This has to be the most intelligent and easy-to-understand video on dressing the body we have that I’ve ever watched.
@Mariafsadler5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@kimberlyperrotis8962 Жыл бұрын
I agree, Maria! One neck, one head, two arms and two legs is the perfect body shape!
@kimberlyperrotis8962 Жыл бұрын
At 170 lbs. I was overweight and had a “unhealthy” hip ratio. At 90 l lbs. I was a “underweight”, but had the exact same “unhealthy” waist:hip ratio. It’s defined by the way our skeletal frames are built, which is the same at any weight. I’m never going to be an hourglass shape, I’m so short-waisted (short upper torso) that there literally isn’t any vertical space for a definite waist narrowing/indentation, my ribs are sitting right on my hip bones. Then, in middle age, the body starts shifting fat from the other areas of the body to the middle, there’s nothing anyone can do about it. All we can do is maintain a healthy diet and weight, and exercise regularly. Then, love our healthy bodies, they work hard for us, and style them in a way that looks best to us, with clothes and accessories that give us pleasure to wear.
@karenallen8476 Жыл бұрын
Hi, thank you! Light bulb moment! I hope you realize how appreciative we are. Pure but simple genius. Have a fabulous week Maria x
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Karen I appreciate all of you too 😘
@jessicaparry1767 Жыл бұрын
Hi Maria, I am really enjoying this new series of videos. It makes so much sense to follow our bodies natural shape when choosing clothes. The different styles of shirt dress for the different shaped bodies really helped to see easily which one would look best, a very good example. Thanks again for all your hard work in putting these videos together so that we can all dress with ease and confidence x x
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica I’m so pleased you are enjoying the series 😀
@marycummins3301 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Marie more of this kind of information is needed for every girl and woman to understand that yes we do not need to be fixed!! You are so- right great information too I will be trying out you hints and tips 😍
@AlexLouiseWest Жыл бұрын
Great comment 🙂
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mary I’m glad you enjoyed it 😊
@Teresa-K Жыл бұрын
Very good information. Thanks Maria for explaining we don’t need to be a certain shape, but dress for our shape. Kindness, Teresa
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Teresa. I’m s pleased it’s been so positively received 😊
@pennyphebey8617 Жыл бұрын
Love your hair …
@janicelloyd3215 Жыл бұрын
This is the third time I have watched this, you have changed my style.❤❤❤ I lose weight to be able to tuck in tops and belt my pants, I never get there, that never looks right on me. My shape is wide shoulders, size XL OR 16. Narrow hips flat butt, size medium or 12. Now I see that your flowy linen cardigans, long vests are what I need. Thank you so much. This is so helpful.❤❤❤❤❤
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Janice if I can help one person I’m happy 😃
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@laineydunlop2161 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Maria. I liked your question at the beginning about who set up the standard of using the hour glass. It’s crazy that these ideas were probably generated by men and 70 years later nothing has changed. It’s like the toy we all had as children where you try to find what shape fits into which space. Common sense, an understanding of the shapes and fabrics that suit you is key. I’m a rectangle and finally I don’t have to try to wear a belt to create an illusion of a waist. Hallelujah. 🙏😘
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Elaine you know me I hate those boxes that so many others in this industry put you in to! 😘
@contentauys4749 Жыл бұрын
Excellent advice. I can see that stiffer material suits my straighter body shape better. I am going to go through all my clothes and sort them into a confident pile and fidgeting pile. Fidgeting pile is going to become donation pile☺
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Excellent 👍
@Horsefaire Жыл бұрын
A true expert on fashion. One of the best approaches I have ever heard about body shapes!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@PrivateJ4 Жыл бұрын
Any chance you could share where you found that dress for the Apple shape? So cute! Thanks for another great video 😊
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
When I’m back at my desk I will link it I can’t remember off the top of my head 👍
@dijanawarrender8627 Жыл бұрын
Sorry I can only give you one 👍 You voiced so many things I feel. Not everyone wants to create an hourglass figure. I hate belts, shirts tucked in, shirts in general, stiff blazers because they are so stiff for my figure. I had never heard of the figure 8 type but this fits me perfectly and explains why I feel so comfortable in the clothes you recommended. Thank you for this thoughtful video 👍👍👍
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dijana. I’m so pleased you got something from the video 😘
@ST52655Ай бұрын
I’m a Figure 8 and feel the same way about belts, tucking in my tops, and wearing stiff fabrics. I, too, got a lot out of this video. 👍
@cathytucker2009 Жыл бұрын
Lines and curves is a different way for me to approach fabrics and clothing structures. Thank you !
@cathytucker2009 Жыл бұрын
26:30 great analogy.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@AlexLouiseWest Жыл бұрын
Compassionate and clever as always, with interesting methods to try out. I like that you are encouraging people to honour what their body is actually like, rather than trying to create an illusion of something else entirely. Although this video wasn't about height, you have helped to reassure me that my main difficulty isn't actually a defect - being 5'3'' is simply awkward because petite lengths are often too short, and regular lengths are often too long, especially as I can't wear heels for health reasons. But that's not my fault, it's just a lack of suitable items sometimes. This is probably the topic where I will need to use your services sometime, because I can't always see myself clearly.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you this is exactly the point I was trying to make. You aren’t the problem it’s the clothes that are only made for one shape and height x
@AlexLouiseWest Жыл бұрын
@@Mariafsadler And of course, petite and tall are just height designations: they don't tell you the shape or type of frame someone has. On my road, we have a cluster of six houses with a petite woman as one of the occupants, and we are definitely not all the same shape, proportion and build.
@helengawthrop40436 ай бұрын
Thanks Maria. I totally agree😊
@robynlaszlo6128 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree people are going to be different that's just the way it is and as women we go through many changes in our lives and that's why I sew which gives much pleasure thank you for doing this video
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Robyn. It’s great that you see because you can tailor the shapes to you rather than the other way round 😀
@eileenmcgowan284 Жыл бұрын
Logical as always and so easy to follow. Well said -----we are all individuals and all PERFECT
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Eileen. I’m fed up of women being forced into being a clone. Let’s be our glorious individual selves 😀
@eileenmcgowan284 Жыл бұрын
@@Mariafsadler . How right you are. We need to be happy in our own skin at any age.
@angelaharrison2717 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant ideas & thoughts about curves & straight lines. It makes so much sense! Thank you.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you I’m glad it helped 😊
@donnabronner4837 Жыл бұрын
Can't wait for next video.
@joycemorrow5840 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Your explanation of fashion choices was priceless.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@susankey9598 Жыл бұрын
Definitely 👍 agree, thank you Maria x
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
So glad!
@marinamarinis134 Жыл бұрын
I love you today! Thank you!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
😊
@kathysarmiento4652 Жыл бұрын
I love the box and bowl example!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
😂 it works though doesn’t it and it’s easy to remember
@ina7747 Жыл бұрын
This totally makes sense to me now! I'm a size 16/18, but the only curves I have are my girls. I'm not curvy in my face, my shoulders are quite boney, narrow hips and slim legs, long waist. The curvy floaty tops that are very popular with designers for plus-size clothing never suit me. It's one of the reasons I've gone back to sewing my own clothes. I'm glad you pointed out that even though I'm a plus-size lady, I'm not a curvy lady. Thank you so much for explaining the various shapes! I love this video series so much 🙂
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ina I’m so pleased that you are finding it useful 😘
@AlexLouiseWest Жыл бұрын
Hi Ina, that's a really interesting example.
@MotherMissionary Жыл бұрын
This was fabulous and makes so much fashion sense. Thank you ❤
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
I’m glad it was helpful 👍
@deborahgraham4336 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed your comments on curves, angles and muscle. I had hoped you were going to stay away from the 'shape theory'. I would really suggest folks look into the Kibbe Body Type. I've found it is much more accurate than the fruit/shape basket. Thank you for your new perspective.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Deborah I just don’t believe in trying to make women something they aren’t 👍
@georgina3358 Жыл бұрын
Great video, Maria, telling us we don't need to force our bodies to look other than what they are. I'm most definitely an 8-shape, with a high hip, so fit and flare dresses are not for me!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Georgina. It makes me mad that we are being cloned into the same shape and colour boxes as you know 😂 and people are getting paid to give this information! It’s either lazy or they aren’t really experienced 🙁 it’s my mission to let us all be individuals 😊
@georgina3358 Жыл бұрын
@@Mariafsadler Your advice made so much sense to me, and now you've spoken about the different shapes our bodies can be, it seems so clear how to dress them. Perhaps certain stylists don't really think about what they're advising their clients
@debbiefischer945 Жыл бұрын
Great perspective ❤
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Debbie😊
@juliekwan1428 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Julie 😊
@MargaretCastleton Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Think I need to watch again to take in all the info. I always feel I'm too fat, not good enough etc, maybe I just need the right clothes
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Too fat for what? I know it’s really hard sometimes not to have these negative thoughts but we’ve been so conditioned by the media. That’s why I’m on a mission to spread positivity and confidence. Lots more like this coming 😘
@brendawyber65562 ай бұрын
Thanks this is very helpful.
@MariafsadlerАй бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@juliehanson1175 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting information in this video. I had never heard of the Figure 8 shape and that one hit home for me. I just thought it was having a short torso, but that wasn't the whole story. Fit and Flares NEVER work for me because of the "shelf" of my hips. It was always a bit of a dilemma. This was very helpful. Thank you!!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
You are welcome Julie I’m so pleased that it was helpful for you 😀
@freddiestark1779 Жыл бұрын
Well done again! You took box cutters and cut open the box in which some of us have found ourselves. I look forward to taking your prescription and perusing my closet for some things I thought were necessary but do not make me feel comfortable or confident. I would like to add an additional word, creative. When I am not comfortable or confident , I find my creativity blocked. Thank you Maria.
@AlexLouiseWest Жыл бұрын
That’s an excellent comment, thank you.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Freddie and I love that you added creative I absolutely agree xx
@alisonmeditations Жыл бұрын
A really good and informative video, many thanks!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Patty.198 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your positive perspective and practical advice!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Phyllis I’m glad you enjoyed it 😊
@debgrafel3117 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful message Maria! ❤
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Deb 😊
@carolthomas85284 ай бұрын
Interesting because if we look back throughout history , there is the full bosomed S shaped corset of the Edwardian period and the boyish body of the 1920s flapper . Marylin Monroe represents the period after the war when men ( men! ) wanted women with curvy bodies . Twiggy was another stage in the 1960s when women’s lib. started . PS . This is really good video .
@maxine2261 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the informative tutorial. My body is a Figure 8 for sure. My shelf came in very useful raising 2 boys. I've always had a problem with pants. Most pants that fit my bottom result in a large gap at the waist. I'm at least 1 size, maybe 2 sizes smaller on top. I tend to be most comfortable in pants with an elasticized waist, but those choices seem to cause a challenge for me with the tops. I enjoy wearing button down blouses and tops that should be tucked in, but they don't work with an elasticized waist pants without a cardigan or jacket. I end up wearing tops that drape over the elastic and I feel frumpy. If you have time or inclination to feature more examples of outfits for the Figure 8 it would be much appreciated. Thanks again. Glad to see you in good health.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Maxine. When I get to the end of this series I will plan some more videos on shape as it’s been so popular 👍
@dancemad1000 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant video. Thank you!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you enjoyed it 😊
@kimberlyperrotis8962 Жыл бұрын
I did a survey of art throughout the ages, looking at the “ideal” female shapes portrayed. I discovered that is never was an hourglass, it was a pear shape! The figures shown all have generous hips, thighs and buttocks; a rounded, not flat tummy; a small, high bust; and a waist smaller than the hips, but by no means with hourglass definition . This surprised me, but I remembered that the pear shape is indeed the most common body shape for women. The modern hourglass “ideal” began in the Victorian era, but the exaggeratedly large bust wasn’t idealized until the 1950s. An hourglass shape is simply not achievable for most women, at least without surgical removal of ribs, like the Kardashians, and large breast implants. It should not be a goal! My natural body shape, basically rectangular or straight, with narrow shoulders and very narrow hips, and full bust, has never been idealized. Very few women actually have an hourglass shape, yet that’s what women’s clothes are designed for, no wonder we all have so many problems finding a decent fit. Moreover, woman’s clothes are designed to fit women in the 5’9” to 6 ft. height range. I’m 5’4”, the average for us American women (the average size here is US 16, or UK 20, which rules out all clothing designed or made elsewhere, for many women). We should love our bodies, try to style them in a flattering way, then just enjoy our lives. Lots of this shape nonsense comes from men and the pressure on women to look a certain way us just incredible. When I was dating, multiple men told me they were looking for “Victoria’s Angels”. Try porn, I said, they don’t exist in real life.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
All true. I just sent a pair of regular length trousers back - I’m 5 foot 6 with longer legs - these were at least 3 inches too long! 🙁
@leoniestephens7070 Жыл бұрын
Great tips Maria. I think you are absolutely right. I try on clothes regularly and have ditched the ones which I don’t feel good in. Dressing for our body shape really makes a difference. I think I am angular with a bit of an oval shape. The things I feel best in are more structured. Great video. Love L🌺🌺
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you Leonie. Xx think you have to be comfortable to be confident the two work together 😊
@dagnolia6004 Жыл бұрын
honoring your shape! brilliant...
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
It’s easy really 😊👍
@katrinajeffrey2565 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your tips Maria.
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
You are welcome Katrina 👍
@karenkristiansen6622 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Maria for a great video…and Michelle for sharing your fabulous holiday wardrobe…I will most definitely use this as a basis for my river cruise wardrobe next month 😊
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Have a fantastic holiday and birthday Karen 😘
@fondcello1994 Жыл бұрын
Thanks! You are the best!!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
😊😘
@DeannaBenedict-gg8tb Жыл бұрын
Excellent !
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@karenbrimmer8616 Жыл бұрын
Great video Maria. I’ve recently been watching another style KZbinr but if I have to hear “we all need to recreate the perfect hourglass “ and “everybody should wear white”, I’ll scream. I really don’t want to wear a white puff sleeved top!
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately it’s a common theme that you have to “recreate the hourglass” and I just don’t see why! X
@caroldarnznieks66004 ай бұрын
All true but need for examples….i have to see to process.
@einsteindarwin875610 ай бұрын
It’s nice to know this when I was younger I had an hour glass shape. Now that I’ll older I have lost my lower body
@cathytucker2009 Жыл бұрын
23:50 challenge accepted. Is this piece something that I don't fidget in, that I feel confident in.. ? What's the common denominator in each of those pieces?
@jenniferclifford4669 Жыл бұрын
I have an hour glass shape, I'm busty and short and I can categorically say that its very hard to dress well and get clothes to fit.
@AO-oy4rf4 ай бұрын
How refreshing - most of us aren't hourglass shape and neither are we men posing as women! So don't have a swimmers body either. A lot of what you say makes sense.
@Mariafsadler4 ай бұрын
I’m glad you found it interesting. I find it so frustrating when a stylist tells women they need to be turned back into an hourglass like your body shape is wrong! We are all different and all shapes are beautiful ❤️
@carolinedavies8755 Жыл бұрын
Where is the yellow/green belted shirt dress from please Maria?
@Mariafsadler Жыл бұрын
Sorry I will link all the items when I’m back at my desk I can’t remember off the top of my head 👍
@karengrohs4942 Жыл бұрын
But size 16 in Marilyn's day was more like today's 10.