Man Compares Wife to His Aunt Because She's 'Unattractive' (Shake from Love is Blind)

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[@ZoeyChuu]

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[@Lindley828]

@@ZoeyChuu totally agree

[@sarahharrisginge736]

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[@nice2u2]

Haha ❤️

[@fmpentertainmentmedley3338]

Do the Shane video

[@IratePuffin]

“I’m attracted to blonde women.” Picks the one woman he knows will most likely not be blonde.

[@tonichan89]

200+ IQ move. I'm not convinced he wasn't planted there to make drama for the show, tbh. Like, he probably applied on his own accord and they noticed he was kinda toxic as they were interviewing him and/or looking at his social media... and that boosted him to get on the show. That's a theory anyway. They tend to always pick a few people to cast as the season "villain/s" in these kinds of shows.

[@Lucaz99]

@@tonichan89 yup

[@TTInfiniteGaming]

@@tonichan89 yeah the "big Ed effect"

[@candace9560]

Exactly he knew she was Indian bc of her last name 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@chamham6734]

Why tf would he tell her that?! So disrespectful…

[@trashpanda3544]

When a guy in his 30's says "I usually date younger" to someone the same age as him ..... yikes....that's an instant red flag.

[@shroomshroom5945]

Fr. It screams immature as fuck

[@sixteenleo]

sure but can he lift you over his head or not?

[@illmatixx_5346]

Its not a red flag..its a preference...and doesnt make u immature...it means you know what you want..we dont say that to women who have preferences...so double standard there.. But it Is all the other stuff he exudes that make him immature tho..👍

[@buffysummers2904]

@@illmatixx_5346 it is a red flag. Why would an adult not want another person their age.

[@illmatixx_5346]

@@buffysummers2904 haha right... Cause every one on the planet ONLY dates someone the same age as them right?...hahaha And again we dont ridicule women for dating a man older or younger if thats THEIR preference...but when it comes to a man? "HOW DARE YOU STICK YOUR OLD P..... INSIDE OF THAT YOUNG WOMAN!!" hahahah

[@ayeshaanfooz1991]

I love shake’s mom to the core because Indian mothers are known to encourage their sons regardless of how shitty their sons are, I love her for going gangster on her son and actually calls him out on his shit

[@RavenDots115]

I loved his mom for that! She’s like umm I want Deepti to be happy she deserves someone better and Shake’s face after that 😂😂

[@asarishepard8171]

yeah i want a hug from shakes mom, she seems so nice!

[@KanadaJin]

Even his mom knew he was a fuck-boy and didn't deserve her 😒 good mom for not siding with his gross behavior

[@jamta69]

Have u met an indian mom They r fierce

[@AyanAli-py7ci]

@@RavenDots115 deepti is a 2

[@lalalulu17]

Shake is too confident for a 32 year old who looks like he's a 45 years old recently divorced dad in a middle of mid life crisis with a red convertible that he like driving while wearing unbuttoned hawaiian shirt.

[@LanaAndJen]

Right?! He looks way older than 32

[@desertmoonlee6631]

And he has the audacity to say he like them younger

[@revenge0lobster]

That is exactly who I thought he was until the screen showed he was 32 and some said he was a vet 😤

[@Rayne1bow]

😭😭😭

[@coym5452]

His older 💯 lol

[@sueshe2256]

This guy disgusted me, he showed her no respect. Deepti made the right decision and I’m glad she had the fortitude to end things. I’m sure it wasn’t easy, but that guy is not marriage material.

[@heatherkrug8401]

She made the right decision. But...he did show her respect remember..he kissed her feet...then grabbed her butt!! LOL! He was a weirdo.

[@egg4666]

I like your pfp!

[@poetickles]

Exactly! Even if he felt no attraction for her (and tbf, that is perfectly fine! Attraction varies from person to person), there is no need for him to make such cruel remarks and to do so on national TV is on another level! I felt so bad for Deepti, when others revealed that he made worse remarks behind her back :(

[@ucanheartheocean]

he was also super manipulative imo

[@floralfancy7814]

I can't stand superficial men like him.

[@Kai-The-Divine]

I'm certain Shake is comparing Deepti to his "aunt" because he's finding a way of saying he doesn't want to be with an indian woman. He's comparing her to someone who's off limits for dating. There are quite a bit of indian people whom are against dating within their culture, because of their internalized colorist/xenophobic mindset caused by colonization. So it leads them to think white is better etc. It sucks because Deepti is absolutely radiating with beauty, confidence, and substance. I'm glad she knew her worth though.

[@SavageMinnow]

My ex was like this. He dates exclusively white women and I realized that it was also a sort of misogynist element to it as well. Like he was ruling over me (a white person) as a sort of representative of the "elite race" in his head. There's nothing wrong with dating outside of your race but when you can't date someone your own race/culture.... There MIGHT be a problem

[@rootigaroot9922]

wow arent you the reddit phycologist

[@blackpearlanimations2852]

It's the exact same with black people (not only Black men)

[@beth4692]

It’s “you’re like a brother/sister to me” but on steroids bc it’s somehow more insulting

[@abigailgonzalez6078]

I totally caught on to this while watching this. It’s such a problem for countries that have been colonized and immigrants in the US. I hope that he can go to therapy to talk about his self hatred and his problems with admitting when he’s wrong.

[@sukiBambina]

When Deepti says “I don’t think he realizes what he lost. Years from now he’s going to regret losing the best thing in his life” and I agree. That girl is gorgeous, smart and sweet and way out of his league.

[@anonnymouz6826]

He will not...

[@a.s.3805]

@@anonnymouz6826 He won't. If how he reacted to her rejection is anything to go by, he doesn't care and likely never cared. You can even see that he's smiling, thinking that he just dodged a bullet. People like him don't care about intimate relationships. He'll just move on to the next girl and ruin her life as well.

[@notjulianne87]

She was very sweet. Her personality was one of a kind.

[@clioalexandra6485]

@@a.s.3805 Idk, people with huge egos like him, will never let their true emotions show. I think at the very least his ego was hurt and when he's alone, he's gonna think back to this moment

[@raisedbiwolves3546]

He needs to stick to T ball leagues

[@annme_87]

How do you go from "I'm gonna get you pregnant" to "I'm not really attracted to her"

[@dk-sky3820]

That's what cowards do. He's just a coward. He didn't have guts to tell her his real feelings from start and lied to her in hopes to wait it out until she is fed up with him and takes a responsibility to be the one who breaks up so he doesn't have to be a "bad person". This is a behaviour of an immature, cowardly boy, who had been fed from a silver spoon from childhood, not a 30+ year old man.

[@AlexandraMurray99]

Under developed male brain

[@jackthehat1093]

There's an easy answer. Make up.

[@Lala-lw6pi]

She started chasing after him and throwing herself at him “lets just have s3x” and he’s clearly old school and wants to “hunt” for it and not be given it. Also, he’s wealthy. Think of the lil rich boy with all the toys 🧸 sitting around, yet his attention is on the one toy that his friend has.

[@thenotsoamazinggracetnsag3463]

@@Lala-lw6pi What?

[@plantsntrance5513]

I didn't have an "animalistic" attraction to my boyfriend when we first met. He became my best friend and I became more and more attracted to him over time as we got closer. We've been together for +6 years and he's the most handsome man ever! :) Give it a chance, Shake.

[@haleymh779]

are you asking him to....give it a fair shake? 👈👉

[@Bibi-dd8hh]

UGH YESS!!! Thats exactly how I am with mine we were best friends! And then it just happened! Lol been with him for 2 years known him for 4

[@ksis86]

Same here! Was platonic friends with my husband for 5 years, eventually ended up dating towards the end of college and now expecting our first baby. I love that we were close friends before we got together, honestly i think its the best way to go about it lol

[@Devanimations]

Yeah, I met my boyfriend on Bumble and I didn't think he was super hot or anything, but I thought he was cute enough. I messaged him actually not because of his looks or his bio, but because one of his pictures was this beautiful mountainscape and I thought "I would love to visit somewhere like that with someone I love." We hit it off immediately, he moved across the country with me when I got into college after only dating a few months, and now I think he's the most handsome man in the world, and this year will be 5 years together.

[@Mojomanultra]

@@haleymh779 👈👀👉

[@mickeewoop-woop9020]

I feel like many women of color know when a man that's your race says you "remind them of family" its usually code for "I don't like dating within my race" 😒 I can't be the only one thinking this right??

[@pearlngozi2818]

Yeah not to mention that usually comes accompanied by some colorism

[@izahra1997]

Yes this is possibly colorism with self-hate. I've heard black men say something similar. It's like he idolizes blond white women. He said when he first came to America to noticed two things, "snow and blond women"

[@mickeewoop-woop9020]

@@pearlngozi2818 yes colorism for sure!!

[@mickeewoop-woop9020]

@@izahra1997 Black men will call you "sista" 😑

[@tonichan89]

That would make sense, yeah 😬

[@annnnne]

Being a woman of colour is so traumatizing 😩😩 Watching Deepti this season gave me so much anxiety. Men of our own race can really be our harshest critics.

[@priya4618]

We’re subscribed to all the same people dude

[@blessingo7449]

@@priya4618 great minds think alike?

[@alexforce9]

Thats coz the men of other races find you "exotic". The men of the same race actualy see you as equal, coz they have seen so many of you - they are no longer impressed by your 'exotic" features.

[@kordiankrecisz5298]

but he wasnt attracted to her because she had a lot of loose skin after weight loss. it's not a race thing, at first he was very into her

[@plutosprincess]

@@kordiankrecisz5298 he definitely said he likes white blonde girls multiple times and referred to being with deeps like he was with his “aunt”. As someone who is attracted to novelty too I get where his preferences come from but he was horribly wrong and degrading in the way he expressed it

[@cadavher]

I would argue that Deeps wasn't "naive". Natalie was naive, deeps had someone continuously telling her "omg you're so hot, im so lucky" etc, if you're being told one thing but shown another that early on it's easy to be blindsided. Natalie on the other hand, had Shane continuously show her that they were not compatible and still chose to ignore and pursue.

[@Scriptkitty-sd8dp]

Hmm. Am I weird for liking Natalie and Shayne together? I actually thought they were a good case of opposites attract. I definitely think Shayne has some serious insecurities that he needs to work out... But idk I liked them together. He seemed extremely douchey at first, but he grew on me. I just wanted to tell him he's good enough. 😂

[@tanmryan]

Mmm I hear you, but Natalie was dealing with a professional, manipulative gaslighter very early on with Shane. That can't be forgotten.

[@DragonSlayerCommentariesHQ]

I don't know, sure Deeps eventually got rid of Shake, but it took to a certain point. Look, I need to ask women in this comment section something as a man: Do you guys consider it normal for a dude who,in this scenario, you have not seen their physical appearance yet; but only got to know them through their personality by talking to him from a pod on the other side of a studio, to just suddenly start squeezing your butt cheeks and kissing you passionately while constantly commenting how big your ass is? I mean, would you guys consider that to be on realm of normality when it comes to introductory romantic interactions, or is that something you would see a couple that's been together for a long time to do? I need to know ladies because when I was young my mother taught me that men that do this have no respect for the woman in question, and that I should never do that if I want a woman to respect me as well.

[@britterzzz8744]

​@@tanmryan I think Shane had worse intentions than Shake

[@tanmryan]

@@britterzzz8744 I think it’s fair to say that it’s not possible to determine the intentions of another person accurately 😅 we can observe, infer and theorise, but until technology allows us to actually view a persons thoughts and emotional reactions in real time… it’s a moot point to argue ?

[@dianakhan7182]

I feel so sorry for Deepti. The show airs and then she and the whole world watched as he kept saying to everyone, behind her back how he finds her completely physically unattractive. I mean, for the love of Jesus, he knew when he had microphone on him, when the cameras were around. Did it not cross his mind how much he will hurt her?

[@beepbopboop7727]

And she is so beautiful too. Women pay 1000s for that kind of hour glass. Guy is just dumb.

[@zorro......]

@@beepbopboop7727 not to mention, her face and hair are just GORGEOUS. im so envious of her! i would also treat her so well!

[@yellowbird2157]

Meanwhile, Shake is Mr. Bug Eyes!

[@dynamopirate470]

I don't feel sorry for her. Actually I think people should give her more credit. I think she figured him out pretty quickly. I think she was just seeing how far he'd take it.

[@DantesInferno96]

He sounds like someone who takes those sigma male grindset memes unironically. He's very immature for a 32 year old.

[@h.O.hara.]

Deepti isn't just a beautiful soul, she's a genuinely gorgeous girl. And I'm so happy she had the self-respect to walk away from this toxic jackass.

[@emmajones8715]

She is beautiful, I’m so glad she walked away from that A-hole!

[@miad6160]

Seriously. This dude is a moron. This woman is one of the most beautiful people I’ve ever seen.

[@jackthehat1093]

I thought she looked like a transexual. The most unattractive of the women who got engaged by a long shot.

[@007nadineL]

God biologically made heterosexual men to pick women with their eyes. This is just a biological scientific fact, it doesn't make him a jackazz

[@sethsbigtits2008]

@007nadineL That is NOT a scientific fact 💀 that's that weird "alpha-male" bullshit that those dumbass pick-up artists spew

[@gracew.2506]

Deep and shake really made me uncomfortable…as a black women if I even hear “I only ever dated blonde white women” I’m running for the hills…. They both should have been red flags to each other. On top of that he was allegedly according to the family he was body shaming her and all that behind the scenes. This was genuinely sad and disappointing to see a grown man do.

[@JoeDirtisawsome]

what if the guy said that because he grew up in a white neighborhood? As a black man, I wouldn't care if a woman were to say "ive only dated white men before" She picked me for a reason so that's good enough for me.

[@mobiusstripper7279]

What can we really expect from a man who nicknames himself _Shake?_ I do not care if it's a 'shake' on Abhishek. Why not something respectable like Abhi? No. He changed the spelling and added a whole ass extra letter to make it as douchey as possible to align with his... _personality._ It's like he became a veterinarian and was like, "I'm done. No need to acquire any more good characteristics or pleasant attributes. I'm _good."_ There will never be a thoughtful, well-mannered, non-misogynistic person who unironically nicknames themselves _Shake._ It is a psychological impossibility and you cannot convince me otherwise. I rest my case. Also, his nickname should be _Bhish,_ for obvious reasons.

[@sulekhamane5653]

That last line tho 🤣😭

[@whatsonhermind1768]

Your comment - golden

[@carolinammajp11]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@aha_philsan]

IM. DEAD. This comment took me out by the knees 😂😂😂

[@Dancediva240]

cos then american people would pronounce it as Ah-bee which is wrong lol

[@THEinstapotth0t]

On behalf of fat non white women, I'm grateful we are safe from Shake. I feel safer in this world knowing that. 🤣😭

[@rocketmip9382]

I feel bad for the blonde, thin white women. I'm glad my hair is Auburn 😂

[@lyavain2764]

I've never been happier to be overweight lol. He's just a loser.

[@squidmochi7811]

@@rocketmip9382 I have black/brown hair, Im safe as well 😂

[@MortusSweet]

😂

[@MoXXXi]

First time being fat has seemed beneficial

[@Amber1850]

The moment dude started talking about how he prefers blondes I knew it was a wrap. As a black woman, I know self hate/internalized racism when I see it, and this dude 100% values whiteness above all.

[@whatsonhermind1768]

Yes

[@AyanAli-py7ci]

@@whatsonhermind1768 he is with a blond right now

[@rachellebrown9830]

That was him directly telling her that he is not attracted to Indian women.

[@007nadineL]

Wrong. God biologically made heterosexual men to pick women with their eyes. This is just a biological scientific fact, it doesn't make him a jackazz

[@shhd2105]

@@007nadineL wrong. Not everyone believes in God, and that's not a fact you can prove, but what you believe

[@AdrienneJung.M]

I loved that Shake's mom took her side and called her son out.....honestly, she is gorgeous physically. I dont know what his problem is....there are so many guys who would fall head over heels for her.

[@vector3d654]

It's actually surprising. Indian moms always mollycoddle their sons.

[@anonnymouz6826]

She's not gorgeous

[@procrastinationismyprofession]

@@anonnymouz6826 find your father

[@xxxcorridos]

@@anonnymouz6826 girly pop what….🧍🏽🧍🏽🧍🏽🧍🏽🧍🏽 are u srs 💀 r u okay?

[@007nadineL]

God biologically made heterosexual men to pick women with their eyes. This is just a biological scientific fact, it doesn't make him a jackazz

[@dynamopirate470]

I think Deep is smarter than you are giving her credit for. I think she noticed that Shake was no longer as interested as he was before. She seemed pretty confident at the wedding. I think she was seeing how far he would take it and she let him off the hook. She may have done it for the show but I think she figured him out pretty quickly.

[@amarjotsingh8455]

apparently the producers told deepi to tell shake "no" bc she didnt know all the awful things he was saying behind her back. im glad she said no but she has issues too

[@Kdkdleeme]

@@amarjotsingh8455 and what problems does Deepti have?

[@amarjotsingh8455]

@@Kdkdleeme she was a pick me in the beginning for even accepting shakes proposal when he would ask girls “would I be able to lift you at a concert?” All the other girls immediately rejected him. Also she has internalized racism

[@terenarosa4790]

@@amarjotsingh8455 regarding the internalized racism, i think she only says she's only dated white men in response to Shake obsessing over white girls. She wanted him to "see how it feels" and be like, "oh yeah? Well I'm not that attracted to you either! I love white people too!" But it just made them both look bad. Immaturity.

[@limedesi4]

I'm brown, was engaged to a brown man and I broke off my engagement with him one month before our wedding because I finally saw his toxic behavior for what it was. He was like Shake in all the worst ways. Obsessed with physical appearance. I'm not overweight, mind you. But he projected his own insecurities about his appearance (ex. he got upset when his abs went away after eating) onto me. Someone who hates themselves that much can never love another person.

[@KestrelDC]

I forget the specific song and band (think they were called Lighthouse or something), but there's a song I've heard before that has a lyric that's something like "she said 'you gotta love yourself before you can ever love me'" and tbh, truer words have never been spoken (or sang). It's unfair to the other person to get into that relationship without sorting that sorta baggage out and being in a reasonably healthy place mentally and personally first. Not just unfair, actually, but cruel, too. I'm glad you realized what was going on and got outta there. Also glad Deepsti did so. Gotta think about yourself, too, in relationships, not just your partner. Hell, it's part of why I don't currently date. I don't wanna be that person and I just don't think I'm "there" yet. Your partner's mental health shouldn't be your responsibility. Ever.

[@travislocklear1370]

Forget that dumbass Hun u are probably glowing better without him anyway.

[@Eyetech1976]

Good for you girl ❤️❤️

[@vismattress5760]

"Someone who hates themselves that much can never love another person." such a BS generalization. id never treat anyone like that and lets just say im not a fan of myself

[@cheetodust745]

@@vismattress5760 note “that much”, they’re not referring to people who hate themselves in general but people who are as deeply insecure as Shake

[@janemaluleka5594]

Deepti didn't deserve what Shake put her through. She's so genuine. But watching her walk away from him was the most satisfying thing ever

[@AyanAli-py7ci]

She is a 2

[@coralee1577]

As bad as this sounds, I think the reason shake felt at first Deeps was so attractive is because he was bracing himself for someone really unattractive and possibly overweight. So the fact that she was beautiful was such a relief to him he was over the moon. But once the dust settled, he started to nit pick her looks & become extremely superficial which was so unfair to her obviously. But I think that's why there was such a big difference from the first meeting to later on.

[@smilechynwa]

My exact thoughts! He was just happy she wasn’t overweight and ugly but ultimately he later realized yeah she’s not the white women he’s used to which is why he said she remind him of his aunt. He’s just not into brown women.

[@hotmess9640]

Yup. I agree

[@tehjesh5994]

You know you have a problem when the whole cast turns on you during the reunion, I lived for how the whole room kept shutting down Shakes bs. *Deepti is a lovely sweet person and I think she deserves so much better, even Shakes own Mother saw that.*

[@sandyboo2]

It so weird cause he put on his best clown makeup and turned up the asshole in him during the reunion

[@beth4692]

In case she ever sees this video I just want people to remind her how gorgeous she seems inside and out

[@ajoyner614]

That was the kicker for me. Like, sure, editing IS a thing. I understand that. However. The WHOLE cast despises you?? Nah, dude is trash.

[@briansupermega5692]

@@ajoyner614 But they didnt despise him before? I was on their insta graam and their were friendly with Shake even after watching the show. But the only started getting angry at Shake, when the whole internet got mad at Shake or at least they had enough of him.

[@sandyboo2]

@@briansupermega5692 they briefly mentioned that they were all made aware of the other stuff that he was saying about all of them later and Netflix chose to show the watered down version.

[@plantsntrance5513]

"Would I have trouble picking you up?" me: "Why? Are you not that strong? :0"

[@orangeninja8022]

Right?! Be like, "why, you a twiggy boi with no muscles?" Call him out on how superficial and hypocritical he's being

[@ddabeast3274]

Haha I was thinking the same.

[@kickedbeehive3074]

100%

[@ajoyner614]

My first thought was, "Do you even lift, bro?" 🤣

[@FionavanDahl]

"would I have trouble picking you up?" me: "if it's non-consensual surprise picking-up, you should know that I'm a biter"

[@madisonthompson8984]

I think she knew exactly what was going on. When she was in the pool with him you can tell she knew he was uncomfortable and was kinda testing him. She was just trying to give him a chance to prove himself, then dump his disrespectful ass at the altar to give him an ego check. I guarantee her and her mother had a conversation after he said something, too

[@Nekole1]

This! I agree

[@kristina1097]

16:30 I’ll tell you what happened- he saw her with no makeup and in a bikini 👙for the first time, stretch marks and all- and he lost his initial attraction. He has rigid, fairly unrealistic standards for how he wants women to look. Edit: 36:30 Bingo

[@Sahara333]

Yes! I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed that. It’s like he would’ve settled for her and had attraction to her if she was done up all the time and never showed any of her physical flaws, which we all have, his body is not perfect either.

[@anastasiasmith1331]

I completely agree. I noticed their initial interaction vs. him after being with her. I think he saw her more natural and got put off because he wants someone younger. Not a real woman. It’s sick and I’m glad he showed his true colors

[@Karawoolfe]

@@anastasiasmith1331 don't say that, not all women are perfect physically, but there are women over there that are natural smooth and with perfect skin and we should not put them down or say they are not real woman just because most of us have stretch marks and hair and cellulite. Woman come in all shapes colors and most of us one with some damage from being alive and up and downs. In Deepti case she said she was obese at some point and she lost weight, she had loose skin, that's what I noticed at least and he was put off by it but didn't want to say it and kept saying she looks like his aunt, like if the first time he she saw her didn't have the same face. I don't care about shake at this point cause he will find someone but for deepti that's going to open a Pandora box for her, especially after the work she has done to gain the confidence in her body, i don't think she will ever date within her race since it was her first time with a brown guy as well and that's is his reaction!

[@shirin9452]

Apparently he said some horrible, horrible stuff that wasn’t shown, like “with all that loose skin, she could be a lab experiment” or something like that :/ killed me. As someone trying to lose weight, I’m so impressed with her determination in losing like 70-80 pounds. She should be celebrated not put down. I hope she finds someone who can appreciate her.

[@sharhful]

I agree. This is exactly what happened. On top of that he said he was turned off by her loose skin.

[@livescript4462]

one thing this show illustrates well is how bad people WANT to be in love with someone(anyone)... and then you learn more about why they want to be in love with someone. You hope that they all just haven't met the right person, but so often it's that they cant form healthy human connections and instead have a sort of checklist for what they have decided they need in a partner. A bit of both is obv fine, but when someone is so far in the checklist zone it's just like.... oh it's a them problem.

[@namjoonie936]

THISS

[@MakeItUp19]

Well said!

[@bananasinfrench]

Honestly when people are desperate for a relationship it's usually a bad sign. It ends up being a band-aid for some deeper problem, which can cause problems within the relationship. To be ready for a partnership it's best if one is comfortable with who they are single, first. Not to go off on a tangent or anything lol

[@livescript4462]

@@bananasinfrench ur so right

[@itzspiffy6305]

I think one thing that is kinda obvious is that there are probably matchmakers behind the scenes who pick contestants that are likely to make a good connection. I doubt the contestants are arbitrary or chosen just for their own profile, but done in consideration with other matches. I also wouldn't be surprised if they also intend for some people to match with a couple people and create drama. It's really interesting see how many people will desperately cling to their second choice for that chance at love and how many people are OK knowing they are the second choice.

[@jenpenn22]

Shake has a FANTASTIC mom! She tells him what he NEEDS to hear, not what he WANTS to

[@middlechild942]

I wonder why he is the way he is given how smart and honest his mom seems to be. He is in his 30s and act like those teens who think they're alpha or shit.

[@fawnalx2050]

@@middlechild942 He reminds me of some guys my age and i’m in high school lol😭

[@jescheco7284]

Just goes to show you can have amazing parents and still be a crappy kid.

[@tristantries9211]

@@middlechild942 hey some people ignore the good influences in their life

[@nickimarie4733]

I actually felt sick listening to Shake talk about Deepti. That couple was very hard to watch. It’s such a weird experience dating someone who doesn’t find you attractive, all because you’re a reflection of them. Often times this type of relationship turns abusive because of their self hatred. I’m glad she ended it !

[@whatsonhermind1768]

Yes

[@SourRazberry]

Shake’s mom is a QUEEN, my jaw hit the floor!! I have nothing but respect for her, she told him like it was.

[@badmomba]

I've been married for 10 years this October. I can confirm any crazy passion, heart pounding, animalistic attraction fades over time. Beauty fades over time. People change. You MUST have a deeper connection than just THAT. Love isn't about lust which is what he described when he used the word "animalistic" to describe his attraction, or lack of. ❤️

[@Boochieween]

Beautifully put!

[@beepbopboop7727]

He talks like a teenager. Tbh I think a 13 yo would have a more sophisticated concept of love.

[@katkatb3077]

Very true

[@yilz123]

Same! I was mad about my bf, I would literally shake with excitement everytime he texts me. And 7 years in, I love him more than ever. Yes the animalistic attraction fades but your love grows and you are attracted in so many more ways

[@zet7670]

@@yilz123 "animalistic attraction fades" Not necessarily.

[@rise-my-angel]

This man doesn't want a relationship. He wants a woman who fulfills his superficial desires. Animalistic attraction isn't a thing. Either you are attracted to someone or you aren't, and with time and love, you only become more attracted to someone as it goes on. It sounds like he wants the fun and thrill of a sexual fling with a hot girl, but in a relationship. But those two things are NOT the same kind of attraction as each other.

[@ghoulishtoad]

Yeah id say animalistic attraction is more just term for i wanna bang hard

[@maxinegould9357]

Only person he’d find attractive is a vision of himself! I mean he’s not exactly gods gift to women is he and being Indian and single at his age shows that he’s not able to keep anybody. I think this was all about being on tv and showing people how fantastic he his and how everyone will be fighting over him but luckily for us he’s just showed the world what huge arse he is 😆

[@SoulDelSol]

To your second paragraph why can't they both be found together

[@MortusSweet]

Animal attraction is indeed real, but is a sub feeling of limerence.

[@vismattress5760]

@@SoulDelSol because they're mutually exclusive.

[@LadyDeutza]

I dated a guy like that... "oh you're my future wife, I wanna introduce you to my mom" etc (he did introduce me). I was like "let's take our time, we just met"... once I was into it and told him "I love you" back, he was immediately not into it anymore. Weirdos!

[@007nadineL]

Actually not weird once you understand how male brains are different from female brains. I highly recommend to you to check out a podcast called make him Wonder done by a dating coach called Paula grooms. She also has a fantastic book every single woman should read this book

[@mikehuff9793]

This guy is so non-self aware. He says things like, “our kids are gonna be really smart,” as a pick up line. When he hears it back he doesn’t stop and realize, “oh, my words have power and real impact on others!” No. He says “it sounds different hearing it from someone else,” without even realizing why.

[@alessandrajackson3768]

I’ll never forget when I went on a date with an boy from India when I was in Highschool. He was this guy in a nutshell, full internalized racism. He spent the whole movie we went to see talking about how “hot” the white women were, and how much he doesn’t like Indian and Black Women. Needless to say, I never called him back.

[@fragrancialima]

So ridiculous. These people are so shallow for real. I'd do the same if I was you 🤦🏻‍♀️😩

[@ziolp]

.... and they wonder why they don't do so well in dating 🤦🏾

[@communistskeletonpiss]

Yikes. Yeah, good you got out fast

[@Brobooke]

@Wangi Lima Could you maybe not generalize a whole race like that? There is undoubtedly a lot of bias in Indian dating culture, but you'll mostly find that in India itself. There are many open minded and "modernized" mindset-having Indians in America that don't deserve the automatic write off. We brown people are trying here... not all of us, but a lot.

[@melodi996]

@@Brobooke where did you even see a mention of a whole race? It's clear what this person meant and it wasn't that. You just show that you yourself think that everyone Indian is like that.

[@TheFrancescanater]

The internalized racism within Shake is REAL

[@sanguine_bean]

Dude, I used to work with this guy at the animal hospital he was a veterinarian with at the time. The way he acts in this show is totally on character for him. He would be staring at stocks between his appointments lol.. anyway! just found your channel and I’m in love with your content. hope u feel better mane ♡

[@shahkhal1134]

We need more details!

[@rafblack2265]

More détails would bé nice

[@vector3d654]

'staring at stocks' what does stock mean?

[@sanguine_bean]

@@vector3d654 he would look at the ticker for different stocks he invested in

[@khoderkhow7393]

Are you serious? Like Ian curious if you REALLY dont Know what stocks are?... damn bro educate yourself

[@Emily-kj1tb]

Something that also irks me is that this rude, sexist guy with internalised racism is going to be a Season 4 host! Why do we keep rewarding assholes and bad behaviour with fame and money?? I hate that about society

[@laural1227]

Really ? Wow

[@Emily-kj1tb]

@@laural1227 yeah last I heard 😣

[@shirin9452]

I think it was an April fools joke, fortunately. That’s definitely not happening

[@tiggytigergaming2596]

she's a 10! she is so emotionally invested in her partners and derives someone who will love her and respect her. I agree with Shake's mom 100%, couldn't be said any better.

[@jackthehat1093]

She's not a 10. All 5 of the others were more attractive. Deepti with make up is a 7.

[@tiggytigergaming2596]

@@jackthehat1093 how do u feel about her personality-wise?

[@jackthehat1093]

@@tiggytigergaming2596 I thought she was really nice. Can't fault her personality at all. Except for when she refused to follow Indian tradition to bow at his feet because she considers them equals but then when he did it to her she said it was perfect. So... not equals then...?

[@tiggytigergaming2596]

@@jackthehat1093 fair big fair

[@AliAhmed-ve5xl]

She is a 2

[@marygray7422]

That guy was so relieved she had the balls to call it all off. He couldn't be straightforward or honest if he tried

[@yeahandthensome]

Honestly that’s the most disappointing thing about shake. Couldn’t stand up for himself even if he grew a second pair of legs.

[@madgab06]

As soon as Shake said “this is a celebration!” I was about to throw shit, the disrespect coming off that man. Deepti deserves the world and someone that will wholeheartedly care about and respects her.

[@AyanAli-py7ci]

Lol she don't even deserve the alter

[@FM-jo1jh]

He's soo emotionally immature for his age. She dodged a bullet!

[@ardenalexa94]

Yep, I’m white and blonde and I wouldn’t go near that man. (His apparent type……

[@mollyoxy]

Deepti is the kindest, most beautiful person I’ve ever seen on any dating show. I literally screamed when she said no to shake. She made the right decision. She deserves A MILLION times better. Shake was so disgusting and disrespectful to her. He’s definitely going to regret treating her like that.

[@MadAliceInWonderland]

Love is Blind is one of my favorite trash tv shows tbh lmao. When I was a kid I used to not understand the appeal of reality shows like this. But as an adult, it's nice to just chill out, see some nice couples, and laugh at the morons.

[@SpookMeows13]

It's not my favorite, but I'm totally with you on not understanding the allure of reality tv. Idk why, but now that I'm in my 30's, I love this garbage hahaha I just can't get enough of it! I feel gross about liking it, but laughing at morons is a fun way to end my day 🙃

[@shyviolets]

I stayed away from "trash tv" when I was younger because people would side eye and judge you for it 🙄 Now that I'm 26 I don't care and just watch what's entertaining lol

[@DantesInferno96]

Lmao same. As a kid I thought it was trash, but as a 25 year old now I just like to laugh at morons.

[@victoriarose5233]

My boyfriend of 3 years makes me cry sometimes because even at my worst he still calls me pretty and beautiful (eg, after surgery, mid emotional breakdown etc) and I’m the same. He’s gorgeous in anything he wears, whether he makes an effort or not. When I think I look gross he doesn’t think that, he makes me feel like the luckiest woman and I hope he feels the same about me

[@procrastinationismyprofession]

oh hells yeah 🤘🏽

[@Mama_Bear524]

That’s awesome. I’m really happy for you

[@Aaabbbccc108]

I don’t even get it, she’s so pretty. Like actually gorgeous and her smile and eyes are like dreamy. He’s ridiculous in saying she’s not attractive I think he just doesn’t want to be married.

[@aho9071]

What confuses me the most is that he is a veterinarian, where you're suppose to show compassion and empathy towards another being. How did he get that job if he's talking to woman or other people like a jerk?

[@the_BattleGoose]

Animals are the only creatures capable of worshipping Shake as much as Shake believes he deserves.

[@apurva616]

No wonder he cares so much about “animalistic attraction” right?

[@Mashy8722]

Cause he’s fake. Obviously his empathy is fake too. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@twinkiesnails8857]

Many doctors and nurses are cold, callious lizards, how dont have an ounce of compassion. Yet they can sometimes be incredibly amazing medical professionals

[@gypsydanger1013]

Have you ever met a vet tech? They're either angels that will give stay overnight with a sick animal, or a psychopath who "accidentally" releases a pitbull in the same room as an injured cat just to see it get mauled

[@reshmapm2578]

As an Indian, we have unfortunately always been taught that brown is ugly and being fair skinned is beautiful since we were kids. As an adult there is a lot to unlearn regarding these biases. I think we are the only community that's racist towards people within the community. Also regarding arranged marriages, these days both men and women can choose to file for divorce... It's still a taboo but people still go ahead with it.

[@ziolp]

You're not. Most colonized countries have colorism and internalized hatred. It's the Legacy of white supremacy. It's good we can recognize it and shield ourselves from this type of behavior.

[@roadtonowhereee]

south east asia in general also has that exact colorism problem, there are a lot of skin care commercials claiming that it can make your skin more "fair" and most make up foundations dont even have dark skin options even though most of the population is dark skinned.

[@ebonelove]

Black folks have always had this problem. Colorism exists almost everywhere

[@melodi996]

That's so sad to know! Especially the fact that it's internalized and people sure about themselves that something with another skin tone is better or worse. Seeing those documentaries about how Indian movie only cast fair-skinned people on leading roles, that's just vile.

[@treegrilld]

Internalised racism is everywhere

[@cysecgnz]

She seemed like such a beautiful woman, inside and out. So glad she said no because he definitely doesn’t deserve her.

[@hj5520]

I love that his mom flat out told him Deepti could find someone better than him

[@wetookachonce6021]

She’s super pretty though??? That man is NOT okay

[@NaturallyEmpressJojo]

Abhishek is honestly just too immature for a show like this and for a serious relationship/marriage. He let go of someone he had a real emotional connection with for a stupid reason IMO. Marriage, done correctly, is not about lust or just physical attraction, it's about choosing to love, care for and serve your significant other everyday for the rest of your lives. Appearances change, beauty fades so what then would keep you in the marriage if your anchor is this "animalistic" attraction? I'm glad Deepti decided against this...man (although I use that term loosely) and know she'll find someone who cherishes her. I hope Abhishek takes this experience and reflects. He shouldn't be such a fool at his big age.

[@briansupermega5692]

In a strong healthy relationship, you need to partners that can satisfy each other in bed and are compatible. Allot of relationship fall of because they become sexless. THis is a childish was of viewing things.

[@DocBree13]

I’m glad he let go of her - she deserves better

[@xxghastlyxx109]

I dated a guy like shake before. Most painful relationship I've had. It was so toxic that I gave up on dating because of him.

[@suitdoggy4707]

I feel like he was hurt at the alter. Not because he loved her or wanted her back. But simple because she got to call it off first. You can really tell it damaged his pride that she said no first. So now he has to play up this “I didn’t love her anyway” to really imply he didn’t like her from the start. It’s sad and honestly disgusting. If he didn’t want to marry her so bad he should have called it off the minute his feelings changed.

[@Sharpe1502]

“I’m gonna getchu pregnant,” Girl. RUN!!!!

[@luminescent_tides]

You gave him SOOOOO much more credit than he deserves, so good on you for doing something I can’t 😂 They should have kicked him off the show the second he made it obvious he only wants a petite blonde 🤯 He made it blatantly clear he’s EXTREMELY superficial, I think, to the point of not caring if he ever finds “the one”. He wasted the show’s time, her time, the audience’s time, his families time….he’s the human embodiment of what’s wrong with the world when it comes to dating. Everybody thinks they’re entitled to a f’ing influencer model 🤮

[@zorro......]

idfgi bc deepti literally could be an influencer model. shes beautiful.

[@ima.m.1658]

It's sad bc white women (and especially blonde who everyone obsesses about) are not any better looking than any other race/ethnicity of women. But Shek is an adult and he hasn't done any work to unlearn this stuff!

[@tonichan89]

The show love this shit for drama and it's gotten the show more attention. That program is hardly about love :P so why would they boot him off? In their world, he's given them gold. Or I guess in Shake's words, "it's a net positive 🤪"

[@luminescent_tides]

@@zorro...... True…a model WITH brains, class, personality and empathy!

[@luminescent_tides]

@@tonichan89 You’re exactly right…We’ll probably see him again on other “dating” or “finding love” reality shows in the future…a lot of these people only audition for reality shows so they can put it on their resume in the hopes of a bigger acting gig down the line….”Net Positive” 🤮

[@meataidstheft]

I had a sexual encounter after which the dude said I reminded him of his aunt so we shouldn't date. After sex. AFTER. It's all good and I just laughed it off because he bragged leading up to it how awesome he was in bed and then it was not remotely good. I got used as a fleshlight lol.

[@007nadineL]

You allowed yrself to be used as a fleshlight. Why not have higher respect for yrself? .

[@leojamison3768]

Guantanamo Bay couldn't waterboard this out of me

[@hotmess9640]

@@leojamison3768😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Karina4News]

Dude is definitely not ready for marriage. His reaction to her telling him no says everything we need to know about his character. When Deepti told him she deserves more I was like “yES”

[@bebephat]

Poor Deepti. I dated a brown guy like this before (I’m Blasian) and aside from one ex I was the only other POC he had ever dated. The rest were all white. And I remember him saying he “didn’t want to date white anymore cause his last ex’s family was racist”. But when we broke up I found out he was following a bunch of white OnlyFans model, and started dating white women again. Why bother lying? Lol so weird. Doesn’t help the fact that he also love bombed me like how Shake did to Deepti. So cringe and creepy.

[@bebephat]

@@Himanshi.Y and embarrassing too…big yikes

[@marianneh.1329]

what does "love bomb" mean?

[@bebephat]

@@marianneh.1329 it’s a psychology term but basically it means when a person, normally intentionally, showers you with affection, makes lots of promises and vows, etc in a very short timespan to manipulate you. But sometimes they’re not doing it on purpose and just have unhealthy habit of doing it

[@vector3d654]

Be careful of the nri scam tho. His personality seems like he might try that.

[@jamiehershon]

I am a white blonde and got treated like shit by brown guys like him before. It's not just POC who get this treatment. Initially they were attracted to me but once in became more exclusive, that's when I saw them for who they were. I'm a thick person who has a body type that ranges from sexy thick to chubby. One specifically told me that I'm not to gain any weight and one said he would pay for me to go on Weight Watchers. They would often make comments about me being a dumb, white American woman to their family as well and would make jokes about me. Needless to say I stopped seeing them.

[@KittySnicker]

Shake isn’t bad looking but his attitude is ugly. Having said that, Deepti was too hot for him. I really don’t get why he did such a 180. Also, I chuckled when you did the Whisper Song with the pillow.

[@rodneymills6477]

When his mom just ate him in one bite... I was so here for it.

[@rodneymills6477]

I honestly feel like the "family member" thing is just some internalized racism. And... now he's a jerk.

[@thewildadversary]

Who’s gonna tell him that marriage is “IN SICKNESS AND HEALTH”??? Like, of course it is important to be physically attracted to someone and I would def not ever be on that show. But also, what if your spouse’s health changes and they gain weight? What if they are in an accident which scars their face? If you love someone enough to marry them, you must be willing to love them through anything that comes in the future, even if it becomes difficult to be physically attracted to them. I’m not saying it wouldn’t be hard, but that’s what you’re signing up for when you get married. You have to be emotionally mature enough to handle that.

[@sufiheart]

I gotta say...I went on a date with someone who looked just liked my uncle. It was weird! Though I have no problem dating a brown guy, the fact that he looked and reminded me so much of my uncle was too hard to get over. BUT why then did he grab her butt in such a vulgar way at first sight???? knowing he's not attracted to her makes that move even more disgusting.

[@coldchipsspoils]

omg the way he grabbed was assault it was so gross like she's just meat 🤢🤮

[@jackthehat1093]

@@coldchipsspoils No it wasn't assault and people like you should stop blowing these kind of things out of proportion. If you actually watched the show, he told her he was going to do it whilst they were still in the pods.

[@theredscum4202]

@@jackthehat1093 really ain't the hill to die on buddy

[@jadeharley7190]

To be completely fair in interviews deepti did say they had talked about that before they saw each other in person for the first time and that she was ok with it. Def still gross in the context of his later actions tho

[@HeeJunMinx2]

If you look at it back is after she laughed a certain way maybe his aunt tends to laugh like that and it just hit him...I once dated this guy that looked lit like my uncle and he was nice and all...but I could not get over him looming like my uncle

[@valentina1219]

He looks like the type of guy that will crawl back to her, crying that he was a fool for letting her go once he realises that nobody actually wants to seriously date someone as unlikeable as him lol

[@melz6126]

That is so so true I wouldn’t be surprised if something like that happens. He’ll get older and soon younger girls won’t even entertain his lame ass and he’ll realize just how lonely he is

[@kristianaia]

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and the "animalistic" attraction actually didn't start until recently. I have always known that he is my soulmate and we plan on getting married in the next few years. We grew together and we fell more in love and more infatuated with each other as a consequence. Take a chance on a good thing

[@ladyreverie7027]

Absolutely that happened to me with my fiance.

[@brandimccormick4439]

Shak is blessed that he's got a mother who's honest with him.

[@beyedoc]

1) He may love her platonically 2) He may be thinking that infatuation is what makes a marriage, but if the emotional connection and life goals are right, the physical will come and it may just not be time yet.

[@Peanut_taco_muffin]

Well said!

[@lolaBee9]

Exactly! I think he's emotionally immature. If he gets married with the mindset he has now it most likely won't be as successful as it could have been with her

[@briansupermega5692]

Are you expecting 2 adults. TO just not have sex? Humans are sexual creatures. THat would be terrible for them especially when their so young and Deepti wants to have kids. Sexual attraction disappears over time because sex drime because worse, that's why 2 partners need to be attracted to each in other physically and have good chemistry before getting married and deciding to spent their rest of their life with that person. Sexless marriages cause divorce this is just childish.

[@shaleamontanez4591]

@@briansupermega5692 I think the idea is that you can be sexually attracted to someone you're not typically attracted too. A deep connection emotionally is equally as important as a sexual one.

[@briansupermega5692]

@@shaleamontanez4591 But that doesn’t apply in shakes case? Since he when he met her and spent times with her still couldn’t develop a sexual attraction to her no matter how much he would of wanted to.

[@comedyblastYT]

When your fiance's mom tells you that you can do better, listen. Either she's right and you can or you are gonna have problems with her and it's gonna be messy

[@mautumn98]

😂me and my husband were friends for 7 months before we even thought about dating. Getting taken off guard by suddenly being attracted to your best friend was the best feeling ever. Better than instant attraction.

[@007nadineL]

Talk to your husband and he will tell you that he was instantly attracted to you the second he laid eyes on you. All stand here waiting while you go ask him. I'm confident he is going to tell you that he only had eyes from you from the get-go

[@maddy02_]

Everytime I hear Leo sprinkle in his own stands and opinions, I realise I want someone like him this mentally and emotionally grown up and reasonable. Speaks out of my soul. Hope you find a great gf at some point leo, you deserve it 😤💋

[@firstnamelastname4244]

Why can't he just be honest with her!? It's so cringe (but entertaining) to see him dig a hole and for what ever reason instead of stopping. This genius keeps digging past the point of being able to climb out.

[@jenpenn22]

Shake is insufferable and I'd be shocked if any one wanted to date him after this

[@lolaBee9]

I get the feeling this'll only attract savy gold diggers who know they meet his qualifications. I see a nasty divorce in his future

[@jenpenn22]

@@lolaBee9 couldn't agree more

[@aznmochibunny]

Spoiler: He's now dating another girl, who, shocker, is a white blonde girl.

[@jenpenn22]

@@aznmochibunny not even surprising

[@Delicate_Disaster]

The way the reacted when he saw her literally had me with my face twisted like I just smelled hot garbage. That man is just "ick" enough to make my skin crawl.

[@ratstograts]

"Play that funky music brown boy." Too funny.

[@moxiemaxie3543]

Alot of men say "ILY" then when the woman says it back they're like "She getting too attached,moving too fast.CLINGY" 😂That includes you Soulja Boy from 90day😂

[@mackie911]

I have to say Deepthi looked breathtaking on her wedding day. I got goosebumps. She deserved so much better. A good man deserved to see her like that

[@argentumsound]

Leo, thank you for treating women like you say you do. My heart melted when you said "I think the girls that I have dated look the best wearing sweats. They don't need make up and they don't need to dress up because I think they're beautiful just by existing." As a girl who likes to be comfortable and enjoys reading, hiking, playing video games - it means a lot for you to say that. I don't know why it's so hard for some people to recognize a woman as a fellow human being with interests and a mind of her own, but it does really hurt to read some of the stuff they say e.g. on reddit. It's either "red pillers" saying that women are just hurting themselves by doing anything beside child-bearing, and on the other hand - "nice guys" that will simp and salivate over you if you look even remotely attractive, and then call you a b*tch and a wh*re when you are not falling for their manipulations. Thank you for treating woman as humans. I wish you the most amazing girl as a life partner.

[@thornhex]

i love the moms speech about how he shouldnt lead her on and stop having her waste her love on him when she could be giving and receiving the love on someone who loves her back side note: my grandfather came from a wealthy family and back in ww2 he was in an arrange marriage to his cousin but he refused cause he wanted to marry for love not money and power

[@creamvaniilla1395]

The "InsTiCTuAL and AnImAlIsTiC" feeling Shake is looking for is Lust and Infatuation 😐. And that ish fades so fast, he has that emotional connection with Deepti but Shake is so closeminded and shallow. He doesn't realize that, that emotional connection is what keeps marriages connected for 40 years+. Shake is not wrong, you should be physically attracted to your partner but he never gave it anytime. He's so accustomed to lust and infatuation, that actually having to slow down and let your attraction grow is not appealing to him.

[@kawaiibrittanii]

As someone who is very much a visual person, I can say that my partner is not at all my ideal dream boat when it just boils down to his looks. I originally just viewed him as a friend, and as time went on, I had become more attracted to his personality, quirkiness, passions, and we've already started planning our future together. Something I never had with any of my ex's. I do hope that Shake, and anyone else who's also a very visual person actually take the time to not just have conversations with new potential partners, but to also think ahead for their future. If you can't see your future with that person, it's best to not lead them on, because it's not just a waste of your time, but theirs as well.

[@beth4692]

Tbh looking back even over my crushes from age 12-18 I realised I really don’t have a type, I don’t think most people have as much of a steadfast type as they think they do, my celebrity crushes lined up would look like someone on acid was asked what their fantasy dinner party would be. I think when you eliminate characteristics (physical and personality wise) you straight up do not like at all, anyone else with the right personality or similarities to you can be attractive. Like imagine turning someone down who could have been your soul mate just because they have brown hair or is 5’9 instead of 5’11?

[@zorro......]

right! im a bit shallow and judgmental (internally! i try not to let it affect how i treat people). and i did not think my boyfriend was my type right off the bat when i met him. but we spent so much time together and we had such good emotional chemistry. and now we've been together 3 years and i think hes hot as fuck and want him all the time! the emotional connection and safety i feel with him allows there to be the fireworks shake keeps being hung up over not having.

[@user-fk7ec8vu9f]

For me I kind of develope physical attraction to people as I get to know them, like I can find people attractive in like a "Oh nice hair" way but if I end up liking them all of the sudden they're like gorgeous ya know? It kinda baffles me when I hear people like shake talk,,

[@ishokie]

@@user-fk7ec8vu9f me too!!!

[@nina-sv2wo]

@@user-fk7ec8vu9f me too! it's always a little bit awkward when my friends say someone is attractive and I can't really agree because "I don't know them"😂

[@nunyabizness573]

His dead pan eyes in the pool when she was so passionate and excited about him was an indication the relationship would fail. Even if they had married, he would have cheated on her. She still had so much sadness in her eyes when she said "he doesn't deserve me" because for awhile there she was deceived (by him) and had to face reality on her own (with the help of her parents). This guy had the expectations of a teenager who expected that the way to choose a partner was if they were all over each other.

[@ArinSauls]

She looked so pretty in her wedding dress. I love it and the jewelry. Glad she ditched that pos also.

[@poisonevie6667]

Ugh- he’s a total dud. He sounds completely immature, shallow and egotistical. She deserves much much more than that. Even his own mother said so much.

[@jessterdayoncemore7049]

Shake messed her around and it was totally inexcusable. He can be as shallow as he wants but dragging this poor girl down, shame on him

[@FirstLast-po8oz]

the animal attraction is called the "honeymoon phase" and an actual relationship starts at the end of it, you learn to love the person.

[@Peanut_taco_muffin]

Regardless of whether YOU are superficial, which it sounds like you are, there are many people in the world who do not place that much emphasis on looks. Looks fade. If being physically attracted to your partner for your entire life is what you expect, you’re going to be disappointed. Your viewpoint isnt much different than Shake’s honestly.

[@nikifmradio]

He radiates low self esteem. I’m not even fully convinced he’s ever had an actual relationship with a woman.

[@nikifmradio]

@@islixxn you good bro? 🙂 *not talking about Leo in this btw

[@nikifmradio]

@@islixxn how is my comment remotely sexist?? You can tell he has low self esteem by the way he acts. & there a plenty of women who act the same way because they also have low self esteem. I don’t understand how anything I said could possibly equate to a sexist remark.

[@nikifmradio]

@@islixxn you’re severely misunderstanding my comment and taking it way too much to heart. I’m stating facts. Having low self esteem and/or never being in a relationship is normal for both sexes and also wouldn’t be at all of a problem if the person wasn’t a jerk about it. I can’t over explain it any more than I have so have a nice day now.

[@islixxn]

@@nikifmradio still gross how you said it and liking ur own comments

[@queenamour7496]

Exactly

[@AnymousScreams]

Love is Blind is such a bad premise. Love isn't truly blind. Emotional connection, liking personality, and having common interests are rather important, but love includes appearance somehow.

[@aubsesque]

Indeed. Attraction is important at the get, although personality compatability is ultimately what matters in the long run. Looks fade, personality is forever.

[@nadirimyers6643]

Honestly I feel like for some women/ men it could have been ANY kinda nice, kinda attractive, kinda financially sound guy/ girl and as long as they both willing to work things out they honest could have married anyone. Some ppl just think cus they getting older they supposed to be married so as long as the person don’t annoy them too much.. they good

[@lolaBee9]

Attraction in real life is what gets people interested enough to find out if they're compatible. Ultimately the inside stuff is what makes it last though. That part's harder to find. Some people will stick around longer than they should have or mistake physical attraction for love. This show is supposed to help people avoid those traps so they can find more compatible partners faster

[@dianaselnekovicova948]

I think even with age we still can find face of love one in our partner☺️and even it is important to see our partner how she/he acts in different life situation or with other people, what you don’t really see in this show before choosing partner

[@HollyBerry0255]

I have to say man, you are super attractive. I thought you were pretty cute when I first saw one of your videos but as I watched all of them, I was like damn haha this man is ATTRACTIVE. You got a banging personality man and I Love watching your videos! 😂😊

[@spectre9340]

Love how in every single one of Leo's videos, at least one person comments on how good looking he is 😌

[@melodi996]

Just shows that emotional connection is #1 no matter what, we judge looks at first which is normal, but the more we love person's personality, the less we care about looks and flaws.

[@maddy02_]

Same! Fat agree. Hope Leo knows, that, everytime I hear him talk about being single my heart breaks a little because he deserves a banger woman 😤

[@tjj2040]

@@maddy02_ same Maddy same

[@lizb2620]

Leo is def a panty dropper irl

[@TheThora17]

I am thrilled that, without knowing how shitty Snake is as a whole person, Deepti was genuine, smart and true enough to herself, she knew to ditch out. Good job Gurl- as much as it probably still hurt, she'll find her Prince Charming and laugh at this speed bump.

[@monicahyland8641]

This girl is stunning and I’m glad she said no, she deserves a good looking guy too and he just wasn’t it

[@beth4692]

Doesn’t matter how good or bad my day is going, Leo uploading always makes it better Also Leo you need to do a video on “married at first sight” it’s British too so you can make fun of our teeth Edit: if you guys want him to do a married at first sight video let him know too!

[@Loves.curse666]

U can text him on Instagram to make sure he gets the idea! Seems like a really good one :)

[@tinniesealjiji]

Or our accent

[@beth4692]

@@tinniesealjiji honestly I love seeing people take the piss out of us, we’re one of those nationalities that are so pessimistic and sarcastic even jokes at our expense are a win

[@beth4692]

@@Loves.curse666 you guys do it too! I sent him some nicocado clips he asked for on a stream a few days ago so don’t wanna bombard him !

[@sixteenleo]

MAFS huh, will do, also im sure you all have beautiful teefs, i just love the accent so itll give me an excuse to do that

[@heatherkrug8401]

When I was 22 A friend of mine really liked me and everyone wanted us to get together. But I wasn't attracted to him. We hung out a lot. I gave it a shot...i dated him..i fell so in love with him I actually became extremely attracted to him. We almost married. He was and is still my soul mate. Life happens ;God took him. RIP Andy😒 Ten years and 2 kids later still single. A once in a lifetime love.

[@kendrahall5902]

Awwww I'm sorry to hear that.

[@chickenlittle5095]

Just think of the fact that the majority of people don’t get to find that ‘real one’. He was taken from you too soon but you got to experience that love. Maybe why you are single is because now you have experienced the best, you won’t settle for anything less.

[@babsybabsy2822]

Women do this a lot. A man can be butt ugly and a woman can be fine with that as long as he is good to them. When it’s the opposite it doesn’t work. Women do not want to be thought of as ugly but their personality made them beautiful over years.

[@victoriaskully7709]

I am so sorry to hear that. Sending you strength

[@Peanut_taco_muffin]

I’m so sorry 😢

[@taressastraughter7788]

He doesn't have to be attracted to her(even though it's weird how he doesn't find people with his features attractive) but he should have not led her own and been honest about his dating mandate.

[@sintura]

i've heard that arranged marriages work based on this thing where parents would select a few families whose sons they like, from there they'll talk with their daughter and eventually narrow down the one person they'll select who is a good fit for the daughter. that obviously isn't the same as forced marriage where a bride has totally no say.

[@havenprice]

I dont know if the netflix show on that was accurate but it does reflect your statement. Its parties going into it willingly.

[@jasforevermore977]

i feel like shake definitely got rejected from too hot to handle bc he wasn't attractive enough so he decided to go for love is blind

[@katewho1111]

It’s crazy how attraction works.. You can be good looking but also be unattractive at the same time. & vice versa: a person can be somewhat good looking & be hot as hell - it’s really all based upon ones personality. Looking forward to your next video sixteenleo

[@AR-kl7nv]

Hotness Vs beauty

[@nanunanu641]

Not only calling his gf ugly but he straight outta pocket his aunt like that. Man’s unhinged