Simon Sinek: What Society Gets Wrong About Relationships

[@analeyunhealth]

This is probably my favorite real talk so far. No tips, no how to, no be better... Just love and real humanity. I get soooo much out of this episode! This has been a before and after on my point of view about what is greatness. Thank you both so much for bringing this up and sharing! You both are great!

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate your support. Thank you for watching! 🧡

[@cindyandries3298]

Simon is the best compassionate storyteller of 9-11, year’s later we can hear how events deeply changed his life- how priorities change going forward from that day forward!! I love him with all the heart he has for people(all people). We share a heartfelt empathy for people who struggle no matter a label placed upon that person! Doer’s are tired, poor and rich are lonely; being guarded is exhausting. His story reminds me of a soldier coworker; who had served in a foreign war; he described how incredibly distasteful to returning then encounter - us being unappreciative of ‘simplest meal’ and impatience in drive-thru! The contrast of kids cherished a candy bar to be split amongst 10 kids, a mother’s intense hug he received for a sandwich to feed her children and herself!

[@nathalieann]

I feel like I haven't seen Simon in AGES. I appreciate that he's not preachy or trying to over-intellectualize the conversation to sound profound. The most intelligent people are also the most clear of thought.

[@l23918]

So much humanity spoken by this guest, I love it. We need more people like this in our world today. Thank you.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@leonciagarcia3370]

Thank you Simon and Lewis for this very deep heartwarming conversation. You both are so grounded. We need people like you to help change thie perspective of our confused world

[@fokamtebo5819]

❤​@@lewishowes

[@SWTmel]

Outstanding dialogue, insights and advice.

[@lewishowes]

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[@cleanslate5313]

So glad you had Simon on. He offers many good points. Your qquestions are very insightful. Thank you both. And thank you for being you Lewis, and upkeeping your channel. Your dedication and hard work by you & your team. shows. You're improving people's lives interview by interview. Your growth of interview questions is impressive. Thanks again.

[@joshmcbrien]

Simon Sinek never fails to disappoint. What an insightful podcast!

[@lewishowes]

Thanks for being here!

[@Ka.coach88]

Perfect balance between intelligence and vulnerability indeed. This interview is gold. Thank you guys 💜🌸

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@quietstorm6710]

You guys are old school thinkers. That's what make your conversation so awesome.

[@GavinCee]

Simon bringing the heat as usual.

[@7msjster]

Great podcast Lewis!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Re: boundaries: boundaries helps you know someone more on a deeper and intimate level. It's part of who they are so if you want to know the totality of them, boundaries are included. (although totally understand how boundaries can be scary and foreign becasue in childhood setting a boundary with a parent probably got met with some not nice consequences so the association remains)

[@Some_kind_of_wonderfü]

I literally had goosebumps when Simon was describing 9/11 experiences… even after so many years it still has this indescribable effect

[@ambition112]

0:14: 💡 Setting boundaries is often misunderstood as keeping people away, but it actually means communicating and agreeing on limitations in relationships. 9:12: 🌍 The speaker discusses the growing wealth disparity and lack of empathy in society, highlighting the need for listening and understanding in order to address fears and concerns. 18:39: 💔 The speaker recounts their experience of witnessing the September 11th attacks in New York City, which had a profound impact on their perspective and led them to reevaluate their career choices. 26:54: 💡 The speaker reflects on the fleeting nature of life-changing experiences and the importance of long-term values and relationships. 36:00: 💡 The speaker discusses the importance of recognizing impact that cannot be measured and the dangers of relying on external validation. 44:29: 🗣 Discussion on setting boundaries in relationships and work 53:12: 📚 The younger generation entering the workforce has a different mindset and skill set, which can lead to a sense of entitlement and demand for immediate rewards. 1:02:27: 🗣 The younger generation's comfort and facility with technology has both benefits and drawbacks, as it affects their ability to form deep relationships and differentiate between vulnerability and broadcasting. 1:13:00: ⚖ Income inequality is a major concern that will cause more social ripples and fear than pandemics, AI, or war. 1:21:35: 🗣 The speaker discusses the importance of listening to the messages of both sides, the need for moderation, and the dangers of division and accusations. 1:30:37: 💡 The speaker shares three truths: love the people who love you, learn human skills, and have as much fun as possible. 1:39:13: 🌍 Living a life of service and inspiring others to rise. Recap by Tammy AI

[@justuscoetzee8104]

good neighbours make good fences

[@bhaveshh786]

Thanks!

[@shankar9191]

Thank you

[@elslamers4360]

❤ 22:24

[@elslamers4360]

❤ 22:31 22:31 22:30

[@mariamedeiros406]

I just love everything Simon is about. He is so genuine in his creation of a vision that seems possible for all of us.

[@lewishowes]

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[@mai567]

So much to take from this interview. So much value. And I loved that cute moment "I love your tangents!" 😊 because you spoke for all of us. Thank you!

[@lewishowes]

Glad you enjoyed it! Happy to hear this :)

[@gailyhanna510]

Excited to see what they have to say because I was just talking to my son about this yesterday.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤

[@KiwikimNZ]

Listening to the 9/11 story reminds me of living through a natural disaster that killed 100s of people and destroyed my city, It was horrific. I got to my job as a nurse as soon as I could physically get there and did whatever I could amongst the chaos to care for the traumatised survivors. That day and the lessons I learned that day will never leave me and was a defining event that changed me. As hard and horrific that experience was, including suffering from PTSD afterwards, it taught me about what really matters and to live with gratitude and appreciate the blessings that I have in my life.

[@L.R.Nichols]

I ran into Simon Sinek in Chelsea, England about month or so ago. He was so pleasant. As I expected he would be. Really nice guy.

[@meditate5592]

This was phenomenal!!! I loved every second of this interview. Lewis - your questions and follow-up comments are full of such depth. Kudos to you in every language . . .

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

[@amalessam3370]

Lewis really get more mature in his podcast, he really listens more than before. Love it❤

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

[@amalessam3370]

@@lewishowes This is the truth ❤️ you really deserves it.

[@karenalford4025]

The Co-creating concept in relationships is amazing! It’s a central theme in couples counselling. The relationship is a huge part of the works focus. 😊

[@chrisnam1603]

the lack of empathy is one of the many things of our society that 'eats me alive', it's pure horror and not how we are made or why we are made for (figure of speak), hugs from Belgium (it seems it's in loads of countries 😢).

[@kennethobispo2641]

IM OVER FLOWING WITH EMPATHY AND LOVE thank you

[@raydonovan9013]

Very valuable discussion, I really appreciate Simon’s outlook on people and their worth. And the importance of humor and it’s timing. Thank you. He’s so open and willing to share himself in order to contribute good to the people around him so they learn and pass it on to others.

[@shade_excel]

A true GEM 💎 of an interview! Simon Sinek is such a BRILLIANT mind and it shines through! So many PROFOUND truths shared - it’s hard to pick just one! For personal reasons, I especially loved the whole conversation on boundaries as it has soooo many practical lessons that were shared. Lewis was MASTERFUL as an interviewer. Kudos to you Lewis for helping to facilitate a truly insightful conversation! 👏🏽

[@Theddyfield]

For a sec, Simon paused and jumped back from job example...and went back to his thought process when he gave his own example as to how AI can figure out what his new ideas are ...because they arent really new. AI can predict the thought process. I loved that he said it as a FACT that the people "pay a cost" for anything - ne way or another.

[@amber8139]

I am a huge fan of Simon and have watched/listened to much of his content online. This is the first time hearing his account on 9/11 and it made me cry. Thanks for this interview 🙏🏻

[@karenalford4025]

Simon you are a phenomenally compassionate human being! I love your way of communicating! I could listen to you all day! ❤

[@lewishowes]

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[@lulagarcia7633]

I love Simone Sinek , Will always follow his words. Love your podcast

[@rayleneberryman7673]

Profound insights and wisdom from both Simon and Lewis. I love the way your brain works Lewis. You ask profound questions.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you for watching!

[@InDogsITrust]

That is so true what Simon says about how “influencers are freelance employees of algorithms”. I notice on KZbin when there must be a shift in the algorithms…”everyone” starts posting Shorts, or posting segments on certain topics, etc. I think it is sad in a way that they bow to an algorithm instead of doing what their heart and creative mind would rather do on their channels. Some may be fine with that, but as a creative, I won’t bow to an algorithm. (Granted, as a nano-influencer, I don’t rely on that income like they may.)

[@jerryhughes5380]

I question Simons observation on "getting a trophy for coming in last" thing. As a parent of a man with Autisim I can honestly say that I got my Seratonin hit when watching him compete in Special Olympics or just at the park. I could tell he got a hit of Seratonin when he crossed the finish line or bench pressed a barbell of steel over his head.

[@swadfihri8278]

Very well put podcast. Simon n Luis, your visions for the world is inspiring. Thank you 🙏 ❤

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

[@Juan_SZ]

30:45 “The life that we live. Our contributions to others. “ Couldn’t agree more with this.

[@Babypinkkkkkkkk]

Nicely put into words amazing.... 😊 I am reading the first book (start with WHY)... Gem of knowledge... His book speaks my mind and I am amazed

[@mariyavasylyk9589]

Loved listening to both of you - so much wisdom, so much thoughs to think about, so much inspiration! Thank you so much for this conversation! It is one to rewatch over and over! 🫶

[@IntegrationpathHeartBodyMind]

Simon & Lewis, you both are truly inspirational DIVINE MASCULINES for the world - I love how much you share from your heart and teach other men to do the same. Blessings of Love, Light and Peace to you always!!!!!!

[@lourdes_olive_coach]

You guys make such a great team!!!

[@evelien2806]

Thank you gentlemen for this inspiring conversation. It was a pleasure listening 😘

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@Discerning.369]

So inspiring and moving. Thank you.

[@Edgeinvesting]

awesome interview, thanks for sharing the wisdom

[@amiraclelight]

Splendid. Thanks.🤸 40:34

[@JenniferJohnson-jt8eb]

Loved every minute of this talk❤ Judge ourselves by the life that we live. How we help and contribute to those around us. Excellent. Productivity? PooPoo. BE A GOOD, KIND, LOVING PERSON. Everything else will fall into place.

[@lewishowes]

Thanks for being here!

[@Yutenheim26]

This is great stuff

[@lewishowes]

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[@jankishivalkar3515]

Perfect balance between intelligence talk in both. This interview is wonderful. Thank you Lewis 💜

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@jankishivalkar3515]

It’s a vast information to learn i love it

[@dawnwebbmusic4837]

Intelligent and Vulnerable #simonsinek ❤

[@taniak5685]

An inner change is taking place in both you Lewis and Simon. Beautiful to see ❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤

[@lewishowes]

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[@craigosterberg5045]

Thanks

[@izzy2roam898]

Three truths- love learn laugh 💗

[@theinspirationalcorner1974]

Amazing episode! thank you 😀

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

Hey Simon, you're simply the best. Putting hard things simple for me (us) to understand. Better yet, to reflect and then act on things... Greetings from Mexico.

[@edenshafe4437]

Thanks Simon and Lewis for amazing eye opening content

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@Theo-B]

3 truths Love the people who love you, learn all the things it requires to be human, laugh as much as possible

[@robertfoster8820]

Fantastic conversation Gentlemen. Thank you for sharing :)

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@Themagicbusofficial]

I love Simon.. smart dude Thank you Lewis

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@juliavanbalen8454]

The way he explained how to live with boundaries is really great, bottom line is communication and be clear of our explications. Thank you so much. Great interview and guess. ❤

[@lewishowes]

Thanks for being here!

[@ngocdiemnguyen-r1r]

Love your work .

[@lewishowes]

Thank you for being here!

[@MXF11]

This is so much better than AI podcast.

[@miguelalbadan]

Wow! maravillosa entrevista y síntesis de nuestro mundo actual y del reto de ser un buen ser humano, aprender a amar y a divertirnos tanto como sea posible. Estoy leyendo ahora el Hombre Unidimensional de Herbert Marcuse y siento en la obra de Simon Sinek una nueva reinterpretación de la automatización del trabajo representado ahora en la inteligencia artificial.

[@ana_wilson]

This is really beautiful and well stated. Lots of thinking points.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@diana0620]

He could pass for John Lennon's younger brother. Very inspiring ❤ guys. Aren't you both influencers? I might be lazy tomorrow watching you guys at 3:32 am, but you were worth it

[@indrewhite]

Thank you so much for this inspiring speech🙏

[@lewishowes]

Thanks for being here!

[@avantimukherjee5709]

Can listen to this guy forever 👌👌

[@lewishowes]

💯

[@nicolamatthews2993]

Love this guy 👌👌👌

[@mrelixirgalactic]

Love U Guys!!

[@nicolamatthews2993]

3 truths .... not what I expected Simon to say 😮

[@wislymerdieu698]

Respect for you guys.

[@lewishowes]

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[@jacquik6231]

I like Simon Sinek so much more after this conversation. I liked him before but I did not realise how deep a thinker he is on topics such as capitalism. Really interesting stuff and very relevant.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Appreciate you for watching.

[@tuminyembe]

Wow. First time listening to Simon and he is in touch with the human world (viewed most issues from the human stand-point & is very relatable). Am not based in the USA but related to and enjoyed the interview.

[@italovidigal1990]

I want to suggest the reading (or listening) of the book "Start with why", it's brilliant.

[@AbdulAbdul-qp4yo]

❤❤❤ How Great you are

[@Tsailii]

This is a clear example of why I’m such a big fan of Simon. He’s intelligent, intentional, and inspiring. Love it!

[@lewishowes]

🙌

[@twonrichpo]

Lotta good information here

[@lewishowes]

Thank you for watching🧡

[@dbunnysport]

Simon and Lewis?!?!? Two of my very favorite heroes. ❤ so thankful to get to hear you two. (Simon, you are legend. ) Soon I’ll be going to my first SOG. So excited to be with you Lewis and other amazing people !

[@lewishowes]

Let's go!

[@senthilvadivuk]

I liked it when he said he didn't feel like back to advertising, I get that.

[@ouifaqlaissaoui63]

Beautiful soul

[@lewishowes]

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[@twonrichpo]

I can really appreciate the marbles thing. Nice!!!

[@roscow8569]

We won't be surprise in Europe when that is going to be the moment to fight people who are not reasonable !! We know perfectly that in France it is written in our history !

[@Jodielynn8084]

This was incredible and so insightful. Love you both!

[@kandeekandace]

What if you try to set boundaries with someone, especially your partner, and you’re genuinely curious and open to what they want in the relationship and having a conversation but whenever you ask for their input they stone wall you, say “I don’t know” over and over…. ? Or change the subject and don’t want to talk at all…. ? Help!!!

[@Dean.Azar.05]

If you have both discipline and effective control over your actions to your habits means you know your boundaries. Discipline + Action = Boundaries.

[@Dean.Azar.05]

If you have fear the level of your actions is limited.

[@token6577]

What are the 3 laws of attraction?

[@GarrettAvery108]

Simon Sinek's presentation of reasonable thinking makes me feel like things are going to be okay ❤ thanks Simon and we'll wishes for Inner Peace to you ❤

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@theprodigy20p]

Why can't we have people like Simon in power? If you are reading this Simon are you scared of it? Would it just be to much? Would you be willing if you got lots of help?

[@Daniela.Design]

My guess is that AI will lead to less contact, because you do not have to rely so much on other humans anymore, for example to get certain things done.

[@carlafairchild1740]

9:50😢

[@nicolamatthews2993]

I would appreciate his book .... not as a doorstop mind😮

[@7msjster]

Society has been desensitized. We are just a series of stories. So many, it is difficult to hold a sense of compassion for anything before the next story.

[@infiniteadam7352]

Made me think about whats been on my mind lately, we are these stories, and the story is supposed to get better and better, we are ment to grow, to be better than our parents and do a even better job with our children. I don't understand why people seem to be degrading.

[@7msjster]

In the recent days of the Maui Fire I keep hearing the residents as "they" ....they, is US. Is that what you mean? @@infiniteadam7352

[@mndflctzn]

Two weeks and Simon's thoughts on AI are already outdated. It seems GAI is indeed capable of original thoughts and it's improving on an exponential curve.

[@josephcowley8348]

"The homeless are not lazy" says the man who tells the story of the homeless person who walked away from her panhandling once she had 40 bucks."

[@fabiocaetanofigueiredo1353]

At any given time our brains are algorhytms as well.

[@frankcastle2876]

Kids today are much smarter than the WWII generation, but they don't know their self worth, which is paralyzing. The WWII generation knew their self worth and seemed to find true happiness in it.

[@Nolapoolguru]

45:00

[@ChadwickVonGriffindorIII]

"Grand canyon"

[@honor9lite1337]

😮

[@ChristenNa]

❤

[@fabiocaetanofigueiredo1353]

Lost me at 5:54...

[@bobtarmac1828]

I believe Ai jobloss is coming for our jobs, much quicker than you think. The Ai new order is here.

[@bintang71st]

i have u

[@jojustchilling]

Lol, “we came together “ after 911 is such a cocky thing to say. In the “we” you can exclude all the Arabic Americans who were and still are bullied to this day. There’s no debate to open here. The only point of this comment is to remind you not to drink famous people’s words like holy water. Keep your critical senses acute.