3 SIGNS Someone Won’t BACK DOWN... Most FEARLESS People we Will Encounter

[@NicholasAlt]

Not just experience with violence, experience with significant loss and trauma. You can’t scare a person whose life as a child was a nightmare at baseline.

[@s3.14dervision]

That's literally restating what he said and I see this so often in comments, people correcting the video's host by actually rephrasing what they just said and it's so prevalent I have to wonder if it's a bot, sock puppet accounts. The same grammar mistakes...

[@BallisticCoefficient]

@@s3.14dervision was that worth it?

[@BrazenBull91]

This is just repackaging a point that was heavily touched upon in the video. Watch the whole thing before commenting my friend.

[@papmasterOST]

Imagine when they are In fear.

[@Xzerbit]

u can, it just takes a different way of scaring, but its defo possible.

[@blackreef3454]

South African / Brit here - I've survived 7 knife attacks and was very close to dead at one point - unconscious for hours and nearly bled out. 3rd world violence is on another level, the level of disregard for life is high and sadly quite normalized. Avoidance strategies are top priority, contingencies like doing a defensive and aggressive driving course, do first aid courses and step that up to better first responder training are necessary IMO. Similarly home defense strategies ESPECIALLY when you are leaving for work and coming home - tired and distracted on both accounts.. I carry a knife (legal), firearm and tourniquets. When it comes to knives you have to study how the locals use them, no point in going to a McDojo and learning from sensei how to defend against a straight thrust, you have to know how to move against a very effective locally shared style of knife murder if you cannot run..

[@fightscience]

Thanks for sharing such good advice. South Africa is definitely a tough learning ground. Most people would never understand the degree of violence that exists there.

[@mayhem5235]

Holy crap dude... you didn't think it was time to move after the 5th or 6th knife attack??

[@elsullo2]

@@mayhem5235 Move WHERE without surplus funds? Finding a job is nearly impossible! He was BORN knowing it was time to move as soon as he could, AND HE DID..............................elsullo

[@alexyim8690]

Our father whom art in Africa Jonathan be his name suffered his 2nd knife attack there, generally speaking though whilst some locals act tough that does tend to compensate for their insecurities, with that said have walked down many a "road" where a local would casually be walking towards us with a machete in hand & had nothing to fear as we crossed paths as that's a common occurrence among bush farmers (would not feel that at ease should the same situation occur in northern Europe or some such place (it's all about context ehy))

[@ktall6749]

And the west is importing the 3rd world in by the millions. A conspiracy to destroy the west.

[@andrewfossatti4937]

The deadliest man in the room is the most articulate and calm speaking one. Case in point. 💪

[@PietSneeuw]

Not always true.

[@elsullo2]

Not a consistent rule! Better to say "USUALLY.".............................elsullo

[@Randy-v9x]

Often true.

[@NewJack-wr4bq]

Sounds like a stupid boomer meme lol No it’s usually the homeless guy calling you a “Fucking bitch” … I hit one guy to the ground at the Goodwill I manage at night … also got spit in my face by this crazy chick with a shaved head. She ended up getting hit by a car…dead

[@FitnessForLife-GetRipped-cf4wb]

Sometimes..not always…

[@jadedpaladin6685]

Former bouncer, prison officer, private security operative, homeless hostel worker. In 10 years, I've seen and been assaulted countless times. 90% of the assaulters were people who didn't talk, threaten or act tough. If someone truly wants to harm you, they will. They won't want to warn you or tell you about it. The more the person talks during the confrontation, the less likely they will harm you. Chest puffing, shouting, threatening, talking etc are merely tools to get you to back down so they don't have to fight you. Most people don't want to get into a random unsanctioned fight. Even legitimately tough and capable people. So getting you to back down= avoiding a fight but still saving face and establishing dominance. Win win situation.

[@Daylight-nu3rt]

That's why I don't do a lot of talking at this point. If they do a lot of talking, that's how I know they are just hotboxing and ain't ready.

[@rlm9825]

You are dead on sir.

[@LordHolley]

So true

[@jadedpaladin6685]

@Daylight-nu3rt I can definitely relate to this. But it is also very contextual. It depends on the type of "Talking" If somebody is talking in order to resolve the situation in a peaceful way without violence, there's nothing wrong with that. Especially if they are the defensive party who isn't looking for a fight. If it's the offensive party that's talking alot, then yes, 90% of the time they are hotboxing and aren't ready.

[@tyronesharp9205]

Empty cans make the most noise

[@maximusspartan7409]

I have a friend who gave me the same advice after i almost got into a fight with someone while he was there. My tendency was to meet aggression with aggression. He simply asked me what i had to lose, then what my family would lose with my absence, and finally the "what if the guy im facing had nothing to lose"... It made me recalculate my views on confrontation that wasnt life threatening.

[@fightscience]

Sounds like your friend gave you some very wise words Sir.

[@yeaman3362]

This just saved my co worker from seeing my demons- thank you gentlemen 😊

[@habibmalik1619]

Hi Sir! Sir thank you Very much for posting amazing contents.🙏 Can I know why you're not posting practical demonstration videos these days?

[@dcsteve7869]

The best thing I can ever tell people is that you should never assume the other guy is going to back down. So don't go there unless you're willing to go all the way. If you step up you better be committed to winning that fight. That means you might need to throw the first punch and get the upperhand. You can explain your mindset later with the assistance of a lawyer if the police want to make trouble for you and thats the other thing you have to make sure you're prepared for, being pressed by the man whether you're right or wrong.

[@ronn68]

Well said. There’s a saying for those that carry guns “Don’t pull it out unless you plan to use it.”

[@leventsener-kc7ul]

Very good point. And l've encountered recently more and more people (probably under influence) almost pushing for getting beaten for some reason.

[@CodyWright-pq3eq]

Or just leave the f*cking US where fighting is a big deal.

[@johnfyten3392]

Scariest response I've seen was actual gleeful excitement from a kid I knew in HS. He would get very excited at the anticipation and always won in brutal fashion. He was usually smiling and laughing during the fight as well

[@ArayaLight]

Probably a Scorpio mars

[@joelreidy2585]

@@ArayaLightyeah….that would explain it…he wasn’t just a psychopath…it was his star sign

[@ArayaLight]

@ I’m not a psychopath but I love a good fight. I was raised n a dojo. I’m a weapon nerd. We exist. FAFO

[@Namenotneeded470]

​@@ArayaLight You're a keyboard ninja, kid. Sit down

[@ArayaLight]

@Namenotneeded470 I'm probably older than you. Clearly wiser. Yes I am a ninja. Now what? 🤣🤣

[@LordHolley]

I grew up in the suburbs of Phoenix in the 80s. Fights were very common. Sometimes in the school, but mostly after school, but never real serious. Then I moved into the city and the fighting became far more serious. Some of the kids looked like men. Fights happened in the classroom, and teachers ignored it. As a kid, you learned to avoid it if possible and buck up if you have to. Nowadays I'm watching my kids growing up, and it's such a different experience. My son is about to start highschool, he's never even seen a real fight. I can't help but feel that he isn't mentally prepared for how mean and evil people can be. I'm working on it....

[@intellectually_lazy]

did you stay gold?

[@jerryjeromehawkins1712]

I went into the Navy right after high school. Best move I ever made. Uncle Sam paid for my college tuition afterwards, I was able to see the world and gained maturity, all at the same time. 🇺🇸⚓️

[@scottbeaver26]

You have probably indirectly saved hundreds of people if not thousands from unnecessary violence... thank you sincerely my friend.

[@fightscience]

Thank you Sir, that's very kind of you to say.

[@CorbinB-Rax]

​@fightscience consider that there are men out here who have hidden other people and still walk around leading somewhat normal lives. Who find it hard to even leave a comment on KZbin worded in a way that won't get it removed. Who have to pretend to be normal.

[@fightscience]

@CorbinB-Rax agreed. Especially with your reference to KZbin. It's ironic how we pretend that these things don't exist.

[@scottlang7025]

The takeaway should be avoid fighting for pride at all costs, be capable but always look for an out first. Walking away is always the best option

[@AntEloftheHouseofEl]

As ex military myself, I can confirm that this advice is spot on. If you are well trained, there are multiple tells that give you an indication of the threat level you face. And this is vital, not only to know when to back down, but also to know when a confrontation is inevitable and the person cannot be deescalated. At this point, you can either run, or attack first, depending on your options, situation and ability level. I've had plenty of confrontation situations outside of deployment. The intelligent ones sense I am not an easy target and generally back down very quickly. Primarily because their threat of violence towards me doesn't elicit the fear that they are expecting. It's almost instinctive. If you threaten someone and they don't display the fear markers that your brain (subconsciously, for untrained people) expects to receive, this means the person either does not care or is sufficiently skilled enough to be confident of winning the conflict.

[@fightscience]

Great point on knowing when the confrontation is inevitable. This is key here. Thank you for sharing.

[@AntEloftheHouseofEl]

@@fightscience No, thank you. We need more truly knowledgeable people such as yourself, sharing that wisdom. Too many people can't see the woods for the trees, sadly.

[@Justyburger]

100%. My problem is controlling temper. Nine times out of 10, my lack of fear and the fact that I train a lot, puts people off, but there will be one who won't be put off. Being bullied a lot in my early years, made me aggressive but not highly controlled. My upbringing has definitely given me a very hightened sense of threat detection and understanding body language though. That really helps me avoid unwanted situations, but there have been a few occasions where I just can't back down. A couple of instances: I was stopped at an intersection and some dude rammed their body into my car. I shouted out the window at them and they asked me for a fight. In my mind it was not an option to just drive off. I got out and said lets go and he stood there deciding what he was going to do then backed off. Another one was when a bunch of kids were running through our property and I told them to leave. About 2 months later, this guy stopped his car outside my house as I was cutting a tree and got right in my face, saying I made threats to his daughter. At the start, I honestly had no idea what he was talking about. I thought it was a case of mistaken identiy and then it clicked that she was one of the kids on our property. His chest was all puffed up, fists clenched. I attempted to reason but he wouldn't have it, so I switched into combat mode. Threw my jacket on the floor and said lets go then. He looked at me and said, what are you doing? I replied, you think your'e the tough guy, all mouthy, so lets see who's last standing. He went from being so sure of himself to backing off. He said, if yopu don't bother my daughter then I won't bother you. I told him that's perfect. Off he went. I saw him in the street a few times after that and we seemed to have an understanding, but on another occasion his bloody Pitbull was on the loose again and it showed it's teeth at me as I was walking down the path. I turned into self protection mode and was getting ready to boot the Dog in the head. The guy came running out, puffed up again, but I was livid. He grabbed the Dog and went inside. I'm heavy into the gym and I looked quite buffed and that day I was out wearing a vest, so I'm pretty sure that it makes people think tiwce. He was not a small guy either and I found out he was done for GBH and that he was on probation. Not sure what he would have done if he was not on probation. Now I have not seen him for a few years.

[@dnice374]

"The intelligent ones sense I am not an easy target and generally back down very quickly." This is how I have gone decades without a fight. Cowards want an easy target, and I am not one. I don't allow myself to be in situations where I could be, either. People like Ant-El don't go looking to hurt people even though they could with their training. But the truly dangerous ones have given up on reasoning, or are too mentally ill to do it to begin with. If there is doubt - get away from the situation before it gets worse. You can literally go your whole life without fighting. Walk away. But, if someone is going to get in your space you should have a strike or a plan ready because they have already gone too far.

[@Justyburger]

@@dnice374 I actually think we have very similar views. I also have not had a proper fight in years. I had enough through school, the teens and early 20's. Let me give yuou a scenario that happened to me and tell me if you would have done anything differently. One day I was crossing a road on a zebra crossing. I was looking at a car that was not stopping and had to leap out of the way. I shouted "idiot" down the street. The driver went around the block and back to me, got out of the car and made threats to me. I told him, so trying to run me over wasn't good enough and now you want a fight? He said Oh what's the worst that would have happened...a broken leg? Right then I knew I was dealing with an arsehole. He was still standing there posturing, so I said lets sort it out on this patch of grass over here and we'll see who gets the broken bones. I pushed the issue with him and he backed off. I was outside a place I was working and it was on camera. The guys at my work thought I was a troublemaker till I told them that the guy has nearly ran me over and come around the block asking for a fight.

[@waynetoneseekerandersen2213]

My philosophy has always been you aren’t tough until you are willing to loose everything for nothing. I am not tough, but I can be a survivor

[@mikethespike7579]

I grew up in a rough neighbourhood and went to a rough school. Fights were normal. Even if you were not the fighting type, you often had no option but to stand your ground. Trying to ignore being picked on only invited even more of it. That's where I learned how to handle myself in confrontations and gauge the other guy. That has benefited me in a lot of situations and kept me safe. My experience is that loud guys full of bluster are easy. It's the quiet, calm ones who you have to be careful with. Also, always leave your pride out of a confrontation. Pride is a bad advisor. That way you can back down easier and de-escalate the situation even when the other guy is taunting you with everything he has. Never go into a fight if it's only about pride, it's just not worth it even if you win. The only times I have been in a fight since my school days was to protect myself or someone else from a violent person.

[@jamestaylor7226]

You can't fake it, if you have any weakness it will show threw, being over agressive is weakness, being off balance wondering what's happening or why it's happening to you is weakness, don't try to over sell or be something your not, just settle in & do the best you can do & make the best decision you can & never stop thinking. If you have some courage + humility it's posible to get some mercy from unexpected sourses, waking up the next day in 1 piece is winning.

[@kidthump]

It's not lack of empathy, it's lack of fear and consequences.

[@FitnessForLife-GetRipped-cf4wb]

Yes

[@Dluv0921]

I think the best way I've witnessed people making mistakes. When confronted with a person you only has their self respect left, do not try to take it from them.

[@johnschuster1770]

This was an excellent clip. It focuses on the psyche of your opponent. Many people don't realize that the art of everyday social survival has many factors. It's not only the combat. Other factors are your location, situational awareness, time of day, weather, access to weapons, attitude, distractions, ability to fight, and opponent mentality (eye contact, body movement, verbalization, etc).

[@oldcop18]

As a retired cop w/30 yrs on the street I can tell you anyone w/nothing to lose can be VERY dangerous.

[@YouTubeSucks666]

arrest me..

[@Confucius202]

They got their health/life to lose.

[@mavadoroaster]

Are you the one that helped them into that position?

[@reflux043]

Oldcop, he already said that at the start of the video!

[@dirkz.duggitz1567]

The irony of his statement is that the person probably realized they had nothing to lose the moment OPs squad car pulled up.

[@Citizen-Defender]

There are physical indicators, like cauliflower ears, broken noses, scars, etc.

[@thejohnson9204]

Brilliant information. There is a lot of psychology involved within those split seconds of a street fight.

[@Intuitive_Muse]

I'm no expert here, but I have had a few unfortunate encounters due to my many years in the bar trade. Something I've noticed is only loosely related but worth a mention. Alcohol is a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it reduces empathy in those susceptible in that regard. But it also reduces cognitive awareness, so they may be at a disadvantage at the times they're most likely to become violent. Adding drugs into the mix can make them much more dangerous and unpredictable. But they're still at the same disadvantage if you can make use of that. Also, while they may lack empathy for you, they may retain some for themselves if you project strength without otherwise being aggressive yourself. I've also noticed many out looking for a fight still like to project blame, so they would rather provoke you into action, thereby giving themselves an excuse. Just the other night, a drunk guy came in, didn't get served, went to the toilet and came back all aggressive and posturing. He spent a good five minutes posturing back and forth and trying to look at me threatening. I just told him he was getting nothing and waited till he got bored and left. That time it went well. It doesn't always, but you can avoid a violent encounter 99% of the time just by not biting.

[@willieboy8798]

same goes for the sickly and fat azzes and middle aged that cant set aside thier chips! none of them are prepared to scrap! the same goes for those who have drug and alochol stuppers from abuse!

[@hamtzitz9705]

What i got from this video is: try to be nice and don't fight other people.

[@drakemoreland9787]

A topic that should be discussed. Is the effect paranoia has on people. From my experience having past violent traumatic events its left me very paranoid of almost everyone. This paranoia causes people to judge me as "shady" which in turn can make me even more paranoid of them and lead to tension and sometimes hostility

[@Matt-oi3hk]

Hope your all good mate. I've been like that since being left for dead 25yrs ago. What's helped me is learning how to smile and make small talk or just acknowledge everyone I meet, having broken the ice by just saying "hello" removes the paranoia with that person. Also make a conscious effort to not look nervous, look people in the eye, don't figit. If your body acts nervous it sends a message to the brain that your not safe, acting calm does the opposite. People think I'm a rock that can handle anything when really I scrape through each day by the skin of my teeth. Don't take caffeine or any stimulant, coffee turns my day into a nightmare. Stay strong mate

[@drakemoreland9787]

@Matt-oi3hk i know what you're saying but I think I'm likely on some spectrum, i never know what to say to people, brain doesnt allow me to think just shuts me down. My only solution has been to avoid people unless absolutely necessary which they often just assume I'm weird or introverted and leave me alone. But not always, some feel the need to force themselves socially on me and that can be where problems happen. Ive had some situations get out of hand but I've always been the one defending myself even though the other guy/guys think "i need to be taught a lesson" but police have taken my side

[@drakemoreland9787]

@Matt-oi3hk sorry to hear about what happened to you btw..

[@Matt-oi3hk]

​@@drakemoreland9787Hi mate. I was told recently that I likely have ADHD, one of the many symptoms is anxiety. I totally understand what your saying and how paralyzing it is. With anxiety your body is in fight or flight mode, an incredibly stressfull way to exist. The fact that you still exist is something that needs celebrating. When every day is a battle that you keep getting out of bed for is something to be proud of. Anyways, when your in fight or flight mode your brain puts energy into the things it thinks it needs to survive (heightened senses etc) while neglecting things that are not essential (like forming memories or being able to maintain a normal prolonged conversation). On top of fight or flight there is also a third mode "freeze" which is a lot more common than people realize. Brother, learning how to talk to people is amazingly hard for people like us, hard, terrifying and painful. But because of that it can actually make you an incredible person to talk to once you've learned. Because of your struggles you've probably developed a lot of empathy for others that are struggling and can see that struggle where others wouldn't even notice. You will be a lot more considerate of others feelings when around them as you know what people do wrong that triggers you. I had to learn to talk to people, before that I built up a wall of hostility around me so nobody would talk to me, very bad idea haha. Lots and lots of fights then prison at 21. Straight away I knew I had to drop that tuff guy act to survive prison, because it was an act and now I'm around people who's first memories were violence. I started smiling for the first time when dealing with people, and it totally changed how people react to me which removes a lot of paranoia/anxiety. Learning the art of making small talk is a real key and is a conscious effort. I talk about things I couldn't care less about, like the weather, a big story on the news, a movie I watched. I don't care about those things and I don't care what the person I'm talking to thinks about them, it's all about breaking the ice and having an interaction. I give people a lot of compliments, I ask them questions about things I know their interested in. I'm not interested, but they are, and that's the key. Talking to people gets them to like you, this makes you feel more comfortable around them and helps stop the downwards spiral of paranoia/anxiety, which is the goal. Your a hell of a lot stronger than you realize, you had to be to make it this far. Mate, when you get to know people you realize everyone is messed up, people have all sorts of insecurities, no one has there sh*t together, everyone wears a mask to hide how they really feel. Having a pet has been literally a lifesaver for me. I'm never comfortable around people but can totally be my loving self with my cat.

[@drakemoreland9787]

@Matt-oi3hk yeah I've been to psychs since I was a young child. They don't really know what's going on with me. Ive had a lot of diagnosis , adhd being 1. I had a lot of violence when I was young. Ganged up on multiple times from as young as 6 abusive father etc. Moved around a lot so I never really had a chance to learn social skills. I learned to be very cunning to survive if im honest. I was smart enough to know no matter how angry I was I cant take on the whole world or fight every person who triggers me so I tried to go under the radar as much as I could, I let people think I'm dumb or weird that way they normally leave me alone. I'm 32 now and not much has changed despite how much I've tried. I grew away from caring about being popular from a young age, I always wanted a tribe of like minded people. Easier said than done though as people are so intrinsically judgemental and it feels like I'm walking on egg shells with them which inevitably I will step on some. I agree with everything you've said , I still try to make small talk with some people. And I do have a lot of empathy for some people. Its really a energy thing, if I sense I won't get along with someone I dont engage with them it does get awkward if they try and engage with me but normally they move along thinking I'm weird or an ahole. I agree animals are amazing , I've got dogs. Its how I've made a living primarily. From dog training. One thing I've noticed an i don't know if youre the same way, I can dive extremely deep on a particular topic and learn alot in a relatively small amount of time if i interested in it. So it's been an advantage in someways. People with adhd often have this, sort of a superpower

[@sim-888]

my advice; theres always someone crazier than you!

[@blas4me50]

There's always someone more bad ass than me, that keeps me alive, everyone seems to forget firearms. I grew up in the crack 80's, I've seen people die for absolutely nothing.

[@evlutionzllc5519]

They might not back down because they are a really nice laid back guy who really enjoys being kind and avoids creating conflict but loves to take his demon out for a walk to punish a bully every now and again... avoid the guy who remains calm, maintains eye contact, does not cower and simply says 'I don't want to fight' or something to that effect. Not wanting to vs not being able to hurt you are very different things.

[@hannibalwantsahuggrande3433]

Pffff ok tough guy

[@sircartier4422]

@@hannibalwantsahuggrande3433violence is fun I can tell u don’t like it

[@MervtheWarlord]

yer was having problems with this guy that was bullying me by not getting out of my way when I am running, when he has space to. 3rd time I just picked him up and he made this weezing sound, he was in absolute shock, I threw him onto a hood of a car all in one motion and gave him a verbal as I keep running. I train MMA and do knife defense, this guy just kept pushing and pushing. Then I saw him after that, and he was video taping me (edit - because he looked mortified seeing me again, he got his camera out like a B), I called him out for being a B and starting shit he cant finish and how hes a B this and b that and yeah. people think they can take advantage of me because I look and try and be nice to people

[@damnablethief]

Scary world. I am 5'8 and 140 lb. I have alot to worry about. It has been a long time since my last fight. It worries me, because I am not prepared.

[@blas4me50]

I used to get thrown around at that weight, but grappling changed that.

[@MHLivestreams]

Bruce lee didn't complain, it's a good weight/height, I'm lighter and taller, slightly. No problem.

[@tims.3950]

I'm 6'4 and 240. Workout a lot and am in pretty good physical condition. However, I am not prepared for a fight, either. It's just not in me. I get all spazzed out and my brain turns off. Anyone with any skill at all would ruin me. On the bright side, I know this about myself and behave accordingly. Best to you.

[@damnablethief]

@tims.3950 bro I am asking for someone to end me. I stand up for myself each and every time and it pisses people off. But I also know when to shut up and despite my tendency to piss people off, still haven't been in any fights in a long time. But I know my days are numbered. Eventually, I will run into a badder bully. Until that day comes, just gonna try to keep being tactful. You stay safe too man. No need for anyone to end up in dangerous situiations if at all possible. Best wishes.

[@damnablethief]

@@MHLivestreams ya I need to just stop letting anxiety stop me and start training. I am so afraid that I will be judged for my lack of ability that I forget the self defense community is actually rather welcoming. Furthermore I have mental health issues that create alot of paranoia...like I am scared everywhere I go tbh. Maybe training would help mitigate that.

[@SocialistDistancing]

My first years of life were in a rough neighborhood. Getting into a fight walking home from school or walking to the store was common. Home invasions were common. I carry those days with me and I am always reading the room, watching the body language, and listening to the chatter. Where is the threat going to come from. The more advanced the warning, the better. Distance equals safety. Move away from the threat if possible. However, anyone that's been in a shitty situation knows that sometimes there is no warning and you're in it before you realize it. Stay frosty.

[@stevenfenster1798]

I have to confirm, during a period of my life when I thought I had nothing to lose I was extremely dangerous. Thank God it never came to anything, and I outgrew it.

[@blondequijote]

I kinda understand why ppl are wary of young guys. Not only are they in their physical prime, but most ppl mellow with age and it’s likely they’re at their peak potential for violence.I know I mellowed with age and look back at how I could have handled things differently.

[@derickcastillo9083]

These videos are so interesting! I like that you said that people who train for self defense tend focus on themselves without considering who they might be fighting. Great video, thank you.

[@MervtheWarlord]

I always train hard, because I might need to fight a guy with nothing to loose, cause ive been the guy with nothing to loose!

[@derickcastillo9083]

@@MervtheWarlord Hope things are going better for you.

[@andrewfossatti4937]

I will play devils advocate as someone who lives in NY. Most people have nothing to lose and an emotional deficit. So regardless of their skill, if they have and weapon or an attack of opportunity it will end badly for you.

[@HamptonsAirTech]

Fuckn aye. 😂 sounds like you ride the trains. 😂

[@EriVanLifeScape]

Understanding how to read a situation as its developing is an art. Its literally the base from which our actions are born. Man i love this channel! This dudes giving us PhD level knowledge. A true scientist. Im humbled 🙏🏾

[@fightscience]

Thank you Sir, much appreciated. 🙏🏾

[@geo525252]

I have always maintained that the most dangerous man is the guy who simply doesn't care about ANYTHING. Thar attitude is usually not a permanent state of mind. We never know who has just had a really bad day and just isn't thinking of consequences at the moment. And it can be a very average person.

[@shalako1047]

You, sir, have a excellent understanding of survival in a dangerous world, and yes, it is indeed a dangerous world.

[@infantrycaptain9224]

Great content.🎖

[@mikestanmore2614]

This is an excellent assessment. I worked as a bouncer for about six years and I agree with everything you've said. Well done.

[@colinleatham9143]

To lose an eye because of bluster will be a cause of regret.People do not realise how delicate they are.

[@danielmarshall4587]

Thank you, for this and your insight.

[@crashc4409]

man, I love your channel bro. happy new year 2025

[@fightscience]

Happy new year Sir!

[@AnthonySlavin]

Awesome video and right on the money. Was explained really well and clearly. Definitely going to help out a lot of people. Thanks for sharing and keep up the awesome work! Cheers!👍😃

[@peteramarillo8952]

A man without hope....is a man without fear- daredevil

[@michelebreen1735]

Dr Mark Phillips, every video you make, is a masterclass of human behaviour. Thank you for the lessons. 🇨🇦

[@theblackmasterofwordsandre4584]

Thank you kind sir for the lesson and the insight. Have a wonderful week.

[@elsullo2]

Thank you for your excellent work! I drove big city bus for ten years and interstate commercial bus for six more years, and I completely affirm all that you teach. I have rubbed elbows with more felons than most Parole Officers, but I never had a punch touch me because I SAW them and treated them with respect, and actual HONOR when I perceived that they had already been through enough. Staying alert and attentive is THE ENTIRE BATTLE...........................elsullo

[@Randy-v9x]

Violence is a terrible slide, whose bottom is indeed, hell itself. If anyone encounters one who will not easily jump on "the slide" perhaps 'tis one better left to peace. Good content

[@greggc8088]

That #2 is the one that concerns me the most because it means fighting smart, long, and hard to overcome.

[@foghornleghorn6383]

I always keep my head on a swivel and watch people's body language! If someone looks at me, I always look back and nod my head or say hello and keep moving!

[@fightscience]

Good work, well done to you, Sir.

[@foghornleghorn6383]

@fightscience Keep up the good work!

[@Erhuero]

Don’t engage with random weirdos on the street even if they’re trying to strike a conversation just ignore them,but don’t let them get close to you.

[@dhfmarcus9103]

I really like your logical and science-based dissection of the issues.

[@wildwest5436]

Combat vet and current Law Enforcement Deputy. I've grown incredibly dialed into non verbal messages on conflicts. I almost know exactly what the individual will do seconds before he/she does. We are taught to be one step higher on use of force/ compliance than what they are giving. I practice my hand to hand skills, use of martial arts, weapon draws, muscle memory, imaginary "what if" scenerios daily. I carry a gun, pepper spray, taser, dagger, OTF knife and frequently practice transitional drills, reloading with my non dominant hand and breathing techniques in a high stress situation. I don't consider myself a badass, just prepared for the guy who is unpredictable and bigger than me.

[@snakeman9902]

Brilliant and very accurate all-around assessment.. Don't take anything or anyone given situation for granted.

[@jamiejensen968]

2:41 Coming from someone fresh out of prison, (though I’m absolutely a minimum custody level lol) you don’t stop until you are pulled off by guards. And as someone that at one point was rather tolerant, and when it did come to violence, knew when it was over, that mindset is very intoxicating.

[@dongalt4203]

Highly valuable and sound advice for "normies". Keep fighting the good fight.

[@davekilgannon6965]

Dr. Mark all of your videos are highly informative, insightful and accurate. Another great video. Thank for posting this content.

[@michaellucas2710]

It's the small Quiet Ones you have to worry about not the big mouth with the bulging muscles😂

[@JohnDrummondVA]

Thank you. You are an excellent teacher.

[@DavidRose-m8s]

If fighting is the one thing someone is good at then it's an emotional high for them to have you down, and out.

[@paulhercules1740]

I like this wisdom.

[@dwaynecunningham2164]

Great video dude

[@nicholasbstone]

I've never backed down before, even though I had plenty to lose. I'm lucky to still be alive, I decided to quit while I was ahead and now I simply avoid conflict of any kind. Sometimes it means pretending to be oblivious to the other guy's (usually passive) aggression. Sometimes it means letting people "slide"...at the end of the day, I've got nothing to prove to anybody.

[@bc-guy852]

Oh yeah, we have our share of 'nutters' here in Canada too. The 'Diamond' scene at the beginning is downtown Toronto, my old stompin' grounds. Glad I left that madness for the mountains of BC. I don't know how they put up with the violence in general in deep trouble areas. (I hear a siren about once every three months. I'm 15 minutes from a decent Mall and 20 minutes from an International Airport. Why move?)

[@bobbullethalf]

Even if you have weapons and can fight, it is easier to just walk away. I have done this a few times, I just don’t have time for police, courts and just wasting time with fools.

[@BlackestEyes709]

I am a sociopath but the people who start fights are usually highly emotional. I have the capacity for vengeance but i'm mostly chill because I don't care. You can call me names and I'm not bothered in the slightest because I don't care about them or what they think, however If I feel wronged it plays on my mind and It's so hard to let it go. I keep myself to myself, loner type, I won't trouble you if you don't trouble me

[@NewJack-wr4bq]

🙄lol you sure you aren’t trying to emulate say…. Michael Myers? Emulate Jesus, k son?

[@JaimeAres-sh8xv]

Dang that's me ...

[@JaimeAres-sh8xv]

Nit sociopath or any of those terms.

[@BlackestEyes709]

@ Nah, i'm a fan of Michael Myers yeah but I'm a made sociopath. I've always loved movies and Halloween is my favorite horror. I'm nothing like Michael. I have traits of Patrick Bateman but not as cartoonish. I am a sociopath and you either believe it or not. I'm not religious

[@MyValki]

Do people often get afraid and back down before a fight starts?

[@leg414]

The man without anything to lose....Will always cannot help but to win....Peace

[@willieboy8798]

fighting to protect an animal, a child or a woman in need! im not talking girlfriend fighting boyfriend ....you always stay out of that!

[@donrowlett2886]

Unfortunately, another drama to stay out of is adult parent doing child abuse in public. All that can be done is to report it even if you have to witness the infliction of PTSD or a murder. The reality is that many abuse victims defend their abuser due to Stockholm syndrome or straight up Oedipus Complex for their abuser. No good deed goes unpunished and defending an abuse victim often results in grief for the hero.

[@willieboy8798]

@@donrowlett2886 isnt that hard as hell to do! be in public and some azzhole is abusing a child ever so slightly!!

[@JohnScorar]

I think I fall into the category of nothing to lose. As an old disabled person I don't go looking for fights but when I am out this evening I wouldn't be surprised if you someone's come up to me. I never expect anyone to back down for the aforementioned reasons but introducing the unexpected helps. If approached, probably in their 20s so my empathy would be as low as theres.

[@Mo0shii]

First 10 sec was all you need really xd. Emotion of anger is very easy to tap in, plus weakminded is a combo...

[@Reluctant90]

I never understood why someone would put themselves in that situation. Speaking from the perspective of someone who won’t backdown. They don’t know my background they don’t know I grew up in the projects and home shelters where violence is an answer and to have gang members or bullies leave one alone. A saying I vaguely remember that I live by is to respect and be wary of a stranger because one doesn’t know where they came from. So ppl stepping up to me thinking they can call me names or hand gestures are in a potential dangerous situation that they aren’t aware of. As far as myself holding back and considering the consequences it comes in a few moments into the situation when there is an extended silence. Thanks to my therapist and psychologist. I am still around and be able to teach my offsprings a better way. Give them a better life so they don’t have the same outlook in life that I do. Become better than I, because all that separates me from an animal at the moment is the thought of the ppl who have shown concern for me and I recognize that even if I don’t care about myself… my kids and friends do, I cannot let their efforts go in vain.

[@Noone-rt6pw]

If you give a video on taming an issue would be good! Proverb, a soft answer turns away wrath! Which I’ve seen the skills of some that know how to calm things. It’s impressive!

[@DeborahHamilton-q1w]

Just out of curiosity, what would you do if you walked into work one day, and were warned not to speak to a newly hired man, at least twice your size and from a culture that despises women, but who won't get out of your way while you try to get your work done? I very politely asked him to move, so I could do my job. He flew into an unbelievable rage, and was clearly dangerous. I moved away from him, but he followed. Me being me, I wasn't willing to be intimidated (I hate bullies) and wound up toe to toe with this guy. He had been ordered (by the owner) to accept orders from my supervisor (also a woman), and it took everything she had to get between us. She was clearly terrified of him, and I felt bad that she had to step in, but my assessment of the situation was that he only respected strength. At the time, I didn't know as much as I do now about his culture, but to say I was unaware of the danger he presented wouldn't be true. He reeked of malice. What would you have done, if you were me? Thankfully, he got fired the same day.

[@pomztoybox6877]

The 4th is the guy who goes silent calm/relaxed & gets laser focused as escalation occurs. Those guys tend to have an ace in the hole the aggressor is unaware of (trained fighter, armed, vet, or naturally brutal)

[@MyValki]

I am still struggling to understand why over my life 4 agressors in the street and 2 enemies grew scared and withdrew after I applied my empty gaze. One hit me, I didn't have a defensive reflex or reaction, he literally grew pale. It fits your 3rd category, I was aware of their emotions and was in fact 'weaponizing' that to confuse and hurt them. Still many questions....

[@dudeman8323]

There can always be that one person that just doesn't get it... I knew a guy that would go after others 3 or even 4 times his size, one time he was lifted off the ground a few feet by his neck... and he would keep running his mouth... he got beat up a lot.

[@johnwebb4499]

A week ago some guy almost crashed his car into mine just so he could be in front of me. I honked. He made eye contact with me as he passed. He looked old enough to be my dad.

[@JadedeaJade]

I had women try to fight me randomly through out my life. Always over something random, inconsequential, or made up bs. When they start talking that yee yee I just interrogate them till they walk away frustrated. "I heard you was talking about me in 3rd period!" "Um, I don't know you." "Don't lie, you can't back down now." "Back down from what? You just came up to me and said I did something I didn't do, and now you're just going to beat me up in front of these people? What's that going to solve?" Just questions like that short circuit, they start repeating from the script then say something like I'm weird, or it's not worth it, and walk away. Hahahah, I don't need to fight to prove anything, and I didn't talk about anyone either. I proved my worth when I did 8+ years in the Navy. If she wants to fight again I roll up with a Destroyer and my shipmates and see how she feels again.

[@michaelsanchez8457]

My dad is on 20 days of hospice. I am normally very patient. Lately, I feel like I am internally more reactive.

[@tommyboy1653]

Factor in if I retreat and they still attack ,I got nothing to loose by fighting back with extreme pain inflicted to stop the fight..

[@johnmorgan7989]

I'm 48 now and I don't back down like I would have done in my 20s. I don't want to go to prison but don't really care if I get my teeth knocked out. I'm less scared of being messed and so If someone gets in my face I won't be the one to back down first

[@jaywalkercrew4446]

I hear you, but I don't want my teeth getting fucked I payed 4K on them, I've got a gumshield.

[@CammyTheG]

😂❤​@@jaywalkercrew4446

[@AlanAhlman]

Im 5' 3" and 180 pounds at 56 years old and can't walk to the mailbox without severe chest pains. Who am I gonna fight? Who am I gonna outrun?

[@britindian3146]

The shanty town/London example was perhaps not your best one 😂

[@billwalton4571]

In todays society there are so many people that train MMA, people on steroids, people on hard drugs. These things didnt used to exist. Im 40 and have not really had to fight before, so have very little experience, besides play fighting as a kid. Now I have a shoulder injury too so I just feel like Im useless, calling police is the only option.

[@bc-guy852]

Do you really think that is an option? Response times being what they are...? There are some incredible medically approved canes that can be VERY effective for self defence and more. And you are allowed to carry it anywhere - even onboard an aircraft. I would, but I have two German Shepherds - sort of like a gun in each hand.

[@nelsonhibbert5267]

I suppose you have to look at what you can do, and not at what you can't do. You've still got one good arm and two good legs, some people don't even have that.

[@echol8087]

There are MORE people who train MMA than there were, but there are still not that many people who do train. I'm pretty sure it's still only about 1 percent of the population. Either way, it's wise to run / walk away, if you can, from any fight, even if you know you can take the person.

[@Daylight-nu3rt]

I don't, and won't let anyone in my personal space, especially not tof they are talking crazy, and I don't exchange words with them, I let them make fool of themselves, and if they want the hospital they can get it. I stay to myself because too many people walk around unhinged, and don't care, so for most part, most people aren't good to know anyway.

[@kicker-d3x]

What if they have nothing to lose, but their way isn't violence? Their way to struggle for survival?

[@ChrisFowler01]

I am the second and suffer from the third 😔

[@chiapets2594]

I'll just back away keep you atleast a 10Ft distance cause you never know when theyre throwing that punch.

[@knightveg]

I always make the comment, people don't know what real violence is till they've experienced it As you get so many people on social media talking about fighting situation, which is nowhere near real life violence, You make a very valid point about the extent of that violence that person has experienced, never really thought about it like that, Excellent point

[@Justyburger]

Exactly. Growing up in a rough area in the UK, I was often set upon by gangs of youths. And although I hated the Football culture, I was so often in the wrong place at the wrong time, wandering near the ground after a match and the away team looking for people to beat up. Even when I tried to leave all that and get deeply into sports, my team would have fights when away playing other teams. One time we had a massive brawl in Portsmouth, which I'll never forget. I hated fighting too, but once cornered I'll turn into a rabid Dog and it's game on. I ended up leaving the UK and where I am, a lot of people don't really get that side of life. It's alien to my Wife too. It has made me into quite a paranoid/wary person. I notice possible threats very quickly. I'll ask my Wife if she noticed a shady character or something odd about a situation and she is oblivious. I'm hypersensitive. I used to have to have eyes in the back of my head as a kid and I had to avoid certain streets and even a part of my own street, because I'd be jumped or my bike stolen. I was also battered plenty of times by both my parents because I was hyperactive. I told my Dad that when I grew up, I'd get him back and I did. One day he tried it with me when I was 16 and I pushed him through the dining room window. It was then he knew I'd got stronger and couldn't be handled like I used to be handled. I then left home full of anger and resentment, which lasted many years. I think the way I managed it was channeling my anger into sport and succeeding in work. I was determined to make something of myself regardless. I ended up playing sport for Australia and the UK, but that anger has always been there. It actually drove my training and it meant that I could not be easilly intimidated by opposition players. Funny how many bad things can have silver linings in life.

[@fightscience]

Thank you Sir. Spent many years profiling extreme forms of criminal behaviour and I will say from experience that most people don't understand real violence and intent. Thanks for watching.

[@drakemoreland9787]

​@Justyburger people also likely judge you as "shady" because of your paranoia . Im the same way , very paranoid and dont trust people because of past events. The paranoia causes suspicion from people in return and can cause tension and sometimes leads to hostility

[@Justyburger]

@@drakemoreland9787 I agree with that, but I really try to appear relaxed but at the same time be very vigilant. I also walk with confidence and try to maintain a very high fitness level, so being like that gives me confidence. Not arrogance I hope, but definitely confidence. Where I live now, is also very different to where I grew up. The small town where I am, is quite peaceful. A few small areas are sketchy, but nothing like where I grew up.

[@drakemoreland9787]

@Justyburger i hear you, easier said then done in my experience. I also try and remain calm. People can act in certain ways that triggers the trauma though. I try to just stay silent because I can easily get lost in words and things escalate.

[@Lehmin_oma_kanava]

True

[@ArayaLight]

They likely have a strong mars position in their Astro chart

[@Thedarknight]

Some times it's not a matter of nothing to Loose but what is the cause behind there aggression! Still valid though

[@joshprestigiacamo7551]

There is nothing more dangerous then a man who already knows he's dead.

[@gexydo]

Good points, thank you 👍

[@fightscience]

My pleasure!

[@Dionysus_Athena]

Or maybe it’s because you put that persons life at risk which warrants the reaction. This includes improper use of a motor vehicle like cutting a corner with solid lines and you’re in a big 4x4 and they’re on a motorcycle. When you tell that person who comes up to you pointing out you almost harmed them and killed them, then say calm down expect a response. I have a son to come home to, I put my body and life on the line for your freedoms, so your incompetence warrants a reaction. Own your mistake before the person comes to you how about you take accountability and apologize and acknowledge the mistake. It goes along way.

[@stonerguitarist4690]

I use to go to Mexico before all that last time I went they had bodies hanging from the bridge tanks and fedrals

[@Archangel-pd1rn]

0:19 Demonic possession. PS.: Middle class london no exposure to violence hahahahahahah....

[@grinstylez]

In other words. Just get ready to duck 🤛🏽

[@margk209]

Enneagram 8s?

[@joewhitfield5561]

How about the cop, soldier, or martial artist. They are the worst!!!

[@mrscratch3475]

My nan never backs down,had to put her in a head lock 😂

[@intellectually_lazy]

the eyes

[@davegeorge9538]

Nothing tells me more about a person than when they say” well , they have to live with themselves “. No there is an alarming number of people who sleep just fine after causing harm and death to others….only a fool believes all people are basically good. Even the Bible tells us they are not.

[@HaitianBlue]

It should be, the man that had everything to lose by defending his wife is more dangerous. Because, he is the vanguard versus evil. And he will protect his wife from all evil. So the man that has everything to us, which means the well-being of his wife might actually fight harder