What If My Child Just Doesn't Care About Consequences - kzbin.info/www/bejne/e6ackHiOlruthdE
@coltenronald85013 жыл бұрын
InstaBlaster
@KarriSimone3 жыл бұрын
My child actually put soap in her own mouth after I threatened it once. She doesn't care. She'll starve herself if I don't make one of the 2 things she'll eat. Its crazy!!!
@tabitha98903 жыл бұрын
...And for only a moment, they go through this faze, but feels like a life time to us at that moment. You got a strong willed girl on your hands. No man is going to control her, that's for sure. 😃❤
@martinmcgowan45912 жыл бұрын
A mother complained about her son that he was good for nothing only for driving nails into a plank of wood. The teacher padraig pearse told the mother to get a hammer some 🪵wood and nails for the boy
@kizuwandalawrence426611 ай бұрын
Inspiring🎉
@sukibaldwin19014 жыл бұрын
“Cleaning and scrubbing can wait for tomorrow, / For babies grow up so we learn to our sorrow. / So quiet down, cobwebs, and dust, go to sleep! / I’m rocking my baby, and babies don’t keep.” That’s the poem. There is a melody for it, too.
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Suki Baldwin. I love that - it puts things into perspective.
@BellaBear963 жыл бұрын
My eyes just teared up 😭
@SuperSheliz5 жыл бұрын
Thank you doc. All of us moms need this. I hate myself sometimes, I feels like an evil mom and I don't deserve a child.
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
You can change to positive parenting, Sharifah Shelin. I am honored to be on your team and offer some tips.
@oreofegeorge30834 жыл бұрын
Exactly . 😔
@Queenngee4 жыл бұрын
I definitely understand that is why I’m here
@Altheaisokay4 жыл бұрын
This is so relatable
@nicoledecoty97194 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly how I felt this morning 😞
@jerikas5 жыл бұрын
Im so glad im not the only mom struggling with anger ❤LOVE this advice❤
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
No way, J S. We are all in this together and you are not alone.
@evian.4 жыл бұрын
J S What kind of glad it is? You are trying hard to explain your ugly behaviour. Tell it to your children that you are not the only one! Take responsibility for your actions women.
@veronicaaugust196 жыл бұрын
My eyes just filled with tears when I read this video title. I feel like I am always so angry at my 4-year-old and I hate that side of me. So I am grateful for your advice. Thank you for thinking of us "grumpy" moms 💛
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
Veronica, you "grumpy" moms are the angels that raise our kids. You make all the difference. I had a special experience making this video. You need to know who you are! So honored to be on your team. DrPaul P.S. - did you see this? kzbin.info/www/bejne/aJWkcqGqZs5lptE
@georgeannepanos81326 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way!!! I bet there are many of us out there.
@susylopez93086 жыл бұрын
You are not alone Veronica. I hate my self when I get angry at my 6 year old and see his little eyes water. I can’t wait to absorb this information.
@shireenhendricks21946 жыл бұрын
Im feeling gulity too.
@susylopez93086 жыл бұрын
Shireen Hendricks I’m holding your hand Shireen.
@RebelWildflower5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I’m watching it while hiding from my kids because I’m too hoarse from yelling at them. This video just changed my life.
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Heather Chance, glad you are looking for resources to help. Calm voice will save your lungs. Thank you for trying it out.
@courtneynelson82355 жыл бұрын
I'm literally doing the same thing!!
@pankhurinigam4804 жыл бұрын
Heather Chance me too !!
@swapnareddy71474 жыл бұрын
Happened to me yesterday.
@pennywang7784 жыл бұрын
I'm a 2 year old girl's mother from China. Recently desperate from China's lockdown and unemployment and experiencing the terrible 2 with my kid at home every single day. Cried while watching this video, Thank you so much. Really learned and inspired. I might still won't be a perfect or patient Mom, but I will try and learn and I believe I will be better after watching your videos. Appreicate ! !
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Penny Wang, we are all in this together. Remember to love them no matter what and even if... We will get through this.
@camisnyder34603 жыл бұрын
Hang in there girl!!! Us mothers need to stay strong and know that we are so not alone.
@miffedcuttlefish61393 жыл бұрын
I was in a bathroom stall the other day at the mall and I heard a mom being so impatient with her son because he was talking so much and I suppose, dragging, and she sounded SO annoyed at his dragging and talking. And it broke my heart because she has no idea how lucky she is to have a little one that TALKS. My 4 year old doesn't and how I wish she did. I was also sad because I heard myself in her, too. The realization that I needed to be kinder to my children fell on my heart like Atlas struggled to hold up the sky. And I was so hurt because despite how I was feeling, my kids love me right now, unconditionally, and I want that to go on as they get older because home is always going to be here for them. Mommies and daddies, good luck. I'm rooting for you too.
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Miffed Cuttlefish, thank you for sharing the experience. You are the mother your children need.
@Carolmaizy2 жыл бұрын
I think this video will help many parents and grandparents. Such wisdom. My babies are 37 and 33 now. Some of the days went by sooo slowly, but the years flew by. My boys are men now- good, kind men. Their lives aren't perfect, but they have good lives. That's all I truly ever wanted for them, so I'm happy.
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Carol, perfection not required, sounds like you and they are in a good place. Thank you for commenting.
@tranquilambiance17515 жыл бұрын
Hey Dr!! I was an angry mum. And it's not like I'm never angry anymore, I still get angry but it doesn't define my life or my relationships. I was also suffering "depression" and was even suicidal. One of the things that really changed my life was sleeping early. Instead of staying up in my phone after the kids sleep, I'd get kids to bed at 730 and be in bed by 830. For me, this completely cured my "depression" which I really think was just sleep deprivation and I'm really wondering if this is a common misdiagnosis. I became a better wife and mother just by sleeping. I think my husband has ptsd from how I used to be lol. So if this is an issue for mum's they need to sort it out. It sorts out a big chunk of the anger issue. Another thing that changed me was realising that I could lose my kids at any time. I think a lot of our anger is exactly what you said about "things are what they should be". You aren't meant to be holidaying, sipping tea and floating alone in the pool. You're meant to be in the kiddy pool watching your kids having an amazing time for a few years till they grow up a bit. So I chose to enjoy all the blessings that I was overlooking because I was distracted by what I thought I wanted. Another thing is I hear a lot of my friends say they wasted their life by having their kids and they wished they had a career. I view my motherhood as my career. I view my home as my workplace. When you take it seriously and you get what you need done, you feel accomplished. Now I expect my house to get messy. I have a day care and tutoring centre and restaurant happening here! But once the kids are in bed and they've been nourished with everything they need, its closing time. I can do my end of day cleaning and really feel so fulfilled. I now enjoy all the things I used to hate. And it's actually all that matters to me I have no interest in any of the things I used to long for. Getting enough sleep and changing perspective is so important. I totally agree with you on not getting worked up when kids destroy things. I'm better at that but still not quite there. I have a destructive 3 year old that always finds a way to make chaos. And he always goes after my brand new things. Really looking forward to a year from now when he's 4. They tend to calm down by then 😂
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Umm Osayd, you hit on so many good points here. I always say you first need to take care of yourself. Getting the proper amount of sleep is so overlooked in our society and as your situation indicates, it is an individual need. It is so much easier to be our best self when our needs are met. We must live in the present and be happy where we are, each and every moment. Children don't keep, they are growing every minute and reaching that time when they will leave the nest. Disappointment comes from unmet expectations and when we change those expectations, we are all around happier. Thank you for a wonderful comment that really brings out how these things can have impact on not only one life, yours, but your entire family as well.
@mrssuw67255 жыл бұрын
salam mashaallah this is indeed a very practical advice that i would love to execute it immediately. i think you might be right, perhaps my anxiety and impatience are the results from self-deprivation!
@urmomdotcom40395 жыл бұрын
This comment helped me. Thank you💕
@princessdavina66145 жыл бұрын
I thank you for taking time and writing all this for people in same boat.
@maisoonmoaaz70195 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment I also noticed that when I wake up before my baby it gives me time to start the day with taking care of myself so when she wakes up I'm able to take care of her better
@queenofthebutterflies52124 жыл бұрын
I just found my new Guru, Dr. Paul Jenkins. I live for my son. I always only ever wanted to be a Mum. I was told I was infertile but found out 1 day I was 5 months pregnant!!! :-O I was waaaaaaay out of my depth, I'd never prepared for it, seriously!! LOL! So now I'm in the thick of it....and I'm relentlessly watching these videos. This is medicine for me and my little boy. I can't express my gratitude enough.
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!! We are glad to have you in our community, Queen of the Butterflies.
@poheeteo3 жыл бұрын
I teared listening to your last point on remembering who you are. As a new mum taking care of my toddler I feel invisible and unappreciated everyday and it’s really driving me crazy. It takes a village to raise a kid, but there’s no village here, just me. I guess I really needed someone to tell me that all my efforts are noticed and appreciated, even though I know that they are my responsibilities for being a mother.
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Elaine Teo, you are the mother your child needs.
@daniellejohnson23732 жыл бұрын
Me too and my daughter’s dad doesn’t understand being a stay at home mom to a toddler 24/7 is hard and frustrating so I definitely feel unappreciated and never have time for myself I have no friends to talk to so I have a lot of bottled up anger since my daughter’s dad won’t let me talk about it instead he blames me for everything
@FuriousEevee937 ай бұрын
@@daniellejohnson2373I understand how you feel I relate to this.
@bidybidybu5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these tips. I would like to add that breaking and overwriting negative traditional reactions and patterns that we observed and received from our own parents and have become our default reaction to frustration with our kids could be helpful, too
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
It takes a lot of effort, but we can change and become more positive, despite our upbringing. Thanks for commenting, Santiago Hernandez.
@samgreen33172 жыл бұрын
I am standing in my kitchen listening whilst cleaning up. Lately I have been increasingly stressed out with the constant battles between my 3 young sons, my husband and I. Choosing to Home Educate them whilst still trying to deal with bad behaviour, sibling fighting, keeping our home clean and running and maintaining some form of sanity in the process - has had me feeling so much disconnect, anger, frustration, sadness towards my boys. Our home in a permanent mess! But listening to those words... “We’re not raising apples, we’re raising boys”... just had me tear up. From now on when I feel overwhelmed with housework and all the mess that Home Educating 3 young, lively, energetic, wild boys brings - I will remind myself... I’m not raising a house, I’m raising my sons!
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
You rock.
@samgreen33172 жыл бұрын
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you! 🤘🏻
@motherhoodempowerment70122 жыл бұрын
I don’t know you but I appreciate you thanking all moms for raising the next generation, it’s so kind and nice to hear
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, honored to be on your team.
@estyflam69976 жыл бұрын
Awesome!! Thank you! As a mother of seven children including 5 real BOYS, I could listen to this every day! Hope to always keep life in perspective!
@blessedkidsreality15695 жыл бұрын
Oh my God.. number1😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Esty Flam, you have your hands full! Thank you for being at Live On Purpose TV.
@Donnasherwani3 жыл бұрын
Literally crying! You’re so inspiring ~ it’s been so hard here in melbourne australia to manage pregnancy life with a toddler and no support under strict lockdown rules where no one can help out. I forget about all these ~ thank you! 😭
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
You are very welcome. My best to your family.
@kanariofavoured75346 ай бұрын
Actually today I felt so much anger towards my 3yr Old. Parenting isn't easy, we need grace
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 ай бұрын
Agreed.
@cnoor30 Жыл бұрын
'They are already that person' I love you for saying this
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
Clara Webb, you are the mother your children need.
@mchmonster9 ай бұрын
Wow, I did not expect to tear up and feel everything that I just felt. Thank you so much for this video. You have no idea how much I needed to hear all of this.
@LiveOnPurposeTV9 ай бұрын
Honored to be on your team.
@cjv87685 жыл бұрын
These videos have forever changed my life, perspective, awareness of how I need/want to parent. Thank you Dr.Jenkins...you have shifted my whole being. What a saving grace you are.
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, C jv. Glad you found the channel and find the videos helpful. Honored to be on your team.
@cjv87685 жыл бұрын
Honestly, best parenting advice I have come across...having three boys. So reassuring, not a guilt provoking focus....just honest, sensible advice. Im so happy
@ChrissyVee56 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I needed this video today. Number #5 literally has me in tears because it’s so true. These stages don’t last so we should enjoy it.❤️ Love your channel so much
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
FacciaBella5, I'm honored by your comment - this is why I do the channel in the first place. Thanks for watching. DrPaul
@princessdavina66145 жыл бұрын
Dear Dr. Thanks so much for healing and helping us..You withhold nothing but generous with your kindness to make home a happier place.
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Princess Davina, thank you for your kind words. Thank you for being at Live On Purpose.
@darlenne79185 жыл бұрын
This is so crazy... my daughter is not talking as much as others but she is learning more and more and I hear so many people say wait until 3 she will y’all a lot but here I am “ sad and confused about her not talking as much and maybe something is wrong” things are exactly how they should be. I’m finding her help and things will be what they will be PERIOD! GoodNight!
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Darlenne, it is so hard to be patient when we are comparing our children's abilities with those of others. It doesn't hurt to consult a speech pathologist, but your child may begin to talk at any time, she is still on the normal spectrum.
@connie12123 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I don't know what happy to me for the last 3years.. it's never too late, so I'm happy I watched this...I don't know why I never thought to watch parenting videos in past..
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! Glad you found us.
@drmandeepkaurmandeepnursin96996 жыл бұрын
Congratulations for ur little daughter turning 21,,,god bless her always,,, Ur talk was amazing,,, Thankuuuu
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, mandeep
@a.mom4life4 жыл бұрын
I am so thankful I stumbled across your video. This is such an encouragement to myself and even my own husband.
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Amanda Sheppard, I love it when I hear couples watch the videos together and discuss the principles.
@beverlyochieng60764 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being on our team
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome!
@mumuislam15765 жыл бұрын
I came across this video, as i was searching for behavioural problem in small children. You have changed my life Doc.. I realized it is all me
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Rome Islam, I am honored to be on your team, welcome to Live On Purpose TV.
@jesseniamoreno11616 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. Thank you
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
Hope you are on your way to more positive, happy days, Jessenia Moreno. Thank you for watching.
@lecrown33385 жыл бұрын
As a mother of a toddler, this video was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much! It also made me want to go for a second child lol.
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Lannie Garcia, hang in there, they do grow up and we can keep calm and parent on...
@hadijahmahenge22314 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 sailing on the same boat.. I have 2 year old son😇😇 i couldnt even think of another but now am at easy😊
@hadijahmahenge22314 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 sailing on the same boat.. I have 2 year old son😇😇 i couldnt even think of another but now am at easy😊
@samanthabustos19814 ай бұрын
Last words made me tear up too. Thank you for reminding me of everything us moms do. Great advice. ❤️👍
@lochis5033 жыл бұрын
Having such a hard time raising My 10 year old son . Thanks Doc , plz keep Making more vedios sure made my Day thank you
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Hang in there, Locha, you can do this.
@kamralb Жыл бұрын
Grateful to come across this video. Thank you for delivering the information with so much grace and understanding.
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
Kamra Christensen, honored to be on your team.
@Thelordismyshephard504 жыл бұрын
Kids are like a mirror, they do what they see and hear. We yell and get angry, they yell and get angry, we are patient and talk to them in a loving way, they will too. Praising your child helps a lot too. Price them with a sticker, a toy, a candy, a date night out etc. they will understand that they have earned it for a good behavior and following home rules. Just an advise from a mom to mom/dad. 💖🥰
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Bella Vida, thanks for your positive comment and supporting other parents. Honored to have you here on the channel.
@sarahlee80226 жыл бұрын
Beautifully beautifully sd. I've learned this vital lesson with my own. They grow out of stages indeed. Enjoy the process parents. #perspective
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Sarah Lee, wonderful!
@Brynja245 жыл бұрын
This Video made me laugh and cry. Thank you so much!!
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
I have heard that from several people, Bryanja 24. Thank you for watching.
@BoazsCrown2226 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video💕 This is a great starting point for me.
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
Glad you found some value, Stephanie. Thanks for watching.
@ItsRealyReall3 жыл бұрын
Being a parent on the Autistic Spectrum and Sensory Processing Disorder dominating my life, the 'fight or flight' is always there and makes me feel doomed. But I'm looking into these videos with hope once again. Thank you.😣
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
ItsRealyReall, come back anytime and watch. I love that part of KZbin. Hopefully we can meet inside liveonpurposecentral.com.
@chanirooney34633 жыл бұрын
I bursted into tears at no, 1,,solo mama of 4 plus kids,not much team to work with here,no family support 😭
@chanirooney34633 жыл бұрын
Blessingz thanking you
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Chani Rooney, I hope you can build up your team as things begin to reopen. Find a support group, many are online now. It could give you some ideas.
@alikateweiss6 жыл бұрын
So much of #7 comes from external expectations, either real or perceived. It's hard to accept that things as they should be when those around us do not. So we are always worried about being judged in public, or getting judgement and unrealistic expectations from family members or neighbors . . . moms are followed around by a team of tsk-tsk-ers so often that we fear it even when it's not even happening. In stores I'll get mad at my kids for behavior on behalf of those around us, which is ridiculous. Any time I've received "you're a good mom" compliments from strangers it's for staying calm while they act like kids.
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
Ali - you're doing the hardest and most important and most rewarding and most frustrating and most joyful job in the world. Good for you! Everybody has an opinion, and it is amazing what brilliant ideas people without kids can come up with right? I've got your back! DrPaul
@mibrakteka18483 жыл бұрын
Isn't that it's only me that I can be so angry until my kids gets scared sometimes? Wow! I am crying when I listen and read the comments of others moms. Thank-you so much Doctor! We need more of that!
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Mibrak Teka, glad we can connect. Thanks for watching, please share with others who could benefit from the videos.
@elizasalmeron4072 жыл бұрын
I can say thank you so much for these words much need it. I have been reading books, trying to parenting my 6 years old who is very special on drive me crazy 😫but at the end I’m his mother and his protector.
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! Take the time and resources you need to take care of yourself so you can be present for others.
@krunuchnadon4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much doctor. You just touched my heart. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Couldn't stop crying (because of joy you have brought).
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
I am honored, Krunuch Nadon. I am so glad you found value in the video.
@shireenhendricks21946 жыл бұрын
I needed this video. So helpful . I did exactly what you teaching but got criticized for loving my kids and allowing them freedom to make mistakes.THANK YOU
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being a conscious mother! DrPaul
@yessicapeters91045 жыл бұрын
Im back again! Refresher for my spirit and white board. You are very uplifting. I feel presence of Logos in every video. I really enjoy and appreciate all you do here on KZbin. Thank You, God bless.
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Glad to have you at the channel anytime, Loewen Behold. More videos coming out every week.
@daramanuel52595 жыл бұрын
Love tips #3,#2,#1 raising and guiding little children through life, encouraging them to be all that they are created to be and learn all that they wish to discover in life. Above all Love and Happiness. Thank you Dr. ❤️🙏🏾😁
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting, Dara Manuel. Honored to be on your team.
@myblessedlife27226 ай бұрын
I ate some food ( maybe I just hungry ) & apologized to my kids for losing my anger and we hugged now I get a brand new start lol next time they upset me , or I feel overwhelmed or fushtrated I will catch it immediately and pray and read some scriptures and just breathe
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 ай бұрын
Yes! You are on the right track. You can do this.
@sarahbarra35013 жыл бұрын
Just found this video...im literally crying my eyes out over #6 and #1. I can't thank you enough for this.
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
You are very welcome. Please share with someone else who might benefit, Sarah.
@FG-md6ls2 жыл бұрын
one of the best talks ever... thank you...
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
F G, honored to be on your team.
@Salpeace56 жыл бұрын
Thank you I have a difficult teenage tempered daughter at the moment. I feel better and relaxed after watching these videos. I will spend more time talking to her now away from her 2 siblings.
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
One on one time is priceless. Thanks for showing up in your mom responsibilities, Shaz J.
@tecumseha5 жыл бұрын
This was not the first video of you I watched, but it is the one that "got the ball rolling" for me. I love the principles you eloquently teach here. I have been so lost for so long. Thank you for helping me find my way back! I need to watch this every day of my life. 💙
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
You are so kind, Tecumseh A. This video resonated with lots of mothers and fathers.
@nargizakhujanberdiyeva2 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much, this is all I need. God bless u.
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Welcome 😊
@LLUKASPalomicky Жыл бұрын
Thanks very much for this video. God will continue blessing you and the effort you put in.
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@marthasmith58544 жыл бұрын
Heart lifting. Thank you!
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@livinginspiredlife38193 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much....i really need this alot....you are heaven sent....mom from kenya.
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome, Living Inspired Life.
@babysreevlogs2 жыл бұрын
My 6 year kid belated many times ...by me...and my anger on him to set him in right direction..now my eyes filled with tears what I did. wrong ...today on word i promises my self ..i defnently remember who am I..thank you for advise like my type of moms
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
You got this. Better days ahead.
@Philippians2..102 жыл бұрын
Dr. Paul, thank you so much for you videos that truly give us steps and solutions, and not just selling a course. It seems this is your ministry, and it is showing the love of Christ by truly helping us. Thank you.
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Glad you appreciate the content.
@wendybtsbeingadorable1276 жыл бұрын
Good video to save and re-watch when these moments inevitably happen. I don't see a link to the video from your daughter. What is it?
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
Yes wjpatel - for some reason it didn't show in the video. I'll see if I can fix that. Here is the link you requested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aJWkcqGqZs5lptE - I think you'll like it. DrPaul
@mirijammessavussu39984 жыл бұрын
Thanks for clearing this up ... Starting crying I have been doing it all wrong.
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Mirigam Messavussu, you are a loving, benevolent parent and the perfect parent for your child.
@Tiffi5252 жыл бұрын
After watching star wars, I realized Yoda was right. FEAR is the path to the dark aide. "Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, and hate is the way of the dark side". Or something like that. I have realized my anger is all about fears or expectations about my son. Sometimes I avoid taking care of myself, but when I'm taking care of myself I realize it is fear.
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Tiffany Burton, thank you for sharing. It is a path and once you see that, you can see there are things you can do to more likely you will remain on the path. Thanks for highlighting this in your comment.
@sw8candy834 жыл бұрын
I'm a working mom, and Im always having hard times in terms of dealing with my child whenever his angry or doing things that are not in accordance to what I want.I most of the time shout and that makes me feel so guilty.My son throws all hurtful words for a mom to hear. I feel that its my fault. I screwed evrything. pls. help.
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
If you would like one on one help go to www.drpauljenkins.com/breakthroughcall.
@ririimari3 жыл бұрын
Literally crying this was a powerful video. Thank you.
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Tarren Mari, thank you.
@ejppasquallie39954 жыл бұрын
Good evening Doc . I couldn't stop my tears from falling I felt like I have failed my 2year old daughter. Befor I watched your video I hade to go through one of my daughter's meltdowns she will throw things bite me cry ,throw everything she finds in the ben , cellphones you name it she throws it and after her meltdown I thought no man how do a person deal with this I search how to deal with stubborn kids,came across your video and started watching ofcause I SUBSCRIBE. After watching this video now just made me see that I'm not the only mother that feels this way .I am taking your advice and I want to do better with your tools you just handed me I know with my whole heart that I will succeed. thank you so so much for taking the time to do this videos for us and helping us get in a healthier state of mind and helping us create an healthier environment for our little sweethearts. I for sure appreciate this very much stay blessed and stay safe in this time of covid19. P.s Evelyn .
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
I am so honored by your comment, Evelyn. Thank you for joining the Live On Purpose family! I hope this channel can be of service to you. This is an older video, so I want to let you know that I just launched Live On Purpose Central and invite you to check it out: liveonpurposecentral.com/order-form1590696228507
@smorisot2 жыл бұрын
thank you for this. so very meaningful. i was struck by the comments and how many moms experience this. as one said, we often feel like we’re the only one and it’s so disheartening. i also appreciate your thoughtful responses to those that commented-very kind❤️
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome, smorisot.
@godiswithme76442 жыл бұрын
I need so much help... I'm at a point that I no longer know what to do... I wish I could have therapy with this guy... sometimes I feel like it's not worth living like this... the yelling, the DISRESPECT from my daughter, the disobedience, the fighting... I cry myself to sleep almost every night... it's so painful. And the worst is that she DOES NOT care... whenever we have a problem, she calls her dad (who abuse me for so many years) and asked him to be her rescuer! 😢 😭 of course he comes to her "rescue" and blames for ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING... I'm exhausted!
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
God is with me, my heart goes out to you. She doesn't understand what she is doing now and with her father validating her bad behavior, it probably won't change. Get clear on what you control and what you don't. Stay in the realm of your control and know she will grow up.
@Sparkle.333 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much doc. You really really helped me! Forever grateful. I needed this video 😭
@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын
Glad it helped!
@loganbenally1582 жыл бұрын
I'm going through all these videos, thinking they are all BS. This one actually made me a lot better.
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@babysreevlogs2 жыл бұрын
I am raising child Love them always Njoy every part of child life The kid you raising alredy great person in unmatured form...
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Love them no matter what and even if...
@homemakinglikeamother3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are life changing . Thank you so much
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
You are welcome.
@YourApostolicMom3 жыл бұрын
The ending made me tear up thank you so much!
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Selene Rodriguez, you are welcome.
@nomasontozitha75225 жыл бұрын
Super helpful. Thank you
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Nomasonto Zitha, glad you are here at the channel.
@kassandrab6653 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed to hear this. I will remember this forever.
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Doe eyed beauty, and the beauty of KZbin is it will be here when you need it again.
@twiaahdonkor8493 жыл бұрын
Thank you because I need it badly
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Twiaah Donkor, glad we could help.
@thefattyguy5013 жыл бұрын
Thank you Doc for this video!
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
You are welcome, Kaiden Brent.
@erica011619785 жыл бұрын
I needed a hug after this
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Air hug, Erica Cochran. Thank you for watching.
@marylawson87972 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful!!! 😭 this put so much in perspective
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! Glad it is helpful for you.
@carizmanuel44214 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your wisdom, knowledge and understanding. It made me cry and realized a lot of things. Looking forward to a new me as a mom of two kids. Thank you once again and may God bless you more!
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@AnnyshkaButik4 жыл бұрын
Thanks fo your wife's saying!
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Annyshka Butik, it is golden and has always stuck with me. Thanks.
@deltafalcon13 жыл бұрын
This one has so many nuggets! Thank you for this content.
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Renekuhfal2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much dr for sharing this video
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@jcteenchurch6 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Ive been trying to learn to laugh instead of get upset. But man some days i fail. Videos like this help
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
We all fail at times, just keep getting up the next day. More happy days are ahead.
@artantix20802 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome, Artantix.
@franciscanishagomes39443 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much sir for your valuable advice on how to bring up teenagers especially. You have helped me a lot to deal with my son. I have seen a lot of your videos which are so educative. Also I am learning still how to deal with teenagers for my profession. May God bless you abundantly .
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Franciscanisha Gomesbukkam, thank you and I wish you the best with your son and your work.
@destineyosterhout58283 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this!
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@karlaGonzalez21085 жыл бұрын
I love your videos my son told me I have short temper I felt sad !!
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
karla Gonzalez, use that discontent to make a plan and create a different reaction. You can do it.
@kellyoghodo70864 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, you are a life saver
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Kelly Tessy, We are here for you.
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Kelly Tessy, We are here for you.
@keronsgamingchannelishikaw5445 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much God bless you
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Kerons gaming channel ishikawa, thank you for watching.
@pupuko92745 жыл бұрын
thank you so much, im crying from 6-1 thank you for this.
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed the video, Tin Onicka.
@tarapearce16642 жыл бұрын
Thankyou, thankyou, thankyou
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
You are very welcome, Tara.
@becky49472 жыл бұрын
yes indeed enjoy when our kids are little...so we don't have any regrets later...when they're adults they'll remembered how we treated them and it hurts when they go back in time ...and they start telling you how unhappy they were because we yelled and spanked 😔 let our kids be kids...let them make a mess with their toys...let them be kids when they grow..we going to miss those toys scattered all over the livingroom 🥺
@LiveOnPurposeTV2 жыл бұрын
Mirna Reyes, the time they are children is limited.
@tatanka23925 ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@martinPatsy3 жыл бұрын
I don't feel so guilty now ,I always put my kids before my housekeeping , I could never see how folding laundry is more important than a baby
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Patsy Martin, that is wonderful, great picture!
@segolilymentoringllc97116 жыл бұрын
I am not a mom, but this one got me. Thank you. -Devan
@LiveOnPurposeTV6 жыл бұрын
Principles. DrPaul
@pamelaesguerra47725 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thank You Dr. Paul you’re a blessing🙏
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Pamela Esguerra, honored to be on your team.
@blisswkc33444 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much dearest 🌹 You’re such an inspiration 🥰 Be Blissful Eternally 🙏😇🌈
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome, Bliss WKC, and thank YOU for being here.
@LoreLovesFamily3 жыл бұрын
I needed to listen to this. ❤️
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
Lorena Contreraz, honored to be on your team.
@vijeta67985 жыл бұрын
Thank-you for this! Gave me so much perspective! Thank you!
@LiveOnPurposeTV5 жыл бұрын
Vijeta Shannon Peter, glad you enjoyed the video.
@priyankashankar23544 жыл бұрын
Can you please put english subtitles with the videos? Your videos are very informative and useful for me. I can understand them much better with subtitles. Thanks
@LiveOnPurposeTV4 жыл бұрын
Priyanka Shankar, you can open up the transcript and it shows to the right of the video. Their spelling and word choice is sometimes off.
@bridgetthompson32843 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed this! I get so frustrated. I need to stop.
@LiveOnPurposeTV3 жыл бұрын
You got this! Bridget Thompson, honored to be on your team.