Let's Talk About Sex: The Reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity | Grace Wetzel | TEDxStLawrenceU

[@jessicaascano9381]

When you're single and still watch this.

[@yogeshreddy6002]

Lol 😂

[@sintymckeating7015]

Glad to know I'm not alone

[@mubangachisha3041]

I feel attacked 😅🤦‍♂️

[@jessicaascano9381]

So you guys are single?

[@jessicaascano9381]

@@mubangachisha3041 why?

[@dsmay6404]

One moment of silence for those who came with their parents to this tedx without knowing topic

[@munnabhaiyya9515]

lol

[@amrt7755]

See, that's the problem.

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@@amrt7755 you are samjhdaar👍

[@danial3192]

😂😂😂😂 Khatam

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@@danial3192 finish😂 satyaanaas hui gayo

[@Chad_Thundercock]

She makes a few good points, but there is one glaring issue with her assumptions. Biology and evolution don't give a single, cross eyed, red headed damn about 'social constructs' and 'gender roles'. Men orgasm easier than women becuase if men don't orgasm, they don't reproduce. Women can reproduce without orgasm, so the selective pressure of orgasm is not a factor. So yes, it's absolutely possible, and even probable, that women have a harder time reaching orgasm due to biology. But it's not that women are hard to bring to orgasm, but that it's so comparatively easy to bring a man to orgasm. Want to get off more often? Tell your partner what you like and need. Help out, even. You're adults. Take responsibility for yourself.

[@Newstatejournal1]

Well said!

[@robertgabuna355]

Rick Cutshall Agree...

[@sanjayvasnani4612]

Cannot Agree more!

[@praneetjoshi8541]

Rick Cutshall .. Disagree. The assumption that a guy's orgasm is easier than a girl's is a complete myth. It's exactly the same time. Please listen to the video again.

[@raymukhtar6806]

Praneet Joshi TRUST me lady, it does NOT take a man 4 minutes. THAT is not science lmfao

[@carmenbalko1372]

I AM an 89 year old Granny and by golly never in my Life did I ever believe Woman would finally Hear THE TRUTH…OMG SO GRATEFUL…ALL WOMAN SHOULD HEAR THIS…I MEAN ALL …I SO APPRECIATE THIS VALUABLE INFORMATION…❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

[@bl8896]

You don't SOUND like an 89 year old granny

[@tylerdurden2832]

Ok KZbin, I've watched it. You happy?

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you dog，me too

[@aadityaacharya5902]

The first rule of fight club ...............

[@kartikeyatiwari8661]

@@aadityaacharya5902 is you don't talk about fight club

[@jayantchaudhary177]

@@kartikeyatiwari8661 you just talked about fight club

[@notgayatall5454]

@@jayantchaudhary177 You just talked about them talking about fight club. Which is technically talking about fight club.

[@asandax6]

The reason people are quiet is because They are so so focused in taking mental notes

[@somiproductions]

Exactly, like what's the point of this

[@thethird2334]

ARE you from south africa

[@aidanrezvani9295]

I'm going to single handedly fix this problem.

[@JaiHind-tl7zt]

Till when ??

[@idig7345]

😂

[@jacksummer4041]

Lol

[@podareofficial]

you might want to use both buddy

[@mikeoxlong6851]

Nice one lol

[@Africa96tv]

Yho, the silence in this room was of another level.

[@michaelmelamed9103]

IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DO CLAPPING WITH ONE HAND

[@James_Fly_Tying]

Clap them cheeks with no hands

[@badmrwolf6716]

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[@infidelheretic923]

I wonder if this was all secretly directed at her boyfriend.

[@CL-uf9xw]

@ Infidel Heretic I wonder if you watched this whole thing thinking "She's hot, what did she say?"

[@amedina6162]

@Waterlec lol it probably was detected to her boyfriend lol. Good one.

[@GypzyJack]

@Waterlec The front row was empty. He must have got embarassed and fled the scene!

[@marvickfranca]

Kkkkkkk

[@lelandraymaley3]

Infidel Heretic I don’t perceive this girl as straight?

[@michaelware1649]

Men are not mind readers, generally speaking, women need to speak up, and let men know what they want, different women like different things, I think most men would be happy to oblige!

[@likad.5156]

Most. But some would call it a complaint...

[@leonniceday6807]

Wait till you grow older... Not knowing is formidable excuse ;).

[@rayana4250]

"Today, I'm gonna be talking to you about sex". I'm genuinely surprised no one in the crowd yelled "YES!" after that bold statment DISCLAIMER: I have no idea why this video was recommended to me. Honest.

[@BM_brb]

Rayan A, they yelled inside their heads.

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They recommended this to me also, Idk

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Yeah...recommended to me also...lol...wtf!

[@ItsSalman98]

😂😂

[@lezysul]

Lmao, same here 😥😥😥😐😐😐

[@Exxplore_the_NorthEast]

Singles give attendance here

[@jyotiprakash9774]

😁

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😛😛

[@rohitk2390]

Dear youtube, i am single,why am i being recommended this? Is universe sending me some type of signal?

[@Purple_Neon]

Me too😂😂😂

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😂😂

[@donj2202]

Yes

[@enamouredray5818]

Depend upon your activity

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Elon musk sent you the signal🤣

[@Prodiggy23]

What she did really well in this talk, unlike many other equality discussions in today's day in age, is she was very open about saying that this wasn't all just because of men or a certain group of people. She did an excellent job in pointing out that as a collective society, men and women, we should change how we look at this issue not to take away the benefits that it already gives but rather add more benefits for the other party involved. Greatly worded and put together talk.

[@camerondiprose1722]

I didn’t see it like that. It’s not ever been something I’ve thought about. If I’m there to have a good time, so is she and if the job doesn’t get done one way you step it up and do something else. To some how insist that there’s a systemic problem of men being lazy goes a bit far. It’s certainly not been my experience.

[@glenwaldrop8166]

Most of the complaints come from having a bad partner or lack of experience. Don't sleep around with randos that only care about themselves, that's a huge start.

[@king.2597]

That's how many equality discussions are

[@vanhau9674]

1st 2nd

[@seangpinyoung2719]

Not me,I never fake anymore! The longer you live the more brave and stay true to yourself always! Just tell him! Lol.

[@dbsk06]

IKR lol

[@notgayatall5454]

You go girl! Be a part of the solution and not the problem.

[@ishwindersinghwalia6769]

This was much needed! Thank you for opening up a conversation about it!

[@0669able]

Very well said and very well put . Extremely well delivered on a subject least talked about ,and least demanded by wemen. Hats off to her for making the awareness of equality of this commodity for both sexes. Hurrah to her.

[@th3b0yg]

I'm so tired of hearing about how we're victims of ideas that exist. Take responsibility for your own life and fulfillment. It's not a competition, it's a collaboration. Collaborate with someone who's good to you and it's probably going to be good.

[@pladselsker8340]

Couldn't say it any better

[@MrRedwingsfan16]

All she is saying is for people to be more aware of others, if you really care for a person this should be instinctive. Yes we should take responsibility for our own happiness, and like she said, a woman should feel empowered enough to ask, but the reality is, a lot of women feel awkward. We don't live in a perfect world, and it takes communication and a little bit of empathy to move in that direction

[@th3b0yg]

MrRedwingsfan16 or to hit the same idea from the other direction, buck up and stop thinking of yourself as a victim. It's incumbent upon you to pursue the happiness you desire. It's not incumbent upon others to provide it. But they might provide it if you ask.

[@emmanuelp.8730]

Robert Johnson women dont get it.. Somehow they believe that men are mindreaders..

[@MrRedwingsfan16]

Robert Johnson that's a very good realization, but unfortunately not everyone's brain works the same way. That's why people like you that have realized that, can only do the best they can to help others realize that. Hence my point of empathy and awareness go a long way.

[@TheUltrazone23]

Is my girlfriend working at KZbin secretly? This was recommended to me!

[@richymt20]

Lmaoo the best comment ahahah

[@desicryptoguy6090]

You just confessed something 😅😂😂😂

[@visibleconfusion9513]

Gahaha

[@motivatevideo]

Oh, may be fit on this.

[@rixseixe]

Talking about equality of pleasure is significant. I think the first barrier to get across this inequality is communication. Speak to your partner - your likes, your dislikes and all that make you feel happy and content. The act is for both to enjoy - that is what all of humanity does.

[@since1876]

Hey, man, I'll do my best, but if she can't get there in 2.5 minutes, that's why Jesus invented vibrators.... 🥺

[@likad.5156]

What if my partner says "I haven't heard any complaints from others "?

[@rixseixe]

@@likad.5156He should be with others. What is your partner doing with you?

[@frankmeintjes5012]

Bottom line ladies take control and tell your partner what you want. If he listens he is a wise guy.

[@hamzamoussaid4347]

Haha if the women take control of her man she will never have orgasm from him

[@seradin8029]

@@hamzamoussaid4347 what?

[@Mia199603]

They often don't so that's that.

[@Nimrodel84]

It's not very easy to say what you want when everything in your life told you that you are not allowed to ask those things.

[@frankmeintjes5012]

@@Nimrodel84 You must realize that it's your life your needs your body. You have the right to speak your mind. It is not sinful or wrong but it's your right.

[@TNTsundar]

People don’t quite understand when someone says “It’s hard to satisfy a woman”. I only ask them to watch this video - just once.

[@fluttersheesh8884]

She actually quotet, that by themselves women and men need approx. equal time amount to reach orgasm. So what are you saying ?

[@puppypi9668]

@@fluttersheesh8884 I think he's agreeing and saying that he shows people this video to set them straight :')

[@Pikachu-cv4ju]

Nice session of SEDx...😅

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😂😂😂👍

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Creativity level 💯🤣

[@ahmedfathi1488]

@ABHISHEK AWASTHI Simp 😂🤣

[@saidamin4510]

She has put out all her anger to her husband in this presentation 😂

[@JackJack-sc2od]

GODD

[@asithaperera377]

If this is recommended to you, there is high chance that you are single or long distance relationship 😂😂

[@chesslessonswithgaurav7087]

No

[@hopealive3013]

How do you know.? 🙄 i am in long distance

[@adityapurohit246]

Hahahhaa

[@Stoic2002]

How the f you know

[@herman3376]

long distance here

[@retlaw4003]

Is there anyone single listening to this?

[@mubangachisha3041]

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️Here

[@jessicaascano9381]

let's make a group of singles 😂

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😁

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@@jessicaascano9381 true😂😂

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Me I'm 16

[@caischcer]

3:36 That was weird. Did she sneeze or something? It appeared to me as if she was laughing for a second

[@youareconnectingshivamkumar]

Because No One is Laughing or Cheering. She feels awkward bcoz no one is giving any sign of emotion.

[@ivanbreak]

she had an orgasm

[@notgayatall5454]

@@ivanbreak Thank you kind sir. For making me laugh.

[@hondedtij6761]

She forgot what she was about to say

[@freefallwefall]

@@hondedtij6761 Agreed. She panicked on stage for a split second before recovering gracefully.

[@hensuwis2160]

Why I am seeing this ? I don't even have a gf .

[@notgayatall5454]

It will be helpful in the future.

[@MoonlitKii]

@@notgayatall5454 Might Be. 😂

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Just in case

[@PAVN.]

to stay at safer side ; )

[@jessicaascano9381]

go get one

[@katie2845]

I love this!! What a thought-provoking presentation. She’s got it figured out!

[@ramona.vargas7298]

It's a simple case of lack of communication & understanding of the the men & women involved.

[@christianschwalbach7561]

Ramon Vargas pretty much

[@amberkosterewa7029]

Or lack of concern by the male party

[@oscarl.3563]

Sounds terrible, maybe you need to treat them better.

[@SanVB]

You said it! I don't see this as a Big social problem as she puts it, like if you and your partner communicate properly then this doesn't exist. I still find the talk interesting and very useful.

[@sirgrotto8714]

Jac Debaires I agree as long as everyone communicates and properly then things should be fine.

[@keylas3525]

That's a voice that needs to be heard on repeat. Thank you.

[@AryanGaming-ox7xn]

Hi keyla

[@johnnyandrew4515]

this video's especially recommanded to singles -youtube

[@danial3192]

😂😂😂

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Nice one Johnny ..nice one 👌👌 😂😂

[@PsychPerusal]

this topic is not discussed much but it is very very important. thanks for speaking up on this. i really learned a lot today.

[@h.fenrus2405]

Teach your partner & offer positive yet constructive criticism so that you can help each other. Be vocal & if something isn't happening in real time be respectful to one another & let them know what's happening.

[@marysullivan2884]

Nothing to do with content random rant warning - this college is in the middle of NOWHERE! I used to do their audit when I worked with PWC in the 00s. I spent my entire month of August in this empty college town for four years - needless to say myself and my team spent a great deal of time all alone in the bar at the Best Western. I do not miss you St. Lawerence University. I really needed to get this out I’m sorry everyone.

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M...

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Eomrning

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I don't have interest in the video but now since KZbin has recommended me 10 th time. The universe is wanting me to watch this video.

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Nepali jasto xau ta

[@rajibdhungana]

@@GutsXGriffith Haha without doubt

[@munnabhaiyya9515]

same

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You know you got recommended this cuz you’re watching something similar to it. 😅

[@munnabhaiyya9515]

@@jonnymcgrath4816 no i watch ted talks sometimes that's why this got recommended to me

[@lesliegurley1057]

When it comes to that pressure to have vaginally orgasm, believe me there is pressure on men to make that happen as well. If we are wanting to change societal expectations on women to have a vaginally orgasm we need to change the expectation on men to give her one. A man who fails to do so is typically viewed by society as not being much of a man, even by women.

[@0114mercury]

"A man who fails to do so is viewed as not being much of a man" - who said that? Never heard of this before.

[@lesliegurley1057]

@0114mercury how many times have you heard a man bragging about "banging her so good she never came"? Or when was the last time you heard a woman talking about a guy "rocking her world so good she didn't get off at all"? The truth is you have probably never heard either of those things, and if you have you are definitely one of an astronomically infinitesimal number of people who have, like you and maybe enough others to count on one finger if that many. So, like I said, there is tremendous pressure on men to make it happen.

[@Dave-x8j]

@@0114mercury r u kidding???? This is a historic standard. And a man who cant, it so looked down upon. Really?

[@threestars2164]

Completely imaginary. There is no more pressure on men than there is on women.

[@junrebs]

Good talk but it would be better if she prepared visuals of what she was talking.

[@acrowd9796]

thats what she said

[@XXxDarkGotenxXX]

Love this comment

[@zvck808]

I know, what you did there ;)

[@tanmayp1692]

U need a manual well ur partner is the manual listen and explore together she knows what she wants just read the signs just like treasure hunt hot and cold

[@rutheragonoy2062]

Doodle Master watch it on cornhub

[@markterrazzino7300]

In my opinion, my girlfriend's pleasure is more important than mine. without her, I don't get the pleasure.

[@Shadow-bx8ri]

Beautiful, brave and benevolent. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Good

[@abinothayyilsanoj4182]

👍

[@stphnmaunsell89]

On ya

[@ravikiran-os4ik]

That's what a hero do

[@stallionshark1726]

Simp

[@Mr.Coldfire421]

I'm just here because I'm looking for my pet garry, anyone see him?

[@tubbysza]

Yeah, I found him in this video suprisingly at 9:11

[@user-pm6uq3nc4s]

Spongebob, It has been one year you wrote this comment, I'm worried, have you found your Garry? Lemme know, Thanks.

[@christislord7003]

Hes in the third row and he said this was his problem for a long time coz you were negecting his needs. 🤣

[@ramiro94g]

He’s under a rock

[@Ozen-eu8wb]

Did you find it mate?

[@SullenDaiz]

I hope it's ok to share, because more people need to hear this.

[@SreyRc]

Was rather insightful! It takes courage to talk about these topics upfront. Props to her for the lecture!

[@将軍九八.彁]

She's been dating the wrong men.

[@FranCambeyro]

Jason G no doubt about it! 😉

[@melindabota1201]

Jason G she is not talking about herself. Have you missed all the statistics she mentioned?

[@rilist23]

She wasn’t talking about herself

[@RAG718]

then why do so much research and spend the time talking like this,, some how someway her wrong men affected her...

[@MegaARYARAJ]

Frustrations u know

[@catkeys6911]

I don't know about anyone else, but for me, the woman's pleasure was always the main goal. They deserve all the pleasure we can give them.

[@red_Sun24]

Simp

[@coogarathanase4219]

Of course shes wrong

[@johnjohnson5814]

Simp

[@kushal6065]

Simp

[@generalginger7804]

Simp

[@janhvinarayan1633]

This was so well thought and spoken, not everyone likes to talk on these subjects but she did and she did it quite well, hats off to her and I hope she or other speakers will come up with more videos like this 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@thinkingape7655]

I’d be curious to see how Grace’s presentation evolves over the 40+ years. Hopefully she keeps her notes.

[@kirtipurohit1237]

the audience is so dead..I could literally imagine the audience just staring at me with no interactions ,no laughs and nothing .If it would have been me ..I'd literally die out of those glares from people

[@myearsgotyouthsystem8802]

That's what you call emotional attention, cause it's all about equality!

[@alexv259]

See, because of the subject matter the presenter was talking about, Kirti expected, very incorrectly, to see the audience breathing faster (as not “so dead”) with lots of moaning😧

[@alvinzady764]

yeah how are you?

[@Akashnow]

They are relating the talk to themselves 😁

[@anmolpandey9173]

Yeah

[@akiragrant8243]

This lady is absolutely first class. She really is.

[@sajjadahmad9792]

Hi Akira how are you

[@DayBotKnightBot]

@@sajjadahmad9792Ola hu Uber

[@johnnywalker91]

it was a good discussion, i would like to point just one thing. Men and women are one species not two different. Men and women are equal. These differences of gender, colour, country are just mental boundaries existentially they do not exist. we need to treat everyone equally whether it's Men , Women or any other life form. We all are equal, we all are life, we all are conciousness. Down with all the differences.

[@aaronmolinafletcher3756]

Its a matter of educating and listening each other.

[@Ouhlyh]

A lot of women are bad at saying what they like. For me, I always focus on the women having a good time too, because I don’t have a good time unless they do too.

[@Andre-hm5vo]

Sir join MGTOW it's for the greater good for true sanity in this dysfunctional world.

[@umeshvaid8801]

I agree 👍 bro, best of luck 🤠🤞 to everyone, for better Fun

[@jonvicmamon2529]

Women doesn't know what they want.

[@Cortez0]

@@Andre-hm5voI agree. How has it improved your life overall ?

[@Cortez0]

@@Andre-hm5voAgreed

[@ShortfaceBear]

First 3 minutes sounded like a lawyer's disclaimer

[@ellismartiskainen7729]

yes

[@Purple_Neon]

True

[@dzfattnutz]

Sadly you pretty much have to do this before you speak about pretty much anything nowadays..

[@just83542]

@@dzfattnutz woke, cancelled, social justice, yadda yadda...

[@faisalshahx]

She didn't want to be attacked by the lgbt community

[@stephenjablonsky1941]

Hey guys: If you treat a woman like a queen, she will treat you like a king.

[@hazardousjazzgasm129]

lol

[@johnconnor007]

🤣🤣

[@aliciawei4809]

This is so true. The focus and expectation is that men feel good, and many men are unwilling to put enough effort into learning what gives women true pleasure. Because oftentimes when women feel good, this isn’t as physically stimulating to men. And since women are mostly willing to accept this pleasure disparity, this just renforces the norm.

[@ebrimasanyang5277]

Your are right dear

[@masterofgaming71BH4]

I like how everyone is so silent.

[@Muba7680]

Yaaa i love that

[@unstoppablezone4980]

Asking for what you want is a great way to get it. :)

[@psicolinamx]

Wonderful topic. Excellent speaker. And great invitation to consider: True gender equality.

[@commonman8582]

3:33 me in every presentation

[@shubhamsrivastavapngpsbazb5631]

That damn true for me too

[@Skibiditoiletrizzzzzz]

😂

[@kundanmishra1792]

How many teenager are there like me😁.

[@DIGGY161]

Chup reh

[@athuld357]

Ni oru kundan thenne

[@abuxxx3607]

her boyfriend is the luckiest! she will be the commander during the act!

[@bullehshah4302]

😅😅🤦

[@salmanghauri22]

🤣

[@favourw285]

ur such a wise lady... saving pples relationships.enlighting pples future... I really appreciate you.. may u be rewarded with thenks ,love and peace

[@gohorarsen5938]

*LGBTQ HAS LEFT THE CHAT*

[@transfornation3187]

You forgot 50 extra letters.

[@kayceeprag]

You forgot to add the I and A. 😂

[@tuxmode]

It's LGBTQABCDEFHIJKMNOPRSUVWXYZ

[@lelexoxo303]

James Jucutan Keyboard smash doesn't get you anywhere. Just say LGBT+, done. LGBTQIA+ for long. Tadaaaa, magic.

[@jaylolo3716]

@@lelexoxo303 it's not keyboard smash..it's alphabetical

[@godsparticle7657]

The pressure on the husbands who went home with their wives after this seminar. 😂

[@kushalsaiyam9254]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MrMikey808]

👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👅

[@magicsinglez]

Haha. . .my girlfriend stood up really tall and TOLD me. There’s something more you’re going to have to do down there. . .

[@hajyrose5930]

Hahahah she is just awsome

[@hajyrose5930]

Hahahah she is just awsome

[@Nom1fan]

Hahahah she is just awesome

[@spyroskanellopoulos1672]

Hahahah she is just awesome

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Hahahah she is just awsome

[@nakulkathare3556]

FANTASTIC VIDEO … I did understand everything but here I am still SINGLE 😂

[@psurrett1]

Thank you for this very educational talk Grace!

[@krishnabasnet7352]

So I am basically collecting theoretical knowledge before practical... 💘💘💘

[@sabinbasnet587]

lol

[@lucase.crusader1196]

lol

[@thavoice6374]

😂😂😂😂

[@leandrog2785]

Nothing wrong with that

[@shubhamyadav160]

I don't know why Google recommended me this even when it knows that I'm single

[@user00774]

hmm bhai same

[@20MinutesCZ]

Loved it. So true. So on point. And the confidence on stage is amazing to watch.

[@kmijanakter154]

Hi

[@N8_R]

0:24 How did she not laugh at that pun in front of all those people?

[@rafaelmagana6964]

I’m wondering why the audience didn’t laugh? 😂

[@fishtrick1_]

lol

[@snehabhat4876]

We need more discussions like this 🔥

[@viper4793]

yes!

[@peerzadaraies4028]

Absolutely yes.. Where from u

[@volodymyrzakolodyazhny]

And, possinly, practice and laboratory works? )

[@SaiKiran-en2zm]

Wah re wahhh!!! 🤪😜 Yeah absolutely we're educating ourselves and driven by passion for learning new ideas and deep diving into it ...🤝

[@alostacet]

@@peerzadaraies4028 india from she .

[@waraksabalak2500]

I dont care what shes talking about but I like the way she's explain.

[@YuvrajSingh-qv8yw]

Simp

[@charleswest6504]

Most all of the comments are spot on. The bottom line is most men are lazy and or selfish. I love to explore and have fun with my lady. Always ladies first. My second wife was very open on her expectations and what I needed to do. My ego is fine. She was great. My new wife is the same.

[@Maksim-mxmz]

The issue lies largely in what Grace just briefly mentioned, letting yourself go. Women need to understand their own body and their own needs. What makes you feel good. It is also a fact that a lot less women have tried masturbation compared to same age groups as men. Explore yourself! And in the end, it boils down to communication. If you don't even know what makes you feel good or what makes your peak, then how on earth can you communicate it to your partner, let alone expect that partner knows better than you do.

[@leticialopes769]

it's so sad that the majority of the comment section is literaly from guys that should've learned something from the talk but didn't give a f

[@conscious_competence3703]

Im trying to understand it because i think shes making good points.

[@nordlyssrlys6945]

Maybe you're wrong

[@echastee]

Their takeaway: women better let us know Real takeaway: men should be making orgasm an equal priority and some women won't ask because they don't feel comfortable.

[@nellynguma]

Wow, she's so eloquent. Loved the entire Ted talk. Very insightful 👏👏

[@hoangle0207]

That's a great video for people who are learning English in order to take an IELTS exam as me! From now, I will change the awareness of female orgasm

[@davidchristian2368]

It’s sad that so many men don’t know that the greatest pleasure is giving pleasure.

[@vk92007]

Ja na I couldn't agree with more on that!

[@ChristThroughTheLens]

Lmao spoken by a man I'd bet a million dollars is circumcised

[@newgen2898]

TRUST ME, EVERYONE'S SINGLE HERE

[@zschow9259]

fergot ta change fb relationshi[p status

[@inspectorlunge3887]

@New Gen KZbin could also be deleting non-singles' comments as part of a social experiment. They are known to do things like that.

[@tambell6270]

She reminded me of the young girl in “ The Incredibles” movie. 🤗🤗

[@thomaswhite4231]

Violet. Oddly enough, her parents first super suits were red and blue... which makes violet.

[@Userykp]

Haha 😂

[@josephyoung1803]

@@thomaswhite4231 hey Googleqqaqa~~￦

[@radityomuhamad2526]

Damn bro! That's right

[@cutiejoy12]

Hahahaha

[@abhishekmsful]

3:33 why there is a pause Did I miss something????

[@mihills4168]

three words, stamina excitement and the "magic touch" finding the fulfillment satisfaction point.

[@Maryam_muazu]

Some of the comments here are just weird. Reality has always been hard to intake anyways so i am not surprised😒

[@kaaydan9306]

maryam muazu I’m just as surprised

[@kayholand_]

frustrated males they are...

[@peterjandros2173]

THERE IS NO WORD "ANYWAYS." IT'S ANYWAY. NO S.

[@lesellen1994]

I agree

[@NoJeansBob]

I thought this was incredibly well presented. I was impressed by the arguments made for aiming for equity in pleasure shared, but also by her grammar. These days, it's ever more difficult to listen to anyone speak who doesn't say "like" 500 times, but this woman did the English language proud. Very eloquent, very articulate, and indeed I would agree that irrespective of the observable truth that it is easier in general for a man to reach orgasm than a woman, the intention to please each other should be equal to intention of taking pleasure. The tryst should not be wholly satisfying to a man who only cares about his own orgasm, and vice-versa.

[@carolgeorge6409]

Agree about the “like”

[@kumarsuresh1972]

I thought this 10 day enjoy funny tests no tests u yes pleasure Inquiry

[@reader38]

Who is watching in january 2025 and being single 😂

[@rishabhroy7740]

Summary:: She was just again talking about equality.....

[@shadowboxing1729]

With my Peter Griffin's voice "Go on..."

[@johnnycalvino7490]

LoFi Hiphop Channel With my Quagmire voice "giggidy giggidy giggidy".

[@tomterah2566]

I approve of this message.

[@nak3dxsnake]

Hahahaha right. I wish she put her email up.

[@NewLife-qj9mx]

LOL

[@I_Am_AI_007]

Everyone's silently trying to figure out how should me and my bae do this, right?

[@atmaram1038]

Wonderful speech. Highly illuminating

[@ShnarfKat]

In my recomended Deleting my search history failed me....

[@crissyd100]

August Lane 🤣😂

[@teddybear7853]

Men who would care about women's pleasure might not always be the most confident communicative guys who put us quiet ones into shadow

[@nomadsland8322]

Bruh if you’ve read replies here plenty of the women are saying they can’t be bothered to tell their men what they want in bed cause “he should just know”. I wouldn’t hedge our bets on them suddenly thinking “hmm maybe the quiet guys are the ones who would actually listen to and pleasure me”. They largely have that same attitude even if they like us, “he should just know and come talk to me”.

[@aussiekelamate4609]

I'm waiting for my game to be updated whilst watching this , Wohooo

[@huntergaming4264]

CHAD😂

[@mohsensafa]

necessarily equality is't right thing. men and women are different, and had their own limitation.

[@michaelsane.1729]

The solution to this problem is just to ask.Even the bible says ask and it shall be given unto u

[@myudamage1621]

2 years later and comments here are still blaming women, because watching the entire video is still to hard for someone. 👏

[@AkashGupta-pc2cb]

Complaints and only complaints

[@Cortez0]

It’s your body, your choice, your responsibility

[@mzmudy]

Bravo! Love this topic and the wonderful approach to tackling it. For me, my life partner's pleasure and her feeling safe is always the highest priority. The only small thing that didn't get addressed is men that feel embarrassed or ashamed when their female partner does not have an orgasm.. As she talked about, to me this may highlight the need for open and vulnerable communication as a key piece of orgasms for all - i.e. being able to openly tell your partner your needs and carefully listen to theirs.

[@martinamitchell7612]

Mark, truly enjoyed your commentary re this Ted Talk. Agree as well that there should be open and honest communication between partners without judgment, disdain or disrespect. I was fortunate enough to have a boyfriend many, many years ago a truly great listener when it came to all things in our relationship. My only regret was it only lasted 2 years. He was offered a teaching position in the UK he could not pass up. He had many great ideas, thoughts etc. that we discussed on this very subject before we were intimately involved with one another. I can remember the conversation as though it happened yesterday. The 1st thing he asked was," What did I like in a man?" I was at first surprised by this, confused by this, because no one had ever asked me before. My 1st answer to him was a man that goes out of his was to make me feel safe. 2nd was a man that goes out of his way to make me feel special. 3rd was a man that was attentive. 4th was a man that was very thoughtful. 5th a man that was filled with chivalry. I got all of the above and so very much more with this amazing man. And my now partner (of 15 +) years does the same.

[@MA-gu2up]

@@martinamitchell7612 Sorry to bother you I just want to ask, about your past boyfriend, it seems you loved him very much, you said your regret is that it didn't last more than two years, so, would you have liked to stay with him till now if you had the chance?

[@martinamitchell7612]

@@MA-gu2up Yes

[@MA-gu2up]

@@martinamitchell7612 Okay, so will you leave your current boyfriend for him? And if you love him this much, why didn't you try to pursue the continuation of the relationship with him?

[@martinamitchell7612]

@@MA-gu2up No, he has found a different life, a different love. I have done the same. We have each moved on, no regrets for either of us.

[@williamhess3113]

“Show me the incentive and I will show you the outcome.” - Charlie Munger

[@grajmerite4889]

Salute for those who came to attend show with parents without knowing topic 😂😂

[@samu-ido0825]

I think most of women fear to ask what they want while men always ask for it .

[@naman8769]

Awful silence in room whole time😅😂

[@jomene1125]

I was about to comment on that then I saw this.

[@35歳で自由を手に入れた男ロ]

That's it hahaha

[@yugsth2236]

imagining the scenes perhaps

[@juali222]

I think they sometimes turn down the audience in the videos

[@niveditajoshi2590]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Michael-mh2tw]

'The claim that the female orgasm is just as natural and should be just as expected as the male orgasm is a controversial one' No, it isn't. Stop making up controversies so you have something to talk about.