Many Black Men Are PUSHED To Date Outside Their Race!

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[@reddicetwiceX10]

This is a fact. When you get rejected by your own, then you marry an "outsider," your own is still on your case. Even when they didn't want you, they still have something to say.

[@nobodyukno8869]

Exactly that's me but I haven't experienced out my race yet but now I'm willing at 39yo

[@timothyblount8807]

That's within any race, I'm from New Jersey and Dominican Republicans are the same way, it's all about culture race has nothing to do with it, that typical of Americans to use race on every aspect of life

[@ActionNoJackson]

@@timothyblount8807 Dominicans are blacks that speak Spanish

[@timothyblount8807]

Bottom line is this it has absolutely nothing to do with races all culture and American generations dating back to whatever slavery was you couldn't do those things that you can do now and a lot of the parents then are still living in the old ways where they prefer their child to stay within their race but as the generations started getting older they started turning away from the tradition and start saying hey I'm going to go over there and date this person I'm going to date this person it has nothing to do with a black woman or black man and the way a woman's attitude because the way black women are that's the same way in every other generation you can find some good and some bad plain and simple so all these men that are talking all this trash about black women and all these black women talking all this trash about black men educate yourselves and talk about the experiences that you had don't put everyone in a single category and speak for all because that's not true

[@timothyblount8807]

And for the record yes Dominicans are black but they are Dominicans that you can consider White or light just like any other person so yeah they may be speaking Spanish and all but a lot of them date outside their race and a lot of the Dominican Republican parents prefer them not to date black Americans and that's a culture Gap that's all that is but a lot of them are getting older now and they're like you know what I'm not going to follow my parents tradition and that's when a lot of the parents turn it back on their own kids because they are not doing what they was raised to do well this is a different world now times have changed we don't have to say I want to date a Chinese woman I don't want to date this Dominican Republic I want this Puerto Rican woman I want this African woman I want this American woman we do what we want to do there's laws and things that have broken the change and the culture Gap whereas people do what they want to do and date who they want to date no matter what the parents say and it may be strange to a lot of people because they eyeball you and look at you and all different kinds of ways bump that whatever makes you happy be happy I don't care what color she is or what color is be happy cuz at the end nobody truly cares they're not going to take care of you they're not going to give you the love that you're getting from whomever is giving you the love they're miserable because you're happy and misery wants what company

[@RMM98]

I’d rather be the “nerd” or “lame” and be a multi millionaire than be accepted and be broke.

[@deancraig9933]

It's not about being broke...dudes who make good money around the way(skill trades) aren't getting the best all the time...for the same lame ass internet fukn Instagram reason...go where you are recieved..WORD

[@oracle__3345]

Its not what youd rather its just an observation, which isnt 100 % true but there are thruths in this post. Respond dont react

[@godsgirl7201]

True

[@jessebaca2750]

💯👍🏼

[@TheSecretLifeofEb]

I don’t any nerds or lames from my school making millions .. they are all working regular ass jobs

[@Gintoki_Madao]

Being curved for liking anime, being interested in history and comics sucks 😭

[@FREE_WILL_DEFENDER]

Now look at the hoes wearing dragon ball shirts not knowing who it is lmao

[@setsunak.5105]

My own family found me weird for liking anime. I found people with the same interests which are my best friends and my sisters. Now I'm on the search to find my husband. But no luck so far. 🤷🏾‍♀️😒*sigh*

[@Mergatroid_Skittle]

Doesn’t it though?🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Gintoki_Madao]

@@setsunak.5105 This is one of the things that bug me about life You and I are cut almost from the same cloth... But we'll never know or meet one another 😩. It definitely sucks

[@viceanterra3]

@@Gintoki_Madao not talking about y'all two specifically, and not endorsing this, but ppl having gotten married over world of warcraft and overwatch across state lines and across borders 😂. Don't lose hope y'all. Don't sweat it either. Just vibe. Relationships will test you more than you think lol. -A dude married for 6 years (together for 14)

[@bigwill9421]

"Going Where You Are Celebrated is Not Selling Out." -KS

[@Withlola_ox]

Exactly and I wish more black wo men thought like this.

[@TLW369]

Exactly! ❤👏

[@cerromeceo]

No it still a sell out

[@thewordsmith5440]

At this point he is avoiding black women. I never knew anything about him and white women until this video so saying black women who didn't know you before don't deserve you is weird there are plenty of dark skin black women that were called burnt and ugly by black boys and many of them still date black men if they can but most black men like women with light skin complexions biracial, Asian or white so it makes it hard for black women the darker they are and the kinkier there hair is. At this point he just likes white women and he feels only white women deserve to be treated well. Most black men leave their black gf or wife once they get rich so it's not exactly going against the grain for him to be dating a full white woman because it's the norm.

[@cerromeceo]

@@thewordsmith5440 That's cap. You just made that up lol

[@callmex6435]

“I love black girls I just don’t think they’re into me” -Childish Gambino

[@victoru918]

I never understood that quote... Donald Glover was a theater nerdy brotha, you couldn't tell me he couldn't find a sista that wasn't into things he was into, in his adolescence. Some nerdy goofy sista was there but was getting overlooked by the fellas too. Imo most of these dude shot to the top for the most attractive women in their adolescence and were in the wrong field of play at the time. Has nothing to do with sistas.

[@ivannparker4073]

@@victoru918 thing is, it’s a white dominated field, so any black girls he may have liked where deferring to the white guys who were into the same thing.

[@victoru918]

@@ivannparker4073 That doesn't make sense either b/c the field he was may of been white dominated but we all know the moment a Brotha walks in the door they gravitate to us. So I'd the White Men gravitate to you and see the dominance in his man hood wouldn't those sistas to the same too? Just an honest question.

[@callmex6435]

@@victoru918 well maybe that was his person experience like you said theater nerdy dude while I know nothing of the arts there isn’t one black girl I know that ever spoke about men like him

[@billydakid71]

I just got cured by three black women this week

[@Idrisap77]

Exhibit A: the recent curving on the young Black Nuclear Physicist that when viral.

[@raw5889]

I agree with her he was corny

[@kplayzxp2376]

@@raw5889 weird, nigga was not corny

[@byrdis1a1]

Exactly, later when he become famous and well renowned in his field here she comes wanting to share in his success. Let those women stay with the pookies and ray-rays.

[@IsiahHD]

That honestly speaks more for how trash the online dating market is more than black dating dynamics as a whole.

[@LetGoStressFree]

So do BW have to attracted to EVERY BM YOU deem a good catch?

[@skibootdier9488]

Any hard working motivated brother heard, or was told this asinine phrase: "He think he wite."

[@stinkmeaner3016]

“You the whitest brotha I know” As if we don’t have the same struggle outside of our community!!

[@skibootdier9488]

@Square Peg Apparently you're incapable of thinking anything..

[@melaninmonroeeee]

@Square Peg lol , facts . Self hating asses 😭💀

[@spoolyboi9434]

I was told that growing up all the time because of how I acted and dressed

[@bigsnkby1]

Yup

[@KaloosaKennels]

I live by the motto … “I fuck with who fuck with me” regardless of color

[@musiqman8771]

The Only way to live

[@flpmedia2312]

Yup My Girl is Mexican but it just happened because I had gotten a divorce and I didn't want to date anymore .We met been together ever since no White Women though

[@manueloalzulfiquarali3688]

*FACTS!* I lived the Same life brother.........

[@ballerboi4980]

@@flpmedia2312 no white women tho 😂

[@raymanjohan8838]

this is the fact with a lot of black men...this is what I have always believed

[@HarlemPapaBear2381]

Fucking facts… been through the same things. I was “too nice” I wasn’t the thug on the streets and now to this day get so much attention from Latinas

[@timothyblount8807]

Because the culture of people have evolved were as you don't have to date who you're supposed to speaking about history times have changed you can date or marry who you want, every culture goes through the same thing, not just black people, Asian, middle eastern, African, American and so forth

[@timothyblount8807]

And that's a fact, for the person who started this topic he started by saying everyone he knows, so he's speaking about the men who he knows experience that

[@kelsblair5963]

So date them it’s only a problem when you disrespect black women. Black women out here eating white men too and I’m happy for them

[@malikgordon5230]

@@kelsblair5963 Black women are not eating anything lol

[@raw5889]

@@timothyblount8807 wtf are you talking about

[@deuced80]

Sometimes, rejection is protection. Count it as a blessing you didn't get caught up in dysfunctional misery. Focus on that purpose.

[@venitarjohnson]

Facts and honestly some of them were just aiming for the wrong black woman that dysfunctional crazy chick and they were not looking at the black woman that was looking at them matter fact some of them turn their nose up at us lol so you can’t claim it was just them turning their nose up the guys like him did it too and then they blamed all of us for not wanting them when the real truth is some of us did we were just not miss popularity and not what they wanted

[@vinny.deadmou5d46]

Strait FACTS

[@pamion2805]

Bars ctfu

[@xinahicks13]

Righ... Don’t want to be a single Mother..

[@milesdiontre]

Mic drop

[@Silkblvq]

These young blk girls got crushes on famous drug addicts and jail birds!

[@SongSingsSoprano]

That is not true and you know it.

[@romone8614]

Sooooo true they want dope boys and wanna be thuggs 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 these girls or ass back ward

[@islandgurl4927]

No many of us don't. But whatever. The others are just haters of bw.

[@joshperez5428]

@@SongSingsSoprano well if they crush on a mainstream rapper it’s most likely true

[@funnydude308]

@@SongSingsSoprano nigga it’s been true In The black community for years

[@icecold8974]

Feels like my life. I was lame, talked proper, I was light skin and didn’t care for name brand clothes. I ran into a white girl we talked about Star Wars and became best friends. She’s never treated me that way, but a black girl I was friends with accused me of hating black women. How when that’s all I’ve been around and pursuing. I just wanted to be accepted for me. It’s a catch 22 can’t win for losing.

[@tropicalbluevibes7674]

Thats exactly what happened to me

[@jarviswright3732]

Yeah, once in high school I was talking to a black girl about things we liked and I brought up dinosaurs. She was DONE! After I said a couple things, she blew me off. She then got with this conceited, ignorant ass ninja who she'd regularly complain about. Talked to this white girl about dinosaurs a couple months later... She was FASCINATED! More recently, I tried to explain to a black girl at DUKE UNIVERSITY what a taro was, and her response was, "why do I need to know something like that?" The next day, at the same university, I explained what it was to a group of three white girls and a group of three Latinas; their reaction: "Oh, that's neat!" I've sorta noticed a pattern in that regard. 🤔

[@tropicalbluevibes7674]

@@jarviswright3732 Yep same here

[@rdpill]

Go where u happy bro

[@nathaniel3867]

@@jarviswright3732 hey my brotha. Go where you appreciated. It’s what I did 🙂. Also dinosaurs are cool by the way. I saw one I think the raptor looking one has nice sharp teeth.

[@petroglyph79]

Mike Jonessssssss Back didnt want me now ,I'm hot they all on me🤨🤷🏿‍♂️

[@traviswilliams1398]

Hypergamy.

[@traviswilliams1398]

Hypergamy is an innate and core component of female nature.

[@traviswilliams1398]

Hypergamy is a core and innate components of female nature.

[@trynagetredpilled7941]

Facts

[@ashasun6620]

Now he's vanished into thin air.

[@FleeceJohnsonDaBootyWarrior]

What kills me is how their own females want the "hustler" or "hood dude," then wonder where the good men went. 🤷‍♂️

[@musiqman8771]

They weird af

[@Noco235]

And after they done had three or four babies, by as many dead-beat ruff-necks, now they want a "high-value" man!! WHAT??

[@islandgurl4927]

@@Noco235 It is not just pookies and ray rays that do this. It is bm who have degrees, both of their parents are still married, and bm who are educated but forget about their protection to prevent it. It takes two to tangle btw.

[@DiamondCarter100]

Damn you hit that one right on the nail….. facts.

[@theshach100]

@@islandgurl4927 it’s mainly pookie and ray ray. Don’t say it’s not only them. That’s what many BW are attracted to. Thugs, pretty boys and womenizers = no good men

[@holysman]

Being a Mexican I feel the same but with my own race. I date Black women never had a problem that same way I did with Mexican women. I've come to believe we are just tired of following what people say and to date a certain pool of women. In the end it doesn't matter as long the person you're with got your back and be willing to roll with you through thick and thin

[@edwingonzalez7691]

Deadass tho. Mexican women didn't want nothin to do with me, second I start speaking with black and white chicks. All of the sudden it's, “you think you're too good for us?” Like wtf don't get near me if you never gave me the time to begin with.

[@itsmipapi]

Nah fr

[@AMAZIAH]

The funny part is. Black women will jump as high as you ask. Long as they get to date a mexican or white boy.

[@ace.mutations]

I've heard it's similar. Especially if you don't speak Spanish

[@timescale9326]

@@AMAZIAH there’s no headaches with other races of men. Not saying all but most. They will give bw a reason to submit. Unlike y’all

[@MsLotusBlooms]

I am a black woman, and I support bm doing whatever is best for their lives. Best wishes! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@tasha8974]

They are not doing what's best for their lives they basically destroying what God ordained for them and them to do period...

[@MsLotusBlooms]

@@tasha8974 God never said they needed to be with black women nor did he say black women needed to be with black men. We are free to be with the best person for us and that is not determined by race.

[@bensisko-theemissary4940]

@@tasha8974She wasn’t saying this when she was young and hot in her early 20’s. They wait till the badboys don’t want them anymore then they try to SHAME the men they been curbing for at least 20 years. No sis, it doesn’t work like that. The good BM deserve to get that young hot POA that Pookie got even if we have to fly to the moon to get that. ✈️✈️✈️

[@RaiderRSupastar]

​@@tasha8974 God does not care if you date and marry interracially. He wants both the man and woman to be Christian. Unless, you talking Islam you're not talking to me or other Christians

[@hopelove1595]

​@@tasha8974God 👑 ordained men of God 👑 to marry other women of God 👑...no matter the color of their skin or ethnic group. Prophet Moses, a Hebrew, married an Ethiopian woman who wasn't of his ethnicity. God 👑 had no problem with that, at all. In fact, when Miriam, his sister, spoke out against the union, God 👑, temporarily, struck her with leprosy. We don't own black men anymore than they own us. God 👑 NEVER ordained black men for black women ONLY or vice versa. Masculine men, EVERYWHERE, love feminine women, irrespective of color. Unfortunately, disobedience of God's 👑 Will and God's 👑 Word has brought black women to their knees and it'll only get worse until they return to God 👑. Women can't be their best cursing, being angry 😡 , yelling, spitting, twerking, acting a doggone fool while tearing down everything positive good, decent, upstanding, classy black women built up for generations. The negative, angry 😡, outrageous antics of MOST black women, especially those raised by baby mamas, has convinced the world 🌍 that MOST of us are 🗑️. I no longer am offended as I understand now why they think 🤔 the way they think. Unfortunately, I've seen enough and heard enough from women, who share my hue, to understand why they think 🤔 this way. It's no longer a mystery to me and I won't waste my time, any longer, being upset about why people judge me before knowing me because of classless people who lack knowledge, understanding and wisdom, in spades, who just happen to share my hue but not my character, whatsoever!

[@micahdeprophet1531]

Black Men will go where he is appreciated with love and not just tolerated with drama 😎🦾🖤💍

[@jeanettefrance6852]

That's a lie, and you know it. I started a million dollar business for my MAN and and he CHEATED with a Bedtime Becky.

[@jeanettefrance6852]

At least you tell the TRUTH, go to the elementary schools and let the little girls know about how KEN really feels about BARBIE. LOL

[@jeanettefrance6852]

As for dating a woman, NEVER!

[@bradleywhiteside5177]

@@jeanettefrance6852 lmfaooo

[@micahchaplin536]

I like the reference of your name 👍

[@Ssboiz]

When I was in a bar i could sense all The Black girls energy was off and it was alot of girl on girl action. But there whole energy changed when a white girl approched me 🤔

[@sphinixnpharoah]

Lol I believe that not to laugh but it’s not a lot of unity amongst black women as I use to believe it was. Frfr I live in houston and black light skin chick it be so much animosity smh. I feel it too before I say hey it’s dry energy I gotta go out my way to prove I’m cool down idk it’s exhausting and fun with my white girl friends be more chill I’ll say in fun setting. Good point

[@anonemp1878]

@@sphinixnpharoah facts

[@izzetwotwo]

My nigga u was in a bar...looking for a real one?? Of course u couldn't find the right one..go to a book club or the bowling alley or something not like the club or a bar or low vibe activities

[@Ssboiz]

@@izzetwotwo Low vibe activities 😭

[@Ssboiz]

@@sphinixnpharoah i feel you. I think another Black Woman is your biggest hater, allways in competion

[@scaggly9239]

Moral of the story: dont try to change who you are for a BW if youre attracted to them. I love my black sisters, but if they dont like you then that may be an indication that youll be better off in other communities.

[@chrismanning1171]

I was that lame in the hood. All the dope dealers and gang bangers got all the girls. Ten years later when all the dope boys are locked up or dead I smashed most of the girls I could not get. Now I am 6 figures and ended up marrying an Asian lady.

[@michaelhaysbert703]

When I go out black women don't make eye contact or give me a second glance but if I'm with a white girl they stare me down like I owe them money. I ain't never been a pretty boy and I'm cool with that. Never been too flashy. But I realized a long time ago I don't want the type of women that don't want me. Truth be told most sisters ain't been raised and started hoeing early. They don't know what a good man look or act like. Brothas gotta stop turning these little girls out for real. It ain't all nobody fault. We been programmed by the enemy to destroy each other for real. I don't see a solution to the problem.

[@joskeyo4877]

There’s a solution. It’s what you are doing. Continue dating white or Latina women. Just don’t date the scraps that white men don’t want - you know the types!

[@qwammienewsome1357]

Too many of our young women do not have the example of a real man in the homes, so the chose otherwise early!!

[@bobbydunn2720]

And white girls “ don’t be hoeing “ 🤔😂😂😂😂

[@Shelbydrich]

@@qwammienewsome1357 and the black men were raised with their fathers? He’s right we’ve been conditioned to date outside and criticize our own constantly. Our community is mentally damaged

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@qwammienewsome1357 They completely ignore that issue while still pointing fingers at the women who actually stuck it out.

[@iammarshallyn7445]

This is facts. My little brothers only ever been with Asian women for same reasons.. truth is most young black women have no idea what to look for in a quality man. By the time they mature, those guys have as well and aren’t looking for them anymore.

[@KarateWrestler205]

Facts im not really into black women anymore for the same reason I just see ghetto relationships when I look at them doesn’t matter if she’s into it or not

[@royaltypoetry1533]

We need to get our act together on both sides.

[@royaltypoetry1533]

We give up too soon but date outside who doesn't even respect us.

[@Omissionnn]

Fax

[@DefenderOfTheEnd]

Sheesh the facts on this #

[@versewonderstrikes5353]

Most men don’t chase women so if you reject us we won’t chase after we’ll just go to who we “vibing” with.

[@RedPrintBullyz]

Bulllll shit dudes definitely Chase

[@adibabdullah6633]

Facts 🙌🏾

[@Extinguish_]

Yep

[@ssjakuma]

I married my vibe. She mixed, but just because she was raised In the suburbs I hear black girls call her white.

[@ssjakuma]

@Tresiyt Ecibo That's your conditioned opinion.

[@vernonhampton6973]

My Black exes didn't appreciate me and I got turned down repeatedly because I was seen as a corny, no-swag-having, fast-food employed nerd who watches Gundam Wing... Now, my Greek wife appreciates the fact that her nerdy, well-paid mechanical engineer husband would rather stay at home with her and watch Gundam Wing... ...and guess who still gets called a 'sell-out'?

[@raygaming4306]

based greek wife. Congrats for finding one who appreciates you.

[@theredknight1]

You winning bro. Just stop listening to losers

[@nathaniel3867]

Happy for you man also I love Gundam 💯😭👏🏽🙇🏽‍♂️

[@chocolateangel8743]

​@@ramseysstudioHe was with BW when he was poor and had no confidence, which means he probaby had a bad attitude as well. He was probably only able to get with his WW AFTER he became a mechnical engineer. BM never talk about this, though.

[@ramseysstudio]

@@chocolateangel8743That’s true, I didn’t consider that. Thank you.

[@jminor1126]

"Nah, he white" Becomes successful. Dates white women. "Why all the white women taking all the good black men" "Oh, now I'm black?"

[@darrenhilton9402]

😄

[@MadAudi]

Same for black women that date outside their race… usually when they (black women) are successful. But black men are hating all black women lately. Especially successful black women. I’m with a white man who’s been with me through a lot of trials.

[@unknownstormtrooper5735]

Facts

[@InMyOwnWrld]

📌

[@LifeCreator]

Lmao facts

[@edmundnlemadim8480]

It’s the “Donald Glover Jr” phenomenon. Dealt with the same shit in high school. Pants didn’t sag low enough, I wasn’t “hood enough” grew up in a 2 parent household, so I was a “lame” lol Ain’t get no time or energy from the sistas but did from Hispanic girls and white girls. Especially in college. And while I prefer to date within my race, at 32 years old and no kids of my own, my primary preference is to settle down and experience parenthood for the first time with my partner who is similar to me, ie no kids… guess which race of women are the highest percentage of single moms 🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🫠 shit ain’t looking too hot for me but it is what it is. If I get smoke for settling down with a non BW, it wasn’t for lack of trying 😂

[@frankwhite2278]

Naw you’re just a lame

[@kokolatte825]

Where you at? Plenty of Latinas have kids... out of wedlock too

[@LetGoStressFree]

And many BW left with no kids. I'm hearing a lot of them say they never want them. This world is so screwed up right now.

[@TomikaKelly]

PLEASE GO outside of your race. Please, for God's sake, leave Black women the hell alone. Matter of a fact, message me if you need help getting your passport so you can just leave. The Philippines are nice this time of year. Iceland is beautiful. Russia gets a bad rap but is actually quite pleasant. Let me know if you need help with leaving Black women .

[@ayshab.81]

Donald didn't marry his baby mama but gave her 3 kids. He's an pookie too. 🤣

[@bobfield6493]

This is the stone cold truth. Most black women curse the same men they still won't date. Crazy

[@kenjistanback9261]

Ain't It krazy Mane🙄

[@shorts26]

Because they still want to have the option later on when they're less desirable and Noone wants them for a relationship

[@O-B1]

My son is going through this right now. We just a normal bunch of folk and he is at the top of his class and plans on going to an Ivy League school. My little dude gets no play from Black girls, but the Asians and Whites really take care of him. One Asian girl that did hybrid learning during Covid had her parents drive out of their way on the regular to give him physical copies of the school work. I just don’t see a Black girl supporting him in that way. It’s sad when you think about it. Once he sparks this engineering degree, I guess they will see him. It will be too late.

[@Userhdiekejeheu7w]

Media really has us hating our own. What you expect when ivy league is mostly asian and white. No need to hate your own. Smh

[@rdpill]

Bw only see the money. ..they dont see the road it took to get there

[@jericothompson8636]

@@Userhdiekejeheu7wHES NOT IN IVY LEAGUE YET. Or did you miss that part?? Nobody “hates black women” we’re just done waiting around for the right one, and we damn sure aren’t jumping through hoops to find her either.

[@Aphrodite01]

Your problem is wanting your son to “get play” from a bunch of women. Stop raising a S. L. UT. Seek therapy for your mental illness and trauma.

[@whowhatwhen7977]

​@@jericothompson8636yet the community conditions black women to do it for yall

[@joshmitchell5554]

My favorite is “he talks wite now” when a nigga gets educated and learns how to speak

[@SynKyller]

Bruh. Growing on the east side of Detroit with my name was harsh and I spoke properly (talk white) because my mother was an English teacher . It was rough in the 90s.

[@kjrelax2307]

That's not talking white. It's talking proper. I'm pretty sure if he's around his family or friends, it a lil more vibe street talk. But it's about time & place. It's common sense right place, right time.

[@Capgpro1]

When a nigga?

[@Unseen_but_Well_Heard]

"When a Brotha gets educated" that sounds a lot better👍🏾

[@McKeeW10000]

​@@SynKyllerBruh, I feel that! 95% of the black girls who had never seen me in that time period when we talked on the phone said I sound white. They still say that... AND, non-black women say that too and have been saying that for years! 💯

[@official_ma1512]

I’m proud of being a nerd because that’s what get us to the bank. But I remember being bullied because I was playing soccer which people looked down on me for playing that sport that was International. The common sports in my community was basketball, football, baseball. I remember being turned down by everyone in my community especially the females and I said when I get older I will become great and I remember I was training for soccer I was working harder then even . As years pass by I ended up winning medals and awards for my team and for my school I was offered to Study abroad for soccer which I was sent to Southern France, Frankfurt Germany, and Naples Italy. Now I’m 18 years old after 13 years of hard work now I’m getting drafted to the 3 division German soccer league called liga 3.

[@duane5039]

Congrats 🤜🏽. I had a similar path but don’t make it as far as you. At the end of the day you gotta just do u.

[@official_ma1512]

@@duane5039 I remember every time I played soccer felt something special that was power and showing creativity.

[@JV-tx1xw]

Damn, I really want to hate you for how young, dedicated, and successful you are but. I'm too damn proud of you. Atta boy champ, if I see you in a game I'll be rooting for you. "The women of my own race don't want me" Hmm, if I were you, I'd be too busy being balls deep in some strange to be thinking about that kind of nonsense.

[@7DMEDIA1]

Props! Make sure the woman is bringing equal assets because divorce if financial hell..

[@official_ma1512]

@@JV-tx1xw thank you very much for your comment I’m grateful 🙏🏾🔥

[@petroglyph79]

That's on them they play themselves. I'm cool with who I am wouldn't change a thing. I earned this. I'd rather be a lame.

[@yaya4768]

👏🏽 keep that energy!

[@jeremiahborders2959]

What makes you lame?

[@Seancarter2010]

Amen my friend

[@Seancarter2010]

@@jeremiahborders2959 the same qualities that would make you high value in nearly all other communities makes us lame in ours. Being educated well spoken intellectually curious about the world non violent etc. Notice how even our college educated women spend a lot of their youth and time on the same bad boys they wanted in HS but everyone else grew up and decided to actually date men who were reliable?

[@jeremiahborders2959]

@@Seancarter2010 so are you telling me that we have no black lawyers, doctors, astronauts, professors and teachers, scientist, audio engineers, bankers, politicians or government officials, loan officers, accountants, Insurance workers Museum historians, bankers and others in the black community??? We all just gangbanging, shooting, and prostituting in these streets?🤔🙄 y'all need to get the fuck off of social media and stop falling into these God damn false narratives. There is good and bad in every fucking community. Y'all never heard the phrase "white trailer park trash"??😒 there are plenty of educated well spoken black people that come from the ghettos, the trenches, and the hood. I don't get it, why are y'all so confromtable sitting in stereotypes and believing them?

[@raythomas5090]

They expect folks to keep trying and keep being rejected. It’s a perfect example of “I don’t want you but I don’t want anybody else to have you”. It’s logic and they hate when you use logic against them

[@Ontiming2023]

Yea all they have to do is walk around in tights and booty shorts an get rejected by almost nobody do you understand how rejection works when I message 500 blk women an not one reply that shit hurts cause these women look like you an they don’t find you attractive so you grow to hate your own race an that’s why those guys do that they get tired of that shit the no an it’s rare that all of them can be rich so basically if your not walking around a millionaire they won’t give most of us any play I accepted it tho I just said I’ll get my revenge on them when I become successful revenge feels better than sex itself knowing that you got back is the best feeling

[@thewordsmith5440]

To men a quality woman is always choosy. If he expects every black woman to give him a chance because every white women does that's insane. white women date black men for their perceived swagger and because it makes them feel rebellious. They're also hypersexualized as good lovers. The reason white women are coming are different.

[@focusedallday5620]

That’s why I’ve always said to go where you are celebrated not tolerated. If you have to come out of pocket, simp, or trick then you’re with the wrong girl. Stay Focused!

[@weavemademeadeadbeatdad2888]

Really? U don't believe in providing?

[@eugenecarse4284]

@@weavemademeadeadbeatdad2888 That's not what he said. Providing for your family is one thing, always paying for a woman that you're just talking to for example: her rent, car note, utilities just for her attention then that's a problem.

[@joskeyo4877]

These is what happened with me & my brothers. We are Nigerian. They all date or married white or Asian women. Except me! I married a fellow Nigerian black woman. When we migrated to the U.S., in early 2,000’s, we were absolutely ignored by African American women for not being “hood”. Didn’t matter that we are decently good looking, well spoken and tall. So, we never even thought about them as a possibility. Now, most of us are millionaires from hard work, business, and investments. We are all with the same women in happily married homes. Don’t blame us!

[@bobbydunn2720]

Good for you brother! Stay blessed 💕

[@LetGoStressFree]

How exactly would you know why a person ignored you if they are in fact ignoring you??? Would you go as far to say that you had NO positive encounter with African Am women or would that defeat your narrative???

[@jeanettefrance6852]

"So we never even thought about them," so that's not talk from Experience your just talking loud but not saying NOTHING.

[@wholesomechick8259]

Why did the Nigerian women ignore your brothers? 🤔

[@joskeyo4877]

@@LetGoStressFree oh, we had some positive encounters, in the friendzone! NOBODY, likes the friendzone!

[@Hetetsumi]

This is exactly why I chose to try other races… my mom would say all the time “that’s my erkel” I was not the typical young black male. I was a corn ball, military brat. As green as you could be and not a single black girl liked me. But soon as I start dating outside my race. “Oh must hate your own women”

[@RichDaRebel22]

Started dating a white woman a couple months ago and she really vibing with a brotha. I do not miss all that toxic bullshit from the past and babygirl is definitely rocking with me

[@MeannDeann]

I had a black chick tell me I was better off dating a white woman I was too nice

[@EMcgame.23]

Dang that sad but when they hit the older years or get in trouble you know who they going to call they go on dating app and try to look for the good man to save her😂😂😂

[@Mr.Boddie]

​@@EMcgame.23Yep and then crying after they get rejected.

[@billywatson9821]

​@@Mr.BoddieYep. So true.

[@EMcgame.23]

@@Mr.Boddie especially single mom I remember I talked to a single mom that got four kids and it's terrible

[@LouisianaGoon337]

Df

[@cybergirlwitoutaface]

Called an Oreo as a kid, has affects on you.

[@ronaldpolite1838]

^

[@YouDoMatterNationwide]

I feel this, in fact the beautiful coke bottle black queen I was dating in high school called me that. Like a nickname. *ugh*

[@shaunnoochie5810]

This is a conversation the black community doesn't want to have.. it disgusted me when I heard my ex call her son an Oreo

[@kingr.a.4067]

Same here.

[@Faranzo14]

“Back then they didn’t want me, now I’m hot they all on me” Mike Jones. 😁

[@wildyoda2931]

They’ll curve a black man for anything if he’s not gang banging, being a thug or selling drugs and on his way out the door they don’t want him. 😂

[@utamu777]

You all clearly loved pretty hoodrats and ignored the good girls or nerdy girls

[@jarviswright3732]

It's if he's not willing to exemplify some form of stereotype that's not the best for us. When you're a brotha that's deemed different or unique, you struggle with black women, frfr! 💯

[@afrolatina2811]

And you guys reject women who don't have a bumblebee body! I have yet to meet a black women who wants a "gang banger"! Maybe stop trying to date children, and date actual women!

[@afrolatina2811]

@@jarviswright3732 that's what happens when you chase children, sweetheart!

[@jarviswright3732]

@@afrolatina2811 well, there seem to be a hell of a lotta children round these parts; these parts being everywhere that's pretty densely populated in the U-S of A. I guess we want to find the adults. 😔

[@Amplifyez]

That’s literally my story 💯🤣

[@jasaanrobinson]

Me too bra.

[@okunsifemeni9384]

Congratulations bruh 💯

[@And1one757]

Unless you hood willing to have 5 baby mamma's thats pretty much the starter pack its going to be pretty difficult to fit into the black culture 🤷‍♂️

[@Bigboytrav5821]

You’re not alone. I’m with an Asian

[@isaiahogud31]

Right me too. And I’m going to be a millionaire 🤣🤣

[@concretejungle8916]

Usually 9 times out of 10 times when a black man doesn't do everything that his peers are doin or speaks clearly and is able to articulate what's on his mind? Usually his own people don't see him as one of them...so I get what this young man is explaining on this video piece 🤔

[@garyp.1635]

Facts

[@KelzKelz]

Bs, you can be lame but that don't mean you are treated like you not fam.

[@f.iyanda3838]

Very true. I still go through that myself.

[@YouDoMatterNationwide]

On my soul I certainly relate.

[@retroman9287]

@@KelzKelz that’s exactly how it goes, you’re probably a pookie or ray ray lol

[@kingcook1485]

Factsssssss....🤙🏿💯

[@simply_tmade6912]

I was also forced to DIVEST! I stop dating black American men 3 years ago and married a Kenyan man. The black men I dated had no interest in seriously settling down to make me a wife. I am honestly the happiest I have ever been in a relationship and in my marriage simply because I chose to open up my options and date outside of my culture. I honestly think many more people would find love and be happy if they would take the step to date someone of A different race or a different culture.

[@mikemike7264]

As a black American man married to a black American women I do believe the system (policies) in place make it so that black American men & women are incompatible with each other. It’s done to basically stop a revolution, it’s working just look at black Americans we’re too chaotic as a group to build anything our women make most family decisions & the black men at best are placed on the periphery of the family. No real male leadership unless there’s an emergency but most things are through the prism of women. Only recently has men’s opinion even been discussed let alone taking seriously. Until black men unite the black community will continue to be in chaos.

[@moneysnappin]

You still married a brother... That's not considered divesting

[@ahanna76]

@@moneysnappin 🫡

[@McFrappin]

So what? Who cares....✌🏾

[@honeyorange1447]

Happy for you. Much love ❤️

[@missionbasedastrology1013]

I used to judge black men who dated outside their race heavy. With all the rhetoric I see online, and person etc see why! Our women want no accountability for the foolishness of the program and that they undertaken. Our women defend everybody else

[@kokolatte825]

Girl, plenty of Black girls got ostracized and excluded as well. This particular issue isn't as much about how Black women treat men. This is a community issue and that idea of Black identity.

[@LetGoStressFree]

Check the comments. The BM bash the BW too. At this point we just need to all take a deep breath and try this again.

[@TomikaKelly]

So does this mean you've already left or you're finally going to leave Black women the hell alone now? 👀

[@missionbasedastrology1013]

@@TomikaKelly this commentary is what we're talking about no accountability

[@mrbojangles7996]

Black females be online literally coaching other black women to trick guy's, play games, they have sex with the so-called alpha males but it's funny as hell to see these same black females get older in their late 40s and 50s looking a hot ass mess because they been ran through but still think they deserve to be married 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is why I just look at black female's like they crazy! I'd definitely like to date a white woman!, Black female's are straight up overated!

[@matthewfrancis777]

John 1:11 - “He came unto his own, and his own received him not.”

[@ashfire4378]

John 14:9 Have I been so long time with you, and yet hast thou not known me..?

[@alyu9337]

Big facts BM go where you’re valued and respected

[@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue]

Every black girl I’ve met directly assumed a dated white girls just based off my personality but I’m like what the hell, I can still read my comic books and date a black woman, even my cousins thought the same thing

[@charliemcfadden9769]

I'm a person that always stayed to myself. Got bullied in school. And The brothers would look at me and as I walk passed them it's laughing and whispering. Some guys even told me that they thought that I was stuck up. And, that some of them thought I was dating a wm. That wasn't never the case. I was quiet, stayed to myself, and didn't fuck with ppl who had drama and chaos. I left that shit alone. And, it pissed me off bc they assumed that I only dated white men. Don't assume. Come and talk to me get to know me then judge. BTW: I have dated outside my race. But, it was never wm.

[@chance_C]

@@charliemcfadden9769I thought only us black men went through this because we have to do the approaching and face the rejection up front. I feel like we should create an organization for bm and bw who don’t partake in the degeneracy. 😂

[@Zombie1.8.7]

I am one of those guys 💯 🙉 🙈 🙊

[@Mrjonezzz]

Same here.

[@Zombie1.8.7]

@@Mrjonezzz Stay focused bruh & stay strong 💪🏿, I say this because I'm doing the same 💯 🙉 🙈 🙊

[@iaintmadatcha]

Truth be told I don't see what brothers see in Becky. Their ways turn me the eff off

[@rollotherevolutionaryreneg395]

How many Black women have you approached in your life?

[@allanehoward5648]

Me too

[@TheJordanSpalding]

I feel like this experience speaks to most men. We wanna be appreciated before its too late and we’re just appreciated for what we provided

[@cliffordowens2939]

Straight facts dudes get looked at like lames most of these women wouldn't of talked to the Michael b Jordan of the world in highschool or dudes like childesh Gambino and I hope I spelled his name right but them dudes was dorks coming up

[@ToniVoncell]

Don’t say most say some

[@HOOLITHEWORLD]

@@ToniVoncell naw he right most

[@Lord_darkside74]

Awalt

[@EncyclopediaBrittanica]

Am I the only one that thinks (and thought) that dorks are cute? Cuz my girls used to clown me.

[@ToniVoncell]

@@EncyclopediaBrittanica girl I use to date them, sh*t I’m one too 😂😂😂

[@BrandonTravelsAfrica]

This is a blessing; Ive been to countries like Ethiopia, Uganda, Phillipines, and Brazil. Black American men are treated with respect there. Go overseas the women are more attractive hands down.

[@mikejrphilips9870]

Im about to ruffle feathers... Black people are more likely to keep each other down, I mean they want to see you do good but only when it's beneficial to them, the moment you move different and they don't benefit in any way from how you move, “you are a sellout”. But you’al not ready for this conversation.

[@williamachriston6442]

You’re right ash

[@terryjordan5969]

So True

[@OEYA4]

Literally me. Rejected harshly by every black women I tried to get with because I wasn’t “gangsta” now I can’t post my girlfriend on twitter without black women and men calling me racist and insulting my girlfriend👎🏿

[@aireadye3091]

Ever thought it was simply your preference. Maybe you was picking the wrong black woman.

[@earthchild04]

S/O to Krew Season for this video. To the Black Men that divest, I don't blame you. The reason I say this is all Black Men that are competitive, productive, financially stable go where they are revered not tolerated.

[@sugarwaterpurple5280]

You really think you're revered nesting in the white man's community? Good luck.

[@TomikaKelly]

I don't blame them either. If another group of women want to deal with the joblessness, fatherlessness, low incomes, astronomical incarceration rates, astounding violence rates, high crime rates, lack of educational attainment then that's their funeral. I just wish our non-Black sisters were getting a better deal but...

[@Rell_Invests]

@@TomikaKelly that doesn’t sound like “competitive, productive, and financially stable” black men though 🤔 I think they’re the ones trying to figure out how the pookies are chosen over them

[@bigwill9421]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@bigwill9421]

@@Rell_Invests 💯🎯📌

[@poetryselite]

Here's a thought... How about pursuing black women who mirror our own thoughts and ideologies?! This is what I did... I'm married to my black wife, no drama, and I'm never looking outside my own to find peace. Be selective and wait patiently, the right one is out there waiting patiently also.

[@TheStarchild41]

exactly there are plenty of "lame" black girls smh

[@BigHoTzMuZik]

True, some people do hit the lottery..

[@poetryselite]

@@BigHoTzMuZik Just takes a little patience. It's better to remain single than settle for nonsense just to escape isolation.

[@jermaineelliott2685]

"Nonsense"?

[@poetryselite]

@@jermaineelliott2685 What's nonsensical about what I stated? We can't just target a pretty face with curvy hips and expect instant magic. There's gotta be more substance in our selection process.

[@brielax4441]

This is true, women do tend to lean towards swag.

[@whoisthis4052]

Be with a woman who appreciates you for what you bring to the table and willing to reciprocate the energy you have

[@steviemak10]

But most importantly, be with a woman that will follow your program LONG TERM!

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@steviemak10 How many of you actually have a long-term plan (vision) and know how to articulate it?

[@steviemak10]

@@LetGoStressFree how many of you are good wives and know how to act like one? ‼️💯

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@steviemak10 Oh...a question with a question...smh. I don't know the true number, but I do know a lot of BW who are great wives and are appreciated by their black husbands.

[@steviemak10]

@@LetGoStressFree so it’s a minority. Ok, thanks for the answer. 🙄‼️

[@Dvenchy]

Women of other races are just nicer and a lot more approachable. I've actually been approached, hit on, invited, and asked out on dates by other races while out in public and at work more times than I can count. That's never happened with a BW.

[@KeepinitKeekee]

That’s terrible and sad that you have never met a nice BW ever, even your own mom sister aunt or grandmother? Wow 😯

[@realg7849]

@@KeepinitKeekee he's talking about people he can fuck, you can't fuck your relatives

[@MrJebusboi]

@@KeepinitKeekee why would he want any of those things listed from his family members?

[@patrickduvigneaud5857]

@@MrJebusboi I hate when the reply is always “so you hate your mother/grandmother/sister?” NO we never said that that’s such an excuse. No one ever said I wanted to date my mother and my mother loves what I love she wouldn’t ever set a specific standard for me to date she wants ME to be happy. I hate when the response is always oh so you don’t like your own family like no stop that smh

[@MrJebusboi]

@@patrickduvigneaud5857 it's disingenuous at best, the same logic can be applied visa versa for how BW to BM but it's doesn't get brought up because it's a not a productive argument point

[@pappadappacarhauler757]

This is so true. I was never cool enough. I didn’t walk right or I didn’t talk right. I was never what they wanted. Now I’m married to an Asian woman for 23 yrs and I make six figures.

[@sagebrooks6907]

Tell her thx for picking up the trash😊

[@fuckableface]

Congrats bro. Enjoy your life 🎉

[@גקדןרק]

Hes trash for what? Not being cool enough when he was younger? For marrying an Asian woman? Make it make sense​@@sagebrooks6907

[@MrMartellSincere]

​@@sagebrooks6907you're a nobody

[@troyc5994]

I am not black but I observed this in the 90s. I am glad a brother confirm this.

[@brittneymiles3289]

We all were nerds or lames at some point. I was straight bullied because I didn't dress, act or performed like other black girls, didn't have a big butt or didn't fit the black woman aesthetic (or weird fetish). Nevertheless, I still married in my community AND he's a black nerd as well💕. Vibe with who vibes with you, simple as that.

[@kokolatte825]

Thank you! Because this particular issue is definitely not gender specific. Plenty of Black girls get overlooked for the SAME REASONS

[@jordanglasper1064]

@@kokolatte825 The Make Gender in our race goes under greater scrutiny & rejection. 1) Goddesses at a very young age have an energy of attraction, that comes from the spirit & soul. 99% of Goddeses’ whether fit or overweight receive a plethora of compliments from Gods throughout their life. 2) The most attractive Gods can live their entire life without ever gettin one compliment from a Goddess they are not related to. 3) Goddesses lose their virginity much faster and younger than Gods. In the ratio of comparison. There are far more Goddesses to Gods, 15 to 1. Yet there are far more Gods who are virgins than Goddesses. 4) Far more Nerdy Goddesses receive sexual attention or attention from the opposite gender, even at a young age. 99% of Nerdy Gods receive zero attention & sexual attention from the opposite gender. 5) 99% of Nerdy Goddesses do not choose Nerdy Gods, they choose lower level Gods who hurt their heart. Both in youth & in their prime. The life stories Nerdy Goddesses & other goddesses are the same. Both have dated The Bad Boy type God. The Nerdy God has neva dated The Baddest Goddess. Even Nerdy Goddesses in their youth, grew up to become more attractive in their looks, became single moms by 30. Most Nerdy Gods are single & still childless by their mid 30’s 6) Both Nerdy Gods & Goddesses are treated harshly in their youth by the same & opposite gender in school. The difference is Goddesses are desired bcuz they are female by nature & biology. Nerdy Gods are branded for life and run the risk of never losing their virginity to Goddesses. 7) This shows the parallel yet differences between Nerdy Gods & Goddesses. Goddesses are born as The Most Beautiful Women in The Universe. Gods are born The Most Handsome & Strongest. The Government classified Us The Blk Race as The God Race bcuz we are descendants of The Annunakai Gods & Goddess’. Beings born with rare Spiritual Power. Our ancestors are Beings of Power, Think of The Egyptian Gods & Goddesses. Due to hate & racism by White Elites and reg white people. Our race of people have hated each other, the lowest of our people attack the abnormal of us bcuz of our spiritual gifts & inner light shine brightest. Learn who u are, shine bright & forgive the dead ones. (Dead Ones, are those in our race who are spiritually sleep and unaware). Forgiveness is not about the other person. It is about letting go of negative so you can thrive elevate & live. 8) Goddesses are gifted to give life or death with the tongue. The ability to enliven a God thru your breath of life. Speaking negatively is death energy. There is no person on this planet that can outtalk a Goddess. It can be a gift or curse depending on how u use it. It is bcuz you, our Goddesses we’re not given physical strength as us Gods. That is until u tap in your Divinity. Your Divinity gives you spiritual power that allows you to surpass us Gods in physical strength in times of anger, like The Incredible Hulk. Lol this is why Gods fear their mothers, grandmothers, girlfriends & wives. When or if Gods messed up. You have the ability to tap into the future, see or hear or know what will happen before it happens. Could be a min or two, or a lifetime ahead. It all depends on your spiritual awakening & blood lineage. Got a bit off track, but all valid nonetheless.

[@chadthedad03]

The laws of attraction for men and women aren't nearly the same. A women doesn't have to have swag, $, or need to know how to be smooth, confident, or assertive. We dont care if you wear designer clothes or drive fancy cars. Just be fit, nice, and carry yourself ladylike, and you'll appeal to most men. Women typically have a much longer list.

[@LetGoStressFree]

👏 👏 👏 Thank you for posting this. I just told someone else the same thing. Black girls get picked on too. I was also called nerd, geek, flat, Grandma and other unflattering names by black boys in Middle and High School. White men approached me early on but I just couldn't do it. I still love my people. I married a wonderful black man who saw past all of that in High School and loved me for me. He's a bit cooler than I, but we just gel together. This war must stop before it's too late.

[@TomikaKelly]

Exactly! There's a lid for every pot, but you will have to put in the work to find your tribe. This goes for anything in life, friends, colleagues, a career. And see, that's the thing. If a Black woman dates a Ray Ray it's because she "chose wrong." If a Black man gets rejected by some Black women it's not because he's "choosing the wrong women to pursue" it's because Black women are the problem. See how the goal post moves according according who is making making play? That's why I encourage them to leave Black women the hell alone.

[@chaosavenger2]

Her: "So I can't call you?" Me: "nah you can't call me, I'm up now"

[@lili2u405]

"My preference is WW and I'm going to justify that by gaslighting BW."🤣

[@eddielacrosse2]

What your are doing is a poor attempt at gaslighting actually.

[@JhamariColes-ld1hc]

@@eddielacrosse2 facts cause dude ain’t making sense at all

[@jaidee9570]

In my experience most men don't feel the need to justify their choices. If a guy prefers WW he'll just say that, if he's had bad experiences with BW he'll share them, but that's it. Women on the other hand seem unable to simply state a preference without running down others to justify their actions. It was said of feminists, but there's very little difference between most modern women and feminists now: the only way for feminists to rise is for men to kneel. It's absolute truth, you can't just pull yourselves up, you want to stand on a man and put him down.

[@I_Am_NiiTA]

Fr. 🤣🤣🤣

[@joshuatruvillion3044]

​@@JhamariColes-ld1hcsimp

[@jacobmerten5553]

Love who you wanna love

[@LetGoStressFree]

Nope....rebuild the race and culture. Marriage is about duty...not love.

[@jacobmerten5553]

@@LetGoStressFreeI think a lot of people are loosing there sense of community and culture it’s sad

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@jacobmerten5553 I totally agree. I want so badly for us to turn this around. I haven't lost hope yet, but the comments I see are downright depressing.

[@jacobmerten5553]

@@LetGoStressFreethe only people who will truly understand the culture are the people in the culture

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@jacobmerten5553 Exactly!!! Simple concept, but hard to understand by many.

[@AMAZIAH]

If im a sellout. My women put me up for sale. And that's the whole damn point lol.

[@damnballah]

You sound bitch made generalizing all black women, that’s why they love Whites & Latinos more LMAOO

[@ryuulee9404]

I didn't fit in either. A black girl once said "Ewww, you sound so white!" That was it for me. Ironically, the best potential I had for a successful relationship was with non-black, Asian women. I was so bent on pleasing my family (I was born and raised in Africa but emigrated in my late teens). I wish I had given myself that option to date those spectacular women.

[@TGSOFLY]

I grew up in a mostly Puerto Rican neighborhood and the BW had no problem tellin us we weren’t as attractive as the Spanish dudes.

[@NigerianCel]

Exactly

[@Userw493]

Well most bm are ugly🤣I want my daughter with a Latin man!

[@billybadass9357]

U must of just ain have no game no matter what nikkas get they shi on blk women will literally fck anyboby u just gotta kno what to say to em

[@wanderer34]

And I have no problems getting then fine PR chicks at my side. IF anything, I don't even try, they just come to me w/o any effort!

[@LouisianaGoon337]

😲

[@ms.norwood4685]

No one is forced to do anything. It’s a choice.

[@bandersonnelson8952]

A bigger part of that comes from six figure melanated women/ families that move out to the suburbs and have their sons/ daughters go to a school where there are only around 4% melanated people. Those that's raised in that environment will be attracted by what they see the majority of the time. Plus they can't relate to melanated struggle/ life.. Most people skip over those that lives that lifestyle were there are less of us.

[@coolbreeze2291]

Right on!

[@n.manasseh8615]

Thank You!!!! Finally someone speaking Tru Gospel. 🙏

[@Itszpersonal]

I feel this but as a black women. Growing up I was overlooked because I didn’t fit the stereotypical narrative. It goes both ways

[@StratoS_218]

I’m pretty sure there was guys into you but you want them to

[@StratoS_218]

Didn’t want them

[@Itszpersonal]

@@StratoS_218 you could say the same in reverse about men. I’m sure women were into them but they didn’t want them….right?

[@Itszpersonal]

@@StratoS_218 To respond to your statement. There actually weren’t. They always went for a particular type of girl then complained about said girls to others and me. But wouldn’t give me a chance. I learned a long time ago alot of black men just don’t like black women. Or don’t seek out the type of women they claim to want from their own race, they seek it else where. For example because my hair was natural, because I spoke intelligently, because I didn’t have my ass out my shorts, because I prioritized education, because I smiled and said hi to people. I was a fucking nerd to most of them, a bore, no one exciting. But once they get that excitement they blame a whole race of women for not being the way they want them to and completely ignore the ones who are. I think the problem is a lot of us black men and women seem to prioritize and find poor behaviors attractive. I honestly think it has nothing to do with just men or women. I think it’s our culture as a whole. I definitely know there are some good black men that get overlooked but it’s the same with women and you simply can’t deny that.

[@0000YumYum0000]

Exactly, I was too nerdy and dark-skinned for BM, so that’s why I only messed with men outside my race.

[@justdrama1395]

I tried very hard to marry black... Waited tell 33 got married to white women...

[@jonathancoleman6482]

At least you tried brother hope your happy

[@LetGoStressFree]

Tried how?

[@justdrama1395]

I tried for several years being told that I talked to proper and the fact that I can make good decisions was held against me by black women.. I didn't do enough hood s*** even though I grew up in the hood...

[@imretiredtruestory2867]

@@justdrama1395 don't be ashamed of the choices you made. You are not the only one. Eastern European is the best match for me.

[@TheSecretLifeofEb]

How u try but didn’t do it ? 😒

[@whenniceguysretaliate5619]

Facts. Go where you're wanted and appreciated.

[@martonyomchale342]

Y'all divorce rate is the highest showing y'all not wanted or appreciated.

[@גקדןרק]

​@@martonyomchale342 that's not even true, lesbian marriages have the highest divorce rates

[@Jerryfallwell]

Come on. Look at Southern California and tell me alot of us don’t set out to get us a white woman?🤣🤣

[@puffy_vegas7610]

I totally disagree I never meet any none biracial BM that didn't perferr BW.

[@erichristian11]

…that dry ass P is all yours Dr. Carson.

[@LetGoStressFree]

Won't admit it.

[@TomikaKelly]

Please ensure you do everything you can to stay with them. Do not look back. Our white sisters need their kangs.

[@theblackmonk3153]

@@TomikaKelly and white men need the qwannnnnngsss

[@crystaljackson3233]

The same thing happens to women too. I was awkward, lame, nerdy most of the guys growing up wanted what we call the IG model hood girls too. I was always the home girl, the best friend, etc…Every time I see videos like this I already know the type of women they was doing the rejecting…and for every girl that was rejecting you there was probably a girl that wasn’t apart of the “in” crowd willing to get to know you…I’m thankful now though because being the home girl spared me from a lot of drama and unnecessary heartache and I married a black man a good friend of mine from High School lol

[@Cam-qs1wd]

No man in the world is gonna turn down a pretty girl because of her status🤣 that is absolutely ridiculous😂 you either fine or you ain’t😂 a womans status and fame does not matter to a man😂😂😂

[@zerotolerance2026]

Exactly! All these so called nerds were chasing after the 304 baddies. They had no interest in black women who were also nerds. Now they in here crying.🤣 Please

[@tupactargaryen]

NO BM who has his sh*t together want's a "hood girl" or IG Model.

[@user-dv3kq3rm4h]

@@Cam-qs1wd What reason does she have to lie? Some of ya'll weird just looking for conflict online to feel something.

[@wanderer34]

@@zerotolerance2026 Nowadays, there are female nerds that are thick, curvy, and sexy! I remember one nerd that was in disbursing back in the Navy and never hollered at her only because she was white and I wasn't really into white chicks like that, but we cool on FB now. If she don't have a particular body, small waist, wide hips and a big you know what, I'm not checking for her because I need a real woman, not an anorexic little girl!!!

[@terrythomasjr6746]

TRUTH!!! Got called nerd and all kinds of Oreo bs and lame by the females in my neighborhood, then I started getting attention from latinas nd everything in between for the same reasons why the black girls in my community didn't fuck with me. Black women cast us out then get pissed when we're accepted elsewhere...

[@LetGoStressFree]

B.S. I got called nerd, lame, flat, Grandma...blah blah blah by Black boys in Middle and High School. Despite being approached by several white men (just couldn't do it), I still married the Black man who loved and appreciated me. We can do more for our community by encouraging other BM and making more Black babies to continue our legacy.

[@TomikaKelly]

Do you need assistance wirh acquiring a passport so you can depart to a Latin country and leave Black women alone?

[@christophercatchings162]

Y'all need to let that go, why are you still stuck on events from high school? Seek therapy

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@christophercatchings162 There's no y'all...just Terry.

[@deshawnwilliams1970]

@@LetGoStressFree that’s women problem, hanging onto highschool shit

[@tiasiaairinc2907]

Thank you brother

[@sherrizeno8453]

There is truth to what this man is saying. I raised three black young men and my oldest son says the same thing is this man.

[@NFSMAN50]

I hate to say this, but he's speaking the truth. I was always a very sensitive, empathetic, kind, reserved guy, and BW thought that I was weird, nerdy, lame, odd, girly, but the Non-BW were more accepting of my personality and they adored these traits I had, and I always felt more at ease with Non-BW, than my own. I've dated some BW though, but I gravitate more towards non-bw.

[@CopperSkinnedMami]

Nobody forced any of you, just don’t circle back when that preference reminds you of who you are.

[@mjnari022]

This dude must know me because he's speaking my life

[@tranquilbliss2948]

Lol hahaha 😆.....I feel the same . Matter of fact I'm married to a white beautiful woman

[@mjnari022]

@@tranquilbliss2948 I tried to date sister's but they weren't feeling who I am (the ones I like) the first white girl I dated we have been together for almost 2 years and this woman treats me better than any sister I've encountered has in fact the last sister I tried to date wanted a thug (in her words) I was 40 years old bro I was too dam old to be thuggin 😂

[@TruckDaddyy]

I feel like another reason some of us black men date outside their race is because our parents try to raise us in affluent or “better” neighborhoods around other kids who can’t relate to us at all. Then we grow up not even knowing how to interact with our own people. Atleast that was my experience

[@TheRemnant_Fellowship]

I’ve lived this, I appreciate it being said openly! 💯🙏🏾

[@jiro1281]

I would say this really depends… but I will speak on my experience. I’m a lightskin black guy (very light like Steph Curry’s complexion), I had a negative experience with black women from the start growing up, I was never a thug or a toughass, but I was a gentle giant. Plus I was a bit of a nerd, I was into comics and the like (still am now). Constantly would get flack for being a nice guy, being lightskin and ‘talking white’ and being proper. The only woman in my life who hasn’t made me completely give up on black women is my mother but ultimately I can relate. I don’t know for sure what race of the woman I will end up with when it’s all said and done.

[@SpamNeggs23]

Did you get acceptance or rejection from other black men your age? If I were you I wouldn’t be fixated on race. There is a lot of race mongering going on. Continue to be a good person, and the energy you put out will come back.

[@ldturner]

This is probably the realest thing I’ve heard in a very long time

[@Assemble_This]

People always ask me why I married a white woman. And the answer is always the same: “You can only marry who likes you.” My second fiancé is now black. She doesn’t understand what this experience is truly like. I didn’t get invited to parties. I didn’t get to go to homecoming or prom. I didn’t get any attention. So in most cases you just begin to put your head down into your goals and accept that everyone is below you and work on yourself to make that the reality.

[@bigcee5702]

Facts

[@WillieDLive]

That’s the truth for some, but most aspire to date White women regardless of circumstances because they think the White woman’s ice is colder.

[@starelise1387]

Thank you! They ignored all the black girls who were nerdy in their social scenes! It don’t matter how nice and polite she was, she wasn’t white so they weren’t even paying attention to her

[@23tattywack]

Your so right bro. A black woman would not give me a shot in my town. One day I spoke to white woman and she took me how I was.

[@professor_swagg]

I can vouch for this. I was told "I'm not hood enough", "I'm too nice" etcetera. Now I'm married to an Asian woman and some people be like " Oh so you one of them". #smdh

[@vaushawnbrown2110]

And you're happy and got peace 🙏🙏🙏

[@englishactingteacher5125]

My black daughters went to a Mandarin school. I traveled throughout China and Taiwan years ago. The same rejection combined with racism exist from Asians. My cousins Asian wife's family only accepted him when they knew how much he was earning and what he could do for them.

[@professor_swagg]

@English&Acting Teacher you are right, but there's a significant difference here. The difference is that other cultures typically prefer to stay with their own. Not saying black culture doesn't, but it doesn't happen consistently, in which being raised in a single parent home is a leading factor. When they accepted your cousin, it's because they saw the value he brought to their culture, the same value that he probably wanted to bring to his own (black) culture, but most likely got tired of rejection and ventured out. As far as your daughters, it's harder because black women are the most negatively stereotyped women in the world across all media platforms. Therefore, almost every culture will avoid the black woman unless their family raised them to be fair and impartial across all races when looking for a life partner.

[@rdpill]

Go where you're accepted

[@FAMD4SH]

@@englishactingteacher5125 How can you have black daughters without a black woman? Are you stupid? Half of your children dna is Asian. Listen just let your girls not have anything to do with black women culture.

[@thecreeperbeatngu8133]

If these black women wanna play the game of "Pick & Choose" Then so can you 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@CopperSkinnedMami]

Yo mama played the same game, she just decided to keep you

[@thecreeperbeatngu8133]

@@CopperSkinnedMami yeah, The same with yo mama and yo granny as well 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@TrusttheJourney33]

I was considered a lame growing up. My first choice in women was black women. As I went to college White women, Asian and some latinas choose me. I still wanted black women but I just wasn’t their type. No problem, I am close to 30 no kids and continuing to pursue the different races of women who want me.

[@jayeell1253]

I'm a child of such parents. Pops dated within his race many times, but married outside the race.

[@timothyblount8807]

Why is that

[@illoneson.5218]

Sysbm

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@timothyblount8807 They want mixed children.

[@joyherring81]

That’s not what he said…..

[@TONEYHAYWOOD]

He wanted peace.

[@Bribribri724]

Gonna toss my unwanted two cents in here. This happens on both sides, in my experience, I grew up quiet and stayed out the way, i had curfew, I didn’t do things that other girls did in high school so even though guys were attracted to me, they assumed I was lame and didn’t pursue me as much as they would a girl that was down do things like have sex, drink, smoke or go to wild parties. (No shade to anyone who did those things) now that im in my late twenties, EVERYTIME a guy from highschool or college sees me, I am damn near stalked or messaged about how they always had feelings for me in school. I never was rude or disrespectful to any of them. I was quiet so I was “weird”. I didnt wear revealing clothes. These were all black men. But im not going to go tell people that because the black men in my ENVIRONMENT wasn’t checking for me, that I need to go outside my race. Love and like whoever. But is it really fair to judge an entire group of women because the ones in your environment at the time, treated you bad? Maybe go look in another environment, maybe see if your approach could be improved. Sorry for the long comment, just my perspective.

[@marcusdavis4227]

its not a judgement that most black men make about an entire race of women.......men like who like them......if its a white woman or a latin woman or a black woman.....a man is going to like who likes them. If a man gets rejected by 1 or 2 black women.....and a white woman shows interest.......he is going to stay in that arena because that is the arena he found success......its not hate toward black women.....

[@Bribribri724]

@@marcusdavis4227 I didn’t say or mean hate towards black women at all. I understand your point tho.

[@And1one757]

The stories yall women in these comments seem extremely contradictory of how men are it just baffles me... but then again most women dont know how men think 🤔 but from story yeah if i was pursuing a girl in HS and one was willing to have sex and the other wasnt why would the guys pursue you that really has nothing to due with your personality or swag or whatever else

[@Username_647]

@@And1one757 Exactly. The guys pursuing the ones who had sex easily, just wanted to get some sex from those young ladies and have some fun. Men actually prefer virgin, non promiscuous women. She’s the type men would want to settle down with.

[@mawilove7086]

Yes and in reality it’s definitely a thing. A lot of older men brag about how they chased the “fast girls” in high school then settled down with the good ones when they were ready for marriage. Yet somehow this version is never told. It’s always women this or women that. I think it feels good to a lot of men to feel like victims but victimhood gets you nowhere.

[@TheRealDennisFamilyTV]

As a black woman I love nerds. Our community is so harsh & disrespectful to our own. It’s sad.

[@SWORDU]

Lol u wouldn’t marry one tho stop lying

[@mariapullman4355]

I think this is a similar situation for other races as well and the opposite sex. White men were never interested in me growing up; in my 20 or 30’s. Not until I hit my 40’s white men now are attracted to me. I’ve been married to a black man for almost 11years now. I do know that black women liked him and still do. He was never considered lame.

[@Goldenudder1]

My youngest is going through this in uni. He's about to graduate as an engineer. We're not hood so he's not but can't get a date from black women. But non black women even a swedish girl flying in to shoot her shot. Yes she's very pretty. So how do I as his father tell him to only pick our women even they don't want him?

[@mak.lee_pnw5098]

That’s very sad

[@Goldenudder1]

@@mak.lee_pnw5098 imagine a ex- athlete, on academic scholarship with soft long dreads(got that good hair from my wife 🤣), still in shape, not shy, but loves science. Now he was quickly given the nerd label like it's scarlet letter in our community. Sad. He never cared about the label but was concerned why our women were so shallow causing him to be conflicted over race loyalty. Then he showed me the women that are trying to husband him up. Silently asking for permission to date outside.... I agreed completely. What future grandparent doesn't want pretty grand babies 🤣. He hasn't given up on black women however they no longer get priority over other. This is a silent lose because his future is Super Bright and Planned Out.

[@vaushawnbrown2110]

Let him go w the swede. Let h go with the women that truly desires him; anything otherwise would be destructive

[@angelammathews82]

Now let's be honest, these men aren't getting curved by a lot of black women. The story I hear is that they get curved by 1 black girl (and they usually have a type) while they're young and that's it, it's all white women from there. And they don't try to date average black women, they want the high maintenance chicks. Meanwhile, black women date, and get disrespected by black men, but understanding that that one guy doesn't represent all black men, keep dating until they find their prince. If you wanna date outside your race, do it and don't use black women to justify your preference.

[@catmouse2882]

This💯 Like...if you were a Black male nerd had plenty of Black female nerds to choose from!! But because you wanted to mimic Eurkel and pursue a girl who wasn't right for you (Laura)...you mad because she rightfully rejected you. And now ALL Black girls ain't s*** when really you continue to punch above your weight class.

[@theblackmonk3153]

That’s not true I’m sorry but I can still respect you’re opinion

[@avinshulunguminambo2379]

​@@theblackmonk3153I swear man woman say things to dodge truth

[@theblackmonk3153]

@@avinshulunguminambo2379 always it’s sad they can never take accountability

[@ninjaart3615]

Y'all so mad LMAO. This is why I'm dating a Japanese woman now 😂

[@MitchellBahamas]

This brother speaks ALL FACTS! I’m gettin Capricorn vibe

[@johnsamsjr8670]

I have never dated a black woman And I never will