Let's Discuss Dani Leigh's Racial Opportunism and Other Nonsense

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[@msmiami212]

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[@Queen-of-the-Burbs]

Stay out of black folk business should be your next shirt

[@ajty2630]

Forgot this month let's all put 5 on it!

[@boricua584]

As a black latina, who has been black since birth, who was ostracized by the latino community AND my white latino family, who got made fun of for being dark, who grew up being too black to be Puerto Rican, who has been asked to prove that I’m Puerto Rican, who has to show pictures of my mixed Puerto Rican mother to prove it, who has gotten verbally abused by other Latinos -- I am tired.

[@dratl301]

I felt that in many ways! Especially when there’s no representation of Afro-Latino people in the typical Latino community. I always felt like I had to appear a certain way because those around kept pointing out my blackness in degrading terms. When people like her claim the “I’m black” when they look as white as a cotton ball, it’s so detrimental to those who are actually Afro-Latino- she needs to stop

[@rueru217]

Sis same - black panamanian with some black colombian roots

[@santana-dr7hp]

As a Puerto Rican, it’s frustrating to see other Puerto Ricans pretend as if racism isn’t as much of a thing in PR . Racism is just as normalized and institutional in Puerto Rico

[@gabrielar9611]

I’m Panamanian, raised in black/ Hispanic neighborhood. Spanish speaking people completely see color. Dark Hispanic girls (not afro Latina) were called negrita, or the African American colored one. In LA, the Mexican girls with strong Indian blood are fairly dark. Dani saying she doesn’t see color was such a gas lighting statement... smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ Black folks are more excepting here. I really don’t bring my nationality up though unless asked, cuz i look black 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@MariSooOGlam1016]

As a fellow afro-latina who also grew up being "too black" to be Dominican, and also having the same experiences as you, I'm tired right along with you sis.

[@laurenalexandria1504]

That part: "you're marginalizing black people in your own country then come over here and want to be black." Make it make sense!

[@vadams4067]

“I’m dating a whole chocolate man”.....that was the equivalent of “I have Black friends.”

[@sinethembanondabula2947]

well she did go in to say i have beautiful chocolate melenated girl friends soo...

[@msbrit5178]

U can be friends with someone and still think you are better than them especially if she needs someone around she can look better than. Look at her background dancers tells you a lot.

[@vadams4067]

@@msbrit5178 totally agree. Her excuses are bullshit lol.

[@Qtzzzip]

Right Lol! And of course you're dating a " Whole chocolate man" you're a non black women cashing in on the black community! How else would you get over here 🤷🏾‍♀️. Issa thing!

[@cannons2daleftofthem253]

I've had 3 black people in my house lmfaoooo

[@lola.odetola]

“if you realise that you’re black on monday; you cannot monetise your relationship to blackness on wednesday” 🥴🥴🥴😂

[@iameloho718]

You look Fab 🤩

[@susanmwango6642]

Hi,Eloho , I was looking forward to see your commentary on this too. Good to see you here.

[@b.jizzle6077]

Hey Eloho 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@daniellecmann]

CREATOR CROSSOVER😉😍

[@shashavengesayi6055]

I love u Eloho

[@MPPG663]

I was thinking that...she looks super bright and richly moisturized.

[@e.l.lucychiron]

I thought people were exaggerating when they said this song was ass... turns out not one lie was told. 😑

[@krenee984]

I bet she will release another project that is halfway decent soon so that all this energy will (sadly) be forgotten.

[@DoraWinifred]

Literally!! I thought it was trashed because of the lyrics but dear lord it’s so so bad. why on earth did actually record this “song”?!!!!

[@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess]

😂😂😂

[@Hannibal082]

K N O W L E D G E

[@ChichiMarie]

I’m telling you my kids busted out laughing when they heard it 😆

[@Blahgirl283]

“We need to abolish celebrity, we need to end it because at this point it’s a scourge” 😂

[@lilrabbitcuz]

I agree

[@itsmekym4273]

She is dating a black man with a beautiful brown daughter and to think this woman could possibly influence this child into thinking she is less than. 🗣PULL THE PLUG NOW!!!!!

[@samij6071]

Her father will do that fine all on his own

[@Mysticalblackhottie]

@@samij6071 Sad but true.

[@deej5608]

@@samij6071 Truth smfh

[@rwsexposed6241]

@@samij6071 facts

[@lorelange]

@Mai A. they often meet them young. and it's only when the fame and money come, that they do their real come out for their "preference". Black women, like any other human being cant know at first sight the type of person their dealing with, and once you're emotionally attached (and they make sure you are) it's extremely difficult to move on, especially if you've often been abused in your past.

[@reallyitsjackiev.meadows7578]

Dani....did not create, produce and send that mess out in the world without help. Nobody questioned her....they let her record mix and produce it and put it out. I am tired sickened and once again embarrassed cause I'm sure a black man heard this song on demo and said yeah that's hot keep going!!! #AMess Cute press Kim!

[@nickjoy6389]

#prettyprivilege desirability allows access to so many opportunities

[@TatiSaysSo]

I think the people that work with Dani kinda hate her.

[@smilergal89]

A coin is a coin to some. They didn’t think it through though. Even before this silly song that i haven’t listened to I got the sense people find her damn well annoying.

[@cidkult]

This is why i call for white people and other people who have racist tendencies to be supervised at all time!!! cause clearly they cant do things without displaying these unwanted personality features that normal people dont have..

[@evilblackqueen9228]

@Florence Nightingale someone should or the next best thing is for black women to stop supporting their music.

[@user-gt2bn5el2f]

She said afro-Latina with her whole heart. 💀 Amara La Negra is NOT dealing with all this hate for YOU to say that.

[@angelmaurnae]

This!!!!!!!

[@ebonyjackson3198]

And Amara be catching HEAT but she stands ten toes down in her convictions. I love her.

[@user-gt2bn5el2f]

@@ebonyjackson3198 People keep clowning on her, CONSTANTLY. She's living her best life, being active in both the Black and Latinx community, but people STILL hate on her. She's one of the people who has shown up for EVERYTHING. She was marching, she is advocating, she is donating. The whole shebang, but she's never been "enough".

[@jackypearson361]

@@user-gt2bn5el2f Dani need to stay in her lane

[@joannasmith2670]

Exactly !

[@dcardoso3342]

As a black girl from Latin America that has been black her entire life, I am exhausted. I’m over these girls finding their blackness for money or “clout”

[@kammore6209]

This look is a SERVE hunny!

[@sumayzebecreating]

Heck yeah!

[@BBROXY940]

LISTEN!!!!!!😍

[@offbeatttt_]

Came here to say the same thang!

[@kimjohnson8471]

Kim as a Grown Woman....lovely

[@Keemo8986]

Facts......she looking RIGHT!!!

[@tiffanygarner9484]

You look beautiful, this cut is everything

[@Missrere1984]

I was thinking the same thing!

[@loveyvo]

💯

[@LoveSource1111]

You look amazing

[@LemonSte]

Right? Shallow to admit but it was my first thought when the video started

[@Quiche4458]

I definitely clicked and said out loud “ok with the bob and the knowledge Kim!”

[@keepingitkianatural]

The Rick Ross clip is such an embarrassment. 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

[@flushthecatnip]

It really is.

[@KSP30]

Especially because he’s a damn troll, him and the dudes there. Damn trolls.

[@Ihiva89]

RIGHT!?

[@_JONGFIRE]

Trash.🚮

[@Queen-of-the-Burbs]

Wow. Just....wow.

[@loriwalters9158]

The Rick Ross video was an education. Now I can really see how all this “eye candy” with mediocre skills at best make it in the industry. Like WTH, ugh.

[@NamasteInYourLane]

Not only that. It shows how BM are not innocent victims of racism and white supremacy. But in actuality contribute and uphold that very same system. Especially when they're in positions of power.

[@loriwalters9158]

@@NamasteInYourLane Truth!

[@rachelm.3173]

@@NamasteInYourLane 💯

[@Mysticalblackhottie]

@@NamasteInYourLane Let the church say Amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@nazlie7177]

Wait.. do you have the link?

[@TheNatralBeauty]

I want somebody to show me where these "millions of songs" about all skin tones folks keep talking about are at...

[@Tima-oz5te]

Frrr! And I want to see how many of this supposedly long list of songs are performed by black men 🤨

[@astroqueen9939]

😂

[@AriElite111]

Right?!?! I was like damn there maybe two, MAYBE three but they clearly hate to see us get any Positive attention

[@AD-cy4vj]

Lol

[@keke1955]

sidenote: I'm obsessed with the interchanging of "Dani-lee" and "Dani-lay" lmaoo

[@indiasavage7]

Same. I am so tickled by that. Lol

[@ashap.2740]

It's really Dani-lame. :)

[@beemocha]

It’s actually Dani-LOW 😉

[@YonniInfinity]

Not going to lie I thought her name was pronounced dani lee 😂😂

[@mermaidtingzzz]

I prefer Dani-Flea lolol

[@LovingLandonLibioron]

She chose to DIE on this hill?? Girl Spongebob had better bops than this. I’m fucking sick Kim. 😂😳

[@melw9147]

DEAD 💀💀

[@g.t.7550]

Bwahaha 🤣, Spongebob has better music videos too! So did Sabrina the teenage witch!

[@bboicrazy8]

For real, Spongebob has some bangers lol.

[@Blahgirl283]

😮 I cannot believe those men had the audacity to say “Brit’s sounded better than yours.” With her off key singing, watered down, generic delivery?? The colorism. The bs. My jaw dropped as far as yours that makes me so upset 😭

[@andaisshadows5285]

Imagine fixing your mouth to say that nonsense.

[@mirandaholley9797]

This is the pure example of men saying anything to make women fall for their nonsense.

[@zigowl1193]

I have never seen this show or clip before and my mouth just dropped open.

[@FireTrainer92]

Any man that says they're high value is an immediate red flag lol

[@jpmackey1607]

I mean, if he has to say it...

[@LisaF777]

Feminine energy vibes

[@FireTrainer92]

@@LisaF777 yup

[@katiebailey3439]

That’s what I was thinking 😅

[@HabitualLover]

Flaming red

[@beans9499]

Alot of Black men are saying there is nothing wrong with this because BW say they want WM. Ok but WM are not making songs saying she likes me because I'm white Lol

[@ChichiMarie]

💀

[@LisaF777]

😂

[@abdul-rahmanwashington2479]

What is “a lot “out of the 35 million plus Black people in America?

[@AD-cy4vj]

Imagine

[@ahmosel4901]

They need to. Would pay to see them triggered 😭😭🤣🤣

[@awesomeallyse]

Not the "ValeVictorian" mindset hitting no notes

[@BrownTingz]

ahahahahahahahah

[@nmania3]

💀💀💀

[@Jo_Thee.Farmer]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jaebyrd4608]

Worse because she said “mind skills” 😭

[@alonialewis305]

I was like “did that sound right “?

[@potofgoldseeker4248]

Lil Wayne can go down in history as the godfather of Colorism in Hip Hop

[@Giggles50]

PotOfGold Seeker I can’t stand him. He’s the worst!

[@TaylorPie94]

I'm 26 now... I remember being about 15/16 on the bus on the way home ARGUING with this black boy about how it wasn't right for Lil Wayne to make all of these songs glorifying these "foreign" women and lightskint women all while having a dark skin/black daughter. That moment then was my decline in liking Lil Wayne and wanting to cape for BM. 10 years later, I'm now just sick of them all lol

[@B_muslim]

@@TaylorPie94 You were speaking fax back then and now

[@alexish8183]

Her intentions were to taunt Meme and it backfired.

[@BreeDarcel]

I cannot picture Prince calling up Danileigh for the life of me. Like it really does not sound believable at all...

[@thecharlieL]

It is, unfortunately. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@JaeD904]

Maybe she referring to Prince from Love and Hip Hop Miami not Purple 🕊 Prince

[@MiraclesandMessages333]

Google "breakfast can wait" video by prince ... she stars in the video

[@january7213]

Actually, her mom set it up with her connects at MTV. Prince didn't call her some girls from his camp did. It was a way for her to come out to assist with his video, that no one saw. I had never heard of the song and I'm a fan! Dan-o was supposed to dance bacc up on his tour but he passed away, RIP. So now she's claiming she was his protégé but that's BS. Her talent does not exist, which is why she hasn't progressed. Her live performances are awful🤢🤮

[@Richard-lh3te]

The way Rick Ross straight up LIED about Brittany sounding better.

[@jefferybrown2568]

That MF! Like Kim said black men are the biggest perpetrators of colorism. I just got sick when I saw that video.😖

[@chavons8537]

It's the mediocrity for me... as a light skin woman its so lame to see women get a step up for skin tone. Growing up in the 90s I saw all the shades represented, where did that go? Like how are we getting worse as a society with colorism. Such a shame.

[@BeautifulEarthJa]

yes, it went. look at many of these people doing the casting and show running have white spouses and biracial kids, that's blackness to them.

[@chavons8537]

@@BeautifulEarthJa I don't even think there is anything wrong with representation of multiracial families but it's the frequency. Like how is it that a story being told for a black woman but it's not a black woman portraying it. We should be seeing two dark skin people together in a relationship way more than we see today as well as in a positive way. I don't understand the black man and light skin woman either. Thats not how it is for everyday folk. Representation matters so much and it's just so sad to see whats happening. The entertainment industry needs to do way better. To me it starts with respecting Black women first. Smh

[@HabitualLover]

Because there's so much money behind it. And keep your eye on Africa. A bunch of countries have never taken their hand out of that mess truly. They market dysfunction to Black people so they can keep exploiting value in some form or another or another or another...😐

[@chavons8537]

@@HabitualLover I definitely agree with the big push of dysfunction. It's done a whole world of pain literally. The community is looked at as a mess rather than huge contributors to society and I'm sick of it.

[@missyd1215]

I've always wondered that too. It seems like during the 90s and early 2000s there was so much representation of blackness, especially of black women. Now, I can not imagine artists that look like brandy, missy Elliott, tweet, lauryn hill, etc ever becoming successful in this era.

[@grapesyrop]

can we talk about how goood sis looks???purrrrrrrrrr

[@ayomide971]

purrrrrrrrrrrrrrr !!!!

[@pharmunique]

It’s the glow and the hair for me

[@teninterrell]

Yesss 😍

[@bbrown333]

She looks SOO good.

[@frumpusnumpus]

She got to purrrrrring! 😂😂

[@thegworlsarefighting]

That wasn’t an apology she knew exactly what she was doing

[@Blahgirl283]

“My dating pool at almost 32 is better than my dating pool at 25.” Yes, speak on it! And I love that she mentioned the rise of this black incel/black mgtow and red pill thing bc that’s a thing; unfortunately. As if black men like that weren’t manipulative and emotionally abusive enough.

[@eurekamreum5458]

I just turned 25 and I needed to be reminded of this lol

[@loveyvo]

I had to look this terminology you used up: incel/mgtow. And Google provided. Wow😯 they exists and feeling behind. Crazy!

[@LizNeptune]

@@loveyvo its this rising "manosphere" culture.. its very misogynistic, bitter and hateful. watch out!!

[@loveyvo]

Stay at home has a new meaning. Thanks, sis😇

[@ajburgess6843]

@@loveyvo I knew about incels but the mgtow movement!?! The internet is a dark place.

[@Vasilia4]

*In her Lil Baby remix, the male black rapper literally praises her skintone. All you need to know.*

[@chachathegreat9633]

Well, she's white, not black so there's that, too.

[@NeonBloodyMary94]

Comes full circle because he's light skinned too

[@LisaF777]

That's embarrassing for black men and pitiful for light skinned women

[@SupernaturalLove100]

He probably don’t even know her parents are white tho bc of her blatant blackfishing lol

[@sugarpearl9781]

@Alex Styles Brown skin girls was about praising and uplifting darker skinned girls and women who are often told they are ugly and undesirable by our color struck society, yellow bone and other songs like it, giving unnecessary praise to light skin women is all about how black men want to f*ck them. Bragging about that is embarrassing and I’m talking as a light skinned black woman (something Dani is not).

[@unerevuese]

Lmao...these are the same high value men who are upset when women have a certain standard that excludes them. I can't. 😂😂😂😂

[@cam4short]

"If she were black, she would KNOW BETTER". Black women, please understand that this song, this Danni person, does not speak for all of us of lighter complexion. What an embarrassment.

[@cheyennewhite7946]

right, i was thinking “why she gotta go and make us look bad??”

[@cam4short]

@@cheyennewhite7946 Exactly!!!

[@thefragrantkitchen6755]

The fact that she is up there with a serious face saying she is light skin and a yellow bone🤔😌The lies we tell.

[@nickjoy6389]

The way Dani is fully not black 😭😭😭I CANT TAKE ITTTT AHDHAHAHA

[@TayahPrice]

With box braids at that... lmao. The jokes write themselves!

[@user-gt2bn5el2f]

She took the WoahWicky thing too far.

[@taylorspastpresent1014]

“Black women are not here to save you!” Yassssss say it again for the people in the back! Yes Yes Yes!

[@Sleipnirseight]

"Oh well it doesn't matter, the song is shitty" 😂😂

[@chanelf4656]

This moment right here just about took me out 😂

[@myriamwilliams]

🤧🤧😂🤣🤣😂😂

[@CNJL1]

I feel like it’s safe to say if you didn’t know you were black growing up, you aren’t black. You can be of African descent but blackness is something else entirely. Loved your perspective on the men with the podcast.

[@TheFashManChannel]

This! You summed that up so eloquently! 👏🏼👏🏼

[@samuri2011]

Wow this is so on point

[@dcardoso3342]

Amen!

[@rachelm.3173]

@Alex Styles Are you black? Or woman? I noticed your comments over on Chrissie's channel also.

[@nbucwa6621]

@Alex StylesAdopted around 8-10yo kids can see the difference in their skin colour and they can tell the difference in treatment, weather they can vocalise it or not. They know they black, they just don't know what it means yet. Also ''later in life is adulthood'' so the original comment still stands for tweens and teens figuring out their identity.

[@faithdavis6189]

For her to "claim" she's "black" and still think the song was harmless is even worse.🙄🙄🙄

[@ThatDoll25]

That song sounded like a joke clip you hear on memes. Can’t believe she seriously thought that shit was gonna be hot 😂

[@shayb8203]

Lol I thought it was JJ icefish 🤣🤣

[@tasiabromell7311]

" I use my valedictorian mind skills" 😭💀

[@timtalk6285]

😂😂😂😂

[@AD-cy4vj]

To make the most basic choice

[@abribaker-lawrence908]

😂😂😂

[@Blahgirl283]

I love how secure Kimberly is in her preferences, her walk, when reacting to the podcast. It really can be that simple- go where you are valued, be secure in what you want and treasure your peace by minding the business that minds you when it comes to men expressing their preference. Wish those other things well, and trust that the world is wide enough

[@BellesView]

Agreed 💯

[@jg3865]

It is...

[@deej5608]

Well said

[@dmm4100]

Blackness isn’t just skin tone -it’s cultural understanding and commitment. The relationship between the Dominica Republic and Haiti really spotlights this. This is one island with 2 sides where DRs are notoriously oppressive to Haitians. DRs claiming to be black while in the US or anywhere outside of the island for a come up is disturbing. Kim keep doing what you’re doing. I truly appreciate the work that you put in. Thanks

[@cjeffrey8194]

LOOL Didn't know who she was until this scandal blew up. No interested in culture vultures. Next.

[@itsyourgirltee3754]

It is the " valedictorian mindskills" for me😂😂😂😂😂😂 that had me on the floor. By the way you look beautiful Kim❤☺

[@ticrowell1080]

Jedi mind tricks!

[@LisaCreate]

This sounds like a spoof song. Was she serious? She's gotta be trolling and that makes it worse frfr

[@skindippedingold]

Right! I asked myself “ why does she sound like she has nasal congestion” on this song? 🤔

[@ea7109]

I was thinking it was a joke, 'cause the song is hot trash, but I think she thinks it's fire😭😭

[@PyongProductionsXXI]

Idk I don’t think (at least I hope) she wasn’t serious. 🤣 the song is 🗑! Needs to go straight into la basura!

[@PortraitofAsha]

Giving me Ice JJ Fish

[@juststatedtheobvious9633]

I honestly thought it was distorted to avoid a copyright strike. No, it really is that bad.

[@alienunicorn4178]

Colorism aside the song really does suck. The beat sounds choppy and her voice sounds like she tried to do this marilyn monroe baby voice it just sounded weird. If you going to make a problematic song at least let it be a bop 😐

[@victorialuxxe]

That’s what I said! I thought the message would be bad but it would at least sound good. The whole thing is terrible

[@ladydontekno]

exactly. That whole song is a mess and I don't know why nobody on her team stopped her.

[@alienunicorn4178]

@Black Knight Fool huh? Where did lgbt come from?

[@L0vegrumpycat]

@Black Knight Fool are you reading this thread right? 😭

[@ticrowell1080]

Shoulda had your whole chocolate man drop a verse or something. It was comical it was so bad

[@StarrySkies91]

“THAT’S what black latina looks like!!” 👏🏿👏🏿😂

[@bossytweed6664]

"I've never seen myself as better or superior, it was just me making a cocky ass song", does this girl even hear the words she's saying?? She makes no sense. She probably should have wrote something instead of speakin. I liked her before and never understood why people called her an airhead etc., but I definitely see it now.

[@bossytweed6664]

@Nia X Someone on Twitter said he's convinced she doesn't understand words😂

[@deej5608]

@@bossytweed6664 LMAO

[@fawzianazle6645]

I just turned 34, I am also a member of the above 30 ChloexHalle fan club.

[@charlybrown5264]

me too :)

[@ladiepink]

Lol same !

[@laurenalexandria1504]

Me too lol

[@GDL364]

I’m the president

[@GDL364]

@Alex Styles ok?

[@activerewriting]

Unsurprisingly her biggest hit is with Chris Brown smh

[@LethalLemonLime]

This actually reminds me of that one time when Asian people thought yellow bone was in reference to them lmao

[@Lia_Alexis]

Lmao nah when was this 😂😅

[@KB-nz6bv]

😂😂😂

[@christina6335]

Is that true? A little hilarious, tbhlol.

[@KushQueen9]

That's so funny loool

[@nervous_greenfish]

Kim your laugh is just so wholesome, it's contagious 🌱🌱🌱

[@rainbeauxunicorn5237]

It’s the 🥴“apology in box braids” and using AAVE for me 🙅🏾‍♀️

[@MsJoi711]

We would have lost out on our iconic voices like Patti and Gladys by today's standard of "talent".

[@realSimoneCherie]

Agreed. And there’d be a white British copycat selling out shows with half the range.

[@isabella76591]

I loooooove the short hair. It's so cute and sophisticated.

[@KnijMagz]

Ikr!

[@KnijMagz]

I like your cut 2 💚

[@isabella76591]

@@KnijMagz awww thanks! That's so sweet. 🥰

[@KnijMagz]

@@isabella76591 ur welcome lol greens my favorite color so it caught my eye right away

[@ThaBlkRainbow]

Well here's my two cents: If Dani was "Black" she would understand why her comments were offensive in the first place. She would understand the negative impacts of colorism for darker people and how she benefits from it. If you have to use 23 and me to validate your claim of blackness, it's safe to say you are not Black. It's safe to say that even non-Black people know there's certain stuff you shouldn't say in regards to someone's skin complexion.

[@christina6335]

"I don't want to sweat out my hair." I LOVE how Black we are up in here!!

[@allazulu5495]

Its a set up! Women are in our prime in our 30s dont give in ladies! Is a marathon not a sprint!

[@VivianeBossina]

I was just telling myself the other day that my 30s will be amazing and that my actual glow up will happen in my 40s.

[@politicomonsoon]

I think that narrative is just as problematic as you're a shrew at 35. Everyone has a different life path and goals and for some making a decision and creating a family in you're 20's is the best thing for them to plan for

[@KB-nz6bv]

This is very inspiring at 27. I’m struggling with not being “young” anymore and feeling old af and lost lol so thank you.

[@Monicaizpeace]

@@KB-nz6bv same! I'll be 28 in April

[@melabritt6129]

Good to know! I’ll be 30 in May!!! Like wine, we’re getting better with time!

[@speechless650]

Not “next level bird shit” hahahaha

[@lola.odetola]

🦅 🦅 🦅

[@Blahgirl283]

The non-apology apology celebrities love to do so well 😂

[@katiebailey3439]

Kim's reaction during that apology could be an amazing reaction gif.

[@NieshaThomas]

Ass the King of Reads said in his video, "If you were black, you would know better!"

[@realSimoneCherie]

💁🏽‍♀️

[@Got2BOshun]

Prince loved em yellow & young

[@nyanteea226]

Kimberly speaking truth vehemently while trying to maintain her press is the epitome of black women standing up to power while maintaining their grace, their peace , and mental space

[@ashap.2740]

Instead of trolling black women, DaniLame needs to get a voice lesson or two.

[@Love1nOther]

Rick ross🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. The second girl objectively sounded better!!!

[@Queen_EL11]

He knew, but clearly her future wasn’t “bright”. 🥴🥴🥴

[@mckenziecurtis7686]

Lmaooo she said “not fake black people like Danileigh”

[@theresamw3559]

I hope women receive what you said. “Opt out” of men who don’t want you. That’s a freeing word!

[@ashleysartattack5600]

I think Dani Leigh is lying. I don’t think she was making an innocent song. I think it was a form of outrage marketing. People didn’t know her name and now some extra people do. And it’s gross that she did this, and trying to play coy about it. There’s people much younger than her that know what colorism is. I don’t see how she didn’t know that this was not the right move. Especially in the time period that we’re in right now. Also, that other conversation at 43:00 is so good and true! I would love if you talked more about relationship dynamics in the future. It’s taken me 27 years of life to figure out that not everyone is for me, and that I shouldn’t be offended when they aren’t. And that I shouldn’t feel bad about myself, or to resent that person. We just don’t vibe together! But someone out there does!

[@simplylavenia]

Tyler Perry (dressed as madea of course) said something in one of his plays when I was in high school and it stuck with me. There was a woman character crying because of relationship issues and broken heartedness and he looked at her and said something along the lines of you keep praying those prayers and you are looking to get your heart broke. She stopped crying and looked at him confused, then he explained you keep praying for your husband that man is only one person you are going to go through multiple people to get to him you're going to get your heart broke all these men out here only one of them is for you the rest will break your heart, they're not for you. I'm paraphrasing but that stuck with me because it's true if the goal is to ultimately be with that one person then it's going to turn out that a good number of people we encounter wouldn't be the one. But I think the people on the way to that one are not a waste of time though, they come into your life for other reasons maybe it's a lesson, maybe they help you to grow.. Or maybe you find what to look out for and what you don't want on the next one. Happy that I found my one.. Or rather he found me when I wasnt looking and just proclaimed to myself that I wasnt going on not another date or talk to another person because it was time to focus on and elevate myself. Funny how that works. 😂

[@goodnplenty1873]

If this woman can claim to be black based on her DNA results, then I'm claiming white, based on mine. (22% European) like a lot of African Americans, I had two undeniably black parents. I guess we all white then, let's stake our claim!

[@Giggles50]

Good N' Plenty Exactly👌

[@christina6335]

Let's do it.

[@hamtaro6471]

same here! guess i'm Spaniard now

[@ShineOn132]

I’m dying at the “pick each other!” Like that’s it now, we’re not Pick me’s we’re pick each other’s

[@f3042]

She’s going to let DaBaby ruin her career before she actually/fully “makes it”...

[@venesiaperry448]

Can we really blame him though? She’s doing this on her own! She wants to out do his bm. And the bm just can sit back and laugh cos she actually know that man.

[@f3042]

@@venesiaperry448 LOL! I’m not blaming him. He’s ignorant, but she’s a fool. She made herself his mouthpiece and he won’t be getting any blowback! 🤷🏾‍♀️ Even someone like Cardi who isn’t Black, but is part of the “culture”, would know better than to ever make a song like that. That’s why this is so laughable. If her man actually cared he might’ve kept her from making such a huge misstep.

[@shannonallaround9490]

Good

[@auntieruckus6444]

Chile please da baby ain’t finna let that happen he’ll dump her ass n run back to that baby mama..... AGAIN🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😭😭😭

[@wellthatsinteresting1]

Her career??? (Souljaboy voice)

[@kedeeky]

That Rick Ross clip burned me up. Also, no valedictorian would ever use the term “valedictorian mind skills”.

[@TonyWhiteCreates]

Now I never bring up your appearance but GIRL it’s the skin for me, the hair for me, everything 💅🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@CW12190]

“I need to calm down, cause I’m gonna sweat out my press” 😭😭😭😭

[@MichouThe]

She is white, she is literally 80% european so that does make her white!

[@nyanteea226]

“Find the people who want you and go there”. No truer words. I will tell y’all I’m 28 and this has worked for me. Just know if you’re looking for someone to be open to everything you are (to really see you) , you also have to be open to everything they are and see past some less substantial things 😉

[@bnsmit14]

That "highly-valued" is rooted in classism and elitism. IDC who you are. If you don't align with what I want and what I look for in a partner, I'm not for you.

[@karrionnsmith]

This isn’t like Brown skin girl when it’s praising all brown skin, she said...”yellow bone”.

[@paymyrent7516]

Watching you watch that “apology” was exactly what I needed lmao

[@technojunkie123]

Dang, compared to the 90's, and early 00's colorism and the propping up of light skinned women in black pop culture has just reached ridiculous levels 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@kaya5526]

LOVE the hair!!! You look so fab!

[@NtandoMbele]

Funny how the other man where laughing at Brittany until RickRoss spoke. Then the other guy was like "in music?" and they where visible shook... When Rick Ross said Brittany was better, they didn't show the other guys after... Nah! This does a number in a person's head... Thinking you are at an advantage or special usually opens you up for exploitation or being used!

[@deej5608]

Actually the guys in the competition LOVED BRITTANY

[@NtandoMbele]

@@deej5608 don't doubt that at all!

[@theman9048]

@@deej5608 na it was about Rick Ross getting a girl to smash not a lady of MMG

[@lesajohnson8109]

I'm still in the beginning but your freshly clipped ends are so pleasing to look at LOL.

[@ngwomanatlarge4378]

things we would not admit and are part of the reasons why this happens is the following: 1. our standards for "blackness" are so variable and porous that it allows anyone to claim they are black. cardi B is considered black but dani leigh who looks similar in my eye isn't. and they are both Dominican. Kamala Harris is considered black when one of her parents is Indian and her father may be black or even biracial. 2. Our community elevates these women. colorist black men and some black women elevated them as more beautiful. people go where they are valued. she knows she has higher currency in the black community that's why she is here. if she didn't have higher currency in our community then this wouldn't be such an issue. at some point we have stop making excuses for why and stop elevating these women in our community. and instead of attacking danileigh for elevating her skin color (which is natural and normal. is she supposed to hate the fact that she has whitish skin?) we should be attacking the people in our community who elevate people like her over us. she is literally where she is because black people elevated her to that point.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

True.

[@CarmenSD]

I agree. The psychology and biology behind all of this. Our community has always felt like an outcast so we claim everybody that wants to be Blk. And people know they can gain more attn, more value, essentially more money coming over and claiming Blk.

[@Ruby-kr6fh]

This is a high quality comment. Yes. Yes to it all.

[@Bre.995]

As a darker woman who struggled with my complexion growing up and wanting to bleach my skin my first year of high school, I AM TIRED as hell of the gaslighting from black men that act like this isn’t an issue. 🙄

[@Nekole1]

I agree.

[@charlybrown5264]

By the way it is so interesting because I remember that Prince also found Shameless Maya and she shot his album cover

[@PortraitofAsha]

Yup

[@deej5608]

EXACTLY

[@neadyoduor6297]

Yara Shahidi as well...

[@mickeysbooktubeexperiment3029]

Damn. Definitely had a type.

[@juicyparsons]

racial opportunism is a great way to put it. there are others that fit into that camp lol

[@hdhdu7634]

Well well well, this is particularly relevant again😎

[@HB-ie6tt]

Your reaction to the apology was me as well.😂 literally laughed. A WHOLE JOKE.

[@TheMusicmakesmehigh]

Oh my god this is a STUNNING look! The make-up, the hair, the lipgloss, the smile! I’m trying to divest from offering compliments based on looks but this is fierce

[@Minding_my_business]

This silk press is everything.

[@anony1596]

Why does youtube keep deleting my comments? 🙃 Like I said: I refuse to believe she doesn't understand all the context and the significance of the song. She knows. She doesn't care. She's doing it for clout. Cancel her like Sabrina Claudio and Daniel Ceasar Edit: that "apology" rotmfflmfaooo. Get rid of her

[@charlotte16064]

hey, i’m sorry for asking but i just don’t know: what have sabrina claudio and daniel caesar done ? could you educate me ? :)

[@ea7109]

@@charlotte16064 Sabrina had a WHOLE black women bashing finsta, i believe😬

[@eurekamreum5458]

Sometimes the comments keep disappearing because you used a word that Kim has banned, or you cussed or something along those lines. It's never happened to me in this comment section but it has in other people's channels.

[@YonniInfinity]

Omg and I like sabrina and Daniel I didn't know any of that 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@khaiylahwiththestyla8722]

Brittney put those valedictorian mind skills to work with that Instagram post!

[@lola.odetola]

rick ross is an embarrassment straight from that clip. i’m also sad that the dream did it also, disgusting...

[@LibraP93]

I’ve know several Black Latinos from Honduras and the Dominican Republic. None of them look like the mixed/racially ambiguous people who are claiming to be Black now because it's “trendy”.

[@LibraP93]

@Alex Styles From the example of Dani Leigh and other examples in the media I’ve seen make me believe otherwise. And of course, this doesn’t apply to all mixed/racially ambiguous people. However, I’m using the example of people like Dani Leigh in this case. Lastly, are you saying that being treated like a Black person is equivalent to actually being a Black person? That logic makes no sense.

[@LibraP93]

@Alex Styles Actually, no that’s not always true because some biracial/mixed people who have one Black and a non-Black parent may not always look phenotypically Black. Therefore, they wouldn’t be treated as such. I have biracial and mixed friends who have at least one Black parent and they don’t look like the average Black person. They can pass for another race or racially ambiguous. And again, I was talking about people like Dani Leigh who don’t even possess one Black parent and all of a sudden they’re claiming Blackness.

[@LibraP93]

@Alex Styles It seems that you’re going by “one drop rule” standards of Blackness and I don’t adhere to that.

[@LibraP93]

@Alex Styles Did you not watch Kim’s video? That’s exactly why Black people are up in arms about Dani Leigh’s song. She’s claiming to be something that she’s not and Black people are checking her about it.

[@LibraP93]

@Alex Styles You brought other people into this discussion. I told you that I was specifically talking about Dani Leigh and people like her. That’s it.

[@Nikki-ks6wi]

Girl I’m light skinned and agree ain’t no way I’m making a song called yellow bone I thought huh?! 😂

[@guyeaston5265]

“Let me calm down before my edges sweat out chile’” 😭👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

[@Vanessa-iq3vt]

I was wondering why you were so supportive of the apology...your reaction during was HILARIOUSSSS. it was like "it's the audacity for me."