Everything isn't everyone's business. I knew a woman who told me when we worked together "you can keep getting this long as you be Quiet about It" And I did.. I realized I don't have to prove nothing too nobody.!
@x97s2 жыл бұрын
Exactly ! Be your own witness
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
That's how you have to be.
@iyanyachaazah15612 жыл бұрын
She was sleeping with other dudes at the job. Nothing to be happy about.
@dadasaints1212 жыл бұрын
@@iyanyachaazah1561 I didn't care if she was I just wasn't the type to tell my business.
@tomibally65462 жыл бұрын
I’m no player. But every player I have known in my life are extremely secretive and discreet.
@ShermSuite2 жыл бұрын
The stories I have when I worked security in an office building.dudes were moving like snipers.
@victorshaw86192 жыл бұрын
I never considered myself a player but you are 1,000% correct Rom about seeing women out and acting like you don't know them or just being discreet. At the company I work at few years ago I was "occasionally" getting it in with a relative of the owner. They are a wealthy white family and I'm black, when we have company functions or Christmas parties I would see her and her man and you would never guess anything ever happened between us. It's amazing how well some women can hide the freak in their nature from the world but behind closed doors be a complete SAVAGE in bed.
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
That type of discreet relationship is more common than people realize.
@JayGrinding Жыл бұрын
💯
@Mystic_man7272 жыл бұрын
Good video Rom. Nothing like being a silent playa. I work in a large hospital and it’s a free-for-all if you are well kept and your game is tight. It’s all about being polite, but masculine. When you are quiet they naturally get curious. That’s when they begin to flirt and think I’m shy. Before they know it we having convos about sex positions and their craziest fantasies. And this is with women of all ages and races. Honestly I don’t have sex with all, but I have my choosing. A real playa also doesn’t have sex with every women they could…
@rasulsamad58602 жыл бұрын
I work at two hospitals and I agree. I am a bit shy but I am masculine. They always give me compliments about my walk and strong name. But haven't hit anything yet
@GArmand7152 жыл бұрын
💯
@bmwright19912 жыл бұрын
People in general just want to be accepted, flaws and all. It’s how I’ve built chemistry with other human beings, we are all different with different story lines and traumas and desires, accept yourself first, and then you can completely accept other people for who they are without judgement. Recommend meditation and mindfulness daily.
@sixowe30832 жыл бұрын
been around thugs alll my life most of em is none select alot of folks would be suprised to hear me say this but alot of thugs get into crime to earn street cred and use the street cred to get women instead of using sex appeal . they use the street cred is by gossiping to these women and telling them they buisness like who they finessed,ran off on,shot at, and alot of times them telling all they buisness backfires and dont end well i lost alot of friends and family members to the grave and prison because they was using street cred to attract women
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
Real talk. I nearly got into a fight with some real thugs because they weren't getting women. This whole Pookie and Ray Ray thing is overblown. Even the ones who get women are getting low tier ratchets.
@jcool88babi Жыл бұрын
@@RomWills real talk Unc Rom! Some guys don’t understand that “Pookie and Rayray” doesn’t automatically mean select. From first had experience a lot of them dudes will be ready to resort to violence over their women and are big time tricks! (Especially the D boys)…
@ScrewFace4162 жыл бұрын
Too many blue pilled/naive guys out here no cap💯
@Jmoneyontop2 жыл бұрын
“Blessings come from God for staying private.”
@jajajaja26242 жыл бұрын
A real G know the targets comes to you . Cats don't like to be seen cleaning itself . Ron that's one big problem to will start talking before you in 98% of the cases she will start speaking to you when walk in office and be loud with it
@StayViben2 жыл бұрын
I do Maintenance at a apt property so many unfaithful women its crazy. Married and everything
@JavTheRipper2 жыл бұрын
Being discreet is one of the notches on the key 🔑
@chriseatmon322 жыл бұрын
Hooking up with women at work is cool to an extend but there are some caveats... some women will directly or indirectly mess up your play with other women. I had one woman I was hooking up with on the regular tell another lady that I was off limits insinuating I was taken all because the woman told her that "He can get it". I've had women leave me raunchy notes on my car and all kind of stuff for others to find out. It's risky because women become territorial and if they feel like another woman can get with you they will try to stake claim to you. Don't let them be in the same clique because the other women may know your business and they will be vying to get with you too. Its like high school all over again.
@bladerunner27x2 жыл бұрын
DAMN!! Rom you HIT HARD on this 1. I’m in my late 40’s, I’ve not heard someone make this kind of analogy since the 80’s and 90’s, move in silence, because the GOAL is repeat customers. 💯👏🏾👏🏾
@peezhead Жыл бұрын
Shit! A couple of dudes at my job came up to me and said that they NEVER saw me fuck with any women in there but little do they know. I kept that shit quiet and out their prescence...
@easypeasy85357 ай бұрын
That's how I am my folks think I'm gay bc of that
@Dolemite192 жыл бұрын
Flying under the radar and still can move everywhere 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
That's how you do it.
@rollingtinfist2 жыл бұрын
I never understood the whole tell-everyone-your-female-business thing. It may be generational or something. Maybe tell one really, really trusted friend on the DL in case $#!+ goes sideways. In any case, the power of discretion can’t be overstated. Good video, as well as good game.
@OGPimpin Жыл бұрын
Some women will dump their current dude for another who doesnt know her regular schedule, so she can keep the new boyfriend in check while she's still getting handled by the side dude.
@sniper11n.d.342 жыл бұрын
That picture thing is accurate. Many women will never show the picture of the guy they really love. Pictures are just Pictures. They show something but not the completely story. Definitely not a player but you won't let your wife or a girlfriend around what I am. Wouldnt be smart. I am that friendly friend. They will be so comfortabel that they try to seduce. I do have stories. 😉
@BrolyKing801 Жыл бұрын
This me the hate gets real when you got options 😂😂😂😂😂
@goldenchildsphilosophy10492 жыл бұрын
This message is 1000% facts.
@BruceL33Roy Жыл бұрын
5 - 8 women on the job. Even the grown daughters of the cougars want the Moms Bf. Or they Share! .... It's crazy out here
@ThaDocta_Evans972 жыл бұрын
Honestly a lot of doings/dealings out here are better left in the shadows
@frankiegunnz80662 жыл бұрын
I'm 44 and Rom Is like that cool, older brother I never had. I got mad love for this cat. (No homo tho).....lol
@TheBishopDon11 ай бұрын
Boy this is the truth! Gotta keep your game on the low
@chadfox60306 ай бұрын
One of the main benefits of being a USP is that women expect me to move on/discard me , so they get super nasty with me quickly .
@QEatzz2 жыл бұрын
Unc funny as shit he said “give your name and I know where to track you “😂
@CarlosRodriguez-vw6ls2 жыл бұрын
Don Draper comes to mind. Always kept his affairs secret from others.
@mikefranck010 ай бұрын
Mane I have to chime in I was working one night(retail) there was a group of chicks being friendly and flirty I was @ work thought nothing of it. Later in the night on my break I walked to my car and found a # on my windshield 😭
@CBfeb12 жыл бұрын
Exactly how I been moving for yrs… #NYC & abroad… 💪🏾
@TheBishopDon11 ай бұрын
Rom you came with it !!!
@Ajay.4272 жыл бұрын
I am quiet at work and most of the females that work there know my name, uncle Rom I don't know who half of them are and I definitely not a player
@kingk.25472 жыл бұрын
I never like to tell my business who I date or attract. It’s nobody business I don’t discuss who I had sex with or intend to have sex with either.
@srhenderson2 жыл бұрын
you got me with the captain kirk fight scene music. hilarious.
@chrismorgan7538 Жыл бұрын
12:07 too real 🔥🔥
@waakiylhardy38882 жыл бұрын
I will say peace to all in attendance.I will talk my shit later.Edit I remember sneaking girls in my grandparents brownstone.Tip toeing on creaking wood floors sneaking girls in.My grandma was a god fearing woman she never smoked or drank.. My grandpa was was totally opposite.He gave me my first drink at twelve.I love this man. This led me to get my own shit.I was 21 with a 2 bedroom crib and a new father.212 Ralph Avenue Bed Stuy Brooklyn for 16 years.Fun fact the rapper Fabolous lived across the street in Breevort Projects.
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
I know you got some stories.
@raufajaj14152 жыл бұрын
Professor Rom with the wisdom 🔥
@easylee4uify2 жыл бұрын
LoL not the STAR TREK 🎵🎶 LoL 😆
@desbrink Жыл бұрын
he def not joking 👀🔑
@goaldenchild90062 жыл бұрын
Salut 👑 Rom / big factz I stay in the shadows..unc Rom🏆💪🏾💪🏾💯🥂
@stumzaman92932 жыл бұрын
Lol..yeah right..true players dont reveal themselves!
@spenserforhire97752 жыл бұрын
Uncle Rom preaching.
@TheMidnightMaroon2 жыл бұрын
These are truths of life. Rom, where can I find your consultation information?
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
Hit me up here, www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html.
@SuccessIsCertain2 жыл бұрын
Needed to re-up on this info.
@patrickouellet69372 жыл бұрын
Hey Rom! Thank you for the content!
@JayGrinding Жыл бұрын
10:20 🤣
@joseph62432 жыл бұрын
The monkey branching thing is real, I've been with women that I THOUGHT we're single.
@JayGrinding Жыл бұрын
The game is the game
@blackwolverine12 жыл бұрын
Your Cool Breeze Brotha.
@seanwiggins16332 жыл бұрын
All facts been threw it see it all the time 💯
@thomasvogelsinger40072 жыл бұрын
Double back home
@ramelhagins6698 Жыл бұрын
Or listen to MC Lyte song RuffNeck.
@mohamedsalama57292 жыл бұрын
i dont like to brag. i got a minimum of 6 girls in my job. hahahaha.
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
The Office F%&k File is real.
@mohamedsalama57292 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills but you got to deal with the hate from the guys
@timothywilson63182 жыл бұрын
The lady minister is soooooo true. I had a lady minister say she wanted me in bed from the first time she saw me