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🕘 Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
2:30 Guest Intros
4:10 Relationship status
9:40 "Open relationships are the way to go!" 🚩
19:00 Would you rather your boyfriend cheat on a hotter or uglier girl?? 🔥
26:10 Thoughts on American men
34:40 Do men put in enough effort?
40:20 Dating intentionally
41:20 Her love languages and astrology 💘
49:40 How to put in effort + Double standards
54:10 SIMPS
1:00:00 Rizz check
1:04:50 She tries to keep them from JUDGING?!
1:07:40 Do women put in effort? (More love language talk)
1:12:30 Faking climaxes
1:16:00 Poly girl argues over communication in bed 🔥
1:25:20 Dating apps
1:33:20 Waiting to be intimate??
1:41:40 Brixan and Jake GRILL her on intimacy
1:51:00 She doesn't understand...
1:57:20 She doesn't use the word SHOULD?! (DELUSIONAL) 🔥
2:04:50 More analogies for holding onto intimacy
2:13:40 What is the solution?
2:18:50 Waiting for intimacy cont.
2:28:50 Dating while sleeping around
2:32:10 Jake audits her polyamory 🔥
2:39:00 She was sleeping with ALL the guys in her group?!
2:43:50 Superchats
2:45:50 Reddit post reactions + labels
2:56:20 Brixan questions the standards
3:06:30 Does size matter? (Measuring contest) 🤣
3:11:00 What about height?
3:13:50 Brixan proposes on HIS behalf 💘🤣
3:16:00 TTS: Thoughts on poly success
3:21:10 Types 💅
3:33:00 Would she date a man who committed war crimes?!
3:35:20 Dating Andrew Tate
3:35:40 "Feminism is the worship of the devil" ✅
3:39:00 Back to dating war criminals + dating guys with guns 🔫
3:46:20 The American Patriarch reaction + Feminism
3:52:50 Are men and women the same physically?
3:57:00 She REFUSES to admit men and women enjoy separate fields of study...🔥
4:01:50 Showing the most dangerous jobs in the world 🎥
4:09:10 First dates
4:16:50 Hypergamy anyone??
4:22:00 Housewife talk strikes a chord with feminists
4:32:30 Shaming virgins?!
4:37:50 Body Count discussion
4:43:00 Rating 1-10
4:49:40 BJ skills 1-10?!?!
4:53:10 DELUSIONAL, they think they will be better looking in 10/20 years
5:02:30 Return to types 💅
5:20:00 Bow video reaction 🎥
5:22:30 Final thoughts
5:26:10 Are women oppressed?
5:35:50 He asks her why she loves men...
5:38:30 They think society needs men!
5:42:50 "Men have overall been more oppressed than women" 🔥 DEBATE
5:49:30 They VICTIM blame men who die in war? 🔥
6:06:00 Where men's right to vote came from (Brixan gets angry)
6:10:40 Outro

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🕘 Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction 2:30 Guest Intros 4:10 Relationship status 9:40 "Open relationships are the way to go!" 🚩 19:00 Would you rather your boyfriend cheat on a hotter or uglier girl?? 🔥 26:10 Thoughts on American men 34:40 Do men put in enough effort? 40:20 Dating intentionally 41:20 Her love languages and astrology 💘 49:40 How to put in effort + Double standards 54:10 SIMPS 1:00:00 Rizz check 1:04:50 She tries to keep them from JUDGING?! 1:07:40 Do women put in effort? (More love language talk) 1:12:30 Faking climaxes 1:16:00 Poly girl argues over communication in bed 🔥 1:25:20 Dating apps 1:33:20 Waiting to be intimate?? 1:41:40 Brixan and Jake GRILL her on intimacy 1:51:00 She doesn't understand... 1:57:20 She doesn't use the word SHOULD?! (DELUSIONAL) 🔥 2:04:50 More analogies for holding onto intimacy 2:13:40 What is the solution? 2:18:50 Waiting for intimacy cont. 2:28:50 Dating while sleeping around 2:32:10 Jake audits her polyamory 🔥 2:39:00 She was sleeping with ALL the guys in her group?! 2:43:50 Superchats 2:45:50 Reddit post reactions + labels 2:56:20 Brixan questions the standards 3:06:30 Does size matter? (Measuring contest) 🤣 3:11:00 What about height? 3:13:50 Brixan proposes on HIS behalf 💘🤣 3:16:00 TTS: Thoughts on poly success 3:21:10 Types 💅 3:33:00 Would she date a man who committed war crimes?! 3:35:20 Dating Andrew Tate 3:35:40 "Feminism is the worship of the devil" ✅ 3:39:00 Back to dating war criminals + dating guys with guns 🔫 3:46:20 The American Patriarch reaction + Feminism 3:52:50 Are men and women the same physically? 3:57:00 She REFUSES to admit men and women enjoy separate fields of study...🔥 4:01:50 Showing the most dangerous jobs in the world 🎥 4:09:10 First dates 4:16:50 Hypergamy anyone?? 4:22:00 Housewife talk strikes a chord with feminists 4:32:30 Shaming virgins?! 4:37:50 Body Count discussion 4:43:00 Rating 1-10 + Superchats 4:49:40 BJ skills 1-10?!?! 4:53:10 Do the girls think they'll look better in ten years? 5:02:30 Return to types 💅 5:20:00 Bow video reaction 🎥 5:22:30 Final thoughts 5:26:10 Are women oppressed? 5:35:50 He asks her why she loves men... 5:38:30 They think society needs men! 5:42:50 "Men have overall been more oppressed than women" ✅ 5:49:30 They VICTIM blame men who die in war? 🔥🔥 6:06:00 Where men's right to vote came from (Brixan gets angry) 6:10:40 Outro

[@demetriharris2071]

Where's their IGs

[@Sana-Operator]

Yeah.

[@soappy1720]

Absolutely no reason for this podcast be 6 hours. Beta boy brian

[@dumkaisachakal6341]

The host should ask the females - why do you think men are not putting in effort these days

[@scatman1009]

Hmm.. only 1 Instagram posted?

[@Raidur7215]

"What if you don't enjoy sex with eachother?" About people waiting until marriage.... That isn't a thing for those people. Because they don't KNOW what they're "missing out on". Their entire sexual experience is with their spouse, and that's a damn beautiful thing IMO.

[@stanfordmatthews5886]

Eh, but F.O.M.O.(Fear Of Missing Out)is still a thing. So even if the two people in the relationship have no prior experience sexually, one of em might start thinking "Is this really the best I can do?" and then it's the beginning of the end lol. Plus, if the sex is bad and unsatisfying, it's just that. They don't really need any other prior experience to come to that conclusion...

[@drownthepoor]

​@@stanfordmatthews5886 This literally happened to my best friend. He married a girl who was over 10 years younger from his church. She had only slept with one guy before him. In their 2nd year of marriage she told him "I haven't gotten to experience life." and admitted she basically wanted sex, drugs, rock'n'roll. At least she was honest, and straightforward. The whole redpill movement with all of their rules/priorities are just grifting and making money. But I think their audience is becoming a bunch of guys who hate women, and remain single/miserable/isolated. It's messy out there, but it's better to be out there making mistakes. Not behind a screen hating women while also never living with one.

[@stanfordmatthews5886]

​@@drownthepoor Yup, that doesn't surprise me. Not the first time I've heard a story like that, which is why I made my original comment. Sorry to hear that happened to your friend. And yea, at least she was honest and didn't 100% fck him over by going behind his back.. I think the redpill has its uses. I mean yea, some dudes overdose and go the full "fuxk women" route, but that's up to them.

[@Raidur7215]

@@drownthepoor I don't know, I think there's plenty of young women out there that don't think they need to "be a slut and do drugs for a while" to grow up. If it's an 18 year old that grew up home schooled and you're an older settled guy, might be an issue. But I like to believe a lot of young christians want to grow up and experience life together. We have a lot of work to do on culture if all kids are thinking this(sex/drugs) is the key to living a fulfilled life. It isn't. And anyone over the age of 30 knows(especially who's done it, ie: Me) it. It's just a shallow dopamine hit, which is glorified by movies/music.

[@davidbilliter5619]

​@@drownthepoor100% she was influenced by , probably, social media, maybe, a friend. Outside influence can always cause questions or doubts. Was not a problem before the internet, or at least not as big a problem.

[@Redpillcouple]

The toxic “childcare woman” should not be anywhere close to children. This is why it’s best to watch and teach your own children instead of trusting these twisted people teach them.

[@dumkaisachakal6341]

she is a major weirdo and a sicko, and she is actively using orwellian speak / newspeak on kids trying to erase the notion that words have meaning and you can do what you want without getting any repercussions for your actions. That is pure evil

[@okaySam]

It's always the crazy ones who "work in childcare". Watch your kids everybody...

[@Yogi_Bear69]

She SHOULD get another job.

[@patu.121]

​@@okaySam I can confirm. I was a teacher for 10 years (taught at a language institute, my students were mostly 13+ / adults) and the ones who taught kids (3 to 10 year Olds) were absolutely INSANE. Like... I don't even know where to start.

[@My.HumbleOpinion]

Kids that age don't know enough to know when their teacher is a Spaz and is doing some weird shit in front of them, unfortunately.

[@winstonsmith7801]

Trying to get straight answers from these women is like herding cats.

[@ObservationofLimits]

Worse. At least cats have logical instincts and self-preservation.

[@3VVK]

@@ObservationofLimits Underrated answer

[@benjaminleinen]

So true. At least the onlyfans models answer the questions without being asked 4x.

[@pheckeht]

I have had easier times herding cats tbh.

[@danielforges2478]

It the same thing you need a cattle prod

[@sanjaysb8439]

Women : I am strong and independent financially, career oriented and bring many things to the table. Men : My Condolences.

[@Ssyphoned]

“I want to get a doctorate and then devote my late 20s/30s to raising kids” Jesus Christ. Women really PLAN on spending a quarter to half a million on education in their 20s and then just… not use it at all. Insanity.

[@thebestSteven]

Making education more expensive and overcrowded making it harder for everyone else.

[@abolton2718]

Not quite sure that’s what she meant. Her point could have been that she would substitute the workload of school with kids. She said she wanted to be a professor which can come with flexible schedules allowing time to devote to kids while still working. I know some professors that only work for 3hrs a day for example.

[@JohnSmith-bq6nf]

Most of them don’t even follow through with that

[@drownthepoor]

@@thebestSteven Education costs are sky high because the govt insures the loans. So the loans get handed out, demand increases. How do you offset demand? Raise prices. Insurance always drives prices up.

[@thebestSteven]

@@drownthepoor yes, there are a dozen reasons the prices are high. Men used to go and live in bare dorm rooms with no AC, now because we have them full of demanding liberal women the dorms have the amenities of a Caribbean resort.

[@blubirdhill2608]

Ahh... Young modern feminists. The poster children for cognitive dissonance.

[@rattlesnaketv]

Thanks for having me!

[@mantyxxx]

Always cool to have you as a guest.

[@--Morpheus--]

You are a good example for guys, keepin your mind intact while navigating the nuance of truth and context. Especially in the face of hawt chicks, a lot of guys just clam up and simp

[@kjay7973]

Love your videos💖

[@SquarePenix.]

It’s always great to see when a Chad comes on the show. The women can’t rebuttal and say things like “youre ugly anyway” they actually take things you say seriously.

[@CosmicExplosion]

Rattlesnake on the grind all the time like Prime Time 99

[@robertrose81]

Can you imagine leaving your child with the polyamorous, weirdo that teaches kids not to say should ..... she literally said she teaches people to do whatever they want.... and she teaches kids. This is horrendous. Its not even a joke its just unbelievable. Can you imagine how warped that childs perspective will be with this input

[@okaySam]

👍 Major W for not having OF girls on the show!

[@phantom1finisher]

They flaked that's why

[@smackssmacks1306]

It wasn't for lack of trying. He wants shitbirds there.

[@okaySam]

@@phantom1finisher either way, let's encourage Brian to stay away from OF chicks.

[@mothbreeder641]

@@okaySam Shame the "normal" ones are just as bad in basically every single way.

[@phantom1finisher]

@okaySam agreed I would like no OF chicks but we all know that's not happening

[@idiot_RC]

My favorite part is when the girls who complain that guys are "shallow" then go on to talk at length about how much guys should do for them and how they want to get gifts, have doors held for them and generally just receive princess treatment, but when asked what they do for their men it's always "I'll say thank you, look pretty and sleep with them." It's amazing that most young girls these days seem to think they should get to focus on what they want and that their boyfriend should also just focus on what they (the girl) wants. But yeah....they guys are the shallow ones.

[@TheLovinjourney]

🤣🤣 on the money!

[@rogerhuggettjr.7675]

I've never believed that women (at least attractive one) mature faster. I'm hearing that men should part the Red Sea for women and women need only be polite. That's why women need to get over the idea that they are the prize and men need to demand better regardless of how horny they are..

[@Lee-wg7en]

They don't understand what a man needs and wants because they never served a man. WOmen who served their fathers in the home can readily rattle off many things a man needs and wants.

[@Enoonmi]

Jake should be a regular he is so calm and has really good replies

[@--Morpheus--]

Yeah hard agree, best chadly cohost

[@stephaniemcavey4637]

She can’t even avoid using the word should while trying to eliminate the word should!! She said people should try to stop saying should!!! 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤪

[@rogerhuggettjr.7675]

Should puts expectations on people. She thinks meeting society's expectations is too demanding for her and isn't willing to curb her appetites for anyone and that makes her a parasite living in community but not sustaining it.

[@whatmeworry7184]

I say whenever anyone is around her to use the word "should" in every sentence. This woman is absurd.

[@ShidaPenns]

Women: "We demand equal pay!" Also women: "Men must make more than me and pay for everything."

[@anoncentur]

Women: "men overcomplicate everything" Women: "I want a man who is as good a communicator as me"

[@anoncentur]

Woman also: "I actually want him to take care of me so that I can be in my Feminine but I'm still a Feminist because I'm high in the agreeableness trait and don't want to make my girly friends mad that I'm not helping women collectively to further gamify"

[@skapunkoialternativeliving6522]

We live in a hookup culture today. That's a sad part nobody wants to be with nobody today. It's very scary. I'm glad I'm not part of this generation. The world's clearly going to shit..

[@SpScarletSpider]

They're going to realize this when they're alone and bitter in their 40s' and up.

[@skapunkoialternativeliving6522]

@@SpScarletSpider Facts, you're absolutely right, my friend, and these women on the stage here who think they want to equal. They want to be the best that the only ones in charge, especially the lady with The WHO goes to the gym. Who thinks she's equal to the man in the gym? The right guy will knock her a** down. But they're gonna find it out when they get older. They always do your absolutely , right..

[@AlwaysVotingMAGA]

Yes we do but honestly, the vast majority of Men are not engaging in hookup culture. Most young Men are getting zero sex at all at an increasing rate & we find it extremely difficult to start a relationship even despite trying. Women are the ones who have changed especially the last 20 years, for the worst.

[@KingDomsKingdom85]

​@@SpScarletSpiderthe problem is... they don't, really. They then blame the men in videos and post them to social media for social validation... even though they're wrong. It's *EVERYWHERE* online on social media nowadays... its nuts.

[@SpScarletSpider]

@@KingDomsKingdom85 Outwardly, they'll never admit it. But alone and with their own thoughts, they know exactly who is to blame for their actions.

[@gizmomypet4359]

Imagine being triggered by the word should?! 2024 everyone👏

[@RedPillAlways]

That is the majority of the Biden/Democrat voting pool.. That's what's making choices in America and that is why America will eventually full on fail an fall

[@day_man09]

The child care lady shou… I mean NEEDS to be fired from her job.

[@Pinkkk.Matter]

PLEASE get more conservative women on the panel.

[@phantom1finisher]

Hard to find them

[@drownthepoor]

@@phantom1finisher It's actually not anymore. They are becoming a "trend". Usually when you find a conservative girl though, it's because her last man was conservative. Not always, but it's a good chance.

[@jessicatusseyroe3757]

I agree! Bring a little sanity to humble these girls. Especially girls that are normal, not the OF girls. These girls probably very rarely have pushback from a woman. I’ve contemplated hitting Brian up to go on there but I don’t think he would want me on there with my son (20) who is conservative as well. Maybe one day 😂

[@phantom1finisher]

@drownthepoor it Is hard to find actual Good women to come on the podcast

[@sdmfp333]

It’s boring they just going to agree with everything they say

[@alexandersims1613]

If you have lower standards for the F boy than you have for the man you want to be with long term, it's indicative of having low self-worth and impulse control. If her actions with random men ebb and flow, it's a red flag.

[@jasonu3741]

I cant even blame her its been the oldest carrot on the stick in history because 70% of a womans value lies between there legs whether thats through reproduction or casual sex. Religion has understood this as well so it baked in abstinence from sex as the weighted value to this one thing women have to offer. Women approach every interaction with a man with 1 bargaining chip, the difference is Chad/Tyrone forces a woman to admit sex is an equal value exchange. The thing is women often forget sex is an equal value exchange so they put far more weight into it then men do, If a man really likes you he can fuck on the first night AND still want to marry you down the road, but women look at sex like "If i sleep with him, he will just leave because i gave him what he wanted" because women do not self analyze and ask "Am I wifey material" because as we all know in a womens mind "shes a 10 and shes a great wifey material"

[@reyestavia9097]

poly walmart employee is a psycho

[@Sana-Operator]

She's fit to be a Walmart greeter

[@BasicHaddock4]

No woman is a passport girl, Most women have options everywhere. Its not hard for them to get into a relationship

[@JohnSmith-bq6nf]

Yup

[@jasonu3741]

Women can't be passport girls because women by and large do not want to offer more to a man than they receive in return and people from poor and impoverished countries cannot offer a woman more material goods than a random guy from the country of her own origin. If women could "date down" socioeconomically then there wouldnt even be an issue in the West for dating. Most men if given the choice would prefer to make enough money so that there wife did not have to work (and then likely make her work for you in some capacity on a elective basis). Most women if given the choice would prefer there man make enough money so that they only had to work electively. Its this basic wiring in both men and women that make the passport girl a worthless premise

[@logical_thoughts4047]

2hr 18 mins in. That conversation is what people actually watch for. A dating show is a good backdrop for interesting conversations about other things. No one actually tunes in for dating conversations.

[@OG_Rider]

My sprinkler goes like this..

[@DanielBarron45]

Tststststststststs

[@TheDrivingJunkie]

That part slaughtered me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bigenergy3880]

Every show one geeza does this it's the best

[@concerta56]

Modern Women's hive mind vocabulary & phases... "umm" "I feel" "umm" "like" "umm" "I feel like" "umm" "vibes" "umm" "energy" "umm" "situationship" "umm" "complicated" "umm" "@$$hole" "umm" "narcissistic" "umm" "weird" "umm" "but" "umm" "however" "umm" "insecure" "umm" "whatchu mean?" ''umm'' ''your being weird'' ''umm'' ''at the end of the day'' ''umm'' ''amazing'' ''umm'' ''oh my gawd'' ''umm'' ''serious'' ''umm''

[@Chrischi_Z_GermanGUI]

"controlling"

[@JohnSmith-bq6nf]

Is this a California thing?

[@concerta56]

@@JohnSmith-bq6nf doubt it. many women think collectively

[@concerta56]

@@Chrischi_Z_GermanGUI that will be added to the list

[@mariannejones1148]

Don't forget "traumatizing, toxic, I'm a 10/10"

[@shelbyroselaganelli]

Yes!! Jake is back! He is one of the best!

[@sean3280]

No mention of “Jake” or “Rattlesnake TV” in the title of the video? He’s a fantastic guest! Excited to listen to this one.

[@johnnnnhammer9472]

Yeah and it’s kinda weird how he didn’t tag the girls aswell loool

[@sdmfp333]

He rather promote On fans girls not regular girls, make it make sense

[@--Morpheus--]

​@@sdmfp333its possible they dont have socials to blast out. I do think he should not post the of chicks links though.

[@5050TM]

His channel is really great too. Shame.

[@CosmicExplosion]

They hating on my body cuz hes on the grind all the time like Prime Tjme 99

[@organisedatoms]

Sometimes when Brian asks certain questions it comes across as though he’s asking because he gets a little kink from it lol

[@NeSeeger]

Its probly very easy as the host to have "go to" questions to get the biggest effect.

[@CosmicExplosion]

Leave Brian alone!! He’s on the grind all the time like Prime Time 99!! DON’T JUDGE!!

[@natalia95112]

Well done on getting non-OF girls on the panel, Brian! Always enjoy when RattlesnakeTV is on too. Also, imo the monitor you have now is a little too big and bulky. Especially when you use split screen, it takes up quite a bit of space. Maybe the laptop is better?

[@josephsmiley1]

No the laptop isn't better.

[@davidbilliter5619]

Being in love with yourself will lead you to a place where you wil be alone with the one you are in love with eventually . Its a lonely life .

[@isaklytting5795]

Jake is not an ordinary guy. He's so well put together. So kind, so generous, so wise. He is one in ten million. He does not take a position. He thinks everything through, always. He never puts his critical faculties on automatic. That's why if there is good in someone, he sees it, no matter what they have done or said until that point, and no matter if they are ""from the other side." He also has no problem seeing when one his heroes go wrong. If they do, he spots it, and calmly says "I don't agree with Jordan on this point", or something like that. He is a human being capable of genuine thought. He is ACTUALLY looking for the truth, and he is looking for what the right answers to problems are, and he's looking to find out if he is doing something wrong, and if he is, how he can correct it. That is a very, very rare thing. He is a real philosopher. A real human being. A superior being.

[@Janieandtheboys17]

Simp… lol

[@TheBlackClockOfTime]

Oh my god, the channel is on FIREE.

[@JROC81686]

I really wanna watch these live but I’m not getting the notifications for them. I notifications turned on but this is the only subscription I don’t get notifications for!!! 😤

[@5050TM]

This group of women aren't loud, yelling, talking over each other, angry for no reason, disrespectful, insecure, etc.

[@JoeBidementia]

“New formula” the formula should be talking about whatever because it’s called whatever. You have the name,use it! More people would want political topics than just dating. The best part are the arguments within politics, it would blow up even more!

[@dumkaisachakal6341]

its a problem because brian the host has no balls or spine to take a position on simple clear cut things like - abortion, how do you expect to defend unpopular positions like - palestine > israel

[@Chrischi_Z_GermanGUI]

​@@dumkaisachakal6341 What does that have to do with having balls or not? It is not your show and say what they have to talk about.

[@dumkaisachakal6341]

@@Chrischi_Z_GermanGUI because the dude that made the comment under which we are commenting on says he wants brian to talk about politics, and i just don't see it happening when the host of the show can't even have a firm stance on a clear cut and simple question - should abortion be legal or not. Just go watch the previous episode with Kirk when one of the females the one with glasses asked brian about his stance on abortion, he squirmed and weaseled his way out of it, without giving a direct answer. How is he going to talk about politics where there are even more polarizing situations that will offend people, if he can't do the bare minimum

[@joanft8199]

Totally agree with Chrischi…Brian talks about WHATEVER he want on HIS show.

[@hannahlawson1039]

Sometimes I think he just keeps the name because he frequently says it in conversation when he doesn’t understand or want to deal with a conversation anymore lol

[@dougbarnowski5224]

the only love language that poly girl has is sleeping around!

[@christopherschneider4127]

Great show!

[@stephaniemcavey4637]

I think men care more about what is being done than why it’s being done and girls care more about why something is being done than what is being done.

[@mudblood9699]

Why do you think women care more about why something is being done?

[@stephaniemcavey4637]

@@mudblood9699 I don’t know. But in my experience as a woman it just seems that intention matters a lot to us 🤷‍♀️

[@davidhunt6508]

I find it funny when Brian talks about wrapping up soon, and I'm watching the YT video not live, and I can see that there is 1 hour and 40 minutes still remaining. I think this happens almost every episode where he makes these comments, sometimes several times in 1 episode, and still a considerable amount of time is left.

[@JROC81686]

I mean I agree with Jake in a way but men can also love and be in their kids life as well. Yes your wife would do the majority of the work but that doesn’t mean the father can’t help or be involved. I do not think a husband/father should only worry about work and money and disregard the children because that’s not good either.

[@pleasedont7787]

It's definitely really different when it's just normal women on the panel

[@ferosdc]

The children's teacher is not normal, I guess.

[@lmtdana]

🎉🎉so happy I got a subscription to you!!

[@cj4298]

Katie is into non-traditional beliefs, like astrology, and practices polyamory, but she's based AF on the jab, feminism, and school indoctrination. It's actually refreshing in a paradoxical way. I want to see her come back on again, despite the "should" gibberish.

[@Bonend482]

The masculine is to provide and protect and the feminine is to nurture and to care for. Therefore men are expected to pay for (provide) and stand up for the relationship (protect) emotionally and physically. Women then are expected to care for and nurture. What men “spend” physically is equal to what women “spend” emotionally in the relationship. And none of that should demand sex as a reward for the spend unless you are in a committed or married relationship.

[@rational_chris90]

I just jumped up and did a double heel clicker when I didn't see pixie or Erin on the panel 😂🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@UndeadPharaoh]

Shout out Brian! Another night of paying Madison to sit there and do NOTHING! Even though she already has a boyfriend taking care of her! He could give that easy job to a young guy aspiring to start a traditional family but NO! My man Brian is keeping "Women have life on easy mode" alive and well 😏

[@cesarusgeminis3561]

You would rather look at a man?

[@unicodePug]

Dude leave Frankie alone! He gets to monitor his girlfriend to make sure she's not cheating at work. We need more jobs that allow this.

[@MegaEwrwerw]

she has 8 bodies at 18@@unicodePug

[@blubirdhill2608]

Bro she's essential! Brian goes to her on the "bodycount" question first and always gets a response. It sets off the groupthink in em and gets more of them to respond 😂

[@skeetermcdank1667]

@@unicodePug Hey man thats not funny, Frankie would swing on you with those toothpicks he calls arms.

[@mattswagger4656]

Brian's back! Whoop whoop!

[@PoiosAftos]

Jake's a great guest. As always.

[@megatron_gateway]

Wait what stream is this from?! I NEED TO WATCH

[@raedorin979]

That girl in the pink with the guy making her a mistress and NOT TELLING HER! Oh my gosh that's so low!

[@blitzballerjg]

This is one of the funniest episodes to date.

[@beckicave7611]

I've dated men & the effort I made for them was • If sport is on, I would go & have a bath & let him watch/enjoy it. • I went to a theme park & brought him a top that he would love. • If I'm at the store I'd buy him some beers as a suprise. • I'd make myself look nice for him. • One ex got stuck at work overtime, so i took him some lunch cos I knew he would be starving. Just Things Like That!

[@mitch1161]

Very good guest panel.

[@oldkingcrow777]

3:18:54 when Jake said "darwinism" with his thick accent 😂😂😂😂

[@3manthing]

Regarding talk about the war...🙄🤦🏻‍♂️ I would get very frustrated and angry, if I was met with laughter and sighing like Brixan here, especially since I had relatives who fought in WW2 and died or survived and were so traumatized by experiences there, being drunk was only thing that got them trough the day. Granted, it was a late point in the show, I mean after 6 hours of talking and listening, I also wouldn't want to start opening new topics for discussion. It just grinds my gears very much, when folks scoff at that.

[@drownthepoor]

There have been many wars fought very recently by US soldiers. They don't just drink/use drugs though, they kill themselves regularly. People believed in WW2. Guys would lie about their age to sign up. The recent wars are not the same thing because there was something very different about what we were doing, and why we were actually there. In WW2 everyone knew/believed their friends were dying for the future. No one believes that now.

[@thedarkside314]

I think flowers would be a nice gesture right before the date where you ask her to be your partner, and want to solidify things on serious terms.

[@sdmfp333]

Only on birthdays and valentine days

[@madiseggsurpriseadventures5174]

So good to have you back 🎉

[@soreiche]

I like the Brixan this year more than the Brixan last Year.

[@pleasedont7787]

His mood definitely seriously effects the show

[@dinoman]

Norway mentioned! :D

[@JohnSmith-bq6nf]

First girl liked Norwegian men

[@corntrollio854]

She thinks her dislike for "should" and thought about how it's bad is so profound! She's licensed or certified for CHILD CARE! This is the type of person that is raising America's children!

[@QuiteQuietASMR]

Enjoying the wholesome thumbnail

[@sarahsloot2290]

That was a pretty good list of partner traits. I met my husband and the two guys before him I kissed on the first date one was a hook up date. We ended the date with a handshake where I shutdown a kiss (mildly). And for the record he didn’t try to sleep with me, just get to know me. He didn’t try to hookup on the first date. I tried to hookup on the second date and he shut me down for reasons. But it isn’t a point of contention but I will say that he never forgot that I kissed the other guys in first dates. But we’re both experienced and I tried to throw myself at him the second date, his control was admirable, we did make out. My standard was only slightly different, and he remembered. So it’s a thing. His feeling was he wasn’t trying to sleep with me and I shut him down for a kiss, and I kissed the guys before and smashed one, why not a goodbye pop kiss. I basically tried to assault him date two. Rope play could be on any date but a lengthy limit discussion should be held first. He’s a professional level person in rope bondage, that waited a few weeks because the limits discussion isn’t sexy and in fluid rhythm. A person good with rope that knows kink isn’t doing anything more than super basic without being responsible.

[@raistdejesus]

"5 minutes", "last thing", "literally 30 seconds", "a little late": Brian should look up the meaning of these things

[@VirtuousHereticKristin]

My husband teaches music theory online. He uses color, so it's different than what people expect. The number of folks (mostly guys) who ask him if he's into astrology is kind of wild.

[@RaZone-J]

Let’s get all the ladies to take a poll, it can be part of the application process to go on the show, the results can be used in the debate.

[@benhoganjr]

MY WIFE is literally battling with the idea of being a SAHM. she would always say "but other women" blah blah blahh...and im like how did we get to a place where it was a FLEX to find a man who can provide and she can be a SAHM and now its some how OPPRESSIVE and a negitive...CRAZY...

[@mnb1988]

Tell her from a former working mom (Army Officer) who is now a SAHM, give it a shot. If she turns out to not like staying home she can go back to work, or even do part time. But there is nothing better than getting to raise my toddler and homeschool my older two kids. I missed sooooo much time with my older two kids while I was active duty and I would give anything to get that time back. Raising my kids is the best thing. I keep the house clean, cook the meals, and hang out with my kids everyday. It’s so much easier than being a working mom and trying to balance it and ‘have it all’ Staying home is actually having it all. I do understand it isn’t for everyone. Some moms get too overwhelmed/over stimulated and it affects their mental health. But unless you try you’ll never know which lifestyle suits you best.

[@benhoganjr]

@mnb1988 she wouldn't trade being a SAHM for the world, if she doesn't HAVE to.

[@mnb1988]

@@benhoganjr sorry, I misread, I initially thought she was struggling with idea of becoming a SAHM. I wouldn’t trade it either. But comparing yourself is so easy to do. Especially with the lies of ‘have it all’ for working moms when SAHMs are often looked down on. Which is crazy.

[@benhoganjr]

@@mnb1988 💯

[@oldkingcrow777]

I love how you know exactly which types of women will say "date intentionally" 😂 Just got to the part where they redpilled her about how smashing 5 dudes in a couple months, after 40 minutes of knowing each one is gonna ruin her future chances... beautiful 😂 "I think it depends on the guy" If you make a dude wait, and you're relatively "innocent", he will probably love it. Knowing youve been plowed NUMEROUS times within a f*cking HOUR of meeting them.... youre done 😂

[@AlwaysVotingMAGA]

"SHOULD!!!"

[@kkistbh824]

It’s a toss up for me between Chase and Rattlesnake TV for permanent Cohost

[@sdmfp333]

Nah Chase all the way

[@risen3753]

@@sdmfp333nah andrew

Chase uses too much religion in his arguments.

[@--Morpheus--]

​@why use religion when you can just use logic and philosophy. This is why religion is defunct. Logic and philosophy takes more risk in intellectual experimentation. "God said" does not cut it, at all. Treating people like mindless sheep, further reinforces the mindlessness.

@@--Morpheus-- Totally. If Chase is allowed to use his Religion/God in his arguments then to other person can use the Flying Spaghetti Monster in their arguments.

[@ninpo-2103]

Treating one person not as others only alienate that person. No one believe anymore that you're pure. Appreciate intention to have family instead of dumping you the same night you slept.

[@TheDrivingJunkie]

Grid came with the heat, just straight forward, no fucks given on that first donation 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rational_chris90]

11:30 I love how strongly it's encouraged amongst young women to love yourself so much. That's literally narcissism to a T.

[@logical_thoughts4047]

I really think shows are better when Brian has a co-host because, it allows Brian to remain more of a neutral host. I like that he gets in some debates, but if only one person is arguing, then that person becomes more aggressive to combat the dog-pile of all the guests.

[@fteoOpty64]

The scientific take is 304s lost their pair-bonding capability. So if you ask them: "What do you bring to the table ?.". The 304 will respond "What table ?". See, even the table is GONE 🤣🤣🤣!. Men brings: Everything to the table including their "member".

[@TheSmitty665]

SSRI/depression meds can cause men and Women to not be able to climax… the man faking it might be less embarrassing for him 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@joelbell242]

25:01 the exchange here was actually really insightful to how women think, especially the women that was being difficult, she really told on herself there.

[@rogerhuggettjr.7675]

What is with this WEIRD aversion to motherhood? "Why should a woman's hours be reduced? Why not hire a nanny?" So a woman can raise ANOTHER person's child because it's all about money, but lowering taxes, staying at home and taking care of your own freakin' kids instead farming them out with everything you earn while avoiding them is insulting? This is the modern desire to always be open to new options instead of appreciating what you have at home.

[@salscorner30]

"You said you were abroad?...I appreciate your candor."

[@toxic-skeptic]

She wants to spend her 20s studying to become a professor and then dedicate her 30s being a mother... so when does she actually work being a professor?

[@knullization]

Scandinavia: Sweden, Norway and Denmark. Nordic Countries: Scandinavia + Finland, Iceland and Faroe Islands

[@ianyoung6706]

It cracks me up when the question is asked, “would you date a gun owner?” And they say “depends if I can trust him.” Girl, any man could destroy you without a gun anyway, if that’s the concern.

[@badazzmuffin5781]

What do you want men to do to put in more effort? Date intentionally. Emotional Maturity. WTF does that even mean! I'm so sick of these weird ass girl terms.... Even love language... what is this? Brian: what do you bring to the table? Women: we show up

[@johnmcguire66]

Love the broad terms they discuss when they're asked what they bring to the table, like, "Ill be supportive and loyal." Lol chick, that's a minimum buy in. You better bring way more than that for me to turn over all my money and other assets to you amd potentially lay my life down for you.

[@brianknotts4602]

This astrology chick with the Princess Leia dread buns looks like she just got off work at Walgreens

[@denjaehemedez]

My wife is the most efforty person ive ever met. Even on the early stage of our dating relationship she put in efforts even more than me. Effort means not bare minimum. Effort means also those that you expect from guys. Relationship should be mutual in everything and like a hand and hand help. Men and Wemen should be complementary and not competitive.

[@robertrose81]

On the sleeping with someone on the first date and then making the boyfriend wait question the mental gymnastics are hilarious. Notice whenever they tried to challenge the point the ONLY thing that they spoke about was their own feelings. Never any mention of what the guys might think or feel

[@pleasedont7787]

The key is to find a way to successfully lie to a guy about your past

[@meganfedds]

I'm eternally grateful to my incredibly hardworking, high earning husband who allows me to be at home every day with our 3 young kids. This is the happiest time of my life and my husband is making it possible. The complete and utter joy of being at home with a gorgeous, happy baby is something I wish everyone could feel

[@michaelstrohmaier5456]

4:22:30 Why would a woman "want to work" if she can be a good housewife/mother instead? Men don't want to work but we have to, to be able to support a family.

[@izzymarie2005]

I wish women would warn younger girls to value themselves. We should be protecting the younger generations and offering them the best advice. Women SHOULD NOT encourage others to devalue themselves. Hurt people want others to hurt I suppose...

[@Chrischi_Z_GermanGUI]

Brian should look into live AI translation. With that he can turn his pod into every language, while it maintains all the peoples voices. That will increase the reach and spread the message of the pod even further into the deeps of this world.

[@Sarah-kz6ow]

Wow y’all have more patience than me I swear I have never seen women have such a hard time answering very simple questions and are making the conversation way more difficult than should of been ya and when the girl was opposed to the world should I was like oh ok she is one of those it explains a lot, I never seen so many ppl say so much without ever actually saying anything substantial good job guys

[@scatman1009]

Kaylas man is deployed. Watch her end up on NVG.

[@martoon989]

What is NVG? I cannot not put night vision goggles in there 😁

[@scatman1009]

@martoon989 remember that girl that went viral for doing corn while her man was deployed? That was for a site called GDP but it's banned nowadays.

[@cool28990]

What's her insert?

[@scatman1009]

@cool28990 idk. Brian deleted them right away. No idea why.

[@HollowSentence22]

6 hours? holy crap

[@daveybchill5739]

You got to my point on my superchat 2:44:06 I wasn’t able to elaborate as I had taken a call but it took till 4:13:46 before you explained what I was getting at perfectly. Like, it’s frustrating that you have to speak for so long just to break down these toxic walls created by feminism. Also, I wasn’t insulting their looks when I said “looks go first” but women don’t age as gracefully as men most of the time so its probably best for them to drop this pointless act of mental gymnastics so they don’t potentially drain their potential mate.

[@marishalimon3822]

5:29:48 - the sound effect for his reaction 😂

[@robertrose81]

We feel oppressed right now because you destroyed our arguements 😂

[@breannacross4572]

I feel like we have had this EXACT conversation before… am I having deja vu?..

[@annieh.5049]

it makes absolutely no sense to give yourself completely to someone you have no feelings for past physical & no intentions of making something long term happen, or someone from a dating app after only talking for a bit- vs waiting to give yourself for someone you can actually see yourself with & actually have emotions for or have an intention to create something long term. i’m waiting for marriage so my perspective is a little different, but it’s just backwards. wouldn’t you want to share that experience with someone you actually like & actually want something with over some random?

[@AlwaysVotingMAGA]

Why does Brian have zero bi/gay men but has hundreds of bi/lesbian women on this show? I would want to see a podcast with mostly Men for once also & see what they say. Also older women, older people & families.

[@JohnSmith-bq6nf]

All men he has been conservative more too.

[@daveybchill5739]

4:21:01 this reaction here was quite telling 😹

[@skapunkoialternativeliving6522]

I don't blame that woman for flexing and not paying for the date. This guy Tilly was a fool he showed off like he had nice cars, nice things, and at the end of the day didn't have a did not have a pop to piece in and wanted her to pay I don't blame her. She did the right thing going to the bathroom and say I'll be back and then disappear. That's why I would do I would not pay for it she's absolutely right

[@Yogi_Bear69]

As a male I went through a phase after my first time at 20. I'm not very attractive or very fit but I think I'm good enough. Society doesn't seem to agree but whatever. Anyways from 20-23 I was with 10-15 people and I learned a lot in that time. I feel like now I would wait for a second date because I tend to fall for women after spending the night with them. I wish you guys would have touched on this a little bit because I feel like that might be the only valid reason to make someone wait for 2 dates when in the past I've put out on the first date or even without a date. Plus making sure everything is healthy and you are compatible with someone before marriage is something I value before I commit a ton of time on a person. You guys touched on the last point here but only briefly.