JEALOUSY in the Art Community

[@hopelvvivs8159]

Hi! Really like ur vids, but I just watched this video. You know, I have a 'friend' that always copies the artworks from internet and says that those are her ideas. Well, to be precise, I thought she was like that for only 3 years. As I told her the truth, she stopped showing off her works that she copied. I sometimes glanced at her works, and after that incident, she drew amazing... I thought that she had her own imagination then, since her art was really, like, REALLY amazing. I was proud of her. In some time, I got to find your channel, and it's nice. However, when I started seeing her artworks more, and she slowly began to show them off again, I realized that she copied like 75 percent of your work! It would've been ok if she gave some credit to you, but, she refered to it as completely her very own work... I trusted her. I can't anymore. I tried to change her, though it was too late. I'm really depressed knowing that she've been lying to me for the whole time, so now I don't want to be friends with her. But I just don't know how to say it. Because of her, I have trust issues now. I know hate is a strong word, but I do hate her. Ah, sorry for this long comment. Above all I really think you're drawing really nicely, and you're the person people would look up to.

[@LemiaCrescent]

This is pretty upsetting, thanks for telling me this. :( I'm sorry your friend acts this way and is so dishonest. I can understand her wanting to have people enjoy her work and think she made it, but to not give credit to the original artist is so....low? :( I dunno. If you ever run into her tell her I'm disappointed that she lies about her work. You can even tell her we had a conversation about it. ;) lol But seriously though, thank you for telling me this, you're very sweet and I'm glad you like my artwork.

[@hopelvvivs8159]

LemiaCrescent Thank you for the reply! :3

[@thick_ass_deer]

Man that sucks. Honestly my gf isn't very honest with me at all and she even tells me that. So I have trust issues as well and I also have a friend who not only copies, but he TRACES my art. My trust for people has gone down by 83%

[@orangesoda2387]

wow like u tried to help her but she didn't take what u sead that could of helped her a lot when I was young I did but someone told me on furry amino that it was stealing so I tried to make my onw I look at peoples art to help so now I'm getting better at art and u where a good friend trying to do that

[@bizzard6629]

I also have a "friend" just like that.. I try to tell her to stop copying from other artist's work, but, obviously she doesn't listen.

[@BayleeJae]

One of the things I quickly learned online is that it's better to be amicable to one another and support others in the community instead of being jealous and spiteful. We're all in this together, trying to build the success and credibility of the online art community, and we succeed as a group, not as individuals. Like you said, don't try to sink other people's boats. Being envious of other people's art is almost impossible to avoid, but being angry about it will only make things worse. We're a team!

[@BayleeJae]

It's like the saying "a rising tide lifts all boats."

[@HannahSnowArt]

Baylee Jae I wish everyone felt like this Baylee - I've come across so many spiteful people online that just seem bitter. And I love your channel btw! 💕

[@Saviroosje2]

This, exactly! Giving support and helping one another is something beautiful the internet gave us. I wish everyone could have that mindset, it is so important, not only for others but also for yourself. You will feel better, more inspired to get out there and draw + you can set more goals. Seeing the incredible works of others can help so much to get motivated and inspired which is very important in the creative world. Baylee you are also one of those amazing and supportive persons

[@HulloAlice]

YES. THIS!! It's easy to become envious of someone else but it's ridiculous to become mean or horrible to them. Just like... be a nice person and be friends with them and you'll probably learn a lot from that anyway. And do stuff at your own pace.

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

Beautifully said!

[@Johan-kl9lk]

Let me tell you a story when I was 12 I drew a dog my art teacher said "nice donkey" The end

[@thegreeniporcini7263]

I relate, i tried to draw the earth, but my art teacher thought i drew a piece of paper

[@secretninja247]

I understand you. I drew a picture of myself as a little baby *girl*. My teacher said, that's good, who's 'he'? XD In all fairness I looked like a boy as a baby haha

[@worm_-qx7rz]

I drew a goat and my brother said it was a horse why must I suffer so

[@alanamorse6882]

God made the furnace one time i drew a random dude and my mom was like oh is that you XD.

[@aquasnippy]

God made the furnace umm wtf 12 isn't even that young. wow you must be a bad artist

[@bizzard6629]

When I get jealous of someone's art, I just suffer in silence.

[@lunamcboss6504]

I do the same thing I think to myself "wow, what pretty art, he/she is way better than me" *curls up In corner*

[@paperairplaneo]

Same

[@XxFlamexX14]

Same for me

[@claireatkinson9375]

So do I.

[@Kaguya_04]

Same 👊

[@octoberkid6462]

I can really relate to this. I'm in 4th grade, and the only one in my class who could draw in a anime style. One girl who sits near me was looking at my drawing and it was a colored pencil drawing and said, " Eww what is that? A weird looking animal? " I ignored her and kept drawing. After 5 minutes of me ignoring her, she reached over to my desk area and took the paper and threw it in the trash. The teacher told me and her to come in at recess. She got in trouble. Karma, girl.

[@mabelsyrup6689]

I know this comment is dead, but may I praise you for having such good grammar for a 4th grader?

[@shi_overwatch1343]

When i was in 4th grade, that also happens to me. But its kinda rare, Just ignore the haters :D

[@misseclispe5766]

Or just tell that girl that you were drawing her, a weird looking animal.

[@kingninja1781]

Luna McBoss same

[@tbonetpm7961]

I had this “friend” who was drawing something that was really bad (but I didn’t say that to her) and the bully in our class ruined it and she cried. Best. Day. EVER! (I feel bad but she was a master manipulator and she bullied a lot of people). Karma is AWESOME

[@TsukikoKagimane]

When I see some poeple's pretty art on the internet I just have the sudden urge to draw something. I can't say that I really get jealous but I know that others poeple's work motivates me to draw more so that one day I can be as good at drawing than them. Throught time I learned to like my drawings even if after some time I can see their flaws, I know that I will never be fully satisfied of them , but if even after years I can still see the feelings and emotion I wanted to share in them , then I will be happy.

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

Oh I get that too! Except more in a aggressive way, I think "if I can just practice more MAYBE i can paint better than them!" than I actually get to practicing and realize it takes a bit of work hahaha.

[@TsukikoKagimane]

Well as the legend says "practice makes perfect" ,right ?

[@stramberrymilkyway]

That's exactly how I feel about Tracy Butler! X) Whenever I see her art, I just feel this rush of energy and motivation!

[@mannmedic5648]

Tessa Nicholson I feel the same way when I see very nice art, especially if it's in a style that I like. It's almost like this itch that won't go away, it hits a lot at school when I can't really draw too often, unfortunately.

[@cxssakura]

Same here. I always want to draw something after looking at artwork because it inspires me.

[@mistiqarts]

Oh wow someone finally speaks about this!

[@uninsoun9655]

Mistiqarts I love your videos!

[@madzizzle1697]

Mistiqarts, I know right! To be honest, I've never experienced this myself. Well, I mean, I've never really HATED someone because they had better art. I was always taught to kind of.. use those kinds of things as stepping stools to get better! :) Yes, I compare myself to other art, but only because I'm working hard to improve! That's what more people should be doing, rather than what she was talking about in the video. '3'

[@bombitza]

stepping stones + tools = stepping stools? :'D

[@its_a_poncho]

Mistiqarts dUDE IKR it makes me feel better

[@reisbob7786]

droppin that truth bomb

[@JuneArt]

This is a matter of maturity. Girls compete with each other, Women empower one another.

[@keys4784]

How mature are you if you just cry about how much of a failure you are?

[@oof4698]

June Art then what the fuck happens with men?

[@phloxxi7079]

FrostehZehDragon Somewhere in the middle. not a girl, not a women. an emotional teenager maybe.. honestly me.

[@YouJustGotAnimated]

What happens between all the other genders?

[@ChicaFan]

It's all genders who do this.

[@snipedpop2878]

this video inspired me to try harder

[@satanslick7257]

me 2

[@Shinigami344]

im i only one who isnt jealous of anyones art i draw and im proud, and when i see someone drawing better than me i feel inspired. no one draws the same everyone is special that is why no one should be jealous

[@elk3407]

andromeda I'm jealous of how much better other people's art is, but I use that to drive me to get better.

[@theviolentsilence]

andromeda your not alone... i feel this way too. i am proud of how my art turns out when i finish a piece...i feel inspired by you tubers or other ppl online to do challenges or try something new. i really enjoy art...no one is alone here.

[@lily-iu7qn]

Yea but if it's someone that's very close to my age or younger I'm just like ;-;

[@ZedShooters]

whenever i started drawing i was the best for my age but then in grade 5 i met someone that was really similur to me and i am veryyyyyy jealous i can't help my self im sooo used to being the BEST!

[@aimlessopossum]

Lucky, I hate everything I create. Got any tips or do I just feel like this because of depression?

[@DARITZ13]

This art teacher humiliated me infront of the whole class when I was in high school... I never failed her class and I always pass it with a 100 so when I was in Art 2 she stared to ignored me and when I was in Art 3 and I made a mural she told me it was a trash, a completely waste of materials and it came out horrible... She told the whole class that I am horrible as an Artist, that actually I am not an artist just cause I didnt have the same level as everyone else... She didnt want me at her classroom at all, she kicked me out of her class every time so After that I felt so horrible that I stoped drawing or making art but after all this years Im starting drawing again... I want to prove to that teacher what I can do so I'm in the process to sell my art which they arent selling.... But Im not going to give up now... Im gonna prove her IM AN ARTIST... (Srry for my bad english).... I hope I can prove her wrong... Sometimes I still bad about it, but its okay I guess.

[@deodate2995]

DARITZ13 GZZ Your teacher did not teach you, she abused you.

[@Pompom-xy3uu]

Reading this just makes me want to kill that teacher ;-;

[@misswastelandcandy9450]

hell yeah! you go gurl! you are an artist and don't let anyone tell you diffrent!!

[@dandylions3540]

Be an amazing artist! I know you can do it

[@vampbishie]

I'm having doubts this is true. Teachers can get fired for this.

[@snowwonder9814]

I have a twin brother, and he's just naturally really damn good. We used to draw all the time when we were small but he was always by far so much better than absolutely everyone, including me, and after years of this it got to the point where I just felt too horrible in comparison and gave up on drawing as a lost cause. Well, in 7th grade I started drawing again, determined this time not to be bothered, and to only use comparison as a means of improvement... and I just never stopped after that. 5 years later, and I've gotten way better than I though was possible for me. I'm still nothing like my brother's level (people often mistake his drawings for black and white photos), but I've learned that's ok.

[@drawernub4376]

SnowLeopard84 fangirl does your brother post on FB after drawings? coz I'm same as him talented without anyone teaching.

[@Craftsworldsocial]

lol I was the bitch friend. Not like literally but I used to be a super be douche (still kind of but I try to tone it down) cause I felt like I knew the people's techniques and how they could improve them, not taking into consideration that every person thinks/feels differently and basically not helping just hurting people's feelings- I actually hurt Lemi's feelings a lot and it's something I regret a lot. I think improvement or criticism really should only be given to specific people if you have a comfortable relationship where you can confidently discuss flaws about yourselves. Basically comparing your standings on one another is a game you don't wanna play cause no one wins. You can obviously have your own opinions on art but don't let that kill friendships before they start.

[@LemiaCrescent]

I agree with the last bit of this. Sometimes if you criticize someone too harshly before you know them, it creates this weird rift. I remember feeling like you must have hated me or my art or something when that happened. LOL But on the other hand, I'm very thankful you made that video response or else we may not have met. :) And since then I've learned to appreciate your personality and your blunt honesty. Also, having closure by talking about what happened really helps.

[@reesemunger7232]

Honestly ever since I found your channel I've wanted you to completely tear my art apart because I really love constructive criticism. Always have, even before I started drawing I would write constantly and ask my older sister how to make it better. But she's not an artist so I have no one to be brutally honest with my artwork.

[@BeadedMarshmallows]

H.C.Brown Criticism can be given at anytime as long as it's meant to be constructive, and it's not fueled by jealousy or meant to shut someone down.

[@Craftsworldsocial]

That's true, however I think telling someone whats wrong and then just leaving doesn't give the same effect as someone participating in a community where you know and trust them, the trust part is key. I've had a few people "freak out" on me and I basically never wanna critique anyone like that ever again.

[@BeadedMarshmallows]

H.C.Brown I see what you mean. I've never had to worry about that since I've always stuck to smaller, close-knit communities/websites.

[@ggardenghost5451]

I’d say I’m pretty jealous of artists my age and older. But I would never leave rude comments and bring the down. I like to try and learn from their art style (coloring, lighting, anatomy, etc) and I find it helpful. The more ways you learn to draw the better!

[@ZedShooters]

whenever i started drawing i was the best for my age but then in grade 5 i met someone that was really similur to me and i am veryyyyyy jealous i can't help my self im sooo used to being the BEST!

[@ac12304]

I would not be friends with bullies. I don' know why anyone would.

[@linziefey]

i'm sorry, i know this is an old comment that you probably forgot you made but; because you became friends before you found out they were a bully, and then you wouldn't immediately pull away because you have faith that they can do better, or because you're attached to them and are convinced that you can look past the fact that they're a bully coz if you ditched them over it then you're the bad guy for not standing by their side, because friendships are ''unconditional'' and if you just find a way to talk all your problems out everything will be okay. because so long as it's not on your head its "not your problem". because you're still young and young people and people in general make mistakes that they can learn from. idk man, plenty of reasons why someone would stick around a 'friend' or significant other who's a bully and they all suck but they're reasons :/

[@frokkyd4833]

Watch Sultan Sketches video about his school bullies.

[@judylwbidoov4195]

I did. It was nice.

[@ms.discord-gaminganimating6093]

When they become friends, usually they don’t know that they are a bully and are in this toxic friendship until one of them understands what’s going on or they part ways

[@simonj6801]

Sometimes you gotta choose between bad friends and no friends.

[@JellieBee]

That whole exercise of looking back at artwork you thought was unbelievably good is shockingly soothing. But I find anything with comparison, whilst it's natural, it's so toxic. I often compare myself to my idols and it saddens me that they're where I want to be, but I have to use that to fuel my passion and try as hard as I can. Jealousy never helps. If you find yourself comparing a lot, then just...delete that person from your life/feed etc. Unfollow, block etc. I've done this a couple of times because I can get stuck in a nasty cycle of self hatred.

[@pianobooks42]

Jellie Bee try looking at your flaws as potential. That means you will still get to feel that awesome rush of finally getting something! It means you will probably have way better art in a year than you do now! Also, watch will Terrell people sketching videos (I think I spelled it right) they were what changed the way I look at my art!

[@ginasartcorner5686]

I know that feeling. Here are so many amazing art idols and I only started doing speedpaints seriously like half a year but I sometimes feel like I will never get as much attention as the other great artists here, but I still love to support them and at the same time its like a big motivation to get better. And the most important thing is I´m doing what I love :)

[@laura987123]

It's so true comparing yourself to others is incredibly toxic. Appreciating and learning from other artists is a really great thing but when appreciation turns to jealousy or idolization it becomes a real problem that doesn't help anyone. We need to try and remember none of us are anything but human with real feeling and real struggles, this is especially true online where it's easy to forget the person behind the work.

[@ginasartcorner5686]

I realy like your last sentence its so true. Behind every art, video etc there is still a human being that puts all efforts, heart and soul in the work.

[@chickofmusic001]

Jellie Bee your art looks so good, someone like you must have a group of fans who looks up to your art.

[@artkaboozel9370]

Heh. When I'm jealous of someones art, I just tell them. "WHAT THE HECK??!! HOW DID YOU DO THAT? I'M JEALOUS!!! TEACH ME. TEEEEACH ME!! How did you get this to go like this and did you start with this? What supplies do you use? Do you start with the eyes or the nose? What is your technique for shading? And guess what? It actually helped me become a better artist and it helped them feel good about their art. The highest compliment you can give someone is learning from them because you look up to them.

[@siriusli5674]

Friends who have different art styles and teach each other on how to draw their own styles are the best friends. At the same time when you see someone draw something amazing from scratch without planning in half an hour is pretty discouraging - but then, knowing that you yourself is pretty good at something that they aren't also feels good. This is especially for a guy because we generally suck at drawing anything that is not blood and gore (me being a prime example), and when I tried to draw something anime-ish it looked like complete trash because I just can't get the anime-proportions right and the poses because they looked awkward to me. And now, I'm spending my spare time working on them. Hopefully, after learning from them on how to draw manga-ishn art, it might get better. Good friends are very, VERY important.

[@justronjay9226]

What quantum state was your pencil in when you drew this stroke? And how many molecules of graphite is that?

[@reisbob7786]

haha lol

[@screechowl1119]

ArtKaboozel ya that's what I do :)

[@ejmwhite6789]

ArtKaboozel same

[@kagomehigurashi5100]

My friends are jealous of my art. its really bad because im a freshman in highschool but people think that by ripping it up and throwing it away makes them feel better. my mind tells me not to bother but when i get home i go to my room and cry myself to sleep. i dont know how to solve this problem, please someone tell me!

[@DMCK2000]

Kagome is that you? XD Don't worry about those assholes, just remember that you are talented and with your passion and talent you can do anything! They're just upset and butthurt, because they don't have the talents that you have, and you being younger than them really makes them butthurt. Don't focus on those people, focus on your art and those people that will love and support you. I have gone through similar things regarding the game of football. I'm a sophomore right now, but last year when I was a freshmen during the football season (summer to fall), I had a terrible experience with my coach. He was degrading to me and always tried to put me down by saying things like, "Stop eating hamburgers" and "your too slow and big" even though my position warranted me to be a big guy. These things degraded my passion for football and almost lead me to quit the sport all together. A sport that I had played and loved since the third grade, was all of a sudden slipping from my hands. But I realized toward the end of the season that I need to stop dwelling on what that coach was telling me and instead focus on the future and improving my skills and hanging out with people that support me and want me to succeed. It's all about environment, hang out with people that want you to succeed and flourish, not to fail and decay. This quote from the anime series Gurren Lagann is exactly how you should apply yourself, "God gave us eyes at the front of our heads so we can look forward to the future." And one more thing... believe in the me that believes in you!

[@jlopez0231]

show you don't care or tell a trusted person

[@TheeRatMousey]

Kagome Higurashi NEVER RIP UP ART! Art is a memory in time of your progress! Save all your art in a folder for each year then label them the year the pictures were from. Tell the people who are jealous that they can draw like you with some help and practice! Do not insult them back, it'll only make it worse. Just let them know that they can do similar art like yours if they use their imagination, take notes on how to improve their art, and NEVER say "I can't". I can't = I won't.

[@candymani7958]

This what you should say: your idiotic ways are getting on my nerves and if you want ti draw just ask me to help you

[@SNICKRRDOODLES]

+ςħί ςħù TOTALLY AGREED! I never throw away art, its a memory of your past.

[@yucklets7007]

Me: My art us Trash My Friends: Dude that's so cool, I wish I could draw like that Me: da fuk

[@Grilled_Lemon]

Omg mee every day

[@xandelta5306]

Same lmfao

[@equosystic9526]

Yucklets omg thats me XD

[@malianasandy6393]

Me

[@lawfeysoon9340]

My friend always makes fun of my art even though hers is much worse then mine... I'm not saying she's bad but everyone who knows us will say that mine is better. I quite frankly think she is an ok person but is just for some reason jealous of my art. Mine isn't even that good...

[@wubbleballs2383]

@Galaxy Girl - Not past Christmas yet, sorry ^^'

[@peppermiia7052]

aww man

[@BewitchCraft]

This is definitely an important issue I think a lot of artists go through. I too have fought the green eyed monster that is jealousy. I'm 29, and seeing people younger who are so much further than I am artistically is difficult sometimes. Sometimes I feel like I'm running out of time to improve and getting no where, but we really all do have different paces and our destination is the same but the journey isn't. I admit to being bitter about people who I felt had a lower skill set being more successful too. It's hard. I've never gone out of my way to show them my saltiness, but I have scrolled and eyerolled and sighed. I just have to keep reminding myself, I do this for me, my happiness. It's not a competition, there is room enough for everyone in this community. To touch on your story, I went through something similar with a former friend. She was really unhappy where she was in her life and it came out in ways of being critical of others, insulting them, belittling them and being around her I became a lemming in a way. Agreeing with her, joining in on the cattiness, til I stopped and realized wait..I don't have an issue with these people, her bitterness is rubbing off on me and I'm being a person I don't like. There were lots more incidents of drama in this friendship and I kept coming back and she wouldn't change despite us having heart to hearts. It's important to realize when a friendship (or any relationship) is toxic. You should want to hang out with your friends and enjoy their company, not loathe it and if it can't be solved talking it out, its okay and healthy to step back from those relations. It's something that isn't easy, but in the long run its for the best of your sanity. Some people are unwilling to change their outlooks but when it starts affecting you on a personal level, its time to get out. I've been there, making excuses "Oh this person is just unhappy, maybe they need a friend" "Oh they've got ___ going on or ___ happened in their past." When do we stop? Some people like to guise this behavior under being "blunt" or "truthful". You can be honest and still have tact and consideration for other parties feelings. I feel like too many people in this world get away with poor behavior because no one wants to call them out on it because it's uncomfortable. Maybe you can't stop them or change their views, but you can opt to not participate or enable it further. Before you can help someone else, you have to help yourself.

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

Wow, you are an incredibly strong person! Thank you for sharing your experiences

[@Lifeonnmarz]

MacabreWeb oh my

[@Lifeonnmarz]

I feel ya... I've been through the same thing with my friends... but with them insulting me... it made me feel so bad... but I went on drawing and they didn't even improve though I have...

[@squirrelshine8033]

MacabreWeb oh my god your profile pic looks exactly like my cat

[@Nej17]

I'm in a very similar situation with a friend of mine, almost exactly as you described. Glad to know I'm not alone.

[@Saviroosje2]

Oh my bless for this video! These kinds of attitudes are so ruining the "artsy" world. I have gotten a lot of comments like "u suck, this sucks, this is too big, this is ugly" in the past, which doesn't say constructive what I could do to improve it, but only taking it down. It makes me and other artists feel horrible and it is just mean to be like that. Just what you said Lemia, adore the artist and not be jealous. See them as inspiration, instead of "bad people". My my the world would have been so much better. On the other hand, I DO know so many great, sweet and kind artists / people who are always leaving support and are nice, which results in me being nice, taking a look at their artwork and also leave support, which results in a more happier place in which we all are inspiring each other and supporting each other. I still cannot believe that there are so many people out there, looking through someones art and just leaving nasty comments, just out of jealousy. Just get out there and try to get better instead of taking out your hatred towards others because you think they are "better" than you or you feel like "you deserve" it more.All those people worked hard to get where they are now. But still, this is the internet, but I am so glad you made this video Lemia, this is truly inspiring and a very good topic to talk about because it happens to so many artists which is so sad. Also to the comment of Baylee Jay; support is the best thing you can give to an artist + the will also take notice in your art and then you are together in that! Anyways, great video Lem

[@Saviroosje2]

Awh Tsiih

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

Argh! Some people can be really cruel! The internet can be a difficult place, especially with creative communities but aside from that I am really sorry that you had to go through that, no one deserves that feeling! Sending positive vibes your way! [Also I love your art XD]

[@JonnieM27]

This Couldn't have came at a better time :/ Lemi you are such an amazing human :)

[@Egg_thing]

I don't understand how can someone be that shitty to take people down just cause they had more practice, tried harder, did something longer and eventually got better. I understand the jealousy. I get jealous a lot about begginer artist getting a shit load of copics, some super duper art supplies andgreat tablets. I get jealous of people being the same age as me or younger and making so much better art that me. But I would NEVER go and shit on that people for being better orhaving better supplies. Of course I feel doown sometimes, but I try to be better myself instead of making them worse.

[@roskichan3001]

SakurakoO.O I do opposite and tell them to be the best while I my self going to quit

[@wubbleballs2383]

I sometimes get just a _little_ jealous of other people's art, and I would never say anything mean or strange about it. I get how some develop faster than others, but to shame people for such an idiotic reason isn't right in the slightest, ever.

[@wubbleballs2383]

Also this is 6 months late so... Who's already in the Christmas spirit?

[@ghost_shivers5276]

Same i feel jealous too and I mean we all do right? but still I would never say ew your so bad because I'm just jelly...

[@lunarly8612]

The problem I have with art isn't jealousy, but I give artwork to my friends as a gift. And sometimes when I give them art they tell people they drew it. ;-; P.S I loveeeee you lemiaaaaa Lol

[@noticemealicepieplez1048]

Emilayy Markz just sign ur name than they cants claim its there work

[@AinmekoSaraijn]

Yea i had that happen to me as well.

[@jeremybiggerstaff8344]

do what Sugga Shope and NOTICEMEALICEPIE plez but make sure to use sharpie

[@meepbeep2464]

Stop being friends with them you deserve better Having no friends is better than having toxic ones Show other people that you drew it and not your friends

[@sophiayamagughi]

Drop em. They arent friends.

[@TopHatTabby]

This is a topic that I struggle with a lot honestly. Just because my brain can think some horrible nasty things similar to your friend. Except the way I try to cope with it, is to try an analyse why their art is successful. Is it because they colour most of the pictures? Do they have a theme going on which they're credible to? Is it because they ARE a big member of the art community and help others, so they receive help in return? Then do some self reflection. Another really good way to improve on your artwork, is to collect others' artwork you're jealous of, and try to use a technique that they used. Even if it doesn't work out the first couple of times, you are improving plenty of things, such as your control over your hand! But most importantly, its always good to look back and see how far you've come. When I look back at artwork I've made, a year ago, or even a month ago, and can see ALL THOSE FLAWS. It makes me happy. It means Ive actually learnt something. Just keep drawing, and in time, you'll get better. Thats what I had to tell myself, over and over and over again. I still do all the time. Sorry for rambling. GOOD LUCK!!!

[@andreasmith1259]

I have those times where I hate my artwork. But I don't feel jealous, I admire others artist artwork. Their art inspires me to make art. I remember people being jealous of my drawing in high school. Many kids being jealous assholes. Practice more. Now I admire skills, practice more and avoid being a Troll. Nice topic, Lemi. I don't like to read jealous, bickering comments.

[@Saviroosje2]

I just don't understand why people think they have the right to be so mean, only because others have talent. It's good to have the mindset you have now! Support and admiring skills and practice is the most important thing to do!

[@kijiart2813]

Ha! Sorry to break topic a bit (kind of? idk), but I was ganged up on in the school playground when I was in second grade because a little brat was jealous of my drawing in art class. She told me "special ed kids can't be that good". She had four or five friends with her and it was funny. All I did was poke one's chest hard enough to push her back from cornering me and high-tailed it. Yet I was the one who got suspended. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Back to the topic: I'm glad you see it like that. There are too many people who don't. Some need a reality check, some are just like that and will never change. But having a strong community helps that. I think that the internet, in general, has done such an immense service to artists and creatives, period.

[@keys4784]

Oh, I just draw something and I am like "aww, that looks kinda cute!" then I look at somebody else's art and I am like "I want to be like them one day!" then I learn that they're younger than I am and then end up feeling like a piece of shit. I used to try to pursue art as a career, but I accepted at this point I will only ever be a hobbyist. I am way too behind compared to other people of my age group. Yay! Low self-esteem ;-;

[@Mehhhhhhhh]

same, I've never been jealous or envious of any artist better than me. I admit I do feel sad but it motives me more. bittersweet I guess.

[@keys4784]

I know what you're saying, and that is really nice! Thank you, it's nice to hear positivity, but no matter how hard I try or what I do, I just won't be good enough. I have been improving over the years, I just improve too slowly, and I can only draw little cartoony cats and abominations. Also, feeling good about yourself is easier said than done. It's kinda like depression, you can't just "get over it" in the matter of minutes? I will probably have to google that some other day. Also age does matter, I am 16 years old and college is 2 years away. I just won't be good enough by then to get in. Also if you saw my shitty art you would know that I behind. I am slow, some people are just born with a "natural affinity to art" or some kind of black magic, but I'm not. The internet never really beat me down either, I find it quite useful for critiques and reference images for anatomy. Also I know nobody can fix me, I've always been wrong. :T I'm sorry, I probably wasted your time. I say also too much. Sorry.

[@laura987123]

Great video. It's so important to note that what ends up online is usually the best of our work, we don't normally show our messy practice pages in sketchbooks and failed pieces because let's face it not many of us are really interested in seeing it. I was actually chatting with a friend a while back and I mentioned I really liked a painting she did for her sister she mentioned she liked my art on Facebook and after a pause kind of passive aggressively stated "it's nice that everything always turns out for you I wish my art always turned out", I was pretty taken aback by this and told her I only post the things that work out lot's of the work I do is sketches and practice that isn't valuable to anyone but myself, lot's of pieces just don't turn out and end up in the recycle bin. She was really surprised by this and we ended up having a good talk about how you can't just expect to be amazing at something it takes practice and loads of failures. What you see online is only a small part of a much bigger picture, I think deep down we all know this but it's easy to ignore when we're not confident in ourselves and it makes it so easy to lash out at others especially online when all you see is "perfection" and not the complete human being who you probably have more in common with than you think, if you choose to reach our with kindness and encouragement rather than pettiness and jealousy. Who knows you may actually end up being able to share tips and tricks and help each other to grow and improve.

[@lizandellelewis8941]

I feel bad for Suzy, it's not like she can help that she's good at art

[@louise4152]

when I'm jealous: VERY young me: "No! mine is way better" present me: "Holy mother of seven teach me your ways I can pay you my dog"

[@mariakutsu5946]

tbh, I did feel jealous towards artists who do seem they have it better but after I moved on to other likes,styles and tried out other stuff, I seem to find being jealous towards those artists as a waste of time. I just remembered that I liked to draw because I wanted to find some fun. I just wished I handled my jealousy a bit better. now I feel that I've lost a lot of friends because I lost myself from that attitude. I still do feel jealous towards other artists but I concentrate on the good stuff like junk food and video games and cartoons so I don't always feel too bad. and also try to practice more. something I hope I will do soon Pfft

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

I completely understand how you feel! Thank you for being brave and sharing it :) [Also icecream addict here, every time i draw i gotta have a scoop of icecream haha]

[@cajapey]

I love your art style so much! Your characters have so much life to them.

[@Snowy_Weather]

I deal with jealousy a lot. From my side, that is. I never go as far as bullying though, I would never do that. It mostly just makes me feel like cr*p and makes me want to give up on drawing, which is bad of course. But I always manage to somehow not give up on my art, no matter how bad I think it is. ^^

[@maxela724]

Snowy-snow actually same fam. When I see some artist just draw beautifully I get discouraged and sad. I would just try to draw and draw until my mind is blank. I also think bullying them is a bit too hard. But lately I've been finding other artist that made me inspired. I ussually go to them since I don't feel like I'm competiting. They're like not what style I would go for but what they tell is just helpful. They motivate me to draw something I never thought of drawing.

[@miglelipinskaite8474]

Snowy-snow Same

[@kchio_]

When I get jealous of someone's art, I either work hard to become as good as them or I aggressively compliment them (something like "YOUR ART IS BETTER THAN MINE AND I'M MAD FSDHFRDJKHS" or something like that XD) I'd never hate on something I love.

[@flatboyman3788]

Snowy-snow SAME

[@Lady_of_Winds]

The actually interesting fact is: My idols hate their art and want to be like THEIR idols. I hate my art and want to be like my idols. Some people told me that when they see my stuff they hate their art and want to draw like I do. It'a a vicious cycle of jealousy!

[@ottergod4968]

Here is how to make art you saw on the internet WITHOUT tracing or stealing! 1-Make Art 2-Post it on the internet. CONGRATS YOU MADE ART YOU SAW ON THE INTERNET

[@imasian2030]

Poisonite doesnt make anysense

[@drteddy2609]

@@imasian2030 I know it's an old comment. But, the point is.... You saw your own art on the internet, because you posed it there. I don't know how else to explain.

[@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307]

But what if no one sees it?

[@lucassantossj]

@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Top 10 philosophy questions.

[@fairyjuggalo8368]

1. Put the picture someone or look from phone 2. Draw it, its not tracing :)

[@nothanks1239]

I used to be good at art. Like, I was a complete natural at it (for my age) and it was the main thing that gained me lots of compliments. When I was 8 someone in the family told me it was a foolish thing to waste my time on and I wouldn't be successful at anything if I didn't spend that time on something more 'meaningful'. It totally broke me and I stopped drawing. I am now 31 and I still look at other people's art with a strong desire to do the same. I recently tried to draw, but it's exactly how I left it; an 8 year olds art work. I'm going to start training myself to draw again and hopefully I'll find some happiness in it again. Never let anyone dictate your talents.

[@Lady_of_Winds]

I am rooting for you! You can do it! ❤

[@nothanks1239]

@@Lady_of_Winds Aw, thank you :) I've been drawing everyday this past month and have improved a lot. Still a very long way to go, but the main thing is that I'm enjoying it.

[@looneymooney6673]

Gemma Whatley I had a half cousin in my family who told me one day while drawing I should get a real job instead of “sitting on my butt, drawing and doing nothing,” which hurt my feelings a lot but I just ignored it. I’m currently 18 and I’m still drawing (I plan on making it my career soon) and I’m still practicing.

[@looneymooney6673]

Gemma Whatley I’m also rooting for you too!! You can do it✊🏼✊🏼💗

[@berryzem]

Good topic, good topic Lemi! ^.^/ I remember being incredibly insecure my first couple of years on DeviantArt. It was the first time I'd experienced the world of artists beyond my small real-life social circle (and the friend[s] that did draw gave up on it so I was pretty much on my own). I didn't post hateful comments, but I did keep saying to myself, "I'll never be as good as ______ artist." It was really painful and, honestly, unproductive. And you'll see the first year or two in my gallery things didn't change much but sure enough, along the way I decided not to give up. The lesson I am taking from this is, "Someone else doing better does not deplete *you* or take *your* value away." I think the actions those people took said a lot more about them than we'll ever know about Suzy. One of the few regrets I have is when I felt like I would never reach the level of the artists I admired, I didn't take action. I would wallow and do exactly the opposite of what I could have done to make myself better and hone my skills. I would start a bunch of pieces but I wouldn't finish them. I would procrastinate or watch tutorials but not take the time to practice with them. It quickly becomes a vicious cycle.

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

Wow gosh! I remember my first couple of years on DeviantArt, the apparent time when "DeviantArt was dying" and even then it was pure horror! True there are friends to be made and brilliant people in general but a lot of the artists on there seem to be very abrupt and quick to judge! Perhaps I was unlucky but that made me swim in a sea of a thought that never ended. It was "If I paint again, I'll loose it" So I very rarely did art if ever and when I did I was scared that I'd loose this so called "talent" or "gift". It wasn't long til' I found others in a more diligent situation and began to see that it was not the way to go about art! Thank you for sharing your experience, it takes a lot!

[@berryzem]

I think I was lucky because I joined groups from a few smaller fandoms so people were just ecstatic to see fanart in general. I think because Deviant welcomes artists ranging from the beginner hobbyist to professionals, lots of art of all qualities is thrown out there. It's in human nature to compare yourself to others too and a lot of people's feelings end up getting hurt along the way because instead of channeling that frustration into work, they turned it into flame wars and insults. I'm glad to hear you found a better group of people. It does take some digging, indeed. Thank you for sharing too. ^^

[@anna-eq4kx]

One or two years ago I often felt jealous and I felt like my art is horrible. Well, I still think that some of my art is horrible. But then I just laugh about it and write something funny next to it. Just practise and don't feel pressured to draw something that's perfect.

[@pianobooks42]

Caskadanna try looking at old art and seeing your improvement. Also, look at the flaws as potential. You can be honest with yourself without feeling bad 😊 have fun on your journey!

[@sherlyncarpinteyro8841]

Nico Nico Nii I do the same thing lol

[@HannahSnowArt]

Great topic to make a video on! I let go of my jealousy for other people's art a long time ago. You have to do it, otherwise it just consumes you. I realized practice is the only way you can improve, and taking influence from people's work is a lot more helpful than hating them for it! Envy is an easy trap to fall into but you've got to remember the grass is always greener on the other side (sorry for the rant hah!)

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

Goshdarn yes!! It eats you up whole like a monster but in the end it's like you become the monster! To be better at something one must first realize their own mistakes before judging others. [Sometimes I think it's fake grass, it never dies hahahaha // sorry that was a bad joke //]

[@eeveelucky]

I do not mean to sound rude at all, but I have a small critique. this drawing is really well done (how do you use sharpies so well wow!) but I would work on your color palette a little more. like color theory and all that? bc there is so many colors going on in this piece that just don't mesh really well in my opinion. keep up the good work!! :)

[@ameliawinchester1784]

Pickle Berry I was thinking the same thing. Its not very balance and clashes too much making it hard on the eyes just a little bit. I adore her style but there is too much color going on lol

[@fayettevillain1171]

The issue with the drawing is the ridiculously thin neck and tiny shoulders, not the colors. I prefer her realist artwork, it's simply astounding. The problem is that her body is child sized. The contrasting colors are intentional.

[@parsley6080]

All for the Animals XD you call that neck ridiculously small,but then When you see my way of drawing necks,it'll look like an ant

[@ariryan8832]

I agree. I wanted to say something, but I was worried that anything I would say would sound mean. This is a well-written and helpful criticism. I do like the piece, but a little look at colour theory would make it that much better. :D

[@shoiyoshi6040]

All for the Animals there's body types with small shoulders and not all necks are giant

[@spicy.scribz]

"Let's call her Suzy" THATS ME!

[@xx_julia_xx-_-9658]

wat

[@pikitat]

I had this friend who was incredibly jealous and wanted to draw exactly like me and it got really awkward whenever we had sleepovers, because I was always drawing and coloring my drawings and she was just there like, "OMG I WISH I DREW LIKE YOU UGHHHH". I eventually stopped hanging out with her because it made me really uncomfortable.

[@pikitat]

Jeez, that sucks. I've never met anyone who was really rude but I did have a best friend who my mom had pushed me to meet in second grade who began copying my art and style out of jealousy. We just grew apart eventually (I did confront her in fifth grade for copying a drawing I had made that I really loved) because she started dating people. (We were like, 10, so I thought it was so dumb or them to be 'dating' or having 'boyfriends'.)

[@Swoot]

Bøxy's Corner You drew at a sleepover, while also knowing that your friend couldn't draw well? I find that to be incredibly rude, as both friends should be doing something they can both have fun and do well, especially at a sleep over. You also stopped hanging out with her because she made you feel awkward. Also, just because someone says the wish they could draw like you, doesn't mean they're jealous. Unless they really start putting you down and trying to make you fuck up, I wouldn't say they're jealous. To be honest, if I were her and I saw this, I would've cut all ties with you. Edit: Also, you said something about someone copying your art and style. I'm pretty sure in art, copying is a form of flatter. This person thinks you're a good enough artist, and think you make great art, so they try copying you.

[@pikitat]

I never intended to be rude, and she was the one who suggested we draw. And I liked drawing, and so did she, so we both drew. And we have cut all ties. We haven't spoken since sometime before fifth grade because we grew apart. (I don't remember exactly which grade she was in.) And yes, I do understand that copying is a form of flattery and I do respect that, I think it's very nice that someone wished they could draw like me. I do take that as a compliment. But because she thought she got away with copying my art style and even my favorite piece of art at the time, she went on to start copying other people's art. I remember seeing a drawing that was copied from one of an animator's DeviantArts and we had a project in our challenge classes (in regular classes, the gifted and non gifted kids were mixed, so challenge class was like the class where the advanced kids went on day every week) where we could try to draw a poster for our fundraiser to raise money to help the elephants (I think it was elephants at the zoo but I'm not entirely sure) and she literally copied an entire picture offline. And it was one someone had drew. But once again, I did not intend for this to be rude. And that wasn't actually really the reason I cut ties with her. It was pretty much because we just grew apart and didn't really talk anymore. It did make me feel sort of awkward, and I know I should've included this, so whenever I felt kind of awkward, I'd usually compliment her and suggest we do something different like maybe write a story together or play with stuffed animals or Littlest Pet Shops. Sorry I came off as rude. I try my hardest not to.

[@jemmy1474]

@Trash Can Not everyone takes copying as flattering ok? If someone copies a project you did and gets credit, how would you feel? Just like in the real world, copying in the art world is not always taken as "Wow how flattering." Don't really think you should tell other people how to feel about someone copying them.

[@pikitat]

I agree with Jemmy, there are instances where it is flattering but in the form I was talking about with the friend who copied my art style, everyone thought it was her art, even the pieces she stole from various artists online. (I've seen her copying and tracing art before.)

[@epicerikatv]

The art jealousy is so real, I'm gonna pour my little heart out on this one since you said to leave some experiences. I've really only had it happen to me once personally (so far). About a year ago I had hit a spot in my life where I wasn't inspired to draw anything at all. I was pretty depressed, my art didn't come out how I wanted it to when I would draw. I knew I wasn't a terrible artist but I guess I just felt like I could be improving a lot more. It was frustrating. My boyfriend would talk about this girl he went to school with and how she started selling her paintings and how they were realllly good. He showed me pictures of her paintings and DUDE it was literally like she just dumped paint all over the place and then smeared it. I know that's a style and everything! But I got so mad cause I felt like what she did was so simple and she was making money off it too. Meanwhile I was struggling to shade, draw decent anatomy while getting very little recognition from anyone that wasn't my close friends. I STILL struggle with those things but the more and more I practice it, the better I get, it's been a process. (I don't go more than two or three days at a time without drawing something right now, I was drawing everyday but was getting a little overwhelmed so I toned it down a bit) In the back of my head I was hoping people talked about my art like that.. I would never take my art jealously out on another artist though. I eventually just learned to deal with it (mostly with red paint haha). I still get a little envious over some things I come across on the internet but I know those people didn't become excellent at art overnight. I release the pent up energy in my "angry art" which mostly consists of red paint, red ink or in general something red and bloody or gorey. Something about that red paint makes me forget about whatever made me angry or feel troubled. :) Anyways, there was a light at the end of the tunnel. 4 months ago I took up a whole new medium of art called pixel art and totally found what I'm good at. I still love drawing things by hand and painting but the pixels have consumed my artistic life.. kinda obsessed with them. I've been getting a lot better, I think this might have been my calling. It makes me happy though so that's all that matters. Plus for the first time in a long time I've been getting so much recognition for my pixel art on my blog and it makes me so happy. I look forward to everyone's comments and I did my first art commission last month!! That was a huge step for me. I couldn't believe someone would actually pay me for my art! Made my whole fucking year. Well just wanted to end this novel of a comment with telling you I loved the video and your drawing in here was amazing! Happy artisting!

[@epicerikatv]

Sterlingsilver that's a really good idea!! Yeah normally when I'm frustrated or sad art seems to serve me as therapy. it's really nice!

[@KittyFAN13]

Erika Terrestrial Your reaction to that girls artwork is totally justifiable tbh.

[@mismamisma5371]

Erika Terrestrial PREACH 🙏😄

[@kichanelle9667]

Erika Terrestrial Drawing anime was my life but I draw cartoons but I sucked SO HARD I bet someone could draw better than me. So smh but I trusted myself and smiled and said this,"whatever someone appreciates it!" I have zero self esteem, and my love for Pokemon and Attack on Titan(not really). I felt kinda happy about my art.....ON A TABLET AND IBIS PAINT. With a pen and paper....Stand up Crap!!!! Smh I can't literally, and I was teased for "bad anime ideas". Like I watch, Dragon Maid,Fairy Tail, and Pokemon. (But I don't watch the REALLY OLD series) So yeah,I can't really be successful, if I don't suck! I know that I'm good that online that I can do it. I was a little jelly of some arts and I STILL am...... But.... I believe that there NO TIME to be jelly! And even school is coming! So yeah don't be jelly guys! Bye~ From, A pup named Brooklyn🐶🍨

[@madgamermadi2676]

I love your artwork and it really pushes me to be like you someday as I love anything you create! Keep up the good work and I would love to hear more of you stories and I can relate to them.

[@IndieTheArchivist]

MadGamerMadi lol this is a year-old comment but still, I read anything as annoying lol

[@mimsilvernote]

I agree with the comments part but there can be other reasons , I certainly had a different reason for a similar attitude There was this old friend of mine, she betrayed me and my other friends and we were so upset. I started thinking " She in no way deserves to be this popular! She hurt me so she needs to feel hurt back! " and " why do people love her?! If they find out what she did everything would be ok!" But as I matured and some of my friends became depressed or would cut themselves I'd think " I shouldn't of thought like that, but at least it was only thoughts not actions, I'd hate myself if I gave her depression or caused her to commit suicide " . Both me and that friend have moved on from that experience but won't become friends again, she hasn't apologised for it but I don't expect it. It's in her personality to not apologise and mine to not trust her. But she isn't causing anymore harm, and that's all I wanted through the experience

[@eliannevdlinden6047]

I had the exact same! But I just tried to ignore her or became passive agressive, didn't solve it but I couldn't stand her

[@xxgalaxynightmarexx5965]

My friends on this drawing website were bullying me because my drawing was terrible but better than there's. The funny part was they didn't know that it was me. But I don't care cause I have this drawing channel and Learn2drawmanga cheer me up. 😊

[@lionwulfgaming7850]

Xx Galaxy Nightmare xX tell them it's you, and to fix their shit.

[@ena_ina]

I'll be completely honest, I once came across a girl my age who drew like really good, I was really disappointed and confused with my art at the time and how it could be like hers, kept saying to myself.. that they can't be that age. I got jealous but instead of taking it out on the artist, I kept it to myself knowing that'll get there sometime but she'll always be better then me no matter what. This happens to me a lot, it really puts me down to know that people my age can be really good like Picasso, when I'm stuck in the.. cartoon section. I know it is better to take points from their art, and admire their art, but it sometimes puts me down to know that i'm not good, looking at their art and then looking at mine I just think I could be better at that age, and saying maybe improvement isn't really working for me. But I'm trying to tone that side of me down, and be more positive about artists my age and not be so.. ignorant.

[@yungin1114]

So I've been drawing since I was like 4. I've ALWAYS loved to draw. My parents say I was born with it. So, I started to draw anime around the 3rd grade cuz I was in love with the anime: Inuyasha, so it inspired me to draw. Anyway, I met a girl who loved anime too. This was like the 5th grade. So we decided to draw together. To learn together. Okay so not to make it out like I'm some Picasso or some amazing art god but i did have some more practice than her which resulted in "Better art." I guess. She never insulted me, but I could feel that it was a competition for her. For years, Classmates would make fun of her art & say "you draw like shit!" & they'd be pretty brutal to her. I would tell her not to listen but I knew she did. She soon started to say "I wanna learn on my own." & so I let her, I drew on my own & one day she started saying "I think I'm a better artist than you!" It stared to get to me. Was I an amazing artist then? No. That's obvious. But it got to me. It became like a race for us. Who was better. Instead of enjoying our art & learning. I've been jealous of artists. I wish I could draw like the amazing people online. BUT, I realize that I've been drawing 6+ years off & on mind you & they've been to art school & have 15+ years of experience. It's okay to be envious. But don't be spiteful. Learn from the artists instead of getting mad. I know it feels bad to see an incredible artist picture online & then going to your sketchbook or tablet & feel like shit. But PRACTICE. PRACTICE, PRACTICE. Everyone's art journey is different. Do not give up. Keep going. I know it's hard & intimidating but you can do it.

[@beasanguino2824]

I am 13 years old and I adore my art. I have been drawing since I was 4 and I have improved so much just by practicing. Art is my life,and it will always be because that is what I want my life to be. I see my improvement and say, "Whoa, I have improved so much within 2 weeks!" Of course I can be jealous for others' art,but I just use it to improve and get at the same level as they are. I have never told anyone "Ugh,your art is horrible!" Because I know the effort I put into my art and getting that response would really make me feel bad. I am strong and critiques only affect me if they are constructive,but I know that not everyone is like me. Stay strong,people ^^

[@ohnorenna]

Beatriz Sanguino Fernandez That is an excellent mentality to have! Well done :)

[@beasanguino2824]

Macabre Doll ^*^

[@AminaArtss]

Beatriz Sanguino Fernandez ☝️😉😲😲😂❤💕💕🐱🐱🌺☝️😜😜😛😙😉🤣😎😚😡😡😖😎

[@wheelerboy_]

Im 13 too! Do you have any social media so I can check out ur art just looking at ur profile pic it looks really good :D

[@beasanguino2824]

oh thank you so much! I have instagram (bea20art) deviantart (bea2028) and paigeeworld (bea20) I recommend you to check out my paigeeworld. I am a LOT more active there Π•Π really,thank you for your interest in my art!! Do tou have any social media??

[@porlQ]

Sometimes I see this really good piece of art and think: "Hey! I wanna learn to draw like that!" So (since I'm a mere beginner) I beta myself up over my bad art. And when I finally make something that looks acceptable in my eyes I would show it for someone and ask for constructive criticism. And when they just say: "Nothing, it's great!" It really hurts. It's like they can't even be bothered to think of something that I could do better. But I haven't given up yet and I think I'm improving! It's exciting to since I have a new art teacher so it's like a fresh start!

[@alyssavallad2878]

Oh also, I’ve been listening to you while I’ve been drawing and everything you say is true. It kinda encourages me to try new things. Like right now what I was drawing is very, freeform, I didn’t have a plan, I just- I can’t remember the word I wanted to use- risked it. I went in my paper with a pen and just started to draw. Long story short, you really relax me into knowing that I’m not the only one with these struggles! don’t let anyone drag you down! All you can say intead of getting jealous is everyone’s got their own art style:))

[@DizzyAlyx]

I think another interesting topic to address would be "Let people draw what they want" I mean most of the time it's completely harmless and unimposing to other people, not liking a character or story they have made does not entitle you to be a dick about it. Now I haven't been on either end of this but I had an interesting conversation once with someone getting harassment. Below is a C+P of a response I gave and it addresses my general point: "A person is doing no harm being in their own bubble with their own AU or whatever it is, doing what they enjoy; as long as they dont impose onto or intentionally rile up others, nor should someone purposely try to invade, upset and harass others for things they create. It's simply a matter of common decency. I've seen my fair share of cringey OCs, but honestly they aren't doing me any harm, since they're not even canon, yknow? I certainly wouldnt do something as rude as going out of my way to bash on someone elses creation when I could just leave them to their own devices and move on with my day." I'm sure a lot of people agree when I say it's a bad habit to get into. It can really put people down and discourage them from drawing and doing what they love, and its certainly not what the community should be about. But yes anyway this was a really well said video, I'm sure you made an impression to quite a few people about this!

[@gumbywumbus]

I found this kid on deviantart, about 9, who drew Steven universe Fanart. But, it wasn't even the average. This person highly referenced pictures of the characters, mostly just redrawing or tracing them. The lines were thick and rounded, the legs were always short, chubby, and like two stacked ovals. The faces were squished and very uneven. But before you reply: omg u shouldn't be hating on a baby they're still a small child they're not supposed to be good they're only like five- children aren't rubbish. I should know, I was one. This person was just worse than most their age. And everyone was nothing but supportive. This person, I believe, needed critique, as his art style just got worse and worse with every peice of Art. But- Yes, it is absolutely necessary to tell someone how to improve, but No, do NOT go crushing a child's dreams. Although, this kid was kind of an idiot. Someone said; " r u a troll?" They said " no I'm human duh" S: "Yeah ur a troll" T;" no I'm human!!! Stop calling me a troll meanie" Anyway, plz don't do what their supporters did. If someone is flawed, give them critique- but not dream-crushing critique.

[@natalia8469]

i know!! maybe they just started off in art but yeah deviantart people are usually super toxic

[@_____._..--_]

teddy bear art U just jealous of r34

[@takoihina4731]

I'm just going to confess it here, since I'm bored lol. (Not sure if someone will read this) When i was 10, I was a fan of Undertale so much (yes I'm 13 now), and I usually draw a lot of the character. I joined the undertale amino, and post some of my drawing there. Its preety bad, but I get a few likes and some support. But then, I saw a level 13 guy in my recent art, and he/she says 'wow, this art are bad, mine is better, you should've quit this amino and stop drawing, this is too cringe. ' I was heavily upset, but I decided to ignore the guy/girl. But then, he/she keep insulting me over and over, and funny that he/she gets like 13 likes for his/her insult to me! That make me more upset, and I did quit the amino. (I forgot my username) I stopped drawing for few months, and then, I found my old sketchbook, and that gives me nostalgia and I start tk try to draw again. And here I am, still drawing (Apology for bad english)

[@pugs4lfe225]

if I'm jealous of their art I'll litterally tell them "I'm so jealous! it's so good!!" but it's a compliment

[@carolineparker6660]

YES I love the talking videos. I'm young (young as in middle school), and I haven't thought of my art as "good" when I compare it to others. I've never posted mean comments about art, and I don't plan to. My art may not be "good" when in comparison with someones like yours, but I'm trying to look at it differently. Now, I try and compare my art to past art I've made. It makes me feel a lot better when I see how I've progressed. I'm trying hard, and I'm glad I have supportive friends to help me. I also may not be the best person in the world, but I try hard. I hope some day I could be my own you, and It's good to know you always have someone to look up too in the art community. Thank you for always making me feel better about myself and helping me really appreciate my art for what it is.

[@scarlie8365]

I love these particular types of videos that you make and I hope you keep doing them. Also, I have seen jealousy in the art community a heck of a lot. Especially going through schools (I am in intermediate.) At the time I was in second or third grade I received a lot of credit and compliments to my art from my classmates and that pushed me forward and past my mean teacher who used to make up stories like, if you do this this is what will happen to you, and if you make those faces your face will stay like that forever. Anyway, then getting older, when I was trying to get better, and out of my comfort zone, people got more critical. And now when I draw today, I have been pushed into my comfort zone, trying to be good at something, but never really branching out and now my friend this week said, "All your drawings look the same," I didn't get offended or anything but I knew she was right. I had always dreamed of doing beautiful landscapes and flowers and waters but now I guess I am stuck with some silly cartoons. Thinking about this now, this video has actually cleared a lot of stuff up for me, and I feel more motivated to get more into art and push myself a bit further. I plan to tell my friends all about you, and hope that I can succeed in the art community when I am older.

[@pixelgamer5684]

My friend loves to draw, but she wants to draw really good like me. At school I have a lot of good friends to me I have good friends. To my friend I'm popular... In art class she started to trace art work out of how to books and ask me to do the art work for her. I have amazing grades all 4's in art class. But she has 2's and 3's. Everyone can you help me with this problem and give me some tips to help her draw.

[@lpsfrostyfox3240]

Tip one:Tell her to go to drawing classes

[@pixelgamer5684]

ForgottenSoul -Amateur Artist- thanks for the advice you should be a art teacher

[@noticemealicepieplez1048]

Pixel Gamer my friend she can draw sans but nit humans its the oppisite for me tho XD so what i reccomended for her is to watch drawing vids so id reccomend that to your friend

[@vistabob]

Pixel Gamer I feel ya buddy. But just tell her that if she tries her best and doesn't give up after 2 seconds, she'll make something great

[@babiiesketches5257]

Whenever I'm jealous of an artist, I just say "how u draw so good bruh?" I'm a pacifist

[@eyelessjack6693]

hey you probly wont see this but i wanna know what art supplys you use

[@kyle-zg8ec]

Eyeless Jack sharpies and magic

[@wubbleballs2383]

She uses a few different types of Copics pens/markers.

[@Thefellowfreak]

Am I the only one that really fricking ADORES artists that are assumingely “better”? Like it gives me hope that I can be like that one day, that AMAZING, make that beautiful piece of art. Instead of getting jealous, trying adoring the artist instead and think “wow, I could be *that* good one day.”

[@OmegaMetroid93]

I think this applies to a lot of other things too. As a musician, I recognize pretty much all of this. Especially the thing about comparing yourself to others, especially people who are younger than you. Every time I see someone who is younger than me, but clearly better, it makes me feel terrible about myself. Like, I'm older so I should've had the time to grow more than this person, so why haven't I? It's a really toxic mindset that's difficult to get out of. Though I will say that I never once stooped to insulting other peoples work to make myself feel better about my own. That's not the way to go, and it's only going to do you bad in the long run. Or short term for that matter. The best thing to do is to just keep going and try to improve yourself. Learn from other artists instead of berating them, or berating yourself for not being as good. Thanks for talking about this. It's always nice to hear other people went through the same struggle as I'm going through, but got out of it. Your drawings are beautiful, by the way. I don't know anything about art, but I know what I like when I see it.

[@esbethlace8950]

I have a friend, (wow what) And she has never given me support on my artwork. If I show her something I drew her response is usually "cool." or she'll just nod her head. with the most unenthusiastic not bothered face ever. I one day got her into drawing when we were at her house, I went home and she sent me a few pictures she had drawn. Now these were amazing drawings. I would even go as far as saying flawless. To say she had never really drawn before this I was proud of her. I told her she was amazing and all that, and she sent more. A week or two after that I found this new artist youtuber and I watched a few of her drawing videos and I said in my head "I've seen that drawing before.." And that day my friend sent me a picture she drew and it clicked. She was copying and tracing this persons art and claiming it as her own. she didn't give any credit or anything. I said to her "You're copying this persons art." And she said anything she could to make an excuse. But I knew. Anyways a few months later I drew a picture of her OC digitally for her, and she even had it as her youtube channel banner. Then a few months after that she sent me a picture she drew of her oc.. It was in pencil. The outlines weren't even connected. And I again said to myself "Hmm I've seen that somewhere" And it clicked again... SHE WENT ON HER KZbin CHANNEL. TRACED THE OC THAT I DREW FOR OFF HER IPAD SCREEN, BECAUSE SHE FORGOT THAT I DREW IT FOR HER. So she literally traced MY drawing and sent it to me and said "i drew this all by myself i didn't copy anyone this time." I was actually in shock. How did she manage to forget who drew her youtube banner. still confuses me to this day.

[@lily-iu7qn]

I'm u said this a year ago but who was she

[@salem7276]

off topic but your profile picture is beautiful

[@lily-iu7qn]

Idk what i said over there, ignore that lol

[@looneymooney6673]

Ęłšbéth Cöōch Are you still friends with this tracer? Can’t believe she would do that

[@luthienhearter8977]

there was this boy in my math class who drew mostly sonic characters. we wernt really like friends but I liked his art and I thought he liked mine. but one day I was doing a redraw of one of my really old jr high drawings. I thought I had gotten way better. I showed him the old drawing and the new one. he said congratulations on not improving or changing ur art style at all. it hurt me a lot because I thought it was better. but thinking now I think it was because all he could do was side view sonic characters. but it makes me sad because I thought they were cool and I valued his opinion and he just brought me down.

[@cupcakeviolence]

OOF Damn I'm glad I'm not him 😌

[@hmmokay314]

Tell him to stop copying sonic characters and learn a diffrent style -3-

[@makii3535]

Some people like my art to the point where they tell me "I wish you didn't draw that well!" and it makes me feel bad for some odd reason. I just wish that they'd understand that I care about practicing drawing and painting and that It's a real passion for me. Those people usually don't care enough to put the time and effort into their work and want to take others who are "better" than them down for it. I try to tell them that I really make my art a priority and that it's a huge part of my life, and that they can grow their skill by practicing more or they can just find another passion.

[@elle-ev2cd]

i think your art is defenetley something to go viral, you're art is beautiful and your talk always makes sense and it actually has a meaning, i hope you just hav ethe best success because your anime your style it's just amazing.

[@abbie8039]

The message in this video really inspired me. I’m always seeing other people’s art and thinking “Why can’t I be as good as them? Why is my art style so horrible and their’s is this good blah blah~” You are such an amazing person for talking about this and really made my day. I think that this is a big problem and deserves to be talked about. Thanks. ^^

[@rottencandy2675]

I relate to my eyes getting keener, I looked at my art one day and found how horrible is actually looked, now every time I draw something I have the fear of it actually being horrible too.

[@ChaosRayZero]

Look up the DeviantArt "Draw this again" meme/challenge. I think it's a good way to put a positive spin on your old art, and instead of "wow, I used to suck," your thinking becomes "wow, have I gotten better!" ^_^

[@IllustrationWithEveii]

I came across a KZbin video the other day, and it was just sly bashing of other KZbinr artists. It really got under my skin... especially since the channels (especially the one Im talking about) is growing purely through bitchiness.. drama and just likenesses towards others... so disheartening because at that point its not about the art any more. she could be drawing stick men, its the shitty thing there going to say next that people show up for.

[@muppetmaster04]

Illustration With Eveii I trust you used youtube report tool in the top right corner. I did it for a clickbaiter. (video gone now)

[@IllustrationWithEveii]

Tim Trowerz I wasnt sure if it was the path to go tbh, she says shizzy things but in the end theres no names used directly and it is her own crappy opinions.. is that enough to report sombody ?

[@rb8566]

Illustration With Eveii Who is the youtuber? Because I think I know who you're talking about. If you don't want to tell me to protect their identity that's fine, I'd just like to know if they're the same person.

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

Sometimes I see those people as incapable of viewing others' artists work, it's like they don't appreciate community or love. They are so incredibly dishonest with themselves and I doubt they'll ever see a flick of improvement with a toxic attitude. Those people really rustle my feathers too!

[@dane1382]

((idk but is it Solar Sands?

[@A_Reed2027]

when I was in the 3rd grade I saw a girl who “tried” drawing in a anime style.I personally didn’t like it....I thought it was really bad...I didn’t say Anything to hurt her.Everyone said she was the best!!!The same thing happened in the 4th grade with a girl who tried to draw realism but all the people she made didn’t look human.i didn’t like it and didn’t say anything.Everyone was drawn to her.And now when I post my art on KZbin I see people loving my art.And now I’m thinking....why don’t people in school like my art...

[@tacoindoggie1731]

So cute! I'm going to an art school on Thursdays and sometimes I feel like the art teacher just wants to drive the pice the way she wants it, but then when I go the way she wants me to I get so much happier with my piece. I have the good jealous vibe for your drawing, so cute! I wish I could draw that good! Love you vids!

[@meh8650]

Actually, I'm kinda jealous of your art... because it's amazing! Pls teach me senpai \*o*/ Even though I feel that way whenever I see someone who's leagues ahead of me in terms of skill, what kinda smooths it out for me is "They've got a lot more experience than me, and that's exactly what i need too". No one becomes a Leonardo da Vinci overnight - it's all about the practice, motivation and making creative decisions. It's also a realisation of the fact that there are actually many art styles out there that I like, and I'm kinda indecisive so I just do an artwork and hope it turns out well (so basically I don't really hold that many expectations for my artworks... weird I agree) and it does actually help. That obviously doesn't apply to everyone lol Plus, when the artist(s) you admire are actually willing to share their tricks, tutorials and advice with you, that jealousy just melts away so much quicker.

[@miles9364]

Two of my friends are jealous of my art and then of my life, they hate themselves because they think my life is so good. But... i think down of myself when i only god four B's and the rest were A's (I'm in grade five going to grade six) i dont say what i want because if i can survive with it, ill be ok. I'm just here getting this of my chest, thank you readers!

[@BTS-sw5fi]

np :)

[@lunamcboss6504]

I'm happy just to get 4 C's XD

[@ashleycase2192]

When I was just in my first year or so of drawing,I drew this girl and at the time thought she was like the bee's knees so I wanted to show everyone on this group on Facebook.And there was just hateful and just down right spiteful trolls on there commenting.One comment told me to "cut off my hands,and stop drawing because I'll never be good enough."There was also other comments of just wonderful people coming to my defense,telling the troll off.There was a time after that where I wouldn't show anyone my art,except those very few people that I trusted.Or that I just wouldn't draw in general.Looking back on it now I feel like I was giving someone that I had never even met power over my happiness.Never again will I listen to a trolls "criticism" of my art. #IamSuzy

[@squiddlydiddly3163]

N'awww gosh, I am so sorry that you had to go through that! But now you are a stronger person and more open minded! I have been through similar experiences but you must know that you can not ever let yourself sink to their dreadful sea bottom level! I'm sure you have incredible art and thank you for bravely sharing your experience!

[@ashleycase2192]

SquiddlyDiddly My art has grown so much from then and it'll only get better :)

[@Nico15037]

It's Raining Somewhere Else :D

[@claireorclaraofficial7338]

Nicholas Rechenberg :3

[@saltee7]

Blockheads ost, originated from something

[@ahaha9088]

floppybunny10 lol same..

[@yayang4042]

Nope. It's actually "Gymnopedie No.1" by Erik Satie.

[@grilledcheese3916]

I admire so many artists and every single piece they make inspires me to make something like that and work harder!! How can anyone be jealous of art when the amount of amazingness is so inspiring and beautiful!!! Dollightful always makes me feel so inspired, as well as lemi and applemint and so many others!!

[@Silver-lf6yt]

youre a real good artist every time i feel bad about myart you make me feel like i can improve and you all have probably heard this atl least one time: practise makes perfect and yeah you cant be 100% perfect but you can defenitly improve and feel good about your art thank you so much LemiaCresent for inspiring me and motiating me

[@millieblackbear6207]

a lot of girls hate .my art but my best friend have my Back I love them

[@snipedpop2878]

millie blackbear same

[@ayumalasty8156]

Is it just me or.... does her voice sounds calming and relaxing....

[@chaiiteeofficial3980]

I LOVE WATCHING YOU DRAW YOUR ART!

[@MariaMilenovasArt]

its so relaxing

[@1noobluna728]

I do have art jealousy I do, but when I look back at it, we all have our ways to express our art, yeah I hate some of my art but hey! try again in 5 years and see how much you've inproved. I loved this video and will help me a lot thank you!

[@PusheenFluffyPuff]

Whenever I get jealous, it's normally from your art xD (the thumbnails) instead of hating on you, I support you even more to get better than you already are. Your at inspires me to get better, not hate my art. It helps me realise that everybody is at their own level drawing their interests. And, you can't just automatically get super good, you took years to get to this level and so did every other artist as good as you did as well. So you need patients when it comes to art. :) you must believe in yourself :3

[@giuliathekool3829]

Thank you so much, I've been trying to improve and Im hoping to improve just as you!

[@Lily-ji6qn]

I love to make art and iv'e been doing it for a while now but it seems instead of getting better, i'm getting worse. I have a friend and she is super good at art! I look up to her a lot! But at times i get really jealous too..iv'e never said mean or hurtful things about her art but iv'e thought hurtful things to try to make myself feel better...what should i do?

[@LemiaCrescent]

Compare yourself less to other people. :) You do you and have fun. The more fun you have the more you'll end up practicing and the better you'll become. Don't get caught up in trying to make yourself feel better...just don't let yourself feel bad in the first place.

[@DoodleOodle]

Watch Mark Creely (crilly...?) he does art videos and they might help you a lot.

[@lunamcboss6504]

Do what I do with all my problems and suffer silently :D

[@anisearts7510]

I believe art is also about content and story than just skill that attracts attention and increases popularity. Do tell me if I am wrong

[@rockdaniels3721]

I think that your videos are great, not only because you show how you draw and paint, but also because you open conversations through them for many topics. I really liked the fact that you talked about jealousy in the anime community. I remember that in the past someone stole my notebook that was full of drawings and many other things that were important to me (like drawings that were made by other artists/friends that made the as gifts for me). Needless to say that it felt horrible. But anyway, I'm not here to complain. I just wanted to say that you're doing an amazing job and that I want you to keep doing what you love. Keep up the good work and don't let anyone discourage you from what you love doing.

[@vampirebat1614]

I found some old drawings of a character or two I used to like (the drawings, not the characters i still like those) and now I see all the flaws, but I somehow still appreciate it. Nostalgia maybe?

[@ailsa4905]

What is that thin white pen *I WILL STEAL IT FROM YOU*

[@LemiaCrescent]

Uniball Signo! :D You should buy it! It's a great little pen.

[@ailsa4905]

Thanks!

[@mataharinatal]

Don't steal😂

[@dr_weil]

@@LemiaCrescent I had that pen until the ink dried, so I had to throw it away

[@uwu1683]

Your art is so good.I got hated on too and decided to give up...

[@Ruby-gf2ve]

It's 2:40am I should sleep but I wanna watch the vid😭 I really hate jealousy and bullying Its not fair for the victim 😢 But u can't really do anything Bullies be bullies

[@brijohno7274]

Ruby3023 unfortunately this is true ;__; as long as youre a good person and you try to help the victim that's all that can be done

[@nerdyaesthetic5911]

I honestly am jealous of you and many others but I never put them down I just tell the how much I love your/ their art. I love your content!! :)

[@blaquerose121]

As a young artist I love people like you who share your experiences so everyone else can become better people and with others can understand these topics

[@catsshouldtakeovertheworld1990]

I feel bad for your friends and the girl.

[@bunnyboy9438]

on my Instagram an artist told me to kill myself because my anatomy and shading was off, but I think it was because I have more followers then him, I never gave up on drawing tho 😊

[@percyjacksonfanpage4987]

KINQUE x dont let the haters get you down

[@loveruwi]

KINQUE x continue drawing since you want remember haters gone hate

[@june4791]

It's best to join chats for art like discord servers so people have to answer to the admin and mods of the chat.

[@nomochord3364]

*WoT “I’m GoNnA kIlL mYsElF bEcAuSe mY aNaToMy aNd sHaDiNg WaS oFf”* *WhO sAyS tHaT*

[@looneymooney6673]

Bunny Boy Wow... he said that just because your shading and anatomy were off? He’s probably only nit picking at some parts of your artwork pieces because I think he’s jealous that you’re better than him. But don’t let that get to you. Just ignore him and move on. That’s how success starts.

[@emmaames1661]

Ok so im in 6th grade and theres a boy named William and he is soooo good at art i cried hes in my class

[@victorthecollector9198]

When I started to like drawing I felt a little jealous about other artists that were better than me, and I guess I constantly got frustrated because of that (I mean, I don't blame me, at that point my art was super shitty) but at some point, when I started looking for real advice that could help me to improve, I realised that I did not feel jealous anymore. Right now, the only thing I can think about when I see someone's else art and it's better than mine it's of how great is. In that moment, when I saw it, I don't think in my own art (nearly at all), I just look at it and think: This is great! I don't know when did it started, but I do like that feeling, the feeling of not to compare myself to others, to see my own flaws without comparing it with other art. To improve by obvservating and practicing, without getting mad when I can't do something. I wish it stays like that by a long time. I know I can't draw as good as I would like, but I like to see my own drawings and be proud of what I see.

[@alexanderhamilton6249]

There’s a girl in my 5th period who takes out her jealousy by taking advantage of people. I’ll just flat out state that I’m only 12 years old. My art is far from incredible or breathtaking, and I wouldn’t consider myself very advanced for my age. Art is my passion though, and I hope I can improve more someday. Anyways, back to the story. I usually have my sketchbook everywhere I go, and I draw in it constantly. I ended up making friends with a girl who said she shared my interests. We’ll call her Anna. Anna wasn’t very good at art. I don’t mean this in a rude way, but she had substantial flaws in her anatomy and color theory. She would always praise my work, and occasionally completely gush over it. One day, Anna asked me do draw something for her. She gave me a photo and told me to draw it, but change some aspects. I later found out that she lied and never paid me for my work, it was an assignment that I’d done for her, and that she took complete credit for it. Now, I’m not very popular at my school, but Anna is. Of course, when I tried to let people know she had taken my art, nobody believed me. That does suck, but I’ve learned some lessons from it.

[@dane1382]

((my profile pic is actually a picture of my trollsona that i drew.

[@rachelchoi5846]

No offense, really, but why are her legs pink?

[@roachwaffle]

She's probably wearing leggings or something underneath the shorts.

[@austinparsons144]

Rachel Choi i was thinking the same thing

[@xxwalkingmelonaaasbiggestg4259]

There leggings. But my mom thinks there pants. Mom: Because they are. Me: Who invited you to chat?! •~`

[@percyjacksonfanpage4987]

Rachel Choi its tights

[@cupcakeviolence]

AHAHAHAHA

[@Jexxnie]

Two of my best friends are jealous that I can draw better than them(in a good way I think)

[@TacoTheHuman]

I CAN RELATE TO THIS ON A SPIRITUAL LEVEL I love several people in the art community, but the thing is I'm quite young. I like snooping around on social media, and I'll find artists that I think make beautiful pictures and find out that they're younger than me. I'd get so jealous to the point that I'd unfollow them because each time I saw something they made that was better than what I made I'd get super frustrated. I've moved past that point now, and I decided to look at their profiles again. I'd sit there and think, "I could do that. I can see several things wrong with this piece." And this touches every single aspect of the jealousy I felt. Not the destructive one who attacked Suzy... but you know, regular jealousy. I now follow several artists who are younger than me, and who I admire very much. This video is just so relatable.

[@underabridge381]

I actually try my best to make art, I have seen many tutorials and how to draw (insert name of thing to draw). And I just barely started drawing and I get very jelous of other people who can draw better then me, I usually just ignore that but jealousy still gets me, I inserted a design for a t-shirt contest at my school and this other guy won, this motivated me to keep trying, and keep working I tell myself that you have to do it over and over to perfect it, and honestly I have been getting better from like just barely a year ago, instead of using jealousy to insult people use it to see the difference, it doesn't have to be like everything else it just has to be you.