why men push good women away

[@dinab.1478]

Great advice. Be careful who you let into your life and trust with your heart. Stay away from men who don’t respect your boundaries or refuse to grow, loving yourself comes first.

[@JackieAje]

Absolutely. ❤

[@jennyfromthablock]

I take it a step further a say most people today aren’t just toxic they’re actually not healed. Whether it’s from their string of bad relationships or their complicated relationships with their parents. And you can’t fix them by treating them well. In fact they chase after people who are a reflection of themselves ; not healed. It’s better to give them space to heal themselves and focus on a person who is healthy who can actually appreciate another healthy person.

[@Nellyc1]

I’ve absolutely noticed that too! Most people nowadays have been hurt by others or by their friends and family and are only acting the way they do because they haven’t healed or haven’t learned how to😕 it reminds me of how abused dogs become aggressive and distrusting toward humans, and humans act the exact same way when they’ve been hurt too.

[@Innovativefocus]

But if you are not healed then you are still toxic.

[@DiViNELOVE7-77]

@@InnovativefocusNo one’s fully healed, doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re toxic. Those that don’t project their trauma onto others are just people that figured out how to control it.

[@MaynardsSpaceship]

​@@InnovativefocusSo have you healed 100% of your traumas or are you toxic? You have very black and white thinking and you end up painting yourself into a corner by being this way.

[@LivinglifewithBre-l1m]

Father Alex taught us a lesson right off of his refrigerator lol This man is gold ❤

[@McKayla_Maroney]

😂didn't even realize this lolol

[@consciouszipporah]

@@McKayla_MaroneyMe neither! That’s how good he is 🤣

[@jenniferpoitier]

Alex, I started watching you during the pandemic you are growing so much as a man your consciousness is clearly expanding. I love the way you’re approaching the material content and data. I think it’s fabulous your leveling up and it’s helping us level up as well.

[@McKayla_Maroney]

honestly, this was really helpful, and gave me some peace of mind.

[@Fulani_Gal78]

You have a lot of wisdom! He is speaking the truth ladies!

[@maryfiero8122]

Hurt peoole hurt people. Stay away from hurt people

[@Mary-K-Green.]

The writing on the refrigerator though 😂😂😂😂

[@mtrobinmtrobin]

Thanks!

[@cosmospray]

Thank you I needed that badly tonight

[@mpp8401]

Hang in there❤

[@uhhhum]

you gave me a peace of mind, majority of the crowd and those who have reached out to me lately show signs of out of nowhere disinterest or no show leaving me questioning my own psyche , wears you out too much

[@Music4Life4035]

I can listen to you all day. Thank you for the advice!! 😁

[@ZeeTheGreat333]

This fridge board is so cute 😂

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

Let the toxic be with the toxic then... Problem solved..... 😊

[@trinigirl7846]

A really deep and great video. So many gems

[@SistahJay27]

Father, Brother, Professor, you on point I appreciate you validating us. I am grateful for you. The Lord is using you in an amazing way. I have a greater understanding of how some men operate.

[@greatminds00]

Speaking facts 💯 love your videos, and how every video is in different places .

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

I appreciate that

[@superpoodlehead]

❤❤❤❤Very insightful! More please, Father Alex! 😍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@tinyaisle]

This came in at the right time. Thank you

[@mobee7613]

That explains exactly why he behaves that way, thank you Alex ❤

[@agnezflo2009]

Thankyou Alex. I am experiencing many times, man leave me when I only have good intention and treat them well. Eventually, they always come back and ask forgiveness. Its real tho. Anyway, justice for the refrigerator.

[@lady_nostalgic]

did you really write on your fridge? 😅 you‘re too funny!!! 😂

[@MoonlightWhispererEnergy]

😂😂

[@wwhyk1459]

😂😂😂

[@Pretty-Ella.]

Literally came at the perfect time for me❤️

[@walkaminutewithme4787]

I would wear a dress and be happy you asked me too 🤗

[@Itspaolatina]

10:37 lol when You tell people not to text You anymore be sure they Will text You for a really long time

[@Tdywo6]

Good setting for video

[@debdesper9963]

Good stuff,Thank you ❤

[@aquaariescan6825]

One of your best ones

[@SR-hl5ce]

Love your smile 😘

[@nickeyivy721]

I've felt that tripping.. 😅❤

[@natnat_o3]

He came back two days ago after I cut contact and I said ‘still BYE’ 😂

[@ratansonigara]

don’t read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki if you’re fine staying like everyone else, it’s not for you.

[@TheVioletWolf]

Thank you, I needed this.

[@makeishainniss2440]

Yes I enjoyed this video, lots of good nuggets

[@softlife45]

​@MindfulAttraction2.0 Alex ur right u have to dress with class at an upscale restaurant. Reading the room is essential

[@Fernanda-cn9jd]

Good video.

[@peacekisses]

She played you at your own game 😂😂😂

[@Nellijah.]

I love you ❤thank you

[@christinamason3297]

Thank you!!

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

You're welcome!

[@NuraM444]

isreali resturant? what do they serve?

[@louisaklimentos7583]

I am still with my husband after 33 years and I put up with his ADHD

[@Ruthforme]

TY bc I just blocked one of these immature fools!✋😮‍💨

[@mg5570]

Wish you lived in Dallas.

[@shadeofpink1]

I think the girl you went out with who did not like the suggestion of a dress would have been more positive if you explained why you wanted her to wear a dress.The occasion rather than just asking to wear a dress.I think you jump from one woman to another.

[@MySideHustleStash]

Childhood trauma

[@bellabwz]

Selfish is not my high..i feel more happier if both side happy. And i am sure i will mind man who has same mindset as mine.

[@audriiiiroberts3030]

14:01 so true 💗 that was so genuine

[@loveonmars999]

i luv u Alex

[@GHOSTVENOM2999]

I don't trust women enough to be in a relationship anymore, I rather have a pet cat instead of somebody who isn't loyal and trustworthy enough to wufe up

[@wwhyk1459]

Next write on your bathroom wall 😂😂

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

You see you going to get me kicked out of this place

[@wwhyk1459]

@MindfulAttraction2.0 🤭🤭

[@angeleka8465]

We miss the outdoor setup !! It was such a vibe :/

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Jesus, it's only one day.

[@softlife45]

Who is we? Speak for yourself. I like his switch up in location

[@PsychotherapywithNichola]

I would have reacted the same way - don't tell me what to wear. That's controlling - maybe you should look at your conversation skills.

[@zaheenwahid6904]

Honestly I would too. I agree with you.

[@zaheenwahid6904]

It’s sexist to tell a woman to wear a dress

[@violastern22]

True.. Telling someone what to wear and asking them if they'd be willing to are two different things. To boss someone around is bs never mind to do that crap after a week of or so of knowing them. To hell with that.

[@zaheenwahid6904]

@@violastern22 yeah there’s a lot of covert and internalized misogyny that are programmed into men and women, so the girl calling that out isn’t toxic, it’s empowering actually. Maybe she could’ve explained her reasoning behind it but also why don’t people understand this? It’s 2025 people. There’s nuances and gender is a construct.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

You guys must be out of your damn minds. Sometimes people request that you wear something because some restaurants have dress code policies. If that truly offends you then you got bigger issues. Y'all tripping

[@Megamindisgreat]

L

[@simoaneholmes4917]

Because they don't like them

[@gina7896]

OMG .....Pen and note pad

[@Serah-pq1cw]

Unfollowed. Israeli restaurant? lol

[@luisalphahernandezomega1704]

*NICE GUYS DELIBERATELY PUSHING GOOD WOMEN AWAY....???*

[@tobe-you-tube6612]

Location is bad