Let's Have An Argument

I swear we had an actual topic for today's podcast. That's not the direction it went though. You know those awkward smiling arguments you have in front of company? Yeah, let's have one of those.
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[@megajoe92012]

When mom and dad start arguing and you slowly back out of the room 👀 lol

[@leam7018]

😂

[@kaykaysims9461]

For real lol!

[@letishaallen8196]

Yes!!! 😁

[@debbiepetaccio4203]

Sorry Asa, every mom multi tasks, end of conversation.

[@danettehartsock6366]

Amen! I'm not a mom, but I even know that.

[@jessistokesbeary1334]

Yup!! I stay multi tasking.

[@Khoffma2]

yep! moms couldnt survive not multitasking. a lot of men cannot multitask bc its how their brains are made! they have to focus!

[@jessicahorsburgh6028]

so true I multi task I can brush my teeth and put eye shadow on at the same time

[@heatherjunker967]

My mom's favorite quote: I may not always be right, but I am never wrong! This seems appropriate here. :-)

[@kaywhite6274]

I’m been home all alone this week studying for my masters and this literally made me laugh out loud - so relatable! It makes my heart happy watching you guys - it’s so obvious that despite whatever argument or irritation you guys might be facing with each other, at the root of it you love each other really. Thanks for making me smile today 💕

[@jasminewildman6391]

Have you ever thought about hiring an assistant? I know you guys already have a lot of people involved in your life and you mentioned the whole control aspect, which I absolutely relate to. But maybe if you had someone to help out with these things, like booking trips and making sure everything gets packed, scheduling meetings & stuff, helping you guys with time management, etc. it would help a little You guys are always CRAZY busy, and have so much going on ALL the time between Maass Squad Cares, Fathering Autism, PTA, Lipstick Mama, PPP, life in general, and much more. Asa sleeps MAYBE five hours every night (expect the weekends lol). Don't get me wrong, you guys are handling everything amazingly. I just don't want to see you guys get burnt out. Love you all so much!

[@kaykaysims9461]

They would really benefit a lot from having an assistant ❤

[@PossumWrangler]

Jasmine Ruckman I’ve wondered this same thing....if an assistant wouldn’t alleviate a lot of their burden, because they are busy 24/7

[@Mumma2many]

It would definitely help. But by the time they are actually able to release control and train, Isaiah will be gone and all that volunteerism is gone too. I can’t see them ever doing it because they are self proclaimed control freaks & life is changing.

[@jasminewildman6391]

@@Mumma2many I understand that. Maass Squad Cares is growing rapidly though. And they still have everything else. They still help at Abby's school too. PTA would be a major weight off Cilla's shoulders, no more concession stands and early meetings and stuff. But I've seen people get assistants for a lot less. The fact that they've done everything this far by themselves is absolutely amazing.

[@kayleybohnet7754]

I love this type of podcast!!! I love how “real” this is ! Best KZbin family ever

[@christyc.8346]

You two are a great team. Every relationship has “moments”, it’s how we handle those moments, how we come out of them or work together that really matter. Love you guys ❤️

[@tealady4]

”your name is on my kids’ birth certificates...” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@angelagrayson222]

You guys have an amazing relationship. I think if two married people worked, lived, and parented 24/7 together and they never had any arguments they would either be robots or psychopaths lol.

[@stephanielong8371]

It’s not an apology. Hearing I’m sorry can make a world of difference. I know people who struggle to say those two words and it hurts. It makes you feel like they don’t care about you and so many other feelings. That’s why I always told my kids they need to say it when they have done something wrong and have done it myself when I made a mistake as a parent. It shows them that I respect them and care about them and their feelings.

[@convertandbeorthodoxpls]

that moment where Priscilla said she'd change it to PM2AM. I almost fell out my chair laughing.

[@vickidandurand9640]

SAME. i was cracking up

[@BenneBenneBenne]

THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITES! Related so much bc this is how my husband and I hash things out. We make fun of each other and it helps point out what we were fighting about was probably dumb or a misunderstanding.

[@Dina-ew1pk]

I love how you guys fight!!!! It was a great way to let off steam. Shows me how real you guys are.

[@pamhumler3903]

Love these podcasts we get to watch! You guys are so open and real. Love you both! Hope Vegas is a great trip.

[@laceyelliott2826]

Was the scientist that said that you can't multitask a man by any chance? Because 90% of my waking hours is me multitasking.

[@amberivey9356]

Love that you guys keep it real.

[@k8lynL]

might be my fav podcast yet !! yall should do more off the cuff podcasts ! lol

[@janaleonard4702]

Oh my goodness! This was one of the best podcasts. I can so relate to you guys. Your banter had me laughing, so freaking hilarious! I wonder if I could get my husband to sit down for 5-10 minutes a week to go over our schedule together. This might avoid miscommunication. Have a great time in vegas you two!

[@loveofami8171]

A hug is most definitely an apology. If you're bad at verbally apologizing, a hug is a great non-verbal way of apologizing.

[@CathySMelton]

LOVE IT!! This is so fun and so real. Have fun on your trips!

[@just-i-fy11]

I love that y’all are putting the podcasts on YT now too!!! 💕🧩🐶🐈🐢💕

[@tracygibson6346]

Yes, relatable. Times like this podcast make me miss my husband so much more. Keep communicating, it’s so important.

[@AbraSings]

Yes. "Annoyed moments." My husband and I have those. We rarely actually argue. And when we do, it doesn't last long at all. We get over it. I loved this podcast so much. So real. 🙂

[@16zas]

I love this guys. Yous are very honest and it makes us to be able to relate so much.

[@judyguadalupe]

So I think you totally stayed on topic!! Stress of planning a trip like this totally leads to disagreements. 🥰

[@kayleybohnet7754]

juja yes I agreed !

[@kristinboxwell]

Oh absolutely. Trip planning is one of if not the most stressful of times for my family. A close second would be moving.

[@JenniferRosellen]

This is super awkward I love it and I love that you turn it around and just d'awww - this is how to 'fight' effectively!! [Fight is the wrong word, disagree? Vent? Effectively!]

[@rissadawn2047]

Sorry but every time I hear yall on these it reminds me of the SNL skits 😂😂😂

[@kaydeeharlow5127]

this was so amazing, like i wish i have a marriage like this! i love you’re relationship! thank you for doing this! i laughed so much!!

[@ChelseeLeigh333]

This makes me more confident in my own romantic relationship. We have times where we say, “I love you, but right now I don’t like you.” And we apologize every time we fit but it’s a very, “I’m sorry for fighting” basic. We know the other doesn’t mean it and we typically make jokes about the fights later and it makes us feel better. Hashing things out is always healthy, blowing up is not.

[@travisarcemont9178]

Y'all have the best KZbin channel ever

[@tonyav16]

I love your podcast! I love all you guys do! Thank you for all the content you provide for us! 💖💖 i hope your trip is amazing! Have so much fun! Safe travels!

[@idivadesign]

That was awesome! Thanks for being yourselves. ❤

[@rachellee3511]

I just went away for two days while I was on a course. I literally had a time line/timeline of what my husband and son needed to do while I was away, who was taking care of the wee one and when he needed to be picked up, lunches to pack, and clothes that needed to be sorted etc. I feel your pain.

[@margaretlyons6294]

I so enjoy your podcasts especially when you two get silly with each other arguing over differences of opinions.

[@missalyrae]

Power to Pricilla!

[@torontokat54]

loved it, sounds just like my husband and I. We bicker, my youngest daughter calls us the Bickerson's. lol He stresses, I always say, "Don't worry about it, it is not a problem.", He says, "yeah, nothing is a problem for you.", He says that sarcastically. But really, most things are not a problem unless you make them a problem. Everything will work out but maybe not the way you imagine it. Remember, you basically control nothing in this world, even when you think you are controlling things. Try to control the things that are controllable and other than that, let it go. I only learned this after many, many, many years of trying to control everything.

[@kristinboxwell]

Yes, I'm learning. Trying not to stress things I have no control over. And handle unforseen circumstances with a little more grace. Embrace change, and learn to adapt to new situations while keeping an open positive mind. The older I get though the easier it is to be more aware of what consumes my energy.

[@deedsd.schwind9929]

I love your relationship. You are both so open when you are bantering and even though you may be very stressed the love you both have for each other is very apparent!

[@Corey215]

I truly LOVE ur family, n I just wanted to say that Abbi seems like she is doing better every video. U guys r awesome . Love from Philly 👍🏾

[@WhiskeyWoman]

Thank you for this!! I have been fighting with my partner for a few days now. We are a blended family of 6. 9 years ago we all lived under one roof, 2 are grown now and off on their own, 1 in college, 2 seniors in Highschool and lastly 1 sophomore. 4 boys 2 girls. One of our seniors is on the spectrum and has many health issues so sometimes life is VERY stressful!! It is nice to be reminded that everyone goes through things.

[@tonyab4674]

Your bickering is totally relatable 😂 I love this channel!

[@sarahrune5318]

The name on the title thing....my father in law had everything in his name and when he died my mother in law had to go to probate court to get ownership of what was already hers. Joint ownership would have prevented that issue.

[@jennifer.ann83]

Love y'alls realness! As a mother to 3 autistic children , I can relate a lot and humor is the best medicine 💙🙏 Hope y'all enjoy your trip

[@CassidyNicole14]

That’s how my boyfriend and I apologize We get mad, we give each other the silent treatment for about 5-10 minutes then one of us just comes up and hugs or snuggles the other person and that’s our apology There are many different love languages, there are also many different apology languages Just like you don’t always need to say the words “I love you” for someone to know that you love them, you don’t always say the words “I’m sorry” for someone to know that you’re sorry

[@kaylee1213]

18:31 yes prescilla!!! Hahaha 😂😂😂

[@lbcrewgurl]

I absolutely relate to yalls relationship and just love yall!!!

[@sherryryan345]

Well done. Every couple has to find a way of working these little things out. My husband and I used to hold hands if we had to have a deep conversation. It just helped us remember that this person that we want to strangle is some one that we love, so even in the I dont like you moments we still showed love and respect. We have been married almost 20 years when he passed a few months ago.

[@susanbrandt5203]

Asa, multi tasking is running a podcast, having a conversation with Priscilla, AND checking your phone. See you can multi task too. 🤜💥🤛 Priscilla 1 scientists 0😎

[@sharonrevell8276]

I love watching you all but watching this video made me 😆 you pair are just so great at banter. A real life marriage made in heaven. You make my day 😊

[@victoria7374]

I just started listening to the podcasts and I really enjoy them!

[@rachelcarl6169]

You guys are the best parents ever !

[@rachelcarl6169]

Aca and Cilla the 2 of your have a great team so don't worry and relax and have great time during your trips.

[@dianaweatherford4809]

I really enjoy watching. Butnot to argue

[@sammypigeot5797]

ASA!!!!! ❤ Be in the Moment! Trust the Universe!! And Have a FABULOUS Time!!!

[@sarbear5129]

110% relatable! And opposites attract! If my boyfriend was as ocd and need to for control to ease anxiety and he was not an easy going musician. We would have issues! I also want to say I’ve found your channel a few months ago and have binging and as someone who has worked with kids with special needs for 8 years you are the parents I wish all my clients had - caring , understanding , and the responsibility to help Abby experience “all the things” as you say! You embody she is clearly a person first. Her autism dose not define her 💓 thank you for spreading awareness and helping families around the world 🌎

[@sunny4jenny]

My hubby & I both add things to To Do lists just so we can check it off✅

[@jaytotheell]

i'm a housecleaner, and i multi task ALL the time. almost every woman does. no argument.

[@angelanavarro593]

Relatable 100% lol glad my relationship isnt the only one that jokes about killing eachother 🤣🤣

[@sadielove23]

I love you two & I admire how strong you both are & I hope you enjoy your trip & get to relax☺️

[@hes_the_way5391]

I never laughed so much! You guys are so freakin CUUUUTE!!!! I’ve been married 16 years and can so relate to you guys....and still absolutely adore my husband! Love you guys so much 💞

[@eneal]

I really appreciate you guys being so open about your relationship. It makes me feel not alone in my relationship. My fiance doesnt apologize either lol. He just come in and says "are you still mad?" Ugh lol

[@theresawarchulski5339]

Asa, you just gotta have the last word 😂😂😂

[@Stoneybaby727]

Awwww! I renewed my vows with my husband a couple of weeks ago in Vegas. 10 year renewal. We went to the Sweet Memories chapel and they had a little gazebo and fountain, and they had and beautiful little chapel and a staircase leading to it from the brides dressing room 😍 I hope you guys have a blast in Vegas!! It was so much fun for us❤️

[@jenmacaulay1405]

Love your channel. First time commenting. Love your family so much and Abby has captured my heart. Much love oshawa Ontario Canada xo

[@jamparker969]

You guys are awesome! I haven't stopped laughing and smiling!

[@wombatty5104]

Love you guys!

[@samanthaweaver2782]

This was the best 😂 Priscilla was in a mood! I love it! My husband and I are the same way. You’ve got to have a sense of humor with each other.

[@kristinboxwell]

Right!

[@karendell2268]

ASA is right... We can't multi task... Our brain can flip from one thing to another very quickly but not at the same time. Trips are very stressful at the best of times. It's easy to let the little things get in the way. Being sensitive and needing support is needed when your stressed. Be kind to yourselves. I really love how you communicate it really is an inspiration to me. The respect you have for each others strengths and weaknesses is empowering. I love how you recognize each other. You're so beautiful.

[@Kinitopet91149]

I love yall. Love this podcast.

[@BeingMrsFrasure]

This is great! Idk what took me so long to watch it!

[@kristymccune6518]

😂 y'all remind me so much of myself and my husband. It's refreshing to see.

[@anniekolbe2]

Love you guys! Don't change anything!

[@sarahrunkle1683]

You're relationship is most definitely relatable!!!

[@kikiwoodard160]

Just love y’all. Y’alls NO NOs make my day.

[@Truffles-fk3du]

So I heard something a couple of years ago. For every argument that happens, one person has the last words. The man speaks those last words. ..... Those last words are........ ........ ........ Yes ma'am.

[@lisamarie6623]

Pricilla when you were boppin to the music at the beginning you made a face and Abby makes the same one! Lol so cute!

[@karensteele2979]

I love the couple chat. Keep it going!

[@donnaroesinger8443]

Hello from Canada. I have been watching you for a year now and love your family. I have worked in the disability field for 14 years and do love seeing Abbie and your family. You all make me laugh

[@CMBiggin]

Love the bickering banter! Sounds like me and my hubby!

[@kristicameron1926]

Hey guys hope your having a great day 😘

[@cyndeefreeland9407]

I use the check box on notepad a lot!! Especially lists I reuse like camping trip packing list, vacation packing, etc. they don’t change much.

[@mommageek8775]

I laughed this entire podcast 🤣 and your relationship is very relatable

[@lawrentw]

Love y'all! 💓

[@rachaelmcdonald4347]

I think this is the best podcast yet. Made me laugh out loud after a tough day. 💜

[@trixiesparkles6572]

The kids face when you asked about the boxing gloves on the vlogg! Love you guys!

[@debbietrevor1297]

Love this so much! X

[@princessamber292]

It qualifies as an apology in the sense of showing love and respect in spite of the disagreement. In my opinion that is so much more than the verbal apology

[@kristinboxwell]

Very relatable!! Its normal, healthy. I'm with my hubby 24/7 too we also work together. We are not always going to see eye to eye. And that's ok.

[@leam7018]

Priscilla's feisty today 😂. I love you guys

[@joyciemartinez4077]

Your channel is the best on KZbin. Love you guys. (Joy-see) all the way from cuero tx

[@phyllisheintschel1437]

Joycie Martinez I’m from Victoria! What are the odds?!

[@joyciemartinez4077]

What do you mean? What are the odds?

[@joyciemartinez4077]

@@phyllisheintschel1437 what do you mean about the odds.

[@phyllisheintschel1437]

What are the odds that two people who live so close in TX are following the same blog?

[@joyciemartinez4077]

Phyllis heintschel right we are 20 miles a part

[@jennihamilton3084]

Y'all are freaking awesome :) I love you guys!!!!!

[@codysmom4444]

my fav pod so far!!

[@TheWeeFamily]

I get really stressed when I am a passenger too.

[@Kait10]

I felt like I was listening to my husband and I talk 😂🤣

[@christineb5033]

It was nice to see vulnerable Asa...you are a great couple

[@chloe5854]

Never been this early. You two truly are couple goals

[@emberlyhaskell1156]

Pm to am bwahahaha love it you made my day today

[@robinlee3375]

Lol.... love how you changed the subject Priscilla😪😂. When he was talking about your name should be on Asa's truck.

[@xanniedepx]

Priscilla comin with the comeback at 18:30 😂

[@melexanie5403]

Hahahaha you 2 have made me laugh today, I’m like Pricilla... I don’t apologise either 🤣😂

[@janethale1913]

Your relationship is amazing, I love you all ❤️

[@princessamber292]

Aww I love that ending!!!

[@gladysrienks3001]

OMGoodness...I have laughed a lot during this podcast video. Love you guys.

[@charissam190]

I laughed so much listening to this! Totally reminds me and my boyfriend and me. haha