I recently finished the audio version of Matthew Perry's book, "Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing", narrated by himself. A tough listen at times, but beautifully written. Clearly he was a greater talent and a more complex individual than the "Chandler from Friends" persona for which he was known. It also highlights the hypocrisy of the American "rehab" industry, whereby huge profits are made from exploiting people with serious addictions, hidden behind a very thin veil of altruism. I didn't know much about Mr Perry before listening to his story; after doing so I concluded that I liked him. He seemed like a good man who was blighted by a disease with no obvious cure. The tone of his book suggests that he knew how it would end, be it unexpected or intended. His close friends and family genuinely cared for him, but were mostly helpless in the face of his illness. It seems he was loved by everyone - apart from himself.
@grimmertwin21482 ай бұрын
Much like James Freud
@_drewcifer3 ай бұрын
Can we take a moment to appreciate Richard’s quote “If a man proposes in a forest and it gets no likes, did it happen?”
@BrightAsAButton3 ай бұрын
Spoiler alert 🤣🤣🤣
@serendipidus84823 ай бұрын
What quote it that from? Is it something from friends or something matthew perry did?
@PatDKАй бұрын
@@serendipidus8482from this podcast
@SarahMcCartney4160Ай бұрын
@serendipidus8482 It's a reference to fundamental premise of existentialism
@SarahMcCartney4160Ай бұрын
Magnificent wasn't it?
@krisinsaigon3 ай бұрын
I can think of a long list of reasons why I don’t like clickbait articles… you won’t believe number 7
@kimc87643 ай бұрын
😂
@davewilliams5357Ай бұрын
another clip bait is that is the lead .......the (company) are livid cause they dont want you to know then turns out to be absolute trash lol
@user-lu8hl3bg4x3 ай бұрын
This is my favourite podcast right now. I get totally absorbed in it. Both have lovely clear easy listening voices. Just great!
@robbiehoward2343 ай бұрын
I agree. Both have a great tombre.
@PopsicleSponge3 ай бұрын
Richards comment about influencers taking advertising budgets was very eye opening.
@ChrisH783 ай бұрын
Everything I've learned about Love Island has been against my will. Absolute shite TV for idiots.
@davewilliams5357Ай бұрын
AMEN same view on thAT trash tv
@barblessableАй бұрын
yep , appeals to the hard of thinking.
@MrGrantspantsАй бұрын
Agreed. In fact with most reality tv I can feel myself getting dumber if I happen to find myself watching.
@SamBarge13 ай бұрын
I could have listened to a whole podcast on the issues around Matthew Perry's death, fame, hangers' on, etc. I just finished a book by Carrie Fisher's ex-PA ("A Star Is Bored") and it depresses me to think of the world that many actors/musicians live in. I love Carrie Fisher's work and I naively believed that she was in recovery for her addictions, like I believed Matthew Perry. I'm too old to be that naive, I guess.
@ksc743Ай бұрын
Same. That's a different world.
@stephenbarrette6103 ай бұрын
Proud to be (very) old and so in the 80 percent who didn’t know who these people were and couldn’t care a less about them, sundering breakup or not - no doubt our ‘Nation Morns’ at this unimaginable tragedy - Great podcast as ever.
@markmiller6402Ай бұрын
Well put mate👍👍👍
@ewengarrod21982 ай бұрын
The contestants have become sentient is the most brutal compliment I've ever heard
@sharknut3 ай бұрын
The Traitors AU/NZ/UK with regular people is far superior than the US version with "celebrities". I don't care about them, the game becomes about the people and not the game, which is the reason why the show is great.
@weeeeems3 ай бұрын
Not saying they aren't influential, but this is the first time I've ever actually heard of either Molly or Fury 😂
@R.Daneel3 ай бұрын
Or you olded out of the demographic.
@weeeeems3 ай бұрын
@@R.Daneel yes perhaps. I don't consume any linear television and have no social media so I'm not surprised. Only mid 30s, live in London, very social and work in an office with 100s of people though and they have never come up. I just thought it was interesting how much of the episode was dedicated to the 'Charles and Diana' of 2024 and I was 100% oblivious to them even existing.
@BrightAsAButton3 ай бұрын
I live in Australia and their names ring no bells. I shan’t be googling them either. I get the impression I don’t need to know who they are. Somebody please alert me if I’m mistaken! I can feel genuinely sorry when strangers lives/plans go awry without diving into an inter rabbit hole.
@DanHoskins5292 ай бұрын
I’ve heard of molly, but Fury must be some new drug that gen alpha are into
@Thirza.Ай бұрын
Ten minutes from now their goldfish-brained fans will also not know who they are/were
@markphc992 ай бұрын
Never heard of either of them, never watched love island, never visited instagram.all r the better for it
@ecotherapist3 ай бұрын
Precipitating the Sundering were a 1960s prog rock band from Falmouth
@peace_oceansАй бұрын
Pretty happy to find your pod. Great discussions engaging hosts. Thanks !
@macpac223 ай бұрын
Imagine if Marina didnt like the book....awks...
@lamusica15923 ай бұрын
Celebrity culture is overblown and ridiculous. It's also encouraged and facilitated by oppressive systems that encourage people to fantasize and escape into dreams of a better life. Excessive fandom is a form of mental illness, you can be a fan or admire someone without spending loads of time and energy thinking about that person
@lynnedelacy28413 ай бұрын
The Mail over uses the word ‘flaunts’ when referring to women on the beach or dressed up - they are just ‘wearing’
@andreasrensen6465Ай бұрын
I love listening to your podcasts. Thank you.
@PaulHaigh0723 ай бұрын
There was an intrusive advert when Marina said the sun was a massive market leader and is now f… fallen back. I did so enjoy filling that gap in.
@simonburley26923 ай бұрын
“Who gets custody of the Likes?”
@leonnehaaijman4709Ай бұрын
Yeah, that's a new level of stupidity entirely.
@deepressland77793 ай бұрын
As always, love your podcasts. Thanks Richard for the recommendation. Watched that 1985 documentary about No. 31 bus - absolutely delightful and so refreshing. That little girl was truly delightful - wonder where she is now? The bingo girls made me LOL. Everything back then seemed so much less frantic that today.
@amac26753 ай бұрын
‘The G Wagon? That’s going back.’ made me guffaw.
@anitahargreaves95262 ай бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this podcast, surprised not notified when new content dropped. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I've bought an audible book of the murder club from Amazon.
@DrCalamityJan3 ай бұрын
The US version of The Traitors gets such a bad rap because it casts reality stars but honestly that's the thing that makes it so much more watchable for me. It becomes a story within a story because these people have history. Even if I don't know them from Adam, I'm so invested in the past history each of them have and watching them navigate new paths to harmonious living.
@vurogj3 ай бұрын
Quite a disheartening set of subjects about the poison that festers and corrupts so many parts of the world we live in, albeit discussed interestingly by Marina and Richard. The Steven Spielberg bit in the middle was nice though.
@DevonDumpling1233 ай бұрын
Poor Perry he gave it his all
@postedbyneal3 ай бұрын
I wish Richard had kept going with his Henry 8th comparable to a conclusion that these days, if you're in the "court" of a top level celebrity ,there is virtually no risk or consequences , especially in the USA.
@justlookingaround9834Ай бұрын
It’s not often I fast forward a section and I did try, but I have no idea who Molly May is and I am not interested.
@monrush2 ай бұрын
Ive never met one person who has ever been 'influenced' by any of these people...
@ogden43 ай бұрын
Have either of you ever watched the Australian spoof documentary Utopia? What are your thoughts? Would you recommend it to viewers? Why / why not?
@billramsay73513 ай бұрын
Never had less interest in anything on this podcast than I did the first part of this one. Did have a laugh at the Daily Telegraph being "right-leaning", talk about understatement!
@AlexFaye-ti8gq3 ай бұрын
What I've always found weird is how actors and musicians talk about getting vitamin B shots to help them keep going so casually like it's a normal thing. There is nothing wrong with getting a B shot, but most people don't get one daily so they can do their job. It just shows how the entertainment industry treats it's "stars" (cash cows) They can't get sick, tired, lose their voice for even a day because somebody at the top will loose a million.
@John-Smith-9993 ай бұрын
I'd never heard of of Molly and Tommy. Now I just don't care.
@Novotny722 ай бұрын
"from newspapers like the Telegraph and countries like - er - ours -" SCREAMING
@LaraA-ef8ykАй бұрын
You two are hilarious 🤣
@grantwallace18823 ай бұрын
The first story made me feel old 😢
@dibdab1013 ай бұрын
it made me feel lucky that it does not even feature in my galaxy
@trudimclaren430111 күн бұрын
Love #precipitating the sundering 😂😂😂
@davidevans3227Ай бұрын
still have no idea who Molly and Tommy are.. thankfully by the sound of it..
@andrew668623 ай бұрын
I absolutely second the recommendation for Party Down. Are you having fun yet?!
@mjpledger3 ай бұрын
Smooth intro!
@lakrids-pibe3 ай бұрын
Sundering was precipitated
@matthewdobson1008 күн бұрын
she hasn't done "amazing things", she's selling some stuff to people who just think they need more stuff.
@EdwardLindonАй бұрын
As one might expect, there are many biographies of Judy Garland. A little help?
@giffgaffnettwork56263 ай бұрын
Are Richard and Marina on a bonus for every mention of Molly May, Love Island and Tommy Tyson in the same sentence Was it 50? Must be a Paddy Power bet. Tell me I'm wrong!!!!
@christophersmith1083 ай бұрын
Vodka doesn’t cause breakups-people _drinking_ vodka causes breakups…
@eimearkavanagh3608Ай бұрын
There was a Law & Order SVU years ago where someone uploaded CCTV footage of a famous guy who beat his girlfriend unconscious and dragged her into a car. What did they know back them that no one else did?
@tokyobear3 ай бұрын
Love this ... Richard Osman vs. Jake Paul. So funny. 🤣 Do it! Do it!! DO IT!!! Well, actually, maybe not. But it's funny just thinking about it.
@duncanpaton73443 ай бұрын
Love island is not my cup of tea (PG tips)
@NickDusting3 ай бұрын
Brilliant if predictable piece on Mathew Perry. There's nothing new about grifters and hangers on - its the level and bredth of criminality that's shocking.
@thomasscottwilliams66723 ай бұрын
I was really disappointed that the molly mae story which felt as if it had finished at 11 minutes but it carried on for twice the amount of time, I love the show but maybe better editing. It’s bad enough that there are ads every four minutes which are skipping ads after 5 seconds which feels redundant, and skipping through fast forward until next item, thus felt like filler rather than concise content
@redmed103 ай бұрын
Re perry they talk around the issue of his drug use but they dont ask why perry took these drugs.
@andrew668623 ай бұрын
Richard. I think you could take Jake Paul for a few rounds, for what it's worth.
@angrydoc47693 ай бұрын
I had no idea what Molly May was. I thought it was a COVID variant
@kevingolden56753 ай бұрын
Did yee aye 😂
@krisinsaigon3 ай бұрын
I thought it was the American comedian who was on Taskmaster not long back, the one with the short blond hair
@ogden43 ай бұрын
It's an Irish pub in Brighton isn't it?
@MoonOnAStickFilms3 ай бұрын
If you're keeping count, he doesn't say 'by and large' once this time.
@deneanrowe42783 ай бұрын
That was a really difficult listen 39:34
@happinesstan3 ай бұрын
Imagine going on TV to boost your business. I bet that's never happened before.
@brunofaetten8943 ай бұрын
Everyone in the biz knows, when you meet Spielberg, you say "it's the SS!"
@sorscha13083 ай бұрын
I knew there had to be some reason aperol spritz is suddenly a thing. Absolutely hiddeous stuff. It would take an awful lot of influencing (possibly involving a cattle prod) to make me drink that stuff.
@Novotny722 ай бұрын
Did Osman say he was 6 foot 7? Isn't that just completely excessive?
@HD-ol1mc2 ай бұрын
Yes he's a very tall man indeed 🙂
@krisinsaigon3 ай бұрын
If you watch the Australian traitors, they have one contestant on it who is never featured in the edits at all other than when there is a group and he’s there. He’s just edited out of the show even though he’s in it
@markphc992 ай бұрын
I don’t, but that’s interesting, any idea why?
@krisinsaigon2 ай бұрын
@@markphc99 yes, I found out actually, because I was so curious. He is on screen in the group activities but he is never once interviewed and they never feature footage of him being discussed by other candidates, he’s just there. It drove me mad with curiosity so I looked into it and the guy apparently kept making comments which weren’t in the spirit of the game. I’ve worked in tv myself, and there is a certain level of presence to it, and everyone has to kind of join in with that presence, the make believe part. And he was talking about it like it was a tv show and not like it was a game, so apparently they just decided to leave him on the cutting room floor. He is a fascinating story. If Marina Hyde ever read any of my comments i would want it to the this so she could look into it and tell us more
@markphc992 ай бұрын
@@krisinsaigon Thanks for your detailed reply. I feel this man may be a kindred spirit - not that I would stand any chance of being picked for such a show even if I wanted.However , having been given the opportunity, it's maybe rather churlish to attempt to puncture the illusion.
@1212aoa2 ай бұрын
I am confused!! The episode is supposed to be about Matthew Perry but it's not. Just like the other episodes never about the title.
@HD-ol1mc2 ай бұрын
The title is always just one of several topics covered in every episode 🙂. Otherwise the title would be very long.
@richardsmith39173 ай бұрын
You should talk about how much Chris changed Hollywood for child actors
@bentilley5412Ай бұрын
Aperol spritz was created in the 1950s.
@cwoollard13 ай бұрын
Ugh.... I thought that was a new episode :(
@peoplevrobot3 ай бұрын
I feel like this podcast is running out of steam. I used to listen to the full podcast but soon found that segments lacked substance or any valuable information.. so I started listening to the segments that piqued my interest but now those feel stock too (Nothing in the Matthew Perry segment that hasn’t been said 1000 times, that segment was clickbait). The producers need to get people Richard and Marina can interview on the podcast. They are good hosts but need guests to bounce off of
@derronhall4953 ай бұрын
Who?
@matthewstorar34173 ай бұрын
Molly Mae and Tommy Fury? Embarrassing
@martinjones3519Ай бұрын
The Last Days of Rome.
@agin15193 ай бұрын
I’ve been reading your 3rd one Richard. I wondered how they’d go if you weren’t so very well known to everyone. I have two small theories. Like it or not, everyone hears you reading it to them, like you’re sitting next to the bed reading them a good night story. You are, after all, the most reassuring person on television. You could be on edit soz: HIGNFY where where Christmas is canceled, Wimbledon is knocked down for scrap and WW3 looks likely, and we’d come away completely unfazed and entertained. My second theory is that you are Joyce Meadowcroft, give or take. Not that I’ve read the 4th book yet, but it’s on my table.
@Elwaves29253 ай бұрын
I definitely think him being a known name has helped sell his books, no doubt in that. It's unvoidable. As for WILTY, I'd love to hear Bob Mortimer explaining a cancelled Xmas to David Mitchell. He might finally break Mitchell's brain.
@agin15193 ай бұрын
@@Elwaves2925 sorry meant HIGNFY
@Elwaves29253 ай бұрын
@@agin1519 Aah okay, easily confusable with all these initials.
@Bessie66Ай бұрын
Fast forwarded molly mae and Tommy fury - don’t know them and no interest in them
@TommyDaniels-zt8zyАй бұрын
These two people are so vacuous and uninteresting. Not Richard and Marina, obviously, but Molly-Mae and her fella.
@giotto263Ай бұрын
There is something that keeps them there...money! For f$$ks sake.
@chrisstevenson-kuylaars76842 ай бұрын
You lost me at 'the BBC is at the centre'. Come on
@GrahamA63Ай бұрын
Mollie Mae - is this a real person? If they’ve truly made millions why don’t they just close their instagram account and bugger off never to be seen again? Why stick around in her stupid fake world when there is a real world out there to experience and enjoy?
@eddieoconnell9801Ай бұрын
Fecking stupid ads! Gave up watching it. KZbin is getting worse and worse for ads
@lynnedelacy28413 ай бұрын
Sadly I didn’t really enjoy the Thursday Murder Club….gave up well before the end
@marcl5231Ай бұрын
#stopsayinghashtag
@michaldutkiewicz7631Ай бұрын
Why are those types interesting?! - I can't stand them
@ChubbyChecker1823 ай бұрын
The Telegraph but was fittingly dull and boring.
@giotto263Ай бұрын
Money, money, money is mostly what this show discusses. It is never enough for some, so let them be the richest person in the graveyard; who cares?
@serendipidus84823 ай бұрын
Matthew perry is at the end ..i dont know how to do the time stamp thing. Its like i 6th from the end. 😂
@alansouthall82213 ай бұрын
good god richard's meeting with speilberg was cloyingly embarrassing 😂
@JohnDoe-tp8mc3 ай бұрын
Tabloid journalism set humanity back by at least a generation
@richardcolver81363 ай бұрын
Talking about clickbait. This episodes title?
@GaiusAnonymous3 ай бұрын
slow news cycle eh, this episode is almost unbearably drawn out.
@richard81763 ай бұрын
I agree that click bait is annoying, and we all fall for it like “Matthew Perry & The Dark Hollywood Underbelly” which isn’t mentioned until 39 minutes into the podcast.
@Elwaves29253 ай бұрын
Yet it is mentioned, which means it isn't clickbait. One of the aspects with clickbait is that the title/thumb isn't discussed or is very misleading. That's not the case here. 🙂
@icarusandtherabbit3 ай бұрын
If you click “more” around description you can skip to the various topics and skip what you’re not interested in.
@AndreS_222463 ай бұрын
They’ve provided time stamps. Just skip to the topics you are interested in. (And stop yer grumbling…)
@invisiblekid993 ай бұрын
“Richard and Marina chat for a bit” isn’t going to show up with any YT algorithm and the podcast will die. It’s a huge topic ATM obviously and they do talk about it and the timestamp is right there. You need to adjust your opinion of what clickbait is.
@jessicaforrister3 ай бұрын
If you have seen this podcast before you would know that Richard says never to start with the number one story 😂
@DeeKay843 ай бұрын
Oh, you are both so great, and so are your cats, books etc...that's the first 5 minutes of evey episode. Then the show starts, my finger starts on the +30 seconds button. And thank you fad block. Otherwise insufferable
@steveh1113 ай бұрын
"Stop treating subscribers with contempt" - said just before the "This episode was brought to you by" section. Irony rolled over in it's grave again.
@gma56073 ай бұрын
Oh sorry are offering to pay for it?
@keithtracy33163 ай бұрын
My ex's 11yo daughter's sole ambition was to do make up videos for KZbin and be an influencer therefore not needing to study at school. This gen z attitude is killing kids lives
@enisra_bowman3 ай бұрын
sorry to rip your rose tinted glasses of, but what was the difference with the once that wanted to be a footballer or hit singer? Only the fields changed
@RyanJ_3 ай бұрын
This podcast is always polluting my subscription feed with episodes yet to be released... Sure, launch the premier an hour or so beforehand to get people in on the live chat, but having episodes always sitting around so many hours before release is just annoying. I'm unsubscribing now
@fndthousing3 ай бұрын
Agreed. I have to unsubscribe, the notification spam is too much
@dannyquinn91283 ай бұрын
Oh no... we won't miss you.
@killthomas83733 ай бұрын
Womp womp
@Anglegrindr3 ай бұрын
Osman is brilliantly knowledgeable, but by Christ, he ain't funny.
@maryrose47123 ай бұрын
Embarrassing watching two adults discussing this BS, with such seriousness.
@nathanboulton20663 ай бұрын
dont watch it then!!!
@maxine27982 ай бұрын
A podcast about entertainment talking about people in entertainment. Who’d of thunk
@WayneFawcett-v1h3 ай бұрын
Your most boring video to date.
@anne-mariefindlay16263 ай бұрын
Why does she do all the talking? Really annoying!
@lynnedelacy28413 ай бұрын
And wears puff sleeve blouses and plays with her nose - a lot
@davewilliams5357Ай бұрын
that is the difference between men and women men take all information in before making a comment where as women tend to be gossipy types (btw general not all) i am a typical guy i listen then get a word in sometimes i do have my own opinions but tend to keep em in
@lunnunisАй бұрын
She doesn't do more than about half of it, in fact possibly he talks more. Seems fine to me. Women are usually perceived as talking more than they do.