement regarding most "TikTokers"... but you're correct! 😂 The "Boyz" could probably make a video of them opening pickle jars, shirtless, with no audio, and their audience of 12 year girls would watch it!

[@EndertheWeek]

@@jasono2139 Did you not see Brett's face change when the first topless man appeared? Human beings are not complicated - show them flesh and they start paying attention 😍

[@EndertheWeek]

@@jasono2139 Did you see Brett's face change when the first topless boy appeared? Human beings are very simple - flash the flesh to get the attention.

[@EndertheWeek]

@@jasono2139 Did you see Brett's face change when the first topless boy appeared?

[@OkMaRcOs11]

Im so sick and tired of hearing about this woman all because shes dating a hot young guy🙄they're acting like its never been done before, Its not revolutionary its annoying AF

[@harsh3948]

We get it, you’re jealous

[@dyricrothwell4254]

This is the party girl that couldn’t keep a man in high school n ran through the whole school she got with a ten year old younger guy that’s way more relevant to her to chase clout

[@FlappyBelly]

Dream girl does not equal a 37 year old who got pumped full of sauce by countless other men and raising his kids...

[@hH-qp9kx]

Thank you for making me this!

[@madilynsackett8466]

Hookup culture is not advantageous for anyone. If you're not ready for something serious don't pursue anything at all

[@jenniferthreatt8455]

You are a blessing and I hope the young women out there watch this and follow you!!

[@PiratePrincessYuki]

Rather than go out and try to make things happen why not try natural interactions. It’s how I met my husband.

[@Altharis44]

I dated a guy for 7 months, slept with him right away. The chemistry was on POINT and we would have so much fun together. As our relationship progressed, I realized in certain situation’s I was left in the dark BECAUSE our values and priorities were completely different.

[@PrimordialOracleOfManyWorlds]

very simple. quit social media like TikTok and its apps. experience real life. problem solved.

[@em-and-her-days]

you should make an episode on the whole conjoined twins thing going on. all of a sudden it’s gotten super popular on tik tok and the news!

[@MilliePeterson9579]

She said “my husband” Congrats on the wedding again I still need wedding dress pictures

[@rickjames4031]

I’m 28, together 5, married 3, 2 toddlers. I think I got some advice worthy. If you’re not married, never been married, no kids involved, opinions probably not worth it. Just like a sharp pencil vs a dull pencil, it’s easy to look sharp when you haven’t done any work.

[@rachelherbst6491]

Most relationships will crumble if you limit access to your body revealing who truly respects you and will wait or simply is lustful

[@DuncanClair]

People should have to pass an exam before they’re allowed to start a podcast.

[@eveemurcia]

I do want to say without being shot. Kristen isn’t giving advice, she’s only talking about herself and what she thinks. And I slept with my partner the first day, after a WONDERFUL date filled with talking about family, future, likes and dislikes. And I will admit, I was so mad at myself for sleeping with him only because I was worried of how he will see me afterwards. But at the end of it I got lucky with getting with an awesome person. Don’t regret a thing and to each their own. Be responsible and have fun in whatever that means to you.

[@BlendedBarbieDoll]

Just remember Kristin was the villain on Laguna Beach. She’s always been for herself lol No one should be taking her advice seriously lol

[@robertclark5874]

They have shared core values. Its called earning $ from growing social media followers

[@Bobbob-vb9df]

Ten dates ? I’m a guy and I don’t let women touch me for the first couple months it makes them crazy driving by your house n shit

[@rakastellar8955]

We slept with each other on the 4th date - we are engaged now (5+ years later) and getting married soon

[@jesselobsinger3325]

I have heard a lot of older people tell me to never get married. I’m 19 and basically engaged but I hear it often

[@coronavirus1896]

Just waiting for Brett’s wedding video ❤

[@Angelacarolinax.]

No man in their 20s who's childless is gonna want to settle down with a woman in her late 30s w/ 3 kids. If Kristen thinks the opposite she's needs a reality check bc this so sad 😭

[@samsunglg6671]

Your keen observation helps to steer your followers to the right path and that's incredible, the times we currently living in could change for the better. You're a true hero of our time, and thank you for your dedication. There's always a brighter day ahead.

[@rayparker9163]

I didn’t realize you got married recently. Congratulations on this wonderful new life you and your husband will be creating together.

[@superdoglover5676]

So a 37-year-old, divorced mom of three thinks she was making a highly-sought after guy 13 years her junior "wait?" The delusion of these women is off the charts.

[@madison_kr]

A supportive partner helps you reach you dreams. Jumping from person to person and having that drama all the time will hold you back. They have it backwards.

[@skshade6805]

12:17 you forgot gaming Brett

[@WorryDontAbout]

This woman is a real one with common sense and not woke. Ty

[@sukumuieywang8058]

The only thing I could think of when seeing the thirst trap dude is that he’s the singer of the song “Ram Ranch” or at the very least the subject matter

[@tubeyou8623]

In an apocalyptic event, I'll eat "Boyz" like these for breakfast.😂

[@lucyevergreen2778]

He’s having his fun & will drop her like a hot potato when he’s done. After she’ll be broken up about it but will put up a good face & pretend like it didn’t matter & that she’s living her best life bc that’s what “empowering” women now looks like

[@kaylapowell2793]

This whole story has the vibe of that episode of The Office where Toby talks about how he was in seminary but dropped out to hook up with his now ex wife 💀

[@Invertmini1212]

Honestly a divorced single mother is not a woman you want advice from... The fact she chose him shows how hollow and shallow her intentions are... She could choose a guy successful/intelligent etc easily... As a guy anytime I hooked up with a girl too soon and started dating it always faded regardless how good the chemistry and attraction was... Sex doesn't keep a long term relationship, shared values, and so many foundational things come before. Also being younger im sorry but id never date a mom that had a kid or even multiple... Like theres no way hes sticking around unless hes ready to man up and be a father to those kids too.

[@kkay6838]

I watched her first season of her reality show totally cavaliery and really enjoyed it. I highly respected her and her husband's decision to never put their kids on tv. Sad to see this side of her

[@LAWOODSTORIES]

She is losing her time with him because he makes her feel young. It's the problem with many single moms in their thirties or forties. Most of them love their kids but don't like to be moms. They often divorce or cheat for that reason to begin with. They think that their lives are over as a stay at home mom and are looking to feel young and reckless again. It's very sad and destructive. All of this is because we are living in a society that don't value women who are living their traditional role. Marriage is devalued, being a mom is devalued when its the most beautiful and hardest thing to be. So when women are in that role that is not for the weak, they imagine that they worth nothing and that they are missing out. Kristin is such a cliché. She just has the Peter Pan syndrome and I would not want to be in her place when he will leave and that reality will sink. You can't escape time.

[@DimeMindGang]

The irony of still talking about soul ties, in a time where everyone is still sleeping around with no care in the world 😂😂 everyone’s soul is lost

[@that_celtics_fan]

A couple weeks ago, brett was promoting promiscuity in marriage. SHE NEEDS TO STOP GIVING DATING/ RELATIONSHIP ADVICE. She doesn't know what traditional marriage is.

[@BelleEFlopp-nk5xe]

I accidentally hooked up with my husband on our first date. 🤔 I moved in a month later. I don’t recommend this because what we had/have is the exception, not the rule. We have an incredible marriage led by God, regardless of our previous sins.

[@MTASAHM]

This is terrible advice. She should’ve just said she wanted to have sex so she didn’t wait. My husband and I were virgins when we got married 5 kids and 17 years of marriage later... One of the best things about this is I don’t have to worry about where he’s been or been with. He saved something special just for me. It’s an honor not a burden.

[@afghanyeti]

Just dawned on me, you were saying my husband😁 congratulations Brett

[@hughmungus431]

You know, everyone acts like men are so sx obsessed but even look at Brett here and how excited she is to discuss these strangers sx lives like wimmin are 150% obsessed w sx more than men.

[@jayna1024]

Maybe if Kristin wants more children, she should, I don’t know, GET BACK TOGETHER with her HUSBAND and FATHER of her children. She should focus on reconciling her marriage instead of sleeping with men that are clearly not interested in settling down with her.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@thecaptaintaz420]

I gotta get my six pack back...😢

[@wronglyrightish4701]

lol Brett, you’re hilarious! Thanks for this, so entertaining

[@Wealth_Atlas]

Brett needs to cool it a bit on the whole influencer and famous people drama😂

[@MimosaRose]

I’m yelling at my phone right now, looking like a fool. The worst dating advice you can give is to say , “sure, sleep with someone ON THE FIRST DATE!”

[@EvilExcalibur]

Good grief, what a trainwreck

[@alphalima2004]

Heck yeah I’m sick and bored at home. Needed something to watch lol.

[@chrisgarcia6772]

The highlight of this video for me was Brett saying “boyzzz” multiple times. So those guys are not musicians? They’re literally grown men just lip syncing on Tik Tok?

[@russs7574]

Using Kristin Cavallari as your "go-to" source for dating advice would be like having Lizzo or Rosie O'Donnell as your "go-to" source for advice on diet and fitness.

[@Kay-rf3fp]

Never take advice from someone who is unsuccessful at it themselves.

[@Mike80528]

Pair bonding? No, no, no. That only occurs in animals, as has been shown in numerous species. But that isn't true with humans. We aren't, *gasp* , animals! /s (yeah, I absolutely needed the /s as way too many people think humans are not animals and are somehow completely separate from "nature")

[@mica4977]

Is that truly the advice she'd be comfortable letting her daughters take once they're old enough to date?

[@aimeemellott2600]

Brett is so cute ! You can tell she is newly married! She’s spinning her wedding band around on her finger! 🥰

[@Nomoreblahblah123-]

This is all very predatory behavior. Predatory.

[@charitycollins]

My husband and I married at 21, one of the worse advice I think people give is stuff like "it doesnt matter." My husband and I talked extensively on how we wanted to raise our kids, our values, and views on the world. We have 2 kids. I am a SAHM. Love every bit of our life together.

[@Chad0023]

Does that mean Stay At Home Mom ??

[@charitycollins]

@@Chad0023 Yes, it does.

[@ninakoch1799]

what do you mean by people say „it doesnt matter“?

[@jwyluvs]

​@@ninakoch1799 , when to have kids I think?

[@charitycollins]

@@ninakoch1799 people who say it doesn't matter when you sleep with them or it doesn't matter if they want kids and other values cause they'll "change their minds."

[@Deabeatdad]

Advice. Never date someone in a male tik tok group that have the word Boyz in it. Better yet just do better than tiktok celebrities

[@britneyt9253]

Let’s not call these tiktokers celebrities please, their heads are already so big.

[@Deabeatdad]

@britneyt9253 sorry. " celebrities "

[@maggiemay945]

best advice really

[@bunnyluv07]

Someone once told me "take out the sex and physical intimacy, and you'll know if this person really care about you." Be mindful and conscious about who you allow to have access to you and your body.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Which is why I tend to side with at least some period of abstinence. That includes even after consummating the relationship. There are times when sex and physical intimacy decrease or aren't even possible.

[@ralph8677]

A friend of mine just learned this the hard way. She "dated" a guy for about a month, slept with him on the 1st date & every date after. About a week ago, she told him after their date that "she wasn't in the mood". Now she's freaking out because he hasn't returned her texts or calls since.

[@lindseyfrazier3298]

THIS.

[@inwector]

yes, use sex as a weapon, what a perfect idea.

[@chembiz]

I've met guys who were "interested" and I mentioned I was abstinent and suddenly they were no longer interested. Rather be single than allow somebody to use me for their pleasure.

[@mangaas]

Taking dating advice from a divorced single mother - is like taking financial advice from a homeless person.

[@LydiaTallent-my5fo]

thats so true though!!

[@bluephoenix53]

I'll take this comment with a little seriousness but most cases of homelessness has nothing to do with the lack of procuring money.

[@HandsomeBlackMusle]

Well said

[@Moonlightmatchmaking]

I actually disagree. While I don’t think we should listen to this lady in particular, you could learn something about marriage from someone who has been divorced. The world isn’t that black and white

[@jasono2139]

...or Jim Cramer! 😂

[@meleebrawler6462]

Never take advice from celebrities who lack common sense.

[@bunnycamo8607]

Never take advice from celebrities.

[@nikitaj8745]

Reality Stars at that! 😂

[@cap3048]

Thanks for the correction. ​@@bunnycamo8607

[@BW022]

Never take dating or relationship advice from... 1. Divorced women, 2. Single women, 3. Single mothers, 4. Anyone on social media, 5. Anyone with money who is shielded from the consequences of their bad decisions. 6. Women with lots of sexual partners, etc. And so far... this woman has all of the above. If you have to, take advice from happily married men for what their wives did during dating to get them, or a happily married older family member.

[@nikitaj8745]

@@BW022 Well golly yes them too

[@Carey86]

If I knew someone that filmed TikTok’s where they are shirtless with their boyz & lip-syncing, I’d be so embarrassed for them & would have to mock the crap out of them, immediately!🤦🏼‍♀️ Also - he’s only 24 & she’s 37 with 3 kids. He doesn’t want to be an overnight step-Daddy, no guy does.

[@icymarcos5485]

He’s young and just having fun

[@ericchism4855]

People watch these things? This is why tiktok should be banned. 😂

[@lindseyfrazier3298]

yes. major ick LOL

[@nathang2465]

These dudes get so many girls though. That’s the culture we live in

[@Carey86]

@@icymarcos5485 I get that but still, ew. Lip-syncing while shirtless with the boyz? THATS what guys do nowadays for fun?!🤦🏼‍♀️😂

[@rodtb2]

"feels and chemistry" = LUST

[@shelleyroper588]

THIS

[@kc201310]

but i still absolutely positively will under no circumstance no matter what period ever marry someone I do not have sexual chemistry and feelings with, such a person is perfectly fine being a platonic friend

[@levansegnaro4637]

Aka they break all their own rules for chad

[@JandKDuo]

Don't take dating advice on how to have stable relationships from people who arent in stable relationships 😂 even then its their own experiences so only take whats applicable/sane

[@shanekeenaNYC]

Just because you can develop 848 acres of prime real estate into a high density mixed-use neighborhood doesn't mean you should.

[@tell-me-a-story-]

Having sex on the first date is literally the worse advice you can give anyone.

[@ashlynnleray5640]

Definitely!!

[@deanna6883]

How good does it feel to say, “my husband?” Congratulations! ❤

[@SCrEenNaMe-i9h]

She will be disloyal in the name of acting then she will justify it by saying it’s a job she’s a sell out

[@emmaleighmorris3647]

@@SCrEenNaMe-i9hHas she done this? If she hasn’t, it really isn’t fair to put the poor actions of other people in her industry on her.

[@Thefachusa]

​@@SCrEenNaMe-i9h lmao you're a sad troll commenting the same thing in every single one of her videos. Find something better to do with your time for your own sake.

[@that_celtics_fan]

​@emmaleighmorris3647 a couple weeks ago she was promoting infidelity in marriage. This isn't really that far of a stretch.

[@Thefachusa]

@@that_celtics_fan care to point out when exactly?

[@Mommybecca9804]

I feel so sorry for that woman's children. She's NOT being a good mom. I hope she gets it together soon, not just for her sake, but especially for her childrens sake.

[@Sunshineheart124]

What did she do?

[@Greekgal101]

Congratulations on your marriage you looked stunning

[@Noname11364]

Well, they do have shared values… sleeping on the first date.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

LOL!

[@jocelynnelson]

😂😂😂

[@M-ny4js]

He's 24 she's 30 plus with 3 kids. Please he's not sticking around

[@davidcox3076]

Suspect he's never taking off his running shoes while with her.

[@isabellesender]

She's 37, 13 years older....her kids must be so embarrassed.

[@kego581]

And why did she have to share her dating life with the internet ? It doesn’t do her any favours. It’s like she’s asking for criticism

[@stayroxy]

@@isabellesender what if the genders were reversed and it was a man dating 13 yrs younger ?

[@MrDernagon]

​@@stayroxythe age difference is less an issue than the 3 kids.

[@dreddy_g]

When a woman gives me **unsolicited** dating advice, I automatically ask how many women she has dated. I have yet to understand why they get offended. 🤔

[@Marie-Fey40]

😂😂

[@elizabethdunbar7160]

😅😅

[@BecketGrimm]

Well, they ARE women, I guess. Like, how how you what its like being an old person if you aren't yet?

[@miltain]

nice

[@mistybehaviours]

I give it a few months before she blast him on TikTok for cheating on her. It kinda reminds me of when Olivia Wilde started dating Harry styles, she was so happy with herself for getting a younger man, then before she knew it, they had broke up.

[@PokrPro21]

I guess Harry was at too many P. Diddy parties 🎉

[@GenXfrom75]

6:56 just because you CAN, doesn’t mean you SHOULD… it definitely doesn’t make it good for you! You will find the occasional success story of a relationship standing the test of time with very early sex, but those are few and far between. It’s rare that those pairings LAST!

[@HaileyEd]

Exactly. Nor does the ability to do something negate the consequences of what you're doing You are totally free to drink battery acid, but it doesn't mean you're free from the consequences of drinking battery acid.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

@@HaileyEd ROFLMFAO!

[@rievaulxlucienne1176]

Marriage is not good for you. Relationships should last a maximum of 3 years. Sex on the first date is not unhealthy.

[@BlueDauntless]

@@rievaulxlucienne1176You’re literally what’s wrong with the world.

[@GenXfrom75]

@@rievaulxlucienne1176 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jasono2139]

After I'm finished taking dating advice from her, I think I'm going to ask either Stacey Abrams or Chris Christie for advice on staying fit! 🤣

[@russs7574]

Well played. I made the same sort of comment, only I used Lizzo and Rosie O'Donnell as my "go-to" fitness gurus.

[@jasono2139]

@russs7574 also excellent sources for quality advice! 😂

[@BamBamBigelow..]

Jay Cutler made a good choice divorcing this woman. edit: Okay dude, your dating a divorced mom of 3

[@MajesticFerret]

Wait, this is Jay Culters ex wife? Dude who has thighs so big they need their own area code Jay Cutler?

[@jasono2139]

*you're

[@BamBamBigelow..]

@@MajesticFerret former QB for the Chicago Bears

[@EwanCumia]

Culter should have taken OJ's lead.

[@troyhts1]

I was just coming to say Jay Cutler dodged that bullet! 😂

[@Itslauraokay]

This is horrible advice why buy the cow if you could have the milk for free. Always better to wait. What matters is how someone treats you and shows up for you at the end of the day. “Chemistry” fades in and out throughout time and the course of the relationship/marriage. Some dudes like em older is he attracted to her probably but will he marry her probably not.

[@lynds5678]

3:32 “90% of couples who found the one slept together the first or second date” There is NO WAY. I guarantee a large percent of successful marriages are made up of couples who waited for marriage.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

She didn't cite her source for that claim. I dismissed it out of hand.

[@shabyheltay]

That means they've potentially slept with dozens and dozens of people each, before they slept with "the one".

[@Cashhhhew]

Her stat is wrong but yours is too. Generally couples that move in together at least a year prior to marriage have seen the best outcomes. There is nuance and balance. But no, waiting until marriage also doesn’t fair well statistically.

[@pamie3327]

@@Cashhhhewnope. Couples who move in together prior to marriage actually break up more. Couples who waited till marriage have more satisfying marriages. Look it up on google.

[@anniec81]

​@@Cashhhhew there was a study by Rosenfield & Roseler in 2028 that says that cohabitation does reduce the risk of divorce in 1st year but actually increases the risk after one year

[@LisaSpirito87]

looked up the Carnivore Bar, 6 bars for 95 DOLLARS. im sorry, that discount code doesn't help, thats almost $16 for a 400-calorie meat stick

[@evansmam]

So sweet hearing you say “husband”. Congratulations and welcome to the club!! My husband and I just celebrated our 31st year and I hope you and your man are blessed with just as many if not more!!!

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Congrats!

[@txx6274]

31 years?! congratulations! 🎉 that’s such a flex!!

[@cinssan3596]

I used to watch laguna beach back in the day. Kristin had a big ego back then and her costars fed her ego too. I guess she still craves attention. As a 39 year old mother, if i was to divorce tomorrow, my priority would not be to run and find a boy toy. My priority would be my children.

[@MBJean]

Yup, couldn’t stand her then, nothing has changed

[@colleenlam4505]

Brett, please be my friend. You don't know how relieved I am to know that there is someone who is my age (05' baby) and has their head screwed on right!

[@Dianacat501]

As an '07 baby I understand.

[@theprodigalson4003]

I had no idea she was so young what

[@theprodigalson4003]

I thought she was late 20s how is she giving me advice what

[@Sam-ut5tq]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@_adelinaaa_]

But Brett's a 01 baby, she's 22,going on 23😂.

[@M-ny4js]

Hold on this so called woman is 30 something, has 3 kids and divorced. Now dating a 24 yr old dude????? I'm not surprised she's talking the way she is. I feel bad for the kids. Can only imagine what their names are.

[@Typinggibbon]

Brayton, Dayton, and Trayton

[@MBJean]

Closer to 40 than 30, it’s creepy, but considering who she is I’m not surprised. She peaked in high school and will never mentally develop past that. Her kids are probably being raised by other people because she can’t be bothered to make the necessary sacrifices.

[@Sunshineheart124]

Wait. Why shouldn’t a 37 year old be “hanging out or talking with a guy?”

[@surlyGir]

Yes!!! I knew I wasn't alone. I thought I misheard her but no. I would like to know too.

[@karenf5240]

Right!! This girl is wild.

[@Sunshineheart124]

@@karenf5240 Re-listening to it again, it’s just even weirder to me. Like, are women supposed to just apologize for existing at this point? Good grief 😫

[@megl6148]

The age difference does not bother me. I met my husband who was 16 years older than me when I was younger than him. We’ve been married over a decade. Since being married to him I always notice other couples with age gaps and yes, there are lots of older women married to younger men and they’ve been married for decades. In the grand scheme of things 13 years is nothing.

[@Musicienne-DAB1995]

Agree. 18 and upwards is generally fine for marriage.

[@MrJumping89]

The thing that throws me off is she is 37 dating a guy who is 24 and she has a 12 year old son. Her age to him is nearly the same as his is to her kids.

[@isabellesender]

My mom married a man 15 years younger than he at 54. Yes, it lasted. However, now that she's 80, it's way too much of an age gap. He has no life and cares for an elderly woman. He is closer in age to me than her and people always assume he's my husband not hers. Annnnnd, he regrets not having his own kids now. Believe me, it's not optimum. It's a daydream.

[@vaderkurt7848]

​@@MrJumping89 So? The age gap is the least of their problems.

[@vaderkurt7848]

​@isabellesender Again so what? Marriage isn't what that person can do for me.

[@nikitaj8745]

I couldn't believe the headline Brett!!! SMH....The last person I'd take any kind of advice from. 🤦‍♀️

[@KaizenLegacy]

"I used to think you should make him wait ... and then I found lust!" The whole "it doesn't matter if the chemistry is there" is how girls end up with a string of short-term "situationships" and wondering "where have all the good men gone!?" or "why are guys so afraid to commit!?" later on. In my weekend gig, I see this situation quite often: a recently divorced woman in her mid- to late-30s has been frustrated and lonely for the last couple years as the divorce proceeded, goes out and wants to see she still "has it". She finds a hot (usually much younger) guy that is willing to help her with her frustration for a time. The butterflies fly, she feels like a teenager again, but then one of 2 realities hits: 1) He dips immmediately afterwards and never talks to her again (one night thing), or 2) After a period of time, one of them (usually the woman) realizes they are in 2 completely different places in their lives and things end poorly. If it was a 1-night thing, that same woman will be back the next weekend to do it all over again with a new guy. This appears to be the situation here. It is sad and unfortunate.

[@Dragonstalon1001]

Dudes in his 20's, Why in the hell would you want to play another Man's 'Saved Game' (Single Mom of 3)??? She already has a track record of LEAVING a Man who has given her more than she Deserves (1/2 of EVERYTHING he has worked his entire life for in the Divorce), that she will do the same thing to this Young Guy if he doesn't RUN NOW!!!

[@alanwilson3661]

Yes, Brett you are right. Foundational values are the base upon which a successful marriage should be built. Don't sleep together until after you are married.

[@butterfly-kb4cn]

The way people talk about not having any boundaries for themselves is crazy. The way society has allowed not holding any self values or morals in hookup culture and why there are so many stds and unwanted pregnancies,that leads to abortions. It’s just unreal how many people are out here giving this bad advice or just don’t care about themselves or the ones they are sleeping around with.