The pain of finding out my husband has another wife in America, says he married her for papers | LNN

When Divinah heard the words, "your husband is married to a black American and has been for a long time," she could not believe her ears. It all dawned on her that she had been living a lie and that explains why he had only come to visit their quadruplets twice in 6 years
Today, she will walk us through how this man she met on Craigslist would take her round in circles, put her in debts, leave her to care for the children alone, lie that he had a heart surgery and was unable to fly out more often to finding out that he was living a double life
When confronted about it, the husband admits to being married to the black American for papers and will soon divorce her and come back to Divinah and the children
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[@LynnNgugi]

Hello team LNN, What message do you have for Divinar? You can reach her on 0725646544 To share your story with us, send an email to [e-mail] for consideration Thank you so much for watching

[@ireneleperes2997]

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[@sellahandati2843]

From the word go,I love this lady,she has been strong with very beautiful babies.her problem is she is so private,I thank God she has opened up.that is one way of healing.

[@esthergichuru4624]

That she is a strong woman more than she knows ❤️

[@peninahwanyama6451]

Let her stay strong and hustle for the kids

[@wairegijulius9587]

where is pat 1

[@sharonjumba4648]

Divinahs brother is so selfless. May he receive favour for his kindness.

[@veevictorius5116]

that brother is so loving. hosting your sister with a whole 5 kids is no joke

[@Kakwasi]

Big up brother

[@gracemurugi]

Jusper i have met this brother before...the way he bonds with Divinar kids shows alot of love..😍

[@jacklinechelangat2159]

They are twins

[@Christy-he6ry]

True

[@victoroloo5962]

Her coming out and sharing her story is the final stage of healing

[@EstherInga]

I am glad she healed, whatTttt😢

[@lydhiam.kiswii3012]

Very true, I saw another story she was saying the husband hasn't been ok and he is out of the country for medication, we live in denial when we are hurting until reality hits us so well and unless one is willing to accept the reality, they are never healed.May God keep her and he daughters

[@joansafo7831]

It never gets better and you don't heal normally what you do is to cope with it, what hurts her the most is not the fact that he's married it's the sacrifice.hug mummy 😍💕🥰

[@bettylaban9696]

@@lydhiam.kiswii3012 I even prayed for him to get well

[@CoolkenyanInisrael]

True

[@eunicewaithera8655]

The fact that so many women relate to her story is so heartbreaking

[@ellacooper-kolee6843]

This is pure stupidity.. so sad

[@mc-xe6wx]

Pole sana for what happened. You don't need to ask him for child support. You can report him to USA Embassy in Kenya. He will pay every cent from the month the kids were born according to how much he earns plus interest. Social services abroad don't play when it comes to children well being. Get that child support for your kids. Sending hugs your way.

[@esthermacharia6667]

please can you give more light on this. My niece was dumped by an Ethiopian man, she was legally married. The guy is in USA. The Embassy in Kenya said that they dont deal directly with those issues but gave a link in USA. But is there something else that you know.

[@africaine4889]

American embassy won't do zit. Eish!. They aren't married. And they will tell her to go to kenyan court

[@pheladinare2876]

I think we as ladies especially us Africans must now begin to teach ourself the difference between dating, cohabitation and marriage. Sleeping with someone and end up having children or staying together does not make you the wife. So sad for what we put ourselves through 💔

[@MyJOSE2013]

Yea the court just made that clear the other day

[@gladyskaranja5949]

My case my God come through for this lady maisha yetu African women wenye wamesoma na wenye hatujasoma Ngai akina shinda

[@Wakinyua]

But both parties should be responsible for children.

[@clementinewanjiru]

Still...whether married or not he should provide for his children.

[@martharinebiseko1457]

@@clementinewanjiru I totally agree with you

[@diananyamwamu6995]

I really appreciate your brother for taking you in with the kids. Not easy but he was ready to do it for his sister

[@marykioko7614]

Haki.... I'm telling you these gals of Divinar will one day surprise her💪🙏😍

[@michellegolding5207]

Very sad these men are everywhere tell u necessary lie😢

[@laidmylashez2564]

It's part of their culture to do this

[@shanieTemima]

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. You are a conqueror Divinah 😍

[@harryrondy6647]

😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😅 6:57 6:57

[@gahongayirelillian966]

Dear ladies out there, if a man is not providing and keeps on asking for money with a lot of excuses... from day one know he is a conman and get rid of him asap

[@annea5781]

Or in the very least not responsible. Either way, not husband material

[@gitafernandes8143]

He is just a sucker most African men are

[@nomkhosimbatha6207]

He was just a conman I'm sorry my sister

[@ndutak5690]

I learned this the very hard way...I met a conman pretending he loved me and wanted to marry me, not knowing he had another wife whom he would go sleep with when he left our home pretending he had gone to work...anyways we live and we learn, I was very bitter and still feel sick to the core when I think about it...but it's all good. What is meant for me will be for me one day 🙏🏾

[@africaine4889]

Exactly. I don't play that game.

[@giftyanntengey4464]

Anytime a male friend ask me how women are able to withstand pain, disappointment and all that, I tell them God took his time to create us. It's laughable how women send themselves flowers on valentines day and other special occasions. We buy ourselves clothes and expensive gifts and claim its from our boyfriends and husbands. We go through a lot of pain, but we are very strong and that strength is what keeps us going. Ladies, let's be supportive of each other. It's a nice feeling when others are healed and well due to our help. Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@veronicamwania9584]

The world needs to re evaluate how boys are raised

[@jacinthabrice5296]

I don't feel like being strong anymore...not a badge of honour.

[@carlcampbell4857]

You are a real woman and my god constantly bless you as a great mother

[@bontlemokhondo9342]

1700hrs,God will see you through, he is watching

[@juddykananu1630]

This is what we call strength of a woman congratulations mama for not giving up on yourself and those beautiful queens 👑👑

[@VeeOgulu]

This lady is soooooooooooo calm despite all the trauma. May love and wealth shine upon you in reckless abandon.

[@musukiawu2447]

Aameen Ya Rabi ❤

[@carlenelynch1849]

Under all that calm there could be a storm . She may go through her turmoil in silence in public then an outburst behind closed door.

[@wanjawanjiku1839]

Ave meet her in person and she is great

[@AfricanUSA-th9ov]

Calm Outside. Inside Is Stressful. Look At Her, She Looks A Little Frail

[@annea5781]

Trauma inaweza ikakukucalm, heee

[@Margart526]

So beautiful to watch, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..

[@bartholetbay412]

your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

[@Margart526]

@@bartholetbay412 Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

[@bartholetbay412]

@@Margart526 her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer

[@Margart526]

@@bartholetbay412 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.

[@hisgracesuffient6046]

Margaret I'll advise you not to pursue this spiritual advisor. I don't know of you're a Christian. You're about to open a door on your life that will cause you much heartache with empty promises. Seek God. Remember He mends brokenhearted. Look unto Him He cares for you even at this dire situation.

[@sophiemomanyi6610]

Not me going to the past video she did with Lynn and the "husband" was around. He was very strategic. He never showed his face 🤣 even when he was playing with kids in bed. He made sure he used one kid to hide his face in a very strategic way. He made Divinah look like a fool 😭. I feel her. If I was here I could go ahead and report to the embassy and ask him to pay child support. Because there is no way he has been in the US for over 2 decades and he doesn't have papers and his sister and cousin have papers. At this point Divinah has nothing to lose at all. Let her go ahead and file for child support and take it to the US embassy and they will follow up with him. Her case will be given priority as it involves children. And children take the number one priority in getting justice than any other case. Divinah take heart, you have beautiful babies and you've really done a lot raising them and you will truly hack it again and again. All the best as you take time to come up with a decision that will favor your children.

[@nyaboketinega4646]

I think she will not follow you. This girl is religious. God has been providing and he will provide But if it was me....I would have done this

[@everlynimmaculateopiyo4463]

I remember his face was not seen throughout the video.

[@annea5781]

Some people have stayed for longer and are without documents. That said, once they can travel in and out then they definitely have valid documents and yes, one should file with the embassy

[@kemmycooks8876]

Story of my life too. I can relate. I was lied to also in a long distance relationship. The guy kept on promising marriage but anytime he landed, he gave excuses. I later on discovered he is legally married in the USA with 3kids,here in kenya I was not the only girlfriend he was promising marriage either. We were many! It was a community

[@lovefelix1566]

Wow. Ssd to hear this

[@nyakwerajoy4812]

Trust me wherever he is he's not happy and will never be. Fir everything you do in life you pay for it in this planet earth. Many are like him living in USA but Karma is alive. Take heart it's gonna be fine. God doesn't make mistakes.

[@cikuciku4345]

That's why it's good for one to study men in general, when one is still single and for the longest time.....Once you've fully studied men in general, hehe you can even smell a man's nonsense from a far.... Personally I took my time enough time to study men and doing self discovery in the process it's such a good thing which can save one from troubles..... Pole.

[@Starsparkle69YT]

So sorry to hear that❤

[@stellamariskaranja1007]

It really happened to me last month,I realised through his Facebook page that he had even paid dowry in October.....I have not yet recovered.

[@sehlaboraboroko9702]

I'm a man in South Africa,I'm so ashamed by what my African brother has done to this beautiful lady but most dissappointing is what he did to his children for such a long time.I hope one day he come to his senses and do what is right for his beautiful daughters.May Gid bring sanity to him.

[@polycarp9897]

He's not an "African brother". He is an irresponsible conman. Such people never "come to their senses". She should just cut her losses and move on. He clearly wasn't looking a wife or family with her. He was just having a good time and she unfortunately got pregnant. A sensible African man wouldn't disappear and leave a woman who has just given birth to his children in hospital. Many men would gladly cover the medical bills of their aunt, sister or even friend (even if it means borrowing money). When a responsible man realizes his woman is pregnant, he begins saving money to cover the medical bills. Once this man vanished without a trace while she was in hospital, he revealed his true colors. He is irresponsible and has no interest in being a husband or a father. The sad fact is that we all make mistakes. Sometimes, we make mistakes in choosing the person we have children with. We have to own up to those mistakes, end the relationships and move on with our lives. Waiting for people to "come to their senses" is a fools gambit.

[@Friends46488]

​@@polycarp9897Very well said. Bravo. 👏🏾

[@nokuphilamkhize7954]

"Not all is lost" what a powerful statement. Love the strength in Divinah that she's even joking and laughing about this! Wow love you girl!

[@JoyJoy-xs1vx]

LADIES LADIES in 254!!!🎤 🎤.. Don't fall for men from abroad,if he's not putting a RING and want you to join him,please Think twice most of them are married here,or are in complicated situationship...OKKAY..but our gals want them regardless shauri yenu...shideni huko mkituma dunes,,

[@obarefamily]

I always tell women to be very careful with men who tell them, “I love my private life, don’t post me on social media etc”…Social media has become a vetting platform, people can easily reach out and tell you, I know the guy you posted, he is married or has kids with so and so.I have seen so many women defending their hubbies on social media, oh my hubby loves privacy, that’s why I post myself and the kids!Woman wake up!

[@chebetcarolyne1143]

Thanks to my mother inlaw for always cautioning me. As women we should not be on comfort zone thinking all is well no matter what.

[@eiilleenpambo7982]

Always know where you stand in someone's life.This guy was not her husband. Just someone she dated and got pregnant for. But what a heartbreaking story! May God continue to strengthen her. Ladies, always have your money like she said, it makes life easier esp. in her situation. It doesn't matter who your man is or what he does. You never know what tomorrow brings

[@Janetlulonde]

I have been following Divinar's story from way back when her quadraplets were still very young, watching her today i can tell she's soo low, i am sorry she went through all this, kudos to her close friends, all is not lost , May God see you through, you will manage and the babies will be fine

[@carolinemagiri2925]

True. Even her posture tells it all. She will overcome this,

[@felistuswanjiku6803]

Divina you are a strong woman may God keep strengthening you umetika mbali even taking care of the babies daily is not easy

[@carolinecongo1179]

Me too have been following her for a while thinking she was happily married, but she's been off for a while. So so heartbreaking to hear this. Waaaaa!

[@labrea654]

Keep waiting on your stupid God eh

[@selmablackstock4091]

Thanks for sharing, l pray that God will protect u n ur lovely princess.

[@ajjruu5390]

Whoever is reading this and is fighting his/her own battles silently, may God chip in.

[@ashlykho5663]

Amen

[@cathyajulo4352]

Amen

[@marymelvinnjenga2249]

AMEN

[@nalulesylivia3600]

Amen 🙏

[@angeladumbuya1609]

Amen

[@mbatiajimmy5066]

Hi Divinah! Very strong and really level headed! Some of these things are hard to comprehend. You are doing a wonderful job raising those beautiful girls. He must be accountable to his children by providing child support. American Embassy can help you to force him to support the children. Lies go both ways - because I have also been lied to by a woman.

[@emilykibicho3359]

Hey Lynn awesome job again. Please tell the this lady to ask her babies daddy to file papers for them in America if he has his citizenship. Also that man should tell his current wife that he has children because if they had joint account her income also can get affected should this mum decide to file for child/children support. Because the government will come for that money as long as his name is on it. Please if this lady knows someone here who can talk sense in to this man and convince him to atleast file for his children that will help the children in the long-term. Their beginning might have been tough but their later years don't have to be. Please mami, you don't a great job taking care of your girls but please you don't have a right to say you don't want child support from their father, you can not deny the girls that. Please in America laws are followed so don't feel intimidated about getting the girls what is rightfully theirs, a right to decent life free of financial struggle unless the father is dead yeah. But if he is still walking breathing;he has a responsibility to raise support his daughters.

[@charitynyutho5835]

*No matter who your husband is just have your money * ...a strong message here divinah

[@Joyful-gu5bj]

True. My late loving Mum advised me the same.

[@bellaash2510]

Another thing i don't understand is people carry on having kids knowing that the married is dead. Kids won't make a man stick by you. Nowadays people start dating and within a month boom.. Baby girl is pregnant sad 😔

[@jescakagwiria3773]

@@Joyful-gu5bj qQc

[@threesmallfour5978]

Charitynyutho5835 my dear you have a point

[@Joyful-gu5bj]

@@bellaash2510 I agree with you that some ladies get pregnant to have the man around.

[@iddahaleluya20]

I see myself in her story, nikama nawatch my whole life, na vyoote nilivyopitia kwenye story yake ,Ninachomshukuru Mungu my family especially my mother amenishika mkono ,I feel not abandoned

[@Deedor72]

Beautiful Bundles of Joy right there. You are an amazing lady may God bless the works of your hands, May God Grant you long life to see the fruits of your efforts, May you live to witness their graduations and much more. May you be an encouragement to people in similar situations. Your calmess is so humbling. I'm a late follower of this program but I'm blessed. God bless Lynn, and all who have walked journeys with you. Hug those children for me❤❤❤

[@Naomi-hj8ut]

I have taught my daughter to always put yourself first. You placed this man first ahead of yourself and your children

[@serahkimani8562]

As a person who lives in the US . Craigs List is a platform to be weary about most of the ads put up by people are not genuine and be ware. Also glad you are done because his lies will never end . Be careful also to not let him lie to the kids or give them false promises and end up not following through and causing emotional trauma to them as well .

[@karokaburu7532]

Well said l agree

[@catherinemuriuki1471]

Exactly Craiglist is for crooks and scammers

[@winniekarumba8408]

The Lord is your shepherd 🙏🙏

[@ItsZandrabyGrace]

So many people get killed through Craigslist. It's like it's a curse side and again it's more for selling, business and jobs type of site.

[@Phillpns413]

@serah Kimani hii mtaa uwaga very very bad walaiiii. Watu nao apa wanarushwa usiku mchana . Mambo ya love online enyewe is a no go zone KABSAAAA.

[@laciekui3347]

From 1989 in USA and he should have saved enough to even move back to Kenya,I think he is a user.

[@melankoli1225]

That man even looked old aki..... what is he still doing in America with no savings he cannot even afford a flight back..

[@laciekui3347]

@@melankoli1225 sure he seem like he wasted all his youthful life ,with ladies or drugs,or he is a criminal that he cannot even work.

[@benatalkshow]

@@melankoli1225 he was using her lol

[@janiffernyarangi2787]

Three things I have learned in life so far; 1. Whatever is meant to happen, will happen. The sooner you reconcile your mind and your reality, the more meaningful your life will be. 2. We get tested with what we judge. Be careful not to judge other people's lives 3. Your expectations for other people are yours to manage, and not for them to meet. Learn to manage your expectations for other people and you will save yourself a lot of heartache.

[@puritymbogoh2277]

No. 2 is well placed

[@puritymbogoh2277]

Pls let us learn to listen do not cover evil to remain relevant

[@marywachera2064]

Wow great,direct to the point

[@charitykinya1864]

Loving this life lessons❤

[@lydiahwachira5468]

This story is similar to mine,,i eventually left my marriage,,i really went through depression and anxiety disorders,,but i m now okay,,u will be well,,time is the key factor

[@divinarsquadruplets5431]

Thank you people i healed this has gone on for years only that i wanted to share when im fully healed i adore my girls. Even if it means walking without shoes i will to give them the best. God bless you all for the kind words. To Lynn Long life you are sinply the best.

[@koechchepkurui2208]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Hugs Divinar

[@kinglewis2816]

May God be with you divinar,fight for you,, even me I am going through the same BT oneday I will be well like you

[@rodagikundi2267]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MauaMazuri01]

Diviner so sorry to hear this because I remember you saying in another video you love your hubby he's caring loving blah blah mob so you were sugarcoating unafunukia simba pole sana, the Lord is your strength

[@debikala]

You are a true mother. I admire your strength. Love from Trinidad & Tobago 🇹🇹

[@Kasweetie_254]

This woman is strong 💯💔this story is so heartbreaking,hugs mama quads, mama Ls...

[@gracekariuki8966]

Ooh my... I now I understand you gal. My kids and yours are schoolmates. Infact my boy is a classmate to one of the gals. On their graduation I remember meeting you in the school corridors and wanted so much to say hi but I felt you were a lil reserved, I feared to intrude. Hugs dear❤. All the best! I thank God that there are some lessons you pulled from what you went through. I also thank God for the positive attitude you have to give it all for your kids.As long as your trust is in God dear, He'll see you through. They'll never lack anything . Mob love.❤

[@yvettekinchking8838]

The entire family knew about his deception. This lady is really trusting

[@liliangospelbogonko1777]

Yeah

[@gma765]

Divinar is such an amazing soul, she has stood with many women more so those suffering from cancer, she stood with the lady Nancy Jagongo until her last breath, i wanna meet her next Week

[@florencemukunya219]

Standing ovation for the friends and the support system

[@naomimuema5960]

Kudos divinar, you have passed the test my dear now wait for the elevation God is bringing your way girl. The grace of God multiplied. Be blessed.

[@terriemusingo3249]

Divinar, don't blame yourself for what happened. Forgive yourself and walk the healing journey a step at a time. It will take time but give yourself grace. You will make it big time!! Thank you Lynn for offering a shoulder to cry on. Keep up the great work..

[@jotaya]

The Divinar I saw today is not the Divinar I saw about a year ago. I told my hubby before I clicked to watch, “eish, ang’owa motimo Divinar yawa?” Translation: My goodness, what happened to Divinar? I remember how strong she seemed the last time. How supportive she was towards her “ex husband.” She seemed to be such a pillar. Today, she’s come almost as a shadow of herself yawa. But, that said and done, I put her in my prayer today. She is one heck of a strong woman. To come out like this, is the beginning of her healing. Her way to a full wholesome healing. She’ll be fine! And remember, what can God not do?! He’s taking Davinar to greater heights. To a place of victory!! Blessed and much love to her.❤

[@kalamenis]

She is not telling us abt the father of her first born. She shud not be shaming her husband like that.

[@Favouredflower]

What? Shaming? Are you serious????😮😮😮

[@trizahngari4686]

The saddest thing is betrayal comes from those we love. Healing is a process and by you speaking out means you've healed. Congratulations

[@fridahkinoti18]

'wanaume nyinyi mungu anawaona?' i was betrayed the same way by a man, fortunately i did my due diligence and i went to their home personally and confirmned indeed he married while we were dating and my son was a year older than the other boy, i thank God i accepted myself and moved on nowadays he is allover looking for me.Thank God i bounced back.

[@fridahkinoti18]

Indeed Lynn Ngugi show is a ministry and therapeutic,here we pour our hearts with zero judgement..kudos Lynn may the almighty God continue expanding your territories.🙏🙏🙏

[@evansmuchira4993]

Sio wote

[@davidyator4275]

Divinah, indeed not all is lost. You are a great lady despite the painful journey. I love what you are doing for your children and a big appreciation for all those who have supported your course. By your story, healing steps are on your way and you are about to celebrate graciously. Just continue moving on and let your children be your daily strength.

[@annaondara3021]

I’m glad to listen to this … I will definitely be reaching out to you as my son gets order for Swahili classes. I currently live in the USA but my husband and I vowed to teach our son and future children our language. He 2 now.

[@GO-dd1po]

Great story. Thanks for sharing it with the world. Thank you Lynn for bringing life changing stories to us. Well done!

[@lyn254]

Her parting shot Not all is lost as long as you are still alive That's very deep ✨

[@jaynenjenga3718]

Truest

[@lyn254]

@@jaynenjenga3718 yes it's absolutely true dear

[@Triptotraveladventures]

A very strong woman and amazing mother. May God guide her and bless her and her children ❤.

[@mercymakosi5391]

This story is almost like mine 10yrs ago I was left in Kenyatta wt a newborn in the NBU na even after coming out of hospital he never gave me any support (God hua TU mfaithful if u trust him he never leaves you alone u might go through a hard time lakini Mungu Yuko na wewe n ur kids (I wish one day I can get to share my story just to encourage someone)

[@estheragung5807]

The society see us with kids and conclude that we're were the most bad ,wicked women, that's why we were abandoned by our so called baby daddies, a man can wake up one morning and decide that he is leaving and there is nothing you can do about it,go start another family and live happily forever after like you don't even exist. This lady is one strong woman, she has 5 and she is hanging on, while there is me who has one and at times my mind comes to a standstill. I can do many things for a man but one that I vowed not to do is ,"borrowing money for him" Sina huo upako.

[@omondimillicent2736]

I always salute all single parents out there especially women,and sometimes I tell myself I'd rather have a kid/s and raise them alone rather than kusumbuana na mwanaume

[@marysinaida3320]

Tukoo wengi

[@prettyakoth2300]

Tuko wengi na tulisahau na jina ya baby Daddies tunasikilianga tu huku kwa KZbin

[@shikuliz4134]

You said it all they decide to wake up and leave you with your child and completely forgot you exist

[@cathrinewanjiru5648]

I wish we could talk more ...these things are real and all over...I now get it that am not alone in this....feel much stronger if divinar is still strong with 5...here I am with one and it comes a time when i feel like am loosing it...Its not easy after all...but one has to keep moving....

[@alicewanjiku4502]

Thanks for sharing this, you made me pull some strength and realize that after all I was not stupid after being through almost a similar situation, healing day by day

[@rukschronicles758]

Thanks Divinar. So bold of you to pour you heart out. You speak for so many of us who have been used and manipulated. Finding peace is the ultimate joy for living

[@faithkyalo2578]

True we are many

[@nancyobwoge1864]

Divinar you are a strong lady,thanks for coming out and share your story this is now the final healing process. Please be strong for your quads and there sister and may God always protect your territories and multiply it🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@WanjiruMuya]

Just finished the whole episode and my summary is the red flags are always there and we should not ignore them, him disappearing after kids were born was a red flag & i applaud Divina she did her background check and dusted herself up❤️keep winning Queen and your babies are gorgeous 😍

[@anjelineadhiambo5954]

To whoever reading this ..may the Almighty give you strength to fight hard and win the battles you tackling in silence... thanks Lynn for airing this out.

[@gladyskaranja5949]

AMEN

[@susanwanjiku5839]

Amen

[@elizabethmulwa5895]

Amen

[@millicentmillicent6165]

Amen 🙏

[@veronicaekirapa9874]

Amen

[@harrietmuteekanga9727]

Please ladies Divinar doesn't require criticism but encouragement, you might even be in a worse situation but throwing insults let's spread love and support to all mothers ❤❤❤ may God continue blessing you Divinar

[@lillianebwire4897]

Mothers are wonderful, just talk and share with them and will be surprised how helpful they are.

[@lizamutuku7015]

It's good to own up your story. May God guide you in your healing journey and raise Queens who will know how they should be treated by men.

[@eucabethmanyibe8160]

Divinah am so happy that you finally got the strength to share. This is the beginning to healing. You are indeed a strong woman.

[@jays6764]

Doesn't matter what you are going through, always remember there's nothing you can't come back from.Inside you is a power that nothing can destroy, you just need to find it!It's never easy but it's worth it!

[@kaninikaseo2743]

Divinah you are such a strong woman. I've followed all the conversation amidst lots of tears. You have really encouraged me. Kindly be stong for those lovely girls.

[@chinawomble]

HalleluYah for that friend that came and got her! I know how it is to be in such despair and to have those thoughts invading your mind. That "man" will pay for every lie that passed through his lips. He will reap all the deceit he's spread. He will feel every bit of pain he has put his children and this sister through. May Yahuah continue to bless, keep, provide for and guide you and your children Divinar 🙏🏽❤

[@alicekamau321]

All diseases he claimed to have, they'll invade him, he'll have no place to hide.

[@chinawomble]

@@alicekamau321 Every single one. The tongue is powerful and he spoke that on himself. May Yahuah have mercy on him because he's going to need it.

[@alicekamau321]

@@chinawomble so true

[@sidratulafleur2307]

He claim heart problems so shall it be. Life and death is in the power of the tongue.

[@claireninsiima73]

Am so glad she has shared, that's N01 stage to healing, her body language shows she needs help, she's still frustrated..may God heal her 🙏

[@ddm4622]

Correct..it's final stages of healing, not first step. She's been healing.

[@Sonoiya_Towett]

Actually it's the final stages of healing... acceptance and talking about it.

[@danielahTZ]

It’s hard to heal completely after this type of betrayal and abandonment. If you haven’t been through it you couldn’t possibly understand.

[@angelakawooya281]

Bravo Divinah, thank you so much the brother and friends of Divinah, may God bless you. It's not easy, unfortunately those who love genuinely and innocently suffer so much at the hands of these snipers, because they are calm, seemingly diplomatic but full of lies. The pain sinks really deep because it is always prolonged, and before you actually get to analyze the situation and accept the truth. You tend to instead want to protect your abuser, sadly! I wish people would stop telling lies in relationships, it just destroys the person so deeply, it drains, makes ill and may kill Please be true and don't lie, if you do, please stop.

[@pauline486]

This host is awesome. She listened and gave sound advice. Keep the door open for love. Divinar, you are appreciated

[@beahjnr1860]

If he left kenya 1989 huyo ni muguka thought nikijana amekaa 🇺🇸 like 10yrs?🤔,he's acting like boy yet nimzeee,why could he denie his kids honestly?he should be ashamed of himself somebody who's more than 50yr..

[@dorothy6442]

This lady is blessed beyond words.. Let the guy go. These kids will surprise you someday.... Hugs all the way

[@colenehull1274]

That was a powerful story I wish her all the best for her and the kids you will not only survive but you will thrive

[@catherinenjuguna188]

No one is talking about the great gifts and blessings in her life...the kids.They are so beautiful and perfect..God gave you everything when He gave those kids...you shall overcome...may your favour be multiple like your kids.

[@nwanzeemmanuella5302]

Sadly there were so many red flags Mama but when good people are really in love, things like these may happen. Pretty Divina, you are an an amazing person. Please don't allow what you have been through make you feel less of yourself. You beautiful children are your greatest treasures & by GOD'S grace, they will not let you down Amen. May GOD alone continue to keep you all Amen. ❤️❤️❤️ & Light from Nigeria

[@waruguruwinnie5819]

This is an eye opener interview. Those who think children can keep a marriage you need to think twice. This one has five and things went South

[@hlengiwemasondo2858]

In my country many children are known to ruin a marriage

[@missk8647]

It's like children make men run away from marriages, nowadays.

[@carlycallie2633]

But she gave birth to quadruplets

[@barbaramabuda9512]

@@missk8647 kkkkk

[@lorielogan1816]

​@@missk8647 There is a difference between a man vs boy. A boy trapped in a grown man's body will run away but a real man will be responsible for his family or children and not play childish games like boys.

[@GodfreyKironde]

my sisters, I'm in the USA and can attest that most men here are either married or in situationships, you have to join him, or he has enough savings to come back home or else be shocked that they are living a double standard life. Marriage here is for business. Too sad

[@betalife4women]

Lynn, you are such a fabulous interviewer! So proud of you. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤❤❤❤❤

[@fredrickndeto4444]

Tafadhalini leo nmefika mapema nepeeni likes

[@eunicekesa4426]

Aki people stigmatize single moms without knowing their stories … this man is horrible

[@catem3595]

I tell you,, being called all sorts of names without knowing the reason

[@ananciataodindo7044]

@@catem3595 That’s very true but she was very naive sincerely speaking all those type of lies one can wake up and start to ask yourself questions ?that part she even borrowed 100000 ksh I felt like I will scream

[@kobifm]

I hate this name "single mum"Single parent.whoever judge n hate the wakaskie vibaya naukoooo,

[@Jojo-pv3uf]

If you had babies before marriage, you deserve the stigma. This is not what we want as a society and as women we have to start raising the standard to “no ring no babies”.

[@catem3595]

@@ananciataodindo7044 love makes one do stupid things ,,I used to give my hubby money hadi I bought a plot and I changed title to his name since he's the head of family ..but I don't regret I was into marriage fully and wanted to emute my parents but hooked up with a joker..saa hii nipatane na mwanaume hata Bob siwezi mpea

[@josephinejosephine420]

My sister salute your brother for taking care of you and the children. He is one in a million. May GOD see you and the kids through.

[@bridgettesingh9600]

Strength of a Woman.. Davinah your story has hit me hard but a lot Eye opening. I pray that you and your children will lack nothing onward. Blessings to your Brother, your Friends and well wishers. First time watching this program and I'm not disappointed. Thank you so much Ms Lynn Ngugi... Nuff Jamaica 🇯🇲 luv ❤️ to you.

[@WanjiruMuya]

Divina is such a strong woman❤️infidelity hurts and you are never the same after you discover that💔

[@Pauline77203]

Kaswwwt ulieda wapi

[@susanwanjiku5839]

Ooh 💔

[@zalwango73]

You can say that again. It hurts in a different way. It's never the same again, never ever.

[@rose-ou1di]

I just follow your comments,you so real

[@gladysmoraa4818]

Life in America is challenging

[@kukhu5221]

The moment you discover someone's been cheating, that headache never stops. The confusion. You call and call and even pretend that you are okay. However, it's never the same. Instead of praying to mend th relationship, you instead should pray that God helps you find yourself. After that, you'll never look back. Ps. It's not all about leaving but healing sanely.

[@neslynreid918]

SUCH A STRONG WOMAN. YOU ARE A MOTIVATOR. CONTINUE TO BE STRONG . YOUR KIDS ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL. GOD BLESS.

[@beatricejoymbabazi2161]

What an inspiring and educative story. Your guest, l call her "a mother of 4nations!" She should be very pound for mothering her quadraplets so well as a single parent. At God give u the joy, peace and provision by blessing the work of your hands/skills. It's unfortunate that the father of your children is not committed to your relationship from the word go. So sad that he can't be proud of being a father of such beautiful kids. He is nassistic, liar and don't put your heart on him. Only God can change him, continue praying as u do your own things. Its tough but our God is a big God and where u stop is where God starts. May Wr be touched to send support this great young and beautiful pound

[@user-ox8po6kf4f]

😅😮 1:25:36

[@shishmag9734]

That's why I tell people keep on checking on your friends kwanza those who seem like they have everything together another thing ata kama your husband is providing everything atleast have your own source of income as a woman ata kama you are getting 50 bob. You are a strong woman Divina,may the Lord protect you and your babies and may Gods favor be upon you and may you never lack.

[@wambograce]

The pain of betrayal hurts so much especially when it's coming from your close and people you trusted... sending love and prayers your way 💔🥺🙏

[@netas.2620]

I thank God for this story, and I wish I could understand you when you speak your language. This lady is so strong, and I thank God for her telling her truth.

[@regina2989]

Such a strong woman you are,May God give you more Grace @Divinar ,we shall live to see God's Glory manifest in your life through those kids.

[@tripletsfoundationfpb9852]

I feel you my dear sister, Be strong,As a mother of triplets I know exactly what you are going through Break Up, Deadbeat dad It's sucks Especially us with the multiple babies, A time I feel exactly what you are saying dear I would encourage you with one thing (Don't give up on God) my dear God will reward us for taking care of these children.> It's not easy at all But God will give you the strength Sending hugs 🤗 mommie

[@lifewithesther6790]

Let's appreciate this lady Divinar, she's is strong and resilient, no one could even tell she was going through all this, never be quick to judge unless you know their story

[@williammusanje7058]

Lynn Ngugi you are an amazing interviewer, you deeply listen,give time for the interviewee! I wish many others listen and take it from you especially Ugandans! Long live.

[@cessniel2863]

All through the interview my heart was beating so fast. She is a strong woman and thumbs up to the circle of friends. Haki mapenzi wewe

[@hannahfrancis9351]

May I start by congratulating you Lynn??Coz mahn!!!the work you do is no joke.You are the strongest,brave, beautiful and kind-hearted human I've ever come across.I always pray for you cz I know the burden that you carry is not easy.God bless you

[@faithgatwiry]

Men will embarass you!! Youll love them whole heartedly and still treat you like you dont matter.. shame on him

[@user-kd9tx2tm7z]

I can relate to what she went through. I experienced a similar thing. I think the grace of Godwas upon me and I managed to redirect and further my studies and was economically self sufficient. It is really hard but finally Godis a healer. You really need Godon your side. You gain wisdom from such experience and God will you you to save many women from hardship. Remember joseph.. . Allthings work together for God for those that he loves and are called accordingto his purpose. I think there an annoitin on yor life. God bless you my sister.

[@noncebabewana9028]

Thanks Lynn for bringing this story. You have great listening skills and an non-evaluative attitude l appluade you. You show so much empathy to your guests and respect.🎉🎉🎉❤❤

[@eomondi7019]

Kudos to team Lynn, I must say Divinar is a very strong woman, if you look and listen to her one can tell she is calm and has gone through alot... The God Who has walked with her ever since, is still the same who will continue holding her hand and sending the right people at the required time

[@naomigodwin1001]

I can relate to her story...my baby daddy came to see the baby after one year and a month...till today he saw her only four times before she turns even two years...now she is four years no dad at all...am hustling now as a single mom...keep pushing Davinnah u r strong and blessed so your Five gals...hugs😘😘😘

[@elizabethwanjiru5141]

What about us we are turning 2 yrs and he has never bothered to see her😭it's painful

[@omondimillicent2736]

@@elizabethwanjiru5141 take heart ❤️

[@theculturequeen1568]

My daughter just turned 9 and the father has never seen her or supported us.We live by God's Grace

[@tummyandweightlosebylizzy6459]

Go go girl😘 congratulations 🎉

[@pamtoka2988]

​@@theculturequeen1568😢what do you tell her about the dad when she asks questions?

[@Linda_Lineo_Mvusi]

Whoah 😮! This is a lot! 🤦🏾‍♀️.... Prayers up for this Single-Mother-of-Quadruplets and big love to her supportive brother.

[@josephinenamwanda6633]

A very touching story indeed. A lesson to all our girls is to be patient and to stand your ground until you have known the man well. I was once there when one would feel like if I miss this man that was going to be the end but I thank God for my mom who always encouraged me to wait on God for the right time and the right person. As for you Divinar, thanks for sharing your experiences. I like your friends, they are such a blessing. May Jehovah God Almighty bless you all

[@sharonadhiambo961]

You're a strong woman Div..i remember the time i was homeschooling the quads..you never treated me ill..I'll forever be grateful mama..

[@jenniferrobert4988]

God bless you much for that

[@kenyakalex3433]

How can I connect with her. My daughter needs to learn swahili

[@gazashow22]

Be blessed for what you did.

[@Kasweetie_254]

Some things are hard to share especially when people know something different from what you truly know 😭💔

[@ashamohamed8106]

I can relate to this story because my abuse lasted more than 10 years. I’m now over it but it can be very traumatic. For me I had to loose all I had earned single handed. He took my properties because he has guns and guards. But in all things we have to thank God. I came out strong.

[@Roza_Victorious]

Yes, we thank God for your life. Where there is life there is hope. You're more than a conqueror, me re than a victor ijn 🙏

[@nettyzhuwarara3948]

Dating online is risky, despite some successful stories. You hardly know the person and sleeping with him should be done with precaution and protection. This case is unfortunate because now they are beautiful, innocent children involved. My sister, may God give you strength to bring up those girls into formidable young women. And you can do it!They need help psychologically, to deal with the absent father. May God bless the girls with a successful future.

[@2511nana]

Same here, I lost 2 properties,sold it and went to Africa to marry another. Left me with 4 kids