Meet Juli, always a door open for hope | My Last Days

Juli Palmer was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer. She's a proud mother of 5 children, photographer, and wife. She looks at her diagnosis as a gift from God to give her this purpose in life. As a long time photographer - she's now capturing memories.
Juli Palmer passed away on July 23rd, 2013. Our thoughts and prayers are with her husband and children. Thank you for sharing your story with us, Juli. We will miss you.
Please send donations in Juli's honor to the 'Michiana Humane Society.'
The address is: 722 Indiana Hwy 212; Michigan City, IN 46360.
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[@maud4198]

I keep watching the videos of all these people that passed away. I've been in tears for an hour, and yet I keep watching. Why is that? Because their stories are beautiful and need to be heard of. Because it reminds me that everyday I am grateful for all I have and I don't know it. These videos teach us one thing: We should not wait to be in extreme situations to start showing our love and to start helping each-other.

[@angiemacslilmitesanmore5090]

I'm doing the same thing?xxx

[@hydie0073]

Maud I totally agree with you! these people are incredible and has taught me so much...for that I'm so grateful!

[@exiba.m.thomas8261]

Its true.....

[@hydie0073]

Maud I do the same thing..it is almost more than I can take...If i could have just one wish it would be that nobody will ever have to suffer! You have a huge heart and you empathize with these beautiful people...I believe you watch because your an amazing person and in a way you are letting them know you care..and I know you do! hugs xo Hydie ❤

[@juliekeenan2868]

Me to. They always seem to be such beautiful people.

[@saragales1622]

Less than a year after this was released I too was diagnosed with breast cancer, which thankfully I beat and have been free from for just over six years now. My heart goes out to this lovely, brave, strong courageous family.

[@MichelleSmith-jt8eq]

I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2018. Fortunately I'm now NED.

[@emilyrobs2012]

"I don't want to leave them, I don't want them to forget me"

[@KeckiiDerKecks]

This sentence hit me. Everyone looks at the sick person who will be lost. But ever thought about that the sick person faces so many friends and families that he will lose ? It's a heartbreaking feeling. I lost my father years ago. I know the pain. And every time I look my boyfriend in the face, I have the same fear. I could not bear to go this way again. I know that guy since I'm 15, now I'm 22. He means the world to me. I can only advise, tell and show everyone how much you love him. And every day, because you do not know which day will be the last.

[@toddrickman]

Sweetheart they will never forget you...thanks for sharing this private moment with me. All of these videos teach us how to have a peaceful and dignified death.

[@dulcehajjar5826]

😢😭😭😭

[@flawq3217]

This video is a reminder that we have a lot to be thankful for.

[@DoomedWorld92]

King Squidiness we truly take everything for granted. We have to appreciate what we have and live life to the fullest everyday.

[@annhughes1503]

Just saw this video so sad I moan about silly things this reminds me that I have a lot to be thankful for

[@12donna52]

Whoever Dislikes this video has not walked in their shoe's. I did 18months of watching my Dad in pain was so unbearable, the pain in your heart. I do not wish this illness on anyone. .

[@deleriumm]

I'm guessing (or hoping) that the people who clicked dislike did so because they don't like cancer or how this story ended. I know on facebook I've wanted to click dislike before on a post(though didn't, as didn't want the poster to think I didn't like the post. It wasn't because I dislike the actual post, but because the content really resonated with me. For example a post by a friend opening up about her full term stillborn daughter & talking about how hard it is to talk about to anyone, let alone post about it. I really disliked that she lost her baby & had been going through such a traumatic thing in silence & that it's something that there's a lot of stigma around talking about (like physical or mental health problems, or 'women's problems etc).. Ditto a post on animal cruelty or something else very close to my heart. That's the only reason I can think of that 90 people would click dislike on something like this. I'm sorry for your loss.

[@johnsondailyvlogs4131]

I had to deal with it with 3 of my friends parents and my great grandmother

[@thatsnotmyname6677]

sorry for your loss even tho this comment is 3 years old

[@andyparkinson1460]

I completely agree! I went through 2 and a half of watching my wife go through treatment after treatment for her stage 4 breast cancer! Knowing there was nothing I could do but comfort her and tell u her how much I loved her! At the end she passed away a week after Christmas and it sucks!!

[@eileenmiller4668]

My older sister had stage 4 breast cancer. The doctors gave her 6 months but she lived for 5 years. She died right after my mom died.

[@MsMarylou82]

Nearly 8 years since her passing. I hope her family are all happy and living good lives in her memory

[@cathlmf4915]

“She looks good bald” he was so sweet right there what a good child

[@dinosaur10123]

So, I really missed you today.. So I watched this. Aunt Juli, I miss you so much. Just the sound of your voice made me smile and remember all our memories. You are my inspiration. I love you so much angel. And I decided to read through the comments. And everyone who is talk bad about you, trying to sound cool.. They can all go somewhere else with that. You did nothing wrong to them. They should feel ashamed. You are my inspiration. I love and miss you. Rip Aunt Juli

[@NicKy-eh8uv]

Your aunt was a stunning, powerful person! I am here, 7 years after she died, on the other side of the world and she left her print in my heart. I really hope her children and husband are doing fine. May God bless you and your family!

[@Glitterbombz]

She’s a beautiful soul

[@jenxx8697]

So sorry for your loss she seemed an amazing lady and awesome mum, Rest in peace Juli xx

[@yikesgina]

What a wonderful woman she was. Prayers for you. ❤️

[@liveyourbestlife143]

My father's biggest fear was my forgetting him. I was 5 years old when he passed. I am 40 ... I still carry his picture in my wallet. His picture is on every wall of my house. My son has his name. .please honey.... don't worry. They will remember you.

[@mirianansotegi649]

Amanda stone huge hug.

[@jenxx8697]

Hugs x

[@elisar8594]

Oooh huge hugs

[@bigbiemacaw]

at least these days there's footage of ppl, I lost my grandparents the same time as u, I'm the same age and i was 4..i don't remember them, there smell there sound, its the hardest part of there loss for me there's very few pictures also. Rip to alliance I wrote this something cool happened around this subject, I've always been told I'm my granmothers twin all the way up..it didn't much help me remember her because I only knew an old woman, but as I get older I'm starting to see her in me also, but the super cool thing that happened was I lol a lot, she had a cool lol a big heart roar, I burst our loling yesterday and omg I heard her lol . I'm starting to laugh just like her, after I had to stop the car for a good cry, a sad and happy cry, I think death must be so much harder for us empathise, I see my family get through death in the family so easy when it cripples me, or a pet dying will have me broken in bed for weeks, it's no fun..but I wouldn't change it for the world, I am those that went before and its am honor 💔

[@asiyaalhaddad]

My auntie passed away end of September of this year. She was also diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. She left 4 young kids behind. God bless her soul and grant her a place in heaven. This video really hit home for me and reduced me to tears. 💔😭

[@flj7]

It makes me so sad to think about the world not having this woman. Her kids are great people because of her, and she made the world a better place.

[@mustardcat4546]

What a lovely woman, I'm sure her kids will never forget her, she will be missed. Cancer always hits the most beautiful people

[@hydie0073]

Jenna Beddie That's so true!

[@ccaarriissaa]

This woman is sooooo beautiful. As a mother and her comment "I don't want to leave them". Broke my heart. But I know they are okay because she was a phenomenal mother she has blessed them in so many ways.

[@irisrose4732]

Yes, sooooo beautiful. This is also how my mother felt as she was dying of breast cancer. I will never forget. She had almost lost the ability to speak, before going into a coma on her bed, and she took my hand, looked at me with tears in her eyes, and uttered "what will you do without me when I die?", which killed me but I had to stay strong. I was 37, but felt like a little girl and will always be hers. It's beautiful, the love of a true mother for her children.

[@kalimiller7157]

carissa Carissas I agree, she reminds me of my momma and I don't know what I would do if she died. Well everyone dies, but I mean if she died of something like cancer. I would hate seeing her suffer. I don't want to live without my momma on this earth 😔 I'm crying for her kids

[@22lyric]

​@@irisrose4732 I'm 73 and my mom died 21 years ago. I STILL feel like a little girl who just wants her mommy.❤️

[@Crissy24ful]

How can you forget someone so beautiful? Her soul is always around. I would have wanted to be her friend

[@astrohaterade]

She was going through so much pain and grief and still uplifting others. No words.

[@skygazer6898]

I dont think Juli would need to worry about being forgotten as she was a loving mum with a warm heart and joyous nature. Lovely lady x

[@bigbiemacaw]

its not something ppl can control, memories slip away its a fact of life especially for the younger ppl. luckily these days ppl have footage of those they love, i cant remember my grandparents, there smell how they sounded and there's no footage

[@PatientB]

I don't understand why good people in this world die. You'll be missed Juli. | My best friend died of stage 5 cancer, and she was the best person in the world. She'd go out of her way to help, even coming to work on Valentines day at a florist that my mom owned a the time. But those were the best times, where we would all spend time together. I was at my grandmas when my mom called me saying she had passed. I'll never forget Stephanie neither will everyone she ever met.

[@moradaforever22]

"my biggest fear is Seth forgetting me"😭😭😭 that is every mother's fear

[@ayeshajai368]

Simply Shanarra ameen my worst fear is dying because I don’t know what’s gonna happen to me next but I can’t stop the fact it’s gonna happen to me one day

[@youronlybabygirl25]

@@ayeshajai368 if you trust in God and believe he died on the cross and ask for forgiveness you can go to heaven.

[@Cheyloveesbunny1993]

Okay when she looked at her pictures on the computer and started crying saying “I don’t wanna leave em” I started to cry

[@unicornkittypup13]

I know the feeling of the children. When I was 8, my mom was diagnosed with stage 2 cervical cancer. She almost died 3 times, but her amazing doctors saved her, and she's still here. Thank The Lord for doctors, and get better juli

[@ad7096]

shes dead

[@ryan88maclean]

pungunt crango That was an unnecessary way to phrase that. You're a buffoon.

[@unicornkittypup13]

Lol that was silly

[@TheCapitaineCarnage]

"Thank The Lord for doctors" Yeah, the docs must feel good to know that "The Lord" gets recognition for all the hard work they did to save your mom ...

[@smellmeyanab]

Ryan Maclean I think he was talking about Juli who died after this video came out

[@Cvoor]

They'll never forget you Sweetheart, Never. They love you so much. It's not fair, for her to leave her family. They have these videos and pictures to look back on and remember her. She passed away 2 months after this video. Bless this wonderful woman.

[@catboyhole]

Such beautiful eyes. She's an angel. Rest in peace.

[@InternetFad]

God...this reminds me so much of what I went through when my mom was dying. I miss you SO much mom. It hasn't stopped hurting....Almost two years now.

[@sallyelbaba]

InternetFad God bless you!

[@lynnmahan154]

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mom🧡

[@TheStepmonkey]

Sorry for you loss. She’s in a better place watching over you💗

[@jackiewilliams7039]

She reminds me so much of my sister!! My sister fought for 7 years, with a positive attitude, humor and selflessness! I miss her so much!!

[@kathleen9623]

When she said" I don't wanna leave them" I literally broke down so hard. This isn't right nor fair.

[@GinaDeSeta]

When she said "my biggest fear is Seth forgetting me" I started bawling, omfg my heart May she be resting in peace

[@Magradon]

Watching these videos of these amazing people really, absolutely makes me want to live better. My boyfriend caught me watching this while crying and asked why I would watch if it made me sad. The only thing I could say was, "I'm not crying because I'm sad, I'm crying because these people are making me happy." We should all be so upbeat. And, why does it take a terminal illness to make us appreciate life? I for one am going to start NOW. Let's help people. Let's make the best out of bad situations. Thank you Juli.

[@juliekeenan2868]

My daughter also says to me mum you so morbid. Your crying your eyes out why do it to yourself. I think I watch, Neva I can’t believe what people go through in there lives. It makes think different and not to stress over silly little things. RIP Julie. Beautiful lady. 🌺🥰

[@El-tx3cj]

Rest In Peace Juli, you were such an inspiring and beautiful individual.

[@applextree1554]

holy crap, that was intense. all the best to her family. the world lost a good one.

[@jocharbonneau6361]

I love her sweatshirt: Fight Like a Girl She is so brave and inspirational, so caring 2. so sad she died :'(

[@MothDimakos]

They will never forget you Mama. None of us will.

[@emilieloveskiwi]

I have that exact same pink and grey owl hat. It's my favorite hat. Now I have another reason to like it. :)

[@supergaga40]

This woman created such a beautiful family! Her husband and kids love her so much- it just goes to show that the love you give is boundless, and you will reap the rewards in so many ways. And I'm sure she kept her word in haunting her husband- this part was funny!

[@annhughes1503]

Just saw this video she has got a beautiful family her husband and kids love her so much so sad and heartbreaking that she made this video about her last days Her family will have lots of memories to remember her so sad hearing her family talk adout her so sad to watch when she was crying her husband and kids will never forget her

[@eniolaadams]

she's so adorable!

[@lauratobin1632]

Fly high sweet angel, what a beautiful soul....

[@stormyloca5945]

She Died?, 😭

[@melanieblake6447]

rip Julie sorry this cancer took u like that it's not fair god bless you sweet angel the love u shown for your family's won't be missed u will still shine it down were ever u in heaven to your family god bless them.

[@nikstnblueangel]

just absolutely beautiful and touching. My heart goes out to the family.

[@theshowofrandomness2]

It's amazing how a person's story can be told in 11 minutes. This is the greatest story ever.

[@gigglehead24]

"They don't give you what you can't handle"

[@fairyqueen56]

I lost my son to multiple cancers. He remained cheerful and positive. Chad was 22. Cancersucks

[@sydneygoldberg4526]

I'm all choked up :( this is truly one of the most beautiful families I've ever seen. It's such a shame how such a horrible monster, known as cancer, had to come storming into their lives at the most inconvenient of times (and at all for that matter). I hope more and more people see this video and realize what a demon this illness can be. I hope the family is doing okay and wish them all the best.

[@yarbroughconnor]

I swear dad, if you keep cutting the onions....

[@smellmeyanab]

Cried so hard its crazy

[@jeannie9101]

What a beautiful soul. May she rest in peace in His everlasting arms of love.

[@zarabrown664]

R.I.P Juli {when she was born} - July 23rd 2013 ❤️for ever loved by all of us and our hearts❤️ Have a fun time in heaven {This made me ball my eyes out 😭}

[@giv11ify]

this lady is freakin awesome!!! she made me smile because of how strong, cheerful, optimistic, and loveable she is.... wish her the best! and miracles do exist... u r in my prayers and u r just awesome!!! keep being great

[@marli8907]

I'm so thankful my parents' cancer wasn't terminal. My grandmother's was. My aunt's was. But you don't forget the moments they sit you down and tell you someone you love has cancer. My mom took me for froyo. And as we ate it in her van when I was 6...she told me she had cancer. By the time we got to my grandfather I was 9. Mom was officially cancer free for 3 months before my dad got diagnosed. I was 11. My grandma I was 13. My aunt I was 15. It never gets easier. But I learned "everything is ok but..." Meant someone was very very sick. Possibly dying. And it never got easier...

[@manifestanything6508]

Marlissa Cunningham you’ve been through a lot. You’re strong.

[@jacobjay222]

R.i.p I hope she went to heaven she was an amazing person

[@amizzlebear7728]

of course she went to heaven, because (i agree) she was an amazing person!

[@Naomiorn]

Rest in peace, Juli. Your story was truly inspiring to me and thousands of others around the world.

[@arewedeadyet6363]

God picks the most beautiful flower of all

[@typing...475]

Gods a jerk

[@tracyd693]

Why do I watch these damn videos!? I've been crying all day!

[@mararain22]

Me too, darling... me too.

[@elizabethtrujillo915]

If her family is watching this five years later, please know that this video of Julie has made a mark in my life. What a cruel illness for such an undeserving soul. I hope you all are doing ok. Your family is in my thoughts. My dad lost his battle to cancer over two years ago. I miss him so much. Like Julie, he maintained a great sense of humor through it all. People like them are special and rare.

[@shellyortiz1977]

Sad...I cry she had so much to live for....rest in peace

[@NephthysBastet]

Bless her heart.She reminds me of my dad with her spirit.Miss him so much.My condolences to the family.Rest in peace beautiful soul.

[@queenbre9931]

They will never forget how strong and happy and hardworking and beautiful and most positive woman in the world

[@deliciousme87]

Rest in piece angel. Your boys and husband were lucky to have you. Thankyou for sharing your story and I hope you are partying hard with the rest of the angels!

[@dreaisluved397]

☹ broke my heart💔 they will never forget her, I'm sure of that

[@katieandmeghan902]

This is so sad :( I can't imagine what it would be like if this was happening to my mom. I love my mom so much and she's so important to me. This story really touched my heart and I'm so sorry for anyone who has lost their mom or any other loved one.

[@user-vu2hc1py6p]

Juli - You know we love you, Steve and the kids! This is a beautiful video showing your true spirit. I'm honored to be part of Team Juli :)

[@j0k4r57]

I Just Want To Hug My Mom :(

[@karenkramer83]

God is with you and your family. You are a Warrior. So am I.

[@shamelesslyfunsized]

Whenever I feel down about anything, I always like to watch these videos and keep in mind of how fortunate I am that I'm not in these people's situations, but also to admire these people and strive to live life as well and as fully as they do.

[@superkiwibean4662]

These are so hard to watch but I cant stop watching and balling my eyes out at the same time

[@dianacassinelli9467]

Such a beautiful person you are...thanks for that smile...God Bless Your family

[@hamill4]

rest in peace juli

[@malyck]

The Kind Of People Dislike This Video are Heartless. The Should've Just Hidden the Likes or Something. I think I Provide a fair Point.

[@jungookiemaknae8946]

I think they dislike the fact that she is dying do instead of liking to show they care they dislike to show that they dislike her dying and want her to live

[@xclov3rbbyx63]

+Jungookie maknae maybe.....

[@natenjohnson]

no, this is the Internet, they just don't like the video. If they supported her, then they would like the video.

[@terryiggulden5182]

"I don't want to leave them." made my heart hurt.💔

[@89akat]

This really makes you realize and appreciate what you have and that you have to live life to the fullest everyday. Thank you for helping me realize this -3

[@parkjimns]

Rest in peace Juli :(

[@leigon0nFire1]

MY FEELS! they ...wont stop

[@LostInUnderland]

"I have five children, I can do anything" so inspiring, so positive!

[@superkaaaty]

This was absolutely heart wrenching, but her disposition is amazing.

[@suzystone244]

These stories reach me to the very CORE of my being 🤗❤

[@courtneytombs1036]

My Aunty died last year of cancer, she was also named juli

[@esporseen]

God bless her soul

[@clover36952]

I would like to thank SoulPancake for putting these amazing stories out there. Thank you so much for sharing! God Bless you Juli, I will be praying for you and your family!

[@Mohamhead21]

A mother above any other. Thank you for sharing your story

[@McBubbleTea]

It's sad to see this that a video is posted and it's hard to understand these people aren't alive :(

[@burn4056]

my mom died when i was 8 i miss her i think her kids will miss her too

[@yasmineschneiter]

Juli, people from Brazil wish you the best! You are an inspiration for us, thank you so much! God has chosen you to teach people around the world about what really matters in life!

[@elainedavis9053]

such a strong and beautiful soul .. that story touched my heart, not with pity, but with the magnificent power of positivity , so much love to share with all ... the world misses such a wonderful energy ... RIP

[@feliciachambers8559]

God bless her soul 😭💕 she's such a sweet lady. May she Rest In Peace.

[@boogerboy1111]

That video touched my heart and I wish you the best

[@jbs24601]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. As someone with a chronic disease, it helps so much to see other people living with a positive mindset. I'll pray for you and your family.

[@leedabagia1]

I've watched this so many times. Juli, you are amazing. The world will miss your gifts. Thank you for setting an amazing example.

[@rebeccamanders9864]

I watch a lot of these videos, but her story just really tore me up .. ❤️

[@corneliaslebe6620]

Such an inspirering lady!

[@Raelfeyna]

This was so beautifully put together. Heartbreaking.

[@lifeisreal11]

So moving. Always touches me deeply when the kids are involved. God bless this family.

[@emiliehutyler9021]

so sad, but people who get ill and know they might die just are always happy not every one can do that ya know.

[@juliehastings2119]

I had stage 2 breast cancer in 2005 , Been cancer free for 10 years till this past Feb I had stage 4 mananstic cancer secondary to my breast cancer both time very treatable , It staying positive and upbeat , and fighting back , Very strong ! God Is Always There !!! Reach Out To Him , He Always Your Greatest Supporter !! This Lady Is Very Beautiful And And Strong Lady ! God Bless You You Have Great Angels Wing They Will Get Bigger When God Brings You Home , And You Always Be There Watching Over Your Family Again God Bless Julie Hastings

[@mckenzie7895]

God love you.

[@macyjorgensen5078]

You are a very brave woman!God bless you!

[@riotgirlckb6727]

Nah I feel like we need to accept reality. Stage four cancer is very advanced and very unlikely to survive. Yes some people do survive, but not many

[@ggc7318]

God bless her and her family She is just in another realm. 🥰

[@dkyk00]

I love the internet for spreading amazing stories like this. God bless you and your family, Juli! And thank you for sharing your amazing life

[@abbytheesti]

positivity can change a life. you have made me want to bring positivity to mine. you are beautiful and strong juli, at the end of the video when I picture you in my head I mostly remember your smile. How could anyone ever forget a person like you? God bless your family. rip. they are lucky to have you as a mom.

[@PennyJackson123]

I’m a mom, this is heartbreaking, i feel her so so much, leaving your children, so early in life, I mean... they need their parents around that’s for sure, so this is sad 😢 but she’s in heaven now watching over them, what a lovely soul❤️

[@apat7062]

you are helping me get through the hard times of my life right now.thanks a million

[@basheryu]

She is such a beautiful, strong, and intelligent woman.

[@eduardopadilla5505]

this makes me think there are many lucky people for they are completely healthy and and have a great life! but there is some people who are not exactly healthy and hae no a great life, and thats the people we must go look at to help them in any way we can do it

[@Albert-of4pg]

Rest in peace Juli. Seth and Steve won't forget you. You have this video for them to look at.

[@bdcurrie1]

That was so touching. This women is so full of life yet her life with be cut short.

[@KingHayabusa384]

What a beautiful person. She will not be forgotten. I love the thumbnail. Such a beautiful smile, those amazing eyes and the cool hat.