LOVE THERAPIST SHARES Why You're Single & CAN'T FIND LOVE | Lori Gottlieb & Jay Shetty

Lori Gottlieb admits to Jay Shetty that she has always been fascinated by people’s stories. This allure first led her to television, but a desire to make an even deeper impact drew her to a career in counseling. There, she focuses on helping people explore their stories and rediscover their self-worth.
Gottlieb, one of the leading therapists in the country, sat down with Shetty to talk about the power of emotions, human connection, and good therapy.
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[@minanikki15]

From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for this podcast. ❤️ Didn't expect this.

[@MrsTiggah]

So good!!! It literally just got better and better the further the conversation went

[@shondahansen7594]

I truly enjoyed this podcast. It addressed a lot that I think about myself all the time and others. I addressed others pain that way and I see how others have addressed me that way too. Numbing from to many emotions is how I feel right now. I'm so overwhelmed. Thank you. Nuggets to grow on and get better. Shame is guilt and privacy is a boundary

[@ankita5640]

Best part... you have two ears and one mouth, Jay and Lori truly inspirational talk it helped me to get the insights of my disturbed behaviors a bit... I hope with these beautiful understanding I can change my narrative too, because to my most beloved person (mother) I have kind off iodic compassionate relationship, and I have to and want to change it. Thanks a lot.

[@daisygrossi9557]

I love Lori's insights! What a great conversation! Thank you!

[@ask_danielle]

Such an on-point episode, especially as young adults are shifting into more meaningful connections with friends & partners! I’m such a hopeful romantic. This episode enhanced my thinking on what it requires to adapt in terms of feedback responses during sensitive times. Thank you both! Much love.

[@rahandapapadopoulou8790]

what a kind and educated human being Lori is! I enjoyed every minute of this podcast x

[@selenasflowershop728]

This was AMAZING!!! Thanks you guys so much!

[@bhawnaklair3681]

Really mindblowing! Thanks guys ♥️

[@Qdawwg]

Great interview, can't believe this doesn't have more views

[@annfishelrichter7611]

👏 👏 great insights and a long time coming.

[@krishnagochhayat1945]

I love it...thank you so much for this jay.there were lots of things ,I can relate to in different level.

[@invinciblemonu18]

Thank you so so much for bringing her. God bless you all.

[@GheyR]

Thank you😊

[@hrk1795]

This is the thing about having a proper relationship with anyone. The title doesn’t fit the contents though… it’s not only about romantic relationship or being single! Definitely worth watching.

[@progressandproductivity]

So true. We always want others to change although we know that it is just as difficult for them to change as it is for us

[@panda59043]

I am fascinated by Lori s use of words !

[@GintareRoliciute]

this woman is so deep ... beautiful i can feel her

[@innatecloud]

absolutely loved it

[@marygrace3343]

Okay I needed this 😍

[@pranathi2171]

I wish this conversation was never ending.... Really enjoyed listening and took away few valuable insights❤️

[@EileenHoying1912]

I love the ending.

[@vandanaponnaganti4278]

please do a content on depression where the things are simple but u find more difficult inside out

[@EdinaSzabo]

It was another great interview. I ordered the audible version of the book. I can't wait to listen to it. By the way I can't find the link to her book in your description.

[@Elwangx]

This was so needed! Hope more people get to see this. Would love to see this in clips!

[@lilitheyes13]

I loved this video. Also love the lessons on each video posted by Jay , I thank you for everything you are doing and think you should never stop, We are all struggling into our stories , some are more sad than others, nonetheless its not a competition, What i think is : Jay- you inspire me and believe everyone who listens to you agrees.

[@jessicajefferson9904]

Hello

[@kavitajha801]

Thanku abundantly

[@adinashaina9977]

57:30 hoorah! My favorite quick learn truth session >> the rapid fire fill in the blanks... and GO!

[@ThaiWithSarah]

There’s no link to her book on Amazon? I already have her copy but just curious why the link wasn’t there as you said there was. Anyway, such a great interview with many interesting questions being asked. Thank you for your work ❤

[@nireeburr]

🙏🏼 thank you so much.. I’m single and I hate it..I hate being alone. I’ve lost friendships and my partner on NYD.. I feel so defeated and rejected. Friends just go there own way coz they are with their partners. I’m gay and most friends are straight, I’m trying to meet all folks. But if a silent rule in gay friendships.. they will brake a good love up..if it looks healthy. I’m 47 female.. and all the women I’m looking for are really older than what I am at same age.. so now I’m looking for younger but mature.. Most of all I can’t even get out of my house.. it’s all on line. I’m so isolated lonely afraid, I’ve been out of work for a long time due to PTSD. Now I’d rather say I’m Niree and that was then this now.. I have ups and downs like others do. I’m just a lot more open and it’s more visible. Meeting new people like minded is challenging, I can’t find where to start or anything.. I’ve not ever been in this situation ever in life. Partner ghosted me and that’s left me so open and unable for closure.. she took that power to really hurt me. Knowing it was a pet hate to not know or not understand something. I like to understand best as possible. Anyway I’m in Adelaide Australia.. if your able to give some advice. I’m watching more on Jay as of today. Please Im so alone. I’m here coz there’s no one else.. how many tears can come from eyes for how long?? 🕉🌻🕊🙏🏼

[@tenielles4623]

Wow I’m from Adelaide. I’m want to hug you!

[@Kieslowski1]

hey, what would u like advice on? you sound desperate and lonely... I get you I think

[@Tina-wk2pr]

loved this interview! She's amazing, love her energy!

[@taladiv3415]

46:27 Strong phrase!

[@Evaweronica]

She is in the same circle of people as Matthew hussey.... ❤️ He is truly the luv guru.. Please have him as a guest.

[@gabs3765]

He was a guest recently on ‘’How to get over your ex’’

[@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier]

Please don't ! That man-hating nonsensical awful being only toppled by Brian Nox... Would soil and spoil the same place he'd share with Jay...

[@amberc6335]

22:18 wow… that is a first! Ive been taught in fact it’s been drilled in my head to always forgive… even if it’s something REALLY bad… very interesting.

[@itsiwhatitsi]

I really hope love exists

[@megan_kaae]

This was a very interesting listen, but I feel as though it did not address the topic in the title of the video. Still love what I heard though, just was expecting to hear more on the topic in the title.

[@wisdommindset8873]

Totally agree,I've listened to it literally 10 times,but still even though it doesn't align with the title I stil learned a lot. Thank you

[@loredanaterry1962]

Totally agree !!

[@gabrielam2795]

Everything that was said will directly and indirectly be the cause of why some are in healthy relationships and why some aren’t

[@Quaberr]

Yeah it was such clickbait. Should be reported for misleading title 🙄

[@reda20242]

Can you please subtitle your podcasts

[@preetiranka51]

Please take an interview of Alian de Botton

[@isseisharma9418]

its easier said than done

[@alexandrosgrigoris632]

Sometimes some secrets are so dark the pandora box must never open. Trust me on this…. And not everyone deserves to know the truth

[@ariesgirl3868]

Too many just want to "chat" and that's it that is why!🙄

[@CasperEgas]

It doesn't make a really interesting conversation if you constantly agree...

[@panda59043]

we all have so much baggage

[@jgator6694]

Why is there an assumption that single people are searching…or incomplete..until they find a partner. Please remember to acknowledge that there are single people who CHOOSE to be single and CHOOSE to remain single

[@kinolima235]

❣️❤️ Love ❤️ Warm ❤️ Love ❤️❣️

[@julijaantonenko1553]

♥

[@dr.florence]

Huge disagree. For someone like me who has never been angry, anger is the key feeling to motivate change, draw and maintain boundaries, and self-differentiate. There is a difference between rage (violent anger) and resentment (stuck anger). Those are also legitimate. Let's allow ourselves to feel ALL our beautiful feelings!

[@markuchiha7737]

Because money

[@warroomscale]

Why is so hard finde love ???? Becouse today everything based on money... And it is sucks...

[@isseisharma9418]

nope at all..u can earn easily

[@MohitKumar-jy4li]

♥️🔥

[@HD-xb9mj]

What about women 50 and over , is it still possible to have love.

[@brlnmchl]

This title is a total clickbait:/

[@albertonomics]

is this the same video as "Therapist Shares Why You're Attracted To People Who Are Wrong For You"? or this is a new one?

[@manojbisht9376]

Same video

[@LA-fs1de]

God is the best therapist because he's the only one that can help us face our darkest feelings and overcome them. Ephesians 6:12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

[@isseisharma9418]

this won't work in India

[@angelicalisa]

2 infj's talking

[@terribustillo1989]

The reason many can’t find true love, because of selfishness. For if they were committing sexual immorality as what the Bible said, they will never find true love. Because we must love God first, and come to know Him. For if you don’t come to know God, you will never ever find true love for according to the Bible “ seek God first and His Kingdom and all shall be added unto you.

[@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier]

What does the Holy Bible say about people burning with love and passion?

[@threadflowers9844]

That's so Tee or Sweat Shirt worthy. "I'm a card carrying member of the human race".

[@threadflowers9844]

@Stone Arnault Thank you for your question. If you haven't, you must watch the complete show in order to have a full appreciation for what Gottlieb meant and formulate what it means for you. The show is fantastic. I bought her book and am anxious to meet the characters she talks about in this segment.

[@thegoonist]

just me? or does jay add absolutely nothing to the convo? he just says BS filler stuff that i skip past every time. i swear people only watch it for the guests he has on vs. joe rogan who actually is entertaining.

[@ThaiWithSarah]

Definitely just you.

[@Donniesid]

It really is JUST YOU!!! Jay keep up the amazing work. This podcast has changed my whole perspective on life.

[@thesereti]

Just you. Sorry 😂😂