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[@Kristen70364]

It only takes me about 5 minutes to fold laundry. My big issue is that it takes me 2-4 business days to get around to doing it.

[@ohhellno8759]

Maybe spend less time on KZbin and do your laundry

[@Kristen70364]

@@ohhellno8759 This is the 21st century. I listen to KZbin videos while doing laundry. Go be a bitch somewhere else.

[@jasperhernandez7364]

Cap lmao lazy ass

[@TheAlchemist1089]

2-4 business days lol Sounds professional

[@Kristen70364]

@@TheAlchemist1089 Quite. 👩🏻‍🏫

[@Chainsaw18]

2:00 You know how mature a person is when they mock the natural features and laugh.

[@adityashandilya2789]

Exactly

[@bcbran8130]

@@adityashandilya2789 exactly

[@sovenate2701]

That tends to happen a lot when you have nothing else too say

[@antonhellstrom6463]

I love that people make these videos cause it helps me create my own opinions. I watched A lot of tbys and he has a lot of valid points But goes wayyy too deep sometimes and has hypocritical ironic moments. Despite that i think almost all these streamers are doing a shit job and ignoring like every good point.

[@catsballs9657]

Tbys does the exact same thing… and was that mocking? That was clearly an observation…you’re just sensitive and mad

[@peregrinehawk8363]

I think you look at this on one dimension without any thought of the other dimensions. First, she got home before both her dad and her husband, and said her husband would be home in two hours, suggesting he has a longer shift than her. Second, they built her a house, which she seemingly did not help with, probably didn't pay for, and she is now whining on tiktok about having to do the easiest part of the job. A smaller project done for fun or if it's like one piece of furniture, but a free house? The least you can do is clean it.

[@InfiniteAnvil]

Since he and his dad were able to make all that mess between her leaving for work and her getting back, my assumption would be that he has a much *shorter* shift than she does, since he had time to do all that before going to work. Also, this clearly isn't must-do work since they're already living in the house. It's just hobbyist stuff at this point.

[@sharpman8407]

@@InfiniteAnvil lol you say that like he wasn't building a house between that ya shorter shift means less work even tho they built a house

[@peregrinehawk8363]

@@InfiniteAnvil Fun fact: you can live in a house where not every room has a roof.

[@oz542]

Exactly

[@Big.Rig.]

@@InfiniteAnvil their building her a house she’s a grown woman she has the ability to understand the value of a house

[@cruelreality6789]

“My dad was not my favorite individual in my life” 4:44. Explains a whole lot, daddy issues in men turn into putting women on a giant pedestal. Her cleaning up a little considering they are building her a freaking house is not that much too ask. However, if you think even that is unreasonable, than why the heck would she post this on social media instead of simply explaining that they should also help with the cleaning or discussing it like an adult? The amount of mental gymnastics you are going through to justify this woman’s behavior is honestly insane to me. And no, before you make an argument that I am an incel, I am happily in a relationship.

[@diggydingy8019]

^THIS I mean even if I was too tired at the moment to clean up and stuff I'd politely talk about that with my bf bc we're all human beings and I know he'd understand that I'm exhausted after work etc so I could help to eg clean up tomorrow. If you're an adult you should learn to negotiate with your partner instead of crying and moaning ohh poor me like a little bitch online to get some pity from strangers. It's astonishing how she made that whole big deal out of simple issue which could be calmly discussed with her partner in private. Nothing can excuse her pathetic behavior imo

[@agoo7581]

"And no, before you make an argument that I am an incel" Yup, you're an incel.

[@generalknowledge8068]

It’s pretty common in carpentry to clean up after yourself like a adult

[@Sinc3r3ly]

@@generalknowledge8068 he was building a whole damn house and she threw a fit over being politely asked to pick some stuff up

[@generalknowledge8068]

@@Sinc3r3ly it’s not her job to do that. I’m a contractor it’s pretty standard to pick up after the mess you leave since it’s your job to clean the mess you made or you don’t get paid

[@jobless2011]

I understand that the work that was given to her was a bit too much but she could've handled the situation way better than what she had done. Ofc cleaning up will take a long time because you need to keep the tools, clean the floor, throw the trash but she could've at least tried to do something. Help your husband and FIL out a little. It's not that hard to throw the trash out and sweep the floor. The rest can be done by them the next day. My point is, she should've just cleaned the fucking floor or something. Ofc she is tired after work, everybody is tired after work. But at least help out a little. Are the men doing those shit not tired too? Seriously, y'all can't see the problem here. Can't y'all understand the mindset of helping someone out to lighten up their load? Y'all just saying that mess is not her problem. Ofc it's not!!! but at least fucking help out. Cleaning a little would help the husband and FIL clean up less the next day. Does she not have a heart kind enough to reduce work for cleaning up? Seriously, you can't even see the problem clearly.

[@Br1ckabrac]

Honestly, that's not even the problem here. The problem is that it's between them as a married couple, not between them and tik tok. We really don't know enough about them to say anything about either of them or this situation. If you can't properly Communicate with your SO, or vice versa, your relationship won't work out. And theirs didn't, as we now know. Everybody's taking the wrong lesson away from this

[@frongus47]

Onestly you don't actually bring up any good arguments you just insult your way though the video

[@coletrickle1775]

Sorry you too are so dumb you need arguments for why this nasally incel is wrong. It's so obvious to everyone except you clowns. We laugh at you.

[@casusbelli9225]

Honestly, neither does TBYS. And yes , "you might be mentally ill because you have tattoos or are overweight" is not an argument, it's redpill equivalent of "who hurt you"

[@tudo222]

@@casusbelli9225 ?

[@Admin-qy4zi]

That’s what Jake usually does.

[@michaelduncan6060]

Firstly, insults need to stop. Attacking someone for their choice adds nothing to the conversation. Secondly, you assumed he's voluntarily not having sex. Why? When did he say that? Now let's get into the video. Did she offer to help them in building the house? Given the way the text was framed, I assume she did. Even if not, they are building her ass an entire house. She can't help in the slightest? And i doubt they are doing this without jobs since that takes significant time and investment. You come in with this, she should take a shit on the floor because someone asked her to do something? Are you kidding? Like that would help the situation. You would never ask the queen to do something for you huh? Bull. This is horrible commentary. Besides, maybe you should watch the video first. Make thoughts, then watch it again in this style.

[@lukehunter2362]

Jake you need more soundproofing on your walls I can still hear you’re girl getting banged in the background….

[@agoo7581]

Taken out of a forum from 2001? Comedy's hard huh?

[@coletrickle1775]

Like you know what Fucking sounds like lol. Incels like you are so cringe stupid Lolz. Get laughed AT lolz

[@lukehunter2362]

@@agoo7581 Was the 2001 reference your comedy? That made my grandma dry

[@samuraijosh1595]

Lmao that actually made me laugh

[@SigmaPoopyPants1]

@@lukehunter2362 god damn you strike back real hard

[@veetour]

Asking for help is so degrading that someone has to go on TikTok to complain? What kind of a man would want a wife like this? If she's not happy about it, then talk in private. Don't go about showcasing it to the rest of the world. This woman is toxic and any man who's raised right should stay away from her.

[@SkeletalMass]

I do find it weird he just glossed over that and said "well I bet you don't say that about men"

[@greysnake2903]

Yeah

[@blackheartwornonmysleeve8045]

He sounds like a dude who's never hit puberty even though he's in his 30's 🤣

[@misterauctor7353]

Ad homs.

[@ButteredToits-]

yeah he sounds like an incel loser

[@FeministCatLadySpinster]

Sooo... I'm thinking he meant to title that video, "How to Get a Woman to Divorce You". At some point, people get sick of cleaning up other people's messes.

[@sharpman8407]

Sheesh you won't even do that for a house that would take 2 hours max for a free home I would

[@sharpman8407]

@@makeitthrough_ ye I am definitely the the father I law how did you know and the reason I have the some point all through out Is because it's a good one

[@jamesgentry13]

If your partner is building a house for you then you better help

[@pit673]

I think he divorced her. He was building a house and she was to lazy to help. Where I live houses are so expensive. Respect to this man.

[@JoseRS1186]

I'm curious to see how Naruto factors into this

[@Gloomdrake]

Were you satisfied?

[@JoseRS1186]

@@Gloomdrake not the word I'd use. It's more like sadness.

[@mercedeswalt6621]

Does this guy think that she hasn’t been working all day? What does he think, “I just got off work,” means?

[@InfiniteAnvil]

Well he probably thinks that since she's a woman, she probably only worked 4 hours 🙄

[@mercedeswalt6621]

@@InfiniteAnvil hahahaha!

[@nootnik]

Pretty sure he made this video in a rage after being told "I'm your mom not your maid, do it yourself."

[@sativasmith8431]

... he never shares much of his personal life so your claim is pretty baseless

[@nootnik]

@@sativasmith8431 I am not making claims, I am making fun of the guy. There is a difference or in simpler terms "sir, this is a Wendy's"

[@marshmallowkingthesecond3152]

he talks about being self relight all the time, try watching his videos before having an opinion

[@meganhughes4726]

@@sativasmith8431 that joke just went right over your head huh

[@harry_hydrogen]

3:30 literally told her to do an amber heard because she was ASKED to help clean a mess.

[@Gloomdrake]

"to all the women watching" There are no women watching him unironically. I can almost guarantee it

[@bleakautomaton4808]

Only the ladies watching Jake watching his video

[@dkin7685]

Nah he got many ladies watching cos not all women are femnists u know. Most women there try to not ruin their marriage by keeping their men happy as they equally care about their wives and build houses for them them even after their longer shifts than wives. The ladies there i seen appreciate their men hard work and are successfully having happy marriages. They there dont post their household disputes on sm for clouts and fake sympathy like a child throwing her husband on the road for libel. Lol i see here a leftist dude in the comments calling tbys a weeb in another comment not knowing the fact that besides english he knows russian and spanish too. So just becos he is learning japanese he is a weeb, liberal logic lol.

[@Gloomdrake]

@@dkin7685 there's only room for one clown in this town, so you're gonna have to duel Jake for the right to clown around here

[@Gloomdrake]

@@Ohmannnjade ironically or unironically?

[@Gloomdrake]

@@Ohmannnjade weird fetidh, but ok

[@emeraldheart2244]

i mean she works she is contributing in her own way it's not her responsibility to clean up after someone elses mess. Maybe these men can learn some personal responsibility

[@Nerobyrne]

Yeah, if she was just living there rent free, I think this would be a fair point. Just goes to show just how hypocritical these dudes are. It's all about personal responsibility until they make a mess. Then the nearest woman has to clean it up

[@sativasmith8431]

Its not someone else mess, its mess due to the construction of the house behind built for her.

[@KireiC]

@@sativasmith8431 so if I cook a 10 course meal, dirtying the stove, counter, and every pot, pan, and dish in the house, and you eat it, are you down with me expecting you (without a prior agreement) to clean up the whole mess *that* night, for probably hours? Like, sure, I probably spent hours making the dinner, but then I abandoned the cleanup to you without advance notice? That's a dick move.

[@wackabug]

@@KireiC I'm not sure how anyone who looks at this situation doesn't understand this extremely basic idea and the baffling expectations this woman's husband has for her, basically just demanding she clean up a mess she didn't make or else. If she refuses? Divorce is the only option. Fucking insane. Anyone with a shred of self respect and awareness should realize that this looks extremely idiotic, childish and manipulative by the husband. He basically threw a tantrum because his wife said no to his demands.

[@sativasmith8431]

@KireiC yes, iv never had a 10 course meal, sounds like a fair price and it would be the nice thing to do considering i contributed to the dirty dishes and your probably tired from cooking a 10 course meal

[@cyanosphere5066]

The simp energy is strong in this one 🤮 The husband and father in-law were literally building a house that she was going to live in as well. It's really selfish and insensitive to think that she didn't need to help in the process of her own home. These weren't contractors that she had paid to do all the work and it isn't incel speech to want your wife to help in the home when you're literally BUILDING a house. The wife's labor is not worth more than anyone else's and she doesn't get to take advantage of men doing labor that is much more complex than being a hairdresser. Wanting women to just help and contribute in a marriage and a home is not some evil patriarchal concept.

[@cyanosphere5066]

@@firesparks22 Doesn't matter if it was their tools. It was her house as well and if she isn't gonna help them build the least she can do is help clean up.

[@JonReams]

What hairdresser does a 4 hour shift? A solid book can easily stretch to 12 hours if you're after that bread

[@kierstenburtz8442]

This dude has clearly never been to a hairdresser! Why on earth would you assume that a hairdresser only works 4 hour shifts? I've had hair appointments that lasted longer than 4 hours! (Granted, I get a full cut and color, but still!) That's just lunacy to assume that Hairdressers don't work much...

[@Gloomdrake]

He prolly think that fields dominated by women are inherently easier

[@beckiadriaanse6312]

He probably thinks no woman actually works full time

[@burdenblossom9484]

AND they're on their feet the ENTIRE time! Maybe if they're not busy they can sit and chat with their client while color develops, but I've more often seen hairdressers tidy up or take a walk-in cut while client A's color is developing.

[@dkin7685]

The problem here is not the dude but the woman and her laziness and tbys is right abt the woman in all regards. This video proves shes doing far less work in this case than her husband. Dont forget even after building the house with his dad which is backbreaking , he had to go to his job for a longer shift than hers and also expect him to clean up the house. The only work she did was at hairdressing, for a house they will both live in . And dont tell me that she also gives half the rent. Ok then he also pays half the rent, do half the work too, either u should have helped him build the house or clean afterwards. U are comparing that long shifts of hair dressing are tiring. They arent tiring as building a house in no way or another and on top of that going to ur regular job. Besides the woman like a pussy posted their household problem on sm without even talking to her husband if he would help her like tbys pointed out. He even cleaned the house next morning without taking his wife's help. Idk whether jakes followers have sub zero iq or they just ignorant little brats who dont know what sharing responsibilities in a relationship is🤦‍♀️.

[@omarhab3689]

@@Gloomdrake bcz they are

[@kronaperthro]

This dude sounds so sassy and whiny for a guy pushing traditional gender roles...

[@kayakat1869]

~~✨️ Omg sister! Clean 👏 up 👏 your 👏 man's 👏 trash 👏 or I will snatch him right up! 🥵😍

[@hellenmuka7207]

@@kayakat1869 😭😭

[@Rattlewings]

Hairdressers work VERY hard! It's very demanding on your body and exhausting having to talk to everyone all day. "He's building you a house" that her wage is also helping build! It's completely unreasonable what they expected her to clean up. They couldn't even put away their own tools, wtf.

[@Nerobyrne]

These are the same people that will pretend Musk builds companies when all he does is pay for them. He does the work and she's paying for it, so clearly, it's exclusively her house and he has no say in it.

[@burdenblossom9484]

Also she never said he works a full 8 hour day somewhere else and then comes home to build the house, unless I missed it? So it's possible he and his dad are doing this full time, which means she's PROVIDING for the household while the work is getting done. Providing is men's work!!

[@dkin7685]

@@burdenblossom9484She said it in a later video after divorce, that he does full 8 hour job. I seen that entire controversy fully. Well if she was paying for the rent , then so was he so both should help in building the house in which both will live, he had to do his part of housebuilding labour, next morning his wifes part too. And his wife bitched abt him on sm and next morning when he did the cleaning, she instead of thanking her husband and being grateful acted like she is the boss and her husband just follow ed her orders accordingly on sm. No wonder she got a divorce. If providing is mens work , then housekeeping if women's work which includes cleaning or dont the traditional roles apply to women now😙.

[@peachy_lili]

holy crap. everyone who has replied to you has been wrong in a different way

[@Nerobyrne]

@@peachy_lili only you booboo And DK

[@tayloradams3993]

Woman: Giving me extra work I didn't sign up for isn't fair i-man here: She's a terrible wife for having boundaries.

[@phaikia13]

Pretty sure the only interaction he has with women is his mother...

[@glock_grippin_meme_viewin1309]

Literally building her a house but cleaning is too much lmao

[@jasperhernandez7364]

@@glock_grippin_meme_viewin1309 fr lol these dudes are pathetic.

[@coolperson4062]

She doesn’t need to sign up for it it’s just a polite thing to do for the person building your home

[@LetMeEatDem]

Lmao have fun being alone or with a man you don’t respect.

[@daniellepage2923]

Never heard a coffee calling the kettle black in my life.

[@Kristen70364]

I can understand if he asked her for help while they all cleaned up, but just her? Lol, no.

[@sharpman8407]

Free house just for cleaning This mess up lol no I'd rather be homeless

[@cruelreality6789]

@@sharpman8407 yeah excuse her having to help for about an hour, max two, while they are building her a literal house.

[@Kristen70364]

@@cruelreality6789 It's not difficult to pick things up as you go.

[@cruelreality6789]

@@Kristen70364 have you ever done any manual labor in your entire life? Yeah man, let me just stop and restart these power tools continuously. There is a reason people don’t do that in construction. Even then, her posting stuff like that on social media instead of having a mature conversation to discuss her complaints is inexcusable.

[@Kristen70364]

@@cruelreality6789 Yes, I have done physical labor. And I cleaned up after myself too. Like a grown up.

[@Ohmannnjade]

I'm convinced most of the people in this comment section have never even heard his takes, at most they go 2 minutes into the video and go "I'm offended". Most of the stuff I'm seeing in the comment section is not even what the guy said.

[@meganhughes4726]

No. I’ve waged MANY of his videos. A handful are okay, but the ones focused around women are.. not awesome. Very angry and vitriolic, which is concerning since he’s reacting to people he doesn’t know, in situations that aren’t important. He just rants and takes every opportunity to rip these random women who are strangers to him to shreds.

[@meganhughes4726]

@@Ohmannnjade oh believe me I hate women who rip into men and generalize them. And that’s fine if that’s what his channel is about, im stating an opinion which I’m entitled to and you are entitled to yours and he is entitled to his. Doesn’t mean we can’t critique though

[@eveofthewood]

No, I'm familiar with Think Before You Sleep. That man is straight trash.

[@DionysusFOX]

First i get it sucks if people are not grateful, however you are not entitled to it especially if they didn't ask you to do the act you want them to be grateful for. I don't understand why the right think otherwise it's the nice guy of politics . Also the man said " i need to you " it's wasn't a request but an order.

[@DionysusFOX]

Also i comment on your video Jake now be grateful for it

[@5cream5]

" i need " is not an order , it's a vulnerability . that's probably why the woman was put off by it .

[@InfiniteAnvil]

@@5cream5 Bullshit. "I'm gonna need you to go ahead and come in tomorrow" isn't Lumbergh showing vulnerability.

[@5cream5]

idk who that is clearly you're uneducated with female nature @@InfiniteAnvil

[@sharpman8407]

I mean it's a free house unless you can throw that money around then that's a good deal

[@OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOq]

Jake, I’m not even sure what to say about the way you think. Five minutes in is all I needed to know you aren’t wise, nor someone worth listening.

[@HaleyStark.]

It's totally reasonable for them to build the house and expect her to help clean it.

[@calvinmay4673]

Don’t say that dude common sense doesn’t apply to Jake .

[@Noodlepunk]

​@@calvinmay4673Seems like a huge simp.

[@krs1297]

This is clown to clown communication right here

[@nerdsoftheherd69]

Hold up why couldn’t they just put their tools up after they were done? I’ve never left a workspace like that then asked someone else to clean it. Also she has a job as a hairdresser. Lots of bs they gotta deal with and she had to clean this shit up I hope no one treats you like this bruh

[@the_one_empire]

​@@nerdsoftheherd69 Its her house yes they shoud try to clean as they work but her husband and father in law where bilding HER house for free all day and then she made her husband that worked all day clean up as she did nothing

[@jamesgentry13]

She does nothing she should clean up

[@nickoleiwas]

Jest because TBYS speaks mean about a woman is an incel? So saying something native about a woman is automatically an incel? Do you even know what an incel is? Explain me why TBYS is an incel?

[@shane3696]

From my own experience on side jobs, leaving a big mess in a home being lived in and forcing the expectation of cleaning it on someone who isn't involved with the project. Is an incredibly shitty thing to do.

[@Nerobyrne]

Exactly. This specific case is just insane. They treat the living room like a workshop and expect someone else to clean everything. I'm guessing this is some form of abuse.

[@idkbro1416]

Lmao. Yeah. Her man build her a home, how dare he to expect from her to do the bare minimum.

[@shane3696]

@@idkbro1416 ok kid who's never been on a job site or been in a healthy relationship

[@Nerobyrne]

@@idkbro1416 the bare minimum is nothing, actually. He made the mess, he can clean it up. And now that he was a douche, he can clean it up forever.

[@idkbro1416]

@@shane3696 Ok catlady

[@Admin-qy4zi]

I love how Jake throws around the word “Incel” like many kids back in the 90s threw around the word “Gay”

[@kyleleitlein9164]

Dude sounds like Mandark from Dexter's Lab. Nyahaha Nyahahaha.

[@wilfredtwitchthrust7688]

Think Before You Sleep has lots of amusingly bad takes.

[@sharpman8407]

So it's not fair for him to want her to clean that tiny bit up compared to them building a house

[@Somtejesstudios]

@@makeitthrough_ Oh wow I am hurt. Shut up man xd

[@sharpman8407]

@Kenen says the guy not explaining his point and just saying mine doesn't count

[@agoo7581]

and the support he gets he gets in the comments is pure eye vomit.

[@agoo7581]

@Kenen I think us left-handers can be reasonable. Now right-wingers like kenan who don't wipe their ass is a different story.

[@nerdsoftheherd69]

I think Jake got hate raided or something. Like shit what the hell you normally have positive comments from what I was seeing anyway

[@LethallyReptarded]

Imagine being vexed at the guy who’s building your house, asking politely if you can clear up for them after they’ve spent weeks building you a house

[@LethallyReptarded]

Partner ships are 100% / 100% sometimes you take the L but you do it for the good of the relationship. My partners being paying for almost all the meals and dates while I sort out my debt problems. That’s not fair but she knows when I’m sorted in the coming months it will all be returned. Shit happens, be adults

[@kayakat1869]

He didn't ask her tho...

[@GhostGuardianXZ]

The only thing I wouldn’t want my wife to do is putting it online. If she talks to her family I’d fine but I’m a private person on certain matters but I also wouldn’t have had her clean up all that I would’ve maybe asked to move some stuff but I’d do the bill of it. Just the job of the people doing the work to clean up your shit

[@KireiC]

Right - the commentary criticizing this woman around this seems to jump channels between "she's ungrateful and lazy" and "she's inconsiderate for airing this on TikTok" which are 2 separate issues. I can certainly sympathize with not liking airing this kind of thing widely, but the other conflict stands even without that aspect.

[@jasperhernandez7364]

@@KireiC because she is ungrateful.

[@jasperhernandez7364]

@@KireiC like imagine a man builds a house for you and you can't even do the right thing and clean up a few hours of work.

[@afroprince5262]

I agree , crying to tik tok was childish But leaving that whole mess and asking her to do all of that, was cold 😂

[@kippiedraws]

Boy I wonder how he feels about women like me, who are disabled, and can't work OR do anything. I bet it isn't very understanding or kind, lol.

[@qbking3377]

@jade You just thanks snapped this persons argument

[@sormly500]

@@Ohmannnjade a good thing

[@OutOfTheBoxThinker]

Being disabled is no excuse. One woman I know has been in a wheelchair since age 12 due to a neuromuscular disorder and she teaches bio-engineering at a university. Another woman I know, who's also in a wheelchair and has the same disorder, does something marketing-related and is also a published author. Regardless of what your condition is, there's always jobs you can do. If it's mental, there's more physical jobs. It it's physical, there's more mental jobs.

[@kayakat1869]

@@OutOfTheBoxThinker not every disability is just a wheelchair. A lot are so physically and mentally taxing that people can't do as much.

[@shornsheep3118]

Jake is a lazy youtuber. Doesn't address points. Thinks that chortling is an argument. He should have looked up the length of hair dressing shifts before challenging him. Meet "think before you sleep" on a debate channel. That would be worth listening to.

[@dseanm21]

I don't think he would take it up. He's just selling out for the Ladies. It's pretty obvious.

[@kayakat1869]

I think Think Before You Sleep would only like to meet Jake at a gay bar.

[@ActualJake]

No bitches?

[@legendofmats2073]

@@kayakat1869 probably better than meeting you at a bar 😂

[@michaelduncan6060]

Point of this reaction, women cannot be asked to help, never question them, they can do no wrong.

[@Noodlepunk]

Fuck these simps. Lmaoo

[@michaelduncan6060]

@firesparks22 if someone is building me a whole ass house, then yeah

[@kevin4061]

5:19 HOW THE HELL IS THIS ONE TO TWO HOURS!!!! I do projects like this on the regular and this is not 1-2 hours, at minimum this is 5 hours and a God damn pizza.

[@sativasmith8431]

Its a bit of work, but he said in the video how it could have better been addressed if she couldnt do it

[@wackabug]

@@sativasmith8431 Whether she can do it or not is irrelevant, she doesn't need an excuse to refuse a job being pushed on her by a demanding husband. She is being expected to clean a mess she didn't make without any prior arrangement and it's a HUGE job she's being told to do BY HERSELF. "a bit of work" lmfao cope "durrrrr but it could have been better resolved if SHE communicated better" lol you don't think it's absurd from the get-go to just expect this kind of work from someone without prior agreement? The husband is the one who does not know how to communicate with his wife. If he wants something done, he should ask for it, not just expect it to be done. This is either some next level miscommunication, or manipulative as fuck by the husband. Doesn't matter who it is, no one shouldn't tolerate this kind of expectant and manipulative dogshit from anyone. Grow a backbone and some self esteem ffs.

[@sativasmith8431]

@@wackabug shes being asked to do it herself, not forced or threatend and you know nothing of the husband to asume he demanding. If someone is working on your house then ofcourse you expect mess, its your house so why not chip in if you got free time.

[@wackabug]

@@sativasmith8431 never did I insinuate that she was forced or threatened, nor that she shouldn't expect a mess during construction. You're putting words in my mouth. The issue she's having is with the request and the context it's being made, hence why I infer he's a demanding husband and also has low self awareness apparently. I don't need to know him personally to make my own judgements, I'll never meet him and if I do I'll never know it. I don't even know his name or face. Thinking about it more, the only real problem I see with this situation is that she publicly humiliated her husband after her clip went viral which is what lead to the divorce apparently. I take back what I said about the husband being a poor communicator, because it honestly feels like this whole situation could have been avoided if either of them knew how to talk to each other like adults. I can't imagine her little episode came about out of the blue though, seems like an unhealthy relationship in general. Seems like they'd be better off without each other. but if "why not" is you argument for why someone shouldn't object having to clean someone's mess after coming home from work, that's weak. Miss me with that "but they're working for free, and it's HER house" guilt tripping dogshit framing as well. It's their own mess, and it's their own house too. If they need it cleaned like they say, they should do it themselves and not need it from someone else who lives there. I see this as incredibly insensitive/inconsiderate behavior, and I guess I sympathize with the wife's reaction, even if it's a bit immature.

[@jasperhernandez7364]

@@wackabug no one cares she should do it.

[@vellynis]

From what I've heard, this guy is only like 17, so that could explain his completel lack of knowledge on how marriages work.

[@brocheck6703]

Wtf? Hes like 30. Why you pull 17 out yo ass?

[@sharpman8407]

Where did you her that

[@sativasmith8431]

Baseless assumptions~

[@luisnunez5017]

Quit projecting you 17 y/o

[@jasperhernandez7364]

Lmao he has mutiple jobs that he has worked at for mutiple years so am pretty sure he is way older than 17.

[@brianbunker5057]

Should have said "husk yourselves of your shitty ways chat"

[@Sophia-vk5bq]

I agree there are no bad divorces but having everything upended can still make it difficult for both ppl.

[@Rage-_-Quit]

funniest shit is all the people in this comment section pretending they have a job :D

[@AIPTutorials]

"i'm speaking to a small percentage of women." I'm pretty sure the percentage of women listening to this guy is 0%.

[@idkbro1416]

There are many women in the comments if you would have check it up. Not every woman is a crazy feminist, you know?

[@NoInFoo8]

Damn 🤣🤣🤣

[@eropandasennin13]

@@idkbro1416 Is many like 5 of them?

[@idkbro1416]

@@eropandasennin13 Idk. But I think are more than 5 women who are not crazy feminists

[@eropandasennin13]

@@idkbro1416 Depends on what one defines as a "crazy feminist".

[@kayakat1869]

I'm glad people are starting to cover this guy. Literally all of his videos are about hating women.

[@sharpman8407]

When has he said he hates women

[@fishofgold6553]

You are defining hate a bit too broadly.

[@HeortirtheWoodwarden]

I watch him and I never got the impression that he hated women, just shitty people.

[@kayakat1869]

@@fishofgold6553 all he does is complain about women in his videos. I wouldn't make a whole channel about how much I despise something if I didn't hate it.

[@TheScarletSlayer]

@@kayakat1869 I'll give him some credit as topics he covered seemed fairly justified in regards to them being about abusive relationships and taking advantage of systems put in place. While I won't act like everything he's said is correct I also don't think we can simply dismiss it all as being completely wrong. Also like with a segment in a video( I don't remember which one) talking about double standards that lean against men, surely you can agree on that to some degree. And I also think personality is definitely important I do still think people should put in the effort to better themselves into becoming more attractive( meaning being in better physical shape as well as bettering their diet and health) because let's face it I've never her someone go " DAAAAM look at the personality on that". If you have any disagreements I'm open to discussion

[@RJCain]

I don't even have a problem with someone asking someone to do something, I have have a problem with how he asked. Which is to say, he didn't ask. "I need you to" and "can you?" are not the same.

[@InfiniteAnvil]

Also something I think is being under-addressed here is that it wasn't even her husband. Her *father-in-law* feels so entitled to women's labor that he thinks he can just tell his daughter-in-law to clean up after their fun father-son bonding time. Like it still would have been out of line coming from her husband, but the sheer patriarchal audacity of expecting your daughter-in-law to clean up after you is shocking

[@TheUnintelligentOne]

@@InfiniteAnvil excuse me fun? You would spend all the money to build a house for fun? For bonding ? Why dont you just go in your hole and go bond with the garbage collectors

[@InfiniteAnvil]

Lmao, I think this guy blocked me after @'ing me? "You would spend all your money to build a house for fun? For bonding?" *I* wouldn't, because I don't find that kind of thing fun. My grandpa added an extension onto his house for fun though - it's not exactly un-heard-of. The husband and FiL in this situation are obviously not currently "building the house" as in "making a place to live." They're already living in the house, therefore we can assume the parts required to make a house livable have already built. They clearly have the wiring in already, so whatever they're building now is probably something that won't need additional electric or plumbing support. So yeah, I think it can be reasonably assumed that dad and FiL are doing it as a fun project.

[@TheUnintelligentOne]

@@InfiniteAnvil If she is living there the least she could do is clean up a little she dosent even have to do all im sure her husband would be ok if she did atleast some. Both of them have jobs but the husband took the time out of his day to do something that would benifit both of them bot him alone.

[@TheUnintelligentOne]

@@InfiniteAnvilThere is a big difference he has a job too and from the look of the house he comes home really latehe possibly just finished the lighting and needed to get ready for work. By the looks of it he did build the whold house and obviously he still had to go to work hey maybe the dad is retired he still isnt obligated to do anything if you built a house to live in you would atleast expect them to contribute something especially when you do the bulk of the work from the sound of it even if it was fun it still benifited both of them but would be of greater inconveinence to him if someone was bakeing a cake just to eat it all on their own while using your resources to do it and expecring you to clean it up that would be unreasonable but in this case it would be more like them buying all the materials and also sharing with the other party even if baking is their hobby you should atleast resiprocate a kind jesture not just I feel very greatful what does that do it only benifits you relationships shouldnt be one sided

[@medusagorgo5146]

I really like doing laundry. My mother liked it too, I think I got it from her. My mother was a nurse and is retired now, I was in the army and I’m retired too, my husband knows how to do laundry and when I’m not home, he can do it himself. Although, I don’t like the way he folds clothes so I always redo it. It’s a household chore that I do, just like I’m the primary cook, he does the dishes. We’ve been together for 25 years now and it’s all about compromise and mutual respect for each other. This guy will never have a long time relationship with a woman. (If at all)

[@axlrosesson6300]

are u a feminist or something or are u just an egalitarian?

[@Nerobyrne]

Fun fact: you don't need knife skills to cook. That's just something they do for TV to look good.

[@KireiC]

Basic good chopping technique does, though, and *technically* that's a knife skill! But you can learn that inside a day, and practicing it is easy to do if you cook, and doesn't have to take hours. But you're right that you don't need the super fancy prep methods to know how to tourné potatoes and make radish rosettes to be a good cook.

[@Nerobyrne]

@@KireiC yeah good point, you need to know a few things. I was mostly referring to those fancy techniques that you see on TV, because the guy in the video said something about taking months to learn it. If people want to do that, great, but you don't need it

[@brettoelschlager8249]

@@KireiC Honestly, even if you don't get taught basic cutting skills, theres a pretty good chance you'll figure it out anyways, because it's the easiest way to do it.

[@LethallyReptarded]

Yes you do. You don’t need knife skills to microwave 😂 but I wouldn’t consider that cooking

[@Nerobyrne]

@@LethallyReptarded read the other comments. very obviously, you don't. I know because I've been cooking just fine without them for over 10 years now.

[@dronestrikejr]

They think career is more important so let them pick that, whats so unreasonable about contributing to the home u live in ?

[@Nerobyrne]

She did her share of the work though. None of it

[@sharpman8407]

For a free house to total fair

[@kayakat1869]

@@sharpman8407 did you help anyone build your house? I thought so.

[@sharpman8407]

@@kayakat1869 but I sure did pay for tho but hey that was about 2 hours of work compared to 96 k i know what I'm picking

[@kayakat1869]

@@sharpman8407 yeah, she's probably helping pay for them to buy supplies too. That's what couples do...

[@sharpman8407]

@@kayakat1869probably ? How do you know

[@Michaela_ZC]

**feels dejavu while watching this video** **remembers I watched this stream live**

[@KireiC]

That construction mess was bananas. My husband and father-in-law also get up to home improvement projects while I'm at work, but if they left a huge mess and expected me to swoop in and single handedly clean up after them, I'd be pretty pissed too. Reasonable thing would be to say "we finished up but didn't have the time/energy to clean up, so watch out - if you felt like moving a few tools into the garage or something though that would be great!" Or even like Jake said, requesting *assistance* with the cleanup, rather than issuing a mandate for a BIG unplanned-for task list. Also, this dude's rant about cooking paired with his Japanese language enthusiasm makes me think that he imagines that once someone learns to cook they wind up like characters in Food Wars. Let me tell you, man, there are plenty of tasks I know how to do very well with great attention to detail - and I still hate doing them (ironing, for instance - I try to avoid having to iron anything through what I buy and then how I launder things, and then wait months and do a ton of ironing at once rather than try to do it regularly). Some people are like that with cooking, and are fine with basic dishes because the cost/benefit doesn't pay off for them to, say, buy and prep a ton of individual ingredients to make something you consume in under 30 minutes. It's not just about aptitude, it's about motivation too! Me knowing how to do something well does not mean I will be highly motivated to go do it.

[@sharpman8407]

It's funny how you compare home improvements to an an actual house

[@KireiC]

@@sharpman8407 the comparison's still fair even if the scale differs. In fact if someone's literally building a house you think they would either manage their tools and mess better, ie. have a system in place to keep things *relatively* neat and organized, or, actually want alot of those tools and supplies still out and accessible for other building tasks they've yet to complete. You'd think they wouldn't fob off that task to a third party who hadn't agreed to it beforehand, and whose organizational style might even clash with theirs, making items harder for them to find later.

[@sharpman8407]

@@KireiC so your comparing home improvements to building the house the scale dose absolutely matter in that situation and I do agree the should have managed better but your still not explaining to me how that's not fair that is still 2 hours of work max compared to building a house that you get for free without putting in any work into it

[@KireiC]

@@sharpman8407 the scale of the work and the benefit one gets from it is not really the problem here, though - it's the communication and lack of respect/understanding. For instance, I make most of the money in my household (>90%). In essence I provide housing, food, basically everything for my partner. Does that mean I get to order them around to do things for me on short notice, regardless of what housework and childcare they've been up to all day? Do I have less right to do this if I only contribute 75%, or 50%? Where is the line at which I have to respect their time? I think that I have to respect their time no matter what, because they're my partner, not a slave or a robot. In this women's situation, frankly, they all have communication to work on. She could probably have pushed back in a more productive way, sure, but the father-in-law and husband demonstrated very little respect or understanding for her in their initial message asking her to tackle that huge mess solo, even if they did so with polite language.

[@sharpman8407]

@@KireiCbecause of the lack of information we can't say if he actually does that on a daily basis what we can see this is one singular moment I don't blame him building a house is hard work and to also work on that doing 2 hours of work is still nothing compared to all that

[@taniadickson541]

Think before you sleep is what happens when a guy with a annoying whinny voice gets rejected by females way to many times

[@hellenmuka7207]

Keywords, 'Fee-melz'

[@jasperhernandez7364]

Lmao insults that's typical feminist move because you ladies can think logical and debate logic.

[@misterauctor7353]

Why project?

[@Chuck_EL]

@@hellenmuka7207 and "Mah gawd that American girl next door blonde girl is dating a black guy, America is going down the gutter"

[@kayakat1869]

My grandpa is an artist and an engineer, and he works on projects around the house too. My grandma was a hairstylist, who worked 8 hours a day most days and she is an extremely tidy person. Guess what? My grandpa always cleans up his mess, and doesn't expect my grandma to do it. They are different in so many ways but they love and respect each other immensely. They both do chores in the house that they live in.

[@sharpman8407]

I don't know about you but I'll clean up the mess that was left after building the that i can live infor free

[@sharpman8407]

@@makeitthrough_ good for you learning new words

[@Sinc3r3ly]

Did he build their house?

[@OhsoWoobie]

If you go to this guy’s channel, majority if not all are talking down on women. One video he gave the analogy of him “pushing through” playing super smash bros and winning, comparing to a woman pushing through physical excursion. So cringe lol

[@RavennaZane]

I do actually bump into shit like doorframes and tables , etc. all the time. Now I know why - it's because I'm a millennial who doesn't know how houses work. 🤣

[@calvinmay4673]

You sound like you’re pussy wiped.

[@coffeecat1030]

I am a sucker for old fashioned roles of men and woman, and can only dream of a life of having a husband going to work and me staying home and raising kids/ nurturing husband/ house cleaning. BUT the reality nowadays, you can't pay for shit with only one person having a job. You need 2. So if the masculine role has to be shared, the feminine role has to be shared too. People aren't machine's too handle both alone. The least you can do is ask her for HELP since the Cleaning responsibility is also shared like the masculine one. That 'think before you sleep' guy is probably going to stay single forever if he has these unrealistic demands from other people (and probably never gives in return? he sounds like one of those people) The only sensible thing he said (wow I'm surprised) is that it's not fair too share personal conflicts to the world, through tiktok. I would be hurt too if my partner did that. But at least she didn't show a name/ picture of her husband.

[@MeatMaster69420]

How does anything u say correlate to the video, they asked her to help with the cleaning for the house she is living in, if she didn't want to do the work deadass message her husband and say the work is too much and she is tired, instead she makes a tic tok about it, complaining instead of trying to fix the issue

[@jurassicsmackdown6359]

Nah, she should've helped. Her boyfriend and stepdad are not only doing their regular jobs, but building the house she's living in. It's not like they asked her to sort the lumber by length and width, or the tools by what their function is. She could've just piled the wood in the garage and the tools on the shelves, done. She's the first one home, they're also working all day, PLUS BUILDING HER HOUSE. Rare L take from Jake, first one I've ever seen.

[@jantjepietjepol]

What kind of a man let's his wife touch his tools.

[@sereksusvictar7888]

This response is nothing but ad hominem attacks with no actual substance. You lose the non debate when you dont have any actual arguments. I wish folks actually researched their targets and came with hard hitting responses, instead of lazily attacking things like voice, height, sexual orientation and sexual prowess. And this comment section isn't much better, sadly. It's even more sad that you guys likely think you are the "good guys" here for degrading a "misogynist", without any proof of actual misogyny. Kinda like how you call the guy an incel without knowing his sexual history. If this is the feminist argument against Think, then the guy has it easy.

[@cyanosphere5066]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@eveofthewood]

We found real life Squidward

[@bleakautomaton4808]

It's lovely when people who deeply love each other get married as a celebration of that love and show of commitment - where later they may renew their vows for the same reason. That's the fairytale portion of marriage, that some are able to achieve, while plenty get pressured into it by others (knows someone who married an abusive man because he got her pregnant and both parents pressured them to get married).

[@bleakautomaton4808]

The i-guy also makes me embarrassed that I am studying Japanese as a second language...and it's already made embarrassing with the weeb community lol

[@Fatestringer]

@@bleakautomaton4808 I like anime as much as the next person but I'd imagine it would have to be strange trying to talk to a Japanese person as though you're watching tv that's like speaking in cheesy one liners to talk to Americans no one realistically talks that way

[@bleakautomaton4808]

@@Fatestringer Exactly. Like someone told me, like speaking Spanish after marathoning Tele Novela (is that how it's spelled?) Cheap textbooks likely result in sounding a bit stilted too...

[@michaelseeney6582]

To have these red pill guys tell it she shouldn't be anywhere near that construction site. Why are these guys so hypocritical?

[@jasperhernandez7364]

They never say that lmao.

[@lilratbu5305]

@@jasperhernandez7364 exactly, who tf say that sh 🤣

[@szniok]

this guy is like me at 14, immature and inexperienced and yet unexplainably confident about the baseless conclusions he comes to. how old was he again?

[@specter5336]

By "listening to podcasts" I assume he means listening to his own videos on repeat

[@imthebadguy3225]

What's with the corn?

[@xenoesquire8994]

"Honey can you clean out the nuclear fallout in our kitchen after your dad and I set off a nuclear bomb? Thanks in advance!"

[@yaogwai]

She’s probably gonna get the house he built tho

[@Chainsaw18]

2:57 ummm.... Cause relationship means both male and female do things to appreciate each other. How would you know lol.

[@crudeodin0213]

I enjoy watching think before you sleep

[@Thunderblock7889]

Hr sucks. You are cringe

[@ladynecro2575]

I’m still getting better at cooking.

[@WizardTiefling]

You know I'm starting to think all experience these guys have with woman is through tik Tok and Instagram

[@Techon9]

Actual Jake: first time watching your channel. I have to express that am not impressed with your work. Disappointed to be frank. So far you’ve demonstrated a clear biased perspective and have intentionally gone out of your way to not understand. Your review is the equivalent of a simp supporting this wife’s bad behavior while simultaneously covering your ears talking over the narrator shouting “lalalalalalla” Despite having over 16000 views on this video with 500 likes. That’s about a 3% like ratio. I’m curious to see your dislike count. Right from the gate you try to shame him on his voice (something he can’t change) while he’s criticriticizing her bad behavior (something that can be changed) My favorite part of your video is when you called her out to not say “win” for being toxic, then immediately supporting her after she says it.

[@mr.grumpyg2769]

I'm seriously done twitch streamer tried expose people. where is this man argument at?

[@Big.Rig.]

Oh no I have to spen like an hour cleaning up as a favour to the people BUILDING ME A FUCKING HOUSE

[@Big.Rig.]

Also 10k views and 400 likes 😬

[@jurassicsmackdown6359]

FOR FUCKING REAL THOUGH

[@completelynormalperson7077]

An hour? Dude do you know how long it would take to clean up construction shit? That stuff isn’t easy to carry, especially by yourself

[@coltj5907]

Yeah if she’s that entitled better to rip off the bandaid. Most men wouldn’t work that hard to build a home for them let alone be lucky enough to have a father in law that helps his son with that. She doesn’t deserve him

[@mrplinkett4429]

Naruto!

[@stamatedragosc.2302]

Bruh you look live vaush

[@iRetneprac]

I'm three minutes into this. I didn't even need to make it this far to go, "Yeah, that checks."

[@peachy_lili]

yoooo why does this dude sound exactly like Mandark from Dexter's Laboratory (*edit*: okay, This_Juan @30:35 hears it too lmao)

[@afroprince5262]

3:24 I can see her annoyance Whining on tik tok isn’t gonna help , but leaving all that on her was still messed up.

[@nocapnofilters2424]

and soo says a chubby nerd🤣🤣🤣brayaka Actual Jake eno tlohela o gora motete for content and following poi

[@teaguejelinek4038]

Homies reaching for that traffic with this one

[@mayomonkey3810]

What happened to the corn suit?

[@randomboi346]

Idk I feel like being asked to clean the trash for a FREE HOUSE isn’t that bad of a deal

[@Big.Rig.]

buh buh she had to do some hair dressing

[@gchickencoup2894]

All i heard was you chortling 0 content

[@NFSMAN50]

His channel is very toxic and problematic, but it's loved and circlejerk by insecure manchildren who are upset at a changing society, they are the same people who were cheering about what happened Friday, thinking it's a win to them, because they are mad at every single lady in existence.

[@sting0277]

Ok simp

[@misterauctor7353]

???

[@helghastunit7363]

Elaborate because everything you said was inaccurate.

[@pmaggs]

holy shit that mess is a construction site mess they want her to clean after work. Bro. No. That's up to you as the builders to deal with, god damn.

[@skyeguy7914]

Right? It’s amazing that this isn’t part of the conversation with people like TBYS. It ultimately comes down to “cleaning is a woman’s job” and that’s it. I hate it. Like, I don’t like dumping stuff on people that I don’t want to do. I would feel like a total ass doing this to this woman.

[@Tinnituss]

she could at least TRY to help? Like they literally built the house for you, the least you could do is try to help a little bit.

[@alvinandthesquirrles9579]

Comment do you think his delusions have gone further back than that ungodly hairline?

[@smallhabibidecisions9649]

disappointed by all the strawman and ad hominem

[@maxrice9902]

nobody talks abt this literal menace to society enough

[@redactedvt7873]

Wait I wanna hear the Japanese stuff

[@agoo7581]

I made the stupid fucking mistake of going to this video expecting this muppet to be dragged in the comments......but no, overwhelming support. holy fucking hell, humanity blows chunks.

[@Claire-ui8gr]

BEEF COURT! I'm here for it.

[@Noodlepunk]

Why wouldn't you need cleaning skills?! Do you not clean? Be honest.

[@Zanaxtacy]

I would be such a good “traditional” wife for the right woman

[@mysticjp7684]

Slay get that working woman💅

[@kojinmaster]

She should build the house and he doesnt have to do anything. Seriously what is she expected to do from simps?