I don't believe in my humble opinion there is a secret it's fate and a Blessing when you find it treasure it.
@evildoesnotsleep-x2b2 жыл бұрын
Self love
@ladyofspa Жыл бұрын
It's a powerful recipe of healed characteristics to me that you follow with lots of great loving ingredients, cook time and temperature. Mostly knowledge of self and commitment creates an amazing dish that's delicious
@Eng455511 ай бұрын
patience
@SunShine-lq7yt2 күн бұрын
Just live your life, work on yourself, set intentions for love and allow it to come...Also, when dating definitely take the advice laid out in thos video as to not get googled eyed and fooled with love bombers and ppl who mirror what you want.
@iamgoddessoflove2 жыл бұрын
It's going to save you a lot of wasted time and energy if you just wait for the right one. Never settle for a relationship because you don't want to be alone or because you don't believe that you can find better. What is meant for you, will find its way to you. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
@NicolineNDahl2 жыл бұрын
OMG I'm so happy you invited Spirit back on your podcast! I remember hearing her talk about forgiveness two years ago and it made me realize I had to leave a cheating partner. Her words were so powerful. You ladies were part of taking me down a new path, and you don't even know the profound effect that episode had on me. Spirit is elegant and well-spoken, she simply SCREAMS class, while being quietly confident. Thank you, you two :)
@myaalberto2959 Жыл бұрын
Yesss Nicole listening to her different podcast. Allow me the strength and perspective to also walk out of my relationship as well!!!
@Chiungalla792 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of an old Bertrand Russell quote: "The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge." We need love. But love is never enough. We also need to know a lot. So that we don`t ruin the precious love with stupidity. How to communicate? How to set boundaries? How to compromise? When to do all those things just mentioned? When to ignore feelings, because they will lead you to a bad place? ...
@itumelengkganane203910 ай бұрын
Wow Dr Spirit your wisdom is beyond comprehension 👌🙏💕
@itisfinishednowtimetoclean27232 жыл бұрын
When there’s no compromise No One wins! Same with being heard, (being heard is not when you say something and they say uh huh), it’s seeing that they have Heard You…. One should not think you can “fix” someone. When limerence leaves, things must get real and honest. We must be Honest with ourselves as well as knowing in the beginning everyone puts their best self forward. I am in a fairly new relationship and although he wanted me to move in, commit wholly…. So I said Woah, darling your trying to rope me straight out of the shoot, let’s see where this goes as it is, boundaries in place slow down! Great Show, Thank You So Much…❤️❤️🔥
@anairasoul61392 жыл бұрын
Spirit is Amazing! ❤️❤️❤️ I love her work. She pours into people in such an impactful way that she literally changes lives.
@lolitagece2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ever so much for such a great podcast 😊 hands down, we all are growing together. We all are fighting the same storm only being not in the same boat but in our own separate boats. In order to get to the cost to safe home,- we might as well team up and join the forces yo become wiser, stronger and successful in defeating the storm we never enquired voluntarily to participate in. And yet we all have to . A safe home built from dreams and hopes, where love and best hugs of a loved one exist. Not a house built upon the bricks and walls 💚
@MsLotusBlooms2 жыл бұрын
Spirit is so talented.
@thinkforyourselfjohn31672 жыл бұрын
What an amazing video how I wish I would have listened to this years ago it would have saved me so much grief. The representative how true this is. You two ladies have so much wisdom God Bless you both ♥️♥️.
@ladyofspa Жыл бұрын
The last five minutes is unique superior information,very helpful, and concrete solutions oriented. Thanks.❤
@KeziahMuthoni2 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! I really appreciate the wisdom being shared here. Such crucial pointers before dating or eventually marrying for so many of us who don't have role models or understand what to do. Thank you Spirit and Lisa🙏🏿🙏🏿
@thembaa10xaba362 жыл бұрын
😘
@kimberlycareymua82072 жыл бұрын
Loved this. Can't wait to be able to practice this again in a relationship. I know this knowledge will be beneficial and definitely needed.
@MoroccanSama2 жыл бұрын
Same sis! Amen
@evildoesnotsleep-x2b2 жыл бұрын
Your guests are always on point
@noah15022 жыл бұрын
love this talk! such charismatic and intelligent women❤️💯❤️ i learned a lot and will consider these lessons for sure in my love life
@marilyn67122 жыл бұрын
Wow I love her 💗she is awesome.
@TravelsWithJamaicanBarbie2 жыл бұрын
Omg I learned so much from this video .. thank you🤭
@Impactmediatv12 жыл бұрын
Beautiful thanks for sharing ❤❤💕
@kilombo67022 жыл бұрын
Love doesn't keep 2 people together...Wisdom does -Myles Monroe
@ava-jl1ll2 жыл бұрын
Would love some questions to ask during those early dating stages
@arizonadesert58612 жыл бұрын
Please Can someone let me know the name of this Dr therapist?? Thank you 🙏 🛑🛑
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
Spirit Clanton Atlanta Georgia
@ladyofspa Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Did you listen at all ....
@Iamcapable42 жыл бұрын
It bloody wasn’t a mistake it was a bad choice✍️💯🔦
@vpanetta19932 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!
@CorporateQueen2 жыл бұрын
If chemistry was only about procreation, then how come it still happens post menopause?
@schoolingdiana90862 жыл бұрын
You still have hormones, even if not as much.
@bigheadrhino2 жыл бұрын
Also, same sex chemistry.
@Iamcapable42 жыл бұрын
Nre 🔥💯
@schoolingdiana90862 жыл бұрын
Are they sorry or apologizing? They aren’t the same thing.
@Iamcapable42 жыл бұрын
Bonding chemicals 🧬dust settling🤷 Lol gap 🤔✍️interview their representative is not who we are action speaks louder than words so how do you control the Having sex and then your emotions and your charisma chemistry changes towards them is that where you have to build that connection first before you just jump into something I see I see holding out to see who the person is 👍🏼
@carmenortiz13422 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@quizn882 жыл бұрын
Pls who knows Spirit's KZbin or social media handle?
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
It's in the description
@ladyofspa Жыл бұрын
Think only on Instagram
@Impactmediatv12 жыл бұрын
👌👌⭐❤💯
@Naallaa2 жыл бұрын
I Disagree. To me Chemistry is more important than anything. If you like someone so much and they feel the same way the relationship will work and it gets better because they don't want lose you over bs. People who don't want lose you do right by you! And that goes both ways. No one want be with someone they are not attracted too but have alot in common, no attraction leads to cheating with other ppl they find attractive and even leave you for them down the road. Attraction is foundation to build on in my opinion.
@Itsalllove11112 жыл бұрын
Yes I have to agree. But I’m an attractive female and I have never found a man that I was attracted to and was stable.
@avril.2272 жыл бұрын
Strong Chemical Attraction is helpful in the beginning, it helps for about 6 months then most straight males, if you aren’t compatible, won’t stick around, though in my experience, women will be willing to compromise and be more understanding to stay with that hot connection.
@Naallaa2 жыл бұрын
@@avril.227 lol let me tell you something about men, they are very simple creatures they will become whatever that women they love wants them to be and be happy with forever. Compatability more so an issue for the women. Our parents and grandparents are still married to their men until their end days. What they had was strong attraction then built on it, ... if a woman is happy with men and the man is attracted her there is nothing they can't solve.
@schoolingdiana90862 жыл бұрын
You need both. You aren’t going to spend the rest of your life in bed. If he can’t carry on an extended convo or really doesn’t like taking out the trash (he’ll stop eventually), he’s not the right person.
@Naallaa2 жыл бұрын
@@schoolingdiana9086 read what all of what i wrote and comprehend before commenting. I said "attraction is foundation to build on" which anything in the relationship has potential to progresses, grow, build on, in your case it's conversations🙄 finance, education, profession, hobbies, health, family, religion etc. I dislike people who don't finish reading or understand things they're going to comment on. 😒
@judyhill54332 жыл бұрын
I'm not saying this to be mean, but you should learn some new adjectives. "Friggin" is ok once in a while but it's anti-intellectual. And it doesn't have as much class as something more descriptive. I used to say it all the time too and I've learned better words and never looked back.