Martell Holt's Interview With Dr. Heavenly Kimes. So Much To Unpack

[@RuthieSongbird]

Like Dr.Heavenly said, “I would NEVAAAA submit to a man like you”.

[@princessbc9791]

So, now she gets it cause the last time (before she interviewed him) she said some dumb ass ish like it was Mel's fault for trying to be every woman. I'm like, "No Dr. DooDoo...they are done because he wanted to be with every woman. I'm so glad Heavenly pulled her head out of her ass.

[@KingEdwardTV]

Yes!!!!!

[@prentfaiyaz]

Damn that's saying a lot because she stay preaching that

[@sherrigrant573]

Lawd

[@sherrigrant573]

@@princessbc9791 lol

[@beantehollie5335]

If a person cheat with you they will cheat on you

[@foodie4138]

Beante Hollie okaaaay

[@SongSingsSoprano]

Arionne's karma is coming, 10 fold.

[@dominicanprincess2051]

Exactly what you do with me you will do TO ME....PERIOD

[@Goldentoast77]

@@SongSingsSoprano women like that really don’t care though. Nothing about karma. None of that. It’s sad. I know women who have full relationships with married men. It blows my mind.

[@DeborahWDyson]

@@SongSingsSoprano If she's having a baby by him, it's already upon her.

[@_ur_fav_nurse_4527]

“The quickest way to lose a man is to have a baby by him”. Just in case y’all didn’t hear him.

[@reginamassenberg2669]

HA GLORY

[@kevapickens3955]

@@reginamassenberg2669 lol, too funny!

[@yammieyammie8980]

@@HighPriestessVibezTarot Not true. Married couples have babies all the time & 1 parent DIDN'T WANT TO HAVE ANOTHER ONE.

[@mssan2016]

Yep, My grandmother always said this! That's why l don't understand this babymama culture.

[@sonyab2u974]

@@HighPriestessVibezTarot Tf it does apply to married couples too! Lots of married men leave they wives with multiple kids! My Vietnamese nail tech told me her husband left her right after she had their 6th baby! For a younger woman

[@itsasurethinghostdianemurr5498]

Martell went to Heavenly because of her “take care of your husband” belief. And that backfired, cause Heavenly wasn’t buying the not fulfilling my needs excuse.

[@sipofsunshine4969]

Exactly

[@shonataylor80]

Absolutely

[@virgochild120]

😂

[@CR-ce5lf]

She says women should only do that if their husbands are providers in every single sense.. Martell ain’t provide nothing but dirty peen, idk what he expected.

[@GigiSxm]

Mel is out here flourishing, she’s moved out, got her another tv show on own and he can’t take it. He needs to go find his fulfillment.

[@amab1853]

Melody will continue to be successful. She is ambitious. She just has to stay away from toxic men like Martell

[@kimm6039]

@@amab1853 Exactly. She’s flourishing because she’s away from him. He was holding her back.

[@fatimaamerson3232]

He will never be happy because of his need to control everything. He's a narcissist.

[@besslifetv]

What other tv show ?.

[@justWJ]

Sorry but Martell can't tell me shyt about Mel after knocking his side heaux up with a newborn at home ❌

[@islandbrowning2299]

OMG he got the side chick pregnant!?! I haven't been keeping up but wow smh. Hope the side chick realizes eventually it will be someone else next.

[@ekellygirl]

@@islandbrowning2299 nope she is too dumb to realize it.

[@sippingsocialite9494]

His girlfriend*...once that emotional connection there and it’s been 5 years. That’s a girlfriend lol

[@justWJ]

@@sippingsocialite9494 no lies detected unfortunately

[@shawnee1881]

@@ekellygirl yes she comes over as dumb.

[@BecomingSabrinaG]

You just told Ariel everything a Dad needs to tell his daughter...... Don’t be someone’s coleslaw

[@opensecret629]

PREACH DINEVA!

[@krissiehouse]

YES! A line of advice for the books! 🙌🏾👏🏾

[@traceyferguson9041]

Yesss! She better listen

[@beautymarc510]

A Word 🙌🏽

[@princessbc9791]

@@traceyferguson9041 I think she would need to grow up first, she comes off super childish. Then maybe she will listen.

[@sonyacharie]

He called her a peasant...that was her wake up call.

[@opensecret629]

It should've been her wake up call unless she stays to make him pay for that statement

[@soulaanempress]

She definitely has a peasant mindset

[@brangeeellis3083]

I am beginning to think the whole peasant remark was just for ratings. I'm sure they conspired together to come up with a word that sounds bad, but not bad bad... Just my two cents...

[@Goldentoast77]

No it wasn’t lol. If she is pregnant, she got pregnant after that comment was made.

[@angelicakirkland4151]

That's worst than spitting on someone to me.

[@itsasurethinghostdianemurr5498]

A baby will NEVER keep a man nor improve a marriage.

[@itsasurethinghostdianemurr5498]

Fatigue is way different than dedication and fulfillment. Let me know in 5 years how its working out for your friend.

[@robinwatson9762]

How it started: Tyler Perry - 80/20 rule How it ended: Funky Dineva - Coleslaw

[@LuvMiwrite]

Yoooooo 😂😂😂😩😩😩

[@alipat3415]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@naturallynailah6983]

Baaaabbbbby you ain't never lied

[@misskarun2548]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ungovernable

[@pamelawatson5559]

No ,no

[@boozindallas_411]

Martell is utterly disgusting🥴, just vile. He's completely out of line and I'm glad Mel has put a gag order on him.

[@cherylmosley797]

Yes, put a gag on that dog. Lowly. The other woman will see, hopefully she’ll feel what Mel experienced

[@justWJ]

I dont blame her. His children will make him answer this public shaming of their mother one day. They will all sit around and whip his azz

[@COJAMALIK]

Muzzle his ass

[@Ghanaian_Princess]

The nerve of this man to go on a show and talk about Mel’s abortions!!! I mean the gull. On top of being a completely selfish, self absorbed, self centered, lying a-hole. Seriously??? Utterly disgusting.

[@KCB504]

@@Ghanaian_Princess That part!

[@thesheshed1775]

It was him "respecting" the mistress health privacy, but putting Mel's "suspected" abortions for another man for me.

[@DestinationTakeover.]

Ok how does that work 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jayaddison3160]

🎯🎯🎯

[@misskarun2548]

😩😩😩😩😩😩

[@Chicgeek88]

How she get pregnant by a man that called her a peasant

[@rhondayoung8180]

When I listened to her live she sounds like she has some loose screws coupled with low self esteem.

[@andreabrown922]

Exactly!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ he wouldn’t have been able to say a single word to me... let alone get me pregnant

[@kimlucas983]

Bc she slow asf...yet she had the nerve to call Mel slow!! He's gonna be so sorry about cheating on Mel...he's about to catch pure hell with that Peasant!!! Aka mistress/sidechick

[@Jaedoe888]

To prove that She is not a peasant.

[@dark_skindreamer4026]

@Kay You .. that part

[@ttaylor1727]

To all single people: Like Nene Leakes said, "Close Your Legs To Married Men."

[@chrisr-dq7fl]

Trash box lol

[@africanbeauty7]

And married men need to STOP chasing single women. As always, society puts the onus on the woman and coddle these grown boys in adult bodies to the grave. Men are supposed to be natural born leaders but can’t lead their penis away from women other than their wife?!Gtfoh with that misogynistic BS.

[@ttaylor1727]

​@@africanbeauty7 I agree, but as women we must know our worth and value. If women know a man is married, have self respect and don't get into an entanglement with a married man! Stop making it easy for a married man to cheat.

[@DelicatelySinfulCrochets]

@Chgo 1221 he cheated cause he could and he found a willing participant. Stop trying to blame women for what men do with their d*cks. Men will f*ck a hole in the tree if they could. Smh

[@sonyab2u974]

Lol!

[@janetdawson9327]

Martell will start to blame and resent her. She will remind him why his family is gone.

[@siddystylez]

I would have locked the cookies the moment he said I was a peasant.... Nothing could ever come back from that

[@HeyBloss]

He probably told her how it’s for the show and blah blah blah. Lies that she fell for

[@SoniaMia7]

Well unless you’re actually a peasant

[@lindaallder3662]

She liked being mentioned, she really thought he didn't mean it cuz he publicly apologized..he did. She is stupid

[@nordette]

@@SoniaMia7 very true, staying and sleeping with a man after he calls you a peasant is peasant behavior sooooo🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kendrajohnson7471]

But I Don’t Get Everyone So Appalled By Martell’s Statement of His Mistress Being A “Peasant”....Shit She Is A Damn Peasant For Messing With A Married Man!!!!!! To Hell With Her Pitiful Ass Signed A Happily Married Woman😘😘

[@blackdivine6762]

Que needs to definitely host the reunion. He's the best man for the job. Who Nessa need to call to make it happen?

[@stephaniewashington4081]

Absolutely 💯 💯 💯 💯

[@peterssister421]

👏👏👏👏

[@Ironkitten83]

Exactly

[@jamiecasey2845]

Truly

[@kaylaEA_]

Or open The Quentin Agency for PR and life snatching experiences

[@tamikorush9915]

Old Lady under the tree, please school Arriane Curry. Please also remind her that Martell didn’t leave Melody for her, he’d still be with Melody if she hadn’t left him.

[@tomikawise950]

Tamiko say it again for the people in the back front back and side to side!

[@mskfh01]

Not only that, he wants her back !!!

[@tamikorush9915]

@@mskfh01 that too

[@karynthompson4320]

He said a few times that he wants more than 1 woman and Melody took the statement as sarcasm. Oh, well.

[@motorcity313]

Facts!

[@motorolaplus6641]

A women tired of hearing she don't sexually satisfied a man u can do everything but swallow toe nails n it's still not enough sex for a cheater

[@dark_skindreamer4026]

Motorola plus.. I wish I could of press like repeatedly!!! Lol.preach

[@catherineking2751]

He's probably not satisfying her, so she's not satisfy him.

[@k.harris7993]

I remember a scene on the show where he was trying to plant the seed as if she don’t satisfy him. She said she needed someone to talk to her in bed. He said he not gonna do that. So Mr. Holt you were caught several times cheating and you wasnt giving her satisfaction. Ill be too tired to dammit.

[@MoniqueWingard]

The next heffa to make me mad is getting called "Cole Slaw!" Period! 😂

[@paulettesalomon2520]

Kevin Hunter and Martell should be friends. Sharina and Arionne could be a good support system to each other.

[@nkasi3060]

Omg I thought about this too. Two bastards!!

[@Angel-gp6tx]

😂😂😂

[@theresourcefulnp3303]

Oooooh good one

[@dark_skindreamer4026]

That part lol

[@fayberri]

Let’s talk Dineva...he has thoroughly embarrassed himself, Melanie, and his children. Praying for her to be healed and delivered from this relationship.

[@brownsugah305]

Melanie embarrassed herself. She knew he wasn't crap she should have pulled a Phaedra.

[@serenaadonis869]

@@brownsugah305 why yall keep callng her Melanie lmao

[@brownsugah305]

@@serenaadonis869 oops whats her name melody? I like her but she is playing herself. Wives don't compete with mistresses.

[@brownsugah305]

@@serenaadonis869 you gotta know your man and play your position accordingly know when to yank that darn chain.

[@sonyab2u974]

I'm praying for the kids🙏🏼💜

[@ericadinerotv]

Martell is childish and petty and he does think he’s the smartest person in the room but he’s a shallow vessel of pettiness stuck as the emotional age his father abandoned him.

[@NikkiP_Nicole]

I couldn’t get through the whole interview

[@glamourhouseofhair]

Whew!

[@77cocoa]

Exactly Erica! patiently waiting for you to do a video on this topic because you always speak facts!!!

[@michelleg6222]

I'm looking forward to hearing your opinion on this whole situation.

[@thabangmoloi3772]

Well daaang

[@SpousalPrivilege]

As an old lady sitting under the tree... children are a thirty years to LIFE sentence and btw IF the marriage ends and he promotes the side piece, then the side piece position becomes vacant once more and he will SURELY fill it! #gospelaccordingtoreality

[@HmmYeaOk]

SAY THAT AGAIN FOR THE SLAW IN THE BACK

[@GlamGoddessKe]

Facts!!!

[@michelleholliday5071]

You talking right he’s a colossal jerk

[@lexis8367]

I am a "love child" and I've never heard my issues with my dad put into words like that before. He provided financially, and he loves me BUT I simply didn't get what my legitimate and pre-marriage siblings got from him. You are 100% correct about what her child's life will look like.

[@conniemoore9576]

I'm sorry ☹️ about that for you and it definitely wasn't your fault 😔

[@huldah1605]

Sad to say but you're one of the lucky ones. Some fathers only provide financially or not at all

[@chrissy1448]

Now that’s real deep..

[@CR-ce5lf]

Same with Arnold Swazerneggar or however you spell his name, his illegitimate son still doesn’t get what his half siblings do. Many pretend he doesn’t exist like his Bible thumping MAGA half sister who claims to be so holy yet she has never spoken to him and about a year or so ago on ig she listed her siblings and he wasn’t included. The other kids don’t even acknowledge him but he and his dad seemingly now have a better relationship because they bond over fitness and are always training together.

[@JenniferKayOfficial]

I hope you have received some healing from what you did not receive from your dad during your childhood. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@hopeful1ism]

I have to say this and I don’t want to come across as condescending or anything. But, your ability to break down these situations and talk about them in such a way is brilliant. Your insight and the intelligence with which you speak about them makes me hope that you get a larger platform because the world deserves to hear from you. You’re smart, funny, and brutally honest but you speak with a level of empathy that is impressive.

[@funkydineva]

Thank u

[@msrell]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@jenjen0805]

Yesssss indeed !

[@Angelface1]

💯 % agree. Love from South Africa

[@ConceeteRose]

Facts

[@Yaya-cl3tu]

Quentin confirming that she's 7 months pregnant with a boy hurt my heart. I feel so bad for Melody. A husband having an outside baby on his wife is the lowest of low. Melody, please don't look back.

[@moka7242]

Girl, I was hoping it wasn’t true....

[@trackgrad08]

Mel been knew about chic since before the show...& stayed...so the onus is on her too.

[@aliciaknight7097]

I agree!! Once a cheater always a cheater. That tells you Montell was having unprotected sex. He could have giving his wife some tyoe of disease. I don"t blame Mel for not wanting to have sex with him. He's narcissistic!!

[@876me7]

She was tying to make it work with her husband who promised he would leave his mistress and commit to his wife! Martell is entirely responsible here so no, the onus was not on Melody. She did not cheat! He’s the one who cheated so the onus was on him to be faithful to his wife!

[@TheQueensClosetSerritha]

Exactly, Unless we are taking the word of a LIAR , she didn't cheat! And I don't believe him...I think she talking to someone else now! But, not then.

[@Themusicals123]

I don't believe Medley cheated cause he would had divorced her quickly. His ego would not been able to take it.

[@cjohnson_]

Most men WILL NOT TOLERATE it. So I'm with you. He full of shit 😳

[@phyllisgarrison3561]

Me too, because that would be the reason he leaves her.

[@cjohnson_]

@@phyllisgarrison3561 yep men won't even let you try to "explain" why. you gone soon as they find out. kids n all Chile

[@nkasi3060]

Exactly!!!!💯💯💯 A man like this would definitely not accept that

[@janicebeamon4785]

No I have heard that his family is like that. But I haven't heard Martell say that.

[@asshhdoll]

“Yo baby always gone’ be fifth in line...” WOOOOOOOOOOOOO BOOOOOI

[@ninadrake2167]

He was dropping all kinds of wisdom!

[@Savoringlifesjourney]

#facts

[@MrsReed817]

You need to be paid for this therapy session.

[@simonejohnson7582]

He don’t have control and it’s killing him and he feeds of hurting Mel .

[@michelleelmore5533]

That’s what I see his ego is hurting because he saw himself as the prize. He didn’t think Mel would ever leave.So now he’s throwing his other bm and melody under the bus. He is in such denial of what he’s done and he will affect his kids in the long run. He’s not becoming unraveled his ego is jacking him up... the fact he had hoped funky Dineva would ask for an interview.. 😳TF?! Why what for?

[@trackgrad08]

@@michelleelmore5533 he’s a narc, that’s why

[@brooklynforever1990]

There👆🏼it is

[@clarissan1991]

He thought that because Dr. Heavenly has traditional views on relationships and marriage, she was going to be on his side. But Dr. Heavenly respectfully schooled him on how flawed and immature his logic is. I was worried that Heavenly was going to let him slide, but I was pleasantly surprised. Once he realized Dr. Heavenly wasn’t falling for his bs he was so ready to end that interview. Listening to him talk was soooo cringe. Martell is a big fish in a little pond and that’s all he will be able to be. He needs people around him that will applaud him for the basics in order to feel good about himself. People like Martell scare me.

[@deeyoung4583]

Reminds you of 45 doesn’t it?!

[@trackgrad08]

Scares me too!

[@yasb5966]

He's the epitome of a narcissist!

[@geocyo8835]

yeah. it's like no one has told him his shit stinks, too.

[@April-201]

Facts!

[@Bri-pb5ph]

2 years later Funky’s assessment of Martel is spot on . I didn’t see it then but I see it now . Wow !

[@reneexoxo1]

Being a narcissist he will NEVER see it ....Martel is suffering from a narcissistic injury because he was decarded by mel now he needs supply so he's probably getting from arionne temporarily. He projects the blame and doesn't want to be held accountable for his actions..he has no empathy..and arionne girl you in danger ..karma is real

[@violakennedy9444]

He is so bitter, Mel does not even talk about him. He is the worst

[@Kilala.6029]

Q don’t save him, he don’t want to be saved. Next thing you know he will be talking bad about you.

[@exertionathletics5353]

She talks about him all the time, it was her who wanted to bring this story to the show. This affair wasn’t nee

[@tamarareed8286]

Yes she does.

[@ShaShaVirgo]

Exactly. Mel was smart to move away, because he may try to physically harm her since his other attempts to get back at her have failed and he won't take responsibility for the mess his life is. He's still in denial, when he can't deny anymore he's going to be dangerous

[@iamashby6479]

If Melody did not want to abort her last child with her HUSBAND, then there is nothing wrong with that. Mel knew that the last baby was not gonna keep him faithful when the previous 3 babies did not. She had her baby out of love for her baby. If anyone was stupid, it was Arionne for getting pregnant with a married father of FOUR kids

[@Royal_Tee001]

Arionne wanted to prove to the world that she was still involved with Martell... very stupid

[@shawnee1881]

@@Royal_Tee001 agreed Takira. She wanted to show us that she is still with him.

[@opensecret629]

Unfortunately like DINEVA said Arrione’s baby is gonna be 5th in line

[@iamashby6479]

@@opensecret629 People get pissed with me when I say this, but when you have a side baby, you as the mom are being very selfish because you are not thinking about all the extra shit your child is going to have to deal with. Melody's kids are going to be the elite kids, the cream of the crop.

[@showlette89]

@@iamashby6479 and they’re going to treat her kid like shit! FOREVER!!!

[@MedusaShowOFF]

THIS!!! This is a constructive way to criticize black men and women, while still holding them accountable. I loveeeee when you do this! and i also love what you said about the coleslaw reference, while it is funny as hell (lol) its also l very true! I feel like Melody is the chicken, the kids are the potatoes and Arione is definitely the slaw. It's the classic 80/20 rule.

[@christineowori750]

Righttttt?!!!

[@peterssister421]

Pow!

[@luvsgod2]

yes!!! 80/20 rule all day!! I'm having flashbacks about the movie 'Why did I get Married?" lol!

[@jonsenejohnson2035]

Unfortunately, this is way too common amongst the Black community within the inner city. Black share their men and never hold the men accountable. We fight each other while the man is just watching and smiling.

[@thebrownbelle]

It’s the 80/20...Arionne is the 20% he was missing. She’ll never be more than the 20 to this man. He is the problem. Any “man” this immature and in denial ain’t good for much.

[@arw426]

All money ain't good money. That mistress would not be on my show. She better stay silent & in the background like a mistress is supposed to do. Mel got other avenues of success, she doesn't have to deal with that mess

[@itsmebedazzle]

You better say! I'll be damn if I pay her anything and give her a platform. Hell, Mel already gave the side chick her husband.

[@ABHigherPower]

Not “Mel was the bucket of chicken and the mashed potatoes and Arionne was the cold slaw”. 😂🤣😂 You read this whole situation to the core and said some true facts!!!

[@kaprinalove809]

I fell out! He spoke that!!

[@jamiengaddis8416]

He sure did!

[@chantee118]

Honey not some nasty forgotten side coleslaw ...lmao

[@tawanaroberts239]

Girl , I laughed so hard 😂😂

[@Ophilly1]

That was a WORD!!!! Do Jesus!!!!

[@ladydonna5395]

What he also fails to realize is that his arrogance, irresponsibility and him just being a straight up liar will also start to affect his professional life as well. He is in a unique situation as this is all playing out on TV so everyone can actually see it. He has probably lost potential business and doesn't even know it because of his reputation. It a shame and a scandal

[@nicholestewart9535]

This is what I was thinking. No one wants to do business with a liar and a swindler.

[@Goldentoast77]

It might. But maybe not. There are many, many women that are wanting and willing to be “coleslaw” and there are plenty men who think just like him. Men don’t face the scrutiny that women do. His business may suffer some but not much.

[@nosnoop1]

It already is, Marsau alluded to it in the second half of the first season. Plus in one of Marsau's videos he talked about when they were being vetted by the hotel owners in one of the meetings the man came with transcripts and questions. The man also gave them some advice to remember that everything they do n say on TV is there forever. I would not trust Martell to give me an honest quote on anything nor would I trust him to build me a house without taking shortcuts.

[@scovyaporsha777]

@@nosnoop1 I wouldn't even trust him to put the rubbish out in the right place. Vile man

[@nonameface4886]

Right, it begs the question if you can do this to your wife what will you do to me?

[@tamikorush9915]

Just because he said she had one doesn’t mean she did. I wouldn’t believe anything Martell says if his tongue came notarized

[@thetravelhottie]

WHEWWWWW

[@karensaturday5056]

Notarized! Now that was funny!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@jazmineellis1]

😂😂😂😩

[@chucktownQT]

💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@maniandbuddymama7548]

😂😂

[@ferdinand1705]

"You stay in the refrigerator, cause ya got mayonaise in ya. So stay as well preserved asyou possibly can." 👀👀😭😭😭😭 I'm hollering. This is a word.

[@debbiegwynn2113]

Why would you want Melody to validate the side chicken? Melody is not money hungry...she d

[@debbiegwynn2113]

does not do everything and anything for a dollar. She has scruples, integrity and morals

[@lindasimms652]

@@debbiegwynn2113 I'm just watching this interview. I agree it's not all about the "Benjamins". I pray Melody NEVER agree to put Coleslaw on the show. The show in itself has deviated from it's original intent in the first place. That was bad advice to offer coleslaw come on the show to boost ratings. What does it profit a woman to gain all the money she can make and lose her integrity and degrade herself and the show. I would rather see it cancelled.

[@DS-hq9ob]

Wow that KFC reference was the best analogy I've heard for cheating men and mistresses.

[@sherlanaharris5480]

Baby that line "the quickest way to get rid of a man is to get pregnant by him" . Thats the realest statement, I've seen that happen time and time again!!!

[@mssan2016]

Yep and women still settling for baby mama status. lts embarrassing!

[@misszcharmsz3527]

That is so true

[@f3042]

@@mssan2016 This is why you get married first! Societies KNOW men may leave after kids arrive. The marriage means he acknowledges financial responsibility for you and the child WHATEVER happens. Spousal support and child support. Having kids out of wedlock is literally hustling backwards because there are no guarantees in place. Smh

[@shiirenesims6250]

Correction, THE quickest way to get rid of a BOY, is to have a baby by him. The physical male anatomy does not make him a MAN. There are A lot of over grown BOYS walking around.

[@f3042]

@Kay You Lol Providers can leave, too. Plenty of women in nice big houses in the suburbs who are living off of SPOUSAL SUPPORT. 50% of marriages end in divorce. But many of those divorcées receive a lump sum and/or monthly spousal support until they remarry. That’s why you marry before children. If he leaves you are still compensated for the TIME you spent with him. It’s easier for men to remarry and create new families later in life; not as easy for women. That’s why you see men getting remarried to younger women. You don’t see older women snatching up younger men. Lol This is why many wealthy men aren’t afraid of marriage. If it doesn’t work out, they make sure their ex is “taken care of” while they go find a younger/different woman. Perfect example: Jeff Bezos’ recent divorce. Left his wife for another woman. He can ultimately marry someone half his age! His ex wife is now the richest woman in the world. What guy is going to marry her and follow Jeff Bezos? Literally no man can compare or elevate her. But he made sure he left her with enough money to be set for life. If she never remarries she’ll still live a comfortable, safe life. In the past a man had to marry you to have access to your body and have the privilege of creating his own family. If he left you there was hell to pay. Popping out kids out of wedlock is tough for us because there is nothing holding that man accountable if he suddenly decides he wants to leave. Marriage.First. Marriage protects women, not men.

[@tamikorush9915]

Q you said it perfectly, he’s just mad and shocked that Mel left him and seems to be doing good without him.

[@jessnails845]

I agree that Arionne didn’t win shit lol. Martell won’t claim her and clearly doesn’t respect her...He wouldn’t even call by her name, he just called her the mistress lol. If he was going to “choose” her, he would’ve done it already and not waited until his wife left him to do so...The smartest thing Melody could’ve done was leave him and let him be Arionne’s problem now.

[@swallacegray2013]

Arionne "coleslaw" will calling be Melody for advice on how to deal with cheating ass Martell, nope u wanted him so now deal it, u knew he was a cheater when u met him...

[@blackgirlmagic9487]

Once a cheater always a cheater ...arionne gained NOTHING & now it’s kids on both sides in the middle of this mess 🙄

[@essence174]

He called her a freaking peasant on national tv! Why she continued to be with him I don’t know!

[@jessnails845]

@@essence174 I’ll never understand it lol. Like FD he wouldn’t be allowed to sniff this cookie much less impregnate me.🤣🤣

[@4bfam]

@@essence174 Considering she wilfully become a mistress, her state of mind isn't that of a woman who thinks highly of herself.

[@IamHeavenSpillman]

And just like that, Coleslaw was born 😂

[@makewash]

Funky Dineva I am a fan!!😂😂 I've gone down this rabbit hole of watching ALLLL of your videos!!! Thanks for helping my workday go by faster!!❤❤

[@tplouis]

Me currently 😂

[@shanalashay1129]

i didn’t watch the interview, but imma definitely watch you talk about it!

[@walkbyfaithandbudget5718]

Same

[@MsGlamorous2008]

That part !!

[@sheraii]

Yes!

[@hy-lonews350]

😂😂

[@llatoya85]

yes!!

[@southernlady6244]

Mel doesn't have to explain anything to no one about any abortions. She had four children. Her decision on not having one or two more is her business.

[@Titanium_Medic]

He should have NEVER put that info out. He has no respect for anyone!!

[@sacredmoongoddess7591]

@@nneoma6106 l don’t believe she cheated. There is no way in hell he would have stayed with her had she cheated! He would have dumped her and blasted her! Men rarely ever stay with women who cheat on them especially men like Martell!

[@harleypage5789]

Exactly 💯

[@jojosaylor8996]

I feel her pain 😰

[@veronicamunroe8260]

He got her confused with Coleslaw with the 2 abortions. Mel stated she had one when she knew she was leaving him.

[@Get_fitwith_Dee]

Funky Bunch Checking in Hoody Hooooo 🙋🏾‍♂️🙋🏾‍♂️🙋🏾‍♂️🙋🏾‍♂️

[@shadequeen7526]

Hooody Hoooo!! 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@dominicanprincess2051]

Hooooody HOOOO 🙋🏽🙋🏽🙋🏽🙋🏽

[@reddwarrior2249]

Imma be different Spooookkyyy booooo 😝

[@LuvScorpio]

HOOODY HOOOO🙋🏾‍♀️😊

[@fairisfair2986]

Come on master p hoodyyyyyy

[@Untitled0752]

That line about having a baby by a man and losing him only applies to black American men.

[@MzCharzlifestyle]

Funky Dineva you are THE BEST!! You broke this thing ALL THE WAY DOWN!! This was a whole counseling session! Loved it!!

[@siddystylez]

Did you catch the tea Arian was the one playing secretary and publicist but he said he doesn't talk to her

[@ajskolskxpck]

He didn't but I did, I said that's a damn dead give away that he has been seeing her .that's why he was hunched over in the chair and laughing because he was lying.

[@mammajamma4397]

I caught that 🤣🤣🤣

[@KayKayLuv]

They are both slow and deserve each other

[@sharonwalker1250]

Exactly, but he haven't seen or talk to her,.but he want people to believe him. He didn't know this was going to be told. He needs to except his faults and stick to the sidechick because they are no match for Melody just only to one another because they're both dummies!!!!

[@missdrgirlfriend]

ooh, that woman doesn't know who Mary J Blige is, and it shows.

[@gwim723]

This is why I rock with you Q!! You give us the breakdown and reads with a side of Life!!

[@opensecret629]

I totally agree! I love Funky's commentary, intelligent, fair, thought- provoking and down right keeping it real.

[@sharonwalker1250]

@@opensecret629 yes he did a great job, broke it down so well he would have told Martell the same truth!!

[@clarissan1991]

Arionne does not care about Martell. She likes the status and the clout being with him gives her in her little pond. They always go to the woman that requires less. At this point she will never be able to demand more from him. He will never claim her.

[@t.walker8641]

Facts!!

[@scovyaporsha777]

Wow.. Well said

[@phyllisgarrison3561]

She knows he is a dumb ass, that's why she is pregnant!

[@clarissan1991]

@@phyllisgarrison3561 basically he is easy money for her.

[@Angel-gp6tx]

Who cares about being claimed by an idiot like him. Mel was claimed and was still treated like she wasn't enough AND on tv. Who is he to want to be claimed by...some women be so caught up in being claimed as some man's wife...meanwhile her husband's penis can be claimed by several women before and after the marriage.

[@latresemilton6729]

I'm watching you without even watching the interview because I know you're going to give me everything I need to know.

[@vengeanceisminesaiththeLord]

I can watch this all day,every day. This is my third time watching. I love how you break this down. You really need to have your own TV show and help guide these lost souls out here. Everything you talk about is always on point. Stay bless.

[@shesmit30]

Q you need to host the reunion for this show!!! Tell Carlos to stop playing!

[@karensaturday5056]

Outstanding idea, we could get down to the real tea!!

[@msladystarr]

That part 🎯

[@sydneylazard1122]

Women in relationships are so conditioned to giving up everything inside of them and giving over their autonomy to a man. when women take their autonomy back, men can't process that and they do INDEED lash out. you're so right

[@umichgal1]

Women need to hold on to their autonomy regardless of marital status.

[@MegaSpaceMolly]

@@umichgal1 But they never do and that’s why they end up in situations like this.

[@naturale.7980]

I completely agree with you!! Where is the logic in exposing private information on the mother of your children, yet you protect the privacy of your pregnant mistress? Men like him don’t care that when you hurt your children’s mother you hurt them; if she is not okay the children are not okay! I don’t believe anything he says about Melody because a man like him would have said those things on the show if they were true!! Bye liar liar 🤥

[@lilbaby245]

That made no sense to me either. It was disgusting to watch him disparage Melody, but want to protect his mistress. He ain't shyt.

[@feliciawatson8095]

Preach sis. I was so disgusted by him

[@naturale.7980]

@@feliciawatson8095 i was too it was sickening to watch.

[@doowremaerd215]

@@lilbaby245 he ain’t protecting her, he’s “attempting” to disassociate himself from her publicly. Ol girl helping him on his press run to ruin Mel because he’s bitter but she don’t even realize his real angle.

[@mahoganyjoy3502]

@@doowremaerd215 That whole last part. She wanted to dog Mel in the beginning and ended up dogging herself and having to quit her job because too many ppl found out after her ig live videos. Now she about to bust all swollen running around helping his dirty ass dog her too. Woo Lawd! She ain't seen nothing yet. Karma just now peeping the scene.

[@smartkookie]

He is sooo out of touch with the real world along with the mistress. It's pathetic.

[@Metaphysicalmindspace777]

Martell is showing us exactly who he is! He’s a narcissist that plays Jedi mind tricks! He’s a shapeshifter. Melody should have stopped at 1 kid, if that!!,,

[@conniemoore9576]

Not a shape shifter 😅😅

[@blendedbutnotbrokenbowensf4617]

I live in Huntsville and whew chile that’s all I’ll say about that. This side chic is sad. First you lie about seeing him and now you’re calling trying to get interviews for him to bash his wife. What in the hell do you think he’s going to do to you? Martell sad and I hope Mel take him for everything he has. He already moved 30,000 from a joint account to his own personal account. This whole road to fame has really messed up people’s lives.

[@lemonlover9164]

Only for him NOT to claim her A$$ in the interview, lol That's what she get!

[@iamashby6479]

Bein Bowens, she thinks she is special and different chile. And with this new baby, she really believes it. And he took that money from his and Mel's kids for this upcoming baby. No Sir

[@blendedbutnotbrokenbowensf4617]

@@lemonlover9164 Right! It’s really ghetto at this point lol

[@blendedbutnotbrokenbowensf4617]

@@iamashby6479 she look crazy as hell at this point and she’s about to get her karma when this baby come because his bald head ass gone be on to the next one lol

[@iamashby6479]

@@blendedbutnotbrokenbowensf4617 I am just not understanding why Arionne is wasting her youth on this man. All those doctors and PA's at her job and in the medical community that are single or have single colleagues she could get with, yet she chooses Martell with a wife and kids?

[@crownjewel832]

Their reality show is the BEST thing that happened to their marriage and Mel’s self esteem. The exposure gave Mel and their marriage the constant scrutiny, public embarrassment and courage to FINALLY say NO MORE! Praying for Mel and ALL of the children 🙏🏾

[@amab1853]

Yup. It gave Melody a new level of confidence. And she also had women who watch the show rooting her on. That ultimately helped Melody leave Martell. The fact that she moved to ATL, is a new chapter for her. She is a boss and will continue to find success without Martell. It's unfortunate her husband continued to embarrass her

[@iamashby6479]

My grandma used to always say a baby don't keep a man if he don't want you

[@morena85]

Right--if anything it seems like it would lead to resentment, not stepping up to be responsible...

[@iamashby6479]

@@morena85 She used to say that because she said she knew women who thought if they got pregnant, the man would leave his wife/gf for her. She also said a baby does not repair a relationship either

[@elliedee8829]

" I suggest you stay in the refrigerator...because you know you got mayonnaise in you." OMG I gagged!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@daniemoy]

This man said "stay in the refrigerator" and I feel out of my chair. LMAO!

[@SoulfulMentality]

The way I’m crying because you said “All you can offer is coleslaw” with such a sincere tone lmaooo.

[@KayKayLuv]

That coleslaw read hurt my feelings and I don’t have nothing to do with this 🤦🏽‍♀️😞

[@LC-uz6em]

😂

[@sunshineflowers3320]

Now THAT’S funny!!!! 😂😂😂

[@DestinationTakeover.]

😂😂 Right!! Close that fridge you got mayo in you 😂

[@teeharris9549]

Why

[@teeharris9549]

DL

[@ajah.1855]

“You can’t turn cole slaw into chicken” vegans: “want to see a trick”

[@JourneytoJazmine]

🤣🤣🤣 facts

[@eb166]

I'm vegan, & I approve this message (but not her side-chick role) 😂😂

[@ajah.1855]

@@eb166 😂😂 me tooo

[@lovinkels1]

🤣🤣🤣

[@msrell]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@livia8227]

And the world has called her COLESLAW ever since!!!!

[@MzMJ77]

Dr. Heavenly’s interview shows what’s wrong with his end of whatever romantic relationship he may find himself in currently or in the future. I think women need to keep away from Martell Holt. You won’t find respect or appreciation with him.

[@CrookedSmilez83]

Did you catch when he was so happy that a billion women would be happy to date him ????? Women Run !

[@princessbc9791]

@@numberone6266 Or a desperate dummy with low self-esteem.

[@Goldentoast77]

Women are throwing themselves at him!

[@804smiles]

@@Goldentoast77 and I don't understand why bc he not an unattractive guy but that head has always given me 5th Element teas 🤔 lol well I guess I'm biased bc I never been n2 dudes so I'm not goin give him too much tho lol

[@MzMJ77]

@@numberone6266 💯I think his karma is coming

[@chrystlaw1]

I can’t STAND a scapegoating person. Like really dude? A 5 year affair is a damn relationship. That’s not an accident, a mistake that’s a whole choice for 5 years. He’s lucky his wife put up with it for that long cause that’s ridiculous as hell.

[@blackgirljoy8742]

No, he's a gaslighter.

[@DelicatelySinfulCrochets]

@Kay You he did, until Mel found out when Arionne called his phone and had the nerve to ask for him. If I was Mel I would have threw the phone out the window. You think I would have passed the phone to him??

[@max8038]

Imagine having to deal with him in real life. He's really delusional

[@FoodtourswithYG]

Dineva, you really should consider offering paid consulting services if you are not doing so already. 🤑👌

[@nightangel3578]

Honey... there are so many coleslaw women out here going bad and rotting away chasing after someone that'll never be there's. Those kids will only matter to the mother.

[@Simlicity09]

Funny Arian calls you but he tells heavenly they aren’t talking

[@Martin-oq5bg]

Right!

[@April-201]

Exactly 🤔

[@kenfaye3030]

Yes

[@saracoleman6912]

First things first!! I said the same thing!

[@atny8379]

That part!

[@ktnixon81]

A side piece is the fun and freedom so when a side piece has a baby, she ain’t fun and free no mo’. He gone be gone hella soon!

[@taccora]

Yup, we learned this in the 80s from Rosanne Barr in She-Devil "men who burn so hot for a mistress cool off fast once the mistress starts acting like a wife"

[@kiesh82]

He cheated for 5 years, weren’t they married for 10? Damn! That’s a one sided polygamous relationship forreal.

[@TheWifeStepford]

That’s 5 yrs we only knew about, that man pattern says he cheated their entire relationship. Even before marriage 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@2BGMedia]

I think it was 14 years.

[@kimberlybates27]

@Jackie Wright Disagree completely only because of Martel's narcissistic character his ego would not allow melody to have an outside relationship without him attempting to Assassinate her character & questioning her parenting. He's already embarrassed & humiliating her publicly with his infidelities but now he's hitting below the belt . He's aware she's is entertaining someone and that's why the gloves are off . It's a typical pattern of a self absorbed, narcissist individual. Most women are so broken under these circumstances having an intimate relationship is extremely far fetched. Having someone to talked to & lift there spirits up is about all they can tolerate, their to consumed w/guilt & embarrassment to form an outside relationship. Martell is having a melt down because he no longer has control of Mel heart. Just my observation 😌

[@jasminecampbell9105]

Periodt

[@Damami4U]

@@TheWifeStepford facts

[@chocolatecheesecak3]

"He sees a ghoul, a goblin, and a witch on a broom." ⚰💀😂

[@LolaJay_]

Beans, greens, potatoes, tomatoes! 🤣🤣🤣

[@octaviabrown1041]

"Your baby gone always be 5th in line" ouch, that hurts!

[@ebonym.8196]

Dr. Heavenly's interview with Martell revealed how little he thinks of women. When kept REPEATING that if women does not want to be cheated on, to 'take care of your man,' it was like he sees us a hole, a mouth, and a baby pusher. That's it. I'm so tired of women not being respected. Gay men respect us more than straight men. Whiskey, tango, foxtrot?

[@sterlingjoseph4385]

G.a.y. men hate women more. They just need women because hetero men do not pay them any mind.

[@k1reinvented39]

They see us as a three hole wonder

[@Seekpeace66]

The side chick better run.🤣

[@celeste8271]

That whole thing with Mel cheated sounded like some BS! Why in the world would he agree to their initial storyline being him cheating and not mentioning hers IF thats what she really did.

[@CrookedSmilez83]

He was talking in circles about it without concrete examples a lot of for instances. He is disgusting !

[@Y-burnell]

Exactly

[@dBarb1999]

Money. $$$$$$$

[@misskon6688]

🗣🗣🗣 “You can’t turn coleslaw into chicken.” MESSAGE.

[@journeywithJasmineplus3]

I have to be honest because you are speaking to me Que. This was my situation but he had a girlfriend instead. And 3 almost 4 years later my son still comes in last so everything he said is so true. I truly broke down and cried and found a brand new understanding... Thank you Que.

[@LaTreseSheffield]

It all boils down to the 80/20 rule that people speak up. Arione provided the 20% he was missing. And it cost him the 80

[@dayefubu1]

Dude u broke that shyt down I'm impressed with your thought process Blessings

[@abeja0201]

OMG 😆 "Arian you coleslaw" "you will never be a bucket of chicken" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@norasmith3554]

I'm glad that Mel got the strength to save her own life. It's quite obvious that Martell has unprotected sex with this woman, while he has a wife (and family) at home. He could've bought home any STD, including HIV....that's narcissistic ignorance.

[@Caliguurl510]

Oooh weeee…say it louder for Ms. Arionne 🗣 I hope she watched this! Ain’t no way I’m gonna lay up with someone AGAIN after being publicly humiliated!

[@9victors]

You twisted some logic here my brotha by your disapproval of his excuse for cheating yet you turn right around and almost praise Melody for cheating with someone he knows. You and Dr. Heavenly both can go somewhere with that b.s. Martell was was low hanging fruit and it’s very easy to admonish him. But Melody needs correction as well. This why a lot of men don’t go to counseling because they know that it’s gonna be one sided. They both came from broken homes and give Martell kudos for staying and sitting in those counseling sessions that we did see but Melody quit her session when that counselor started digging into her childhood. She’s got some issues too.

[@Caliguurl510]

@@9victors I think you replied on the wrong comment

[@shondawilson7079]

I seen Jamal at the airport and he was lookin GOOt. And after listening to this video for the 50/11th time, I thank you for your insight on narcissists. What's sad for us/me who are still recovering from person and have had to recover from others is that you hand only begun to scratch the surface of what we've been through and what, hopefully only some of us still deal with bcuz of our own self developed naiveté. I learned more than 5 years ago that there are other women of different languages and across contents they are going thru or have gone thru that are of the same specific experiences. So glad us women are waking up. We're also leveling up as a trauma response to this type of behavior. This video is much needed. Idc how old it is or how many times I've watched it. Ppl will really be out here making you feel crazy, immature (and I'm a fine gma of two, plus two daughters who I am trying to get to avoid this type of person. But I had to be the one to learn first, and I'll be that... I'll take that. ❤ Anyways, thank you.

[@shondawilson7079]

I would love to be on your show one day. The one you have without the others, but I do miss y'all together, but at the same time I very much understand. ❤

[@fromthattothis]

Baby if that ain't a Narcissist!!! I'm currently healing from one...they are very dangerous!

[@kiesh82]

You broke it down. I don’t see how Mel hung in there with him as long as she did with his narcissistic ass. At the same time they got engaged within a year of dating and married the next year. They didn’t get to know each other plus she was young. As much as ppl like to say “it don’t take a man long to know he wants to marry you” there’s something to be said for taking the time to get to know someone before getting married.

[@kittynyc27]

Time really do not matter. A person's character does. I am sure this man showed her his true colors way before they got married and she chose to ignore it out of desperation on wanting a man. The rose colored glasses had no choice but to be knocked off after so many signs that God gave her. He knew that she was a doormat and would get away with anything because she allowed it. The #1 reason why men do the things they do is because the women allowed it. It's obvious this man loves himself than his family

[@kiesh82]

@@kittynyc27 time does matter. If you get engaged at 6 months it’s easy to get wrapped up in the whirlwind of planning a wedding etc and not evaluate a person’s character. Marking a lifelong commitment shouldn’t be rushed into.

[@kittynyc27]

@@kiesh82 There are people out there thats been in relationships longer than a year and divorced quickly or went thru the same circumstances as these two characters. Then there are people who known each other for less and last longer than that.. at the end of day, it all depends on the people involved. Not saying it happens often or it is the right thing to do but it happens. 6 months is way too short of time to get married but it happens to some folks and could last. I know a couple who knew each other for 4 months before marrying and still married 17 yrs later. Based on what I have witnessed, a person's character matters the most

[@kiesh82]

@@kittynyc27 I didn’t say time in and of itself guarantees a lasting marriage. I’m saying it takes time to get to know someone. That’s just a fact. There’s people that have walked across the street without looking both ways and didn’t get by a car...doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be done.

[@candicebkhaman7365]

I love seeing a true "Narcissist" losing their control over a situation they they ultimately created - and now wants to deflect everything towards Mel... the typical route that narcissistic people take

[@Ashdaesq]

facts...it's called a smear campaign!!! He tried to destroy her reputation because all the lights and cameras were on him... He's weak af

[@swiftjustice04]

The sad part about is sometimes they can be dangerous.

[@kiristenb2013]

He was trying to scandalize her name, but the thing is after all he's done we Don't care. And a man is suppose to be a protector so why try to tell the world she had an abortion like why smh he's a sad case. Saying she's cheated with the lawyer at this point sooo..like I can't with him.

[@dubyas4430]

he sounded just like an immature child. He thought his looks would make up for the lack of character....aint nobody checking for his immature, silly, simple, as$

[@Tasha8626]

Well although what he said was wrong, his ex wife began spewing his business. From doing lives and a dis track. So it’s honestly fair game. Both of them are a mess.

[@christinefranklin9878]

STANDING OVATION!!! You broke the skeleton down to the bone marrow.

[@aprilbadger51]

"Stay in the refrigerator" I'm dead!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@melbel10333]

Ooooo weeee chile. WANNA TALK ABOUT IT? HERE IT GO!