Dating Women in Thailand vs. Vietnam vs. The Philippines - What Are the Differences?🇹🇭🇻🇳🇵🇭

[@MinimalistNomad]

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[@7mattof]

I have been with a Vietnamese woman for the past three years and I have never been so happy in my life. I am 73 (she is 49) but she makes me feel that I am in my 20s again. I agree with you about the genuine feminity, and the natural beauty, of Southeast Asain women. It's so refreshing after having to deal with neurotic American women and the horrors that feminism has created, since probably the 1970s. The only real problem, as you mentioned, is language. Miscommunication can create misperceptions that result in difficulties when there are really no difficulties at all. My girlfriend can speak a little English and the more she learns, the fewer problems we have. I wish I could learn Vietnamese, but it's not possible right now. I know that not all Vietnamese women are as wonderful as my girlfriend, but I have met many of her friends and I would have to say that I am very impressed. Thank you for your videos.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for your comment and thanks for sharing your story! That sounds encouraging. I am glad to hear that you found the love of your life! I can only agree with everything you stated here 👍

[@koufax174]

Great inspiring response. How did you meet her. Would you recommend anything for myself interested In Vietnamese partner?

[@7mattof]

@@koufax174 I live in Cyprus and when I moved to a new place in a small village here, she was working in the same village as a housemaid. There are many Vietnamese women working here so they can send money back to their families in Vietnam. It's a real shame, though, that here in Cyprus, which is an extremely racist country, these Vietnamese women are treated like slaves and exploited and often physically abused. Many of them work 7 days a week, have no time off, and are not allowed to even leave the house where they work. So, I don't really have any advice for you. I was just lucky.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing this. I am hearing about this for the first time. I was not aware that there are Vietnamese maids working in Cyprus. Sounds very similar to the stories you hear from the Middle East where domestic helpers from Asia are facing abuse at times. Terrible!

[@AlainSt-Onge]

Good news, I thought they didn't like big age gap...

[@chriscruzA35O-9OO]

I have a Filipina, who I met when I was 27 years old and she 25 years old. We have been together for 2 years , she is my first wife and was my 1st girlfriend . She is loving, caring and beautiful woman .

[@domenicpitassi9226]

You have done a great job in painting a clear picture about dating in those countries, thank you brother 🤪

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks Bro! Much appreciated.👍

[@maxcrc]

I can confirm, in Thailand the people ,specially the elder sisters (remember that the elder daughter in Thai culture has to take care of everybody) , are totally subdued by their families. She might not want to exploit his farang (foreign) boyfriend , but her family will bombard her with requests , than the more you give, the more relatives (brothers,cousins, uncles, aunts, grannies, neighbours) will become leeches. Many many relationships farang-Thai were ruined by her parents and she can't disobey them. the old saying when you marry a Thai woman, you marry all her family is 200% true.

[@lucdelhaize4029]

Also true of Khmer’s

[@canardeur8390]

​@@lucdelhaize4029 I have lived in Cambodia and now in Thailand. Of course, I fully agree with you; I suspect this is the case in Buddhist countries.

[@lucdelhaize4029]

@@canardeur8390 Which is why I settled on a Filipina ❤️ which a bit the same too but more Western in thinking.

[@paganmyth-yv1hh]

Hey lad, great video, covered topics and all its angles. I'd appreciate too if you made a video about dating professional SE asian women(physicians, teachers, police, psychologists etc) vs non educated( working class or no job at all) . Again great video. Cheers

[@domenicpitassi9226]

Very informative video, thanks to you 🙏

[@Illumin8ed79]

After many failed relationships with American women, finally settled down with AN AMAZING filipina woman and I've never been this happy. They just know how to be women and are so level headed, simple, and caring I wish I would have went this route a long time ago.

[@MinimalistNomad]

That's great to hear! Thanks for sharing 👍

[@JamesNguyen-fe6it]

thank you for your honest answers

[@marichuarmodia2375]

To be honest my husband is British and he been to travel around the world in Asia and also part of Europe but he love pilipina and also the Philippines culture that is why he is enjoying the Philippines culture… finally we married and we have house in the Philippines and some property he buy and be happy together in life forever 😇🙏

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing Marichu! All the best for you two!!👍

[@davidmaltais2912]

Foreigners can't buy land in Philippines....

[@giannilyanicks1718]

naive.

[@davidmaltais2912]

How old are you and how old is your husband?

[@Nomadic9900]

❤

[@mrjackbagginz]

Awesome content brother

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks Bro👍

[@rafaelecattonar1506]

​@@MinimalistNomad I like Buddhism and I practice Zen Buddhism. Therefore, I would choose a Buddhist country. Vietnam or is my favourite destination. Otherwise I would live in Japan.

[@koufax174]

Great content. Thank you for sharing what you did. I agree with your general remarks about SE Asian women. I refuse to date US women. I have had experiences in all 4 countries. I have found wonderful women in each. What helps me is I am very clear what I want. I see some foreigners make huge mistakes because they are vague in terms of what they want. I’m emotionally mature so I bring respect and genuine interest to get to know women. That sets the table for a different experience. I made my decision to never pay for love and that has been a very good decision. That means I don’t pay for SE Asian woman’s family issues, or their living expenses. I also don’t drink or go to bars. I attract a very different type of woman as well. I’ve avoided any big mishaps as a result. I’m a good listener and observer and that eliminates many problems. I’m not impulsive and that helps. I can also say NO! I like adventure with peace of mind. I don’t like chaos. Thailand and the Philippines can have a sense of desperation and that can influence dating. I’m very aware of that before I ever went there. I agree regarding Vietnamese women. In a way I prefer them because of their sense of purpose and taking responsibility. I know in any of these countries including Malaysia I can find a good loving pretty partner easily with the qualities to make a beautiful relationship because I am mature, insightful and not desperate. Can you do a video on Indonesian women? Malaysian women? How do you meet women in SE Asia? I only meet live. I never use dating apps and have very good experiences. Thank you

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing your views! Yes, I am planning to do follow up videos regarding dating other nationalities.

[@begztravels]

Hi! Sorry for what you experienced from a Filipina. 🙊 Anyway, as a Filipina, I dated foreigners but I NEVER ASKED money or any thing from them, instead “sometimes” I offer to pay or to share for whatever we ate or drink because I don’t want them to think that Filipina are just only after their money. I knew that some Filipina are asking money from foreigners so I want to prove that NOT ALL Filipina women are the same. ☺️ Anyway, love the content of your vlog for sharing your experienced… I’ve been to Thailand and Vietnam and had some local girl friends and I can say that we are just the same… Family oriented 🫶🏼❤️

[@MinimalistNomad]

Nice to read your comment and thanks for sharing. I know that there are the other, good hearted Filipinas.

[@ezequielribeiro1496]

Bom dia! Vc ainda mora nas Filipinas? Apenas para ter um experiência de conversar com uma pessoa nativa do país! Gratidão!

[@MinimalistNomad]

@ezequielribeiro1496 Would you translate into English? Thanks

[@whontech9853]

Hi i was married with fillipina for 18 years to lovely kids. Family orentatntated not bad not always with money

[@begztravels]

@@whontech9853 yea that’s true. Not only money. And not all filipina is like what others did…

[@ahmedgaafar5369]

I 100% agree with you ...Asian women probably are the best women on the planet at least to my taste. for many years i thought that Korean ladies are best women god ever created till I met my Vietnamese GF. I met philopena ladies nurses in Saudi Arabia while i was working there, I never dated any of them but they speak English very well and they are absolute fun to be with...always happy and outgoing, down to earth people...I really admired them....! now I have a Vietnamese lady as a candidate for a serious relation ...I am suffering the language and differences of my culture and hers....your videos are really helping me a lot and your guests comments as well....thanx again for sharing yr thoughts.

[@thaimayoree1494]

Candidates? What do you think of the girls in Asia. Just respect them and don't turned or teach them into western women.

[@SakuraChan_15]

Koreans are racist bruh they don't like brown

[@giannilyanicks1718]

he is disgusting.

[@dapooramericanhomesteadfar7192]

Omfg! If you can't understand them and you think it's love? Love is understanding. You barely understand what she is saying.

[@giannilyanicks1718]

stupid life.

[@wansuk63]

Thai women are taught from childhood to be honest and to return the favor. In fact, they have pure hearts and faithful love for the person they love. I see many women who have foreign husbands. Some of their foreign husbands are not perfect men or have a relationship. Some of the richest people are foreigners who are living in the wrong way. They don't have any visas, but Thai women still love and take care of them. Take him to his hometown in the countryside, live happily, take care of him when he's sick, Thai hospitals can accept people for emergency treatment, even if you're a foreigner, and they won't ask how much money you have. is the first The disadvantage is that we are suppressed by language. We are proud of our own language. We have never been a colony, so we did not embrace other cultures or languages ​​first. We have a good enough infrastructure and we Food and everything is perfect in our country, so we have been raised to be proud of our country. But the truth is that when we have a lot of good things, we can't communicate them. Letting others know is no different from a salesperson who sells good products but is dumb and no one buys them except customers who are really interested. This is different from other countries that have embraced and cultivated language for education since the beginning. Sometimes some countries may not be much more special than Thailand in some ways, but They can talk deeply and choose to present what you want to hear. That's also the reason why customers can buy ordinary things at expensive prices. I'm not criticizing other countries, I'm saying that Thailand is constrained by language and cultural barriers. Most Thai women are shy sometimes. Ordinary women who aren't bar girls, if they like sex or want you, they can't say it because it might. It will seem impolite or inappropriate, but when you know her and are close to her, More and more, she will enjoy everything. A Thai woman loves her family, that means her husband and children. She knows that even if she has a husband who has status or can take care of the family, she should still have her own career and should. Take good care of your children and husband. The disadvantage is that they are jealous. They want to be sure that you will not share your love with another woman. That is the only thing Thai women value more than money.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Beautiful! Thanks for taking your time to write your comment, to share and to give some insights into Thai culture which is, and I agree with you, still a mystery for many foreigners, even if they have traveled to Thailand many times or even live there. But their ignorance is a result of not seriously being interested in learning about Thai culture. I had the opportunity to live and work in Thailand last year and it gave me some deep insights into Thai culture. Very interesting!

[@KYFHOme]

Thank you for speaking more clearly than most about differences. Please do discuss the women and culture of Malaysia, I understand they do speek english there also.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Malaysia video coming up soon👍

[@elainelim2569]

Well as filipina we raised to take care of the family even we have a work, we prioritized family over carrier, age is doesn't matter, we're caring remember most of Filipinas are nurses, care giver and nanny so we love to take care other people, what more to our own family .. taking care of an older husband is easy for us... One more thing in the Philippines divorce is illegal, so can rest assured no alimony 😂

[@MinimalistNomad]

You are right: many Filipinas are working in caregiving professions. Thanks for your comment.

[@giannilyanicks1718]

disgusting.

[@lucdelhaize4029]

I am 70 years young Caucasian male and an Australian citizen still mostly living in this country but for the very same reasons that you mention have always been attracted to Oriental ladies. I married a Burmese having children with her, later had long term relationships with both a Vietnamese and now a Filipina. A little like you I worked in various SE Asian countries including VN and Cambodia. Note that despite living and working in Cambodia I never considered a relationship with Khmer lady and for good reason in that despite their often good looks that they are a sticky honey trap. It may not be restricted to this culture but getting into a serious relationship with one essentially means that you the “rich” foreigner soon becomes a walking ATM not only for her, her family but even her clan or village! I hasten to add that every woman is different within each country but as you also mentioned there are traits and similarities. Indeed the Vietnamese ladies tend to be the most industrious and money savvy also often gorgeous especially the mixed bloods. They also tend to be more polite and reserved and by contrast the Filipinas tend to be more emotionally demonstratively outgoing, warm, joyous but beware also extremely jealous and Latina style fiery. A Filipina’s anger is something to be feared and is called Tampo, the closest English equivalent word being tantrum but then on steroids! Having lived for 15 years with such a lady who is much younger I am well familiar with this phenomenon. Based on these said things and personal experiences which country’s ladies do I still prefer? There is no simple answer since it depends on what factors are being evaluated. VNese ladies have their obvious charms but I find their native speech grating on the ear and their cuisine wholesome but not outstanding. Burmese tend to have an easy going nature and not so demanding, Filipinas the warmest, caring and tactile. Based on cuisine alone the order would be Thai, Malaysian, Singaporean and VNese with Phillipines and Cambodian a long way back in the field. I hasten to add that I have no personal experience with South Korean, Chinese or Japanese ladies all of which I am certain would also need serious consideration 😊

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing your views! Much appreciated and very interesting!👍

[@JennzVlog]

Hi, I'm a filipina married to a Finnish guy but there's not so much problems between us, the important we love each other, trust each other and respect each other 😊 and now trying to learn both cultures, he's studying tagalog and I will studying Finnish also and shared knowledge together.. Sometimes there's tampo between us, but resolve right away..also I didn't ask money to my husband, I'm working and earned my own,...

[@MinimalistNomad]

Salamat sa pagbabahagi!👍 Onnea teille molemmille!

[@Xarq777]

Is tampo specific to Filipino culture? I'm generally curious if Vietnamese women and and Thai women do the tampo thing too. It seems super childish and immature and I would never date a woman that acted that way.

[@JennzVlog]

@@Xarq777 I'm not sure about Vietnamese or thailander if normal to them the Tampo, but for us Filipina usually it's normal😊 this is sounds immature but if we love someone, Tampo attack us, for example he/she 1 or 2 days didn't replied or didn't chatting, expect it she's going tampo to you, if you secretly chatting their friends, I'm sure she's getting mad and tampo to you 😁,. but if she's truly love you, everything will be okay again, all things are well discussed..

[@zantigar]

What you say based on your experience only confirms my suspicions about the differences between the women of these cultures, none of whom I have yet dated. I think you are extremely fair and astute in your general assessment, and I very much appreciate your candor! Thank you!

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for your comment. Yet, there is still more to learn for me about dating Asian women. It is actually a fascinating topic.

[@torgrimroll8709]

Hi I have lived in Indonesia for 4 years and dated some girls there. İ am actually married to a Chinese Indonesian 32:06 Indonesian

[@FirstLast-lq4xf]

Where do most of Chinese indo stay

[@wkrp01]

Contrary to the title, he said little or nothing about how dating a Thai woman differs from the others.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@wkrp01 Perhaps this video here will help ya 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5-2Xmiel6Z3Z8k

[@marichuarmodia2375]

Pilipina it’s lots of fun woman and just make a laugh and talking funny together and kind of sweetness together

[@ChimpsAI]

10:30 for the differences.

[@filipinay2022]

Im Filipina we worked hard but i like to learn from your videos I did subscribe I

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for subscribing and commenting!👍

[@CattailsandSage]

I love Vietnamese women but they can certainly be challenging. My girlfriend is very feminine, elegant. loving and caring as well as drop dead gorgeous but can be extremely stubborn at times. Our age difference is 19 years.

[@davidmaltais2912]

All women are like that though lol

[@thanhloanle165]

As a Vietnamese i totally agree with what you said about Vietnamese women but things are changing rapidly here.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for your comment! I am curious what is changing rapidly in VN. Would you share?

[@thanhloanle165]

I would put it down to westernization and social media Firstly, thanks to globalization, which, in general, has bridged the gap between cultures.And this definitely contributes to the rapid westernization in Vietnam.The younger generations have adopted Western culture and are becoming much less traditional and reserved than the older ones. (I think this is an inevitable trend).Women in my parents generation are much more family- orientated, hard-working and follow the husbands. The younger generations still have these values but much less. (and this is an ongoing downtrend) Secondly, social media which is full of BS contents is making people shallow and more materialistic ( this is true in other countries too).

[@MinimalistNomad]

@thanhloanle165 Thanks. I have observed similar things in other Southeast Asian countries as well.

[@davidmaltais2912]

​@@thanhloanle165social media is destroying all societies.around the world

[@mrz384]

Only in the south

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Dude, as an American who lived in the Benelux 6 years, I understand completely why you don't like Western women. There are exceptions, but SO many unsmiling women with NO charm at all and horrible short haircuts (and lots of smokers, at least in Europe).

[@MinimalistNomad]

Yeah, and for those guys who don't believe it, I invite them to travel to Southeast Asia, spend four weeks and date a bunch of local girls!! You will then understand...

[@cleytoncabral8616]

Amazing vídeo. Thank you! I am a mixed-race guy with noticeable afro physical features. Have you ever seen any dark man suffering racism in any of the these countries?

[@MinimalistNomad]

No, never publicly.

[@shoukonishimiya9931]

we Indonesia, women are Asian too😉

[@jimmyellis7951]

Best women on the planet

[@LeHalazoone]

Hi Can you confirm that dating woman in north america is so difficult ? So this is why man go to Asia, m' I wrong ?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Not only in North America. Also in Europe (where I am from). But what do you mean by difficult? If you have certain preferences (for example a feminine woman) then yes, then it might be more and more difficult to find that style of woman in North America and other parts. Southeast Asia more and more becomes the preferred choice for many Western men.😎

[@LeHalazoone]

@@MinimalistNomad Hi Well by difficult, I mean very hard to create a relationship, no magnetism between men and woman, so hudge barrier and distance, cold and harsh woman. I live in canada since 5 years as an immigrant and I find it so unatural the way relations are happening today. Seems love and affection are no longer existing as human values here. Then it makes loneliness and sadness increase and a bad estimation of our selfvalue. Sorry to dress a dark picture of that but this is how I m feeling at the moment.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@mehdib1781 Interesting to read your viewpoints as an "outsider". I am sure that some native Canadian men think the same way.

[@LeHalazoone]

@@MinimalistNomad hope i will not waste more years as a lonely man searching for love in north america

[@angellaab]

I met a Western man online with whom I feel a strong attachment. We communicate well every day, but I remain very cautious. It is not easy, although our conversations reveal that he is very respectful and curious about Filipino culture.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Time is your ally.

[@passportandbeer]

Great video ..I think as a black guy the Vietnam experience is different bc in general we have a image of being fun bc of black American music and culture... whether we go to Japan Korea Thailand the biggest opinion they have of black is "freedom" so they kinda let their hair down

[@truckstation527]

Dating a Vietnamese she speaks pretty good English and continues to learn. She is absolutely gorgeous,funny, sweet, attentive and sexy Im 49 she’s 36 and she has No kids. Said she never wanted any until she met me and now she wants one with me. I gave up a 26 year old Filipina for her Thanks for the great video. So correct on many fronts

[@MinimalistNomad]

Great to hear that you found what you were looking for. Well done👍

[@wanderingdoc5075]

Why did you give up the Filipina?

[@rockylee4696]

What happend to filipina girls? Does Vietnamese girl can have sex better than filipna ?

[@MarkJay-w5c]

Thank you for your insights and sharing your experiences. Indonesia - one day and hopefully soon, I will visit. Viet Nam - such a beautiful country, awesome food, a very kind people. Philippines - another nation on my list. My experience is I’ve met and known so many people from there that live and work in my country. Thailand - it’s where I have n been 5 times. I’ve hitched my wagon to Siam. And it’s where I’ve had two relationships. Even within the Kingdom I find differences in women depending on where their home roots are. As they say, “same, same but different.” I truly admire the south East Asian women. They are different from the women in the West. Not in anyway to disparage Western women. It’s just a preference to me. And just an opinion on my behalf. I agree with most of what you have discussed. Again thank you for sharing your perspective and experiences. SawedeeKhrap and El Salaam Muliqum !

[@MinimalistNomad]

Great comment 👍 And thanks for sharing! Wish you good luck with your endeavours! Keep in touch.

[@mrclarkson3812]

i really thought Vietnamese were so pretty..

[@MinimalistNomad]

Many of them are.

[@dantesalazar7805]

You chose thai or viet ,beautuful,filipina looks like monkey

[@careshare-I-Love-God]

You will not be scammed if you are a young & extremely handsome foreigner. But if you are 70 and trying to hit on an 18 year old then don't expect that they are marrying you for love alone... As for foreigners in general, try dating/marrying an upper middle class or an upper crust woman then it will be a different story... There are also women that are poor but with dignity. You just have to look harder for them...

[@meadove1762]

It's Good ... Your videos would be better and more interesting if you add more videos and images about what you talk and at the moment you talk...

[@ArleeJocson]

American English is our 2nd language in the Philippines... So it's very easy to communicate 😊

[@mikga45]

In the province many Philippines people do not speak english

[@imanmanimanman7667]

Not all

[@justsaying6088]

Hmm.. making comparisons based on ethnicity alone is not quite fair. Depending on what type of women you date, if you date someone from the streets or rural province, or poor background, with no college education, or professional career- vs someone who came from a good family, lives in the city, well traveled, has a professional career are of course very different - no matter which country they are from. Please do not generalize any woman based on your experience. For example, in the Philippines, we had 2 women Presidents. The first Harvard woman medical student is a Filipina. So some comments here saying- Filipinas are uneducated are coming from an uneducated view.

[@dapooramericanhomesteadfar7192]

Your comments are realistic and true. Most of the people here are perverts. Wanting young girls. Want Asian women to serve them. Looking at them as cheap objects.

[@aaasianamerican1216]

Very interesting

[@mintoniii3029]

Thank you for attempting to explain the ‘differences’ in dating cultures across countries. However, it seems that looking at people from a particular country and generalizing their personalities says more about the creator’s perspective than the actual culture. Truly understanding people doesn’t come from stereotypes but from open-mindedness and respect for each individual’s uniqueness. Hopefully, next time there will be a deeper, more respectful approach that acknowledges the rich diversity of individuals within each culture.

[@MinimalistNomad]

I give you a heart for your ability to articulate yourself in a decent, intelligent and appropriate manner unlike some other biased and emotionally whipped up folks here in the comment section.👍

[@59Gretsch]

My friend, you put a disclaimer at the front of the video. I feel like you didn’t wanna express your real thoughts an opinion for worried that somebody somewhere will disagree or be offended.

[@MinimalistNomad]

My friend, these were my real thoughts based on my experiences. But you know how people are these days...you say something and they start crying immediately😂🤷. So better I accommodate a bit...

[@juanmanecheca4019]

How do you think about doing a pizza business in Indonesia or philippines. i will appreciate your opinion...

[@MinimalistNomad]

If you are from Italy and can show off with your secret Grandpa's recipe from Sicily that will amaze half the country then go for it. Otherwise think of something else. It is all about food in these countries, meaning to say that many people are involved in some kind of food business (mostly streetfood vendors) because it is one of the easiest and fastest ways to earn some bucks. Competition is high!!

[@FirstLast-lq4xf]

Start near corporate companies employees area next to McDonald's somewhere with research

[@keithridlen7122]

Thank you for this video, I thought to myself - no way am I going to watch a 40 minute video on this but... I watched every second of it lol Great points of view, great information

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sticking around😉👍

[@BasicEnglish1o1]

Sir, I recommend next time having your notes ready then start the vlog. As far as you said that Vietnamese woman are more "stiff and serious" I think it more related to German don't you think so? Since when did you hear any Geran comedian?

[@MinimalistNomad]

A "Geran" Comedian? What do you mean by that? Never heard of a "Geran" Comedian in my entire life, yes I have to admit. Am I supposed to laugh now?? Or should I say the following: "Mam, I recommend next time having your grammar right before you start blathering and babbling."🤦🤣🤣

[@mariannerabadon2381]

❤Thank you ❤️

[@ItsGonnaGetBumpy]

Do you have any words of advice for a retired, married Gay (male) couple looking for an affordable SE Asian country. We are monogamous but in the world a relationships, any anecdotal words of advice? Glad I found your channel.

[@MinimalistNomad]

I suggest Thailand, Vietnam or the Philippines. Vietnam because of the low cost of living and Thailand and perhaps the Philippines for their tolerance regarding sexual orientation.

[@FirstLast-lq4xf]

Indo bali Denpasar great,they have easy visas

[@myrnamonserrat5795]

Yah it's true wherever you go there is a gold digger but not in general.. You need to look or select who will be the right woman for you....need to know more Goodluck and Godbless

[@freezee7547]

What I feel like dating to Vietnamese girls are like they are loyal compared to Thai, Philippines or Indonesian girl or other. Thais girls are more like hiding something, Philippines girls are more like fun, and Indonesian girls are more like relax, Malaysian girls are more like friendly, Burmese girls are like smily, Chinese girls are like very open, Laos are like more hidden, Singaporean are like seeing you for whole family planning. Again, that's all my personal feeling. For the marriage, I would choose for Vietnamese girl for sure! Personally, nowadays it is very hard to find for like Vietnamese woman who is loyal and caring you like her man.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing. I have not dated all over South East Asia yet but I would agree with your assessment (generalized of course) of certain nationalities here.

[@freezee7547]

@@MinimalistNomad Yeah, thanks, man. Sometime, money isn't a problem to my case, they want pure generous care and love sometime because they are women, we will never know what they wanted. I guess SEA women love to see south korean actors' handsome level sometime. So, if one is very handsome, money isn't a problem, problem is you couldn't never run away from them as a husband they need you in mind. Multimillionaires level richness with K-level handsome guys would be targeted to trapping getting a marriage life. So, watch out if you are unique. Other guys would enjoy normal fantasy relationship I think. Again, it's my personal opinion.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Yeah, Koreans and Korean culture are quite popular with Filipinas for example.

[@aoeu256]

Any ideas for a Vietnamese learning environment？Do you guys think cosplay wiggs and muscle suits help get the girls haha. Vietnamese has very hard sounds, you need to shadow any Vietnamese dubbed material you find, if you can find it. Voice recognition like google can be bad for speakers who dont speak clearly. Edge had good text 2 speech, but I can only get my youtube read subs tool to work on chrome :(.

[@Venswaz-qg5sf]

Also I looked at the divorce rate and Vietnam has the 2nd lowest in the world of any country. That's quite impressive.

[@kramjrznaj]

Not all filipina asked money to their husbands or boyfriends. I’m filipina but never asked money to my ex husband and my boyfriend and I also spend money to my boyfriend. So not all filipina’s are the same :)

[@janfortuna3002]

Ex husband... I wonder why😂

[@domenicpitassi9226]

About Cambodia or Laos for fun and dating?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Never got engaged with women in these countries.

[@gd6938]

Hello Marcel, pleased to meet you again. I've watched a couple of your videos since our first introduction. You may remember me - Graham, an Englishman recently separated from a Filipina. Nice to be entertained again by your straightforward presentation of the Asian dating world. As expressed in my previous message, your amiable German manner and conversational delivery really appeals to my sense and sensibility. As you mentioned that English is your second language, Marcel, may I offer a subtle nuance of pronunciation with regard to the singular and plural pronunciation of 'woman and, women.' Pronunciation for woMAN Singular is: "WOOMAN" Pronunciation for woMEN Plural is: "WIMEN" For somewhat dissimilar linguistic sense and sensibilities, the PM of Canada attempted to relate a decidedly woke appeal to his-cum-her wide-eyed audience not as "mankind" but "womenkind." (wimenkind) Naturally, his youthful audience -- gorged on the unquestioning virtues of half-wit wokery -- orgiastically squealed, whooped, cheered and applauded like there's no 'kin' tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow. hahahahahaha . . . and so it goes . . . Tschüss

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks Graham for pointing that out. The funny thing is that I am aware of my flawed pronunciation concerning the word "women". I notice this when I watch my own videos but somehow never managed to fix it😆. Anyway, let me add it to my New Year's resolution list (which I actually don't have 😉) and focus on improving it for the videos to come. Or should I switch topics to avoid the women issue completely? Haha...Happy New Year!

[@jmwengue]

Thanks for the videos. I'm seriously considering to travel and get a wife or two :)

[@kurthouck7509]

This is the first time I've listened to you and I subscribed. I thought you gave logical and thoughtful information. I plan to go to SE Asia in a couple years but also want to travel SE Europe and possibly part of Latin America. I'm American but was married once to a German that I mt in Aschaffenburg but this was awhile ago. I haven't found anyone in the states for reasons you mentioned in your video.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Many thanks for your thoughts on this and sharing and of course for subscribing 👍! Let me know if you would like to see more videos about dating in Asia. I can share a lot of experience. Good luck with your travels!

[@kurthouck7509]

Definitely! I have had a lot of experience with women and been in long relationships but any advice or experience on a place I haven't lived is great.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@kurthouck7509 Noted👍

[@keithrogers9741]

Very good in depth look at these countries. I have lived in PH and Thailand but the Indonesian women appeal to me. I am older and wonder about the age gap in Indo

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks. Check out this video of mine here from last week: kzbin.info/www/bejne/noO0q6uce6-ArdE and this one here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nnOxf6udZrmircksi=0z5i_c-bstJLRb9K Hope it will answer some of your questions.

[@keithrogers9741]

Thanks@@MinimalistNomad

[@MinimalistNomad]

@keithrogers9741 👍

[@aoeu256]

Other than bali and jakarta where is most open minded? Also are Desi girls worse than Asean girls? Hindi is a 1200 hour language compared to 1900 of Thai, or 1500 of Vietnam (though if you know chinese/japanese vietnamwse is only 750 hour). Indonesian is 900 hour.

[@alfredagueco3252]

Im a filipina...im meet my israeli bf from 1999 . I worked in israel until i comeback in our country year 2012 without my bf and never comback in israel again,we still have a communication each other until now....BUT I NEVER EVER ASKED MONEY ..HE VISITED ME HERE IN PHILIPPINES ONLY LAST YEAR 2023, WHY HE STILL REMEMBER ME AND HE WANTS TO SEE ME AGAIN..I KNEW HIM FROM 1999 MAYBE BECAUSE IM GOOD WITH HIM 😒..UNTIL NOW HE STILL SINGLE.

[@miladmosapoor4438]

Hi dear German friend!! Tnx for this great video :) First I just wanted to watch the first 2-3 min and skip, but I watched all 39 minutes in detail. I thought you were 28-35, shocked after you said 47! I agree with you. I also travelled to the southeast. I'm not from Europe, I'm from the middle east, but I could be easily spotted as a foreigner due to my height haha. Sadly never met a girl from Vietnam even, but I'm trying to find a job there now. I dated women in Thailand, Cambodia, Malaysia and had nice time with girls in Laos and Singapore. I met Indonesian and Filipino girls out of their countries. In my opinion, the Filipino are laid-back as you said, but I'm not looking for fun with girls like 1 week out and cut. I want to stay for years. What I perceived was that these girls are mostly easy, my Thai girlfriend left me after 1 month for no reason despite she was rich! Maybe she looked for fun with me since I was 15 years younger. I had nice dates with Cambodian girls, but never seemed serious. Malaysians are the middle, I think never get serious as you said like in Vietnam. Indonesians are a bit religious, so that you said in Vietnam the over 30 years old girls are easy to meet, for Indonesian it doesn't work coz the older generation are not open-minded and these new generations mostly want fun, just like the Filipinos. In Laos, I couldn't come close so much due to lack of time, but I believe it's very similar to Thailand with a difference that you can't communicate even coz poor English. Do you have a FB or Insta page? Tnx instagram.com/milad.mosapoor

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for your comment. You have made your experience with different Southeast Asian women, that's good. You have made your individual observations. Good luck with your endeavours👍👍 No, I don't have Instagram or FB.

[@aoeu256]

I wanna learn a language， but Thai is too hard。 I have a lot of chrome extensions to help me build a language immersion environment。 Hindi， Indonesian，and Vietnamese sound good。@@MinimalistNomad

[@andreasb3347]

He looks young. He doesnt drink alcohol, does sports, eats healthy, sleeps well... AND has a healthy and young thinking still (I think this has also an impact). I am 36 and Asians think also that I am 23 to 28.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@andreasb3347 Yeah, that's my pay off I guess for the discipline I exercise. Lifestyle and the way you think keeps you either young and fit or old and rotten. Which way is more attractive to women? But I am not doing this to impress women. It is just out of respect for myself.

[@ToddMcLellan-j3u]

What is dating like in Germany with German women? Maybe specifically gender roles.?

[@MinimalistNomad]

I had my last German girlfriend 22 years ago...At the time it was ok.

[@alexsierra111]

Would you ever do tours of where you lived in Asia

[@MinimalistNomad]

Great idea! Never considered this. It would be a full time job indeed looking at how many countries and places I lived in, worked at and traveled to...

[@Daddy_de_Kamenskilande]

Thank you.

[@MinimalistNomad]

You're welcome.

[@bunnyhelper7791]

If u want a wife date Vietnam and Thai best cooking foods for you 😊

[@marichuarmodia2375]

In my life I’m never ask my husband to sent me a money and never making a money also and not all pilipina like that we most be faithful to each other and love and honest is must think to do

[@dapooramericanhomesteadfar7192]

I don't believe it. Forget these white guys. I know Filipinos in America send money to women in Philippines

[@Chris-dw6cu]

How are you meeting these women?

[@MinimalistNomad]

I have a variety of other videos on that topic available to watch: 👉 kzbin.info/aero/PL7r3qlbjtLXUnniR4oVrjCpGRm4Yi1N6W&si=ybj5vhytuO95weEM

[@mentorinspired]

Speaking English still doesn't mean they understand English, even here in the USA. For example, in USA I grow tired of speaking to people and then they making up some crazy story or meaning instead of listening to me words or actions. In America, I keep asking myself whats the point. People her don't understand my words anyway.

[@MinimalistNomad]

You have a good point here that concerns communication in general and in all languages: hearing is not listening! So many things are literally lost in translation but we are also doing a bad job to just listen carefully to what the other person is trying to convey to us. Listening and receiving (understanding) the other person's message...

[@michelboisseau7922]

I want to thank you first for these precious informations...i'm planning a trip for few months in Thailand..for the food the exotism ant womens as well of course. I was mind set until i saw your video...The culture and the English language of the Filipinas change everything ! Since most Thai girls are Buddhist and rarely speak english its a game changer even i think food is the best in Thailand. In another hand, i had date girls from China, Vietnam, Indonesia,Chili, Colombia,Dominicana,Ecuador and finaly married a Peruvien girls but just got divorce after she arrive in Canada becoz she want kids and it was clearly no way but she expect i change my mind. I'm actualy on a Filipinas dating site but i beleive i should wait and get there to meet in person...lot of scammers and sometimes its hard to know if they are real or not ! I had lear Spanish so why not Thai if it wort it !

[@MinimalistNomad]

Yes, be careful with the dating sites especially in the Philippines! Don't chat too much in advance. One week before you travel to the Phils you set up your online dating account. That's enough. Chat Up a few girls and arrange for a physical date immediately to weed out scammers. It will save you heaps of time and nerves.

[@newworld3263]

You're obviously copying Nomad Elite.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks👍

[@elindolente79]

Excellent video and insights! Western women are after financial stability too... and some of them look like truck drivers.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks 👍 Just to be sure: I have nothing against truck drivers as long as they are males😂

[@elindolente79]

Based on your previous videos I was convinced that Vietnam and nha trang was the place to settle. But disappointed to hear that is not so good in terms of dating. Which other place would be cheap, interesting and good for dating? Thanks

[@MinimalistNomad]

I would suggest that you make your own experience. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. Try Vietnam and see how it goes for you. Perhaps you will like it. But as a rule of thumb I would say, and this is also based on my own personal experience, that if you want fun then head for the Philippines and Thailand. Vietnamese girls are way more reserved and they are not playgirls.

[@one-more-land]

Hello from a neighbor here (a Dane; Denmark), I agree with you that I as well appreciate a "real woman" in the same way a woman wants (most) a "real man", but somehow, at least here in Denmark it is seen as sexist and what not to even state that opinion. Great content by the way, brother, keep up the good work.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing!👍 That's why more and more Western men are moving to South East Asia or other places.

[@ignaciusmainit3916]

Third world country is not the right term instead Developing countries.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks. The term had escaped my mind when I recorded the video. You are right 👍.

[@ignaciusmainit3916]

@@MinimalistNomad When it comes to daring southeast asian woman its a perception for them that if your a white guy you have the money and can help them to take them from poverty or hardship in life. I think it applies to all southeast asian women. You can say that filipina women is into money well i think this is something debatable. I think it applies to all but filipja women are more advantagious when it comes to this coz they can communicate well compare to thai women and viet women. If you really looking for a wife material woman you should know them better. Find a woman who came from good background like who have a a job and ofcourse a have a good educational background. If you date a woman who you just met on the night bars where prostitutions are really high then your on the wrong place. Theres a lot of night out areas who has young professionals. All you need is to do some research. You can find a quality woman to if you really want to hook up with them. Women can feel if your intention is just for s3x so they automatically think that this white guy will take advantage on me so i will do the same thing by asking money. If you really want to meet a quality women better not find them in the bars. It a matter on how you meticulously know the person.

[@MinimalistNomad]

You are right. That's what I also was trying to convey in my video: look at every woman individually. Of course, when you make these videos there is always a bit of generalization involved. It cannot be avoided for the sake of the length of the video. Every woman and man have their own individual character, personality, values, strengths, weaknesses, priorities, goals, intellect, education etc. You have to find your match 🙂. That's the challenge...

[@worldofimani9102]

The term "Third World" arose during the Cold War and it was used to define countries that remained non-aligned with either NATO or the Warsaw Pact

[@pascalb5908]

@@worldofimani9102 It is an illegal term now. All countries belong to NATO.

[@MrNanah38]

I agree with you about the feminine aspect.

[@Nomadic9900]

Asian women are simply adorable. Petite, feminine, affectionate. They will make you feel like you are a king.

[@MinimalistNomad]

And sometimes they also give you a headache😂🙌. But only sometimes...

[@yuviaza6793]

😅😅 dress up like trucks 🚚 drivers,,,it's cool isn't it...comfortable for tomboy lady!!but for SEA(Indonesia specially)...even though we're look tomboy...if Men shouting or talk loud rude to us...,we're still gonna crying ! Indonesian women are easily to cry

[@toyoashihara6242]

There are also feminine white women, especially in Central and Eastern Europe. Not mentionning other places outside South East Asia like Japan.

[@MinimalistNomad]

That's certainly true but many of these Eastern European women are high maintenance. Besides that, I am not into white women any longer since I arrived in Southeast Asia in 2005.

[@fruitloops3718]

The humor in the Philippines is much different than western humor. Just because they understand English doesn't mean they will understand your humor.

[@MinimalistNomad]

That's true. Especially when it comes to dry humour and sarcasm.

[@JoeyZee-vs4kr]

​@@MinimalistNomadsarcasm humour is acceptable with Filipinos if you've built a good relationship already, otherwise, any sarcasm is a big insult so try not to make such jokes 😊

[@snarkyeconomist2141]

Too much apologetic rambling. Say what you got to say and move on. Don't worry about the detractors in the comments. They are increased engagement.

[@canardeur8390]

It is not easy for Germans to be FACTUALLY correct if this means to be POLITICALLY incorrect, when they have been brainwashed since childhood by their stupid media like BILD-Zeitung, that are politically correct but factually incorrect...

[@andreasb3347]

i am 36, European and speak chinese and have lived in china for 3 years. mostly in chengdu. i think for hookups it is also not so good there and more like what you said about vietnam. i can easily get so many dates and have so many options but quick fun is another story. do you think its maybe better to rather go to thailand or philipines? but on top of the women in china i can do my remote work but it is also harder because of the internet.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Depends on what you are looking for. If you want quick bedroom fun then head for Thailand or the Phils. If you want to date then head for the Philippines because of the English level. There are many good girls in Thailand but communication sucks because of limited/no English.

[@andreasb3347]

@@MinimalistNomad Mann, gerade ab Minute 8 sprichst du genauso wie ich immer mit ausländischen Freunden in Deutschland und Männern mit Durchblick. Traurig ist, dass selbst wenn du 100 mal sagen musst, dass es deine persönlichen Erfahrungen sind, man nicht verallgemeinern soll usw. du tatsächlich in Deutschland für das was du da sagst als "Creep" bezeichnet werden würdest von sowohl Männern als auch Frauen.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@andreasb3347 Interessanter Kommentar. Gluecklicherweise wohne ich zu weit weg, um mir dieses Gesuelze aus der "Heimat" anhoeren zu muessen, wenn dem so sein sollte.

[@andreasb3347]

​@@MinimalistNomad Pass auf mit dem Begriff "Heimat" sonst kommt der Staatsschutz. Siehe 17 jährige in news. Ja es ist nur noch verrückt. Ich hab mir ein paar deiner Videos angesehen. Du sprichst mir aus der Seele und bist jetzt der erste Deutsche den ich gefunden habe, der genauso wie ich spricht. Ich dachte echt ich wäre da komplett allein. In Deutschland sind die meisten halt noch auf dem Niveau, dass sie sagen "Ah der geht nach XY weil er hier keine abbekommt." Das dauert noch Jahre bis die überhaupt einsehen, dass man gar keine Anziehung mehr hat. Muss aufpassen wie ichs schreibe, dass nicht die YT Zensur aktiv wird^^

[@andreasb3347]

@@MinimalistNomad ah leider wurde die YT Zensur gerade aktiv. Keine Lust es noch mal zu schreiben und so zu formulieren, dass es nicht zensiert wird. Ja, schön zu sehen, dass man noch ein Deutschen trifft, der wie man selbst denkt. Wir sind sehr wenige.

[@JamesBrown-qb3pz]

thank you

[@danielreid6041]

If you don't have money then none of them are talking to you 😂

[@7mattof]

That's true of all women all over the world. You don't have to have much money, but you can't be a bum.

[@dapooramericanhomesteadfar7192]

Omg. The most realistic comment.

[@oceanearth2243]

Communication is overrated!! Things can still happen with a smoothness that could be ruined by words

[@Phan-Xu]

Please include a Lao girl next time

[@MinimalistNomad]

I never met one 😂...Are you from Laos?

[@Phan-Xu]

@@MinimalistNomad no. California

[@fintanusa]

America never had colonies. It was protectorate in exchange for the use of military bases. This is a significant difference. No Philippine person would never consider themselves ever to have been a colony!!

[@chengfilipina5827]

Vietnamese and thai as an asian this is my opinion but i didnt generalized thier priority is money and material while ph and indo r not althought each person has own priority and preference...

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing your view👍

[@huynh11]

Well . Vietnamese woman here. We are raised to prioritize kindness, respectability, sincerity, hard working and NOT prioritizing material things, because when we die we can’t bring those with us. This is also the most important lesson in Buddhist, which is the biggest religion here. I also have many foreign friends and they love Vietnamese for these values. You should do more research about other cultures before judging them!

[@aoeu256]

maybe for vietnamese men, but they change tune for foreigners@@huynh11

[@BrianDawsonLM10]

I have only travelled and dated in the Philippines but can concur with your views on dating there, greetings from the UK

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing!👍 How was it to date Filipinas?

[@BrianDawsonLM10]

@@MinimalistNomad I was in an LDR with my Filipina before we met and then again when i came back to the UK, but sadly in the end the LDR situation killed it so now I'm back to looking at my options and will be visiting the Philippines again later this year.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Good luck mate! You still have plenty of options.

[@Letter-wt6wn]

Ridiculous to compare because each individual is different!

[@MarriedToTheKGB]

I think Thai or Vietnamese are more beautiful but Phillipines are more friendly

[@webuser2014]

I need someone to write summary pleased 😂

[@RobertSpiller]

Question.....is it true that Vietnam females are thicker, with more curves than other Asian countries?

[@MinimalistNomad]

No.

[@RobertSpiller]

@@MinimalistNomad Are you sure...I've seen some powerful pictures, and other youtubers have said so. But I'll take your word for it.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Best way to find out is to travel to Vietnam yourself.😉

[@RobertSpiller]

@@MinimalistNomad ok

[@yanyant-q1l]

where in vietnam where you? so your telling me most ppl in vietnam cant speak english well? what percent speak english

[@MinimalistNomad]

I lived and worked in Hanoi. Been to Da Nang, Nha Trang and other places. I don't know the percentage but it is still small today.

[@torgrimroll8709]

İnteresting video. İ been with Indonesian thai and Chinese Indonesian ladies. Thai ladies do not speak good english wich is a big problem. Religion is a big issue in Indonesia. Muslims will put pressure on you after you marry. İt is many modern girls in Indonesia. Easier to get along with. Thai girls get one or two kids when they are are twenties. İ met so many single girls in their forties with kids 10to 20. You will get those kids and her family as well in your relationship

[@nemiabesana8789]

Thailand Commercial Market Womens, Vietnam I can not Understanding very Well, Philippines Famous Peoples in the World Peoples wants USA America latina, Europe, Saudi Arabia, Africa, only Asian World like thailand very Jelousy for Philippines becoz Beauty and Brain, Big Personal Behavior Philippines womens..

[@alfredagueco3252]

❤

[@ivanguban7143]

You forgot to mention half shaved head women.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Yup, thanks for reminding😂

[@cheallen1626]

Geezus....at least half the time in this video is "qualifying" your opinions. We know it's just your opinion, emphasize that at the start and maybe at the end. I like the information but get to the point.

[@markto3606]

I would agree to the coments but now these days u got to be careful who u choose.

[@one-more-land]

Nothing wrong being materialistic; I am very much myself, but I still value humans higher...even a tribe uses materials to live in as villages and hunt for as weapons; nothing wrong with that; you can be a claimed "minimalist" and still be the most horrible person in the world (trust me, I've met them)

[@artemusbowdler7508]

Please stay on topic

[@tonynguyen6024]

NO MONEY NO HONEY

[@rose-b6u5e]

I wish one day someone do blog which western guy better to date😅😅

[@dapooramericanhomesteadfar7192]

No they are not. He touched a little in this video. It's about money. How can a white guy barely speak the language. Barely understand the culture be better? He can barely do a half ass job. It's like you wanted to be a writer without a pen.

[@ChrissieSM]

Generally, but not always, educated men look for educated women, blue collars prefer ladies who are on the same level as them. In Vietnam, educated people can speak English. English is taught in schools, but I was told that lots learn Russian because of their business presence in Vietnam. The question is, what do these men who go to SE Asia are looking for in a woman? An equal or a woman who looks up to you, who will make you feel superior, i.e. boost your ego.

[@tonysark8199]

Fucking lucky you

[@MinimalistNomad]

Depends on how you look at it and what experiences you have gained with these women...

[@pogopiratepete]

why cant you pay for your Vietnamese girlfriends english lessons?

[@MinimalistNomad]

You know when the guy is a poor English teacher...😉

[@dannyjanssens8985]

If you wanna get scammed constantly choose a Filipina 😂. I live her for 14 years and gave up dating them.

[@MinimalistNomad]

I am dating one now. Let's see how the story is going to develop...😂

[@ervieabello2390]

yeah maybe all the girls you get from the club's /bar natural you got scammed

[@dannyjanssens8985]

@@ervieabello2390 I never go to bars or clubs

[@ßhopkins]

only guys with useless brains are getting scammed. #fact

[@dapooramericanhomesteadfar7192]

It's the same in every Asian country. You have to stay over a year to find a good woman. If you stay a short amount of time. You are bait. Only the sharks would feed on you first.