decluttering my closet *on the verge of tears*

[@shashooitznc5860]

In my life I found decluttering is such a help to my mental health. Both because of the dopamine rush of achieving little milestones along the way (seeing a new patch of floor!) But also because on a sensory level a messy room is a way less calming room. Good for you and hope you feel better!

[@thedana89]

Decluttering is so cleansing for the soul it’s like therapy! Your wardrobe reminds me so much of clothes I used to wear as a teen

[@attaboy_murphy]

agreed! i always feel so proud of myself and just so good when i'm done :)

[@sinemisthename184]

in the most respectful way, I am so happy to see that you have a similar body type to me, as I don't see it a lot in the media I consume or in the people around me and you look so beautiful in your clothes, which gives me hope that that's how others might see me :) I hope your mental health is getting better and you can have the energy you want to have!! sending big hugs and love from the netherlands

[@denisaioana3010]

Decluttering my closet or just organizing it helped me during exam season. It was relaxing and a way to take a break from studying.

[@TI3RU]

thanks for showing us your progress so far! I hope you feel better/refreshed after this 🥹🧡

[@eves.symbiosis]

I think its really amazing how you manage to film so many videos and also show that ur struggling and wanting urself to feel good. It feels real and familiar to smth I'm going through. I want to thank you for ur content and sharing your struggles. Wannna give a hug and best wishes~

[@alanbirkner1958]

I'm 73. I finally got the right mental health diagnosis about 30 years ago. You do what's best for you. Tina, Al's wife

[@MissLizzy882]

my mid to late 20's were spent feeling absolutely like this. Hang in there. ❤

[@geniej2378]

Appreciate you being so up front about how you're feeling. I know decluttering my closet is always very emotional and draining - it's decision fatigue on steroids! You did really well! Would love some check ins or to see the "final" decluttered closet, but no pressure!

[@kelseys90u90]

I’m so pumped for this declutter I love these types of videos

[@Beatrizbulsara]

I went through something similar some months ago, turns out I just needed a change. For whatever's worth, I understand what you're feeling. I just wish I could help you the way you help me when I feel like a ball of insecurities, to use your own words. Lots of abrazos from Spain ❤

[@fryambuter3966]

I'm really glad you are alive. Thank you for sharing yourself with us

[@raspberryitalia3464]

I'm so sorry you've been struggling and been ~going through it~ One wardrobe trick I've been doing that's brought me a lot of joy is storing my out of season clothes out of sight so they don't overwhelm me when they're not useful. I just packed up my winter/fall items and busted out my spring stuff, which felt like getting a whole new wardrobe, and I can hardly wait to get into my summer dresses. I try on the new season items, donating what no longer fits my body or style, and it's really been helpful for sustainability and my mental load. Maybe try putting your out of season stuff away for now, and don't even worry about them until its time again. I hope you feel better soon 💜

[@thedaily60]

A couple of weeks ago I did that because there was some stuff that didn’t fit me anymore 😢 I had a cry session after that… I’m recovering from anorexia/bulimia 😫 to all the people struggling… stay strong and never give up 🙏🏻✨

[@olisykesuwu1535]

i‘m in a similar situation rn, sending you all my love and support

[@thedaily60]

@@olisykesuwu1535 🥺 you’re so sweet, we got this❤️‍🩹

[@Jdawnsha]

I love your wardrobe 🔥 it’s giving vintage, thrifted & 90s 😍 all my favorite styles haha

[@SierraRobinson143]

I’m watching this all the while I’m telling myself, get your shit together & organize, declutter, get rid… thank you babe!! Not normally a commenter but you made me & I love you for it!! True queen fashion… btw, that nude lace halter top, definitely do like a half & half. Cut half the inside & I swear it’s a slay. ❤️💯

[@cronotose8558]

youre so real for this

[@GreenAndGoth]

24 is really weird, but thankfully these crisis feelings pass with a bit of time! You’ll get back to you. Even at 27 myself I’m so much more secure in myself than I was at 24, mentally, physically, really everything. Decluttering is a really good step to get some stress off your plate!

[@brokebaddieboutique]

I really admire your authenticity & appreciate you discussing your mental health & insecurities in this video! I hope you know that you’re not alone we all go through those rough patches sometimes ❤❤❤

[@summerchild6085]

Feel better and be kind to yourself ❤

[@lovejessicablair]

btw i forgot to mention it in the vid but i posted most of the clothes i got rid of on my depop! depop.com/jesssblair i’m only gonna keep my shop open for a week or two and then i’m gonna donate whatever’s left

[@PumpkinMozie]

Rooting for you!! Hoping you feel better soon ❤

[@brlxnnx]

I just put this on to clean my house to and realized that we have the same cami on 😂 I'm also 24 going on 25 in September so I totally feel where you're coming from. ♡

[@tjzoomer]

Cleaning your room is hard especially when u feel depressed. I'm proud of u for making progress girlie! 🤍

[@haleygermaine4849]

10:38 i love the rose crochet sweater!! Gorgeous and so unique 🧦🦔🐨🦉

[@emmaclapp8119]

Purple velvet is a KEEP!!!!!

[@megansimonson]

Girl same, my whole home is like a landfill at the moment. I'd also suggest asking for help if you have friends or family who can lend an afternoon to help lessen the burden of cleaning/organizing... but I also get if not cause that's where I'm having troubles; no one to ask. 🙃 The only real thing I've been able to do besides trying to remember to actually take my meds is finding small little joys to fill up the emptiness to get through the day. Things like a homemade latte, having a good laugh with coworkers, feeling good physically playing soccer, decluttering ever-so-slowly and doing little art projects.

[@FannyDucrot]

this dark green top fits your skin and hair so well, love it !

[@korkinalina]

You look so bright in red and purple

[@user-zc2nm9rv9w]

Literally watched this while cleaning out my closet - made it easier for me thank you xx

[@kyrasaturn]

How did you know I was sitting in my closets, mustering the energy to put away my clothes lmao ily

[@Arabella391]

Thank you Jessica, I’m feeling so much of the same emotions and kind of blegh and overwhelmed and needing a change. I am going to declutter right now! ❤

[@lovejessicablair]

sending you love

[@Arabella391]

Thank you💗 I was able to get a solid amount done and work through some awful emotions.

[@hellyF3]

I loved the video. And wouldn’t mind it being longer ❤️❤️❤️ loved feeling like I was in the room with you as a friend. Sending love and hope you feel better in time

[@startingnow1111]

This is the fist time I have watched your channel. I subscribed. Please know you are amazing even when you are feeling low. Your genuine content is appreciated. Shine on and I hope you feel better - this too shall pass❤

[@mooshroom3650]

One of my fashion favorites to watch, wishing you a wonderful week, life's blessings and strength.

[@michelereynolds14]

Omg I can’t 😢 My house is a hoard of clothes I hold onto so much 😂

[@kristasweetleaf5695]

Your style is unique eccentric controlled baglady and for that I love it! You rock everything with so much confidence ❤

[@bumfuzzer]

recently got summer clothes and you’re def my inspiration

[@katherined8274]

You did not just say lost girls vintage!!!! I live right by there 🥰🥰🥰

[@maryastutzman5654]

to feel youself, focus on others. And other peoples needs, and how u can help them and bring joy to them. Than after, you can tend to yourself and find your true self. This always works for me.. because when we focus to much on ourselves we tend to loose ourselves (trust me... ik) i think its just how it works. But selflessness brings the most self assurance. (FWY, i am not calling you selfish! its just something that works for me :)

[@morticiatheloaf]

Good advice :)

[@maryastutzman5654]

@@morticiatheloaf 😊

[@potassiumsausage2321]

Decluttering can be so relaxing, and you are one of my comfort channels, so seeing you decluttering is a double dose of good vibes 🌸

[@louveblancheomega799]

It's ok to not be okay. Don't give up !

[@saras657]

You looked amazing in that velvet basely top❤

[@Palacesiege]

That paisley skirt you're getting rid of is gorgeous one just like that is on my wishlist 😍 I'd describe my style pretty similarly to what you do and ugh all the 90s/2000s vibes! So CUTE.

[@rawr.X.D]

Everyone else: Decluttering is good for your mental health! Me: where are you selling your clothes?

[@lovejessicablair]

depop! i posted the link in the pinned comment + description

[@rawr.X.D]

@@lovejessicablair thank you!!💕

[@carriecoutino1015]

Try Dedicating 25 minutes or even 15 minutes of decluttering or deep work in every way every day and you will see a huge difference and if you can keep going do it for longer have us as accountable support I’m going through the same thing I’m working on changing that about myself I have grown more in confidence and need a different perspective and mindset but not loosing myself I am just saying that you will get through this you are a beautiful confident powerful woman I’m loving your vibe 😊

[@Xo0Xo0]

The horse top looks like a meme. Loved it and I wouldn’t mind if you would ramble even more about your clothes or other things even if it made the video longer 💕

[@coletteremie]

your style is such a vibe! love your energy queen

[@KiSeaKatikka]

girl same boat I gotta commit the time to delete the extra clothes and hopefully stop feeling trapped

[@megcomb8838]

Your style? Wonderful

[@femkeraasveld2521]

I'm loving you uploading more lately ! Ur def a comfort watch 4 me and I rly appreciate your vulnerability

[@au_barb]

That pretzel shirt is hilarious. I live in a town that's known as "pretzel city" - I'm surprised I haven't seen anyone wearing that here. 😂

[@no111re]

u look so amazing in that red/black graphic top right before the lil horsie shirt hehe

[@InLoveWithTheRainbow]

I feel you, thanks for being honest and I love all your clothes!! ❤❤❤

[@Navi_Aiko]

loved this video! i hope that decluttering helps you feel better, sending best wishes! please keep it up, you've got this

[@Me.675]

Feel good I hope you feel better fast xxx

[@truewantsaband]

You’re so beautiful and perfect 🥺 we are a similar body type so it really gets me thinking and feeling the same about myself. Thank you for being so brave❤❤❤ (and fashionable) 😂 😊

[@parentingadabsurdum]

The gold high neck is SO cute on you.

[@Emily_onFashion]

You amazing woman! You did great work!!! Love your instincts and congratulations on all the progress you made! I live in the Midwest too and same same same about being soooo ready for spring. 🖤🖤🖤

[@lovejessicablair]

aw thank you angel!!

[@britt9724]

ur SO stunning! i love ur humour lmao

[@videoenjoyer236]

thanks for another lovely video !! i love ur style :3 i wanted to throw out there that i've completely revitalized old clothes by dyeing them - the helm you wore, for example, could def be dyed in an hour or less w a bottle of rit dye 💚

[@videoenjoyer236]

@ᴊᴇssɪᴄᴀ ʙʟᴀɪʀ omg im writing now

[@yoonki_min__]

I really needed this rn, the fact that when something is too small rn on you and you’re just totally okay with it and you’re getting rid of it. I’ve recently gained some weight and I’m about to declutter my wardrobe bc some pants don’t fit me which made me feel a little bit weird about myself when it’s literally okay, our bodies change and it shouldn’t make anyone feel shitty about themselves 🫶

[@legofishjpeg]

i just wanna say im proud of u and i lov ur vids so much

[@carlyofsydney]

The purple velvet top looks great on you!

[@Avdrey111]

Your room is so pretty 💗🥹

[@MIOLAZARUS]

Very relatable content! Beautiful really. Well done for doing this during being depressed. Impressive!🎉

[@olivial8899]

I adore you hope you're feeling better!

[@Ko1234567890S]

"if it makes you feel any better about my rack" lol good progress!

[@allydiggorycullenpattinson906]

Could I ask where you got the what have you done for me lately baby tee from or what brand it is?

[@rj-rv7ic]

Omg what is the brand of the really colorful long sleeve with the flower on it?? I love it

[@colorfulhag5144]

15:54 it’s giving Morticia Addams at the club

[@_Sapph_]

I think it would be fun (if you're in the mood for filming) to do some girl talk videos while you do some self care. Whether it's like crafts or walking around or doing your nails. I loved when Jenna Marbles would do the thoughts from the bath videos. So if you got a tub and feel up to it that's an idea. Anyways sending you some love and strength ❤

[@STIRDEWAYANDHORSES4LIFE]

THE THE 3d JUST TO LET U KNOWWWW

[@STIRDEWAYANDHORSES4LIFE]

I MEAN 6h or 5h!!

[@jillybeans70]

You mentioned previously that you live in a small town in Illinois. Me too 😢 lol

[@emma3269]

I want to buy that one sleeve top that made you feel like a “poser” from the beginning!!! I didn’t see it on your Depop!!

[@hollyruck210]

🧡

[@GloriaGloom]

Got too freaked out by the Last of Us and came here to be soothed.

[@RedRosesDead07]

One section at a time, one drawer at a time, one little corner at a time... hoping you feel better.

[@MIOLAZARUS]

Maybe listen to Nick caves ghosteen album. There is a song about horses-ish. Its so beautiful and spring. But in THAT WAY💞🫶🏻🔥

[@TWUChantal]

Please open up a depop so I can buy your fun fashion ❤

[@lovejessicablair]

i linked my depop in the description! but my user is @jesssblair, i posted most of the clothes i showed in the vid :-)

[@emma3269]

@@lovejessicablair hi! I left another comment but I’m wondering if you have that one sleeve top with the faces on it? I’d love to buy!!

[@morticiatheloaf]

What is the brand of the one sleeve black top?

[@frankfart2986]

Nice work.

[@erina.arenaa]

Girlie i love this for you omg. These things are actually so helpful, like decluttering and stuff. It’s so incredibly helpful im telling you now love. Also you’re so fricken pretty, jealous as shit T-T

[@Katiesgotmail]

I really appreciate this video. You are not alone in feeling lost etc. Have you ever called a helpline? Call the local health line in our area just to chat about being lost and honestly it could help. I did that here where I live in Quebec and it felt like a weight had been lifted……please don’t do this if you don’t want to, I’m in no way telling you what to do, but since the internet is a big community but no one really knows eachother, that question remains valid and more or less all I can do. As a viewer, I LOVE your videos and YOU! If we were in the same area, I honestly would like to be your friend. But alas, we are internet strangers so I use my responsibility as a viewer to remind you what you neglect to tell yourself: you are unique, you are smart, you are struggling and beautiful and you know, that’s what life is about. I am rooting for you!!!!!! Sending peace from Quebec xoxo

[@RubyCoughDrop]

13:45: I know what you mean about injury clothes superstition. I had a horrible bike wreck in these gorgeous tan Liz Claiborne t-strap pumps and they had blood stains on them so I thought it was bad luck to wear them but also bad luck to throw them out. The top is cool though. I like that it’s a weird off center square. Also super funny to me as a 40 year old that wet seal is sought after (no shade, it’s just funny how things change)

[@lemonvp7857]

Does anyone know where I can get a shirt similar to the one at 4:41?

[@kennedyyyx615]

does anyone know her depop? i neeed that snoopy top 😫💗

[@attaboy_murphy]

it's in the description!

[@parentingadabsurdum]

❤

[@meganverne]

your closet has 2 types of clothes in it... 90s high schooler and grandmother

[@fllowerknight]

11:30 THAT'S cute.

[@bitsofbrittany]

Yea you better keep that velvet paisley top i thrifted 😠

[@martynakadela8467]

Uwielbiam Cię! Greetings from Poland ;)

[@kkazedits]

Hi

[@lovejessicablair]

hi

[@kkazedits]

@@lovejessicablair how are you?

[@straberryshinigami15g97]

why was my comment deleted 😭

[@lindsey4721]

Incoming unsolicited advice! 😅 I think when we pin our sense of self on something as fickle and ever changing as fashion it can feel like we are never our selves because we are always chasing something new to complete our look, or us. I'm not saying give up fashion, because you are a wonderful advocate and example of sexy and beautiful plus size women. But perhaps you need something else that is more constant as well to ground you. Something that is less dependent on ever shifting trends. xx

[@Deranged-Lemonade-Stand]

Are you married? Can relate and now receiving hate for not having kids and being married with a man.

[@lovejessicablair]

i've been in a relationship for 4 years but we're not married and have no plans to be! i'm sorry you receive hate, there's no one right way to live ur life and other people should never judge u for that! sending you love

[@nox4794]

yup i'm french it do mean stfu xD

[@RubyCoughDrop]

Keep snoop! Just cut off the bottom and an inch off the arms