Man Has Love Triangle With His Girlfriend and Mom...Colt (90 Day Fiancé)

[@maplesyrup1223]

IM SORRY BUT THE ‘I think colt’s cool, I just think he’s boring and no respect for women’ TOOK ME OUT I CANT- 😭😭😭😭

[@jennifervielmas9459]

That sums up most of my relationships. Wise woman that one

[@RyznZ]

The fact I read this as it happened..💀

[@chantelvenessa]

What a catch 😂

[@elderxemo92]

Funny how she thought he was cool then turned around and contradicted herself. 😆

[@ByzantineDarkwraith]

@jsjk and shoes :/

[@yvechapman9342]

Colt says "wanna get married?" in the exact tone and level of enthusiasm as someone saying "wanna get tacos?"

[@BigStankyFish]

Like "I guess..?" The confidence of yeah let's do it. Im definitely regretting this later.

[@Rebecca-ex2ge]

​@@BigStankyFishjust like tacos.

[@Moi_81]

I love Tacos more than marriage

[@backalleycqc4790]

More like "wanna pay more taxes?"

[@Megan6772]

Less ....... 🌮😍🌮😍

[@randybobandy4000]

I love how Debbie just slipped in a little innocent comment about Vanessa watching the cats, cause she knew it would piss Jess off...queen of manipulation.

[@yuki97kira]

Guess colt inherit it from her

[@mysticmoth1111]

Colt learned it from the best

[@Baldjotarokujo]

Frr

[@Magical_Trash]

Honestly, I’m glad she did. Home girl would 100% regret marrying Colt in the long run. Even his exgf tried to warn her 😬

[@Aquafvna]

Narcissistic

[@pandacookies0356]

The fact that Larissa went out of her way to warn Jess shows me that Larissa couldn’t have been the problem that Colt and TLC wants to make her out to be

[@Montanafelines]

I never honestly did never think she was. You Brazilian women are fire…. If you don’t want to see it, don’t f)@k with y’all ! Lololol

[@Montanafelines]

Wait, hold on, you’re not the Brazilian girl in the comments, sorry my bad lololol

[@Marijuana_Kid]

I think it was Vanessa who tried to worn Jess?

[@EverestBlizzard]

Larissa@@Marijuana_Kid

[@weelzneal4768]

The fact they had footage of her is what I think is weird, aren't they off the show now??

[@maddieals]

the fact that colton tried to label jess as crazy when she was completely right about vanessa and colt was literally cheating on her makes me mad lol

[@dansanders2002]

Colton 😂 is that his full name? Hahaha

[@tanychagomez3198]

@@dansanders2002 yes

[@dansanders2002]

@@tanychagomez3198 there's no way that's a real name hahaha

[@Montanafelines]

@@dansanders2002 yepp

[@triggertigger4336]

@@dansanders2002Dan isn’t a real name slob by

[@annissaary8321]

As someone who grew up in a very physically abusive house, where my mom would hit my father, has broken his nose, and everything, my dad has EVERY right to call the cops on her. ABUSE IS ABUSE and male spousal abuse needs to taken more seriously. Just because you're a woman does NOT give you the right to hit your partner. No one should lay their hands on their partner, and you have every right to call the cops on your absuers.

[@boojersey13]

I agree, I remember in the past Leo made a joke regarding Chris Brown and all he said was he was a good musical artist?? I remember the comments were like why not Mention The Obvious

[@christmastiger]

Agreed, abuse should NEVER be tolerated no matter what society tells us about the victim/perpetrator dynamic and nobody should have to suffer that pain and feel as though they can't do anything about it. Thank you for speaking up as abuse is abuse no matter who is enacting it, I hope your dad is no longer in that situation and doing better

[@annissaary8321]

@@christmastiger thank you so much for you kind words, sadly as in much abusive situations, both my parents have gotten used to the abuse they've endourned and are still together, which is another reason why I decided to be so outspoken about domestic abuse

[@sukmydikgoogle5666]

From what of seen of colt he was probably asking for it, he has what you call a punishable face. I mean I don't really even know the dude and I want to hit him.

[@NikkiCaswell]

This. Shaming a guy for getting help because it would 'make him look bad' is the reason why this cycle is even happening. The justice system has many things against men from having a say and paying the price for crimes that they might not have even committed as it is. I think Leo is cool and has well intentions with his messages, but having this type of mentality doesn't set well on so many levels.

[@dynamopirate470]

I just love it when sneaky cheaters call their partners "crazy" because they don't like them prowling around other women. The whole time Jess was right but of course she is labeled crazy and jealous. Colt literally told Jess that he didn't talk to Vanessa anymore and yet she fucking babysat their cats? Yeah I would be pretty suspicious too.

[@AnnieYaYa]

Are you caught up with Colt's story?

[@dynamopirate470]

@@AnnieYaYa Of course I am

[@AnnieYaYa]

@@dynamopirate470 so you definitely know how manipulative he was. Rewatching these earlier episodes with that knowledge makes it so much harder to watch

[@jessica5470]

At any point you have to lie to your partner, might as well just end it for their sake, just shows how he doesn't care about her, he cares about what she can do for him

[@princesssmileyface91]

My ex use to do that too, gas light, say I’m just jealous, or make me to be the crazy one, that’s what they do.

[@janisBFF]

It’s disturbing how many men I see with very similar toxic and weird relationships with their mothers babying them. I’m grateful my parents treated my sister and I equally to our brother.

[@jessica5470]

I've heard many reddit stories about man baby's but I think sometimes the parent is definitely manipulative, I've heard stories of mum's guilt tripping their sons to do stuff for them and if they're not financially stable they don't really have much of a choice, there are definitely some guys who clearly enjoy it, but I think some guys do it just to keep their toxic mother at bay

[@citizenvulpes4562]

@@jessica5470 bro my mom's like this I'm just like, no you're drunk I'm blocking your number till you sober up

[@alexis-gk4us]

emotional incest is one hell of a thing

[@purpleonii]

sadly is not only sons

[@purgetheXYs]

Makes sense wby all these crybabies are all over the internet.

[@cupcakeordeath]

I laughed for a solid minute at “I think he’s a good lifeguard but he can’t swim and last week he drowned in the shallow end.”

[@SpydersByte]

I was gonna like this but its at 69 so.....

[@meglove6214]

Turns out he was cheating with Vanessa the WHOLE time. So Jess was right. It's not right to be violent, but she was right to not trust him. Him and Vanessa even had a meet up with Jess and her new husband to apologize for lying and cheating 🤷‍♂️

[@nina_mariel]

It's so disappointing that Colt NEVER in any of his relationships does he try to act like a buffer or stand up for anyone. He just freezes, zones out, and lets the card land wherever they land. It's such a baby move.

[@byrnetdown6076]

sounds like a trauma response to meee I had an ex that did this because he was used to being yelled at or beaten if he said anything

[@Baldjotarokujo]

It is but I feel bad for him. I feel as if Debbie is manipulating him

[@sergioc.7910]

It's because he's meek and absolutely pathetic.

[@DantesInferno96]

It's like he doesn't care

[@_Cassia_]

@Ritalin Regiment couldn’t agree more

[@idontexist1966]

I'm kinda glad Larisa looked out for the girl and warned her about how terrible the other two are.

[@davidfaustino4476]

Yeah. Because that broad isn't completely insane..

[@BrandanTheBroker]

Like Larissa is a model of innocence, but yeah Colt is a dick

[@ana-zb7ix]

Too bad she didn’t listen.

[@cookie5535]

@@davidfaustino4476Larissa is more sane than any of the white racist POS on that series

[@rhuntern]

Idk if this makes sense, but it's kind of a red flag to me that Colt will hook up with Vanessa who clearly has feelings for him, give her all the benefits of being a close friend, so on and so forth, but still pursue people from other countries with broken English. It feels to me, that he'd much rather be in a relationship he can control instead of being with someone on equal terms. It looks like he could have a good thing with Vanessa, and it's clear there's mutual attraction there, PLUS, being such a momma's boy, Vanessa is literally approved by his mom. But, he keeps sidelining her for random girls and I just don't get it. It feels really slimy. Almost like he hooked up with her because no one else would hook up with him.

[@jessica5470]

For some people it's quantity over quality, he seems like someone who just wants attention off as many women as possible for his ego

[@andradatomoni5909]

Him and Vanessa are engaged, as far as I last know... But the engagement was quite cringy to watch 🙈 he basically jammed the ring on her finger and I don't think she actually said yes

[@bubblesppgz11]

@@karenl5971 while I agree the way they said it came off slightly weird, I think what they're getting at is that Colt is actively seeking out women who likely aren't able to communicate as well and are more likely to depend on him financially because it makes it easier to manipulate them. Like Vanessa despite being what he sort of wants (at least physically) seems well spoken and therefore Colt may think that she's more likely to stand up for herself and articulate her thoughts when he puts some bullshit. There's a horrible trend od men on these shows assuming that foreign women aren't smart purely because they can't speak English. Obviously that's bs but it is something that makes it easier to write the girl off as crazy or irrational when it doesn't work out.

[@rhuntern]

@@karenl5971 First of all, the phrasing implies the people have broken english, not the countries. "People from other countries with broken english" is what I said. Not sure why you're interpreting that as me thinking that countries that don't speak english are "countries with broken english". Or, if I'm understanding the implication correctly, why you would believe that I think broken english is a bad thing. Not everyone can know every language, that shit is hard. No faults that way coming from me. Secondly, @Chai-Tea is correct. The point I was making is that Colt isn't really looking for a relationship, he's looking for someone he can take advantage of. I'm not judging the broken english, I'm judging Colt. He's taking advantage of potential communication issues. If you look at Vanessa, she's basically what he wants, plus she's already "approved" by his mom. So it's clear he could find someone in his area, even if it wasn't Vanessa. So, why go out to other countries, especially ones where English might not be the first language? Because he's looking for a power difference. It's scummy af, because it's also probably coming from a place of stereotypes and white-superiority. If anything, what I was saying has nothing to do with the women he seeks to date, and only has to do with him. I just find it really scummy how he, and most of the people I see from 90 Day Fiance, operate. They weird me out.

[@bubblesppgz11]

@@rhuntern This 💯! It's so obviously targeted to those who they think they can control, gives me this heebie jeebies everytime!

[@meli3346]

honestly Jess has every right to be upset about vanessa. Literally colt got jealous Bc Jess was dating other people before she even knew him. Jess has every right to be upset about a boundary she expressed to him that she didn’t want him crossing. If she was still “close” to a guy she had sex wit previous to colt, he would be just as upset and be questioning her too.

[@StrawberryMoonlights]

“I hope the presence of my mother will calm her down”

[@snooganslestat2030]

Debbie saying NO when Colt says hes going to date again is abnormal. When she also says he isnt going to make any good decisions she ought to wonder why that is & perhaps do some self reflection.

[@brainrich1358]

But she doesn't want to

[@Baldjotarokujo]

A woman in her sixties shouldn't want to sabotage her 36 yr old sons relationship it's immature and she's disquasting

[@chriswilson1968]

It's not abnormal at all, she said it from a place of thinking that he literally just got out of a dog shit marriage and she probably just thinks it's smart to chill out for a little while. A lot of people would have a similar reaction. It's not from some weird place of her not wanting her son to have any female in his life but her lol She would have never even agreed to this show or many other things if that's her way of thinking.

[@louhortonsculpture]

When Debbie dreads his new girlfriends it sounds like she’s telling her plans, more like “I’m going to ruin this,” “oh another one I have to run off?”

[@steppin-razor]

Leo you're right, in a relationship when you're fighting and pissed, there's just some things you can't take back after you say. In my last relationship, no matter how nasty it got there were just some things I would never have said to him just to hurt him. You gotta have those boundries. He would say ANYTHING to hurt me when he was mad at me, throw all my insecurities in my face and exploit them. And I never forgot those things, ya know? It's like "so that's what you really think"

[@george-qz9un]

Man I feel you and it's so true. It was the exact same for me in my last relationship too.

[@Capybaragee]

Same thing for me but my ex best friend did that when we last argued years ago. I can’t remember what she said but I do remember nobody ever told me anything as awful and hit literally all of my weak points. Makes sense considering she didn’t understand what boundaries were 🥲

[@mariafolcan1927]

man, im glad you left that relationship, you seem like a genuinely mentally grown person and i wish you will find a better person, that respects you. cheers

[@johnathanpabon7063]

My ex was just a bitter salty mean person mrs ebenezer honestly

[@steppin-razor]

@@mariafolcan1927 thanks girl, I appreciate that ^__^

[@kallyb1998]

Colt is a Class A Gaslighting Narcissistic boyfriend. He hits every criteria like a perfectionist.

[@uk9383]

Exactly. Like for real. He ticks like literally every box. He is like the textbook narcissist. First his situation with mother then manipulations, gaslighting...

[@allisonmarlow184]

EVERYTHING he does is a red flag!!

[@jupiterzombies]

and debbie is still somehow even worse

[@axelbauron155]

@@yungchildsupport9372 You mean, you're a nice guy but no woman wants to sleep with you?

[@arshiaaghaei]

@@jupiterzombies Usually people get their worst traits from their family.

[@gregmcb5305]

I like how he totally gets off scot-free for lying to her just because she gets upset. She didn’t act respectfully or like an adult but honestly you can’t just pretend like that makes them even.

[@subzero961]

Separating someone from any other support group like Colt did with her friends is a major red flag of possessive, manipulative and abusive people. You heard it all in the language when he said their relationship comes first.

[@siddsux9138]

Y’all who defend colt have obviously not seen the show and only clips of it. He is almost more toxic than big Ed.

[@purgetheXYs]

Almost but Ed completely takes the cake

[@allisonmarlow184]

Colt MAKES himself the victim -- in every encounter. He causes the war, then steps out of it with a dumb perplexed look, like "wha' happened?"

[@lexippgr]

@@allisonmarlow184 plus he’s a serial cheater

[@MrDeano-eu9rg]

Who the fuck is defending either of them on here....no one.

[@beanybabyrabie]

THIS! At least Colt can admit it and isn’t always working from a victim angle and isn’t super controlling and middle aged and narcissistic

[@AstralDiadem]

Three things I hate : manipulation, dishonesty, and the victim mentality. No one takes responsibility for their actions anymore. Unrelated - I love these videos. They crack me up every time.

[@r3mikk]

Same I hate it when ppl are dishonest and etc,

[@snooganslestat2030]

I hate hypocrisy and all of the above!

[@elderxemo92]

These are the reasons I'm super cautious about dating in 2022. And it just started 😆. Starting it off single and aware of people's words and actions. If they can't be mature, fuck outta here. 🥰😘

[@purgetheXYs]

Big facts

[@allisonmarlow184]

Be cautious of the injustice collectors!!! They come in both sexes.

[@fabianatrindade56]

As a Brazilian I gotta tell you, no need to apologize for doing our accent. It's hilarious, I love it 🤣

[@karenl5971]

Lmao same

[@Justexposingevil]

When I was 13 I was at Busch Gardens theme park in Tampa Florida and there was a lot of Brazilian young ladies there and on a ride with my cousin the girls behind us read my shirt in that what I find beautiful accent of Portuguese/American accent and then said something in Portuguese which to this day I don't know what she said but I looked at my cousin and said one day when I get married it will be to a lady from Brazil...... Still haven't gotten married and all of my friends from Brazil are dudes lol so yeah one of these days haha 😆

[@hannahbarbarian6786]

@@Justexposingevil you want to marry someone bc of their accent? It's giving fetishization. Gross.

[@Justexposingevil]

@@hannahbarbarian6786 wow lol whats wrong with you I was a kid and the girl was beautiful. I'm an adult now and was simply sharing a story. You don't know me and I don't have some fetish. Go spread you illogical comments elsewhere

[@trooby8881]

@@hannahbarbarian6786 you need to take a long long long break from the internet and go outside

[@MsNikkieMichelle]

“Since when does he go to the gym.” Lmao 🤣

[@yeahimmaweinahgurl]

Colt literally was trying to piss her off. Jesus. He is vile actually. I'm surprised she had the self control not to slap that sneer off his face. Oh man. Edit: it's an hour of watching Colt attempt to dig his own grave. I enjoy greatly.

[@rebeccascott2197]

The level of emotional incest between Colt and Debbie is so disturbing!

[@mariperez8337]

Every time Leo does the “yeh they sat down and talked it out, grew as people - oop I lied” but I always fall for it 😭😂

[@blackpepper8062]

Same. I was impressed that he would explain his mother’s controlling behaviour but it was a LIE 💀

[@mariperez8337]

@@blackpepper8062 we’ve been betrayed 😭

[@maybewise]

The part about her saying she was gonna f another guy isn't a double standard. He'd been going behind her back to hangout with his old hookup, calling her his "best friend", and gaslighting her into thinking she had nothing to worry about. I'd (verbally) throw the kitchen sink at him too. Though I agree with your point about the physical aspect, there's nothing wrong with what she said, considering the circumstances.

[@corncakes5046]

Leo is right. If a guy said they were gonna bang their ex, a lot of people would say he's childish, toxic and deserved to be cheated on or that he's worse than the person that did wrong to him. They'd say he should just move on and be quiet. I don't think there's anything wrong with telling someone how you feel once you've established that they give no fucks about you and never have. Jess can bang her ex if she wants to. But the double standard is definitely there. Imo it's either wrong for everyone or it's okay for everyone.

[@maybewise]

@@corncakes5046 You're just blatantly leaving out the fact that the other person has been constantly lying and sneaking around with their ex. What's threatening to cheat on someone compared to ACTUALLY being unfaithful? You're painting her as someone who just randomly lost their shxt for no reason.

[@whispycake64]

while i agree mostly with what you said, i think the more mature thing wouldve been to just drop him and leave instead of trying to get “back” at him. though he was acting immature this entire relationship so it makes sense that she lost it

[@soyooin]

@@whispycake64 i don't understand why she has to be the bigger person, when the guy is already shitty and immature what's the point?

[@justineseitzinger5340]

Cosplaying as a croissant - that's literally the best reference to Colt I've ever heard anyone make 🤣👏

[@malloryfraney1683]

I choked on my curry when colt was explaining why he only booked one room. Your ma is hard of hearing!?? That was his justification of not giving anyone privacy. So when Leo called him a "dirty dirty man"" it took me right out because that was the kindest and most underrated statement of the year. Also Leo cheering for Debbie was definitely my favorite and I scream laughed when he said everyone needs a mother like her.

[@melissa-qk8ot]

"you're my girl", on the first date. Girllll i would've thrown myself outta that vehicle. I had blocked these scenes from my mind 😭😭 thx Leo

[@jessica5470]

It's a different kind of cringe, so clearly forced and false

[@mateaukalua4426]

I think that's cringe.

[@Gooner333333333]

red must be her favourite colour because them flags didn't stop her

[@mariperez8337]

I had a bf like this and it was beyond embarrassing for everyone to witness his man baby behaviour

[@TrashbashMan]

Dude if my date wants to go party with her friends and i was tired i'd just say go for it and meet me back at the hotel when she's done. Granted Colt wasn't tired at all but even if you're not a party animal don't be a ball and chain to someone who is

[@JesseCoyle-nf8ss]

Lol well colt is the one getting all the b%&%es

[@mariejames9962]

But u r not a Narcasist like he is. My X husband was too. Its awful u feel the tension and control

[@EvaIdk__Romania]

''Since when does he go to the gym?'' That girl's a savage

[@gypxie8239]

"If you pulled out a chess board he'd put food on it" 🤣👏

[@Paxicara]

colt saying "hola" to her Brazilian family is just *chef's kiss*

[@Lucaz99]

The worst thing is that he knows we talk Portuguese, not Spanish, right? He must know how to say hello in Portuguese, he was with LARISSA AND VANESSA for months before going to Brazil a SECOND time with Jess.

[@Vinsanity997]

@@Lucaz99 no se dice ola?

[@Lucaz99]

@@Vinsanity997não, em português é olá. Com ênfase no “lá”e sem som de H. E eu pensava que em espanhol se escrevia hola?

[@Vinsanity997]

@@Lucaz99 tampoco pronunciamos la h. Así que la diferencia es óla 🇪🇸 vs olá 🇵🇹

[@Vinsanity997]

@@Lucaz99 sí se escribe hola pero la h no se pronuncia

[@EarlyBirm]

I don't care about Colt OR Big Ed, but your coverage of it is hysterical and I will always watch. :-)

[@MarieKyriney]

would i care about any of this without a video by him? hell no. These videos are truely the definition of elevating the text. Well, context that is

[@bethlamb3286]

Exactly lol they will never get my views but he will

[@DantesInferno96]

I have watched these TLC shows only through KZbin commentators lmao. Without these guys, these shows wouldn't be half as interesting.

[@mateaukalua4426]

He looks like Dr. Strange

[@allisonmarlow184]

I agree, Big Ed and Colt are equally disturbing. And but for Leo's commentated videos, I would have little interest in watching them. But Leo is quick, funny, and so entertaining. Leo, I say do videos on BOTH losers. You're the star. 🌴🇺🇸🦩

[@tumulovermelho93]

I love how the boat date PERFECTLY shows the differences between Jess and Colt. This is a woman who moved out of her country on her own, works hard to live in the US while struggling with the language a bit and has her sex life like any regular adult. Colt really expected a woman like this to be his almost-virgin fantasy and that he was the Big Man for managing to have sex with her. He is so juvenile it hurts.

[@highmaxedoutlife6285]

Ah yes the "almost virgin" who has fucked multiple times. Heres a better fitting description"fuck boy with mommy issues and too many Twinkies" . But almost virgin is a cop out and it's like saying to someone who went somewhere that they "almost didn't make it" or to someone who drank a beer that they "almost didn't get a sip". Yeah maybe but that's not how it went down so what do the nonexistent past possibilities matter

[@kita3638]

Yeah but jess is literally abusive 🤢

[@Air_Serpent]

Virginal women still exist but he picks women that clearly are not.

[@muddy_muddy]

Not to mention the fact he's slinging his junk around without a second thought, total hypocrite

[@seadelirious9838]

You really strike me as an intriguing mind, this comment made me reflect on myself a little. Thank you.

[@gabby3036]

I'm sorry, Jess is hilarious. "Good morning. My ****. Just got off work. My ****. Good night. Oh, I forgot. My ****!" Hilarious.

[@ashleywhispers4331]

Well we learned where he got his manipulative stuff from. Seeing your son kiss someone shouldnt set you into a rage

[@k0k0mlml]

Colt does this thing when he's being manipulative on camera where like... when the other party gets upset enough to raise their voice, he lowers his and puts on this condescending tone as if he's being he bigger person in the argument in order to make them sound like they're hysterical or something. It reminds me of Buzz in Home Alone 2 when he's made to apologize to Kevin, Kevin gets angry when Buzz insults him again, and then Buzz says, "What a troubled young man." SAME ENERGY AS COLT....

[@karenl5971]

Yesssss

[@uk9383]

True

[@luluw818]

My mom does this too

[@Rebelheart1985]

Isn’t he the idiot who couldn’t stay faithful to his girlfriend and slept with his friend who didn’t even want him like that because she knew he wasn’t anything good?

[@anonymousmouse4124]

And my ex

[@staciwhite1256]

I am not nearly as gorgeous as this guy’s girlfriends, but I wouldn’t tolerate an iota of this Colt guy. However, I know how blessed I am to have married to the opposite of this Colt guy. 25 years of fidelity and no cop calls needed. No toxicity. On a different note, Leo, if I had a daughter, I’d want her to date someone like you. You’re the real deal and I appreciate you.

[@fancyfeast84]

Agreed. But I'm pretty sure he would be in a relationship if he really wanted to be. A good woman who knows what she wants woulda snatched him up ages ago if he actually wanted it.

[@wtichery]

@@fancyfeast84 dating in covid is hard lol

[@fancyfeast84]

@@wtichery fair point. I'm out of the game, so I have no clue.

[@mrsbeegfish3679]

Staci, you are wholesome. Thank you.

[@Hannah57293]

i wish you 25+ more years of fidelity in your marriage you two sound so wholesome

[@Andi-ex1js]

I love how he phrased it btw "it was difficult to decide to marry her after she was arrested" Sounds like she just got arrested for something horrible and not like "i called the cops on my gf"

[@Felinewhisperer]

You give excellent advice and feedback! I have been married for 30 years and we can't believe how spot on you are. Keep your voice loud and make the people hear you! The best relationship advice

[@rickcoleman133]

I dont watch many reaction videos all the way through. Then i found sixteenleo. You da man. You have this habit of making train wrecks hilarious. Thank you for your service!

[@demimilford5148]

Keeping secrets in a relationships is manipulative, because your partner's choice to be with you is based on what they know about you. If you know that you did something that could end your relationship, because you crossed your partner's boundaries, you are manipulating them. You are robbing them of information that they need to make their own choices of what is best for them

[@jessica5470]

Perfect way to put it

[@Samson16436]

Very true

[@mannleedickson4238]

does it count as keeping secrets if you're not ready to open up about traumas from years back? asking for a friend

[@plateofpasta835]

@@mannleedickson4238 Nah, that doesn't count, it's not easy for someone to suddenly open up about their trauma. It's their choice to tell someone they trust when they're ready to.

[@mannleedickson4238]

@@plateofpasta835 oh okay thanks for letting me know~! =D i mean, my friend know

[@This_Is_VeryNotFine]

“I think we have trust issues Jess and I dont know why.” YOU LIED TO HER WHAT DO YOU MEAN COLT?????

[@edgelordleon5859]

So... Who else is with me... We need to petition Sixteenleo to get his own talk show? I'd be his first signature.

[@aliviasimpson6078]

I'll sign ✒

[@unlucky7129]

Count me in🖋️

[@hopekit1]

YES‼️✏️ 📝 👍👏

[@amaniahmed5481]

Me too!

[@StachMan]

no we have him on youtube.... have him focus on here and make us great content.... talk shows are dead.... live in the future you fool

[@amandajockisch7172]

I love how he consistently says "guilt trap," instead of "trip." IDK if its on purpose or not, but it actually DOES fit in better to the point he was trying to make...

[@jc_yadigg]

25:18 is such a valid point! i just spit my beer out laughing...they both are Brazilian and can understand each other far better just talking their native tongue and the producers are like "nah fuck that"

[@ashiecore]

I hope you're feeling better after the awful sickness u've been through around the new year's... sending love and support, the video is absolutely bomb as always :]]

[@bleepersoffgrid]

Right ...

[@protector4286]

@@bleepersoffgrid .

[@alienwolf3]

He is still sick thou :/ (he made this video before New Years) he needs more time to recover & heal- god bless him & his soul 🙏🏽

[@TaiyokoTanzo]

@@alienwolf3 amen

[@KBeautyyy]

The fact that I'm sick😩

[@ShaynaDomina]

Choosing between Colt or Big Ed is like choosing between a stroke or a heart attack.

[@wh0aheavy]

That microwave thing made me laugh more than it had any right to

[@kazza6078]

I am not defending Jess pushing him, no way, but that Marvel edit did make me laugh so hard.

[@laurasolis9941]

LMAO "wanna get married?" Is exactly how my husband proposed to me while we sat on the sofa. Our 3 year anniversary is in 2 days 🙂

[@HarjinderKaur-xq4pp]

This man never let's us down, really gifted us an hour long video. :D

[@shaynalange7488]

I was so excited to have such a long vid!

[@criptin4075]

Yeah but its with ancient content lol... may as well of summarized most of this and showed the newer content or not even bothered.

[@HarjinderKaur-xq4pp]

@@criptin4075 yea but he still sat down to make an hour long piece of content, full of editing and re watching and research smh

[@kavyaviju3025]

@@criptin4075 if you followed his community posts, you would know what's happening...

[@ToriGaines23]

Randomly found this guy…. Very happy I did. You’re hilarious dude and not apologetic about being morbid and blunt. You sir have gained another subscriber.

[@fralanasko2900]

He's great!

[@yogogames1821]

you are cute

[@DemonVido]

@@yogogames1821 🤓

[@rhondaaa9614]

Yess same, his video came up on autoplay and I was showering and couldn’t turn it off. Ended up loving it and in the process of watching all his videos 😂😂

[@MrChico711]

im sorry....did jess really say that she thought colt was smart, funny, and beautiful... colt must have found a real genuine witch to put a curse on all females to think that he is the ultimate man because WHAT..THE..FUCK.. LMAO

[@wtichery]

Loll before their relationship progressed to abuse I thought Colt was a bit of a qt but he's also a little dishonest neurotic flirt

[@bovinearrogance]

@@wtichery NOT FINNA SHAME- but colt is- kinda fugly

[@wtichery]

@@bovinearrogance I mean, true

[@sthomasond]

I just discovered you and only seen three or so videos so far, but going through the comments I don't see enough about how good you are at making the subject matter entertaining. Glad I found this channel

[@leemccloskey]

Oh my god your editing was so spot on with the jokes. I had such a hard time silently laughing in the bathroom stall at work

[@RoscoeWasHere]

I love Jess' mannerisms. She sounds like a hoot, and not what you would normally find in these TLC shows.

[@emmad9344]

She seems lovely, she could find a decent man to bring home and have a family with! Wish her all the best ✨✨💖🙏

[@paulacostescu1041]

Spoiller alert. She es already married with an american guy. This is an old seazon. And cold is again happy married

[@thisisavivistanaccount7866]

@@emmad9344 she did! Some people don’t like him cuz he’s “weird”, but I think dude is just vibing and really love Jess

[@josie3221]

@@thisisavivistanaccount7866 colt is doing nothing even close to vibing

[@thisisavivistanaccount7866]

@@josie3221 I wasn’t talking about Colt, I don’t like seeing his face on tv tbh

[@decrepitgirl]

9:26 I imagine Colt texting to multiple women at a time, showing interest and giving them attention, aka putting lots of (temporary) effort, and then progressively selecting those who give him the best feedback (instant gratification). That's the way to go when you're desperate for company. It may work if you don't expect anything long-term.

[@ursamellis264]

*sprints to share this with all the single friends*

[@kinseychurch]

Colt is on a mission to send every Brazilian woman he meets to jail by pissing them off until they assault him

[@simoneinsanity]

I do not like him and No one except them knows what went on between them BUT this is a dangerous mentality because NO ONE deserves to be assaulted and there’s no excuse for physically harming another person especially in a relationship.

[@Samson16436]

@@simoneinsanity He was abusive toward her. Maybe we can argue that they were both in the wrong though. Abuse is not ok. I'm not sure how to put it and English isn't my first language but there are circumstances that affect the morality of a situation. A personal opinion is that assault can be justified. But as you put it we don't know everything and so I'm not gonna judge either person on that.

[@Naptosis]

@@Samson16436 You're an expert at The Queen's mate. Your point was crystal.

[@mateaukalua4426]

@@Samson16436 You speak pretty good English amigo!

[@allisonmarlow184]

@@Samson16436 I agree. Great english.

[@mitchellbowman22]

You’re an amazing editor. Everything included is just perfectly put in place

[@Stirthepotwithscott]

You know it sucks being single at 21 but then I see this guy and I feel so much better 😂😂

[@AlytheAlleyWay]

"I just psychologed your ass" is my new favorite quote

[@sam56677]

Colt actually slept with Vanessa and used Jess just to get back at vanessa bc she started seeing someone new. So Jess all along was a toy to make Vanessa jealous and he also was cheating on Jess with Vanessa. The reason Vanessa herself has a hard time trusting Colt is because she has been the other woman in his life. We got to know these details later but Jess's rage is understandable to a great extent. She knew something was going on, he kept lying and something was going on. She is not right to have done or for saying that she will bang her ex, but what happened to her makes the reaction understandable. Not excusable.

[@b3ateuzi]

Whoever edited this video should get an oscar. Great video! Thanks for entertaining me for the last 2 years :)

[@Silly264]

Thanks!

[@BelleDreamer7]

Hey! As an American who has travelled I do not assume everyone is trying to come here. A lot of people do, but many people love their home countries as much as I love mine. Mad respect for Leo loving his home and all the places he loves.

[@whitneymj13]

I pretty much never comment, but really, really wanted to say that I so so soooo look forward to your videos when you post! You always make my day. You are hilarious and a total gem. Big love for you, man. 💖

[@Sharks-on-mars]

Same!

[@heatherkrug8401]

I feel the same

[@01a.beichakaorili31]

me too🥰🥰

[@adamepps6136]

I couldn't have put it any better myself.

[@teafanyii_]

Yes!

[@Delicate_Disaster]

I love how HE got Larissa arrested and then was worried about marrying someone with a criminal history. Like. Colt. Come on. YOU gave her the criminal record. It's not like you're finding out about it 19 years later

[@0ueddecillion718]

Also I love how Jess throws stuff at him and he didn't called the cops lol

[@jaimecohen7584]

He’s an ass! Who has their wife arrested?!!

[@redpanda9367]

I feel pretty confident that watching Colt kiss someone is like watching a bear get ahold of a beehive chock full of honey.

[@theinfofficial]

23:35 is where it truly goes GOLD. OMFG Haven't laughed that hard in YEARS fr fr. THANK YOU, DUDE!!!! I NEEDED THAT!!!! when you green screened into the kitchen is when I started laughing TEARS, BRO, TEARS!!!! omfg. keep slangin that comedy GOLD!!!! STAY SAFE

[@IratePuffin]

With all respect, calling the police on your wife is not “snitching.” She was being abusive during arguments. You’d never tell a woman to not call the cops on her husband if he was being abusive. Men can be abused too.

[@entirelybonkers1916]

I think the big thing is we didn't see the extent of the abuse. We know 90 day is scripted a lot so who knows if any of it was real.

[@annissaary8321]

@@entirelybonkers1916 I don't think it should be called snitching. What we saw is her hitting him, and he called the cops, that shouldn't be demonized

[@SchweetCookie]

With all due respect, we don't see the entire picture, but Colt was abusive and manipulative the entire relationship. She dropped everything to be with him, and it honestly seems like he pushed her to the edge (with all the cheating and his mom being an aggressor, as well). I'm in no way supporting domestic violence, but when someone is constantly pushed to the edge by a douche... Who would just sit there and take it? She definitely could have reacted better, but... 🤷‍♀️

[@annissaary8321]

@@SchweetCookie I think this is one of the better takes I've seen ngl

[@WOLFGANG634]

@@annissaary8321 Where did it show that Larissa hit him? I’m curious, bc I haven’t personally seen the footage. However, I’ve seen the footage of Deb and Colt, telling Larissa that bc she has priors no one would believe her if they called the cops on her… Edit : I had a crappy way of wording this and sparked a slight argument with the person tagged, bc I didn’t realize I had @-ed them and not the OP.

[@Haazziee]

Lmaooo. The “tan lips, red skin” killed me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@anaionescu8913]

Wait, wasn't it the other way around??

[@xxxmelissatacionxxx]

@@anaionescu8913 nope

[@00loudog]

Jess is a savage but also seems like a genuinely good person

[@corncakes5046]

She's just loyal. Doesn't mean shes a good person. She needs to work on her anger issues just like colt needs to work on his narcissism. Like throwing stuff at people can really hurt them.

[@crookedfingersgirl7356]

6:46 TYSM for explaining enmeshment and passive incest. I had a sibling and parent like that. I was so abused and assaulted and Everytime I summoned the guts to leave/no contact ("but they're your fAmILyyy").... They'd shame/guilt and suddenly always around on decent behavior... It's taken two decades of this brain damaging cycle but I'm finally free and working on staying safe and free.... Great insight Leooooo

[@siobhanharte5075]

He strikes me as the kind of man who can’t talk things through and gets spiteful and deliberately hurtful really quickly

[@snappy-star-disco]

Colt: I think I'm gonna start dating again Debbie: NO! NO! NO! *After a few months when he divorces his new wife* Debbie: YES! YES! YES!

[@ardenalexa94]

It’s disturbing to be honest.

[@Th3Treasoner]

"I'm being outplayed by a man who looks like he belongs in a Ghostbusters movie" B R U H

[@shuu_39]

He has a complicated relationship with his mom, I think. He relies so much on her that he secretly despises her. This is reflected in how he treats any woman he meets. "You don't matter mom, I'm just gonna kiss my girlfriend here" "girlfriend don't matter to me, so I'm showing 'duck' to other women lol"

[@michaelchesnut865]

"He doesn't even look like he knows the shape of a ball." "Man, he IS the shape of a ball."

[@mine-jd5fe]

When you inserted yourself into the dinning scene between Colt and his mom and you tried to grasp onto the irony of the place being called "Lick", I lost it. This entire video was hilarious

[@KwakyWacky]

Debbie in this one is like when the villain of the first movie temporarily teams up with the heroes in the sequel, but then is still a bad guy by the end.

[@gearkiller07]

Oh fuck it's the greatest KZbinr of all time, I seriously need this right now Leo. I appreciate the hell out of your content, it really does help me cope through these shitty times, love you bro.

[@shristinadkarni8409]

his videos brighten my day!

[@ashleyreynolds1991]

when Jess said "My name is Jess." i thought she said "My name is Jeff!" and i chocked on my hot chocolate lol ... 🤣😂😆😄

[@thaojoseph69]

44:35 - 44:45 that has never been more true. My wife always suspected or accused me of cheating but then 10 years later she ended up being the on cheating one me lmfaooo

[@Annik_Tenacious_Felis]

Bruh you're editing and your commentary is THE best 😂👌 feeling a tinge of pride as a fellow South African 👏🇿🇦

[@amandafrye700]

I was literally telling my boyfriend today it was weird for the new 90 day single life for Debbies introduction they show a photo of her & Colt being torn apart as if they’re together🤣 but for Jesse & Jennifer they didn’t show a picture of Jesse & Darcy ripping apart

[@idislikemints]

They know. /music starts/

[@multifandomz8221]

I found that very unsettling

[@amandafrye700]

@@multifandomz8221 THANK YU IM NOT ALONE

[@saleonnn]

sixteenleo is probably my favourite youtuber, his content is so dang entertaining. he’s such a wonderful soul with so much sympathy for others yet he’s still humorous and honestly i feel bad for the people who don’t know about him. i get furious at people like this and leo’s perspective really calms me down and gives me empathy. i love this guy so much, leo you mean so much.

[@BenWard29]

I like him too, but I think he’s gone too far with all of the body shaming in this video. I was hoping more people would call him out on this.

[@eugenie8661]

Love the way you tell these people's stories, the long format feels super immersive also, keep up the good work Leo!

[@echo1336A]

I love how he tells these stories too

[@RADMT]

At this point Leo is part of my daily routine. Honestly the funniest commentary and channel ever 😂

[@Mrs_P.T._Headz_Up]

I spit out my juice when you inserted the earthquake clip while Cole was dancing with Jess!!! 😂😂😂

[@tempbauer2131]

Leo just hit the head on nail. He said, “maybe it’s bc she likes your son. Is that so hard to believe?” YES! It’s hard for her to believe someone would want her son. Plus, she doesn’t even want anyone to want her son. She bigs up him but that’s for her benefit. She wants her son to think that Mom is only woman that shld be in his life

[@dt564]

Pretty gross

[@Alison-ku5ko]

Preach!

[@cmxzie]

for the part where colts like “you should pack a brazilian bikini” there’s a difference between being best friends and both women and hyping each other up and a grown man who has still not moved out of his mothered house

[@physalis17]

Colt is the gift that keeps on giving. Surely TLC is paying these women to date him. LMAO

[@Feess0504]

I know damn well that when jess and Debbie were arguing during the family dinner he was sitting there thinking "ohhhhhh yeaaaa there are girls fighting over meeee"

[@octooopus]

sometimes I just watch all of Leo's videos when I don't feel good to feel a lil better

[@autumnrain1448]

I love the comedy, the effects, and transitions. I love it, I’m always laughing at the jokes and mannerisms. Thank you for being you