Mary and Matthew | A Turbulent First Season | Downton Abbey

[@Obi-Wan_Kenobi]

Matthew was an irreplaceable part of this show. It was never the same after his death because something crucial was missing from the cast, the dynamics, and even the themes. Matthew was all those things that were missing, the show was simply incomplete without him.

[@tinavino1575]

He had to go away. So Mary got a baby heir and his money, and would rule Downton in facto for 20 years.

[@genesis1765]

because represented us someone outside the downton family. they said that season 3 had already been written for Mathew but he decided no.

[@The_Curious_Cat]

Indeed, it was quite the unfortunate event to see him go.

[@cellpat2686]

Matthew made Mary click. It went beyond the actors having a winning natural chemistry.

[@boleslavblack]

это правда

[@anikam5087]

8:18 "We should see more of each other," Gosh, Matthew's way of flirting is so adorable!😂 Subtle and classy and gentlemanly, yet making it very clear how he feels about her.

[@dave29123]

my favorite scene of the entire show.

[@arivanilla]

I love that he's always hinting he had no interest in her sisters, and only flirting with her

[@fabulouschild2005]

Speech 100

[@brunasabino1795]

They were perfect for each other 🥺

[@anikam5087]

They are soulmates ♥️

[@mbbno]

No they were not. Mary was a terrible person. Never understood why anyone was interested in her other than the money and estate.

[@brunasabino1795]

@@mbbno I agree to some extent. Mary really wasn't an easy person to live with but she was always loyal and true to the people who mattered most to her. The love between her and Matthew was something pure and genuine, even if she showed her darker side to others like Edith. It's not because we have the same blood as someone that we will necessarily have a deep connection. Mary was terrible to Edith most of the time but I can understand that through her upbringing.

[@teresitaelidasantillan4099]

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[@whatsit177]

I understand Matthews statement however when he saw Mary he was certainly taken aback with her beauty

[@ithikithik]

I wish that Dan Stevens didn't leave the show back then. Matthew and Mary is really a perfect match.

[@Jake.03-g3k]

1:24 😂😭 Mary's face when she realises it was the dowgers idea

[@l.a.3479]

*dowager*

[@Shusha0029]

Mary's riding gear in the first scene is so fly! 😍

[@mayat9583]

Dan stevens can act any role so perfectly..such an underrated actor ❤❤

[@golinou5097]

I will never get over Matthew's death

[@MandieTerrier]

You probably already know by now. Dan Stevens wanted to leave the show.

[@golinou5097]

@@MandieTerrier I know... It's still sad though

[@MandieTerrier]

@@golinou5097 he's done well, though

[@golinou5097]

@@MandieTerrier Indeed he has

[@Obi-Wan_Kenobi]

Yes. I understand that the actor wanted to leave but the fact is, the story needed Matthew. More than just the characters, the show felt incomplete without him.

[@SS11660]

Love how he was so taken with her immediately after declaring he wasnt interested in the daughters.

[@cindyn7512]

It's funny that I had to rewatch the scene where they meet years later to realizes that the Mathew character went absolutely slack jawed when she walked in the room. The first time I saw the scene the only thing that registered was his embarrassment over what he said not meant for her ears.

[@Elizabeth-hc3mi]

First scene: I DON'T want to marry one of the daughters Very next scene: She's not paying me any attention 😭😭

[@thelmaterai7431]

Their chemistry is palpable!❤ LOVE, LOVE Matthew and Mary's characters in Downton Abbey!!!!

[@anikam5087]

Who else has a crush on Matthew?

[@MsCamiRae]

The way Matthew looks at her before they kiss ….wow

[@happycook6737]

It is so difficult to remember they are only actors. It seems so real.

[@claireturnbull7719]

Matthew is simply lovely,his smile,blue eyes❤His final scene was so traumatic 💔

[@cindyn7512]

I loved Dan Stevens as Mathew Crawley, especially how he made the character drip with charm so the whole world couldn't resist falling in love with Mathew right along with Mary's character. But after seeing him in almost all his projects after Downton he is truly one of my favorite actors. His comedy role in the Eurovision Song Contest movie-- brilliant and completely unexpected. Or his perfectly calibrated performance as a robot in I'm Your Man -- As an actor he's a chameleon! He was right, we were wrong -- Stevens knew he could have had a long lucrative career playing some version of Mathew Crawley over and over again, but how much nicer to see him in new ways flexing his acting chops for our entertainment.

[@jimin-ssibangtansmind7230]

Te diré esto y espero que lo traduzcas. Amo a Matthew, y como fan odio que se haya retirado del proyecto, pero fue una buena decisión para él como actor. Supe de su existencia por Aubrey Plaza, ya que ella aparece en Legion. Y tengo la firme creencia de que todos o al menos la mayoría de actores de D.A están infravalorados. Yo estoy obsesionada en este momento con Michelle Dockery, y he visto Godless, una miniserie western que ella protagonizó y Good Behaviour, una serie de 2 temporadas. Y me sorprende muchísimo la versatilidad que posee. Espero verla en un papel dramático, ojalá junto a Sarah Snook o alguna mujer increíble, me parece estúpido que con todo el calibre que tiene solo haya estado nominada a premios y no haberlos ganado. Ademas, me encanta que ella hace las películas de D.A porque le gusta su personaje y le gusta el cast, y siempre es lo suficientemente humilde para aceptar que gracias a D.A tiene todo lo que hasta ahora ha conseguido.

[@NicoleHaschke]

Agree with this so much. As sad as it was that he left the show so early and shattered the perfect love story with Mary, he's built exactly the sort of career he wanted-- avoiding being typecast and becoming a real chameleon. Walking away from such a hit was a huge risk, but it's paid off for him, and I'm honestly really happy for him.

[@confusedperson2468]

They are so perfect together, amazing storyline 😍

[@lauraricci62]

I love this storyline, there are all the ingredients of a great love. In the season 1 their relationship is very difficult and keeps us in suspense! They must overcome misunderstandings, difficulties, pride and prejudices!!! They are very conditioned by what their social role requires them and Mary matures only in the end and can not forgive herself for the affair Pamuk ... But what is immediately clear is that they are destined to love each other... Thanks for this video

[@Trav-ij]

Oh how I wish we had one more season with Matthew.

[@erintheegg4819]

in my head matthew didnt die and theyre running downton together

[@dizzydaisy9889]

You and me both 🥺

[@romulusthemainecoon3047]

Definitely. She softened so much when she was with him and he could have been an ally for Lady Edith!

[@SerenaOkoli]

Mary's instant reaction to Sir Anthony is just HILARIOUS! Mary!!! 😂😂😂

[@raraavis7782]

I just can't get over how beautiful Mary looked at the beginning of the series. The dresses, the hairstyles... everything suited her perfectly. Somehow she never looked as good in the post WWI fashion, imo.

[@Christy__M]

I agree. I always thought that change was made to represent the pain and struggles in her life that made her more harsh, hurt and wounded…versus when she was young, innocent and naive.

[@raraavis7782]

@@Christy__M That's an interesting take. I mean, with her figure type, she should have looked great in 20s fashion, really. So that's not it. But some of the outfits, they put her in, were downright dowdy. Nothing the fashionable and somewhat vain Mary would have chosen, imo. Even as a mother and estate manager. But maybe it was meant to show, that even quite a while after Mathew's death, she was still somewhat withdrawn from the world.

[@EughhBrothereughh]

Omg those hideous 1920s outfits and her short hair. Eh

[@vickenator]

I never watched the show but have seen quite a few clips on YT and that bang-bob they had her wear towards the end of the series was simply tragic. Very aging look for her.

[@katherinewilson1853]

@@raraavis7782 Yes. They were chosen to show her role in the world, whereas Edith began to bloom.

[@yojiviriak675]

Greatest TV couple of our times

[@LilianaVelascoAriza]

Just love Mary

[@ladyanime100]

Why?

[@waverlyphillips2849]

Throws her grandmother under the bus at 12:17 🤣🤣🤣. If they would have gotten married in Season one they would have ended up losing Downton Abbey by season three.

[@rr7firefly]

Mary: 'Women like me don't have a life. We choose clothes and pay calls and work for charity and do the season." So many women like that in Junior League. The smart ones avoid all that, move to another city far from their families and social connections, and begin their own lives.

[@SS11660]

I didn't understand why she kept him waiting so long long for an answer when she knew she wasn't going to tell him about Pamuk and accept.

[@SS11660]

She listened to her aunt that Matthew wasnt good enough for her. He was only a "country solicitor"

[@yosemite735]

I just finished watching the second movie. So glad Mary's imposter husband was not in it. Matthew is Mary's true husband.

[@thomasthomas2418]

3:27; The moment Mary realizes that she loves Matthew.

[@violet6991]

To this day haven’t seen past season 3, couldn’t be bothered without Matthew😢 I’m guessing Mary regressed to her b!tchy ways not out of grief(maybe a little) but mostly because the person who made her a better version of herself wasn’t there anymore... and they took Sybil from me fkn hell S3 was brutal.

[@MandieTerrier]

Both actors wanted to leave the show

[@l.a.3479]

It's fiction. Calm down. No need to curse.

[@creativewriter3887]

What's so sad is that Mary would have gone ahead and married Matthew the moment he first proposed had it NOT been for her Aunt's meddling. She was going to trust her instincts but she second guessed herself and her aunt made her believe it would have been a considerable descent socially, when the REVERSE was true. AND what's more, Matthew was already thinking of a way to have Mary obtain some authority as an heir (even as a woman should never be afforded this). Everyone underestimated Matthew's abilities until he later came into money.

[@violet6991]

@@l.a.3479 why you so pressed if I curse😂 you go be calm all you like don’t tell me how to feel.

[@lorelei7580]

Nothing in the world matters but them

[@bhorowitz2534]

2:00 Thomas hands Mr. Pamuk a drink himself. This was after Thomas tried to seduce him. Mr. Pamuk Died that night. Coincidence?

[@SS11660]

Interesting

[@Bergen98]

Sometimes I want to imagine what these two would be like in the following seasons? What they would be up to and how their relationship would blossoms even further?

[@hpavalferr7201]

ÓTIMA CENA 😳👏🏻

[@l.a.3479]

Which one? There were many.

[@harringt100]

What were they talking about at 3:38? The "it" that Matthew wasn't supposed to let trouble him?

[@lauraricci62]

they are talking about the possibility for Mary to inherit the estate

[@cellpat2686]

Believe it or not these two clicked from the very moment they met. Too bad Dan felt he had other chances out there and ended up getting killed off after George was born. Looks like Mary will end up a dowager countess of sorts now that she is the next Lord's mother and still alone.

[@claireturnbull7719]

She's not still alone tho,is she?She's married

[@faithhope2337]

Absolutley adore this ship, but it always made me uncomfortable when Mary Says "Cousin Matthew" I know they are related, but Mary saying it reminds me. lmao

[@minniemcgonagall139]

That’s why I can’t like it, and also I never thought it was a good mix of them just bouncing around each other until season 3

[@theuncoveredlamp]

I looked it up they're 4th cousins or more so they're hardly close relations

[@BoxStudioExecutive]

@@theuncoveredlamp that’s how they were called, whether actual 1st cousins or distant relations

[@CrimsonThorns]

😎Matthew💙Mary😎

[@Momabear1]

Mary was such a witch!

[@TheBeliever1204]

Se shouldn't have refused him. Her Aunt bad. Broke her own/ his heart

[@sarahberkner]

People focus on the negative things Mary does but she wanted to tell Matthew the truth and that would have caused less drama. I also don't blame her for wanting to think about whether to marry him if it turned out he wasn't the heir. She had to think about it and he should accept that she's like that. She's used to a certain lifestyle, it's not her fault.

[@43re49]

I miss the british dan

[@freyasheart9527]

isnt he british now?

[@tina5601]

MARY IS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL.......

[@soniaellis163]

I noticed that in some scenes in the series that the women still ware thats hats when there at the diner table, the question is, do aristocratic ladies sometimes ware there hats at the dinner table, i never saw the queen wearing a hat at the dinner table so it must be fiction, but if anyone knows different please let me know.

[@dirgniflesuoh7950]

Ladies do not take the hat off once it is on, it is part of the coiffure. You take it off once you are home and changing for dinner. Hats do not usually go with evening wear.

[@molliemae6855]

Bring fruit, bring cheese…bring a barf bag!!!! 🤮😬😂

[@GevEdgar]

😊🎉❤

[@aylinsit]

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[@TheBeliever1204]

MATHEW beautiful but maybe if she'd accepted him 1st time. actor who played him good. Woulda been nice to see them.happiy married at the Start without the Lavinia love story

[@maviskoon1509]

Can’t watch them kiss at the end. Matthew is too good for Mary. She does not deserve him. She is so arrogant and more interested in the estate than Matthew.

[@cy4330]

Can't watch them but you are still here watching. The story is they love each other and get married whether you like it or not unless you can write another storyline?

[@maviskoon1509]

@@cy4330 well, another storyline was written

[@giovannaionata7205]

In italiano

[@Queen_Springsteen]

It’s a British show

[@TheBeliever1204]

Stupid Mary refusing him

[@SandraStranger]

Never the same without Dan Stevens also he wasn't very nice to Mary when he had Lavinia Mary could of been told about her

[@SandraStranger]

It's shame the family didn't let the two of them in stead of trying to find a man for her if they only looked at the two of them they would have seen for there self's l suppose in those years

[@dianagonsalves]

Mary was attracted to Matthew only after the Pamuck incident.... no one wanted her after she was tainted and matthew was the only one who genuinely forgave her. And after marriage, she was respectable again...

[@jimin-ssibangtansmind7230]

Thats stupif

[@deliarealtor]

Sorry, I never liked Mary from the first episode on.

[@Mbuyiselo5]

Honestly she wasn’t a particularly nice character until Matthew drew it out of her

[@sallyfinch540]

If you didn’t like her, then she was playing her part superbly! She IS the royal snot, and she played it very convincingly .

[@SandraStranger]

Matthew left Downton to make a film in Cornwall he is arrogant and big headed he never left Downton to go to America until later he got everyone in Britain to praise him hopefully he doesn't make it why was he going to be with sybril but he chose Mary the writers got it wrong did they

[@christinefarquhar2858]

Ukp

[@katherinewilson1853]

She's wearing black and white.

[@kauztuv]

Kya gadhi thi yar Mary

[@seekinggodfirst754]

Mary is not a likeable character.