How to Overcome a Painful Past & Break Codependent Attachment, with Pete Holmes

[@MayimBialik]

Can you think of a time when anger has served you well? 😤🐻 Let us know down below!!

[@marisamartinezolivera]

@@MayimBialik Anger use to be a kind of motivator to me. Anger against injustices has made me frequently, even in these days, speak out and rise loud my voice on behalf opressed people or unfair situations, to the point to be even jailed in my teen days by Franco’s police. Controlled anger leads me to win in sports, or at least not be defeated. Anger, if well managed, is a kind of energy. And as all energies, one could use it for good or bad. The trick is to find “the point”.

[@vanessawhitneypro]

"That's my secret, Cap..." - Bruce Banner

[@omriom]

Never

[@DaniElle-di4ho]

Putting up thoughtful boundaries / recognizing that you are free, eliminates the need for anger - this has been my experience and what I took from Pete’s bear analogy

[@leslierisan7603]

My anger helps me distance from people who continue to abuse my good nature

[@KHBogWitch]

Pete Holmes was utterly fearless in this conversation! His energy was huge. Y’all took it in stride and I have to say, Jonathan cracking up those couple of times got me going too.

[@lauraestrada7279]

@Mayim Bialek I just lost my mom to cancer three weeks ago. The matriarch and moral compass and glue of our family. My dad and I were her 24/7 caretakers and I was with her when she passed. I'm in alot of deep grief. I am especially distraught over where her beautiful consciousness went. Thank you Mayim. Just my dad and I. Life is forever changed. I am looking fwd to this show.

[@missdirectedawakening]

❤️‍🩹 My condolences 🙏

[@marisamartinezolivera]

My true condolences!

[@MayimBialik]

Sending you healing and love and strength, and may your mom's memory be for a blessing. We appreciate you sharing and for being here. 🫶

[@Infinatefates]

I lost my mom to cancer 4 years ago, losing a parent is like losing a part of yourself. I share your pain and I am so sorry for your loss, you are not alone. Sending you lots of love, courage and strength ❤

[@marisamartinezolivera]

Mayim, every episode you have Jonathan at the studio to shoot a MBB episode, you literally glow! ❤

[@orland0110]

I enjoyed watching and listening to this interesting conversation with Pete Holmes. You are doing an outstanding job with this podcast. Much love to you, Mayim! ❤

[@susansnyder2420]

Great interview!! The way Pete talks about God, I can tell he’s experienced Source directly (probably) with the assistance of psychedelics. (I’ve experienced Source through healing work and guided meditation). I always appreciate a guest who has worked on themselves and it shows. One of the things many religions don’t bring forward nearly enough is joy and laughter. As an energetic frequency of emotions, joy is just below ecstasy, that’s just below divine love. Comedy is doing God’s work.

[@gardenbun]

I didn't think I could like you more than I did on BBT, but here I am, loving you more! You have wonderful guests and such a 'comforting' interview style. I look forward to all your episodes. You and Jonathan compliment each other so well in this format. I had never heard of Pete Holmes, but I resonated deeply with his stories and he now has another fan. I also watch your interviews on OPPs (other people's podcasts) and always resonate with what you have to say. You brought me to tears with a recent interview you gave of a more religious/political nature. Glad you are in the world!

[@MayimBialik]

🥹🫶

[@ananda1044]

@@MayimBialikseriously miss lady thank you for doing this podcast, it is very comforting!

[@kolitiokada9825]

Hey Mayim & Jonathon! Loving Pete Holmes! What an engaging combination of profound thoughts & comedy! Lights up my brain!

[@ThomasCummiskey]

This has to be one of the best. It was like being in a really good group therapy session, a comedy show and an uplifting experience.

[@kevinalicea2929]

Pete Holmes love your humor and thanks for all the good laughs ❤

[@rhonndajoy]

I really resonated with the story about the bear. Embrace the bear. Thank you.

[@MayimBialik]

🤘🐻🤘

[@benjamincrabtree3102]

Looooooove Pete Holmes!

[@RachelBJ]

I love listening to Pete Holmes talk about anything and everything! As an Enneagram 9, I have to say that Pete's thought processes sound a lot like my own when it comes to what it means to be alive, to be in a human body, to ask questions like "what is fire," questioning the viewpoints that the church tried to impose on me, & what it means to be "in the moment." Interestingly, almost all of my closest friends throughout my life have been 3s and 4s. Even married a 4.

[@marketads1]

I have to say, having had a distance from your podcast gives me fresh eyes to see how healthy and happy you look!❤

[@pearljamin]

I can’t get enough of your podcasts

[@tdee1575]

I have sat through podcasts I would never regularly consume solely because Pete was a guest. What a delight to have him on a podcast I actually like! Thanks for this!

[@tedtalksrock]

I wish this podcast could have been 2x as long. I guess I’ll just have to start at the beginning and listen again. Really rich stuff! ❤

[@derekamlangdon2252]

Thank you Dr. Mayim. This will greatly help my daughter studying in Oxford. You’re such a great role model. One thankful, Dad. 💝🙏💝

[@katiegirl33]

This may be the most spiritual awakened podcast/moment/speech/chat/sermon/KZbin sesh I've ever experienced 🤍 Mind cracked wide open

[@one-of-us9939]

In 1984, I sang in a punk band about government corruption. It's in the book. I have also had a mental alignment on psychedelics. It's also in the book. The problem for my book's acceptance is... I published it decades too soon.

[@Lenkopenko]

How does it work that everything is said on your podcast perfectly aligns with my life and is what I need to hear ❤ magic of life

[@MayimBialik]

Love to hear this!! 🧠🙌

[@mjspins]

And, should have prefaced: I am a huge fan! Books and all! Thanks so much for doing this podcast, Jonathan and Mayim!!!

[@CreativeArtandEnergy]

First intro to Pete. I’m a fan already.

[@RVOPuttPuttProductions]

This was a fascinating session. Thank you.

[@ananda1044]

What is this?!? I just discovered this guy on Duncan Trussells podcast and immediately loved him. Now he’s here on my fav podcast? Luck!

[@D415h4n34]

Ok, i lied. I'm gonna finish this episode and then start from the beginning today❤ wonderful convo

[@MayimBialik]

🔥🔥🔥

[@Lenkopenko]

I love Jonathan being a bit of everything, I can relate to that😄

[@samsmulders7908]

I really enjoyed listening to this episode. Wonderful conversation❤

[@sabinesunny7880]

Thank you for making the connections to the masters

[@fareebug8439]

Wow, the Bear story. 🧸😭💪👏👏👏

[@melodysv3]

Love you guys!!!!❤ Yet, another great one!🎉

[@one-of-us9939]

30 years ago, approx. I started writing my book. one-of-us The reluctant Goldwyn Published 19 years ago. People called me a conspiracy punk... Today my lifetimes social journey is the current events... so, my "censored" new view has come true. I'm batting 1000 actually.

[@cathyray6030]

I can relate to a lot of what he spoke about. Thank you!

[@TheresaDisharoon]

I have been following for a year. Now I understand why I am so drawn to your show. I am a four

[@MayimBialik]

4️⃣🫶

[@sabinesunny7880]

When I needed to get up and fight in order to survive

[@sherrilawrence662]

I'm just continually in awe and gratitude ❤....your content vulnerability authenticity and brilliance is next level 😢 🙏

[@D415h4n34]

2:10 i did it backwards😅 subscribed 1st and i wanna binge all these on halloween and election night (i voted already) Watching this one on time cuz Pete Holmes❤

[@MayimBialik]

High praise, thank you for being here!! 🙏

[@TheComputerGuyDR]

Such a great episode - sharing this with my family. ☺

[@dalemaclaren7576]

Absolutely Excellent video. Thank you so kindly ❤ I enjoy you and everyone all the time. Take great care ❤

[@louisbonilla6780]

Been a subscriber for a few years and gotta say every episode tops the previous one ❤Thanks Mayim and Jonathan for being a healthy habit

[@sabinesunny7880]

Sweet--taste your innocence. I love it

[@AdrianoSousaCarioca]

I love her smile.❤

[@kikireef3257]

What an awesome person!!!! Seen Pete at Largo at The Coronet. I could hang with all 3 of you every day! xoxo

[@dosesandmimoses]

I can tell I’m going to greatly appreciate this episode.. gratitude

[@mattygeno]

Oh, you guys are too great. Much love from Norway ❤

[@vanessawhitneypro]

Love Pete!

[@bah2501]

all your topics and experts are spot on keep up the good stuff!

[@tomlichnofsky.7048]

Another Fantastic Episode 👌😊😆👍🎃🍊🍊🎃🍁

[@Nicolas.S.Escobar88]

Didn't know you had a Podcast, this is my first time watching, Subscribed!!

[@jackiegerarde9938]

4 in enneagram made easy book: princess in castle says "3 Oscar's, Pulitzer prize, my prince charming and wonderful kids, 10 pots of gold ... but something is still missing!' This got to me. I'm different today. A lot of therapy and work but worth it. I read the difficult enneagram books too but this is the one I gave to my friends. Haha only 4s cared!

[@pamlacooper3288]

Great episode, love your pod cast

[@Aardappelpurree]

This is nice to listen to while playing video games. Thanks :)

[@bah2501]

i agree!!!

[@bah2501]

unless the game has tons of dialogue.....

[@KimHarvey-cy5ji]

ONCE Again, GREAT Episode. Thank u guys. ☮️🙏❤️🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻👻

[@atphoenix2020]

❤❤❤ You and Jonathan (I have been subscribing for a long time - great to get that bell notification!)

[@MayimBialik]

🔔🔥🔥🔥

[@deborahlustig4956]

First time viewer, love these types of conversations I do want to add that a lot of my friends who are mothers to boys including my mother in law always always put their son in a position to choose and I bet it still goes on today and that just a little bit ....I don't have a word for it because it does border on well you know what I mean. I also want to say I really have a hard time being brought up Catholic not practicing now but have just read the bible that set me back because it is full of contradictions that I don't know what to make of it. I am 70 next month and I still think God demands perfection, I was brought up with the nuns and priests and black leather straps where they beat perfection into you and then you got it again when you got home, I guess they just didn't have the language to tell you what you did wrong and why. Oh I could go on .....

[@KimHarvey-cy5ji]

I learned so much! Thank u and at 62 I REALLY GET THIS! 😘🙏🙏🙏☮️

[@jillmacchitelli6473]

Anger serves me well when I can turn it into assertiveness.

[@Etzuka0]

I don't know if you would be familiar with her but I would love to see you talk to Miranda Hart. She just released a book about her chronic health and her journey to accept herself. It's called I haven't been entirely honest with you and it changed the path I was taking ❤ Plus bonus she is very very funny.

[@robincostner5707]

What a great episode!

[@karenstedman5699]

Great job love your podcas

[@mjspins]

Toward the end when discussing how much you enjoy talking with him, Jonathan mentions a documentary discussed and he responds something like “ I think that’s where we are” sorry not exact; name of documentary mentioned please?

[@katiegirl33]

Whoaa... my bear watching me watch this with her arms crossed and eyebrow cocked... you see me now? 🐻

[@shakesrear7850]

Brilliant

[@cecilialove]

Great video

[@irenitele8497]

The therapy he talks about i experience with "Gestalt therapy", you start seeing your conflicting aspects and finding solutions. Meaning: you may have a "character" that wants to binge, and another one aspect that appears afterwards and shames you for what you have done. In therapy you put an image and details about each caracter and then at the end of thr session you take a third "place", one thst finds communication between those two aspects.

[@genealvivergara955]

mayim looks radiant

[@kaitlinbeste]

I'm subscribed!!!!!

[@MayimBialik]

🙌🙌🙌

[@darnitthelma4247]

I’ve literally just seen him in a film and cannot pinpoint who he is/what the film was😮😂 will watch this when more time & probs Google his films😅

[@MsSarahbear93]

Is it me or does he remind you of John Ritter

[@darnitthelma4247]

@ yes he does!!

[@mjspins]

PS pretty sure, I, too, am probably a 4, and love your Breakdown!!!

[@craigmorris5525]

I relate to the bear analogy 😮 🐻

[@Blou-]

Love Pete lol

[@MariaSolvesProblems]

That descisions typo hurt my eyes a little bit 🥲 Leaving that aside, I’m excited to watch this one later today 🥰🫶🏻

[@mvjh2277]

Christmas season, anytime from Advent to Epiphany for a get together. I can have a “me day” on actual Christmas Day.

[@leticiajulianaavelarfreire3690]

O que mais me tocou foi como a visão dele sobre a história do filho pródigo ressoa em como eu não acredito que Jesus morreu por nossos pecados, mas que sua vida é o exemplo vivo de como podemos levar e curar nossas dores... Estou ouvindo pela segunda vez seguida porque tantas camadas dessa entrevista me trazem insights! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@indigosmyth7475]

I had a similar situation to my ex husband where he would consult with his Mother about everything & it turned me off sexually towards him, I didn't have an affair But caught myself becoming attracted to a co-worker & quickly organised marriage counselling, things got worse because he became emotionally & then physically abusive when we moved out of his parents house (had to live there when we first got married for 6months) & I was working fulltime, coming home to a person that would not proactive look for a job lwt alone clean the house, played video games all night & slept all day, I separated & divorced him, it was a living hell.

[@marshazimmerman174]

But I have to say you two are definitely 4s lol. I'm a 7 and identify also very much with 5 which is where I go for recovery. But regardless, really enjoyed your show, cracked up alot...'You are leaving me for a civilian?' Very funny. 👍

[@momentmal5248]

I read once that the 1:1 or “sexual” “4” is known as the angriest number on the enneagram. I know this too. 99% of the time I am calm and then something happens and I’m willing to burn the whole world down. It’s hard to get out of.

[@fractalpilgrim1035]

What is the family documentary they were referring to? This was an amazing podcast!! Thank you!

[@CreativeArtandEnergy]

Wow, I didn’t expect to be validated as a 4w5

[@momentmal5248]

Same 😂

[@MckaylaDomigan]

❤❤❤

[@drendelous]

im still not sure if i want Jonathan to adopt me or marry me

[@amandamichelle41307]

I have subscribed to this channel multiple times, and it keeps shutting you down. Not sure why.

[@irenitele8497]

He gets some into some deep truths, but he has very slights fleeing moments where his learned spiel on JC comes back to life. Also very subtle antisemitic jabs, when he wrongly talks about the "Old Testament" as it was taught to him. He discusses going to talk to Rabbis thst didn't reapond his questions but it would be interesting to know which ones did he chose to talk to! There are many different ideas within Judaism and in Orthodoxy as well. He may have enjoyed talking to Breslev Rabbis maybe...

[@alexasmith6473]

Let's all just put down the pretenses

[@artandcard]

What is the "Not so fast, Goldstein" joke? I looked online already without finding it.

[@LuisAndreGottardo]

Hello!!!

[@somewhereover5752]

I was going to ask if Pete is of Finnish descent. I know Finnish people who remind me of him. I see his Mom is Lithuanian, close.

[@altaresjoyceee]

💯👍🏻

[@StirlingVideoLounge]

It's so painful to see people fight against caricatures of faith. A little knowledge is dangerous, in the faith life as well.

[@christinakoch2738]

I loved this episode, Mayim! You should have Daniella Monet from Victorious on your podcast! Keep going and doing what you do! ❤️

[@HiluT]

❤

[@ohdrey89]

My parents always kissed us on the lips, and people think that’s weird. There’s nothing weird about it, that’s just what we did as kids. My parents were probably doing it from the time we were babies. Less as we’re older but as kids that’s one of the ways mom and dad would show us affection. Even my grandparents kissed us on the lips both sets. We had all the other waspy dysfunctional things going on in our very white household except for the drinking and the heavy silence because my mom was Italian, so our house is weird because we’re warm and comfortable and loudly gesturing while talking and we don’t drink anything higher proof than wine on the holidays and we kiss on the lips. Because that’s weird apparently???? Showing affection to your children is weird????

[@007chickee]

Heads up. I think you’re being censored from podcasts. On Apple. Can’t search for you. it says, ‘can’t connect right now.’ I can searched for everyone else in the world and it doesn’t say that.

[@sabinesunny7880]

I love what he says but he could be more real

[@tylerthurman2980]

people who arent self aware enough to know what enneagram they are are TOTAL nines

[@MckaylaDomigan]

🫶🫶🫶🤟

[@francescacaroli4609]

what can a man know about it

[@therealjd1503]

The same a women can

[@dribrom]

Well apple really sucked until they invented the iPhone... And they still suck but in a different way.

[@BarbElton]

Cut the Trump B.S. .

[@elishaminor2900]

Very intresting metaphorically podcast .Well you two seem to find the right topic.Pete homes Christain sex i almost lol. While i was in said mist of medtating while listen to this show.Is there a different between first temple and second temple judaism sex i me bath house