Many Black Men Are PUSHED To Date Outside Their Race!

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[@reddicetwiceX10]

This is a fact. When you get rejected by your own, then you marry an "outsider," your own is still on your case. Even when they didn't want you, they still have something to say.

[@nobodyukno8869]

Exactly that's me but I haven't experienced out my race yet but now I'm willing at 39yo

[@timothyblount8807]

That's within any race, I'm from New Jersey and Dominican Republicans are the same way, it's all about culture race has nothing to do with it, that typical of Americans to use race on every aspect of life

[@ActionNoJackson]

@@timothyblount8807 Dominicans are blacks that speak Spanish

[@timothyblount8807]

Bottom line is this it has absolutely nothing to do with races all culture and American generations dating back to whatever slavery was you couldn't do those things that you can do now and a lot of the parents then are still living in the old ways where they prefer their child to stay within their race but as the generations started getting older they started turning away from the tradition and start saying hey I'm going to go over there and date this person I'm going to date this person it has nothing to do with a black woman or black man and the way a woman's attitude because the way black women are that's the same way in every other generation you can find some good and some bad plain and simple so all these men that are talking all this trash about black women and all these black women talking all this trash about black men educate yourselves and talk about the experiences that you had don't put everyone in a single category and speak for all because that's not true

[@timothyblount8807]

And for the record yes Dominicans are black but they are Dominicans that you can consider White or light just like any other person so yeah they may be speaking Spanish and all but a lot of them date outside their race and a lot of the Dominican Republican parents prefer them not to date black Americans and that's a culture Gap that's all that is but a lot of them are getting older now and they're like you know what I'm not going to follow my parents tradition and that's when a lot of the parents turn it back on their own kids because they are not doing what they was raised to do well this is a different world now times have changed we don't have to say I want to date a Chinese woman I don't want to date this Dominican Republic I want this Puerto Rican woman I want this African woman I want this American woman we do what we want to do there's laws and things that have broken the change and the culture Gap whereas people do what they want to do and date who they want to date no matter what the parents say and it may be strange to a lot of people because they eyeball you and look at you and all different kinds of ways bump that whatever makes you happy be happy I don't care what color she is or what color is be happy cuz at the end nobody truly cares they're not going to take care of you they're not going to give you the love that you're getting from whomever is giving you the love they're miserable because you're happy and misery wants what company

[@callmex6435]

“I love black girls I just don’t think they’re into me” -Childish Gambino

[@victoru918]

I never understood that quote... Donald Glover was a theater nerdy brotha, you couldn't tell me he couldn't find a sista that wasn't into things he was into, in his adolescence. Some nerdy goofy sista was there but was getting overlooked by the fellas too. Imo most of these dude shot to the top for the most attractive women in their adolescence and were in the wrong field of play at the time. Has nothing to do with sistas.

[@ivannparker4073]

@@victoru918 thing is, it’s a white dominated field, so any black girls he may have liked where deferring to the white guys who were into the same thing.

[@victoru918]

@@ivannparker4073 That doesn't make sense either b/c the field he was may of been white dominated but we all know the moment a Brotha walks in the door they gravitate to us. So I'd the White Men gravitate to you and see the dominance in his man hood wouldn't those sistas to the same too? Just an honest question.

[@callmex6435]

@@victoru918 well maybe that was his person experience like you said theater nerdy dude while I know nothing of the arts there isn’t one black girl I know that ever spoke about men like him

[@billydakid71]

I just got cured by three black women this week

[@bigwill9421]

"Going Where You Are Celebrated is Not Selling Out." -KS

[@lolasanya5185]

Exactly and I wish more black wo men thought like this.

[@TLW369]

Exactly! ❤👏

[@cerromeceo]

No it still a sell out

[@thewordsmith5440]

At this point he is avoiding black women. I never knew anything about him and white women until this video so saying black women who didn't know you before don't deserve you is weird there are plenty of dark skin black women that were called burnt and ugly by black boys and many of them still date black men if they can but most black men like women with light skin complexions biracial, Asian or white so it makes it hard for black women the darker they are and the kinkier there hair is. At this point he just likes white women and he feels only white women deserve to be treated well. Most black men leave their black gf or wife once they get rich so it's not exactly going against the grain for him to be dating a full white woman because it's the norm.

[@cerromeceo]

@@thewordsmith5440 That's cap. You just made that up lol

[@KaloosaKennels]

I live by the motto … “I fuck with who fuck with me” regardless of color

[@musiqman8771]

The Only way to live

[@flpmedia2312]

Yup My Girl is Mexican but it just happened because I had gotten a divorce and I didn't want to date anymore .We met been together ever since no White Women though

[@manueloalzulfiquarali3688]

*FACTS!* I lived the Same life brother.........

[@ballerboi4980]

@@flpmedia2312 no white women tho 😂

[@raymanjohan8838]

this is the fact with a lot of black men...this is what I have always believed

[@RMM98]

I’d rather be the “nerd” or “lame” and be a multi millionaire than be accepted and be broke.

[@deancraig9933]

It's not about being broke...dudes who make good money around the way(skill trades) aren't getting the best all the time...for the same lame ass internet fukn Instagram reason...go where you are recieved..WORD

[@oracle__3345]

Its not what youd rather its just an observation, which isnt 100 % true but there are thruths in this post. Respond dont react

[@godsgirl7201]

True

[@jessebaca2750]

💯👍🏼

[@TheSecretLifeofEb]

I don’t any nerds or lames from my school making millions .. they are all working regular ass jobs

[@Gintoki_Madao]

Being curved for liking anime, being interested in history and comics sucks 😭

[@FREE_WILL_DEFENDER]

Now look at the hoes wearing dragon ball shirts not knowing who it is lmao

[@setsunak.5105]

My own family found me weird for liking anime. I found people with the same interests which are my best friends and my sisters. Now I'm on the search to find my husband. But no luck so far. 🤷🏾‍♀️😒*sigh*

[@Mergatroid_Skittle]

Doesn’t it though?🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Gintoki_Madao]

@@setsunak.5105 This is one of the things that bug me about life You and I are cut almost from the same cloth... But we'll never know or meet one another 😩. It definitely sucks

[@viceanterra3]

@@Gintoki_Madao not talking about y'all two specifically, and not endorsing this, but ppl having gotten married over world of warcraft and overwatch across state lines and across borders 😂. Don't lose hope y'all. Don't sweat it either. Just vibe. Relationships will test you more than you think lol. -A dude married for 6 years (together for 14)

[@Silkblvq]

These young blk girls got crushes on famous drug addicts and jail birds!

[@SongSingsSoprano]

That is not true and you know it.

[@romone8614]

Sooooo true they want dope boys and wanna be thuggs 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 these girls or ass back ward

[@islandgurl4927]

No many of us don't. But whatever. The others are just haters of bw.

[@joshperez5428]

@@SongSingsSoprano well if they crush on a mainstream rapper it’s most likely true

[@funnydude308]

@@SongSingsSoprano nigga it’s been true In The black community for years

[@MsLotusBlooms]

I am a black woman, and I support bm doing whatever is best for their lives. Best wishes! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@skibootdier9488]

Any hard working motivated brother heard, or was told this asinine phrase: "He think he wite."

[@stinkmeaner3016]

“You the whitest brotha I know” As if we don’t have the same struggle outside of our community!!

[@skibootdier9488]

@Square Peg Apparently you're incapable of thinking anything..

[@melaninmonroeeee]

@Square Peg lol , facts . Self hating asses 😭💀

[@spoolyboi9434]

I was told that growing up all the time because of how I acted and dressed

[@bigsnkby1]

Yup

[@Idrisap77]

Exhibit A: the recent curving on the young Black Nuclear Physicist that when viral.

[@raw5889]

I agree with her he was corny

[@kplayzxp2376]

@@raw5889 weird, nigga was not corny

[@byrdis1a1]

Exactly, later when he become famous and well renowned in his field here she comes wanting to share in his success. Let those women stay with the pookies and ray-rays.

[@IsiahHD]

That honestly speaks more for how trash the online dating market is more than black dating dynamics as a whole.

[@LetGoStressFree]

So do BW have to attracted to EVERY BM YOU deem a good catch?

[@vernonhampton6973]

My Black exes didn't appreciate me and I got turned down repeatedly because I was seen as a corny, no-swag-having, fast-food employed nerd who watches Gundam Wing... Now, my Greek wife appreciates the fact that her nerdy, well-paid mechanical engineer husband would rather stay at home with her and watch Gundam Wing... ...and guess who still gets called a 'sell-out'?

[@raygaming4306]

based greek wife. Congrats for finding one who appreciates you.

[@theredknight1]

You winning bro. Just stop listening to losers

[@nathaniel3867]

Happy for you man also I love Gundam 💯😭👏🏽🙇🏽‍♂️

[@chocolateangel8743]

​@@ramseysstudioHe was with BW when he was poor and had no confidence, which means he probaby had a bad attitude as well. He was probably only able to get with his WW AFTER he became a mechnical engineer. BM never talk about this, though.

[@ramseysstudio]

@@chocolateangel8743That’s true, I didn’t consider that. Thank you.

[@icecold8974]

Feels like my life. I was lame, talked proper, I was light skin and didn’t care for name brand clothes. I ran into a white girl we talked about Star Wars and became best friends. She’s never treated me that way, but a black girl I was friends with accused me of hating black women. How when that’s all I’ve been around and pursuing. I just wanted to be accepted for me. It’s a catch 22 can’t win for losing.

[@tropicalbluevibes7674]

Thats exactly what happened to me

[@jarviswright3732]

Yeah, once in high school I was talking to a black girl about things we liked and I brought up dinosaurs. She was DONE! After I said a couple things, she blew me off. She then got with this conceited, ignorant ass ninja who she'd regularly complain about. Talked to this white girl about dinosaurs a couple months later... She was FASCINATED! More recently, I tried to explain to a black girl at DUKE UNIVERSITY what a taro was, and her response was, "why do I need to know something like that?" The next day, at the same university, I explained what it was to a group of three white girls and a group of three Latinas; their reaction: "Oh, that's neat!" I've sorta noticed a pattern in that regard. 🤔

[@tropicalbluevibes7674]

@@jarviswright3732 Yep same here

[@rdpill]

Go where u happy bro

[@nathaniel3867]

@@jarviswright3732 hey my brotha. Go where you appreciated. It’s what I did 🙂. Also dinosaurs are cool by the way. I saw one I think the raptor looking one has nice sharp teeth.

[@HarlemPapaBear2381]

Fucking facts… been through the same things. I was “too nice” I wasn’t the thug on the streets and now to this day get so much attention from Latinas

[@timothyblount8807]

Because the culture of people have evolved were as you don't have to date who you're supposed to speaking about history times have changed you can date or marry who you want, every culture goes through the same thing, not just black people, Asian, middle eastern, African, American and so forth

[@timothyblount8807]

And that's a fact, for the person who started this topic he started by saying everyone he knows, so he's speaking about the men who he knows experience that

[@kelsblair5963]

So date them it’s only a problem when you disrespect black women. Black women out here eating white men too and I’m happy for them

[@malikgordon5230]

@@kelsblair5963 Black women are not eating anything lol

[@raw5889]

@@timothyblount8807 wtf are you talking about

[@deuced80]

Sometimes, rejection is protection. Count it as a blessing you didn't get caught up in dysfunctional misery. Focus on that purpose.

[@venitarjohnson]

Facts and honestly some of them were just aiming for the wrong black woman that dysfunctional crazy chick and they were not looking at the black woman that was looking at them matter fact some of them turn their nose up at us lol so you can’t claim it was just them turning their nose up the guys like him did it too and then they blamed all of us for not wanting them when the real truth is some of us did we were just not miss popularity and not what they wanted

[@vinny.deadmou5d46]

Strait FACTS

[@pamion2805]

Bars ctfu

[@xinahicks13]

Righ... Don’t want to be a single Mother..

[@milesdiontre]

Mic drop

[@O-B1]

My son is going through this right now. We just a normal bunch of folk and he is at the top of his class and plans on going to an Ivy League school. My little dude gets no play from Black girls, but the Asians and Whites really take care of him. One Asian girl that did hybrid learning during Covid had her parents drive out of their way on the regular to give him physical copies of the school work. I just don’t see a Black girl supporting him in that way. It’s sad when you think about it. Once he sparks this engineering degree, I guess they will see him. It will be too late.

[@Userhdiekejeheu7w]

Media really has us hating our own. What you expect when ivy league is mostly asian and white. No need to hate your own. Smh

[@rdpill]

Bw only see the money. ..they dont see the road it took to get there

[@jericothompson8636]

@@Userhdiekejeheu7wHES NOT IN IVY LEAGUE YET. Or did you miss that part?? Nobody “hates black women” we’re just done waiting around for the right one, and we damn sure aren’t jumping through hoops to find her either.

[@Aphrodite01]

Your problem is wanting your son to “get play” from a bunch of women. Stop raising a S. L. UT. Seek therapy for your mental illness and trauma.

[@raythomas5090]

They expect folks to keep trying and keep being rejected. It’s a perfect example of “I don’t want you but I don’t want anybody else to have you”. It’s logic and they hate when you use logic against them

[@Ontiming2023]

Yea all they have to do is walk around in tights and booty shorts an get rejected by almost nobody do you understand how rejection works when I message 500 blk women an not one reply that shit hurts cause these women look like you an they don’t find you attractive so you grow to hate your own race an that’s why those guys do that they get tired of that shit the no an it’s rare that all of them can be rich so basically if your not walking around a millionaire they won’t give most of us any play I accepted it tho I just said I’ll get my revenge on them when I become successful revenge feels better than sex itself knowing that you got back is the best feeling

[@thewordsmith5440]

To men a quality woman is always choosy. If he expects every black woman to give him a chance because every white women does that's insane. white women date black men for their perceived swagger and because it makes them feel rebellious. They're also hypersexualized as good lovers. The reason white women are coming are different.

[@micahdeprophet1531]

Black Men will go where he is appreciated with love and not just tolerated with drama 😎🦾🖤💍

[@jeanettefrance6852]

That's a lie, and you know it. I started a million dollar business for my MAN and and he CHEATED with a Bedtime Becky.

[@jeanettefrance6852]

At least you tell the TRUTH, go to the elementary schools and let the little girls know about how KEN really feels about BARBIE. LOL

[@jeanettefrance6852]

As for dating a woman, NEVER!

[@bradleywhiteside5177]

@@jeanettefrance6852 lmfaooo

[@micahchaplin536]

I like the reference of your name 👍

[@holysman]

Being a Mexican I feel the same but with my own race. I date Black women never had a problem that same way I did with Mexican women. I've come to believe we are just tired of following what people say and to date a certain pool of women. In the end it doesn't matter as long the person you're with got your back and be willing to roll with you through thick and thin

[@edwingonzalez7691]

Deadass tho. Mexican women didn't want nothin to do with me, second I start speaking with black and white chicks. All of the sudden it's, “you think you're too good for us?” Like wtf don't get near me if you never gave me the time to begin with.

[@itsmipapi]

Nah fr

[@AMAZIAH]

The funny part is. Black women will jump as high as you ask. Long as they get to date a mexican or white boy.

[@ace.mutations]

I've heard it's similar. Especially if you don't speak Spanish

[@timescale9326]

@@AMAZIAH there’s no headaches with other races of men. Not saying all but most. They will give bw a reason to submit. Unlike y’all

[@wildyoda2931]

They’ll curve a black man for anything if he’s not gang banging, being a thug or selling drugs and on his way out the door they don’t want him. 😂

[@Brainoneal146]

You already know it bro

[@utamu777]

You all clearly loved pretty hoodrats and ignored the good girls or nerdy girls

[@jarviswright3732]

It's if he's not willing to exemplify some form of stereotype that's not the best for us. When you're a brotha that's deemed different or unique, you struggle with black women, frfr! 💯

[@afrolatina2811]

And you guys reject women who don't have a bumblebee body! I have yet to meet a black women who wants a "gang banger"! Maybe stop trying to date children, and date actual women!

[@afrolatina2811]

@@jarviswright3732 that's what happens when you chase children, sweetheart!

[@simply_tmade6912]

I was also forced to DIVEST! I stop dating black American men 3 years ago and married a Kenyan man. The black men I dated had no interest in seriously settling down to make me a wife. I am honestly the happiest I have ever been in a relationship and in my marriage simply because I chose to open up my options and date outside of my culture. I honestly think many more people would find love and be happy if they would take the step to date someone of A different race or a different culture.

[@mikemike7264]

As a black American man married to a black American women I do believe the system (policies) in place make it so that black American men & women are incompatible with each other. It’s done to basically stop a revolution, it’s working just look at black Americans we’re too chaotic as a group to build anything our women make most family decisions & the black men at best are placed on the periphery of the family. No real male leadership unless there’s an emergency but most things are through the prism of women. Only recently has men’s opinion even been discussed let alone taking seriously. Until black men unite the black community will continue to be in chaos.

[@moneysnappin]

You still married a brother... That's not considered divesting

[@ahanna76]

@@moneysnappin 🫡

[@McFrappin]

So what? Who cares....✌🏾

[@honeyorange1447]

Happy for you. Much love ❤️

[@bobfield6493]

This is the stone cold truth. Most black women curse the same men they still won't date. Crazy

[@kenjistanback9261]

Ain't It krazy Mane🙄

[@shorts26]

Because they still want to have the option later on when they're less desirable and Noone wants them for a relationship

[@fatboydiesel8270]

What kills me is how their own females want the "hustler" or "hood dude," then wonder where the good men went. 🤷‍♂️

[@musiqman8771]

They weird af

[@Noco235]

And after they done had three or four babies, by as many dead-beat ruff-necks, now they want a "high-value" man!! WHAT??

[@islandgurl4927]

@@Noco235 It is not just pookies and ray rays that do this. It is bm who have degrees, both of their parents are still married, and bm who are educated but forget about their protection to prevent it. It takes two to tangle btw.

[@STYLES99999]

Damn you hit that one right on the nail….. facts.

[@theshach100]

@@islandgurl4927 it’s mainly pookie and ray ray. Don’t say it’s not only them. That’s what many BW are attracted to. Thugs, pretty boys and womenizers = no good men

[@tamarabrownie123]

I feel this but as a black women. Growing up I was overlooked because I didn’t fit the stereotypical narrative. It goes both ways

[@StratoS_218]

I’m pretty sure there was guys into you but you want them to

[@StratoS_218]

Didn’t want them

[@tamarabrownie123]

@@StratoS_218 you could say the same in reverse about men. I’m sure women were into them but they didn’t want them….right?

[@tamarabrownie123]

@@StratoS_218 To respond to your statement. There actually weren’t. They always went for a particular type of girl then complained about said girls to others and me. But wouldn’t give me a chance. I learned a long time ago alot of black men just don’t like black women. Or don’t seek out the type of women they claim to want from their own race, they seek it else where. For example because my hair was natural, because I spoke intelligently, because I didn’t have my ass out my shorts, because I prioritized education, because I smiled and said hi to people. I was a fucking nerd to most of them, a bore, no one exciting. But once they get that excitement they blame a whole race of women for not being the way they want them to and completely ignore the ones who are. I think the problem is a lot of us black men and women seem to prioritize and find poor behaviors attractive. I honestly think it has nothing to do with just men or women. I think it’s our culture as a whole. I definitely know there are some good black men that get overlooked but it’s the same with women and you simply can’t deny that.

[@0000YumYum0000]

Exactly, I was too nerdy and dark-skinned for BM, so that’s why I only messed with men outside my race.

[@lili2u405]

"My preference is WW and I'm going to justify that by gaslighting BW."🤣

[@eddielacrosse2]

What your are doing is a poor attempt at gaslighting actually.

[@JhamariColes-ld1hc]

@@eddielacrosse2 facts cause dude ain’t making sense at all

[@jaidee9570]

In my experience most men don't feel the need to justify their choices. If a guy prefers WW he'll just say that, if he's had bad experiences with BW he'll share them, but that's it. Women on the other hand seem unable to simply state a preference without running down others to justify their actions. It was said of feminists, but there's very little difference between most modern women and feminists now: the only way for feminists to rise is for men to kneel. It's absolute truth, you can't just pull yourselves up, you want to stand on a man and put him down.

[@I_Am_NiiTA]

Fr. 🤣🤣🤣

[@joshuatruvillion3044]

​@@JhamariColes-ld1hcsimp

[@petroglyph79]

Mike Jonessssssss Back didnt want me now ,I'm hot they all on me🤨🤷🏿‍♂️

[@traviswilliams1398]

Hypergamy.

[@traviswilliams1398]

Hypergamy is an innate and core component of female nature.

[@traviswilliams1398]

Hypergamy is a core and innate components of female nature.

[@trynagetredpilled7941]

Facts

[@ashasun6620]

Now he's vanished into thin air.

[@versewonderstrikes5353]

Most men don’t chase women so if you reject us we won’t chase after we’ll just go to who we “vibing” with.

[@RedPrintBullyz]

Bulllll shit dudes definitely Chase

[@adibabdullah6633]

Facts 🙌🏾

[@Extinguish_]

Yep

[@ssjakuma]

I married my vibe. She mixed, but just because she was raised In the suburbs I hear black girls call her white.

[@ssjakuma]

@Tresiyt Ecibo That's your conditioned opinion.

[@RichDaRebel22]

Started dating a white woman a couple months ago and she really vibing with a brotha. I do not miss all that toxic bullshit from the past and babygirl is definitely rocking with me

[@mikejrphilips9870]

Im about to ruffle feathers... Black people are more likely to keep each other down, I mean they want to see you do good but only when it's beneficial to them, the moment you move different and they don't benefit in any way from how you move, “you are a sellout”. But you’al not ready for this conversation.

[@williamachriston6442]

You’re right ash

[@terryjordan5969]

So True

[@michaelhaysbert703]

When I go out black women don't make eye contact or give me a second glance but if I'm with a white girl they stare me down like I owe them money. I ain't never been a pretty boy and I'm cool with that. Never been too flashy. But I realized a long time ago I don't want the type of women that don't want me. Truth be told most sisters ain't been raised and started hoeing early. They don't know what a good man look or act like. Brothas gotta stop turning these little girls out for real. It ain't all nobody fault. We been programmed by the enemy to destroy each other for real. I don't see a solution to the problem.

[@joskeyo4877]

There’s a solution. It’s what you are doing. Continue dating white or Latina women. Just don’t date the scraps that white men don’t want - you know the types!

[@qwammienewsome1357]

Too many of our young women do not have the example of a real man in the homes, so the chose otherwise early!!

[@bobbydunn2720]

And white girls “ don’t be hoeing “ 🤔😂😂😂😂

[@Shelbydrich]

@@qwammienewsome1357 and the black men were raised with their fathers? He’s right we’ve been conditioned to date outside and criticize our own constantly. Our community is mentally damaged

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@qwammienewsome1357 They completely ignore that issue while still pointing fingers at the women who actually stuck it out.

[@edmundnlemadim8480]

It’s the “Donald Glover Jr” phenomenon. Dealt with the same shit in high school. Pants didn’t sag low enough, I wasn’t “hood enough” grew up in a 2 parent household, so I was a “lame” lol Ain’t get no time or energy from the sistas but did from Hispanic girls and white girls. Especially in college. And while I prefer to date within my race, at 32 years old and no kids of my own, my primary preference is to settle down and experience parenthood for the first time with my partner who is similar to me, ie no kids… guess which race of women are the highest percentage of single moms 🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🫠 shit ain’t looking too hot for me but it is what it is. If I get smoke for settling down with a non BW, it wasn’t for lack of trying 😂

[@frankwhite2278]

Naw you’re just a lame

[@kokolatte825]

Where you at? Plenty of Latinas have kids... out of wedlock too

[@LetGoStressFree]

And many BW left with no kids. I'm hearing a lot of them say they never want them. This world is so screwed up right now.

[@TomikaKelly]

PLEASE GO outside of your race. Please, for God's sake, leave Black women the hell alone. Matter of a fact, message me if you need help getting your passport so you can just leave. The Philippines are nice this time of year. Iceland is beautiful. Russia gets a bad rap but is actually quite pleasant. Let me know if you need help with leaving Black women .

[@ayshab.81]

Donald didn't marry his baby mama but gave her 3 kids. He's an pookie too. 🤣

[@crystaljackson3233]

The same thing happens to women too. I was awkward, lame, nerdy most of the guys growing up wanted what we call the IG model hood girls too. I was always the home girl, the best friend, etc…Every time I see videos like this I already know the type of women they was doing the rejecting…and for every girl that was rejecting you there was probably a girl that wasn’t apart of the “in” crowd willing to get to know you…I’m thankful now though because being the home girl spared me from a lot of drama and unnecessary heartache and I married a black man a good friend of mine from High School lol

[@Cam-qs1wd]

No man in the world is gonna turn down a pretty girl because of her status🤣 that is absolutely ridiculous😂 you either fine or you ain’t😂 a womans status and fame does not matter to a man😂😂😂

[@zerotolerance2026]

Exactly! All these so called nerds were chasing after the 304 baddies. They had no interest in black women who were also nerds. Now they in here crying.🤣 Please

[@tupactargaryen]

NO BM who has his sh*t together want's a "hood girl" or IG Model.

[@user-dv3kq3rm4h]

@@Cam-qs1wd What reason does she have to lie? Some of ya'll weird just looking for conflict online to feel something.

[@wanderer34]

@@zerotolerance2026 Nowadays, there are female nerds that are thick, curvy, and sexy! I remember one nerd that was in disbursing back in the Navy and never hollered at her only because she was white and I wasn't really into white chicks like that, but we cool on FB now. If she don't have a particular body, small waist, wide hips and a big you know what, I'm not checking for her because I need a real woman, not an anorexic little girl!!!

[@TGSOFLY]

I grew up in a mostly Puerto Rican neighborhood and the BW had no problem tellin us we weren’t as attractive as the Spanish dudes.

[@user-qt5jb9ee1g]

Exactly

[@Userw493]

Well most bm are ugly🤣I want my daughter with a Latin man!

[@billybadass9357]

U must of just ain have no game no matter what nikkas get they shi on blk women will literally fck anyboby u just gotta kno what to say to em

[@wanderer34]

And I have no problems getting then fine PR chicks at my side. IF anything, I don't even try, they just come to me w/o any effort!

[@LouisianaGoon337]

😲

[@joshmitchell5554]

My favorite is “he talks wite now” when a nigga gets educated and learns how to speak

[@SynKyller]

Bruh. Growing on the east side of Detroit with my name was harsh and I spoke properly (talk white) because my mother was an English teacher . It was rough in the 90s.

[@kjrelax2307]

That's not talking white. It's talking proper. I'm pretty sure if he's around his family or friends, it a lil more vibe street talk. But it's about time & place. It's common sense right place, right time.

[@Capgpro1]

When a nigga?

[@Unseen_but_Well_Heard]

"When a Brotha gets educated" that sounds a lot better👍🏾

[@McKeeW10000]

​@@SynKyllerBruh, I feel that! 95% of the black girls who had never seen me in that time period when we talked on the phone said I sound white. They still say that... AND, non-black women say that too and have been saying that for years! 💯

[@iammarshallyn7445]

This is facts. My little brothers only ever been with Asian women for same reasons.. truth is most young black women have no idea what to look for in a quality man. By the time they mature, those guys have as well and aren’t looking for them anymore.

[@KarateWrestler205]

Facts im not really into black women anymore for the same reason I just see ghetto relationships when I look at them doesn’t matter if she’s into it or not

[@royaltypoetry1533]

We need to get our act together on both sides.

[@royaltypoetry1533]

We give up too soon but date outside who doesn't even respect us.

[@Omissionnn]

Fax

[@ty3901]

Sheesh the facts on this #

[@Nubiiiiiaaaaaaa]

Nobody forced any of you, just don’t circle back when that preference reminds you of who you are.

[@poetryselite]

Here's a thought... How about pursuing black women who mirror our own thoughts and ideologies?! This is what I did... I'm married to my black wife, no drama, and I'm never looking outside my own to find peace. Be selective and wait patiently, the right one is out there waiting patiently also.

[@TheStarchild41]

exactly there are plenty of "lame" black girls smh

[@BigHoTzMuZik]

True, some people do hit the lottery..

[@poetryselite]

@@BigHoTzMuZik Just takes a little patience. It's better to remain single than settle for nonsense just to escape isolation.

[@jermaineelliott2685]

"Nonsense"?

[@poetryselite]

@@jermaineelliott2685 What's nonsensical about what I stated? We can't just target a pretty face with curvy hips and expect instant magic. There's gotta be more substance in our selection process.

[@Ssboiz]

When I was in a bar i could sense all The Black girls energy was off and it was alot of girl on girl action. But there whole energy changed when a white girl approched me 🤔

[@sphinixnpharoah]

Lol I believe that not to laugh but it’s not a lot of unity amongst black women as I use to believe it was. Frfr I live in houston and black light skin chick it be so much animosity smh. I feel it too before I say hey it’s dry energy I gotta go out my way to prove I’m cool down idk it’s exhausting and fun with my white girl friends be more chill I’ll say in fun setting. Good point

[@anonemp1878]

@@sphinixnpharoah facts

[@izzetwotwo]

My nigga u was in a bar...looking for a real one?? Of course u couldn't find the right one..go to a book club or the bowling alley or something not like the club or a bar or low vibe activities

[@Ssboiz]

@@izzetwotwo Low vibe activities 😭

[@Ssboiz]

@@sphinixnpharoah i feel you. I think another Black Woman is your biggest hater, allways in competion

[@jminor1126]

"Nah, he white" Becomes successful. Dates white women. "Why all the white women taking all the good black men" "Oh, now I'm black?"

[@darrenhilton9402]

😄

[@MadAudi]

Same for black women that date outside their race… usually when they (black women) are successful. But black men are hating all black women lately. Especially successful black women. I’m with a white man who’s been with me through a lot of trials.

[@unknownstormtrooper5735]

Facts

[@InMyOwnWrld]

📌

[@LifeCreator]

Lmao facts

[@fiona1407]

I love being a black women and I doubt alot of black women care what his preferences is life dont revole around black men.

[@jayflamin313]

Vice versa.

[@pappadappacarhauler757]

This is so true. I was never cool enough. I didn’t walk right or I didn’t talk right. I was never what they wanted. Now I’m married to an Asian woman for 23 yrs and I make six figures.

[@insurgenthiphop5870]

There's absolutely nothing cool about being hood. Anyone tries to tell you being trashy and struggling in the gutter is cool they're lame AF and will be miserable their whole life while acting like their shit situation is cool, it's pathetic

[@sagebrooks6907]

Tell her thx for picking up the trash😊

[@fuckableface]

Congrats bro. Enjoy your life 🎉

[@user-vl7fm8ck2m]

Hes trash for what? Not being cool enough when he was younger? For marrying an Asian woman? Make it make sense​@@sagebrooks6907

[@MrMartellSincere]

​@@sagebrooks6907you're a nobody

[@official_ma1512]

I’m proud of being a nerd because that’s what get us to the bank. But I remember being bullied because I was playing soccer which people looked down on me for playing that sport that was International. The common sports in my community was basketball, football, baseball. I remember being turned down by everyone in my community especially the females and I said when I get older I will become great and I remember I was training for soccer I was working harder then even . As years pass by I ended up winning medals and awards for my team and for my school I was offered to Study abroad for soccer which I was sent to Southern France, Frankfurt Germany, and Naples Italy. Now I’m 18 years old after 13 years of hard work now I’m getting drafted to the 3 division German soccer league called liga 3.

[@duane5039]

Congrats 🤜🏽. I had a similar path but don’t make it as far as you. At the end of the day you gotta just do u.

[@official_ma1512]

@@duane5039 I remember every time I played soccer felt something special that was power and showing creativity.

[@JV-tx1xw]

Damn, I really want to hate you for how young, dedicated, and successful you are but. I'm too damn proud of you. Atta boy champ, if I see you in a game I'll be rooting for you. "The women of my own race don't want me" Hmm, if I were you, I'd be too busy being balls deep in some strange to be thinking about that kind of nonsense.

[@7DMEDIA1]

Props! Make sure the woman is bringing equal assets because divorce if financial hell..

[@official_ma1512]

@@JV-tx1xw thank you very much for your comment I’m grateful 🙏🏾🔥

[@scaggly9239]

Moral of the story: dont try to change who you are for a BW if youre attracted to them. I love my black sisters, but if they dont like you then that may be an indication that youll be better off in other communities.

[@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue]

Every black girl I’ve met directly assumed a dated white girls just based off my personality but I’m like what the hell, I can still read my comic books and date a black woman, even my cousins thought the same thing

[@charliemcfadden9769]

I'm a person that always stayed to myself. Got bullied in school. And The brothers would look at me and as I walk passed them it's laughing and whispering. Some guys even told me that they thought that I was stuck up. And, that some of them thought I was dating a wm. That wasn't never the case. I was quiet, stayed to myself, and didn't fuck with ppl who had drama and chaos. I left that shit alone. And, it pissed me off bc they assumed that I only dated white men. Don't assume. Come and talk to me get to know me then judge. BTW: I have dated outside my race. But, it was never wm.

[@chxnce_wrld874]

@@charliemcfadden9769I thought only us black men went through this because we have to do the approaching and face the rejection up front. I feel like we should create an organization for bm and bw who don’t partake in the degeneracy. 😂

[@TruckDaddyy]

I feel like another reason some of us black men date outside their race is because our parents try to raise us in affluent or “better” neighborhoods around other kids who can’t relate to us at all. Then we grow up not even knowing how to interact with our own people. Atleast that was my experience

[@MeannDeann]

I had a black chick tell me I was better off dating a white woman I was too nice

[@EMcgame.23]

Dang that sad but when they hit the older years or get in trouble you know who they going to call they go on dating app and try to look for the good man to save her😂😂😂

[@Mr.Boddie]

​@@EMcgame.23Yep and then crying after they get rejected.

[@billywatson9821]

​@@Mr.BoddieYep. So true.

[@EMcgame.23]

@@Mr.Boddie especially single mom I remember I talked to a single mom that got four kids and it's terrible

[@LouisianaGoon337]

Df

[@petroglyph79]

That's on them they play themselves. I'm cool with who I am wouldn't change a thing. I earned this. I'd rather be a lame.

[@yaya4768]

👏🏽 keep that energy!

[@jeremiahborders2959]

What makes you lame?

[@Seancarter2010]

Amen my friend

[@Seancarter2010]

@@jeremiahborders2959 the same qualities that would make you high value in nearly all other communities makes us lame in ours. Being educated well spoken intellectually curious about the world non violent etc. Notice how even our college educated women spend a lot of their youth and time on the same bad boys they wanted in HS but everyone else grew up and decided to actually date men who were reliable?

[@jeremiahborders2959]

@@Seancarter2010 so are you telling me that we have no black lawyers, doctors, astronauts, professors and teachers, scientist, audio engineers, bankers, politicians or government officials, loan officers, accountants, Insurance workers Museum historians, bankers and others in the black community??? We all just gangbanging, shooting, and prostituting in these streets?🤔🙄 y'all need to get the fuck off of social media and stop falling into these God damn false narratives. There is good and bad in every fucking community. Y'all never heard the phrase "white trailer park trash"??😒 there are plenty of educated well spoken black people that come from the ghettos, the trenches, and the hood. I don't get it, why are y'all so confromtable sitting in stereotypes and believing them?

[@chrismanning1171]

I was that lame in the hood. All the dope dealers and gang bangers got all the girls. Ten years later when all the dope boys are locked up or dead I smashed most of the girls I could not get. Now I am 6 figures and ended up marrying an Asian lady.

[@tbwrestler7483]

A year ago I approached this black women wanting to talk to her and get her phone number she asked me what I do I told her I work on aircrafts why she say "ew tell me you sell drugs or something not no damn aircrafts" before I approached her she didn't give us "ghetto" vibes so that gave me the confidence to walk up to her

[@kingr.a.4067]

I wouldn't be surprised if that actually happened. Wow. Smh.

[@tbwrestler7483]

@@kingr.a.4067 yeah man shit crazy out here

[@bigcee5702]

WoW that’s crazy we can’t make this stuff up

[@quentellawinborne6360]

She corny for that . I’m a black a woman and I think it’s lit . Some of them do be needing a reality check Missing out on good men to date a guy that’s going to dog you out is played out sis Give me the computer geek or the tech genius

[@Userhdiekejeheu7w]

Nigga making these lies out his ass. All to hate on your own smb

[@joskeyo4877]

These is what happened with me & my brothers. We are Nigerian. They all date or married white or Asian women. Except me! I married a fellow Nigerian black woman. When we migrated to the U.S., in early 2,000’s, we were absolutely ignored by African American women for not being “hood”. Didn’t matter that we are decently good looking, well spoken and tall. So, we never even thought about them as a possibility. Now, most of us are millionaires from hard work, business, and investments. We are all with the same women in happily married homes. Don’t blame us!

[@bobbydunn2720]

Good for you brother! Stay blessed 💕

[@LetGoStressFree]

How exactly would you know why a person ignored you if they are in fact ignoring you??? Would you go as far to say that you had NO positive encounter with African Am women or would that defeat your narrative???

[@jeanettefrance6852]

"So we never even thought about them," so that's not talk from Experience your just talking loud but not saying NOTHING.

[@wholesomechick8259]

Why did the Nigerian women ignore your brothers? 🤔

[@joskeyo4877]

@@LetGoStressFree oh, we had some positive encounters, in the friendzone! NOBODY, likes the friendzone!

[@Hetetsumi]

This is exactly why I chose to try other races… my mom would say all the time “that’s my erkel” I was not the typical young black male. I was a corn ball, military brat. As green as you could be and not a single black girl liked me. But soon as I start dating outside my race. “Oh must hate your own women”

[@johnsamsjr8670]

I have never dated a black woman And I never will

[@RichardKellogg1]

This is a blessing; Ive been to countries like Ethiopia, Uganda, Phillipines, and Brazil. Black American men are treated with respect there. Go overseas the women are more attractive hands down.

[@cybergirlwitoutaface]

Called an Oreo as a kid, has affects on you.

[@ronaldpolite1838]

^

[@Twitch_GiGGlez_7_4]

I feel this, in fact the beautiful coke bottle black queen I was dating in high school called me that. Like a nickname. *ugh*

[@shaunnoochie5810]

This is a conversation the black community doesn't want to have.. it disgusted me when I heard my ex call her son an Oreo

[@kingr.a.4067]

Same here.

[@concretejungle8916]

Usually 9 times out of 10 times when a black man doesn't do everything that his peers are doin or speaks clearly and is able to articulate what's on his mind? Usually his own people don't see him as one of them...so I get what this young man is explaining on this video piece 🤔

[@garyp.1635]

Facts

[@KelzKelz]

Bs, you can be lame but that don't mean you are treated like you not fam.

[@f.iyanda3838]

Very true. I still go through that myself.

[@Twitch_GiGGlez_7_4]

On my soul I certainly relate.

[@retroman9287]

@@KelzKelz that’s exactly how it goes, you’re probably a pookie or ray ray lol

[@rainmind]

I'm not black. Im Hispanic and a psychologist. I lived in Texas for a decade before moving back to Argentina. I had a black friend and coworker and was the first and only black person I interacted with. I didn't interact with white people either. I just befriended immigrants mostly, they felt more like me evennif they were from many different countries and races. It really makes me happy that the black community is creating spaces to discuss their real issues, to think outside the box and question themselves. I would never date a black woman for the same reasons a black man wouldn't. I just recently discovered great black youtubers and thinkers. It's refreshing how woke(lucid) and direct they are. I believe black men will lead the way in the US in the coming decades. They should, they are not caught up in the nonsense, they are logical.

[@savagethepunisher]

Same

[@CaramelCali]

I don’t agree with you

[@dopeplanetwatcher4471]

@@CaramelCaliof course you think black men are not important and that we deserve to die

[@Ali-zv1yk]

Lol it’s sadly true. I got curved so bad by my own in my teens and now find myself dating outside of my race 😆 I don’t even look back

[@Userhdiekejeheu7w]

Bro is just as fragile as the white man who only dates asians. You finna finna find the hard way women of all races be acting like that sometimes. No need to shit on your own

[@KrysBrown89]

Other races never curved you either? Did you start not dating those races because of it? Hmmm

[@Humbledfx]

That’s literally my story 💯🤣

[@jasaanrobinson]

Me too bra.

[@okunsifemeni9384]

Congratulations bruh 💯

[@And1one757]

Unless you hood willing to have 5 baby mamma's thats pretty much the starter pack its going to be pretty difficult to fit into the black culture 🤷‍♂️

[@Bigboytrav5821]

You’re not alone. I’m with an Asian

[@isaiahogud31]

Right me too. And I’m going to be a millionaire 🤣🤣

[@focusedallday5620]

That’s why I’ve always said to go where you are celebrated not tolerated. If you have to come out of pocket, simp, or trick then you’re with the wrong girl. Stay Focused!

[@weavemademeadeadbeatdad2888]

Really? U don't believe in providing?

[@eugenecarse4284]

@@weavemademeadeadbeatdad2888 That's not what he said. Providing for your family is one thing, always paying for a woman that you're just talking to for example: her rent, car note, utilities just for her attention then that's a problem.

[@NFSMAN50]

I hate to say this, but he's speaking the truth. I was always a very sensitive, empathetic, kind, reserved guy, and BW thought that I was weird, nerdy, lame, odd, girly, but the Non-BW were more accepting of my personality and they adored these traits I had, and I always felt more at ease with Non-BW, than my own. I've dated some BW though, but I gravitate more towards non-bw.

[@mariapullman4355]

I think this is a similar situation for other races as well and the opposite sex. White men were never interested in me growing up; in my 20 or 30’s. Not until I hit my 40’s white men now are attracted to me. I’ve been married to a black man for almost 11years now. I do know that black women liked him and still do. He was never considered lame.

[@missionbasedastrology1013]

I used to judge black men who dated outside their race heavy. With all the rhetoric I see online, and person etc see why! Our women want no accountability for the foolishness of the program and that they undertaken. Our women defend everybody else

[@kokolatte825]

Girl, plenty of Black girls got ostracized and excluded as well. This particular issue isn't as much about how Black women treat men. This is a community issue and that idea of Black identity.

[@LetGoStressFree]

Check the comments. The BM bash the BW too. At this point we just need to all take a deep breath and try this again.

[@TomikaKelly]

So does this mean you've already left or you're finally going to leave Black women the hell alone now? 👀

[@missionbasedastrology1013]

@@TomikaKelly this commentary is what we're talking about no accountability

[@mrbojangles7996]

Black females be online literally coaching other black women to trick guy's, play games, they have sex with the so-called alpha males but it's funny as hell to see these same black females get older in their late 40s and 50s looking a hot ass mess because they been ran through but still think they deserve to be married 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is why I just look at black female's like they crazy! I'd definitely like to date a white woman!, Black female's are straight up overated!

[@cliffordowens2939]

Straight facts dudes get looked at like lames most of these women wouldn't of talked to the Michael b Jordan of the world in highschool or dudes like childesh Gambino and I hope I spelled his name right but them dudes was dorks coming up

[@ToniVoncell]

Don’t say most say some

[@MrBondSinatra]

@@ToniVoncell naw he right most

[@Lord_darkside74]

Awalt

[@EncyclopediaBrittanica]

Am I the only one that thinks (and thought) that dorks are cute? Cuz my girls used to clown me.

[@ToniVoncell]

@@EncyclopediaBrittanica girl I use to date them, sh*t I’m one too 😂😂😂

[@MrFlow27]

I was hella into anime as a kid. When I shot my shot. Black woman called me weird,green & lame. But they loved my drug dealing brother. My first date was with a Latina who loved anime too. I didn’t get a date from a black woman until I was in college

[@WillieDLive]

That’s the truth for some, but most aspire to date White women regardless of circumstances because they think the White woman’s ice is colder.

[@starelise1387]

Thank you! They ignored all the black girls who were nerdy in their social scenes! It don’t matter how nice and polite she was, she wasn’t white so they weren’t even paying attention to her

[@Faranzo14]

“Back then they didn’t want me, now I’m hot they all on me” Mike Jones. 😁

[@matthewfrancis777]

John 1:11 - “He came unto his own, and his own received him not.”

[@ashfire4378]

John 14:9 Have I been so long time with you, and yet hast thou not known me..?

[@Assemble_This]

People always ask me why I married a white woman. And the answer is always the same: “You can only marry who likes you.” My second fiancé is now black. She doesn’t understand what this experience is truly like. I didn’t get invited to parties. I didn’t get to go to homecoming or prom. I didn’t get any attention. So in most cases you just begin to put your head down into your goals and accept that everyone is below you and work on yourself to make that the reality.

[@bigcee5702]

Facts

[@TrusttheJourney33]

I was considered a lame growing up. My first choice in women was black women. As I went to college White women, Asian and some latinas choose me. I still wanted black women but I just wasn’t their type. No problem, I am close to 30 no kids and continuing to pursue the different races of women who want me.

[@OEYA4]

Literally me. Rejected harshly by every black women I tried to get with because I wasn’t “gangsta” now I can’t post my girlfriend on twitter without black women and men calling me racist and insulting my girlfriend👎🏿

[@aireadye3091]

Ever thought it was simply your preference. Maybe you was picking the wrong black woman.

[@Zombie1.8.7]

I am one of those guys 💯 🙉 🙈 🙊

[@Mrjonezzz]

Same here.

[@Zombie1.8.7]

@@Mrjonezzz Stay focused bruh & stay strong 💪🏿, I say this because I'm doing the same 💯 🙉 🙈 🙊

[@iaintmadatcha]

Truth be told I don't see what brothers see in Becky. Their ways turn me the eff off

[@rollotherevolutionaryreneg395]

How many Black women have you approached in your life?

[@allanehoward5648]

Me too

[@lakeithlowther1584]

He's actually right.....

[@favorjamal1856]

Thank you finally the elephant in the room is addressed. Nobody speaks about this. This is the lived experience of many black men who aren’t hood adjacent.

[@chelsee_bbtte841]

Well maybe if they switched up their preference and went for the more educated well rounded black girls instead of hood ones they wouldn’t have put themselves in this situation. It’s crazy that he talks about “all black women” because this is not true. I can even say the same thing about blk men, but then again I realize that they’re not all the same. It really just has something to do with how and where you were raised

[@chxnce_wrld874]

@@chelsee_bbtte841when did he say “all” 🤔 quotation marks mean verbatim.

[@chelsee_bbtte841]

@@chxnce_wrld874 When you mention "black women," you are referring to all black women. It just makes us look bad, even though every race has a bad batch.

[@chxnce_wrld874]

@@chelsee_bbtte841 if it doesn’t apply let it fly. I know majority of black men aint sh!t but I don’t let it bother me because I’m not one of them.

[@chelsee_bbtte841]

@@chxnce_wrld874 True, but it amazes me how our own people are turning against one another. I don't see other races degrading one another; it's literally just black people. It's almost embarrassing

[@earthchild04]

S/O to Krew Season for this video. To the Black Men that divest, I don't blame you. The reason I say this is all Black Men that are competitive, productive, financially stable go where they are revered not tolerated.

[@sugarwaterpurple5280]

You really think you're revered nesting in the white man's community? Good luck.

[@TomikaKelly]

I don't blame them either. If another group of women want to deal with the joblessness, fatherlessness, low incomes, astronomical incarceration rates, astounding violence rates, high crime rates, lack of educational attainment then that's their funeral. I just wish our non-Black sisters were getting a better deal but...

[@Rell_Invests]

@@TomikaKelly that doesn’t sound like “competitive, productive, and financially stable” black men though 🤔 I think they’re the ones trying to figure out how the pookies are chosen over them

[@bigwill9421]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@bigwill9421]

@@Rell_Invests 💯🎯📌

[@kingcook1485]

Factsssssss....🤙🏿💯

[@niyoleo]

Media plays a huge role too. IR couples are pushed in the media all the time from advertisements, shows, movies etc.

[@thecreeperbeatngu8133]

If these black women wanna play the game of "Pick & Choose" Then so can you 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Nubiiiiiaaaaaaa]

Yo mama played the same game, she just decided to keep you

[@thecreeperbeatngu8133]

@@Nubiiiiiaaaaaaa yeah, The same with yo mama and yo granny as well 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@TheJordanSpalding]

I feel like this experience speaks to most men. We wanna be appreciated before its too late and we’re just appreciated for what we provided

[@whoisthis4052]

Be with a woman who appreciates you for what you bring to the table and willing to reciprocate the energy you have

[@steviemak10]

But most importantly, be with a woman that will follow your program LONG TERM!

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@steviemak10 How many of you actually have a long-term plan (vision) and know how to articulate it?

[@steviemak10]

@@LetGoStressFree how many of you are good wives and know how to act like one? ‼️💯

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@steviemak10 Oh...a question with a question...smh. I don't know the true number, but I do know a lot of BW who are great wives and are appreciated by their black husbands.

[@steviemak10]

@@LetGoStressFree so it’s a minority. Ok, thanks for the answer. 🙄‼️

[@THEREALSOURCE]

It's interesting. There are women who had similar experiences growing up. Yet BM date/marry non-BW 2 or 3 times more than BW. What's the reason(s) for that?

[@ddrebrne3336]

They've always believed that the white man's ice is colder, but they blame bw because it's easier.

[@powertothepeople_truthtoPower]

I’ve lived this, I appreciate it being said openly! 💯🙏🏾

[@brittneymiles3289]

We all were nerds or lames at some point. I was straight bullied because I didn't dress, act or performed like other black girls, didn't have a big butt or didn't fit the black woman aesthetic (or weird fetish). Nevertheless, I still married in my community AND he's a black nerd as well💕. Vibe with who vibes with you, simple as that.

[@kokolatte825]

Thank you! Because this particular issue is definitely not gender specific. Plenty of Black girls get overlooked for the SAME REASONS

[@jordanglasper1064]

@@kokolatte825 The Make Gender in our race goes under greater scrutiny & rejection. 1) Goddesses at a very young age have an energy of attraction, that comes from the spirit & soul. 99% of Goddeses’ whether fit or overweight receive a plethora of compliments from Gods throughout their life. 2) The most attractive Gods can live their entire life without ever gettin one compliment from a Goddess they are not related to. 3) Goddesses lose their virginity much faster and younger than Gods. In the ratio of comparison. There are far more Goddesses to Gods, 15 to 1. Yet there are far more Gods who are virgins than Goddesses. 4) Far more Nerdy Goddesses receive sexual attention or attention from the opposite gender, even at a young age. 99% of Nerdy Gods receive zero attention & sexual attention from the opposite gender. 5) 99% of Nerdy Goddesses do not choose Nerdy Gods, they choose lower level Gods who hurt their heart. Both in youth & in their prime. The life stories Nerdy Goddesses & other goddesses are the same. Both have dated The Bad Boy type God. The Nerdy God has neva dated The Baddest Goddess. Even Nerdy Goddesses in their youth, grew up to become more attractive in their looks, became single moms by 30. Most Nerdy Gods are single & still childless by their mid 30’s 6) Both Nerdy Gods & Goddesses are treated harshly in their youth by the same & opposite gender in school. The difference is Goddesses are desired bcuz they are female by nature & biology. Nerdy Gods are branded for life and run the risk of never losing their virginity to Goddesses. 7) This shows the parallel yet differences between Nerdy Gods & Goddesses. Goddesses are born as The Most Beautiful Women in The Universe. Gods are born The Most Handsome & Strongest. The Government classified Us The Blk Race as The God Race bcuz we are descendants of The Annunakai Gods & Goddess’. Beings born with rare Spiritual Power. Our ancestors are Beings of Power, Think of The Egyptian Gods & Goddesses. Due to hate & racism by White Elites and reg white people. Our race of people have hated each other, the lowest of our people attack the abnormal of us bcuz of our spiritual gifts & inner light shine brightest. Learn who u are, shine bright & forgive the dead ones. (Dead Ones, are those in our race who are spiritually sleep and unaware). Forgiveness is not about the other person. It is about letting go of negative so you can thrive elevate & live. 8) Goddesses are gifted to give life or death with the tongue. The ability to enliven a God thru your breath of life. Speaking negatively is death energy. There is no person on this planet that can outtalk a Goddess. It can be a gift or curse depending on how u use it. It is bcuz you, our Goddesses we’re not given physical strength as us Gods. That is until u tap in your Divinity. Your Divinity gives you spiritual power that allows you to surpass us Gods in physical strength in times of anger, like The Incredible Hulk. Lol this is why Gods fear their mothers, grandmothers, girlfriends & wives. When or if Gods messed up. You have the ability to tap into the future, see or hear or know what will happen before it happens. Could be a min or two, or a lifetime ahead. It all depends on your spiritual awakening & blood lineage. Got a bit off track, but all valid nonetheless.

[@chadthedad03]

The laws of attraction for men and women aren't nearly the same. A women doesn't have to have swag, $, or need to know how to be smooth, confident, or assertive. We dont care if you wear designer clothes or drive fancy cars. Just be fit, nice, and carry yourself ladylike, and you'll appeal to most men. Women typically have a much longer list.

[@LetGoStressFree]

👏 👏 👏 Thank you for posting this. I just told someone else the same thing. Black girls get picked on too. I was also called nerd, geek, flat, Grandma and other unflattering names by black boys in Middle and High School. White men approached me early on but I just couldn't do it. I still love my people. I married a wonderful black man who saw past all of that in High School and loved me for me. He's a bit cooler than I, but we just gel together. This war must stop before it's too late.

[@TomikaKelly]

Exactly! There's a lid for every pot, but you will have to put in the work to find your tribe. This goes for anything in life, friends, colleagues, a career. And see, that's the thing. If a Black woman dates a Ray Ray it's because she "chose wrong." If a Black man gets rejected by some Black women it's not because he's "choosing the wrong women to pursue" it's because Black women are the problem. See how the goal post moves according according who is making making play? That's why I encourage them to leave Black women the hell alone.

[@brielax4441]

This is true, women do tend to lean towards swag.

[@BigHoTzMuZik]

I’m a nerd, not by looks by mentality and I still get shunned out of the black community. I always get, “your wife must be white because you like science and mathematics”. Don’t have a title like engineer or architect; the struggle is real!!

[@user-fw8jn8jk9v]

I’m just glad someone else sees this😂I’ve been saying this for so long

[@KallusGarnet]

Dudes are waking up this is the age of truths

[@chaosavenger2]

Her: "So I can't call you?" Me: "nah you can't call me, I'm up now"

[@jayeell1253]

I'm a child of such parents. Pops dated within his race many times, but married outside the race.

[@timothyblount8807]

Why is that

[@illoneson.5218]

Sysbm

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@timothyblount8807 They want mixed children.

[@joyherring81]

That’s not what he said…..

[@TONEYHAYWOOD]

He wanted peace.

[@halfurbanhalfsuburban8219]

According to the video, the nerd was rejected by bw while he was broke. 15 years later he’s a multimillionaire and dating WW. Can anybody figure out why the WW is with him?

[@jericothompson8636]

When did he say white women didn’t date him while he was a broke nerd???

[@halfurbanhalfsuburban8219]

​@jericothompson8636 he said the dude was in the "neighborhood". Then he said 15 years later. If white girls were dating him in the neighborhood, there would have been no need to say 15 years later when he was a multimillionaire. The dude in the video also rejected the nerd because he choose not to be one. Why are they defending the needs now?

[@jericothompson8636]

@@halfurbanhalfsuburban8219 you’re making an assumption. He never specified when white women started dating him. Just like he never specified if the black women were nerdy or more cultured lol. You basically made a bunch of assumptions based off what he DIDNT say to pick this dude and his life experiences apart. And even if white women didn’t date him back then, BLACK WOMEN DIDNT EITHER. So who should he date, NOBODY??

[@lili2u405]

"I only turn to BW when another Brother gets murdered by the WM & it's time to march."😭

[@cpproduction325]

Now that’s the realest reply I heard this far.

[@dsmoove3482]

@@cpproduction325yea bc regardless of us not wanting y’all in dating out we still got to come together for the bigger issues witch is white supremacy

[@ReflectionofRighteousness]

"hoes get horny, niggas die"-2PAC

[@TaylorM]

If your issue is white supremacy, then why would you lay with the women who give BIRTH to the men that you complain about? Clearly you don’t mind white supremacy, so I’m not wasting my time marching! Those other women love you so much, so let them march for you instead of black women! I don’t know about you, but the last thing that I want somebody that I don’t like doing something for me and that includes marching!👀

[@Sky-yh3ml]

@@dsmoove3482vile supremacy and btw u created this culture! It started when u left plantation begging to marry Beckie! BW, STAND TALL BUT DONT GO ADVOCATING FOR THEM! Never get emotionally challenged w treason these males lead u into slavery! Let em hold the L

[@alyu9337]

Big facts BM go where you’re valued and respected

[@jacobmerten5553]

Love who you wanna love

[@LetGoStressFree]

Nope....rebuild the race and culture. Marriage is about duty...not love.

[@jacobmerten5553]

@@LetGoStressFreeI think a lot of people are loosing there sense of community and culture it’s sad

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@jacobmerten5553 I totally agree. I want so badly for us to turn this around. I haven't lost hope yet, but the comments I see are downright depressing.

[@jacobmerten5553]

@@LetGoStressFreethe only people who will truly understand the culture are the people in the culture

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@jacobmerten5553 Exactly!!! Simple concept, but hard to understand by many.

[@nervalouis7307]

Why does it bother someone what another person does. Minding your business is a skill many people lack in our community!

[@Sonicxis4ever]

I feel this way but in general. I’ve had people say that in ashamed to be black and never hang around black people-no I just remember being bullied in school (some were my own people) and being rejected. I find myself into other cultures, speak to her languages. I go where I am accepted. People also didn’t want to talk to me in school because they thought I was gay so it turned me off from a lot of men in general

[@justdrama1395]

I tried very hard to marry black... Waited tell 33 got married to white women...

[@jonathancoleman6482]

At least you tried brother hope your happy

[@LetGoStressFree]

Tried how?

[@justdrama1395]

I tried for several years being told that I talked to proper and the fact that I can make good decisions was held against me by black women.. I didn't do enough hood s*** even though I grew up in the hood...

[@imretiredtruestory2867]

@@justdrama1395 don't be ashamed of the choices you made. You are not the only one. Eastern European is the best match for me.

[@TheSecretLifeofEb]

How u try but didn’t do it ? 😒

[@AMAZIAH]

If im a sellout. My women put me up for sale. And that's the whole damn point lol.

[@damnballah]

You sound bitch made generalizing all black women, that’s why they love Whites & Latinos more LMAOO

[@hybridinfodesk409]

When my preference wasn't black men, the main ones coming for me were black men. Yall said the craziest crap to me. I didn't say anything. I married out of race. Now I'm the only woman I know that is not a baby momma.😅

[@beautifuljade4u]

This is a entire community issue of what is acceptable. Not just by black women but black men as well because I’m sure the men were also calling these men nerds and lame. When everyone is trying to be in the it crowd they gravitate towards the it people so they don’t start to get bullied themselves by association. It’s juvenile social pressure that needs to be addressed all around the community in general by both parties.. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@troyc5994]

I am not black but I observed this in the 90s. I am glad a brother confirm this.

[@Dvenchy]

Women of other races are just nicer and a lot more approachable. I've actually been approached, hit on, invited, and asked out on dates by other races while out in public and at work more times than I can count. That's never happened with a BW.

[@KeepinitKeekee]

That’s terrible and sad that you have never met a nice BW ever, even your own mom sister aunt or grandmother? Wow 😯

[@realg7849]

@@KeepinitKeekee he's talking about people he can fuck, you can't fuck your relatives

[@MrJebusboi]

@@KeepinitKeekee why would he want any of those things listed from his family members?

[@patrickduvigneaud5857]

@@MrJebusboi I hate when the reply is always “so you hate your mother/grandmother/sister?” NO we never said that that’s such an excuse. No one ever said I wanted to date my mother and my mother loves what I love she wouldn’t ever set a specific standard for me to date she wants ME to be happy. I hate when the response is always oh so you don’t like your own family like no stop that smh

[@MrJebusboi]

@@patrickduvigneaud5857 it's disingenuous at best, the same logic can be applied visa versa for how BW to BM but it's doesn't get brought up because it's a not a productive argument point

[@raymondsmith1945]

I kinda understand what he is saying but you can't shut out all black women. Sometimes, the reason why he wasn't successful with black women. Probably, he didn't have enough confidence in himself. Later, when he became successful, he became more confident and then he attracts all types of women. It's all about being confident in yourself. And don't matter how much money you make either. Speaking from my experience. Confident is a big factor.

[@Axle3000]

To people arguing his words, this isn't current day or even 5 years ago when being a nerd was more accepted the people that say this are pretty much in their 30s or 40s. Nowadays this isnt really as much as an excuse but you gotta look at when these people were teenagers. Personally when I was in HS there was....maybe 2 or 3 female black nerds per grade and the some were lesbian or 4 grades above. So please don't got into it with today's mindset. Being a nerd was lame, you got treated lame, some people may of liked you but not wanted their reputation ruined by dating you (I figured that out way too late).