Love Expert Reveals the Secrets to a Successful Relationship | Spirit on Women of Impact

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On Today's Episode:
Host of Love Goals on the OWN Network and in possession of a PhD in General Psychology, the therapist known as Spirit combines gritty real-world experience with high-level academic thinking in her straight-forward, powerful advice. She not only gets to the point, she nails the most important point every time. And on this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Spirit takes on some of the most important questions that everyone who struggles with dating and relationships need answered. She explains why you have to see dating as an interview process, breaks down the difference between chemistry and compatibility, and details exactly how to focus on solutions instead of problems in your relationship.
SHOW NOTES:
Spirit breaks down the difference between chemistry and compatibility [1:45]
People often mistake the relationship’s chemistry changing for falling out of love [3:56]
Spirit explains how people end up feeling that they are incompatible [6:45]
When you are dating, that is the perfect time to go slow and really take stock [8:32]
Spirit talks about how someone can be a 10 at 2 AM but a 2 at 10 AM [11:34]
There are three sides: you, your partner and the relationship [14:38]
Spirit explains what to do instead of focusing on the problems [17:57]
There is science to relationships, and you can control intensity, duration and connection [19:48]
Relationship problems and habits are passed down through the generations [22:01]
Spirit explains how to deal with feelings, thoughts and behaviors [24:41]
If you can change the way you think and behave, everything else will fall in line [27:33]
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[@sirena9167]

Being annoyed by little things like snoring isn’t what really annoys a person it’s after months or years of disrespect from that person that makes everything annoying about them.

[@lesliejefferson5453]

Wow, for me that is the hammer on the nail. You hit that so on point ❤👍🙌

[@sgreen9088]

Yes agreed. And we not speaking up about those annoyances.

[@siomarradickens9313]

That's where I'm at in my relationship

[@siomarradickens9313]

For me it's everything....after being disrespect for all those years. 😤

[@divinegoddess3060]

And that's our own fault have to pay attention to you all's values and future. And if it annoys us we must address it up front with in ourselves and decide on how much of a deal breaker that is

[@jessykapop]

Been with my husband almost 15 years and we both still act like the first time. I get butterflies and fuzzy feelings everyday for my hubby

[@MaliMaslacak526]

I'm so happy to read this! We need more empowering real love stories 🙂

[@iamatraveler6254]

This is absolutely amazing. I believe in happily forever😁

[@amandarubino4316]

I wish I had that . I'm on year 3.5 and it's like not working out but I love him so much I'm so confused. He's just like mean and grouchy all of the time .

[@tiffanysaddler3964]

@@amandarubino4316 it could be a rough season you all are going through, or something he is personally struggling with. Hope you all can fight through it. ❤️🙏🏽

[@MaliMaslacak526]

@@amandarubino4316 Hey, it's worth checking your attachment style because it impacts the relationship the most. It's like playing the game with two players who play by totally different rules so simply can't enjoy the play as much. Check out Personal Development School on YT as it is hands down the best source of information and goes into great detail. Everything is possible, so is rewiring neurons in your brain to serve you better. I wish you the best of luck!

[@luckyrabbit2]

I don’t know why everyone says “it’s such hard work “ I’ve never felt like my marriage takes work. He is my best friend. I wouldn’t talk or treat him differently than my closest friend or sibling. We have been through a lot in our 2 decades together: unemployment, illness, infertility, but the adversity made us stronger. Even when we finally had our daughter, we came together so well, never needed to even talk about feeding schedule, bottles or other things, I can’t explain it. It’s like we have the same heart and brain. I love him to bits.

[@Just...Peachy]

You're so lucky! I want that one day too

[@aleciad6156]

You two are very fortunate to have found each other!

[@michellekalski8823]

Spirit is amazing. She explains things so well.

[@sylvietapos807]

Yes, she does. She looks so good as well.

[@tiffanysaddler3964]

I agree, she broke down the concepts and made it so simple to understand.

[@karinaayres804]

I need to watch this again to learn to articulate as well as you too! Thank you 🙏🏼

[@ampyresurreccion2219]

@@tiffanysaddler3964 LLC

[@Jubilee_BX]

She is super emotionally intelligent!!

[@AverageGoddess222]

There is some fire advice in here. I love the idea that there are THREE entities in any situation: me, him, and the relationship. Also the understanding that the PROBLEM is the problem, and how are we going to solve it as a team?

[@LisaBilyeu]

It’s a powerful perspective isn’t it?

[@euscieu4246]

I needed to hear this way earlier in my life. I would’ve avoided so much heartbreak and frustration trying to fix things that should’ve never been to begin with.

[@anujagawali]

Exactly me too

[@stacyanndyer5092]

I would too, now I'm free and single the best thing ever I can find back myself and be me for as long as I want and trust God plan for me.

[@marialang9420]

So true. I should have had this advice before getting married too young and too soon. I'm glad I am learning it now. Divorced, but free again.

[@thembimogala9704]

Me too.

[@superwaxx]

RELATIONSHIP PRO T!P: Research attachment theory and understanding attachment styles. This is a crucial part of understanding compatibility that often gets over looked.

[@TheZlepno]

Though helpful in helping us self-actualize as healthier adults, Attachment Theory is not evidenced based and people often do not exhibit a single attachment style: "...attachment theory seems to have posited that attachment is some kind of a monolithic relational mind map that applies globally, but recent research shows that individuals can be attached in different ways to different people. Indeed the child can have a secure attachment to his mother, but an avoidant attachment to his father, and an anxious attachment to an aunt, and so on." Google: Why Attachment Theory Is All Sizzle and No Steak

[@hgzmatt]

@@TheZlepno I think you are correct which explains why I can't place my last partner into a particular style. She was all the types in different scenarios. And so am I. Some people I am so annoyed by I automatically get avoidant with them. That's my mother. What I seem to have dropped is my anxious style apart from the week of the actual breakup. Overall I do seem to be more secure than ever.

[@MaliMaslacak526]

Check out Personal Development School channel, she explains the attachment styles so, so well

[@superwaxx]

@@MaliMaslacak526 Yes! I love her channel. Its great. Even signed up for the school. Well worth it. Thank you

[@MaliMaslacak526]

@@superwaxx Wow, great! I'm so glad to hear that 🙂 I wish you all the best 🙌🙋‍♀️

[@joliegabanaboutique105]

I’m at that point now , never can get to the root of the problem, so know I’m checked out . Don’t sleep in the same bed anymore, don’t want to talk, and unfortunately we share a child together . The resentment is from numerous things and now I’m ready to move on. I wish I would’ve heard this message years ago however , after I heal, I know not to jump so fast and actually get to know this person and not the representative!

[@foreignlovedreams]

In my experience and in my life, the following rules apply in relationships: - Remain Two Individuals - Work Together to Manage Finances - Best Friends and Forever Lovers A successful relationship is communication!

[@irenehammond-griffin2198]

I’m

[@girlynerds611]

If 2 people join together with this type of understanding, the possibilities are endless! 🥰

[@Jubilee_BX]

I agree!!

[@tracicauchi7819]

This woman is a diamond in the rough!! Whoa! I’m so glad I stumbled upon her content on diff KZbin channels! She’s amazing! So true!

[@adorhaal6970]

Im 49 yrs old and so naive on who i date .. i always get used, abused by a man .narc.. when i heard this i make sure that before i date a man i will need to know and test the guy .. thank u so much

[@marialang9420]

Very good advice by a wise woman. Thank you!!!! I should have heard this 20 years ago. It is a very sad truth that you only really know a person when you break up with him/her. I just survived a horrible divorce and see the man for the first time the way he really is. Never ever should I have married him so quickly and at such a young age... and have four kids with him..... I've learned the truth now.

[@asherbrown7637]

💜 I love spirit, please have her on again would love to hear more, especially on how to communicate effectively in a relationship.😊

[@elas1871]

I SECOND THAT!

[@ahlemlee2488]

the way you ask questions, oh my goodness, just wow, thank you so much for this interview.

[@carolinediene7303]

The 2 episodes with this amazing therapist are ones of the most impactful episodes I ever heard/watched on relationship’s topic. No BS, actionable tips and learnings, clarity. You really nailed to have an impact with them. Congrats & thank you! ❤✨👌🏼💯 And now I have to translate it in French for the women I care about (France & Africa).

[@Cocobod8]

What an amazing conversation. I'm beginning to take a closer look at my relationship.

[@aneltovar3372]

Same! Give us updated. What did you learn?

[@gracirevs2989]

Omg..trueee

[@missstarrynight7736]

I was raised to believe, that I should prove my worth to a man and that I should never be a "burden" to him. Of course I attracted a narcissist who abused and mistreated me. Thanks God I finally dumped him, but it was a terrible thing to realize my grandma (same as Lisa's) taught me to normalize abuse. 😕 By the way, my grandpa was also a narcissist.

[@larasmith490]

🦋marriage is hard work, but it’s important to remember marriage is the greatest gift from God

[@lisamuchi8764]

Soooooo #true💯

[@larasmith490]

Lisa Muchi 🦋you hit the nail on the head with the love drunk

[@tytycruz490]

how?

[@larasmith490]

Tyler p 🦋we’ll back in the days of Adam & Eve, God knew that as humans we needed a spouse. D&C 131 1-4 Celestial marriage is essential to exaltation in the highest heaven

[@fgt2078]

Good health and a secure loving childhood is the greatest gift from GOD

[@REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh]

I am SO glad I am away from my birth parents. I am with someone who became family and he is SO protective and wise. My mother is a covert narcissist and my dad has some questionable patterns. So I’m glad I get to heal.

[@comaspice]

this video was so insightful. wow, it's so hard not to get caught up in your feelings and blaming the other person for not meeting your needs. I like how you reframed it to focus on the solution, trying something new for a set time and seeing if that works. "the perfect person" has their flaws! and you're bound to bump heads. not everyone can read your mind, and learning to communicate clearly what you need, and knowing what you need first is something I struggle with. I think I can learn a lot by not being fearful to speak up for myself, and trusting that the other person will be open and responsive to my needs. I need to try it or else I won't know.

[@JeanetteMoseneke]

Please have Spirit on again with you & Tom. It would be a powerful chat on relationships. Love 🇿🇦

[@khutsoset5761]

Spirit, you're my spirit animal. You say everything I need to hear and more. I have no friends who can advise like you do and preparing for marriage this is what I needed.

[@absta100]

Relationships are like garage sales, they look good from a distance but up close it’s just a tonne of shit you don’t need 🤣❤️💛💚

[@maiyamilangitryte]

Lol!

[@risingsun82]

🤣👍

[@shydebhar]

😂😂😂😂

[@OTF-nv1bw]

This is perfect

[@cierrataree3366]

or you could find something amazing...

[@Ayeee56789]

KNOWLEDGE BOMBS DROPPED IN HERE....WOW!!! THANK YOU!!!

[@MsLotusBlooms]

I absolutely agree about taking time to observe, vetted, ask good questions, and not having sex early on. Hold off and see if this person has qualities deserving of that.

[@divinelychosen5554]

You earn your credibility...so true. We learn how to come into relationship thru the presence or the absence of people in our lives...wow! Great interview. Spirit is sure fireworks💥

[@Demifan39]

The fact that we are getting this for free wow!

[@thembimogala9704]

Our feelings, Our thoughts, Our behavior, Human beings in a nutshell. This content was highly informative.

[@subtlemoons3078]

WOW, this was an eye-opening, amazing interview - I wish it was longer! the advice is so helpful, and hearing someone explore these topics from a factual perspective shines light on feelings. thank you Spirit and Lisa, and I hope there’s a following video covering needs, how to pinpoint what exactly your needs are, and how to communicate about them. Amazing!! 💛 coming from someone with past childhood neglect/abandonment and experience with toxic relationships/ codependency, I deeply appreciate these talks. xoxo

[@LisaBilyeu]

Lauren Karsant thanks so much for your feedback and so happy to help in some way ❤️

[@holiday269]

Learned alot from that episode, def guna rewatch that a few times bc she was dropping gems!!

[@honeybunnzs]

I just stumbled across these interviews and I LOVE THEM!

[@seydanur5721]

Wow! She was so articulate and knows what she's talking about. Thank you so much Lisa for the phenomenal content you bring to us!

[@saintmarybulicek567]

I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app [phone] or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger

[@marcelapinzon7404]

This interview was soooooo good

[@LisaBilyeu]

marcela diaz 🙌🙌

[@amikamaya]

marcela diaz לפֿחןתלת

[@angelafronda7515]

Spirit, once again you nailed it. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom.

[@lioydwilliams1850]

angela fronda,I admire your lovely smile!

[@nadiajules6601]

Hi Spirit !! I Love how you explained the relationship process. Thanks. Love from St.Lucia.

[@nektaria.kleopoulos]

This channel is so amazing! I always learn the best advice and it has truly changed my life. Thank you another great interview Lisa!!!

[@LisaBilyeu]

Nektaria Kleopoulos so glad you enjoyed it!

[@fatinarifin7961]

Lisa is ahmazinggg ❤️🔥

[@AnggiSahamCantik]

The talking was SO GOOD I learn a lot! I cant stop watching to the end

[@andrewc.2952]

I think the title for this amazing session should be conflict resolution. I'm from a dysfunctional and abusive home. I'm learning to do things the right way, the healthy way, for myself and my partner.

[@PinkYellowGreen2023]

This is awesome!!!! From understanding that who you are in a relationship is a choice....this knowledge is so necessary!!! And she is a therapist!!!

[@saintmarybulicek567]

I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app [phone] or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger

[@sof8784]

I loved this so much! Spirit is such an amazing speaker and there is so much truth to everything she says. Also, absolutely love the way you engage with her and ask questions, Lisa!

[@saintmarybulicek567]

I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app [phone] or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger

[@TachAventura]

What is her SUPERPOWER? Is there a second part coming? Loved this interview! 🥰

[@Lovingmylife24]

I wish I would have learned this earlier in my life. This is good.

[@lesliemccauley2003]

You are a fantastic host. You shine in glee knowing you are sharing your gift of a better life through better information.

[@realtalk675]

Omg i love spirit what a good conversation ! Lisa you are amazing please never stop your channel is a blessing ❤️

[@twowingsatlanta4007]

Spirit You are Phenomenal!!!💜💜 Chemistry and Compatible NRE: New Relationship Energy

[@valeriemckeever5007]

I love Spirit she is the best! This was Very informative! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@LisaBilyeu]

Boom 🔥❤️

[@draganic_sandra]

I like this women, she is amazing, please one more but long interview with her ❤️

[@LisaBilyeu]

Thanks for the feedback!! ❤️

[@ChiasmMarksTheSpot]

This is not a profound comment. Spirit is such a beautiful woman! The type of beauty that is the mutual interaction between outward appearance and inner nature.

[@risingsun82]

@@lioydwilliams1850 Leave the woman alone. Stop preying on the woman

[@jujubee90275]

Love you Spirit. I am a clinician myself and always love learn from you as I want to strengthen my growth❤

[@rosieone4533]

Fab topic. Thanks for introducing me to a new person! Hoping this is a 2 part episode (and not a technical error) so we can get more. For anyone who is wanting practical steps of this advice, The Gottman's have gone into the science of relationships. They have crafted brilliant resources which provide you with tools to tackle many of the things Spirit mentions here.

[@taylorcunha7250]

Spirit is AMAZING

[@sandrarosales8604]

This was amazing!! Thank you Spirit and Lisa🙏

[@LisaBilyeu]

Sandra Rosales 🙌

[@esmeraldayachting]

Sprit you are an amazing clear, powerful therapist!!

[@natural.7]

I Love all her explanations! Is it just me or the interview was longer than this? 😊

[@chiomanwachukwu6744]

What do I like most about Spirit - her practical and objective options to this thing called 💕. With her I'm always a student 😂.

[@fille3991]

I like that you have said , there is a science around relationship. You can determine the intensity.. wow! I miss my ex😢 I wish I could handle it better.

[@raen8847]

I love this, I learned a lot

[@jeannetilar7580]

I love how she explains it🥰

[@adelinexavier5921]

Every word, was worth the listen. Just pure gold.

[@PacificMoceans]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤ This just saved my relationship! Thank you!!!

[@sarajane5306]

Girl looks like an equestrian and only about 25.... How can she have been married 18 years with the complexion of a teenager. She must have good genes and a good husband 😊

[@kdpolo2000]

CxdO cch

[@coconutwater4531]

She’s very thin but does look 40 plus

[@unabashedwoman2933]

She’s does. She’s beautiful.

[@troutfamilylife551]

Blk don't crack

[@nicolewinters]

Ja bro

[@garimasharma1141]

Hi lisa pls add one section in your podcast that what happen if somebody is married now and years have passed, what should they do now. What is best possible scenario now to live their life fullest.

[@torontorealtordk4201]

I loved this, very educational. Thank you! ❤️

[@LisaBilyeu]

🙏❤️

[@sandrabarkay4327]

Thank you Spirit and Lisa.

[@anujagawali]

Yes I have been in chemistry situation and difficult to get out of the toxicity... When we are young we don't really think abt all this and get trapped till we are adults and it's time to really marry and we have less time to really judge

[@lesliemccauley2003]

Spirit is knowledgeable and pragmatic. After that she's beautiful and sensitive to the truth. Real talk.

[@AzucenaPerez]

Loved Dr. Spirit!! Such solid, wise advice. Thank you!!

[@navigatinglifewithamelia4150]

Wow wish had seen this a year ago but lesson learnt for the future. We really need to be aware of how different past relationships wether it be with our parents, siblings, etc. impact current relationships.

[@zanescents3986]

I just love her energy!!

[@maryama4920]

Lisa i have to say it, you are SO adorable!

[@RontschDaPontsch]

and soooooo smart!!!!!!

[@gabrielleheaven1266]

I like the hair 😘

[@Ayesha_11122]

true! 😊

[@dedrickpatterson9]

That's how responsible men handle problems in relationships. We use logic and are always in problem solving mode. Not emotional and not into venting to be just venting. We wanna end the vent by coming up with a solution to hen move forward to the next thing later we will deal with together.. And you have to have honest conversation for that to happen no matter how you feel about how it comes. It's all about getting better in the relationship. Communicate and solve the problems.

[@nothingunaddressed]

SO helpful! Thank you Lisa & Spirit.

[@justinanothard724]

Great episode, thank you!

[@neskebeks]

Spirit is my hero.

[@NicieWilliams]

I know a part 2 is coming....PLEASE!

[@anettekvam]

Now this is life skills!

[@LisaBilyeu]

👏👏👏

[@elsavelaz]

It's easy to see why her husband adores her, Lisa is ADORABLE

[@LisaBilyeu]

😊😘

[@swinxfee]

You have an AMAZING channel. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@naseeha101]

Going to bed at 2 with a 10 and waking up at 10 with a 2! 🤣🤣🤣

[@LisaBilyeu]

🤣

[@gabrielleheaven1266]

Hhihihi hahahahaha 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@plushplumes5328]

The anology towards the end... 🙌🏾

[@sandram6741]

I can not find the right person in my 38, and I just broke up, agree with one thing: "break up first to see who is this person. It really shocked me" Good advice and I will really treat dating as a job interview and I will not hire anyone before this guy is compatible.

[@aminatayobami4744]

Waw, this is mind boggling.

[@mariangeles1310]

This is the video I needed today, thank you

[@LisaBilyeu]

❤️

[@fidanaliyeva8]

Love it❤ Eye opening interview

[@jhenapingul4962]

Thank you so much for this!!!

[@Missarlyyn]

LOVE your channel girl ❤️🙏🏽💯 keep it up, thank you!

[@LisaBilyeu]

Arlyn Famulaga thank you!! 🙌💕

[@tamartamunanemsadze7750]

Amazing ! Thank you. That is what I do. I interview them and cannot find any so far. I thought I was crazy fir doing it.

[@realtalk675]

Spirit and lisa 🙏🏼❤️ amazing woman who inspire me so much

[@jooctober9021]

Love it . Thanks ladies ; ) Hugs and love from Belgium

[@yx-z1038]

This Interview was too short .But very good thank you 👍🌹❤Please more dating advices for the decisions in a dating procces when the person you date shows disrespect behavior or do something you really dont like in his behavior but you think everything else is okay and he is a keeper. Can you learn us HOW TO SPEAK A MAN -WITH MANY EXAMPLES. Because man dont like to be critizise they act than like kids....or enemys....you know what I mean.Hopefully😅😄

[@sharinaa6533]

First ask yourself, why it is bothering you. Is it against your values and beliefs? Was he acting disrespectful? Most of the time, you can tell right away. Tell him, that his behaviour makes you feel certain way or is against you values and explain exactly what. If he takes no responsibility at all, not even considering to think about or talk with you trough it, he is too immature.

[@LisaBilyeu]

iKX-6I9Yi IE3-527! We’re launching a Relationship Theory channel in September. You can sign up here to be notified 👉 impacttheory.activehosted.com/f/13

[@yx-z1038]

@@sharinaa6533 Thank you .That is a intresting way to look at it.😀👍

[@Floridavisual]

Hello a man here. If he’s acting like a kid he’s not a man.

[@abcd8033]

First ask yourself what kind of men are you looking for

[@kimbates1071]

Spirit Amazing 👏 ✨ 🙌 ❤ love her style of therapy ❤

[@lyndsiixo]

Another great video!! Keep 'em coming Lisa!! Thanks for the amazing advice Spirit!!!

[@sgreen9088]

Excellent equation for our strategy or solution not meeting our needs.

[@lucystephanieproperties]

Well hey thanks Spirit. You cleared up a lot of things for many of us. Love your vids Lisa. :)

[@srod31]

Thank you for the show notes!! Great episode

[@joannahpecos4183]

THIS IS GOLD! Thank you so much

[@joyyu7753]

I'm confused about compatibility. I've been told there's such thing as compatibility, but how much do we need to be compatible, and how much do we need to compromise? Because we are all different people, we can't always find someone who's 100% compatible?

[@adwoaannan3104]

Wow! I learnt so much from this video. Thank you for conversations like this.

[@jamesrobertson4098]

That was just mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯 Amazing insight, thank you very much indeed 🧘‍♂️🙏