Mama Michelle’s Feelings Got Hurt, Apology In Order 😞

[@SOCO1992]

I LOVE your mom! She is so good hearted. I remember watching her once on the Merv Griffin Show in the early 70’s and he posed a question about Mama Cass’ weight and Michelle immediately called him out on it. He started to justify his question but she wasn’t having any of it so he backed off. I’ve admired her from that day on for speaking up for her Good friend. My heart is full that you both feel secure enough to videotape an apology, forgiveness and love. ❤️❤️❤️ Way to go Chynna!

[@Falling_Star_Catcher]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ginaferracini9375]

Your mum is an awsom mother and so beautiful 💖 bless her glad she got that pill out of your mouth!

[@ReviewsChannel-e4r]

I'm surprised Michelle didn't call Merv out for being light in the loafers and see how gas lighting feels. It sucks.

[@StillYHWHs]

I was 110 pds when a friend of mine and his friends made fun of my friend. She was at least 300pds. It was very upsetting. I called them out. They said they could not understand why A beautiful person like me would want to hang and be seen with her. The fact is. She was snow white in coloring and very beautiful. Just over weight. I no longer wanted any of their friendships. Beauty is on the inside that counts the most. When cancer effected my weight. Everyone said I had let myself go. People are way too often cold hearts and rude. Doctors taking out organs that never needed to come out. Effected my looks way more. Toward the negative. I was then treated by all. Like I was a lost. One woman actually told her child not to go near me. She did not want her to catch my cancer and That God was punishing me. Yes. This stuff is the least that happened in my life. No one has a right to do these things, nor say these things to anyone. No one stood up for me. They looked shocked and a few laughed. Michelle and my daughter were the only ones I ever saw that stood for others. When this happened to others.

[@ReviewsChannel-e4r]

@@StillYHWHsThank you so much for your post and for reminding people that what's truly beautiful emanates from the inside. I was skinny over half my life and in later years when I put on lbs, I found out how differently people treat you when you're overweight. It isn't just about whether you're good looking or not, it's also about size. How shallow. I'll take substance over surface any day.

[@LisaLGruman]

What a delight to get to know Mama Michelle better. A dear conversation.

[@breezyvibe]

It was a treat. It was nice of them both to have made the vid.

[@deniseganey6890]

Important milstone,so much tenderness.

[@christinesusianto1480]

An absolute legend she is. Please do more videos like this they are gems to be treasured!

[@kimkesler821]

Oh yes I agree

[@skeeterstevens7083]

As we get older your equilibrium gets sensitive..so watch how you hold your head , mostly in the ears

[@mikedee1]

Even his mother in law loves him. Way to go Billy!

[@kellybode4812]

Mike, I know , thats great !

[@wildhorses6817]

♥️

[@christiegibson4069]

I just found your channel. I love love love you Lady's.

[@ReviewsChannel-e4r]

I feel for her having a brother in law named Alex and that tragedy. That's too much for anyone to deal with. RIP

[@julieroberts8398]

Your Mom is more charming and more beautiful than ever. She’s helping me make peace with aging!

[@elizabethbeth9930]

You never process your mom dying, there is no Luxury. There’s nothing like a mother’s love, you’ll never get over it.

[@juliasharon5337]

That's how i feel lost my mom October 16th - the kindest soul and i lived with her- i am disabled. i am lost without her and so scared

[@shyman99]

I have a little secret to share. A few years ago a special two CD set was released of Mama's & Papa's music. Those who ordered were put in a drawing and 100 people received a free autographed copy by Michelle. Well, as a huge fan I ordered and crossed my fingers. My CD arrived and not only was there one autographed booklet, but TWO! They mistakenly sent me an extra booklet. I felt a bit guilty for keeping it, but then realized I am probably twice the fan and would enjoy it twice as much. And I have! I cherish both booklets. Thank you Michelle and also Chynna for allowing us the privilege of seeing Mama Michelle with those awesome braids!

[@mistersurrealist]

I love that mono collection. I have the CDs but no autograph for me. :(

[@getlauriekor]

She’s a beautiful woman. We all make mistakes. But your mom loves you so much.

[@Purify123]

Nothing that Chynna has ever said has made me think poorly of her mom.

[@herewegokids7]

No its been clear that the dad was the main problem

[@freshbeanne]

She didn't know where Chynna was quite often and her stories mention Michelle with her friends, not answering the phone stuff like that and I can understand how her mother felt hurt. She's not unreasonable in her reaction.

[@sassysandie2865]

@@amberlance182 that was a long time ago and many of us did stupid things at age 16, myself included. Long ago she was a beauty and in the limelight with a lot of attention from famous men. I wouldn’t want to be judged now based on who I was years ago. Michelle doesn’t know Jesus but she seems like a kind and caring mom.

[@vickimanager]

I suppose we can all say that she "did her best" even though by any standard, that wasn't to even a basic level for a healthy child to be raised. However, Chynna is learning to love, accept and forgive her own self through her devotion to god, therefore, she has the capacity and the space to love, accept and forgive her mother.

[@sassysandie2865]

@@vickimanager we don’t know the details and it’s not really our business. We are all imperfect moms but most of us would die for our children and love them.

[@debbiegrant6713]

I was in tears throughout this whole video. Having been raised in a somewhat similar situation, I can totally relate. Your mom has always been so interesting to me and she was such a huge part of my growing up and she was a fixture of American pop culture to be sure. I would love it if you had her on more to show what she does with her time and her observations, what she reads, etc. She saw and experienced so much and I just think there is a lot to learn from people in her shoes who experienced what she did. Thanks so much for these videos and sharing with us. 💜

[@jamesstuart446]

Hi Debbie

[@deedee9312]

She is a brilliant classy lady ❤

[@ReviewsChannel-e4r]

She was a teen child when John Phillips met her. That has a life long effect on women claimed by older men. The list of older men grooming teen brides endless. Parents don't let this happen to your teen daughters. It robs them of their teen years and influences mindset for life.

[@artandculture5262]

My mother isn’t like that. I can’t imagine having a soft and loving mother.

[@leftykeys6944]

You are not alone.

[@VelvetJazz]

Yes, me too. Watching this was balm for my soul.

[@newlife8318]

She would be if you watch this and do this togethrr

[@katzwhite5962]

Im the same as you. My mother is not soft and fluffy. Could never sit and chat with her.

[@ginaferracini9375]

My mum's definitely not like this.

[@karenbrajak4032]

I could listen to Michelle talk forever....I lost my Mom at 14, it is now 52 years later and I have never gotten over it. For those who are lucky enough to have their parents, cherish them. Thank you for your beautiful videos. XO

[@11candy11]

I lost my sister when I was 17 and lost my mom when I was 30. I’m now 64, and like you, I’ll never get over it 🥲

[@karenbrajak4032]

@@11candy11 I thought nothing could compare with the loss of my Mom, but in the past few years I have lost 2 brothers, my sister, several close friends and worst of all, my daughter who was 29. I know I will never recover from that. I am sorry for your losses and I understand. HUGS

[@sassysandie2865]

@@karenbrajak4032 so very sad for you.❤️😥

[@11candy11]

@@karenbrajak4032 🥲🥲🥲🥲💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏

[@elizabethbowie9753]

I lost my Mom when I was 51. It doesn't matter if you're 10 or 50+! No Age is a good age to lose your Mom.😔😔😔

[@MDWJS]

Your Mum is so beautiful, and her eyes show the beauty in her heart.

[@nerminemedhat9542]

This woman is beautiful. You are so lucky, Chynna. Be grateful for having your mom and Billy..two amazing people

[@melodycope4075]

Chynna should not have to apologize for speaking on behalf of her childhood. As to her mother making the comment "you have to be careful of what you say because you don't want to hurt your mother's feelings"; is manipulative behavior and what keeps many adult children from healing their childhood trauma/wounds because of the guilt of hurting a parent. Chynna made a comment that her mother was distracted during her childhood, Michelle ignored her daughter and went into her story; without any validating her daughter's childhood experiences.

[@paulawhipple6873]

Chynna, Can you please have your mom share some more great stories from her days with the Mamas & Pappas ? I’m a HUGE fan and I love hearing your mom share the stories from her music days

[@lilactreehouse]

I really respect that you don't talk politics on this channel. Thank you for being wise Chynna.

[@tschouten1]

I am so sick of politics this year🤦‍♀️

[@cathypaul5349]

Amen!!

[@GROOVYJOJO]

Hell yeah!🤣🤣💛

[@kimfrank2417]

Me too

[@janadickey4378]

Yes. We definitely don't all agree. But that's America. ♥️

[@nr1785]

Can Michelle do a video about how she rebuilt her life in that ten year period after having to leave her husband? It would help a lot of women to motivate them.

[@elizabethbeth9930]

Yes ❤️❤️❤️

[@joecamacho3166]

Worlds coolest mom there

[@thomasbickston8737]

My daughters are dead. Both of them. My Jamie died at the age of 24 in 2002, and my daughter Alyssa died at the age of 31 last year. Our relationships were tight. I loved them both more than life.

[@cindylou3404]

Lost my daughter in 2017, 37 yrs old, then lost my son in 2020. He was 41. I'll never be the same..God bless you, it's a club neither of us wished to join 💕 I believe we will be with them for eternity, praise Jesus ❤

[@galtx91dw49]

So very sorry for your loss😔.

[@ChynnaPhillipsBaldwin]

My heart rests on yours ... my goodness, what a loss.. I send you MUCH LOVE....😔❤️‼️

[@Kelkel-lg5lh]

My deepest condolences

[@MaryJaneTheGoddess]

To everyone here who lost a child, my heart breaks for you. Know that they are with daily, just in a different way. Your loved ones are with you when a memory crosses your mind and makes you smile and or feel that warmth in your heart. They are with you when your crying and something they would have said to you crosses your mind. It's them trying to say I'm here, I Love You, it will be ok. It can be the type of bird or butterfly that reminds you of them. Pay attention they'll give you signs. Its a gift from God because trust me they show up right when you need them. They'll support you through you stuggles and see all the triumphs that go on. They will greet when your time comes. I'm so sorry for you all and wish I had the right words, but in these situations so few say everything perfect but know that we pray for you all. StaySafe&Blessings🦋

[@daynashannon9679]

That heartfelt visit with your mom was precious. Her face lit up so much when y’all started singing. So sweet. Peace of Christ!!! ❤️

[@susancahill4018]

I could listen to Michelle speak all day. Her heart is as gentle as her voice. She comes across as being very relaxing to be around.

[@pamabbey3057]

Why does she sound drunk? Why doesn’t anyone say anything? She is slurring her words! Why doesn’t anyone address this? Oh, yes… Everything is fine, but in reality, it’s not. I should not be on this site. Everyone seems to not be addressing the elephant in the room. Bye, bye. Best to you.

[@JEHOVAH485]

@@pamabbey3057 it doesn't mean she's drunk. Assumptions are the lowest level of knowledge held to yourself unless you have proof.

[@sharoncrawford3042]

My mom is gone now. I wish she were here. Nobody like a mom. My mom was a christian and a really good mom. Shes in heaven now. Been 14 yrs. Im 64, and Im a christian thanks to my mom.

[@mistiquefire3462]

Ack

[@stevenvermaas2327]

I never get enough of Michelle. She’s so awesome ❤️

[@kimfrank2417]

Love the videos with Michelle I hope she does more

[@stevenvermaas2327]

@@kimfrank2417 Oh, me too!

[@Joannemck1]

Your beautiful mother was the beauty of her day and for years after. She was cool and what every young girl wanted to look like. And the most beautiful clear voice! She really loves you...written all over her. Cherish her

[@jcbear8632]

You guys are so sweet! I miss my mom so much!! It’s been 32 yrs. I miss her every day. So nice to see your relationship and how much you love each other. ❤️

[@melanies9010]

Your mother has aged so beautifully, still a stunningly beautiful and elegant woman!!!

[@dollymadison2397]

She REALLY is!

[@jimnething1264]

true :)

[@justranda1]

So agree..

[@shannondavidson1886]

Who cares about beauty and elegance it is about souls and behavior.

[@davisworth5114]

@@shannondavidson1886 Amen Shannon keep it real.

[@slewis4275]

Your mom is a hoot! Every time I see her, I'm struck by her intelligence, practical words and humor. No wonder the world fell in love with her in the 60s❤️. I raised my 4 children as a single Mom and their adult perspectives on my choices can hurt my feelings, sometimes...so I get it. Chynna, you are a living doll..."your Mama did good" as my grandmother used to say. God love you both.

[@pamabbey3057]

I am proud of you that you did say the reality that you were hurt by your mom. You are so brave. You are real. I am a Christian. God helps those who helps themselves. I hope you Mother gets help. I am sorry that you have suffered in childhood. There is no reason to keep on suffering. An intervention might be appropriate. It is all in God’s hands. Our hands also are part of God. If everyone wants to deny your mother is abusing alcohol, everyone can. She is in a video with you and she cannot even stop drinking. I feel she is not respecting you. Yes, your mother loves you and you love her. Does she love herself enough to stop drinking and stop hurting you. It must break your heart to see her drinking. You need no forgiveness.You are perfect the way you are in God’s eyes. You were right to speak up. You want to save your mother’s life. You want the best for her. I see the love you have in your heart, by trying to deal with reality. Stay strong. Keep on being real.

[@robin-chat2812]

I've never seen your mother as a villain. Your stories are your stories, good, bad, and ugly just like everyone else. Love your mom

[@yesitsme4276]

Unlike so many that only portray the good side of life California Preaching is like a breath of fresh air. It shows that no matter what your status in life is we are all striving to find the peace that only God can give.

[@johnlewinski6359]

Michelle has a lot of great stories.

[@kingdomartist]

I just loved this Mama and daughter chit chat on the back porch together. I'm 50, my mom is 75 and we have these talks too. My mom sometimes says to me, she and my dad did the best they could for me and my sibs. It pulls on my heart. You both looked so beautiful together.

[@marlonbrando5342]

Every child deserves a father and a mother...Awesome Chynna!!!!

[@elizabethbeth9930]

My mom died when My mom was 4, my dad raised me. Your mom sounds so sweet ❤️

[@marilynjones6111]

Chynna, you need to stand in your truth, as a child your reality was different than your mom’s. I think you and your mom should have a heart to heart about how you feel, but not on camera. My mom passed away 2 years ago, she was 90, the best thing I could say at my mom’s going home was, “there were no regrets”. I have a 39 year old daughter and she has told me of things that hurt her during childhood, I never knew. I knew I was not the best mother, but because we talked about it, we came to understand each other better. My daughter and I have an awesome relationship, I have had to learn so much about forgiveness, mostly forgiveness for myself. Chynna, praying that you will find forgiveness for the little girl who felt abandoned and forgiveness for the momma who was maybe too busy to see her need. Forgiveness is so freeing, writing this with tears in my eyes, because I truly understand. Sending much love your way. Peace of Christ. Blessings.

[@paulnodalo9130]

It looks to me that John wasn't ready for change at that time so Michelle headed for Malibu with very little money. God bless Michelle, she was a strong mother.

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

I was looking for this comment Marilyn. I agree with everything you said. I am also a mother and sadly had to divorce my kids father (abuse involved) and yes. I made plenty of mistakes as a parent and it is hard to hear this from them but it is so important to respect and validate their experiences.

[@nancycobb4479]

Amen.

[@stacynels4]

Scorpio moon: On camera learns those whom are momentarily afraid to find a way of support believing instead in false "no one knows what I am going through".

[@krisak7395]

My mom, made a lot of mistakes. She did the best she could with the resources and support she had available. My dad was there growing up but not really. My mom did everything and drank to deal with her issues. My dad left me to deal with everything when my mom got sick with cirrhosis. I have kids now, my oldest has a kidney transplant. I’ve made mistakes in being a parent, in life.....maybe we all need therapy. Chynna- stand by your truth but maybe your mom didn’t know the things that hurt you, maybe she was doing the best she could and she made mistakes. It’s good to see y’all together and just talking openly!!

[@jenniferashley99]

Chynna, I thought I was alone in my tears thinking the times we have with our parents are limited. My mom is 75 and lately when I leave her house, I cry. I cherish my time with her, and it scares me thinking of a time when I won't be leaving her home after spending the day with her. ❤❤❤ love my mom!! moms are the best.

[@elizabethbowie9753]

I know how you feel. I was close to my mom. Today, I am 66. My Mom was only 68 when she passed away, suddenly. I have lots of her things, but, things (obviously) can Never replace Mom.

[@davisworth5114]

What if your mom was a hagged out loser?

[@amyfionna]

I have to say something, Chynna. I mean no disrespect to your mom. This is not meant to be maligning. I carry baggage from my childhood also. My mom was married 7 times. We moved all the time. My mom was always estranged from at least one member of our family. I had no sense of self or identity. I was constantly assimilating and just trying to survive. I don’t recall my mom being a big presence in my life even though I passed her in the hall. It was a lonely life and I’m still dealing with the fallout. Your feelings are valid. Children need stability and a safe space. When we don’t get that we have low self esteem, no confidence, anxiety and depression issues, etc. My mom and I have always had a strained relationship. It’s been volatile at times. My anger and resentment has always been just underneath the surface. I’ve tried to talk to my mom about it. She immediately got defensive and angry. She shut me down every time. She invalidated my feelings and made me feel like total crap. In the end...I would be apologizing to her. That’s not ok. Not for me and not for you. I can’t speak to our mom’s motivations. I don’t know what’s truly on their hearts. I do know that you and I are not crazy. We haven’t overreacted or misremembered. Our childhoods were traumatizing whether our mom’s can face that or not.

[@marilynedwards3466]

Wow Amy. My heart hurts for you. Yes, it is not OK for parents to resist hearing their children's recollections about the harm. I hope you can listen more to Chynna's messages about Jesus. Even though your parents are not loving, Jesus is, and He won't shut you down.

[@amyfionna]

@@marilynedwards3466 I’m doing much better at 50 years old. I’m ok. I go to therapy and I watch Cal Preach to keep my mind and heart lighter. I just wanted to validate Chynna. It’s important. Thank you for your kindness!

[@andreachristy8272]

well said, Amy:)

[@pjt3887]

I'm happy to see your in therapy. It's important to have a safe person to talk to that will give you validation. That's life changing. Proud of you for doing the work. I came from a similar situation. my mother was a victim narcissist that I married a covert narcissist. Therapy has kept me sane and helped me to see the pattern I was in.

[@keetahbrough]

Yep 👍🏽

[@mchristman6932]

I wish Michelle would write a tell-all book. Totally candid and raw. She has known sooo many famous people in the 60s and 70s. She was part of the International Jet Set/Rockstar scene. REALLY tell-all.

[@honorsilverthorne7227]

Wait 'til you hear what she did to Warren Beatty 😂😂😂

[@pbwi9756]

You both are so beautiful, authentic, and loving. ❤️ To hear you both sing California Dreamin’ together was the highlight of my day! 🙏🏻

[@christineh5856]

Love all the stories! A mother’s love can never be replaced. She’s the one person in this life who loves us unconditionally...what a blessing! Happy New Year!

[@stacynels4]

A mother's love unconditional?? NOT while they're still possessed by unresolved unsolved memories of actions perpetrated against them in their earlier lost life and loves.

[@stickerlady1774]

Not for everyone!

[@LisaLGruman]

I LOVE Chynna's laugh. Deep and unbridled. Hilarious!!!!! Often helps break tension in the conversation, making it light right when needed.

[@luannagro2223]

You are so blessed to have Billy. You have no idea ( try to imagine ) how hard it is being a single Mom. Your apology was beautiful and of course your mother would forgive you. This was such a beautiful and touching Episode. Possibly my favorite. It made me cry and miss my mother. Michelle is a sweetheart and the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree💕

[@r.v.5750]

Never got to talk about the pain in my childhood with my mom. She immediately went defensive and wanted to hear that she was a good mom and I ended up apologyzing just like you did. Because we are demaged goods we still are after all these years and can't handle rejection not from our mom. My mom did not pay enough attention when I was growing up. Distracted by men, busy with herself most of the time. Alcohol problems, men problems, divorced three times. My dad was mostly not around and did not bother to look me up. It took his toll on me. But she did her best in her own way and I turned out to be okay. I met my Billy when I was 19 and we are still together after 32 years. She liked my husband a lot. Maybe the Billy,'s come so early because you need them so much. My mother died 7 years ago and I miss her like crazy. Some things were just to painfull to talk about I guess.

[@lindaford624]

It sounds like Michelle has a difficult time accepting responsibility for her failures. Chynna is a real & loving daughter. God bless both of you!

[@juliasharon5337]

what failures?

[@leahflower9924]

She was part of a cultural revolution in California which was known for crazy living and she left John she doesn't seem that bad

[@janiemccaskill8996]

Mothers and daughters can have such tenuous relationships, but God can heal anything and everything.

[@riccali3519]

I've always like Michelle Phillips. Michelle was always beautiful. As we get older our looks go down hill. All of the drugs that she used definitely caught up with her. She looks much older than she really is. Also sickly.

[@stickerlady1774]

God chooses not to heal at times.

[@dampergoldenrod4156]

@@riccali3519 she looks younger than 77 years old so you are wrong

[@dreamersruleNOW]

Mothers are everything! Givers of life! Amen. God bless mothers.

[@stacynels4]

God bless mothers, fathers, and all those whose willing responsibility to nurture favorably endures abidingly.

[@sarahr3747]

So true! Totally agree. Now the most recent craziness is that we can’t say “mothers” or “women” ... the woke brigade is saying “birthing people” 🤯

[@Mary-om2cs]

I lost my mom in July. Watching the two of you makes me long for her. ❤️

[@tschouten1]

I’m sorry!

[@kjghrtbdf0ea9pjmnzcmnwreas55]

She gives me so many great memories of when I used to work as a mechanic and their songs came on the am radio, takes me back to the happiest time of my life.

[@micasa243]

You two are adorable! I lost my mom to Lewy Body Dementia in December 2019. She was just shy of 72.

[@lw4910]

Aww! This was so precious! I’m 51 and my mom is 77 and this just brought tears to my eyes. There is so much love here and of course no childhood is perfect. Our moms were part of the 60’s and the whole culture with marriage and children was so different than what we had today. My mom also left my dad when I was 6 months old in 1969. I don’t know the whole story but they did reconcile. Each generation is so different. We love you Mama Michelle and Chynna!

[@elainejude4616]

I wish I could have had a real conversation like this with my mom. You girls are so blessed 💞💞

[@tschouten1]

I miss my Mom. I was 39 when she left me to go home to Jesus! Treasure your parents while you can!

[@elizabethbowie9753]

@@tschouten1 Yes! Yes! A thousand times, YES.

[@sue7011]

So very true! I too wish I had a better conversation with my mom. I was young and self focused!

[@sue7011]

@@tschouten1 Treasure you parents while you can, Amen!

[@fallingstar2nite]

Chynna ❣️ I adore the fact you are sharing such Special moments with Us. This made me cry but in a good way. September 26th 2019 is a day I'll Never forget. Started out as a normal day and the last conversation I had with my 90 year old Mother & Best Friend was about tomatoes with her Caesar salad. Tomatoes can you believe it... I guess what I'm trying to say to you and to anyone else that might see this. Cherish your conversations with your Loved ones.❣️

[@j-s-m-rasmr5292]

Such a blessing ❤️

[@fallingstar2nite]

@@j-s-m-rasmr5292 ❤️

[@PizzaRoyalty]

What a lovely and precious woman your mother is Chynna. I have sung her songs around my house hundreds of times. Her music is woven throughout the fabric of my life. God bless you Michelle and Chynna.

[@peachespeaches1924]

That has got to be the most GORGEOUS flower arrangement ive ever seen! Now thats an apology!

[@wilmagerrald6858]

Tell your mom that my 11 year old granddaughter got a turntable for Christmas so I took her to buy a vinyl...she bought a Mama and Papa album! She’s decided she wants to be a hippie like Michelle❤️

[@winkydstanaccount5003]

That is sooooo cute!!!!

[@stickerlady1774]

On drugs backstabbing your closest friends??

[@wilmagerrald6858]

@@stickerlady1774 I don’t even know what you’re talking about, don’t care. You sound very bitter so I’ll just say a little prayer for you.

[@stickerlady1774]

@@wilmagerrald6858 It would behoove you to research the band history. I realize those things happened a long time ago, and sure, *maybe* people change grow and do get better; however, that was not your statement and you were glorying in that “hippy” lifestyle, for your loved one. Try to steer your little one in the right direction, if you care about her soul. There’s a reason Chynna veers away from that topic/has not addressed it on her channel, if you’ve noticed. Awaiting your righteous rebuttal, especially as you claim ignorance. Peace of Christ!

[@wilmagerrald6858]

@@stickerlady1774 you take care of your righteous soul, I’ll take care of mine. Have a good life & peace out ✌️

[@pamelaberry2668]

She is so awesome. Love this so loving mother/daughter relationship. Chynna you are so very blessed to have such a wonderful family !

[@JJ-vc6pp]

I am sorry to go against the flow here. I am glad you honour your mother with kindness and acceptance, and I understand the implications of talking about painful and shameful episodes in public, but even your mother's own account of your childhood paints a picture of familial chaos and some bad choices based on personal needs and desires, not always the children's. This does not mean your mother should be condemned or judged or treated with anything but love, but Your story is yours and your witness to your own pain is not up for regulation by her taking offence. We all make many mistakes in this life and I honestly believe your mother would feel less pain, less offence and shame by admitting personal responsibily and not deflecting it on the other people who passed tgrough your childhood. I paticulary noted the phrase your Mum used 'you can be so convincing' when telling your story, I would wager that is because it is a factual account of your experience and Mum should listen and accept that.

[@theresajeffries6627]

I agree completely with your perspective and Chynna handled it lovingly and gracefully but mom does need to recognize her contribution to the chaos

[@nelysilva5833]

Well said, and very eloquently put.👍

[@Floatingaccidentallike]

This. Subtle manipulation to keep things hush.

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

❤️❤️❤️

[@SanVic]

The very notion that Michelle can never be offended by anything Chynna ever says is absurd. One can only imagine where you get such foolish logic. Chynna has been harping publicly about her childhood since 1991. Time to give it a break. people.com/archive/cover-story-getting-it-all-together-vol-35-no-19/

[@lorajiron6725]

Chynna is absolutely wonderful and full of Life. It takes a great mom to raise such a wonderful daughter like you Chynna!

[@QuesaDia05]

Love you both! Thank you, Ms. Michelle for agreeing to do this! God bless you guys!

[@09penny1]

My mom and I had a rough past together too. She apologized for a lot of damage done to me that was caused by her. She could see the effects it had on me and her apology helped us to be able to talk more openly. It helped a lot. She ended up being my best friend. She became a Christian in her 40s and that went a long way toward her understanding of the power of apology and forgiveness.

[@WildMarie4]

Me and my mom had that same experience. She was horribly abusive and I met Jesus at 21 and she did in her 50s. He healed our relationship completely and I held her hand when she went to be wirh Him.

[@kimm1870]

Oh how I miss my mom when I see you two together. I’m going to cry now and miss my mom.💕. The pain of her loss never goes away.

[@Hamilekonu]

When your Mother cried I lost it! 😭 blessed are the mothers❤️❤️

[@wordtouchministries2557]

I remember reading your mom’s autobiography back n the 80’s, when I was a very young teenager. It took two to three days to read it. In 1989, I read your dad’s autobiography. I liked your mom’s book much better.

[@michaelrochester48]

Your mom created with her bandmates a body of work that has many generations of people happy. And to top it she had a successful acting career. The thing you have to understand is, as a mom, she did the best she could. You turned out really good so she had good instinct. Remember, a lot of hippie parents really believed that letting their kids live as free as possible without Intrusion was a great way to parent, and the antithesis of how they had to live as children. I totally get where she’s coming from

[@justAmy51]

I love you two together! You’re a good team and very loving and forgiving to each other! Good daughters honor their mothers! I appreciate this taping so much. As we get older, I think we understand our moms more and more. God Bless momma Michelle and Peace of Christ Chynna!

[@auramac]

Religion is yet another crutch, as alcohol, cocaine, sex and TV- but, whatever gets you through the night.

[@j-s-m-rasmr5292]

This reminds me of my Grandma- her account of what happened raising her kids often differs from the kids accounts of being raised

[@elizabethbowie9753]

Ya got That Right!!!!

[@amintz0969]

Same with my dad's mother. I loved her dearly! My parents were divorced, so I didn't really grow up around her and my step-grandfather until I was a teenager. The pictures in the photo albums from way before I was born showed this perfect happy family. Her stories were the same. I found out later my dad and his sisters suffered much abuse by their stepfather and one aunt blamed my grandmother for not leaving. My grandmother felt she had no choice but to stay. A few years ago, I found out even more horrible things that happened and my grandmother did nothing to prevent it. She died 25 years ago. I think if she was alive, I'd be very angry with her.

[@born4thstime]

Boy, is that the truth.

[@kristinjayne6720]

That’s how it is with most family relationships. As adults my brother and I began to talk about it and neither of us recognized the others version of our childhood. It was like we were raised in different families!

[@ElizabethPoet]

Chynna that was so perfect and sensitive when you asked "Were you a little distracted at times?"

[@SanVic]

Chynna has been publicly coming down on her mom since 1991. One has to wonder how much longer will this go on? people.com/archive/cover-story-getting-it-all-together-vol-35-no-19/

[@christinepaige2575]

@@SanVic That was a fascinating article. It seems that you feel that Michelle is being harshly treated? I would disagree. The only alternative to being honest about the past is to just never speak about it. Perhaps that is the route Chynna and Michelle should choose -- but I think the honesty in this case has perhaps been encouraging many people to think about living healthier lives. There are so many destructive influences out there enticing us to go down the wrong path. We need to hear from those willing to say "Been there, shouldn't have done that."

[@SanVic]

@@christinepaige2575 You missed the entire point of my posting. I clearly said that Chynna has been PUBLICLY coming down on her mom since 1991, so how much longer does this PUBLIC bashing of Michelle need to continue? If you think its "healthy" to PUBLICLY attack your mom for 30 YEARS then you're deeply disturbed. There are serial killers in jail who are not attacked for 30 years. Please inform the world EXACTLY what Michelle has done to be attacked PUBLICLY for 30 years? Be SPECIFIC.

[@uggabugg9]

@@christinepaige2575 Why in public? Sad

[@uggabugg9]

@@SanVic I totally agree

[@bonniewhillock3536]

Such a special video! I’m 70 and not only loved the Mamas and Papas but my husband and I were obsessed with Knots Landing. Thank you for sharing your mom with us. I’m also a believer and glad to have found your channel.

[@cyberessa]

I was glad to see this on Michelle, it reveled a lot!

[@reneepruitt1012]

Sweet Michelle! I loved watching her face while she was talking about Billy! So precious

[@wildhorses6817]

Beautiful 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@joannehawkins1171]

I could sit and listen to your precious Mom all day. Hearing our family histories is so important. Even the hard stuff. Bless you for sharing freely, Michelle

[@judithminnich9614]

Chynna this is the sweetest interview that I have ever seen. Thanks so much for apologizing to your Mom. I really regret not telling my mom how much I loved her before she past.

[@margezawalsh2458]

Michelle is sooooooo blessed to have Chynna as a daughter. She is not free yet. 🙏🙏🙏🙏 She find the full release and surrender it all

[@Mercutia]

This was lovely. Would Michelle ever do a live Q&A on KZbin? What a treat that would be--she has so much wisdom and history to share.

[@xanaduxanadu3605]

This is a piece of history! Hearing these stories are so great so more Mamá Michelle please!

[@SueUTube]

People who are abused are constantly pressured not to talk about it. Your mom feels guilty and tried to talk about anything but your hurt. You owe no one an apology. She needs to own it.

[@ChynnaPhillipsBaldwin]

There’s truth to this 🌸😔🙏

[@davisworth5114]

@@ChynnaPhillipsBaldwin The truth is on your side, I never confronted my selfish parents and I regret that I didn't because I was still trying to be "nice" when they didn't deserve nice by any stretch. Most of the people on here sound like the kind of "Christians" who wouldn't tell you if your coat was on fire. BTW, I never see you with a guitar. Wouldn't it be good if you got a small classical guitar to have by your side, they are more intimate than a big steel string guitar, maybe you could soothe your soul with it. Have you ever heard Joan Baez do "All My Trials" from her first album? "Silver Dagger" is a great one too. We got your back kiddo.

[@Floatingaccidentallike]

I agree. Her mother seems so lovely but seems to want to skirt around it. Her generation possibly?... Don't talk for you shame the family.I see Chyna smoothing it over. Chyna, we get it and see you have over come.

[@PARADISE7670]

Mine "tries" for lack of a better word, to own it. But then she goes back and re-does everything she ever did to me. She never changes.. but of course, a leopard never changes their spots. Even though she had something horrific happen to her @ age 3, there was no excuse for her to make me suffer with any abuse from her. She doesn't change, and never will.. My emotions can't handle her, so I set boundaries and have nothing to do with her.

[@elizabethhonce1677]

@@ChynnaPhillipsBaldwin I remember one interview with your mother where she said that she left a basket of birth control out for her kids to use. While it may have been practical, when I heard her say that, I felt sad for her children. The truth is she was distracted. She was on a weekly TV show, and she was trying to live her own life and I think she didn't pay proper attention. You felt abandoned by your father, which you were, and you felt like your mother didn't care what you did. Of course, in these situations we need to own our own rebelliousness, and you had a part to play in it. She did pick your stepdad Bob, which was a great decision. I think the Lord has been working in your life for your whole life. And I see the Lord is working in hers. He works on his timetable, not ours. I was always told never pray for patience, but we just need to be patient and trust in the Lord. God bless you and your family!

[@terrijohnson4383]

I'm 63 years young and I cry every time you have your mama on. She is so beautiful and I can listen to her talk/share for hours. Peace of Christ to you both

[@jephybean]

I LOVED her on Knots Landing; I ALWAYS LOVE HER from anything but I especially loved her portrayal of Anne Matheson. She was so layered and you could see an underlying need in everything that Anne did; she was not just a nasty villain; she was a young girl who never felt loved by her parents, knew that she wanted something out of life but did not necessarily know how to go about getting it; she sometimes thought some things would make her complete and happy but often realized that they did not. Anne was always searching for something to make her feel validated - it is because she was raised with opulence but was probably made to feel that she did not deserve it just based on how her father was. I have no idea if this was intentional or even written as a backstory, but it's something I could see within Anne and it made sense to me. Michelle played that role fabulously; the sense of bravado, the drive and the underlying self-doubt. That is what makes a villain a well-rounded person; you can hate one minute and love the next; she was perhaps one of the best characters on a soap opera - because of how she was played.

[@marlanaedwards5296]

I had disagreements with my mom & my dad over the years. By the times that I got hotly frustrated with them, went to my room, & slam the door I let out more frustrated in private. After that I felt really bad & hurt inside & came out of my room to apologize. Sometimes my mom cried because she never could stand to see me mad. It hurt her every time. My mom & I have easy hearted feelings. It runs in the family. My parents & I had our disagreeable spats, but we came through. This video of yours is very touchy. Nice one Chynna.

[@libbygengenbach3347]

God Bless you both! I have tears watching this video, Michelle Phillips you rock!!!

[@rosieschweebie]

Mother and daughter relationships are so special. Your love for each other is so wonderful!❤️

[@missybelmont9830]

You two are gold! More please! So sweet and easy to watch. Your forgiving heart Chynna is a very teachable moment for alot of us. I do believe however that you'll have your mama for years to come. So happy for your both 💗

[@nathanbarger3449]

I am glad you have your mom. I lost my mom 20 years ago and I still miss her to this day.

[@themachine798]

HI Chynna, I was very lucky to have met your mom in an electronic store (of which I was working at) on Broadway in NYC back in 1988. When I was introduced to her, she gave me a big kiss. Till this day I've never forgotten that. Every time I see her on TV or hear one of her records, I talk about that moment in time. The Mamas & Papas were my favorite vocal group back in the late ''60s. I had their album "If you can believe your eyes and ears" on 8 track tape and I'd play it every day while driving to work. The tape was played so many times that I actually wore it out! I was born 7 days before your mom, we grew up in the same era. I thought I would share this little "nugget" with you. And please tell your mom that I think she's the best!

[@ChynnaPhillipsBaldwin]

🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍thank you for this kind message !!!!!! My mother is the BEST.

[@candiceyoung8244]

I've always loved your mom. I'm 53,so I've grown up watching you guys. Shes amazing and ur both very blessed. I lost my mom more than 12 years ago, and I miss her every day, so cherish each other. God bless you both 😊❤

[@rhiannonrhiannon6285]

It's very touchy when you talk about your past when your Mom is around. I understand they are very sensitive to what you are saying about your past. My Mom is like that also. You don't want to hurt their feelings but at the same time you want to speak your truth and what is bothering you. It's hard.

[@christinebadostain6887]

Yeah, I think her mother should spend a little more time listening and a little less time defending herself

[@murphysmommy]

This was absolutely precious. These kinds of open talks about feelings are so necessary. Love, love, love Mama Michelle. Thank you once again Chynna, for sharing your life with us. I hope that Aaron feels better soon!

[@thaliajen]

I miss my Mom! She passed away at 59. Watching these ladies made me laugh and cry. I’d die for another hug. And I agree on Michelle’s political slip. 😉 God bless these two- thank you for making my day! Gorgeous voices, great love. Mother/daughter relationships are hard but yours is precious. Enjoy each other. 💜💜

[@Bob-jg3vq]

China I can't tell you what a treat and delight it was to hear your Mother sing again. I grew up with The Mamas & the Papas and they are still in my playlist of songs I listen to all the time, as a matter of fact I listen to California Dreamin just today. Thank You you so much and tell your Mother Thank You.

[@marilynkozlow8400]

Chynna, your momma is a legend. One of my favorite groups of all time.

[@smithsistersandthesundaydriver]

my mom has dementia... she is 86 and I care for her. We have glimmers of moments like these when a window opens and she remembers I am her daughter. Sometimes she remembers my name too. These moments aren’t often but when they do come I cherish them. Enjoy all that your mom is... I know you do and she knows how much you adore her and visa versa. Its plain to see ❤️❤️

[@beths999]

♥️💕♥️💕♥️💕 How wonderful this was to get to hear from both of you and for setting an example Chynna of asking forgiveness from your Mom for hurting her. Fruit of the spirit. The older we get the wiser we get. I lost my mom to cancer when I was 13. I miss her terribly and look forward to seeing her again in heaven.

[@linak7155]

Your Mamma is simply Delightful Your love for one another is evident! My Mom is 80 now and we can laugh just like the two of you! 💜✌️ Good 👖 all around! 💛

[@sineadmulligan5227]

So glad I stumbled across your channel! Your mum has been such an idol for me! I'm only 30 years old so please please tell her that her influence is still being felt by much younger generations to this day! Dedicated to the one I love is one of my favourite songs & her vocals! Amazing! One of the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life! Sending love to you & your lovely mother! ❤️

[@amandazplace5663]

My mother lost her mother when my mom was 3 months old. Suicide. The start of WW2 in England. She was sent to live with her cousins & be raised by her aunt & uncle. Prime Minister Churchill ordered all city children be sent out in the country to save them from the bombings. She was sent off again to live with strangers for a few yrs. Lots of trauma. Decades later, she & my dad divorced when I was 10. Dad killed in a collision when I was 11. Oh, beautiful Michelle...several generations of difficult childhoods & I never got to make peace with my mom over it all. We never spoke about our pain or struggles with our relationship, our lives & parenting. It was all just too much. She died almost 8 yrs ago. I have a "Billy" & 3 great kids. And I have the peace of Christ; "a peace that surpasses all understanding". The next generation will only know a family united (though still a messy bunch😜). It's lovely watching you & Chynna talk about your relationship & your lives while still respecting each others' journey & struggles. The trick, I've learned, is to love each other as you are & where you are, not for who you wish the other would be. That's called grace, right? "Pizza crust", Michelle & Chynna.🙏🇨🇦

[@stacynels4]

Thank you to this dog pet friend whom totally agrees with all that's being said. Acknowledgement from this animal proponanturess. Love CalPreach..

[@annchovey2089]

I lost my mother December 3rd. She was the kindest person I ever met. My heart jumps with joy just thinking about what she is experiencing right now. I wouldn't call her back if I could.

[@ediekoller1144]

Amanda I am so sorry your mother lost her mother at such a young age. My Mother was 4 1/2 when her mother died at the age of 26 from a ruptured appendix leaving 6 children all under the age of 6. The last two were twins and this was in 1923 with no antibiotics.

[@paulamilo3949]

Chynna I’m crying and laughing. What a beautiful relationship you have with your Mother. The love you have for each other is so lovely! Love and hugs to you both, Peace of Christ❤️🙏xx

[@lorisnoeberger678]

You should record a song with your mother.

[@amintz0969]

Oh my gosh...YESSSSS!!!

[@wildhorses6817]

Yesssssssssssssssssss❣️

[@deborahpellerito6117]

Ofcourse!

[@jlewis9043]

Definitely!!!!

[@deborahpellerito6117]

@Bax 60 That is a great idea

[@mikkig2964]

i love every time mama michelle talks on here.she is wonderful.i lost my mom to covid on nov 28th 2020.i miss her so very much.cherish the time.thank you for sharing this video

[@michelleabernathy9092]

As Methodists we say “May the peace of Christ be with you…And the response from the other people or congregation is…”And also with you” 😊

[@vickimanager]

I'm lucky because when I tell my own stories about the horrors that made up my childhood, my mother understands that it's MY story, and not hers. She understands that she has to step back. There is no place for her hurt feelings in my story. Should she ever want to open up and tell her story, then I will give her the same courtesy. When we feel the need to tell our truth, I don't believe we have to be beholden to other points of view. Only when we can truly unburden ourselves can we begin to heal, and invite others in to our souls where before, only pain existed. What we can learn be truly listening to each other's stories is that shockingly, we are all human with many layers of pain and joy to explore and work out. It's shocking for parents and children to face each other as individual human beings, but we must.

[@karenk4291]

Do you have Borderline Personality Disorder?

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

Vicki, this is so beautifully written ❤️ You are so right.

[@SanVic]

@@karenk4291 lol Most of the people posting on this page do.

[@vickimanager]

@@FreedomofSpeech865 Thank you. Sometimes I have such a clear thought in my head, and I know I could convey it well in spoken word, but when I write it down, it doesn't translate 100% the way I want it to. I feel that you really understood what I am trying to say.

[@laurasibley8892]

You have a wonderful relationship with your mother. You have no idea how very fortunate you are.

[@lucyannetooper9475]

Chynna your sweetness and love for your mother is so apparent in this video.

[@rheaadams1437]

This is so down and real. I am so glad that your Mom is still here. 💗💗💗

[@Adrianafaith123]

awww..lovely video..I've always loved Michelle...I remember looking at the album cover of her in the tub when I was a kid and thinking "god, I wish I looked like her"!! Their music was sublime! I can't imagine how difficult it must have been to been a divorcee with a baby in the mid 60's. She probably was never given any advice on keeping her own finances and how to take care of herself. She probably felt she had to rely on a powerful man to be able to survive! A lot of women back in the time felt they needed to attach to a man to feel protected and be taken care of. I'm glad Michelle is okay and has such a good relationship with Chynna. Their family has come through so much.