Meet Andrew - I Tried to Take Shortcuts. Here's What Happened...

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@RobertRiggin]

The only way she’s expressed that I’m irreplaceable is that I’ll always be our kids father. While she’s in limerance with this new person and also knowing that she’d have to overcome her ego and what she’s told herself or others to ever consider having a new relationship with me is extremely discouraging for me. Becoming bulletproof and becoming untethered is so tough. My limiting beliefs that my happiness has to be tied to my worth or “having” her so I don’t feel I’ve failed my kids or her because we didn’t work out while also being conscious and aware that that I am enough and I am worthy of love. I’ve got plenty of love on my life, just not the romantic kind or intimate kind currently that I’ve conditioned myself to think I need in order to be happy. Becoming bulletproof and untethered will allow me to be happy regardless of circumstances. When we have the tough conversations or “confrontations” she likes to point out that those interactions are “why” we don’t work but I think it’s the opposite of not having those conversations or having them from the mindset of it being us against the problem and not us against each other. Me getting better and my personal progress in of itself seems to be a trigger to her. Still living together but her not feeling she has any responsibility to to make any financial contribution to where she still lives is maddening. Meanwhile the bills still need to be paid so we all (remember the kids) need to have shelter, water, power, etc. but she feels she only has to use her income on what she wants and not contributing what she used too up until June last year. The sense of entitlement that she’s going to get half from selling the house, what she wants for custody, child support and somehow no consideration for me and my ability to have the relationship I want with the kids and time I want and living situation I want for them It’s sickening to me the sense of entitlement to take and get from me whatever she can regardless of whether we are a couple or not. To a degree I enable that because I don’t want to take any action that could be detrimental to the kids or perhaps I perceive as being detrimental to the kids.

[@victoriaoshea4865]

33:46 "You cannot use the same knowledge that you used that created the problem in the first place, to solve the problem. "

[@7898Mario]

I love Geoffrey Setiawan content on his KZbin channel. It's the best, spot on and very authentic. His program is around 3000.00. And the only downside is all of it has to be paid up front. I have marital issues and would love to be part of his program but I can't afford to pay the whole thing up front. I have a wife and 6 children who I am responsible for. I would and could pay in installments if he allowed it. I know many low income families that could benefit from his program but are unable to take the course because of how it is financially set up. He talks about how he has very high financial husbands taking his course which is great because it's worth it. But what about the low income husbands who are not able to financially pay it all at once. They too would benefit from his teaching if they had another avenue financially to take.

[@peterfichtner1]

In the same boat with 5 kids brother. Would love a payment plan option

[@uraeldvinciboy2789]

Same, 😢

[@YoMama_JRXC]

Wow, Andrew's story fits mine so well. I was always a giver and anything she wanted I would just go out and get. That made her feel like she couldn't do it herself. We aren't directly talking right now, but we do have contact through social media posts and through her mother and brother.

[@madvidz2023]

God… what you said at 21:15 about being a solid structure and when that thing breaks it shatters. So true. Shows the true value and importance of being like water.

[@CoreyPurney]

Another great one Geofferey!

[@victoriaoshea4865]

Very insightful interview, thanks ... I can really late to when he said quote "logic to death..." And then he talked about how quote "you speak my language" I have an analytical mind and I think I have reasoned with my partner argued with my partner ad infinitem. When I was raised by a judge and a lawyer I was told as a child that I would have made a very good lawyer. I think it is because I can usually come on top in an argument but what I didn't realize Until I. Started watching your videos is that bulldozing over people does not get the result that I want.

[@ahmedshah5922]

Hey Geoffrey could you make a video on how one can realise his shortcomings and overall gain more self awareness if that's something you cover

[@JimRickenbaugh60]

This was a fantastic interview!!! Thanks to you both!!!

[@gregorynorris1786]

My wife is completely dormant and non talkative. I feel like I need to invoke action to set a dire tone that I have had enough after 5 months of stonewalling me. I want to continue working on myself but continuing like we are now is just dreadful. She won’t even talk to me about coparenting. What do I do?

[@benmeir24]

Thank you for the content

[@benmeir24]

@Elezabirth Cotter does he give non refundable loans? I need some.

[@ShellieTBoss]

My guy will tell me his mistakes and then do them again.

[@osirisadvocate]

How do you tell someone "yeah go explore that single life?"

[@victoriaoshea4865]

39:30 Urgency Illusion

[@victoriaoshea4865]

...not the perfect PRODUCT, the perfect PROCESS

[@victoriaoshea4865]

.."Sway like a skyscraper "

[@ahmedshah5922]

I know u dislike me but could u still maybe. Make a video on how to be more self aware and realize Ur flaws

[@victoriaoshea4865]

52:23...maybe i need to let go...let him hi🤔

[@milesmatulionis]

What’s your success rate for guys who have taken your program?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Watch the end of the interview when we talk about my program vs the rest. The answer is "astronomically high" - and that is given the fact that we usually work with individuals in very dire situations. I'll let you hear it yourself. More evidence here: This first video is a walkthrough of our program. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnSXfYZ3eruBjdE This second video is addressed to George. See for yourself how many people are raving about this program. This is an every-day occurrence. www.loom.com/share/2699d4ec9c70437e85a16ffb628b581a?sharedAppSource=personal_library This third video is a recent client story with Liam Rose, kzbin.info/www/bejne/goTWaKxmqJWaj8k This fourth video is another recent client of Jason Newman. Where he quit his high paying job to come work for me, because this program changed his life in ways un-imaginable. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fKDbm4SVg6iojNE This final link is to our current collection of client stories: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@melissahusa2650]

There are people regularly reconciling in our group! If you’re thinking about it, just do it! It’s hands down the best thing I’ve ever done.

[@milesmatulionis]

@@GeoffreySetiawan Thanks Geoffrey, I wanted to sign up for your program and had an interview with Jason Newman on the weekend. After three minutes of very cold and negative questions from him he told me I wasn’t a good fit. His attitude and actions were the exact opposite of how you act and speak in your videos. Very disappointed as I love your videos and content.

[@milesmatulionis]

@@melissahusa2650 Thanks Melissa, I love the videos and success stories, I think what Geoffrey is teaching is spot on. Unfortunately they told me I’m not a good fit for the program so I have just been watching a lot of his videos to learn as much as I can. Thanks for your comment, much appreciated.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

​@@milesmatulionis Like we mentioned in this video, we make our application process extremely tough. We do this for your benefit - not ours (We have nothing to gain from not taking your money :)) Lots of people will say they will be great clients just to get into the program, but we realize that the best indicator of whether someone is ready to be coached or not is how they react to the application process. During the application call, if we see that someone is not able to let us lead the call, to be coached, and to trust the processes we have in place, we reject them. But no hard feelings, we currently only take in less than 10% of clients anyway. We're not in this for the money, but to help people. But we cannot help them if they're not ready to fully trust the processes/not ready to be coached. But once people let their ego down, this program is extremely effective. Again, we do this for your benefit - not ours.

[@uraeldvinciboy2789]

Hello @GeoffreySetiawan I would love to apply for the program but how does the payment work? Is it monthly or pay all at once?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Can you shoot an email to [e-mail]?

[@victoriaoshea4865]

I realize the paradigm Im living in, is not right based on the results im getting 28:22

[@Olalentrepreneur]

Marriage Helper is getting bashed in the end 😂

[@ashtinsmith3015]

@GeoffreySetiawan Can we talk like one on one please? How can i reach you?